1 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: All right, twelve oh eight. 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: It's the average American and for the great American on 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 2: this Thursday, great to have you with us. Dreary though 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: it may be outside here, Nevertheless, inside we've got a 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: lot percolating today. First of all, of course, Prince Andrew arrested, 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 2: all in relation to the Epstein files, all into relations 7 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 2: that he might have had or not have that were 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 2: alligated in the Epstein files. And now with suspicion of 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: misconduct in office, former Prince Andrew could be looking at 10 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 2: life in prison if convicted, life in prison. The King's 11 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: brother could be in prison for the rest of his life. 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 2: Could be only the tip of the iceberg when it 13 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: gets to these files. And of course we're also keeping 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 2: an eye on what's going on over halfway around the 15 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:51,599 Speaker 2: world and the Strait of Horn moves and what may 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: be transpiring between the United States and Iran peace talks 17 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: that could lead to and all out war before the 18 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 2: end of the weekend. 19 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: So there's a lot percolating. And also the. 20 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: Final weekend of the Winter Olympics in Italy and the 21 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 2: United States in a number of areas have acquitted itself 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: very very well. Speed skater Jordan stoles, two golds, one silver, 23 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 2: with a chance to win gold, and one more event 24 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,839 Speaker 2: on Saturday. There's hockey on the ice here in about 25 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: an hour, the USA women against the Canadian women for 26 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: the gold medal in women's ice hockey. The men are 27 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: in the semi finals on Friday, with a chance to 28 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: advance to the gold medal round as well. But there 29 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 2: are highs and lows when you get to this the 30 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 2: epicenter of sports. There's no question about it. These are 31 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 2: peak athletes. 32 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: These are people that have dedicated their short lives but 33 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: still their lives to achieving greatness and now on the 34 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: world stage. Some are excelling and simply some are not. 35 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: I mean, we saw what happened with American figure skater 36 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: Elia Malinin to the quad God, who was in the 37 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: gold medal competition and absolutely got engulfed by the pressure 38 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: and went from first to eighth. It seemed like in 39 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: the blink of an eye. There's a lot of pressure. 40 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: Spotlight doesn't always shine the best on anyone, let alone 41 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: peak athletes at this time of the year, and somebody 42 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 2: who knows that standing by to join us. We've had 43 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 2: Vince Pacente on the show before He's a former Olympian 44 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: New York Times bestseller as well, and someone who competed 45 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 2: in nineteen ninety two at the Olympic Games, a finalist 46 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: in speed skiing, record holder one hundred and thirty five 47 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 2: miles an Now, my good, one hundred and thirty five 48 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: miles an hour in speed skiing. Let's welcome him into 49 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: the show. Vince, how are you on this glorious Thursday. 50 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 3: Well, Ken, good to talk to you again, and everybody listening. 51 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, before we get into what may or may not 52 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: be happening over in Italy at this hour, one hundred 53 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: and thirty five miles an hour skiing. And that wasn't 54 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 2: That wasn't down the ski jump, that was speed skiing. 55 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 2: What give me what that's all about? 56 00:02:55,440 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 3: Well, every Olympics up until Barcelona, the host committee would 57 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 3: choose a sport they wanted to have in their Olympics, 58 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 3: and the host country will always choose a sport they 59 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 3: dominate in. And so speed skiing straight down the side 60 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 3: of a mountain and there's a speed trap at the bottom, 61 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 3: and the fastest person through the trap is the winner. 62 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 3: You got these Darth Vader style helmets, skin tight rubber suits, 63 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 3: and the skis are two hundred and forty centimeters long, 64 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 3: so you've really never seen a ski this long. 65 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: It's and then it becomes normal. 66 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 3: You start low and think, wait, I'm pretty good at this, 67 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 3: and then you pretty soon you're trying to figure out 68 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 3: how you can break one hundred and thirty miles an hour. 69 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: And so that was the experience I had in the 70 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 3: Olympics in Alberville. 71 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: The skis are one hundred and twenty four centimeters long. 72 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: I'm trying to convert centimeters to one hundred and forty 73 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: one hundred and forty eight feet long, eight eight eight 74 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: feet long? 75 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: Holy crow? What made you choose that two forties? 76 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 3: Well, you know what, I losed for a couple of 77 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 3: years but quit. And then when I watched my lose 78 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 3: buddies marching in the opening ceremonies at the Olympics in Calgary, I. 79 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: Went, oh, I should have not quit. 80 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 3: I'm not saying I know I would have made the 81 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: lose team, but you know, when you're motivated more by 82 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 3: never wanting an experience again, like regrets or whatever. 83 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So anyway, that was the story. 84 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 3: And so I chose speedskaing and knew would be in 85 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 3: the Olympics in Albertville, and and I'm now on the 86 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 3: speaking cirga. In fact, I'm in Denver right now giving 87 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 3: a keynote speech. 88 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: And it's it's. 89 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 3: Quite a job that I have now trying to relive 90 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 3: that recreational skier to Olympian in four years story. 91 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 1: Unbelievable. It's unbelievable. 92 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 2: I highlighted the highs and the lows of the Olympics, 93 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: and it's a when you get to that level, I 94 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 2: think it's it's almost a different kind of athlete because 95 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 2: you have to have not just great talent, but great focus. 96 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 2: And I felt badly for Ilia Melanin because I think 97 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 2: the kid had great talent and he his focus at 98 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: the worst possible time. His quote was, I felt like 99 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 2: I just had no control. I just felt like all 100 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: the traumatic moments of my life really just started flooding 101 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 2: my head. And he lost focus. And I don't know 102 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,119 Speaker 2: if there were other things going on in his life 103 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 2: that prevented him from keeping focus, but the fact of 104 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 2: the matter is at the most important time of his 105 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 2: very young life, he fell apart. How difficult would you 106 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: think that would be to come back from? 107 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 4: Well? 108 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: Kids twenty one as you mentioned. I mean he he's 109 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 3: in the center of the ice, all eyes are I mean, 110 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 3: it's almost when this moment is coming at you and 111 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 3: it's just all of a sudden, in a flurry, and 112 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 3: then time stands still, and for whatever reason I can't 113 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 3: fully explain, it is, thoughts will appear in your brain. 114 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: You're going, what are you doing here right now? I 115 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 3: got a competition to take care of and I remember 116 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 3: the exact same thing. You know, there's certain distractions about 117 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 3: around you, and at that very moment he was more. 118 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: Occupied with that thought. 119 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 3: Then there's a part of the brain called the amygdalo. 120 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 3: That's the the part where the stress response of fight 121 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 3: slider freeze and it can get locked up in a 122 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: stress response where you're not allowing what you've trained years 123 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 3: to do to just appear right that do you golf? 124 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: Your golf terribly? But yeah, and I know where you're 125 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 2: going with this could go ahead. 126 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. 127 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 3: The second you start thinking about what your left arm 128 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 3: staying straight or whatever following. 129 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: If there's anything specific you're focused. 130 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 3: On, then you're not allowing that automatic pilot to show up. 131 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 1: And that was the critical thing. 132 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 3: Here's a vignette I have a coach, Doug Hanson, and 133 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: he could tell I was nervous. I was, you know, 134 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: at the top of the track. I was ready to go. 135 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 3: This is back in my lose days. And he said 136 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 3: that Vince I'm looked at him with wide eyes. I said, 137 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 3: what he said, is you ever hear the one about 138 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 3: the two leprechauns that walk into a bar. 139 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: And I'm just about to leave? 140 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 3: And I looked at Doug and I went, what's the 141 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 3: And what he was doing is a technique for coaches. 142 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: They say, you know, let it go of do your thing, 143 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 3: you do your best, You've got this, all that kind 144 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: of advice. Well, Doug, just get that because the brain 145 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 3: with a full of fear or uncertainty or whatever. And 146 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 3: by doing that, as an athlete, you can actually be 147 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 3: occupied with things. Some athletes just think about thinking backwards 148 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 3: from ten to nine eight, you know, or they're thinking 149 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 3: about anything else other than that competition. And personally, what 150 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: I always thought about was having fun. But also from 151 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: person experience at the Olympic Games, in the final run 152 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 3: of the Olympic, the gold medal run, I'm standing on 153 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 3: the top of the mountain and all of a sudden 154 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 3: I'm thinking, I got to leave it all out there. 155 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 3: I've got to do this. I got to chew nails, 156 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 3: and I'm thinking two nails, what's that all about. So 157 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 3: I was so preoccupied with this, trying to do really 158 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: well instead of just letting go and having fun, which 159 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: is the key to it. And unfortunately Ilia just he 160 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 3: just didn't have any fun doing it. He started off 161 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: on the wrong foot and it just got worse. 162 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: You know, I've covered a lot of these Olympic events. 163 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: I've been to the Olympics, and I can tell you 164 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 2: that some of the most protected people in the world 165 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 2: are these individual athletes. Figure skaters, tennis players are like 166 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 2: that as well. They have a cadre of people around 167 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: them that just prevent them from really experiencing anything, not 168 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 2: just with the media, but the outside world. And it's 169 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 2: all focused in train and then off ice training, and 170 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 2: then diet and then back on the ice to train. 171 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 2: And I often wonder if the inability to just be 172 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 2: a kid. And again, yeah, this is a young man, 173 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: he's in his twenties. It's not like the rest of 174 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 2: his life is gone. But I just wonder if a 175 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 2: lot of not being able to just be a typical 176 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 2: kid might have a reverse effect on psychologically on when 177 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: it comes to be what he wanted to be. I 178 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 2: just sense there was there was a piece missing from 179 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 2: his life. Get that feeling sometimes with. 180 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 3: These athletes, Yeah yeah, I do get that sense, and 181 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 3: that barrier the coach's job. 182 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:24,239 Speaker 1: It's too late to coach. 183 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 3: Any technique into anybody at that moment, but it's absolutely 184 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 3: the moment to be that voice of I'm not the 185 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 3: first word that comes to minus distraction is just saying, hey, 186 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: you know remember that time when you started figure skating 187 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: and you did this? 188 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 5: Yeah? 189 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, remember how much fun that was? 190 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:41,479 Speaker 6: Yeah? 191 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 7: Do that? 192 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 1: Okay, good, okay, So that's the focus piece. 193 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 3: Or you know what a coach ever say, well, you 194 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,119 Speaker 3: got you know, a two billion people. 195 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: On the planet watching you. Good luck, So they're not 196 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: going to do that. But that's the brain, right. 197 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 3: The brain is just so complex that it just makes 198 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 3: stuff show up, and having a good coach is essential. 199 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 2: But I figure if if his coach, whoever his coach 200 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 2: might have been, had done the Leprechaun choke to him, yeah, 201 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 2: he really would have fallen apart. I just sense that 202 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 2: that there's it's just not a real world that these 203 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: athletes live in. And honestly, he's twenty one, so he's 204 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 2: he's he's young enough to compete in the next Olympics 205 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: in four years. It's not like it's over. But what 206 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 2: do you do? How do you rebuild yourself mentally? I 207 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: mean it's not just him. There was this freestyle skier, 208 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 2: Kayla Kun. Everybody thought she was going to medal in 209 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 2: the women's areals. 210 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:39,599 Speaker 1: She did not. 211 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 2: She had to just nail one one trick and she 212 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 2: would have and she could not. I mean, how do 213 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 2: you how do you come back from that? Knowing that 214 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 2: your focus for the last four years, maybe before that, 215 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 2: if you're young enough, was to get to this stage 216 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 2: and compete. 217 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 1: How did you? 218 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 2: First of all, how did you come back? And secondly, 219 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: what is that like now? Because you're older, these are 220 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 2: younger kids. There's social media, there's all kinds of things 221 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 2: in their lives right now? 222 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: How does that work? Come back? 223 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 3: The best technique that any athlete could use, and I 224 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 3: use this still in the speaking business, is I go 225 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 3: through a routine. And some people from the outside might 226 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 3: think of this as superstition that they slapped their hand 227 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 3: on a flag or something like that, but no, a 228 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 3: routine of number one always got to the competition early 229 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 3: two went through a deep breathing exercise so that the 230 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 3: auxygen donate the system. Three experientialized the outcomes, like what 231 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 3: are the outcomes? What does it look like, smell like, 232 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 3: taste like like get that subconscious. 