WEBVTT - Binge Infidelity 

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<v Speaker 1>Just save this station as your top three set.

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<v Speaker 2>This is Mojo in the Morning. All right, it is

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<v Speaker 2>Mojo in the Morning. I want to ask the listeners

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<v Speaker 2>about something that I think that you guys can relate to.

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<v Speaker 2>That Chelsea and I are dealing with my wife and

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<v Speaker 2>I are dealing with Chelsea is so hurt by my infidelity. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>believe it or not, Chelsea is upset, and I am

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<v Speaker 2>here to admit that I have been unfaithful to her,

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<v Speaker 2>But I honestly don't believe that what I was doing

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<v Speaker 2>was to hurt her. I think it was to honestly

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<v Speaker 2>protect me. She is so hurt that I am having

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<v Speaker 2>a little binge watching infidelity.

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<v Speaker 1>So we so we started watching a show.

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<v Speaker 2>We started watching that Hulu show Paradise with the guy

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<v Speaker 2>from uh, You're a little late.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? How long has it been out, Sterling K.

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<v Speaker 1>Brown Brown? I've been talking about it for months. It

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<v Speaker 1>has been out maybe a couple of years. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say it to first season. It's been a few seasons.

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<v Speaker 2>So our neighbors, the Clems, told us that we should

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<v Speaker 2>watch it. So Chelsea and I sat down, and Chelse

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<v Speaker 2>is one of those people that she's like she watches everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and she, you know, like she saw the crash. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't watch the crash. You know, she watches the Real

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<v Speaker 2>Housewives of Rhode Island. She like into that now summer

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<v Speaker 2>house stuff like that. So I say, do I go,

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<v Speaker 2>let's have a show together, because we need couples need

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<v Speaker 2>shows together.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good for them to have that.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're watching the show, and in my defense, I

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<v Speaker 2>was not purposely being unfaithful to her. She fell asleep

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<v Speaker 2>while we were watching. Okay, she was about an episode

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<v Speaker 2>and a half in and she's snoring away. I continued

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<v Speaker 2>to keep watching, and apparently she doesn't feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>was being very considerate of our relationship, and she felt

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<v Speaker 2>like I was betraying her. Some people may think it's

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<v Speaker 2>like show cheating, and some people actually think it's worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Showed cheating is worse than actual cheating. But why can't

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<v Speaker 2>I watch ahead? I'm awake, I'm alive, I'm here, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not sleeping. Let me ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 3>So, when she fell asleep, did you finish the episode

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<v Speaker 3>that you guys were watching?

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<v Speaker 2>I did, and then you stop. Well, here's what ended

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<v Speaker 2>up happening, keV. I didn't realize Chelsea was asleep until

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the episode when I'm like, all right, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to Oh, she's sleeping, and I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, they automatically go into the next episode like.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't give me a chance.

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<v Speaker 2>It has like a second and they ended on a

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<v Speaker 2>good note, and I'm like, oh, okay, so what do

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<v Speaker 2>you do. Do you continue and watch the next episode

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<v Speaker 2>or do you do that? And while she's sleeping, I

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<v Speaker 2>pretend that I didn't do it, and then I reset

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, you can tell I fake it sometimes, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>So here's We like to watch Dateline Dateline Arizon Friday nights,

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<v Speaker 4>but I also listened to I am a subscriber to

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<v Speaker 4>the Dateline podcast.

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<v Speaker 5>I pay for it so I don't get ads. So

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<v Speaker 5>sometimes I will listen to the podcast before Wes and

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<v Speaker 5>I have a chance to actually watch, like catch up

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<v Speaker 5>and watch the episode.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, Hilda, they're the same.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so I already know everything that happens, Like it

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<v Speaker 5>was the husband, you know, they did it. It's always

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<v Speaker 5>it's always a husband or the person she's having an

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<v Speaker 5>affair with. It never fails. So he'll turn it on

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<v Speaker 5>and be like ooh, new dateline, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>and we just get in bed and I say nothing,

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<v Speaker 5>I may I make my guesses about who it is.

