1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I Tell You What. You 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: go on a date, your date shows up with not what, 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: but whom? 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: With a friend because there's somebody who This is. 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 3: A woman okay, matched with a guy on a dating app, 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 3: and they agreed to meet for dinner. Things were going 7 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:20,159 Speaker 3: pretty good when they were chatting through the app. She 8 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 3: arrives at the restaurant first, and then the guy walks in, 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 3: but he's got a friend, and now this is a 10 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 3: dude with his dude friend that he brought along with him, Okay, 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 3: and both of them sit down and it almost is 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 3: like she's on a date with both of them because 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: they're both asking her question. 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. But she said to the 15 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: guy like, this is kind of strange. 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 3: What is happening here? And he said he just likes 17 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 3: to bring his friend along to I guess help like judge, 18 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 3: not judge, but you know, figure out this person that 19 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 3: he's on a date with. 20 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: I guess you just can't do it alone. 21 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 4: That's weird. It is weird, right a lot of I'll 22 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 4: tell you this. I was that guy. 23 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: I was the guy that was the tag along on 24 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: a date with a girlfriend of mine, not my girlfriend. 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: But a friend of mine who's female, I went on, 26 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: I want it every date with her, That's right, I forgot. 27 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: I want like blind dates every every date. Yeah, she'd 28 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: meet somebody and then we would go out and she's like, hey, 29 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: I got I'm going out with blah blah tonight, So 30 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: seven o'clock, censor's Bloomington whatever. 31 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 4: I'm like, all right, And you would go, oh, yeah, 32 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 4: I got a free meal out of it. I like 33 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 4: their port. 34 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: You got the meal. So you were sitting at the 35 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 2: tables with yes, so you. 36 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 4: Weren't at the bar. No, I'm not overlooking, no, no, No, 37 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 4: I sat next to her. 38 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 3: This would sort of make sense to me if you're 39 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 3: going out on a date or a blind date or 40 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,639 Speaker 3: something and you want a male if you're a woman 41 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 3: or whatever, and you want another friend there, but maybe 42 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 3: just in case the person's a weirdo, and but you'd 43 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: be like at the bar or something. 44 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: You wouldn't be at the table with them. 45 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 4: No, I was never at the bar. 46 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 2: You'd order food with them. 47 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: I'd order food with them, and I'd sit and ham 48 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: it up with them. I sometimes did most of talking 49 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: with the dude. 50 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 4: Then she'd she did. She was a talker. I was 51 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 4: gonna say, was she like to talk? Didn't start keeping? 52 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: No, she could absolutely keep a conversation going. She's an amazing, 53 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,519 Speaker 1: wonderful human being. But for some reason, looking back, I 54 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: never even thought about it at the time. I just I, 55 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: honestly Jesus as my witness. I just went along. She 56 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 1: asked me to be there, so I went along. I 57 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: don't know, I just always did. She asked me, though 58 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: I didn't never intruded the bars or were there other 59 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: like dates that she was going to? 60 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 4: Lots of them? I went out on lots. 61 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: She probably went out on lot return. 62 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: Dates, like dates, like ones that came back that weren't 63 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: blind dates or weren't like first dates, second dates, third dates. 64 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the most shocking part that these people wanted 65 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 3: to go in another date with her. 66 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: When she brought well with her, I was hot. 67 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: I sit and Tach talked about sports. I remember talking 68 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: about Vikings trades and Randy Moss and everything else, and 69 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: just like eating up the conversation. 70 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 4: I remember her even going, this is exciting and like 71 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 4: jump in. 72 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 2: Were you in a throat pole? 73 00:02:59,000 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 5: What? 74 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 4: There's a word? 75 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:00,519 Speaker 1: Again? 76 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 4: It was no, I was not. 77 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: It doesn't sell I think, no, you know, there was 78 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: nothing sexual about it. 79 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: What people can have relationships that aren't sexual. 80 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: I never had a relationship with any of these men. 81 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: Don't It doesn't have to be sexual. 82 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: It doesn't help me. 83 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 3: You can have asexual relationships that are not involved that way. 84 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 4: I said it wasn't sexual. 85 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: I understand that you said you don't have to have 86 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: a sexual relationship. 87 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 3: I mean, like the word here's I'm starting a word asexual. 88 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 4: That's a word sexual. 89 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: Yes, asexual. It means that you're not. 90 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: A th three plus couple is a committed romantic No, 91 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: I was not at a throutle It says, it's a 92 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: committed romantic relationship involving three people, often called a triad, 93 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: where all members share emotional, romantic, and or sectual connections 94 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: equally falling under the pulmiory umbrella, polyamory umbrella. 