Speaker 1: It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 2: All right, it is timed out for the second date update.
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Speaker 1: Uh, is this Anica that's on with us right now? Anica?
Speaker 1: You there?
Speaker 2: Yes, I am so not getting a call back after
Speaker 2: you went on a date and you're bummed out about
Speaker 2: that thing, and you thought that things went well.
Speaker 1: What did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 3: So it was just pretty normal.
Speaker 2: We just went folding, okay, and after the date was
Speaker 2: over with hug and kiss whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did actually kiss, okay.
Speaker 2: And did you guys talk about the future of another date?
Speaker 3: Not then?
Speaker 4: No, we didn't, but.
Speaker 1: You guys text back and forth afterwards.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean we work together, so.
Speaker 1: He's just okay. So do you guys see each other
Speaker 1: while you're working?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we worked the front desk and he's been doing
Speaker 3: random other jobs instead, like he won't be near me.
Speaker 2: So he's changed his work pattern since the date that
Speaker 2: you guys went on. Do you think it has anything
Speaker 2: to do with the fact that he doesn't want other
Speaker 2: people in the office to know that you guys went
Speaker 2: on a date with each other.
Speaker 1: I mean that's why I called.
Speaker 2: We're going to.
Speaker 1: Figure that out. Okay, let's figure it out. Then. Will
Speaker 1: is on the phone with us right now. Say hello
Speaker 1: to Will?
Speaker 5: Hi, Will, Hello?
Speaker 1: Will? Why are you hiding? Will? Are you hiding? Are
Speaker 1: you or you just have no work where you're seeing
Speaker 1: a little bit of both?
Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm hiding a little.
Speaker 1: I guess what's going on. Did you not enjoy bowling
Speaker 1: and hanging out with her?
Speaker 4: It was cool at first, but I don't know, I
Speaker 4: just wasn't really feeling it.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, you said it was cool. Why weren't you
Speaker 1: feeling it?
Speaker 2: She started talking about her ex the whole date, So
Speaker 2: the entire time that you guys are on a date
Speaker 2: with each other.
Speaker 1: What is she saying? What is she talking about?
Speaker 4: She misses her ax? She you know, she's like still
Speaker 4: looking at his Instagram.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she brought.
Speaker 6: Up that he Gotnica.
Speaker 1: Why are you doing I was talking to her?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, your boy girl is Ona Honka.
Speaker 1: Why why are you talking about your axe?
Speaker 3: Okay? Well, I wasn't talking about him the entire time,
Speaker 3: but I did mention him because that was I mean,
Speaker 3: that's just kind of what you do. If you're going
Speaker 3: on a date with people you know, you kind of
Speaker 3: give your history.
Speaker 1: A little bit. You miss your ax.
Speaker 3: No, I do not miss my ex, but he just
Speaker 3: got married and it was pretty quick, so I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just feel like if I got vulnerable with you,
Speaker 3: and I don't know, like me like telling you all
Speaker 3: of that stuff means that I was getting vulnerable with
Speaker 3: you means that I trusted you, and you just kind
Speaker 3: of like flip it on a head.
Speaker 7: I understand making that like part of a comment and
Speaker 7: your story, because that is you know, your past and
Speaker 7: your story to get you where you are right now,
Speaker 7: What did you actually say, like I miss him and
Speaker 7: shed some tears over it, or it wasn't that intense.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's not that it was like, okay, it's
Speaker 3: not that it was like intense. But when you start
Speaker 3: having conversations about you know, past exes and everything, I
Speaker 3: did get a little emotional because he just moved on
Speaker 3: really quickly. And it's not that I miss him, it's
Speaker 3: just the fact that it makes me feel as if
Speaker 3: all of those years that I spent with somebody doesn't
Speaker 3: matter because so.
Speaker 1: Quickly he just got married.
Speaker 7: So that was a comment you made, I'm more or
Speaker 7: less yes.
Speaker 1: Okay, who brought the exes up?
Speaker 8: Like?
Speaker 1: How did that start?
Speaker 2: Did you just bring it out yourself or did he
Speaker 2: ask you about past relationships?
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it just kind of happened in
Speaker 3: regular conversation.
Speaker 1: You know, how did it happen?
Speaker 2: Will?
Speaker 4: She brought him up because they had been to that
Speaker 4: bowling alley before.
Speaker 2: Okay, so she brought up and then she started talking
Speaker 2: about him getting married, and then she started getting Was
Speaker 2: she emotional?
Speaker 1: She cried cried about him.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I had to like console her on our first date,
Speaker 4: and I just thought, it's kind of weird that you're still,
Speaker 4: you know, in love with this guy. And I'm not
Speaker 4: trying to be anybody's rebound to be honest.
Speaker 3: Okay, I literally just said that I'm not in love
Speaker 3: with him. I said that it was more reflection on
Speaker 3: my own self worth that I spent five years with
Speaker 3: somebody and pretty much none.
Speaker 1: Of that mattered.
Speaker 3: It was a reflection on my own self worth.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that I missed the person and.
Speaker 3: I got vulnerable with I know you're saying that that's weird.