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<v Speaker 1>You couldn't, I say nothing. I already know do calci?

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, because if you did that, if you

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<v Speaker 2>did that, you'd get arrested for violating gambling.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Ray?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey brother?

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<v Speaker 7>I just I'm gonna give you the secrets of my marriage.

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<v Speaker 7>You have to have a when the wife falls asleep show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 7>I've watched probably tense uh seasons of whatever over again

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<v Speaker 7>because my wife always falls asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't help it.

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<v Speaker 7>I watch, like, I watched two three episodes after she

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<v Speaker 7>falls asleep, and I have to sit there and watch

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<v Speaker 7>it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Over again with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I have to have a backup? Why do

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<v Speaker 2>I have to have that just because she falls asleep?

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<v Speaker 2>She continues to watch when I'm falling asleep.

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<v Speaker 7>Trust me, man, it frustrated me too. But then I

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<v Speaker 7>realized the backup is the best option here, and this

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<v Speaker 7>is what you doing. You pick a good show and

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<v Speaker 7>then when she sees it on Netflix and it says

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<v Speaker 7>continue watching the show that she doesn't know about you

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<v Speaker 7>gotta play it off like it's not Sweet's not sweet,

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<v Speaker 7>don't worry about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's or I usually do that, and I'll say

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<v Speaker 2>it was one of the boys that was using our account.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, my, you know my Chelsea is sleeping show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's SVU. I just love watching SVUS. What's up, Lisa?

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<v Speaker 8>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing Lisa good?

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<v Speaker 6>How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I a dirty son of a bitch for continuing

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<v Speaker 1>to watch.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes you are, Come.

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<v Speaker 5>On, No, You're not that bad.

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<v Speaker 6>I have an agreement with my significant other head and

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<v Speaker 6>he went ahead and watched the show without.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, and that really picked me.

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<v Speaker 8>Off because that was our thing to do together.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he decided to watch it. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>what show was it that you guys were watching together?

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<v Speaker 8>It was Paradise, same show.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you that

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<v Speaker 2>she was. I didn't realize how salty she was about

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<v Speaker 2>this whole thing. And then we were last night with

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<v Speaker 2>some friends and our friends were like telling us all

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<v Speaker 2>the good shows that they watch, and she, of course

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<v Speaker 2>was doing the snide comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Tom will probably just continue.

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<v Speaker 8>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Tom probably already saw it. What's up? Selena,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing.

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<v Speaker 8>Hi, I'm amazing, first time, long time.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Hey?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 8>I love listening to you guys in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>When my son thank you Hi.

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<v Speaker 8>I totally agree with Charles because I'm like that with

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<v Speaker 8>my husband. We binge watched a ton of shows and

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<v Speaker 8>Paradise was one and he started watching it and after

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<v Speaker 8>I had told him just to wait, right, and he'd

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<v Speaker 8>like continue watching episodes, and I was really teed off,

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<v Speaker 8>like I was angry about it, because I was like,

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<v Speaker 8>this is a thing, this is our thing. We watch

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<v Speaker 8>shows and we binge it. Don't keep watching it. I

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<v Speaker 8>pall it shows for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 2>You and all those that cannot stay awake during these

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<v Speaker 2>shows need to get more rest.

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<v Speaker 1>You need more rest. You need to sleep at night. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I wake up to her watching stuff in the middle

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<v Speaker 2>of the night, like she's got shows on. She always

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<v Speaker 2>says that she can't sleep, she says and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, but here's the thing, though, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>sit there and complain about the show she's watching in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Because shows that you're interested in, though that doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>it does it does?

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<v Speaker 3>Let me ask you this though, does it? Is it

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<v Speaker 3>a situation where or it doesn't matter? Say you say, Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 3>I heard about this new show less watching like you

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<v Speaker 3>bring it to her?