233 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: Mind locked in. 234 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 3: And then the last one, which I didn't I'm not 235 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 3: seeing in these Olympic Games with some of our American athletes, 236 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 3: is the decision just to have fun, Like I consciously 237 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 3: made a decision, I'm just going to have fun. Some 238 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 3: athletes like to have pretend that this is like any 239 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 3: other race in their hometown rink or something like that. Right, 240 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 3: anything that can have you in that routine is going 241 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 3: to set you up to succeed. And if you get 242 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: off that routine, which is what really happened to iliat 243 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 3: He somehow in the middle of the ice, this flood 244 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 3: of trauma came back to him and people like some 245 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 3: own biles remember her. I mean, she she had the 246 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 3: wisdom to step back and say no, not today, you know, 247 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 3: and she said. 248 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be well. 249 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: Somebody's having fun over their events because they ran out 250 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: of condoms. 251 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: On day two. So there is some fun going on 252 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: over there. 253 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, When ten thousand condoms disappear in three days, 254 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: something's going on. 255 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: Something's going on. It may be coming to a movie 256 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 2: theater near you. But but you're right, and age has 257 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 2: taught you that, and hopefully that somebody is teaching these 258 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 2: these these younger athletes that, because you know, if you, 259 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 2: if you mess up in business, you always have a 260 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,719 Speaker 2: show the next day. If you if you mess up 261 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: on you know, making widgets for a company, you always 262 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: have a chance to come back and make widgets the 263 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 2: next day. Now I would guess for him, or for 264 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 2: any other ice skater that doesn't manage to meddle or 265 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 2: do well. I mean, your next step is Disney on 266 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 2: ice or you know, the ice Capades, or you dig 267 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 2: back in and you go at it again. But to 268 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 2: dig back in and go at it again having the 269 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 2: knowledge that you know it could all go off the 270 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: rails inside of ninety seconds, I just take it. It takes 271 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 2: a different kind of bird, doesn't it. 272 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: It takes that. 273 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 3: But it's also maturity, like you said, And if he 274 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 3: comes back in four years from now, you will see 275 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 3: an athlete that is going to smile more. He's going 276 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 3: to enjoy the moment, enjoy going into it. It's it's 277 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 3: treating it instead of a responsibility more like a privilege, 278 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 3: you know. And the humility that comes into this situation. 279 00:13:57,920 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 3: You know, I've done it before, I can do it again. 280 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,439 Speaker 3: Put a smile on your face and just have fun 281 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 3: with it. And it sounds so trivial, doesn't It Just 282 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 3: just have fun, But that's how it works. 283 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 4: Enjoy this. 284 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 3: Did you watch the speed skater? She won the one 285 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 3: of the first medals. Lola Bridgeta is her last. 286 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: That's her name, Yeah, blast, yeah, I know last. Oh yeah. 287 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: And that's how it works. I know, I know. 288 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 2: And there was I forget her name, but there was 289 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 2: a forty one year old that won a medal a 290 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 2: couple of days ago, and I'm looking at her, I'm thinking, 291 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 2: it's a great day for senior citizens. 292 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: You know. It's just there's a lot of that that 293 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: that goes on. 294 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: But I I I just I when I saw him fall, 295 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 2: I just said, there's got to be somebody somewhere other 296 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 2: than just the people that coddle him, that has to 297 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 2: go in and say, you know what, buddy, get yourself up. 298 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 2: Off your butt and we're going to try this again. 299 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: And sounds like there was that for you, And it 300 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: sounds like there was you for you, So hopefully there's 301 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 2: that for him. 302 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 3: It's uh, you know, the human experience is not all roses, right. 303 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 3: There are moments where you get pushed back or set 304 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 3: back or hit back by something you didn't see coming. 305 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 3: And and how we respond and take the high road, right, 306 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 3: how we engage, whether it's relationships or finance or health. 307 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 3: We've got both of us have all of us have 308 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 3: friends who just got the announcement that they they've got cancer. 309 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 3: It's like, okay, here we go, you know, so go 310 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 3: through the middle of it. Staying away from that uncertainty 311 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 3: or the failure is just tucking it into a closet. 312 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 3: And that closet can get pretty crowded if you keep 313 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 3: stuffing it away. 314 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: Ben SPACENTI, great to catch up with you again. Good 315 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: luck with your speech today. 316 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you sir. 317 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 2: Take care of you venture. You're at rapid pro dev. 318 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: What is that? What is rapid pro dev? If I 319 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 2: go to rapid prodev dot com, what do I see 320 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 2: besides your smile and face? 321 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's most the keynote speeches. But also I've been 322 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 3: doing some coaching, executive coaching. There's executives right now have 323 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 3: that face on they it looks like they know. 324 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: What they're doing. And there's whole lot of people like 325 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: that going on. 326 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 2: I've work for a lot of people like that, and 327 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 2: those excited people who can't find where they park their 328 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 2: car that day. 329 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: Bence, thanks for your time, man, We appreciate it. Yep, 330 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: all right, take care, take care too. 331 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 2: Vince Desini competed in the nineteen ninety two Winter Olympic Games. 332 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: Elena Meyers Taylor was the one I couldn't think of 333 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 2: her name when I'm already forty one years old. One 334 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 2: of our first gold medal at the Olympics on Monday 335 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 2: night in something called a mono Bob, I guess that's 336 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: like a one person Bob's law. 337 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 1: Is that what that is? 338 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 2: There's so many of these these game, these events that 339 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: have just popped out of nowhere in the last fourteen 340 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: or fifteen years. But these individual athletes, the ice skaters especially, 341 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 2: are just so coddled that they really can't experience is 342 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 2: the things in life that maybe would have helped the 343 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 2: kid twenty one years old when he got out there. 344 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 2: Instead of just crumbling under the spotlight, it was so 345 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, you'd have to be dead behind 346 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: the eyes not to feel for the guy. Nevertheless, it 347 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 2: is twelve twenty six. The women play for the gold 348 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 2: today at one in hockey, and the men go for 349 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: the gold or a chance to go for the gold 350 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: tomorrow over in Milan. So we'll keep you up to 351 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 2: date on all of that and much more as we 352 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 2: press on this Thursday. It's the Average American in for 353 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 2: the Great American News Radio seven hundred w l W. 354 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 2: I'm thirty seven on this Thursday. The Average American inn 355 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 2: for the Great Americans. Still to come this mega trial 356 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 2: going on in Los Angeles involving social media and whether 357 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 2: or not it is addictive for younger people. Mark Zuckerberg, 358 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 2: who seems to be America's witness, took the stand yesterday. 359 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 2: In any event, we'll get into really and truly what 360 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 2: liability these media companies, these social media companies have, and 361 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 2: whether or not it's really the social media company's fault 362 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 2: or just bad parenting. I mean, my gosh, you know, 363 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 2: at a certain point, if you're a parent, you have 364 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 2: to know what your kid's up to now you can't 365 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 2: know three sixty five twenty four seven, but you at 366 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 2: least have to know what they're up to on social media. 367 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 2: And if you don't, then if you're getting pushed back 368 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: from the kid, then you're not equipped to be a parent. 369 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 2: So anyway, I want to get into that at one 370 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 2: o six. Also at two o six, did you know 371 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 2: that if you live in Kentucky you are more likely 372 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 2: to get a divorce than if you live in Ohio 373 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 2: or Indiana? Do you know that you live in Kentucky 374 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 2: you're more likely to get a divorce than if you 375 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 2: live in Ohio and Indiana? 376 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: Why is that? What's going on in Kentucky. 377 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: We'll get into that with somebody who is a noted 378 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 2: divorce attorney. 379 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,919 Speaker 1: Maybe he has the midside knowledge on all this. I 380 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: hope he does, because we booked him for two six. 381 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 2: iHeartMedia and us US right here at seven hundred at 382 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 2: WLW salute Cincinnati's own Proctor and Gamble. 383 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: We didn't do it. 384 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: We'd been doing this a lot because P and G 385 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 2: is one of the great companies, one of the great 386 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 2: corporations in the history of our city. Anyway, if you've 387 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 2: got someone out there you would like to recognize, No, 388 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: somebody would like for us to recognize on the air. 389 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 2: All you have to do is text us their names, 390 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 2: P and G. Employee say they're doing a great job. 391 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: You ought to hear. You ought to get a shout 392 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: out on the air on WLW. All you have to 393 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 2: do is text it to this number. 394 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: Are you ready? Five to one eight eight one, five 395 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: to one eight eight one. 396 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 2: Tell them what they're doing over there, maybe it's Swifter 397 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 2: or pring Goals, wherever whatever division they may be in, 398 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 2: and be listening because it could very well be you. 399 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 1: You'd never know. That's the beauty of radio. 400 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 2: You're going to hear the word affordability a lot between 401 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 2: now and November, when the midterm elections are affordability, affordability, affordability. 402 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: Democrats are beating that ban. 403 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 2: The Republicans are kind of Trump is more, I guess, 404 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 2: concentrated on results. And that's why you see the market 405 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: doing well, while your four oh one k is doing well, 406 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 2: while you might have not lost your job because your 407 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 2: company is doing well, but still there are affordability issues 408 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:34,679 Speaker 2: in this country. 409 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: I just saw it today. 410 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 2: On one of the internets that the price of beef 411 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: is just stuck extraordinarily high, and a lot of it 412 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:49,360 Speaker 2: has to do with the regulations and the enforcements and 413 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 2: some of the nonsense that went on in the Biden administration. 414 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 2: So it's very difficult to jump start that in the 415 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 2: span of a year or two. But nevertheless, it's stuck 416 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 2: up there. If you like beef, you're like stakes, if 417 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 2: you're like you know, a nice porterhouse. 418 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: It's expensive. But the price of a home is the 419 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: real nut. 420 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 2: Because the average age of someone buying their first home 421 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: in this country shot up in the span of the 422 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 2: last five or six years. And why was that, Well, 423 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 2: it was because of interest rates. It was because of 424 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 2: lack of product on the market. A lot of people 425 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 2: that bought homes back in COVID got great interest rates 426 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 2: because nobody was doing anything and the banks were sitting 427 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 2: on this money that they wanted to lend. And so 428 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 2: you have people that are at homes right now that 429 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 2: have mortgage rates somewhere around three percent two point nine, 430 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 2: two point eight percent, and so they may be reticent 431 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 2: to go out and purchase a new home move voluntarily 432 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: where your mortgage rate is going to be somewhere around 433 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 2: six percent. But the good news is mortgage rates are 434 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 2: now around six percent, because it wasn't so long ago. 435 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 2: They were at eight percent. Right now with thirty fixed 436 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 2: about six point one. But if you're expecting great movement, 437 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 2: if you're expecting that the mortgage rates are going to 438 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 2: go down, well no, and if they do, that's not 439 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 2: necessarily a good thing for the rest of the economy. 440 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 2: I know this because I know Jeff Ostrowski, and I've 441 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,679 Speaker 2: had Jeff on the show many times. He's kind of 442 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 2: like their mortgage guy for bankrate dot Com. And when 443 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 2: I saw this new story that came out this week 444 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 2: from bank Right about mortgage rates and about what Donald 445 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 2: Trump is trying to do and what the the whole 446 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: housing industry is trying to rebound from, I said, you know, 447 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 2: I got to get him on. So he said he 448 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 2: would join me today, and he's true to his word. 449 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 2: There is splashing euphemistically speaking online too. Jeff, how are 450 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: you on this glorious Thursday? 451 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 4: I am good. 452 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 8: And mortgage rates are getting more affordable, So that's that 453 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 8: could be some good news for the spring home budding season. 454 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: Okay, see, I guess the big reason is why are 455 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 2: they more affordable? I mean some people are credit credit 456 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 2: being President Donald Trump and the Fannie May and Freddie 457 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 2: Mac directives to buy two hundred billion in mortgage backed 458 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 2: securities to analyze that as above my pay grade or 459 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 2: is it something more organic than that. 460 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's it's partly that Trump policy that you just mentioned, 461 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 8: but only very partly. So mortgage rates were coming down anyway, 462 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 8: and the mortgage rates are pretty complicated. They move generally 463 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 8: with the federal funds rate, which is set by this 464 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 8: Federal Reserve, but not always and not in lockstep, so 465 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 8: you know, generally the. 466 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 4: Easing along with interest rates overall. 