95 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 4: You're going on datamory umbrella? 96 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: Were you? 97 00:03:58,680 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 5: No? 98 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 4: I didn't do anything those things. 99 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: I have a question talk back in the iHeartRadio A 100 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: few people save me from God. 101 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 2: Would you go on dates with this person? Is that faction? 102 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 5: Yes? 103 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: I went on dates? Okay, well, no, I went I 104 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: tagged along. I was not I was not part of 105 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: the date. 106 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: Don't get too choosy with your first You went on. 107 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 4: The dates like it is. 108 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: You went on the date. 109 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 4: This is a category. There's one now. I went along 110 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 4: on a date. It wasn't my date. Is it true 111 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 4: I got a free pork chop. I like their pork chops. 112 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: Is it true that you sat at the same table? 113 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 4: I sat with her, always on her side, I think okay. 114 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: Is it true that you would not pay for your 115 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: own meal? 116 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: No, I didn't pay for my meal because part of 117 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: the condition is she'd buy my meal. I like the 118 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: pork chops. I think since you stops. 119 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: You were either part of a throttle or you were 120 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 2: a sugar baby. Yeah, or both. 121 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 4: No, I don't think I was in hold on them 122 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 4: sugar baby. 123 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 2: That was like you were a pet. 124 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 4: Chris a non sexual thriple. 125 00:04:55,640 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: It says that you can either shared living or and 126 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: transparent communication. A sugar baby is typically a younger person 127 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: who enters a mutually beneficial, negotiated relationship with an older, 128 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: wealthier sugar parent, daddy or mommy Christ. They provide companionship 129 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: but offen sexual intimacy in exchange for financial support and guests. 130 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I see all the sugar baby because 131 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 3: I got food, I. 132 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: Got pork chops, I got three port chops. 133 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: Sugar baby, throle. 134 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 4: I'm leaving. I hate I hate this. I'm shocked to 135 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 4: find out that my guy has been in a threetle. 136 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not a throptler or whatever it is 137 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 4: you are. 138 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 6: Good morning, UH. To answer your question about a situation 139 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 6: that we're talking about on the radio right now, Yeah, 140 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 6: you were unaware about the situation, but you were pretty 141 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 6: much in the throttle because that's usually how they started. 142 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 6: And yeah, you consider to be a sugar baby. 143 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 4: Like that. I don't even you would. I don't even 144 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 4: know what throppole is. 145 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Gus, Chris, you you very much, very much, 146 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: sugar baby. 147 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 4: No, that's okay, Hey, don't. 148 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: Rather be the sugar baby sugar mama. 149 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 2: There is anyone on the radio right now listening and 150 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: went on a date with Chris Carr and his UH friends. 151 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 1: We get your feedback on your first impression of how 152 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: this all went. 153 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 2: I would love to hear that. 154 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 4: No, don't talk about please call us. 155 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 2: I will pay you money. 156 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: No, we have to. 157 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 4: We were not taking calls. Now we have to play 158 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 4: met at in it. 159 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, email you want. 160 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: Somebody to call you and you're gonna pay money. You're 161 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: the thriftler. This show is what you are, not is. 162 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: It's kind of got a ring to it. 163 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 5: This is Chris Thrupple Company, The Chris the Throtler and 164 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 5: Sam Debbs. You're on K one or two games coming 165 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 5: in next and after that busy schedule. Got propole counseling 166 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 5: tickets available? 167 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 4: Thank you? 168 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 6: All right? 169 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Chris. 170 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 4: I hate radio. I was not in Ale. 171 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 2: It's not naughty. She was just waiting for you to 172 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: make a movie and you didn't. And that's okay. It 173 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 2: clearly fizzled out as some relationships. 174 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 4: Do what she's doing now? Yes, I do she taken. 175 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think she's single. But she runs 176 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: her on her own radio show. Oh yeah, she's good 177 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: at it, she's great at it. Don't bring her into this. 178 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: I don't even want to be into this anymore. 179 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: I have so many questions for her. 180 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, what ain't gonna happen? 181 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: Well, thanks for listening to this episode of I Tell 182 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: You What. 183 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 5: Well. 184 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: You'll find more on the iHeartRadio app and anywhere you 185 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: get your podcast. Please rate, review, subscribe, download chair and like. 186 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 4: Thank you.