Speaker 1: First date though, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: Let's see what the listeners think about this, if you
Speaker 2: guys don't mind eight four four Mojo Live eight four
Speaker 2: four six six five six five four eight is bringing
Speaker 2: up your ex okay, and then taking it to the
Speaker 2: level that Anica took it where she started like crying
Speaker 2: about him, and you know she's I she says that
Speaker 2: she was getting vulnerable. Is she getting vulnerable or is
Speaker 2: she saying is she doing it in a way where
Speaker 2: she's not over him? Because I would I would start
Speaker 2: worrying if it was that you're just all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: you know, bringing this guy up and talking about him
Speaker 2: so much that it sounds like you guys are still
Speaker 2: you still have a thing for this guy.
Speaker 1: Brianna, what did you want to say? Brianna?
Speaker 6: Okay, So I think talking about access and how the
Speaker 6: relationships what in the history is definitely a conversation you've
Speaker 6: had with someone, But to try to attempt to have
Speaker 6: it on the first date is literally the craziest thing
Speaker 6: I've ever heard in my entire life. If someone broke
Speaker 6: down crying when we went on a first date, I
Speaker 6: literally would be like, what is happening right now?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: That is that's interesting, And I think you've got to
Speaker 2: let them bring it up and ask you questions about it.
Speaker 2: You can't just randomly do it. Because you start bringing
Speaker 2: it up, you sound a little crazy. Eric, what's up?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I do have to side with him on this one
Speaker 4: a little bit, because well, what's your name?
Speaker 5: What's your name? Anika Honka?
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 8: From from his perception, your first is the first dates
Speaker 8: are all about first impressions and like it.
Speaker 1: And you guys may have had a first impression at work,
Speaker 1: but then like your first impression outside of work.
Speaker 2: You were talking, you got so emotional of a previous relationship,
Speaker 2: whether it was regardless of the left over feelings or
Speaker 2: the fact that.
Speaker 1: It's your self worth as a impression on this is
Speaker 1: the most deep. Yeah. I appreciate the vulnerability.
Speaker 7: I think that that's such a good quality in anybody,
Speaker 7: But it's not on the first date. I do agree
Speaker 7: with you, yet even even the second date.
Speaker 1: The first date, is it vulnerability or is it she's
Speaker 1: not over? Well, we don't know that. What do you think, Kiki?
Speaker 5: I think that she's not wrong only because it's not
Speaker 5: like they first time meeting each other, Like they see
Speaker 5: each other every day and they do work together talking
Speaker 5: about more than work, obviously they're talking about more exactly,
Speaker 5: So I don't feel like she's crazy for that, Like
Speaker 5: you already knew what you were getting into because you
Speaker 5: already personally know her.
Speaker 2: And are you guys really close at work? Well, like,
Speaker 2: do you guys talk a lot at work?
Speaker 3: I mean we we would like banter and have inside
Speaker 3: jokes and whatnot.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, what do you think?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I think we're close and I think she's fun,
Speaker 4: but I wasn't ready for becoming her rebound so she
Speaker 4: could forget this other guy, like I knew about him.
Speaker 1: But do you think it's a rebound? That's so rid
Speaker 1: of you.
Speaker 4: Because you're clearly not over him, and I felt like
Speaker 4: you were trying to forget him and you failed at
Speaker 4: doing that.
Speaker 3: So if I tell you the reason and you're still
Speaker 3: just sticking to your guns that you think it's a
Speaker 3: different reason, well, I'm glad that it's not working out,
Speaker 3: because it's not like you would listen to me in
Speaker 3: anything anyways.
Speaker 2: All right, Anthony, what did you want to say, Anthony, Well,
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 8: I get that in like, there are some kind of
Speaker 8: red flags with uh, you know, being so vulnerable so
Speaker 8: quickly in today's world, that's kind of like modern dating
Speaker 8: is just to hide yourself for a long a long time.
Speaker 8: But I think it's kind of cute that she got
Speaker 8: so vulnerable so quickly. And I think just hearing her
Speaker 8: voice and how she's saying that, like.
Speaker 4: Hey, I felt like I could trust you to tell you.
Speaker 8: Something this deep is actually, like I said, kind.
Speaker 1: Of cute because.
Speaker 4: Anthony, Hey, if she's single.
Speaker 3: Is are you?
Speaker 2: So Anthony found it to be actually something cute that
Speaker 2: was going on there.
Speaker 1: Some people may look.
Speaker 2: At it as, hey, there is a vulnerability here that
Speaker 2: I really like and this is a great end for
Speaker 2: me right now to show her what a good guy is,
Speaker 2: you know, I like, I like deep conversations.
Speaker 9: I'm one of those people where I'm not gonna say
Speaker 9: trauma dumb, but I'm very honest and very open.
Speaker 1: So I'll tell you stuff you probably didn't ask for.
Speaker 9: We not understanding how she went about saying it. It's
Speaker 9: tough to really gauge if she was in the right
Speaker 9: quote unquote in the wrong but just crying.
Speaker 1: That's the part where I'm kind of like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: How much were you freaking out the monday after you
Speaker 2: came back from the date work weekend, Like, well, were
Speaker 2: you like, oh crap, I gotta go in and we got.
Speaker 1: To see each other.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just looking for other things I could
Speaker 4: do so we didn't have to both be sitting at
Speaker 4: the front desk because I didn't really want to, you know,
Speaker 4: make her cry again or anything, because she's cool, but
Speaker 4: I just I wasn't ready for something so serious right away.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, no second date. It looks like on
Speaker 2: this one here, and this is another reason why when
Speaker 2: relationships don't work out when you're dating at work, it
Speaker 2: makes it awkward, like you start taking the long.
Speaker 1: Way to the bathroom, you know. All right, second date updates.
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