467 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 8: But really it's just a complicated interplay between things like inflation, 468 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 8: the job markets, the ten year treasury yields, investor expectations 469 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:04,200 Speaker 8: about the economy. So all of those things have caused 470 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 8: mortgage rates to fall a bit. So rates spiked all 471 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 8: the way to eight percent back in twenty twenty two, 472 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 8: and now they're at their lowest levels since September of 473 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 8: twenty twenty two. 474 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 2: So, okay, all the things you just mentioned that affect 475 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,880 Speaker 2: mortgage rates, I'm trying to envision how this stuff gets done. 476 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 2: So all of that information comes in and then what 477 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 2: a bunch of people meet in a room at a 478 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 2: lending company or a bank and they say, yeah, let's 479 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 2: set it at that. Because it seems to me that 480 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 2: if you're in the lending business, if you're in the 481 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 2: bank business, you don't want to get crazy when money 482 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 2: is bad. You don't want to get parsimonious when money 483 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 2: is good. So I mean, how do they actually arrive 484 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 2: at that? And is it almost collusionary because a lot 485 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,680 Speaker 2: of these rates are within tens of percentage points of 486 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 2: each other. 487 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I think it's more complicated than that. So 488 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 8: you know, part of it is that those lenders who 489 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 8: are sitting in a room setting a rate, I aren't 490 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 8: really setting the rate for themselves, setting the rate knowing 491 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 8: that they're going to resell these these loans. I mean, 492 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,719 Speaker 8: the reality is most mortgage loans don't stay with the 493 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 8: bank that originated them. They're almost all of them are resold. 494 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 8: They're packaged as mortgage backed securities. They're they're resold to investors, 495 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 8: you know, pension funds around the world. So it's the 496 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 8: it's kind of a strange. 497 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 4: Product in that way. 498 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 8: So your lender might be Rocket or Wells Fargo or 499 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 8: or you know, fifth third. 500 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 4: Bank or whoever it is. 501 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 8: But once that lender originates the loan, they're really not 502 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 8: even touching it again. So it's it's pretty much sold 503 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 8: off almost you know, as soon as it's as it's originated. 504 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 8: And then the lenders are really they're not necessarily calling 505 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 8: the shots so much as just reacting to what's happening 506 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 8: in the mortgage market. And it's it's mainly those investors 507 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 8: in mortgage backed securities who are are setting the rates 508 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 8: just just based. 509 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 4: On you know, what they're what they're buying, what they're. 510 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,439 Speaker 2: Willing to pankh So the house or the bank whoever, 511 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 2: they'll they'll issue the loan and then, as you've just said, 512 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 2: flip it, and they flip it certainly at a profit 513 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 2: for the for the bank, they'll flip it at a 514 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:18,119 Speaker 2: more advantageous I would guess percentage than what they issued 515 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 2: the loan at. I mean, that's that's how the system works. 516 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 5: Right Yeah. 517 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I don't know that I would even use. 518 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 8: The word flip because you know, flip sort of has 519 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 8: a connotation of I'm making a quick profit or you know, 520 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 8: buy buying at one price and selling at a higher price. 521 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 8: Really it's more like the lenders are just sort of 522 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 8: a marketing arm there. They're the convenient way for for 523 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 8: a consumer to get the mortgage and then But the 524 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 8: idea all along, and this has been the case for decades, 525 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 8: is that the loan is not going to sit there 526 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,159 Speaker 8: on the bank's balance sheet. It's it's going to be 527 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 8: repackaged and sold that into the global financial markets. 528 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 2: Well, I'm looking at this, this story that was on 529 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 2: bank rate dot com, and it really gets down to 530 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 2: the heart of the matter. The average home, according to 531 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 2: HUD in the United States sold in December of this 532 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 2: past year was a little over four hundred thousand dollars. Now, 533 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 2: obviously this is an average. This is not the average 534 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 2: price of a home in Cincinnati, but it's an average 535 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 2: price nationwide, and based on twenty percent down and a 536 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 2: rate that's out there right now, which I think is 537 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: six point one six for a thirty year fixed your 538 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 2: principle and interest is going to be just a few 539 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 2: dollars short of two thousand dollars a month on the 540 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 2: principle on interest, and then you have to factor on 541 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 2: insurance and maybe mortgage insurance, who knows. But the fact 542 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 2: of the matter is on an average home right now, 543 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 2: you're probably looking at a payment somewhere close to twenty 544 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 2: five hundred dollars a month in the United States. That 545 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 2: seems okay, I think if you're making a decent buck, 546 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 2: But if you're somebody that's making the average salary of 547 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 2: somebody in the United States, that's still are pretty tough 548 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,199 Speaker 2: nut to crack, is it not. 549 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, there there's been all kinds of the talk 550 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:04,400 Speaker 8: around affordability. 551 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:05,920 Speaker 4: You know, it's certainly. 552 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 8: There was that decade from the Great Recession until twenty 553 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 8: twenty when when home prices were going up pretty pretty gradually, 554 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 8: pretty steadily. Then of course the pandemic hit at home 555 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 8: price is shot up there at record levels. They're that 556 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 8: four hundred thousand dollars number that you mentioned is about right. 557 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 8: That's the national median, and it's you know, it's certainly 558 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 8: cheaper in midwestern market, it's more expensive in coastal markets. 559 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 5: But it's I mean. 560 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 8: To a ford a median price home in the US 561 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 8: right now, with these mortgage rates, you need at about 562 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 8: one hundred and ten thousand plus and income, and so that's. 563 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 4: That's daunting for a lot of people. 564 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 8: I mean, if you've got two way journers who are 565 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 8: making fifty or sixty grand at a piece. You can 566 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 8: you can swing it. But but yeah, affordability definitely has 567 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 8: been difficult over the past years, and that's playing out 568 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 8: in all kinds of ways. So you know, for instance, 569 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 8: the median age of first time home buyers now is 570 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 8: all the way up to forty. So a generation ago 571 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 8: it was thirty. It was unaccounting for people to buy 572 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 8: their first house in the late twenties, early thirties, and 573 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 8: now it's gotten tougher, and so a lot of Americans 574 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 8: are really putting off home ownership for an extra five years. 575 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and a lot of people are sitting on their property. 576 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 2: Boomers get I think unfair criticism for this, But the 577 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 2: fact of the matter is if you got into a home, 578 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,959 Speaker 2: or you changed a home, or you bought a second 579 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 2: property during COVID when these rates were down in some 580 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 2: cases below three percent, you're reticent to sell that right 581 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 2: now because if you sell and move, you're going to 582 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 2: be paying well. In this case, for example, if it 583 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,959 Speaker 2: was three percent, you'd be more than twice on your 584 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 2: percentage than what you got a product for back in 585 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 2: two thousand and one. So I think there's some movement 586 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 2: that is loosened up lately, but it's certainly not the 587 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 2: way it was even before COVID. Is that a fair analysis? 588 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 7: Yeah? 589 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 4: Correct. 590 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 8: You just described the mortgage lock in effect, and so 591 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 8: Americans are staying. 592 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 4: In their homes longer. 593 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 8: There just aren't a whole lot of homeowners who are saying, oh, yeah, 594 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 8: I want to give up my three percent. 595 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 5: Rate and swap it out for a six percent rate. 596 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 4: And so that's easing a bit. 597 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 8: You know, over time, life happens, you know, whether it's 598 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,959 Speaker 8: a job change or death or divorce. 599 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 4: But the reality is what you just described. 600 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 8: Which is most homeowners that are saying, hey, maybe in 601 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 8: a more normal mortgage market, I'd be willing to move, 602 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 8: but in this reality, I don't want to move, And 603 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 8: so that has really slowed down the pace of home sales. 604 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 8: So the number of home sales is very low just 605 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 8: because there aren't a lot of people moving. There aren't 606 00:30:55,160 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 8: a lot of homeowners who are willing to sell. So yeah, 607 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 8: it's definitely kind of a frozen housing market right now. 608 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 2: Jeff Ostrowski, our guest. He is with bankrate dot Com. 609 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 2: In fact, I'm looking here Jeff is twice one Gold 610 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 2: Medal awards for the National Association of Real Estate Editors. 611 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 1: That's fantastic. It's kind of like the Olympics for you. 612 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 8: Huh yeah, something like that podium ceremony. 613 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 1: Did you get to stand on a podium. 614 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 4: Well, there wasn't a ceremony. It was not dramatic, is 615 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 4: what you're envisioning from when. 616 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 2: He's also the author of the book How to Buy 617 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 2: a Home in a Miserable Market. It's available now in 618 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 2: paperbook and e book on Amazon. I see a lot 619 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 2: of reaction from some of your contemporaries here about what 620 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 2: rates look like for the rest of this year, and 621 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 2: for example, since this stuff is so fluid, the rest 622 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 2: of the week, man, I'm sure you know. Mark Hamrick, 623 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 2: the Washington Bureau chief, says, look, we've seen some big 624 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 2: moves lately, but a remarkable unseen, barring and unseen development. 625 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,719 Speaker 2: He looked for little change in rates over the next week. 626 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 2: So if you're standing by and thinking maybe it might 627 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 2: be better in a week to jump in and get 628 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 2: that product, according to Mark, he doesn't think that. What 629 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 2: do you think both short term and long term? Twenty 630 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 2: twenty six, with these rates is six percent about it? 631 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 2: Or do you think it could dip on a thirty 632 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 2: year fixed below five percent? 633 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, consensus is that six percent is going to be 634 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 8: the low point for the foreseeable future. So according to 635 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 8: Bankert's latest national survey, which came out this week, the 636 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 8: average thirty year mortgage is six point zero nine percent, 637 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 8: so just over six percent. That's the lowest in September 638 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 8: of twenty twenty two. But it's hard to see any 639 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 8: real reason for mortgage rates to fall significantly. And you know, 640 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 8: part of it is that mortgage rates fall when there's 641 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 8: bad economic news. So during the pandemic, mortgage rates fell 642 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 8: all the way to three percent and even low because 643 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 8: the world was in a global crisis and you know, 644 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 8: everyone that thought the world economy could could. 645 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,280 Speaker 4: Collapse, and so that was what drove rates down. 646 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 8: Then when it became clear that the world wasn't going 647 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 8: to end, mortgage rates shot all the way up to 648 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 8: eight percent. So and you know, nobody wants an eight 649 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 8: percent mortgage rate when they're used to three percent. But 650 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 8: by the same token, those eight percent mortgage rates were 651 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 8: reflected good news, a strong economy, hiring economic activity. And 652 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 8: so I say all that just to say that, yes, 653 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 8: it would probably be a good jolt for the housing 654 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 8: market if mortgage rates were to fall below six percent 655 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 8: and stay there, but there would that would probably be 656 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 8: because something else was going wrong in the economy. So 657 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 8: the consensus is mortgage rates are probably going to be 658 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 8: at about six percent for the rest of the year. 659 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 2: Okay, good forecasting and probably be good no knowledge going 660 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 2: forward for people that want to buy homes and homes 661 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,959 Speaker 2: here in the greater Cincinnati area. Okay, Jeff, appreciate your 662 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 2: time as always, You stay well and we'll be in touch. 663 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 4: Okay, great, Thanks Ken, Now you're. 664 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 1: Good news and bad news. 665 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 2: Where it is right now is not good compared to 666 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 2: where it was in twenty twenty one, but that was COVID. 667 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 2: That's just different, different time, different circumstance and whatever. But 668 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 2: it doesn't look like it is going to appreciably go 669 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 2: down over the next month. And as you heard, there's 670 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 2: some that think it's probably just going to hover exactly 671 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 2: where it is. So sometimes if you wait, it gets better. 672 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,919 Speaker 2: Doesn't sound like it's going to get better if you wait. 673 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 2: Be that as it will. We press on. We have 674 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 2: a lot to get to between now and three o'clock. 675 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 2: Why does Kentucky have a higher divorce rate than Ohio 676 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 2: and Indiana. We'll get into that. 677 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 1: And also. 678 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 2: If your kids on social media too much and it's 679 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 2: hooked and they're addicted to it, is that really Mark 680 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: Zuckerberg's fault. All of that lawes ahead on this Thursday, 681 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 2: the Average American in for the Great American News Radio 682 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 2: seven hundred w l W. All right, welcome back, seven 683 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 2: hundred WYLW. It's the average American and for the Great 684 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 2: American on this glorious Thursday. Great to have you with us. 685 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 2: A lot going on in the world, certainly going on 686 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 2: in the Strait of Hormuz, and also what's going on 687 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:32,720 Speaker 2: with regards to the royal family in London where Prince 688 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 2: Charles is spoken out against his brother, the former Prince Andrew, 689 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 2: who is now under arrest. They locked him in a 690 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 2: slammer for his misconduct as it's being alleged. Doesn't sound 691 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 2: like it's directly in response to what he may or 692 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 2: may not have done on Epstein Island or anywhere else. 693 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: It sounds like it might have been some payments or whatnot. 