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<v Speaker 2>Less watch Paradise? Or can I tell you how to

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<v Speaker 2>watch together?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Our friends said you should watch the show, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea's watched that show.

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<v Speaker 1>They give us good shows. I don't know whenever.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think she was not into it to begin with,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I think to myself, I'm like, going, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, I'm gonna start watching it. So we started

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<v Speaker 2>watching it. She got kind of into it, and then

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<v Speaker 2>she fell asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>She was exhausted. That's not y'all show. You get it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>See that's what I think. Thank you. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>contact matters. That's not YOURLL show. What's up, Melissa Hie?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 8>So?

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<v Speaker 4>I have been in my current relationship for two and

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<v Speaker 4>a half years.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, And I used to watch Bad Girls Club? Faithfully,

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<v Speaker 8>you know what I'm talking about? Badgirls Club?

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<v Speaker 6>Right?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, there we go.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I watch Batties and I've been watching it

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<v Speaker 3>since I've been watching Bagirls Club.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and he gets so mad.

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<v Speaker 6>At me now for watching Batties without him, And I'm like, dude.

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<v Speaker 8>You're a guy.

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<v Speaker 6>You know we're in our forties watching Baddies.

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<v Speaker 8>You're a man. You don't know anything about Batties. This

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<v Speaker 8>is my show Black, yes, ma'am. And so I have

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<v Speaker 8>to watch it.

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<v Speaker 5>I have to.

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<v Speaker 1>I do rewatch it with him and he doesn't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, he doesn't listen to us.

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<v Speaker 6>Does it without him, and then watch it with him.

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<v Speaker 2>If he if he listens, Doss, he's listening to you, Melissa,

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<v Speaker 2>tell us this on the radio right now.

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<v Speaker 8>He's at work. He hasn't the slightest.

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<v Speaker 2>Clue, the slightest you are, by the way, you are

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<v Speaker 2>an deviate woman. We're gonna we're gonna do We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do the War of the Roses on you for binge watching.

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<v Speaker 2>You should Hi, I'm calling from Nielsen.

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<v Speaker 1>What show are you watching? What's going on? Asia?

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<v Speaker 6>Say so? I do want to tell you it ruins

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<v Speaker 6>it when you don't watch it with her, especially Paradise,

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<v Speaker 6>because that's like a show that you have to have

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<v Speaker 6>conversations about after, like starting after episode three. Y'all have

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<v Speaker 6>to y'all have to sit and talk about it, so

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<v Speaker 6>don't go further. Watch what you what she missed with her,

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<v Speaker 6>pretend to be interested, and then y'all both further from there,

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<v Speaker 6>but don't leave her again.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like watching stuff though, with somebody who's already

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<v Speaker 5>watched it, like I like what you know because then,

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<v Speaker 5>and especially you, because I feel like you're the one

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<v Speaker 5>that's like, watch this is.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, there's a couple of sex scenes in

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<v Speaker 2>Paradise that area that hot latina lady is smoking. What's up,

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<v Speaker 2>Rosie High? Last call on this one. I'm only taking

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<v Speaker 2>you because you agree with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, Yes, I do.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you, only because there's going to be time times

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<v Speaker 6>when she needs something to do, and that she's going

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<v Speaker 6>to give her something to do. Yes, you already seen it.

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<v Speaker 6>You she fell asleep. That's okay, nobody can be mad

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<v Speaker 6>at that. So while you're at work, while you're out

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<v Speaker 6>with the guys, while you're golfing, anything, she'll give her

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<v Speaker 6>something to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Now exactly see that. I was just helping her. Courtney

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<v Speaker 2>texted seven seventh three be four. Courtney says Chelsea should

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<v Speaker 2>just binge watch the show with Kevin and get back

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<v Speaker 2>at Mojo because he becomes so jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>Of you both.

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<v Speaker 2>What do I do if I come home one day

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<v Speaker 2>and you're sitting on the couch watching a show at

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea and some grapes

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<v Speaker 1>Detroit still