694 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 2: Nevertheless, it's a huge scandal again with the Royal family, 695 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 2: so we are keeping our eye on that as well 696 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 2: as well as this trial that's going on in Los Angeles. Basically, 697 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 2: it centers around claims that social media platforms were conducting 698 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 2: business that might have been addictive to underage children. In 699 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 2: this sense, they could not resist going on Facebook or 700 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 2: Instagram or any other platform YouTube was involved in. This 701 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 2: was brought by a woman who's now in her twenties 702 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 2: named Kayley, who alleged that she was exposed to addictive 703 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 2: design features as a child. Her lawyer claims she got 704 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,360 Speaker 2: hooked on social media apps at the tender age of six. 705 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 2: And now this woman and I guess her mother, have 706 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 2: brought suit against all the major platforms, and it had 707 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 2: Mark Zuckerberg, who seems like he's testifying in something every 708 00:36:56,160 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 2: other week. It brought Zuckerberg to the stand and on Wednesday, 709 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,399 Speaker 2: where he was peppered with questions by Kaylee's attorney, man 710 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 2: by the name of Mark Lanier, who asked if a 711 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 2: company should take advantage of vulnerable people, and Zuckerberg says, 712 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 2: like any other CEO would be. Look, I got a company. 713 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 2: I'm trying to make business, trying to do business. We 714 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,439 Speaker 2: try to do as many safeguards as possible, he said, 715 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 2: I think a reasonable company should try and help the 716 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,359 Speaker 2: people who try and. 717 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,479 Speaker 1: Use its services. So we'll see where the trial goes. 718 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 2: But it raised the question in my mind, Okay, you 719 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 2: probably use Facebook, you probably use YouTube. Wouldn't be surprised 720 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:43,760 Speaker 2: if your daughter or your son is on Instagram. Where's 721 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 2: mom and dad in all of this? Where is the 722 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 2: parental control in all of this? Or did we've just 723 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 2: let junior loose on a computer? And that's why this 724 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,600 Speaker 2: particular woman, a twenty year old woman, is in the 725 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 2: state that she claims she's in after being quote unquote 726 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:08,880 Speaker 2: dragged into, seduced whatever it may be, by Facebook and 727 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 2: Instagram and YouTube. Now there's nobody that is more up 728 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 2: to speed and in tune what's going on with social 729 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 2: media than my next guest. I have had Dominic Mezzerindino 730 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 2: on my show many times before, because it seems like 731 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,280 Speaker 2: before it was known as social media, Dominic was there. 732 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,600 Speaker 2: He knows what it can do both from a creative standpoint, 733 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 2: he probably knows the dark side of it as well. 734 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 2: I wanted to get him on today just to talk 735 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 2: about this because I think I think this isn't as 736 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 2: cut and dry as it may seem in a courtroom. 737 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 2: So let's welcome him in dominic. How are you on 738 00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:43,880 Speaker 2: this glorious Thursday. 739 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,359 Speaker 4: Wonderful, my friend. 740 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 5: It's been a while and I'm glad to connect again. 741 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad you're here. Now. 742 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 2: Look this this trial that's going on in Los Angeles. 743 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,400 Speaker 1: You probably heard my intro. 744 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 2: They want Suckerberg, they want they want, they want something, 745 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 2: they want money, they want something. But it just smacks 746 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 2: of maybe mom didn't have a complete control over what 747 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 2: the daughter was doing on her computer. 748 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 1: Am I wrong. 749 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 4: I this one? 750 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 5: I don't agree with you as much. You know, I 751 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 5: think every parent wants to have their eyes and what 752 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 5: their kids doing. So you say, hey, don't go down 753 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 5: that street, corner, don't cross that avenue. But what we're 754 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:35,040 Speaker 5: talking about with social media is everywhere it is easily obtained. 755 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 5: There are I mean, you can get on Amazon, iPad, 756 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,800 Speaker 5: to go on Wi Fi could easily if you wanted. 757 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,760 Speaker 5: You don't have to just to work around your parents 758 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 5: is not a very difficult journey for the average kid. 759 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 5: I know kids who were buying a secondary burner typhoons 760 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 5: just to go online at the local seven to eleven. 761 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 5: So I think it is a tougher thing because you're 762 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 5: not looking at one place to monitor your kids. You're 763 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,160 Speaker 5: looking at wherever they are, on the school box, wherever, 764 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 5: and that's very difficult. 765 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 4: Journeys are passed. 766 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 2: Okay, so you're let's take it from your angle. You're 767 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 2: using the it's addictive that parents can't be everywhere twenty 768 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 2: four to seven. 769 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 1: I get that. 770 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 2: This sounds to me like maybe in your mind, it's 771 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,640 Speaker 2: really no different than cigarettes and the big cigarette companies 772 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,360 Speaker 2: and how they were held lible back in the sixties 773 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 2: and all of a sudden they had a slap warnings 774 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 2: on their box of cigarettes and they were taken to 775 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,040 Speaker 2: task by the federal government and large money was sought 776 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 2: in lawsuit and transpired in lawsuits. So in your mind, 777 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 2: is it no different than that? 778 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:51,479 Speaker 3: Now? 779 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 5: I think that is apples and pears, apples and cucumbers, 780 00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:01,360 Speaker 5: you know, similar words family, but not necessarily. The issue 781 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 5: to me is you have to I think, first just 782 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 5: have people have a better understanding of what this is. 783 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:13,359 Speaker 5: Facebook and all social media is selling your eyeballs. That's 784 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 5: the goal, get your eyeballs to look at the stuff, 785 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,320 Speaker 5: and the mechanisms is to have an addictive quality. 786 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,520 Speaker 4: These algorithms do. 787 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 5: Reward you posting something that is going to get you 788 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 5: more likes. Here, it's an incentivization. They want the more 789 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 5: likes because that's where the revenue is. And I think 790 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 5: people sometimes don't even realize the basics. When you're on 791 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 5: social media, you're basically renting, giving out your eyeballs for 792 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 5: these ads, and that is where it behooves them or 793 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 5: incentivizes them to get your look at more ads. What 794 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:53,400 Speaker 5: is that that's not making it more addictive? 795 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,400 Speaker 2: No, I and again to know that going in, I 796 00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 2: don't think anybody stop. Anybody who has used TikTok stops 797 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 2: and things. Wait a minute, Jijing Ping is getting all 798 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 2: of my information over there in Beijing, and he knows 799 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: everything about me. I don't think anybody stops and thinks 800 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 2: about that stuff. They just want to go on and 801 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 2: show you how great their cat can dance, or whatever 802 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:22,200 Speaker 2: it may be, whatever nonsense that happens to be. You know, 803 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 2: all the nonsense that China won't allow on Twitter, on 804 00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 2: TikTok in their country, that they're happy to let us 805 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:29,800 Speaker 2: do here in the United States. 806 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,000 Speaker 1: No, I agree with you. 807 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 2: I don't think anybody stops and thinks about something like that, 808 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 2: But there has to be at some point. This apparently, 809 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 2: from what I can tell, started with this girl at 810 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 2: the age of six. Now, Dominic, I don't know if 811 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 2: you've got kid. I've had kids that have been six 812 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 2: years old. Yeah, and they weren't My kids weren't raised 813 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,840 Speaker 2: in an era of social media. It hadn't existed yet. 814 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 2: But I dan knew what they were doing. Sure knew 815 00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,319 Speaker 2: what they were doing at the age of six. And 816 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,319 Speaker 2: it seems to me either maybe they just turn this 817 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 2: kid loose at six, at six years old and said, 818 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 2: all right, sweetheart, how about it, you know, do whatever 819 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 2: you need to do because mommy and daddy are over 820 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 2: here doing this. 821 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 5: Now. You know, I feel the dangerous argument, and the 822 00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 5: reason I feel it's dangerous is we don't you nor 823 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 5: I know that experience in that household, you know. And 824 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 5: a good friend of mine once said, there is no 825 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:27,680 Speaker 5: perfect family. But the challenge is your question essentially is 826 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 5: is shouldn't parents be aware of what their kid is doing? 827 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 5: But wait, with social media, there's one extra comma twenty 828 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,440 Speaker 5: four or seven that becomes a challenge. That becomes a 829 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,319 Speaker 5: challenge because you do not. You and I. If you're 830 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 5: a kid in the house right now and you send 831 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 5: Johnny to the seven to eleven or Johnny go to 832 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 5: school and you get handed an iPad, are you strip 833 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:54,799 Speaker 5: searching the kid when he comes home? 834 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 1: You know? 835 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,080 Speaker 5: Are you saying to the kid? Of course not? And 836 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:03,320 Speaker 5: you know, think about how often kids I got nephews 837 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,760 Speaker 5: and nieces now two four years old. They can swipe 838 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 5: on the bad better than you know any one of 839 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 5: a different generation. Sure, so there's an inherent understanding. I 840 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 5: have seen two to four year olds and five year 841 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 5: olds and know how to jump on Wi Fi. But 842 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 5: that you have to think is the concern you're not 843 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:28,319 Speaker 5: stopping little Johnny after school. That used to be the 844 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 5: line or mind line. Remember where was always do you 845 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,919 Speaker 5: know where your kids are? It's ten pm, finite time, 846 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:41,360 Speaker 5: finite location. The challenge with anything online you're educating kids, 847 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 5: but to put the onus on the parent to that 848 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 5: degree when the the foul is someone else, something else, 849 00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,520 Speaker 5: we don't know, little kid gets them. You could take 850 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 5: away the phones, You could take away it is the 851 00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,960 Speaker 5: big way of that. I have seen his getting phones 852 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 5: from other means or things to sign up, you know, iPads, 853 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 5: et cetera. 854 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 2: Six seams off the early though domin it's six seams 855 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 2: off the early. Even if they have the dexterity to 856 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 2: go through all of that stuff that they can they 857 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 2: can swipe and they can download six seams off the early. 858 00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 5: It is exceptionally early. But the question, maybe differently, is 859 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 5: have I seen six year old get online? Have I 860 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:31,880 Speaker 5: seen six year old hide things? 861 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 1: Yes? 862 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 5: And yes. So I'm not defending as much as I understand. 863 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 4: It could exist. 864 00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,719 Speaker 5: I've seen it. It is. See the challenge this one. 865 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 5: You're going online, if you think about it, you're showing an. 866 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:47,840 Speaker 1: ID to sign up the Facebook. 867 00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 5: You're not showing your driver's license. Anyone could do it. 868 00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 5: Anyone on this thing can make up a fake ID. Hell, 869 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,919 Speaker 5: they can go to chat ebt make a new fake face. 870 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 5: It is still the wild West. And I'm not actually 871 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 5: advocating for any position for the record, I'm simply saying 872 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:12,280 Speaker 5: one needs to understand those mechanisms. I'm actually not just concerned, 873 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,880 Speaker 5: by the way, for the six year old. I'm concerned 874 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 5: for I mean, I had someone recently shared with me 875 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 5: a video of Charlie Kirk preaching about being martyred knowing 876 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 5: the idea that what he was sharing with thousands was 877 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 5: total AI. So there's a high degree of availability of 878 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 5: tools to the entire public, and to me, I would 879 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:46,240 Speaker 5: more so use the example used example of a cigarette. 880 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 5: It's we are all publishers. When fifty years ago not 881 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 5: everyone could be a publisher. 882 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:53,279 Speaker 1: Now the whole world's a. 883 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,080 Speaker 5: Publisher, and we were all creators were only five years ago, 884 00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 5: you and I couldn't create an image E and now 885 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 5: you can literally just touch I front of you've tried it. 886 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,799 Speaker 5: You could do it on Alexa on the TV at 887 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,400 Speaker 5: this point by holding a button. The ease of creation 888 00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:14,319 Speaker 5: is exceptionally high, but the danger that comes with it 889 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 5: is sometimes not acknowledged. And I'm simply an advocate of 890 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,920 Speaker 5: that understanding of all these mechanisms, as opposed to simply. 891 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,799 Speaker 1: Saying, hey, we're producing it. 892 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 5: What happens happens, because that's also dangerous for more than 893 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,600 Speaker 5: six year old, for ninety six year olds and everyone 894 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 5: in between. 895 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,360 Speaker 2: Case in LA is the first of more than fifteen 896 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 2: hundred similar lawsuits nationwide to go before a jury seeking 897 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 2: to set a precedent for tech companies. Instagram before this 898 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 2: child Kayley, before she claims to have been addicted. Instagram 899 00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,640 Speaker 2: in the wake of that has now limited that anyone 900 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 2: under the age of thirteen unable to create accounts. So 901 00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,879 Speaker 2: they've done that in the wake of it. But let's 902 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:06,719 Speaker 2: let's let's pretend that you've got a six year old 903 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,680 Speaker 2: running around your house. Let's pretend Dominic, that that six 904 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:14,680 Speaker 2: year old has the dexterity that you outline. What are 905 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,600 Speaker 2: you telling that six year old so he or she 906 00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 2: doesn't get hooked on this stuff? Knowing full well that 907 00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,799 Speaker 2: you that you just said this, knowing full well that 908 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 2: it isn't going to be before long that that six 909 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:32,400 Speaker 2: year old can get a burner, phone, a burner, eyepair, whatever. 910 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: It may be, and do things behind dad's back. What 911 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,719 Speaker 1: are you telling that six year old? 912 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,839 Speaker 5: I think actually it's now to bring its just match 913 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 5: to the point it's not only educating six year old, 914 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,840 Speaker 5: it's educating yourself. I mean, I, for example, look constantly 915 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,400 Speaker 5: at my Wi Fi to see what devices are connecting. 916 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 4: Is there a new device? 917 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:59,720 Speaker 5: I would advocate spot checking devices. I would advocate showing 918 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,800 Speaker 5: them look at this crazy thing. You know, this is education. 919 00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:09,000 Speaker 5: The idea overall I'm advocating is social media and online literacy. 920 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 5: The sixteen year old, sixteen year old and the sixty. 921 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,680 Speaker 4: Year old, both of those need. 922 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:21,399 Speaker 5: An education and everything in between. Unfortunately, we're seeing too 923 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:25,760 Speaker 5: many online scams. You've known this for fourth line decades, 924 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,359 Speaker 5: and I think it will get much much worse before 925 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 5: it gets better. With the advent of AI, for example, 926 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 5: it is way too easy to make these scams real. 927 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,319 Speaker 1: So you're not so okay I'm hearing here. 928 00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 2: You're not advocate, You're not You're not absolving the parent 929 00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:50,440 Speaker 2: in this situation of any kind of responsibility. I want 930 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,600 Speaker 2: to make sure that I'm hearing you correctly, am I. 931 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,399 Speaker 5: I'm not able to comment on absorbing them that because 932 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 5: you and I haven't spoken to the parent. But I 933 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 5: can't speak in gen could a parent be asolved or 934 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:07,240 Speaker 5: not of a six year old or not without knowing 935 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 5: the circumstance. Can't speak to that, you know, I actually 936 00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 5: just thought I know one kid who uses online device 937 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 5: for educational purposes of that age, and I remember thinking, 938 00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,120 Speaker 5: no one looked at this device, thought how easy it 939 00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:27,160 Speaker 5: is to accidentally fall into something. Sure, I simply am 940 00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 5: saying all of these questions are out there. I don't 941 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,880 Speaker 5: have nor do you. We neither of us, as far 942 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,080 Speaker 5: as the house, spoke to this parent, so can't really 943 00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 5: speak to that situation. But I do think we do 944 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:46,239 Speaker 5: not have enough education and understanding to really make rules 945 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:52,839 Speaker 5: to deal with these things, and that's a concern. I 946 00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:57,919 Speaker 5: do think also in terms of overall system, one needs 947 00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:03,240 Speaker 5: to say, see that we have a system that rewards addictiveness, 948 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 5: rewards a lack of gaps. It should maybe shouldn't. Shouldn't 949 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,680 Speaker 5: have been a reaction to block thirteen year old as 950 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,359 Speaker 5: opposed to a precaution ahead of time. 951 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:20,279 Speaker 2: Well, whatever, whatever the motivation was for Zuckerberg, and I'm 952 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:24,640 Speaker 2: sure it's I'm sure it's monetary there it is. I mean, 953 00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 2: the thirteen year old, the thirteen age thirteen numbers out there, 954 00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 2: and I'm sure it's out there for a reason. Maybe 955 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:34,759 Speaker 2: there's research to it or whatnot. He doesn't seem to 956 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:38,920 Speaker 2: do things capriciously, so I'm sure that that was somebody 957 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 2: legally probably told him that thirteen was a good idea. 958 00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 2: So okay, let's bring it back to him. Whether or 959 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 2: not he's held liable for any of this, I guess 960 00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 2: the jury will decide that what do you do if 961 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:54,600 Speaker 2: you're this guy who is probably the most well known 962 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,280 Speaker 2: purveyor of social media platforms in the history of the world. 963 00:51:58,440 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 2: I mean, what does he do on the wake of this? 964 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,200 Speaker 2: Does he drop that thirteen down to eight? 965 00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 1: What do you do if you're him? 966 00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,520 Speaker 5: I mean, I think thirteen is certainly a given for 967 00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:11,520 Speaker 5: social media. I don't think you should be having social 968 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 5: mediaodgs are thirteen. I think education it's if you're having 969 00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:19,440 Speaker 5: people use the platform. We need to have better tools. 970 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,480 Speaker 5: And we're finding these tools reactionary. If you remember on 971 00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 5: Twitter they start to have community. 972 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,760 Speaker 2: No responsive yeah, community not yeah. 973 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,719 Speaker 5: All these things are reacting. And I do think we 974 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:38,399 Speaker 5: can do a better job of pro active because we're 975 00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 5: going to see comunion notes and all these other responses change, 976 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,839 Speaker 5: and people are going to start seeing more and more 977 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:50,320 Speaker 5: challenges because of AI, especially. 978 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 2: All right, dominic, Where do people find you? I mean 979 00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,080 Speaker 2: I can tell them, but one is where can people 980 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 2: find you? 981 00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:58,360 Speaker 4: And when they find you? 982 00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:58,920 Speaker 1: What happens? 983 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 5: You have go to miser indians dot com on LinkedIn 984 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 5: you can always follow. 985 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 4: I always love people. 986 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 5: Following, connecting and bringing up these conversations. And that's using 987 00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 5: my goal. Let's get more of these conversations and understanding. 988 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 2: All right, all right, my friends, stay well. You're right, 989 00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,200 Speaker 2: it has been too long. We need to we need 990 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 2: to do this more often, unless you don't want. 991 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:21,840 Speaker 4: To do more behind it. 992 00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 2: I love these conversations, unless you don't want to, and 993 00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:25,399 Speaker 2: then you know it's called her idea. 994 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to answer the phone. But no, I'd 995 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 1: love to let you. 996 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,680 Speaker 2: All right, Dominic, you stay well, all right, thanks a lot, Dominic, 997 00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 2: Dominic miser Indido. He knows more about social media than anybody, 998 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:41,040 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, than anybody on the planet. And I 999 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,279 Speaker 2: was glad to hear him say he's not absolving the 1000 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 2: parents of anything six years old. I mean, my god, 1001 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,920 Speaker 2: We'll see if this woman is if she prevails in 1002 00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:51,680 Speaker 2: her lawsuits. She's gonna win a lot of money if 1003 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,680 Speaker 2: she does. And as I said, there are where was 1004 00:53:54,719 --> 00:54:00,160 Speaker 2: that number? Fifteen hundred more lawsuits pending in this country 1005 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,120 Speaker 2: over the same thing, all with jury trials on their 1006 00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 2: horizon on LA one twenty six on this Thursday, the 1007 00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,080 Speaker 2: average American in for the Great American News Radio seven 1008 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,680 Speaker 2: hundred w l W. 1009 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,480 Speaker 6: Where or when. 1010 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:19,040 Speaker 5: Does the president believe he's been falsely called racist? 1011 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 1: You're kidding, right, don Lovin. 1012 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,920 Speaker 6: The President of the United States is racist. 1013 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:31,200 Speaker 3: He is a tried and true, like died in the 1014 00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 3: wool racist. 1015 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:36,560 Speaker 1: I know what mister Trump is. He is a racist. 1016 00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 9: What Trump has always been was a rich, malevolent, really 1017 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:42,040 Speaker 9: racist man. 1018 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 2: We now have a president of the United States who 1019 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 2: is a racist. 1020 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,360 Speaker 6: Do you believe President Trump is a racist? 1021 00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:51,799 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1022 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,920 Speaker 6: Donald Trumps the racist. 1023 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:54,720 Speaker 4: He is a racist. 1024 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 2: President is a racist, racist, racist, racist, racist, racist racist. 1025 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,359 Speaker 6: I'm the least racist person you've ever met. 1026 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 5: Hello, quiet, and I'm I'm broadcasting. 1027 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,040 Speaker 2: Say, all you got to do is ask for an example. Yeah, 1028 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:22,920 Speaker 2: that's all I gotta do. We give, well, give me 1029 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 2: one example of what give me one. I don't I 1030 00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:27,680 Speaker 2: don't need ten. I don't need give me. 1031 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 10: One USA and example of ice hockey today, ken Brew, 1032 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 10: they're going everybody's going for the US. 1033 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:34,320 Speaker 6: Baby. 1034 00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,720 Speaker 1: Uh, what is it? It's one o'clock. They've already started, 1035 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:38,560 Speaker 1: right the woman. 1036 00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:42,560 Speaker 10: Yeah, they're zero zero late first period, late first period, 1037 00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 10: and this is the gold medal game, right correct, See 1038 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,120 Speaker 10: I'm keeping up with this Olympic stuff. The UH Switzerland 1039 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 10: won the bronze in overtime two to one. 1040 00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:54,600 Speaker 1: Good for them. Nobody cares, Okay, let's see what else 1041 00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:59,160 Speaker 1: TV USA Curling. We had Jason Stoles, right, yep, he 1042 00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 1: got a silver this morning. Yeah, he was fourteen, right, 1043 00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,200 Speaker 1: one of that that that third gold and had to 1044 00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 1: settle for the silver. Now he's done. Is he done? 1045 00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 2: I would think so because I thought maybe there was 1046 00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,720 Speaker 2: one more. I don't know, but it sounds like he's done. 1047 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,439 Speaker 2: But our boys, uh, let's see both. 1048 00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 10: Lawrenceburg's Nick gepper I was supposed to be in the 1049 00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:23,799 Speaker 10: halfpipe competition, while men's aerials with Cincinnati's Connor Current were 1050 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 10: set for today, but both events postponed by heavy snow. 1051 00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,960 Speaker 2: Too much Wait a minute, hang on, don't they like 1052 00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:32,920 Speaker 2: don't they like do that on snow? 1053 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, it's the Winter Olympics. But I guess I got 1054 00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:37,719 Speaker 10: too much and there's too much snow. 1055 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:38,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1056 00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,839 Speaker 10: And I was watching some of the ski jumping this morning. 1057 00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 10: Did the guy went off the ramp? You could hardly 1058 00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,360 Speaker 10: see him? And I think one of them ended up 1059 00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:50,879 Speaker 10: in Batavia. So there's too much snow. Yeah, and that's 1060 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,720 Speaker 10: why they can't hold a snow event. The half pipe 1061 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,920 Speaker 10: and the men's aerials where you go up in the air, 1062 00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 10: twirl around seven hundred times and come back down. 1063 00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:01,800 Speaker 1: Now, what is yet? What exactly is a pipe? 1064 00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 5: Uh? 1065 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,120 Speaker 6: You know what Nick Gepper was in. 1066 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 10: I think the aerials before, but I'm not too up 1067 00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 10: on the half pipe and the pipe. 1068 00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 1: And Allepper is not a pipe. He's not in a 1069 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,520 Speaker 1: pipe competent or he's not half pipes. Yeah he switched. 1070 00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:18,480 Speaker 1: Oh he switched. 1071 00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1072 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 2: Oh, nobody told me about this. Why was I not informed? 1073 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,400 Speaker 2: Did you get a memo on this that he switched? 1074 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,160 Speaker 6: I read it about a couple of months ago. Oh 1075 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:26,600 Speaker 6: see that. 1076 00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're at the end of the chain, the 1077 00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 2: end of the tree, you don't get the memo. 1078 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:34,640 Speaker 10: The US men's hockey team will play Slovakia tomorrow at 1079 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:40,400 Speaker 10: three in the semi finals. That other matchup Canada the Finland. 1080 00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 1: And then the winners made for the gold on Sunday 1081 00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: morning at eight o'clock. You see any condoms They ran 1082 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,320 Speaker 1: out of condoms. Egg at the Olympic coach like on 1083 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:48,880 Speaker 1: day two. 1084 00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 10: More action on on the ice and snow than and 1085 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:56,360 Speaker 10: you know, well, it's a wondering action on and off 1086 00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:57,400 Speaker 10: the ice there, Ken Brew. 1087 00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:00,680 Speaker 2: It's a wonder any of these Olympians can walk. I 1088 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:02,760 Speaker 2: know they go through I don't know how many days 1089 00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,160 Speaker 2: there was. There was thousands of these condoms and they're 1090 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,760 Speaker 2: gone after day two. Some action going on, Well there 1091 00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 2: could be. There could be so much action going on. 1092 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 2: Maybe that's why we don't have more gold medals. 1093 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:15,960 Speaker 10: Ken Brew, the Stoos reporters of proud service of your 1094 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 10: local Temestar heating in air conditioning dealers. Temestar quality you 1095 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 10: could feel in Cincinnati, Colway Omigair it won eight eight 1096 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:28,000 Speaker 10: eight nine nine six h v A C. 1097 00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,680 Speaker 1: You have a run out of condoms. 1098 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 10: Also, ken Brew, we want to say thank you to 1099 00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 10: Ron's Roost. It's clucking good sixty five years on the 1100 00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 10: good old West Side, thirty eight to fifty three Race 1101 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:47,480 Speaker 10: Road at five one three two two two two two 1102 00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:50,880 Speaker 10: two two. Excuse me, Pam brought down our lunch today. 1103 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 10: It was delicious with the chicken, mashed potatoes, gravy and ribs. 1104 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 1: And hamburgers and everything that was mere. That was me. 1105 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 10: Also, ken Brew, iob Jabbari two second half goals last night. 1106 00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,960 Speaker 10: FC Cincinnati beat the O and MFC four nil. I 1107 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:12,360 Speaker 10: thought you had a brilliant line on X this morning, 1108 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,560 Speaker 10: that there was more people at Jeff Ruby's restaurant last 1109 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 10: night than at that hockey game, all right, that soccer game, 1110 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 10: there was nobody. 1111 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,520 Speaker 1: There was nobody. I'm watching this thing. It wasn't the. 1112 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 10: Dominican, right, Yeah, and apparently I guess this o and 1113 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:30,720 Speaker 10: MFC finished second in the Caribbean League. Oh, by the way, USA, 1114 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,920 Speaker 10: it's after the first period now, no score in the 1115 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:34,720 Speaker 10: gold medal. 1116 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 2: Game, sake, I'm watching this game last night. Yeah, and uh, 1117 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 2: there were so many empty seats. I'm thinking to myself 1118 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:45,200 Speaker 2: that couldn't have possibly paid for the jet fuel to 1119 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:49,200 Speaker 2: get FC Cincinnati from Cincinnati to the Dominican and back again. 1120 00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,720 Speaker 10: Yeah, and I mean, I guess apparently, like I said, 1121 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:56,120 Speaker 10: at m FC was was a second in that Caribbean league. 1122 00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,200 Speaker 10: That's why they got in this champions Cup tournament. And 1123 00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 10: I Roman Celatano got a clean sheet, didn't face a shot. 1124 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,040 Speaker 1: On goal all night. No, there was one guy. 1125 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,880 Speaker 2: He broke clean and he kicked the ball into a 1126 01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,080 Speaker 2: tree that was behind the behind the net. So it 1127 01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,680 Speaker 2: was like a eucalyptus tree or something behind the net, 1128 01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,720 Speaker 2: and the guy kicked it into the tree. And I'm looking, 1129 01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 2: but I'm looking at this thing, and I'm thinking, who 1130 01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 2: in God's name thought it would be a good idea 1131 01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,200 Speaker 2: to play this thing. And I and and that the 1132 01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,439 Speaker 2: play by play I was watching was in Spanish. Oh great, 1133 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:31,840 Speaker 2: so I've got I'm fairly fluent in Spanish. And even 1134 01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 2: those guys were saying like they were making fun of it, 1135 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,160 Speaker 2: was like nobody there. It looked like it literally looked 1136 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:41,880 Speaker 2: like it was being conducted in a park somewhere like uh. 1137 01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:46,160 Speaker 2: And and so the the Major League Soccer thought this 1138 01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 2: was a good idea. I'm like, what, what are you nuts? 1139 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,800 Speaker 10: Apparently, I guess they're going to get a home match 1140 01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 10: at TQL Stadium February twenty fifth against somebody. 1141 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 1: We can't wait for that. 1142 01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,840 Speaker 10: And then mL the MLS portion of the Orange and 1143 01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:03,480 Speaker 10: Blue season opens this Saturday afternoon against Atlanta United. 1144 01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:05,880 Speaker 2: You know, when they go to that new schedule, they're 1145 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,200 Speaker 2: playing those games in wintertime. I'm not sure that you 1146 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 2: know that might be the size of the crowd they're 1147 01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,360 Speaker 2: going to have for these games in winter time. As 1148 01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 2: someone pointed out to me today, this ain't London. Of course, 1149 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,680 Speaker 2: that was about the you know, royal true scandal going on, 1150 01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:21,560 Speaker 2: But this ain't London. You know where people who go 1151 01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 2: to those matches, whether it's forty below zero, or if 1152 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,480 Speaker 2: it's one hundred and ten degrees. Correct, those people are 1153 01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,919 Speaker 2: nuts over there on a lot of things, but also 1154 01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:34,440 Speaker 2: about about about soccer, Yeah, amen, football football, football, I 1155 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:35,320 Speaker 2: don't call it soccer. 1156 01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,840 Speaker 10: Cincinnati Bearcats go up against number eight Kansas Saturday. More 1157 01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:43,480 Speaker 10: tonight on the West Miller Show in studio right here 1158 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:45,440 Speaker 10: where we are at at eight o five here on 1159 01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:46,880 Speaker 10: seven hundred WLW. 1160 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:47,520 Speaker 1: Now, seg. 1161 01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:49,960 Speaker 2: I went by the Montgomery in yeah, a couple of 1162 01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,080 Speaker 2: days ago, and you're right, there's a sign that they're 1163 01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 2: remodeling inside there. 1164 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:53,880 Speaker 6: Apparently. 1165 01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,800 Speaker 10: I guess they had some kind of water main break 1166 01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,400 Speaker 10: or something there too, and well that kind of set them. 1167 01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:01,680 Speaker 1: Back, cause one to remodel anything. 1168 01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:02,240 Speaker 6: Thank you. 1169 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 10: Red's update, Chase Burns is going to start Saturday and 1170 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,680 Speaker 10: the Reds Cactus League opener up against those Guardians. 1171 01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 1: And how about do you think the Guardians are going 1172 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,800 Speaker 1: to be tipping pitches? I don't think so. 1173 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,200 Speaker 10: I think those two guys, unless they got Class A 1174 01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,600 Speaker 10: and what's his name back, who knows, they might watch 1175 01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,160 Speaker 10: out for if they got a lot of garbage cans 1176 01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 10: in that dugout can brew, watch out. 1177 01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:26,560 Speaker 2: Could be you know, They've got a lot of garbage 1178 01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:28,400 Speaker 2: cans and Houston astro hats on there. 1179 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:30,920 Speaker 1: And let's see, that's a big question. 1180 01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,920 Speaker 2: It's spring training for the for the Cleveland media or 1181 01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,479 Speaker 2: for the national media. You think they're they're flocking down there, 1182 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,400 Speaker 2: and that might be a question they may ask. 1183 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:39,280 Speaker 6: I would say so. 1184 01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,920 Speaker 2: I would say it's probably the most most dominant topic 1185 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 2: that's going on in Goodyear. 1186 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 10: Speaking of in the National Football League, Ken Brew, the 1187 01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:53,280 Speaker 10: Chicago Bears announce their intention to build a dome stadium 1188 01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 10: and north Northwest Indiana the Hammett, Indiana area. I guess 1189 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,400 Speaker 10: they're going to give Indiana or something like two billion dollars. 1190 01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,920 Speaker 1: This is so this they'll be known as the Indiana Bears. 1191 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:06,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1192 01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 10: I mean, it's I guess it's you know, it's it's 1193 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:11,520 Speaker 10: right outside of Chicago. 1194 01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:12,600 Speaker 1: But I don't know. 1195 01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,840 Speaker 10: But the Bears are going to play in Northwest Indiana, 1196 01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:19,520 Speaker 10: and Indiana's going nuts, and Illinois's going huh. 1197 01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,720 Speaker 2: I'm telling the Indiana's right up there with Los Angeles 1198 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:24,920 Speaker 2: and the Meadowlands in New Jersey. 1199 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:26,360 Speaker 1: To football teams, how. 1200 01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:27,400 Speaker 6: About this, can Brew. 1201 01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 10: The San Francisco forty nine ers going to travel over 1202 01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,480 Speaker 10: thirty eight thousand miles during the twenty twenty sixth season, 1203 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 10: the most miles of any NFL team has traveled during 1204 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 10: a single season ever. They're going to open the season 1205 01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,160 Speaker 10: down Under in Australia, They're going to play a game 1206 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:48,960 Speaker 10: in Mexico City, and I think they're going I think 1207 01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,480 Speaker 10: that's the only two. But they're going all over the place. 1208 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:54,440 Speaker 10: I hope they got frequent fire miles. 1209 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,840 Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you what the NFL is if I 1210 01:03:56,840 --> 01:04:00,200 Speaker 2: guarantee you the NFL within the next twenty years will 1211 01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:03,240 Speaker 2: play a super Bowl outside of this country and it 1212 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:04,600 Speaker 2: will be on pay per view. 1213 01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 1: I guarantee it. You're probably that's the way it's going. Yes, 1214 01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 1: I guarantee you. 1215 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,000 Speaker 2: Who is that guy that used I guarantee it the 1216 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,280 Speaker 2: suit guy that he used to make suits. I guarantee it. 1217 01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,200 Speaker 2: I guarantee it's gonna happen. You can come find me 1218 01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 2: wherever I am, come to my grave in twenty years. 1219 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:20,920 Speaker 2: That's right, And say you were right? Where do you 1220 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:22,800 Speaker 2: think it's Where do you think it might be London? 1221 01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:26,840 Speaker 2: Super You know, honestly? Where I think it might be 1222 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 2: Mexico City. You know what I was just about ready 1223 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,520 Speaker 2: to say something like that. I think it'd be Mexico City. 1224 01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:34,360 Speaker 2: Think so, Sam Sega, have you ever have you ever 1225 01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:36,080 Speaker 2: heard this song? I'll just tell me if they have. 1226 01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:39,760 Speaker 6: We've got music city. Let's go oh yeah, oh yeah. 1227 01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:40,440 Speaker 1: You know who this is? 1228 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, this is the great Bill Smokey Robinson. 1229 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:50,000 Speaker 1: Hit it. Bill, Am I right about that? Yes, here's 1230 01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 1: the clown. So I'm playing this because Smokey is eighty 1231 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,360 Speaker 1: six years old today, dud look at day over thirty nine. 1232 01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:01,480 Speaker 2: Bill Smokey Robinson is celebrating his eighty sixth birthday to day. 1233 01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:02,080 Speaker 6: How about that? 1234 01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:04,040 Speaker 1: Now a little you want a little uh one of 1235 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:06,560 Speaker 1: little story behind the song? Seig go right ahead, all right. 1236 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 2: Stevie Wonder had the instrumental part of this song written 1237 01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,360 Speaker 2: like for three years. He couldn't come up with lyrics. 1238 01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:16,880 Speaker 2: So he goes to the Motown Christmas party in nineteen 1239 01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:21,600 Speaker 2: sixty six. Christmas nineteen sixty six, and he walks up 1240 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,760 Speaker 2: to Bill Robinson. Smokey, who's there? He says, Smokey, I 1241 01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 2: got this, man, I can't I can't come up with theirs. 1242 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:28,440 Speaker 2: And Smokey says, let me let me listen to this, 1243 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,120 Speaker 2: and he heard that little Oregon Calliope sound and turned 1244 01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:34,680 Speaker 2: it into kind of a circus like thing, Tears of 1245 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:37,800 Speaker 2: a Clown, and it went to number one, number one, 1246 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 2: seg how about that? And I think at least fifteen 1247 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:42,040 Speaker 2: different countries. 1248 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:44,240 Speaker 6: Wow, I'm still getting over. 1249 01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:49,120 Speaker 10: I still remember that story you told about Frank Sinatra. 1250 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,919 Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I mean that just that. I keep thinking 1251 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 10: about that very so often. It's unbelievable. 1252 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:57,800 Speaker 1: Glenn Campbell staring at the guy. 1253 01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:58,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1254 01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:00,680 Speaker 10: And then and then it's like two minutes or two 1255 01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,240 Speaker 10: minutes to go. He sings a song and says see you. 1256 01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 1: Later, see and he either forgot the words or he 1257 01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:09,200 Speaker 1: just dooby dooby do what. He's walking out, Yeah, he's walking. 1258 01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:11,919 Speaker 1: He had a whole he had. 1259 01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:13,919 Speaker 2: A whole posse with him, like more women than men, 1260 01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:15,560 Speaker 2: and they were going to dinner. It was like a 1261 01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,560 Speaker 2: quarter nine when he got there. They waited two hours 1262 01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,880 Speaker 2: and forty five minutes for him. He did it in 1263 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,680 Speaker 2: one He did one take, yelled at Glenn Campbell for 1264 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:26,280 Speaker 2: staring at him in the studio, did a second take, 1265 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 2: and walk He says that's it, I'm done, and he 1266 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:28,959 Speaker 2: walks out the door. 1267 01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:30,160 Speaker 1: It's unbelievable. 1268 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 6: Some of those music stories. 1269 01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:36,440 Speaker 10: Eighty six years old today, Happy birthday, Yes, Smoky. 1270 01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:39,360 Speaker 2: I hope it's a good one for Smokey amen seg 1271 01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 2: What else is going on in the world of sports? 1272 01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:42,520 Speaker 1: That's all I got? Ken Brew. 1273 01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:47,160 Speaker 10: Nothing with the Bengal Olympics. Ken Brew signed Kendrick Pryor yesterday. Oh, 1274 01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,800 Speaker 10: that'll change the fate of the free world. 1275 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:54,280 Speaker 1: Nothing going on with nothing going on with the work 1276 01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:56,000 Speaker 1: stoppages in baseball or anything. 1277 01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:58,160 Speaker 10: I mean, they got a they got a new head 1278 01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,000 Speaker 10: of the Players Union. 1279 01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:04,280 Speaker 2: Oh, I can't wait for Thanksgiving Tony Clark's house. 1280 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,520 Speaker 10: Come on over, everybody. How about Christmas and let's open 1281 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:12,760 Speaker 10: up the gifts. Oh, that's gonna be a fine gathering. 1282 01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,800 Speaker 1: Now. There's certain things in life you shouldn't do. 1283 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,680 Speaker 2: There's a certain things, but there are certain things in 1284 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:20,600 Speaker 2: life you shouldn't even think about doing. 1285 01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:25,720 Speaker 10: This was his that his sister's sister, his wife's sister, 1286 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:26,560 Speaker 10: wife's sister. 1287 01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, I mean you know, I mean like 1288 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:33,920 Speaker 1: you don't like like, I don't know, Yeah, I don't know. 1289 01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,360 Speaker 2: You know the old saying, I'll clean it up a 1290 01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:40,960 Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, don't defecate where you eat. Yeah, that's 1291 01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,360 Speaker 2: an old line, right, the defecate would be you would 1292 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:48,840 Speaker 2: use a more just street worthy a word. Besides that, 1293 01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:52,919 Speaker 2: I mean, what again, what was that guy thinking? I mean, 1294 01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:54,800 Speaker 2: when did he he was good? 1295 01:07:54,920 --> 01:08:00,480 Speaker 10: He was a smart baseball player, must have gone goofy obviously, 1296 01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 10: I don't know. 1297 01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:05,520 Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm reading some comments from some 1298 01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:07,680 Speaker 2: of these baseball players in the wake of that and 1299 01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:10,320 Speaker 2: how they they think they've got the best sport from 1300 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:12,920 Speaker 2: a dollar standpoint, and there's parody among teams in this, 1301 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,360 Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, maybe it's a good thing you 1302 01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:18,760 Speaker 2: don't have that union leadership anymore, because anybody who thinks 1303 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:22,519 Speaker 2: there's parody among baseball teams right now is going in 1304 01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,720 Speaker 2: an opposite direction from reality. 1305 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:25,040 Speaker 1: That's for sure. 1306 01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:28,800 Speaker 10: I can't wait till they're sitting across the tablewout how 1307 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 10: about that salary cap that's going to go over like 1308 01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:34,280 Speaker 10: a lead balloon. And they had to bring that up 1309 01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 10: at Tony Clark's house in Thanksgiving and then continue negotiations 1310 01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:38,759 Speaker 10: at Christmas. 1311 01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,600 Speaker 2: They should send his sister in lawe to negotiate. I 1312 01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:44,280 Speaker 2: do sey get us out of the Stege report. I'm 1313 01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,519 Speaker 2: going to talk about why there are more divorces are 1314 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,560 Speaker 2: more likely you're going to get a divorce if you 1315 01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:50,400 Speaker 2: live in Kentucky than if you live in Ohio. 1316 01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,519 Speaker 10: Ken brewin Otter of the United States scoreless after a 1317 01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,840 Speaker 10: period against Canada for the gold medal. We leave you 1318 01:08:56,880 --> 01:09:00,280 Speaker 10: with the immortal words of the Stooge d Report. 1319 01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:02,640 Speaker 1: Say, I wish you the bank account of Republicans and 1320 01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:06,599 Speaker 1: the sex life of a Democrat. Chance you know what 1321 01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,000 Speaker 1: those words have held up over the test of time, 1322 01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:12,800 Speaker 1: haven't they Yes they have, Yes they have sag. I'll 1323 01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:16,840 Speaker 1: see it an hour they can soon after before on 1324 01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:18,480 Speaker 1: seven hundred WLWD. 1325 01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,360 Speaker 2: All right, welcome back, seven hundred w WELW. It is 1326 01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,439 Speaker 2: the average American and for the great American on this 1327 01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:46,000 Speaker 2: Thursday right here, not only on this great medium of 1328 01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 2: terrestrial radio, but also on the iHeartRadio app. We are nationwide, 1329 01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:53,000 Speaker 2: we are all nationwide. We're all over the world with 1330 01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:56,080 Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app. So even when you're traveling away from 1331 01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:59,960 Speaker 2: the greater Cincinnati area, you can follow us on the iHeartRadio. 1332 01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:05,280 Speaker 2: I found this staggering Oklahoma, a state that I lived 1333 01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,280 Speaker 2: in for five years. Oklahoma, where the wind comes sweeping 1334 01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:11,760 Speaker 2: down the plane has the highest divorce rate in the 1335 01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:17,679 Speaker 2: country nine point seven to one divorces per one thousand people. 1336 01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 2: Alabama is next, but also following and not that far 1337 01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:28,400 Speaker 2: behind is Kentucky. States like Mississippi, Tennessee, Delaware, West Virginia. 1338 01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:33,200 Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's staggering. It seems like an overwhelming 1339 01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:37,880 Speaker 2: number of southern tiered states have this high divorce record. Nationally, 1340 01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:43,400 Speaker 2: about one third of every married American has divorced, even 1341 01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:48,480 Speaker 2: though divorce nationwide is down since nineteen eighty. So what's 1342 01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:52,559 Speaker 2: going on in that particular of the country And why 1343 01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,639 Speaker 2: do we seem, at least in Ohio to be so stable. 1344 01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:56,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1345 01:10:56,280 --> 01:11:00,439 Speaker 2: I mean, Kentucky's only like two minutes away, right over 1346 01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:03,640 Speaker 2: the bridge. Standing by is someone who might have an 1347 01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:06,559 Speaker 2: answer to all of that. We've had Evan Shine on 1348 01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:10,479 Speaker 2: the program before. He is a divorce attorney of great note. 1349 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:15,400 Speaker 2: Note he is with Berkman, Butcker Newman and Shine. I 1350 01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:17,200 Speaker 2: think the last time we had Evan on the show, 1351 01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,439 Speaker 2: he was not listed. He may have did he just 1352 01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:21,760 Speaker 2: make partner. We have to find out these things. At 1353 01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,120 Speaker 2: any event, Let's welcome Evan into the program. Evan, how 1354 01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:26,160 Speaker 2: are you on this glorious Thursday. 1355 01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,640 Speaker 7: I'm doing fantastic. It's great to be with you in 1356 01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:29,160 Speaker 7: your audience. 1357 01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,280 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think the last time we had you 1358 01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:33,680 Speaker 2: on the show. Were you part of the Were you 1359 01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:35,000 Speaker 2: a partner in that practice? 1360 01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:36,240 Speaker 5: No? One. 1361 01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:37,720 Speaker 7: There's been a lot of change it not only in 1362 01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:39,920 Speaker 7: the divorce rateing you touch on that, but also in 1363 01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:41,280 Speaker 7: the firm name. It's been a little bit. 1364 01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:44,400 Speaker 2: Well, congratulations to you on that. Now, what does that 1365 01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:46,400 Speaker 2: mean besides you had to put up some money to get. 1366 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:51,640 Speaker 7: In exactly right, it's some money, and it's the responsibility 1367 01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:54,679 Speaker 7: and it's you know, the headaches morning to night. But overall, 1368 01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:57,240 Speaker 7: now I appreciate that, and it's it's been great. 1369 01:11:57,320 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 2: So there's good money in divorce and divorce law, isn't there? 1370 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:01,439 Speaker 2: I mean I know a little bit about it that 1371 01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:02,400 Speaker 2: there's money in that. 1372 01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:02,800 Speaker 1: Isn't there? 1373 01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:08,000 Speaker 7: Well, look, it's a recession proof business, and good times, 1374 01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:11,520 Speaker 7: bad times, good economy, bad economy. People are always finding. 1375 01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:12,280 Speaker 1: Something to target about it. 1376 01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:14,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right up there with funeral directors. You're a 1377 01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 2: recession proof business. Okay, what is it about? Like Kentucky 1378 01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:23,080 Speaker 2: is literally right across the river from where I'm sitting 1379 01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:26,120 Speaker 2: here in Ohio. Why does Kentucky have such a high 1380 01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:27,760 Speaker 2: divorce rate in your opinion. 1381 01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:32,240 Speaker 7: That's a great question. There's statistics. I'm a big numbers guy, 1382 01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,240 Speaker 7: a big statistics guy. This is just one of those 1383 01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:39,240 Speaker 7: statistics that I wouldn't really put too much stock into. 1384 01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:44,400 Speaker 7: And so before anyone crosses off Kentucky, Oklahoma, Ohio off 1385 01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:48,719 Speaker 7: their you know, list on places to move and to resign, 1386 01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:51,200 Speaker 7: take a step back. At the end of the day, 1387 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:56,320 Speaker 7: people everywhere have similar relationship challenges. To me, it doesn't 1388 01:12:56,320 --> 01:12:59,200 Speaker 7: matter where you live, it's about how you live. So 1389 01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:04,800 Speaker 7: many people are dealing with social, economical, cultural pressures that 1390 01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:09,400 Speaker 7: are not unique to a particular state like Kentucky. Everyone 1391 01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:12,240 Speaker 7: across America is feeling it. And you touch upon it 1392 01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:16,519 Speaker 7: the divorce rate. While it's down nationally, it's still something 1393 01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:19,040 Speaker 7: that so many people are going through, and to me, 1394 01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,719 Speaker 7: it's not unique to a particular geographic location. 1395 01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:24,240 Speaker 2: Well, it could also have to do with population too. 1396 01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:28,200 Speaker 2: I mean, Oklahoma is a relatively small state. Kentucky population wise, 1397 01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:30,360 Speaker 2: is a relatively small state, and I suppose when you 1398 01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:35,640 Speaker 2: get into percentages, small versus large is equated into that. 1399 01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 2: But still, in all you're not talking about a lot 1400 01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:39,840 Speaker 2: of people, which means you're not talking about a lot 1401 01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:43,200 Speaker 2: of marriages in those particular states. Does that have anything 1402 01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:43,720 Speaker 2: to do with it? 1403 01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 7: I think you're spot on. And the reporting methods, demographics, 1404 01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:54,160 Speaker 7: external factors, I think also, yeah, you see that plays 1405 01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:56,839 Speaker 7: a role. But I think, like any statistic, like any survey, 1406 01:13:56,920 --> 01:14:00,760 Speaker 7: you want to know who was interviewed, how many people population, 1407 01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:04,799 Speaker 7: the comparisons, it's not just the number and the statistic. 1408 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 7: And look when I read this, it's on popping right, 1409 01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:10,240 Speaker 7: and I'm sure so many people crossed off all these 1410 01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:13,960 Speaker 7: places off there, you know, list of places to move. 1411 01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:16,080 Speaker 7: But I would say splow down a bit, not so 1412 01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:19,240 Speaker 7: fast with any statistic. There's more to it than the 1413 01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:20,240 Speaker 7: headline you're going to read. 1414 01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:22,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not trying to get too deep into pop 1415 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,800 Speaker 2: culture here, but I'll live five years in Oklahoma. There's 1416 01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:27,479 Speaker 2: not a lot going on out there. It's a very 1417 01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:30,120 Speaker 2: nice state, but it's oil and cattle. I mean, that's 1418 01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:34,120 Speaker 2: that's basically it in Oklahoma. So there may not be 1419 01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,599 Speaker 2: a lot of things to do out there except maybe 1420 01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:41,080 Speaker 2: get involved with somebody else. I don't know, does that 1421 01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:43,360 Speaker 2: factor in. I mean, you know, I'm looking at at 1422 01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:51,000 Speaker 2: places like Mississippi, New Hampshire. I mean, you know, you 1423 01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:54,080 Speaker 2: can ski in New Hampshire. Mississippi has got some casinos 1424 01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:57,639 Speaker 2: and it's down by the water. West Virginia is landlocked again, 1425 01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:00,599 Speaker 2: not a very populated state. I I don't know does 1426 01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:04,919 Speaker 2: does does pop culture does what you can the ability 1427 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:05,759 Speaker 2: to do something? 1428 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:06,880 Speaker 1: Does that have anything to. 1429 01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:07,080 Speaker 7: Do with it? 1430 01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:07,679 Speaker 1: In your opinion? 1431 01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:11,240 Speaker 7: I think it does. I think Look, the more access 1432 01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:15,360 Speaker 7: the things you have, I think sure. I think it 1433 01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:19,080 Speaker 7: piques in individuals interest, right, you know, to explore, to 1434 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,320 Speaker 7: you know, find you know, new things, to try new things. 1435 01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:25,280 Speaker 7: I think that's not only true in relationships and marriages, 1436 01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:28,040 Speaker 7: but in life in general. And at the end of 1437 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:33,280 Speaker 7: the day, I think you could talk to people from Kentucky, 1438 01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:36,000 Speaker 7: from Oklahoma, and you can talk to people from all 1439 01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:40,840 Speaker 7: around the country. There is opportunity no matter where you look. 1440 01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:42,960 Speaker 7: And at the end of the day, for the same 1441 01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:47,040 Speaker 7: couple who you know is totally content and happily married 1442 01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:50,400 Speaker 7: and is going to stay married for fifty years because 1443 01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,360 Speaker 7: there's not much to do, You're going to find another 1444 01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:56,320 Speaker 7: couple who is totally bored for that exact you know, 1445 01:15:56,880 --> 01:15:59,200 Speaker 7: thing set of circumstances, and they're going to look for 1446 01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:02,240 Speaker 7: something else. One of the benefits of being a divorce attorney. 1447 01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:05,920 Speaker 7: I get an inside and unique look into everybody's life. 1448 01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:09,559 Speaker 7: And you know, I'm always careful to generalize right when 1449 01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:12,160 Speaker 7: it comes to divorce, because every family is different, every 1450 01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:16,960 Speaker 7: situation is unique, every fat pattern is different and unique. 1451 01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:20,680 Speaker 7: And so I see situations time and time again that 1452 01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:25,200 Speaker 7: leave my head scratching, because again, you can think about 1453 01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:28,400 Speaker 7: so many different scenarios and examples, and for one couple 1454 01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:30,800 Speaker 7: it works, and for another couple it doesn't work. 1455 01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,200 Speaker 1: Is infidelity sex? 1456 01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:38,000 Speaker 2: I suppose is that the number one cause of a divorce, 1457 01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:40,519 Speaker 2: that kind of infidelity? 1458 01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:44,880 Speaker 7: It's a great question. So infidelity, I wouldn't say it's 1459 01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:47,160 Speaker 7: a number one cause. I think it ends up being 1460 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:51,160 Speaker 7: the fallout and the result of what happens during the marriage. 1461 01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:54,520 Speaker 7: For many people, it could be a lack of a communication, 1462 01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:57,479 Speaker 7: it could be a lack of trust. It's usually the 1463 01:16:57,600 --> 01:17:01,799 Speaker 7: result of something in the marriage that just doesn't get addressed. 1464 01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:04,680 Speaker 7: And I think of infidelity. You think about a crack, right. 1465 01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:07,400 Speaker 7: If you have a crack and you don't treat it 1466 01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:11,400 Speaker 7: and you don't fix it, over time, that crack just 1467 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 7: gets bigger. That crack gets wider and it expands. If 1468 01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:17,760 Speaker 7: you treat it, you can fix the crack. That's sort 1469 01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:21,440 Speaker 7: of how I think about marriages and relationships and infidelity. 1470 01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:23,920 Speaker 7: If you don't treat the root of the problem and 1471 01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:27,000 Speaker 7: really the crux of the issue in a marriage, for 1472 01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:28,880 Speaker 7: many people, it leaves insibility. 1473 01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is basic research from the National Institute of Health. 1474 01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:38,280 Speaker 2: But financial infidelity is on the rise. And I wonder 1475 01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:40,679 Speaker 2: if that has anything to do with people getting married 1476 01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:44,599 Speaker 2: later in life and both sides bringing some sort of 1477 01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:47,400 Speaker 2: wealth into the marriage, and then all of a sudden 1478 01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:52,680 Speaker 2: somebody is extracting funds from somebody else's money. I have 1479 01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 2: a feeling that financial infidelity, although maybe not up there 1480 01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:00,840 Speaker 2: with sexual infidelity, but financial infidelity is on the rise. 1481 01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:01,559 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? 1482 01:18:02,920 --> 01:18:05,200 Speaker 7: You're not wrong at all, And I would say, based 1483 01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:08,720 Speaker 7: on what I'm seeing, we're getting pretty close. Financial infidelity 1484 01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:12,360 Speaker 7: in the past five to ten years is becoming something 1485 01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:17,360 Speaker 7: that in almost in nearly every consultation I deal with 1486 01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:23,120 Speaker 7: the client, there is some aspect of financial infidelity, financial control, 1487 01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 7: one spouse being in the dark when it comes to 1488 01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,559 Speaker 7: money or the assets, and I think you're seeing that 1489 01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:32,040 Speaker 7: play out over and over and over and as we're 1490 01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:35,120 Speaker 7: getting more used to and accustomed to those examples. And 1491 01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:38,000 Speaker 7: I think you mentioned pop culture before, more people are 1492 01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:41,360 Speaker 7: talking about it on social media and TikTok and Instagram, 1493 01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:45,040 Speaker 7: and it's, you know, the stigma that's used to be 1494 01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:48,080 Speaker 7: attached to it. It doesn't exist nearly to the extent 1495 01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:51,439 Speaker 7: you used to, and so people are becoming comfortable talking 1496 01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:54,760 Speaker 7: about it, tackling it, dealing with it head on. And 1497 01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:57,519 Speaker 7: you were seeing a tremendous rise in the number of 1498 01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:02,120 Speaker 7: marriages and relationships that fall part because of financial infidelity. 1499 01:19:02,360 --> 01:19:04,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I would guess, and I don't know. Again, 1500 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:07,320 Speaker 2: this is broad brush and it's anecdotal, but a lot 1501 01:19:07,360 --> 01:19:10,439 Speaker 2: of it may fall back to communication. People fall into lust, 1502 01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:12,840 Speaker 2: as you well know, Evan, before they fall into love, 1503 01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:16,320 Speaker 2: and if love doesn't follow lust, then people say, Okay, 1504 01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,280 Speaker 2: we want to make this commitment. We want to get married. 1505 01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,360 Speaker 2: I don't want my family being judgmental. I'm sleeping with her, 1506 01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:24,280 Speaker 2: he's sleeping with me. We want to make this thing 1507 01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:27,240 Speaker 2: legal that they just don't think ahead of time. Well, 1508 01:19:27,240 --> 01:19:30,120 Speaker 2: what would the ramifications be if one day we wake 1509 01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:31,720 Speaker 2: up and look at the other and say, who the 1510 01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:33,599 Speaker 2: hell are you? And how did you get into my house? 1511 01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,480 Speaker 2: I think communication has a lot to do with preventing 1512 01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:43,840 Speaker 2: eventual infidelity, sex financers or whatever. Again, I've never been 1513 01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:46,439 Speaker 2: involved in anything like that, but I'm just wondering if 1514 01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:49,920 Speaker 2: that would be a legal road into what you deal with. 1515 01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:54,400 Speaker 7: Absolutely, the longer I do this, the more I am 1516 01:19:54,439 --> 01:19:59,000 Speaker 7: convinced that people enter marriage without a clue as to 1517 01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:01,360 Speaker 7: what marriage and tell right, Because at the end of 1518 01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:04,280 Speaker 7: the day, nobody gets married thinking they're going to get divorced. 1519 01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:07,200 Speaker 7: And the honeymoon phase that everyone. 1520 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,040 Speaker 5: Loves, we all love it, it. 1521 01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:12,480 Speaker 7: Doesn't last forever. So there's no playbook, there is no guide, 1522 01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:14,679 Speaker 7: and so at the end of the day, have those 1523 01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:18,320 Speaker 7: tough conversations before you get married, talk about where you 1524 01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,960 Speaker 7: want to lay expectations, do you want to have children, 1525 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:24,719 Speaker 7: how many children, jobs, all those things. Have those hard 1526 01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:29,360 Speaker 7: conversations because the divorce rate, it's time, whether it's forty percent, 1527 01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,960 Speaker 7: fifty percent, you know, it's one of those things that 1528 01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:36,160 Speaker 7: you ask would you enter into something knowing that the 1529 01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:39,720 Speaker 7: odds are fifty percent right, it's not going to work out? 1530 01:20:39,840 --> 01:20:42,679 Speaker 7: I mean those are pretty high odds, and yet, time 1531 01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,200 Speaker 7: and time again, marriage is just one of those things 1532 01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:48,479 Speaker 7: that people sign up for over and over and over 1533 01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:52,200 Speaker 7: again get They don't enter into it with the understanding 1534 01:20:52,600 --> 01:20:55,320 Speaker 7: that it's work. It takes commitment, It. 1535 01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:59,360 Speaker 11: Takes having the tough conversations that may not be sexy 1536 01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:03,240 Speaker 11: or romantic, but they are so incredibly important, and they 1537 01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:05,679 Speaker 11: build communication and they build trust. 1538 01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:09,200 Speaker 7: And having those conversations before you're married or in the 1539 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,599 Speaker 7: early stages of marriage is the key to staying out 1540 01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:14,000 Speaker 7: of a divorce attorney's office. 1541 01:21:14,360 --> 01:21:18,760 Speaker 2: Evan Shine's our guest recognized authority on matrimonial law and 1542 01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:21,200 Speaker 2: litigation in the Great State of New York. He is 1543 01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:23,720 Speaker 2: literally the last person you want to look at when 1544 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,120 Speaker 2: you walk into some sort of domestic abuse and you 1545 01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:28,880 Speaker 2: look across and at the other table, Evan Shine is 1546 01:21:28,920 --> 01:21:31,880 Speaker 2: sitting there. All other divorce attorneys kind of cower when 1547 01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:32,599 Speaker 2: you're in a courtroom. 1548 01:21:32,640 --> 01:21:33,080 Speaker 1: Am I right? 1549 01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:33,360 Speaker 2: Evan? 1550 01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know I appreciate that. It's you know, look, 1551 01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:41,720 Speaker 7: I spend more time in the courtroom than I do 1552 01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:44,479 Speaker 7: my own, you know, living room, And you know it's 1553 01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:49,000 Speaker 7: you're seeing a rise in litigated you know, divorce matters, contested, 1554 01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:52,440 Speaker 7: you know, divorces. You're seeing a rise of financial incidelity 1555 01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:54,960 Speaker 7: all sorts of things that contribute to the breakdown of 1556 01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:56,719 Speaker 7: people's relationships and marriages. 1557 01:21:56,920 --> 01:22:00,880 Speaker 1: Well, have you ever encountered And again, my knowledge of 1558 01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:05,200 Speaker 1: matrimonial law is slim and none. I'm just have you 1559 01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:08,559 Speaker 1: ever encountered someone that comes to you and says, look, 1560 01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:12,400 Speaker 1: I want to keep my marriage together, I want to 1561 01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:14,840 Speaker 1: work I want to work this thing out. And the 1562 01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:17,800 Speaker 1: other side maybe is saying no, I'm done. 1563 01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:19,719 Speaker 2: I don't want to do that, And then you work 1564 01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:22,080 Speaker 2: with the other attorney to bring the couple together kind 1565 01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:25,559 Speaker 2: of like I don't know, kind of like marriage counselors. 1566 01:22:25,560 --> 01:22:26,360 Speaker 1: Does that ever happen? 1567 01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:28,960 Speaker 2: Or with a minute somebody walks into your office, it's over, 1568 01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:29,519 Speaker 2: it's done with. 1569 01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:32,920 Speaker 5: So it's a big question, you know. 1570 01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:35,760 Speaker 7: I often wear multiple hats, right, And couple's counselor or 1571 01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:39,639 Speaker 7: therapists is often one aware, right, And I tell everyone 1572 01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,920 Speaker 7: who comes in divorce is a last resort. Make sure 1573 01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,479 Speaker 7: you've thought about it right. Once you ring that bell, 1574 01:22:46,120 --> 01:22:49,759 Speaker 7: you can't on a ring it right. Try therapy, Try counseling, 1575 01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:53,559 Speaker 7: go to marital counseling sessions, give it everything you have. 1576 01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:56,519 Speaker 7: And maybe you've done that before. You've already come into 1577 01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,479 Speaker 7: my office and if you have and someone's going through 1578 01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:02,960 Speaker 7: the motion and not really participating, and you can tell 1579 01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:05,120 Speaker 7: someone who doesn't want to be there and you know 1580 01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:08,479 Speaker 7: that and you have exhausted all steps and efforts, then 1581 01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:10,560 Speaker 7: you've made that decision. But if you come in to 1582 01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:13,240 Speaker 7: see me and you're on the fence, I'll say, look, 1583 01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:15,639 Speaker 7: go home, think about it. You don't need to make 1584 01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 7: a decision right now. Divorce is always going to be 1585 01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:21,519 Speaker 7: an option, but make sure that this is something you want, 1586 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:25,080 Speaker 7: this is something that you feel comfortable, because again, once 1587 01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:27,920 Speaker 7: you make that step and take that leap, it's very 1588 01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:28,879 Speaker 7: hard to go backwards. 1589 01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:31,640 Speaker 2: So, Evan Sehan, what I'm hearing for you from you 1590 01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:34,559 Speaker 2: is that if you're two people who are committed to 1591 01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:37,640 Speaker 2: each other, you love each other, that you want to 1592 01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:39,599 Speaker 2: get me, want to stay married, you want to raise 1593 01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:42,160 Speaker 2: a family, you want to put down roots. That Kentucky's 1594 01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:45,040 Speaker 2: not a bad place, right It doesn't necessarily mean the 1595 01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:47,559 Speaker 2: state has got something wrong with it. It just means 1596 01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:50,680 Speaker 2: there could be some people in there that have something 1597 01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:53,920 Speaker 2: wrong with them. So it's not the turf. It may 1598 01:23:53,960 --> 01:23:55,720 Speaker 2: be the people that are living on the turf. Am 1599 01:23:55,760 --> 01:23:56,639 Speaker 2: I hearing you right on. 1600 01:23:56,600 --> 01:24:00,360 Speaker 7: This you're hearing me exactly exactly right, from a great 1601 01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:02,920 Speaker 7: football to the great basketball to the great people in 1602 01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:04,760 Speaker 7: the state of Kentucky. Look, if you live there, you 1603 01:24:04,760 --> 01:24:06,040 Speaker 7: don't need to book your ticket. 1604 01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:09,080 Speaker 11: And you know out of the state, it's not the state, 1605 01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:12,000 Speaker 11: it is the people and the issues that so many 1606 01:24:12,040 --> 01:24:12,519 Speaker 11: people have. 1607 01:24:12,840 --> 01:24:14,719 Speaker 7: No matter where you're living there. 1608 01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:18,080 Speaker 2: You go all right, Evan, you're with Berkman, Botker, Newman 1609 01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:21,519 Speaker 2: and Shine. So forget about the Bodker and Newman. They're 1610 01:24:21,520 --> 01:24:24,280 Speaker 2: not going to help you out. Just go straight to Evan. 1611 01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 2: If you ever lived in New York and all of 1612 01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 2: a sudden it goes south, this is your guy right here. 1613 01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:31,320 Speaker 1: Hey, listen, thanks for the time and the insight. Appreciate it. 1614 01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:33,960 Speaker 7: I appreciate it. Thanks for having me on. 1615 01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:37,400 Speaker 2: You bet yes, sir, Evan Shine. He has come a 1616 01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:40,080 Speaker 2: long way in his own partnership. 1617 01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:41,559 Speaker 1: But it's true. 1618 01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:45,200 Speaker 2: If you look at the statistics, nine point seven to 1619 01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:48,120 Speaker 2: one divorces per one thousand people. I'm not sure how 1620 01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:50,599 Speaker 2: they arrived at that. It's an odd number because normally 1621 01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:54,920 Speaker 2: it takes two to divorce, but neverthele what Nevertheless, in Oklahoma, 1622 01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:58,760 Speaker 2: that's the divorce race, followed by Alabama eight point eight 1623 01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:01,200 Speaker 2: oh and Nevada eight point seventy five. And then you 1624 01:25:01,240 --> 01:25:04,320 Speaker 2: get into the states that are immediately behind them, and 1625 01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:08,040 Speaker 2: that's the Mississippis, the Tennessees, the Delawares, the West Virginia's 1626 01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:14,360 Speaker 2: New Hampshire, and Kentucky. As of February of this year, Well, 1627 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:19,320 Speaker 2: that would be right now, wouldn't it. Analysis by Tara II, 1628 01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:23,320 Speaker 2: which apparently as a research firm, identified Oklahoma as the 1629 01:25:23,400 --> 01:25:27,120 Speaker 2: clear leader in divorces nationally about one third every year, 1630 01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:31,679 Speaker 2: the one third of every marriage has divorced. The NIH 1631 01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:35,720 Speaker 2: says lack of commitment seventy five percent, that would be 1632 01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:39,280 Speaker 2: sexual infidelity, conflict fifty eight percent means you know, you 1633 01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:41,680 Speaker 2: can't get along with each other, just wake up in. 1634 01:25:41,640 --> 01:25:43,720 Speaker 1: The morning and say, oh my god, what did I do? 1635 01:25:44,680 --> 01:25:49,760 Speaker 2: And financial problems, which again I think financial infidelity is 1636 01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:52,280 Speaker 2: starting to creep up the chain. People are getting married 1637 01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:56,439 Speaker 2: later in life. It's not one side is dependent on 1638 01:25:56,560 --> 01:26:01,439 Speaker 2: the other for financial stability. Because people are getting married 1639 01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:05,760 Speaker 2: later in life, they're both bringing something to the table financially, 1640 01:26:05,800 --> 01:26:08,519 Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden, you know, bill start 1641 01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:12,200 Speaker 2: coming in, checks keep getting written, and what what where. 1642 01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:12,479 Speaker 1: Is this going. 1643 01:26:12,479 --> 01:26:17,240 Speaker 2: Where's this money going? But anyway, us marriages are not 1644 01:26:17,520 --> 01:26:21,559 Speaker 2: only later in life, they're also down to historical lows. 1645 01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:24,160 Speaker 2: About half of adults whore currently married. That's down from 1646 01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:26,320 Speaker 2: two thirds back in the bad old days of the 1647 01:26:26,400 --> 01:26:30,480 Speaker 2: nineteen fifties. Coming up on two twenty four, on this Thursday, 1648 01:26:30,720 --> 01:26:33,160 Speaker 2: it is great to have you with us as always 1649 01:26:33,400 --> 01:26:38,599 Speaker 2: on this fifty thousand won mother Flamethrower seven hundred w 1650 01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:39,160 Speaker 2: l W. 1651 01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:44,519 Speaker 9: When you pull on that jersey, you represent yourself and 1652 01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:46,679 Speaker 9: your key days and a name on up. 1653 01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,720 Speaker 10: Front is a hell of a lot more important than 1654 01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:49,559 Speaker 10: the one and up back. 1655 01:26:53,920 --> 01:27:00,880 Speaker 5: Hello, Piet and I'm broadcasting. 1656 01:27:01,200 --> 01:27:04,240 Speaker 10: Guy seg Who was that Kurt Russell or Carl Maldon? 1657 01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:08,160 Speaker 10: That was a Kurt Russell and the movie Miracle as 1658 01:27:08,240 --> 01:27:10,960 Speaker 10: Herb Brooks good movie. Did a great job in that one. 1659 01:27:11,640 --> 01:27:15,240 Speaker 10: He was the honorary pace car driver for the Daytona 1660 01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:16,240 Speaker 10: five hundred Sunday. 1661 01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:16,840 Speaker 6: Kurt Russell. 1662 01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,559 Speaker 1: Well, it was better in that movie, that's true. I 1663 01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:21,080 Speaker 1: liked him a lot. That was a good That was 1664 01:27:21,080 --> 01:27:21,799 Speaker 1: a good portrayal. 1665 01:27:21,840 --> 01:27:24,160 Speaker 2: I liked the documentary that what was it Netflix did 1666 01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:26,040 Speaker 2: on them on the eighty hockey team? 1667 01:27:26,120 --> 01:27:27,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that a lot well. 1668 01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:30,360 Speaker 10: Ken Brew the stood Report as a proud service of 1669 01:27:30,400 --> 01:27:35,320 Speaker 10: your local Tamestar Heating and air conditioning dealers. Tamestar quality 1670 01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:38,120 Speaker 10: you could feel in northern Kentucky, oh any weather heating 1671 01:27:38,160 --> 01:27:42,640 Speaker 10: and air at eight seven eight, one forty eight and 1672 01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:43,599 Speaker 10: a twenty two. 1673 01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:46,120 Speaker 1: Spot fixt thing you had colder seg. 1674 01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:49,320 Speaker 2: They knew that anybody that has heating problems may want 1675 01:27:49,320 --> 01:27:50,040 Speaker 2: to call soon. 1676 01:27:50,280 --> 01:27:52,479 Speaker 10: Any weather heating and air get it done in temstar 1677 01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:53,679 Speaker 10: quality you could feel. 1678 01:27:53,920 --> 01:27:56,000 Speaker 2: I could feel it right now. It's sending a little 1679 01:27:56,040 --> 01:27:57,479 Speaker 2: tingling feeling up my leg. 1680 01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:02,920 Speaker 10: After a two periods in Milan women's hockey gold medal game, 1681 01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:06,200 Speaker 10: Canada scores a short handed goal in the second period. 1682 01:28:06,800 --> 01:28:10,080 Speaker 10: They lead with one to go, one mill over the 1683 01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:11,080 Speaker 10: United States. 1684 01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, the Canadian women are pushing the American women around. 1685 01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:14,599 Speaker 2: I don't know what they are. 1686 01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:15,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1687 01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:16,320 Speaker 6: I don't know what the heck's going on. 1688 01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:18,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on there either, But the 1689 01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:20,040 Speaker 2: American women need to start standing. 1690 01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:20,520 Speaker 1: Up for themselves. 1691 01:28:21,160 --> 01:28:21,599 Speaker 6: Let's see. 1692 01:28:21,920 --> 01:28:26,120 Speaker 10: Jordan Stoltz bid for a third gold medal, came up short. 1693 01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:29,479 Speaker 10: He got a silver medal in the men's fifteen hundred 1694 01:28:29,479 --> 01:28:35,600 Speaker 10: speed skating these guys flying Lawrenceburg's Nick Gepper and halfpipe 1695 01:28:35,640 --> 01:28:40,160 Speaker 10: competition along with Cincinnati's Connor Curran and men's aerials are 1696 01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:44,599 Speaker 10: set to go today, but both events postponed by heavy snow. 1697 01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:48,000 Speaker 10: Do you think maybe the problem is that they need 1698 01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:50,760 Speaker 10: a full pipe. You guys only got a half pipe. 1699 01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:52,080 Speaker 10: There's only so much you can put. 1700 01:28:51,960 --> 01:28:52,360 Speaker 4: It in, you know what. 1701 01:28:52,400 --> 01:28:53,120 Speaker 6: That's probably what it is. 1702 01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:55,040 Speaker 10: They're probably waiting for the other half to show up 1703 01:28:55,080 --> 01:28:56,439 Speaker 10: from the FedEx or something. 1704 01:28:56,560 --> 01:28:59,760 Speaker 1: I mean at DHL. Why go halfpipe when he can 1705 01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:03,200 Speaker 1: go amen both events. I went to college with a 1706 01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:07,280 Speaker 1: guy that used to say that both events are now 1707 01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:12,240 Speaker 1: set for tomorrow morning all our time. Yes, oh, US 1708 01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:15,759 Speaker 1: men's hockey team. Yeah, well battle Slovakia in the semi 1709 01:29:15,760 --> 01:29:20,719 Speaker 1: finals tomorrow. That gold medal matches eight am on Sunday mornings. 1710 01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:23,680 Speaker 10: Since he time, that means it could end in the 1711 01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:27,920 Speaker 10: middle of a Sunday morning's fall. My goodness, gracious, you'll 1712 01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:34,160 Speaker 10: have Oh well, I mean radio audience will be gigantic. 1713 01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:37,080 Speaker 2: What are we talking about you? We're talking Canada and 1714 01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:39,719 Speaker 2: the United States? And man, is that what the chalk says? 1715 01:29:40,320 --> 01:29:44,040 Speaker 10: Yes, a team USA and Slovakian in Canada and Finland. 1716 01:29:44,439 --> 01:29:46,599 Speaker 10: Don't know if Canada is going to have Sidney Crosby. 1717 01:29:46,640 --> 01:29:50,479 Speaker 10: He got hurt yesterday, so but they say he may play. 1718 01:29:50,560 --> 01:29:53,720 Speaker 10: But if I'm the Pittsburgh Penguins, I'm thinking to get 1719 01:29:53,800 --> 01:29:58,040 Speaker 10: him right because the NHL season resumes, what Monday or Tuesday. 1720 01:29:58,479 --> 01:29:59,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying. 1721 01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:01,960 Speaker 2: The Canadian team is coached by John Cooper, the head 1722 01:30:01,960 --> 01:30:03,360 Speaker 2: coach of the Tampa Bay Lightning. 1723 01:30:03,479 --> 01:30:06,200 Speaker 10: You know, the dang defined good hockey and you know 1724 01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:08,920 Speaker 10: what he was. He had no business in hockey. He 1725 01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:12,920 Speaker 10: was a lawyer, right. I heard that story yesterday. I thinking, 1726 01:30:13,439 --> 01:30:16,439 Speaker 10: but he goes from being a lawyer in court to 1727 01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:20,040 Speaker 10: winning Stanley Cups with Tampa Bay Unreal. 1728 01:30:20,360 --> 01:30:23,519 Speaker 2: I don't even think he can skate. I don't know 1729 01:30:23,840 --> 01:30:24,880 Speaker 2: you can skate. I've seen him. 1730 01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:29,560 Speaker 10: Let's see soccer FC Cincinnati four nil over O and 1731 01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:34,479 Speaker 10: m FC and that first round the Conka Calf Champions 1732 01:30:34,560 --> 01:30:37,439 Speaker 10: Cup Series in front of a packed house in the 1733 01:30:37,479 --> 01:30:38,560 Speaker 10: Dominican Republic. 1734 01:30:39,160 --> 01:30:43,240 Speaker 2: Do you think maybe that nobody there, that FC Cincinnati 1735 01:30:43,439 --> 01:30:46,679 Speaker 2: stayed in an all inclusive down there in the Dominican 1736 01:30:46,760 --> 01:30:49,640 Speaker 2: like at Point of Conna. They went down there, they 1737 01:30:49,680 --> 01:30:52,439 Speaker 2: came down. They stayed in the All inclusive. Yeah, a 1738 01:30:52,479 --> 01:30:55,160 Speaker 2: little uh, you know, a little pig ros for dinner 1739 01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:58,439 Speaker 2: and then you know, maybe some my ties out by 1740 01:30:58,479 --> 01:31:00,600 Speaker 2: the beach and then they go and they played that 1741 01:31:00,640 --> 01:31:01,439 Speaker 2: game last night. 1742 01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:02,439 Speaker 1: I could see that happening. 1743 01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:06,080 Speaker 10: Let's see, Roman Celtano did not face a shot on 1744 01:31:06,200 --> 01:31:07,360 Speaker 10: goal the entire match. 1745 01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:09,679 Speaker 1: Well, that might be the other team didn't have anybody 1746 01:31:09,680 --> 01:31:10,559 Speaker 1: who could shoot the ball. 1747 01:31:10,640 --> 01:31:11,599 Speaker 6: That might be history. 1748 01:31:12,040 --> 01:31:14,280 Speaker 2: I mean that looked like literally, it looked like they 1749 01:31:14,280 --> 01:31:17,240 Speaker 2: were FC Cincinnati was playing a team you could find 1750 01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:20,519 Speaker 2: on any soccer field in cincinn a pickup game. 1751 01:31:22,360 --> 01:31:25,879 Speaker 10: FC will open their the MLS portion of their season 1752 01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 10: this Saturday at t QL Stadium four to forty five 1753 01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:34,200 Speaker 10: is a match time against Atlanta United. 1754 01:31:34,320 --> 01:31:37,759 Speaker 1: And you know what, Atlanta United just signed Sergio Santos. 1755 01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:39,479 Speaker 10: That's right. I was just about to say that, that's right. 1756 01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:42,280 Speaker 10: They got a former Orange and Blue member right there. 1757 01:31:42,880 --> 01:31:47,160 Speaker 10: And I think on they said the February twenty fifth, 1758 01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:51,160 Speaker 10: they will have a second round Champions Cup series here 1759 01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:53,719 Speaker 10: in Cincinnati against an unnamed opponent. 1760 01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:55,599 Speaker 2: So far, I thought it was the same team they 1761 01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:59,040 Speaker 2: played last night, as maybe it is, well, maybe a 1762 01:31:59,120 --> 01:32:00,960 Speaker 2: team they played last and I just said, look, you know, 1763 01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:05,360 Speaker 2: we'll just stay here. Yeah. Yeah, I said it was 1764 01:32:05,400 --> 01:32:08,000 Speaker 2: like seventy five last night. Maybe they said, look, we're good, 1765 01:32:08,040 --> 01:32:09,120 Speaker 2: we don't need to come up there. 1766 01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:12,439 Speaker 10: Cincinnati Bearcat's going to face eight three at Kansas Saturday. 1767 01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:15,000 Speaker 10: Good look, get more tonight on the West Miller Show 1768 01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:17,720 Speaker 10: and Studio right here and Ken what at eight o 1769 01:32:17,840 --> 01:32:21,200 Speaker 10: five on seven hundred WLW Red's update, ken Brew. They're 1770 01:32:21,200 --> 01:32:24,000 Speaker 10: getting ready for that Cactus League opener Saturday against the 1771 01:32:24,040 --> 01:32:27,400 Speaker 10: Guardians action on Fox Sports thirteen sixty. 1772 01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:30,200 Speaker 6: Chase Burns will be the starting pitcher. 1773 01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:34,080 Speaker 2: Now, Sega, if I'm not mistaken, follow in my life. 1774 01:32:34,200 --> 01:32:36,960 Speaker 2: I say that and then I am completely mistaken. 1775 01:32:37,160 --> 01:32:39,120 Speaker 1: Okay, but. 1776 01:32:40,640 --> 01:32:45,800 Speaker 2: Kansas, right, they're coached by Bill Seife. Yes, I'm out Bill, 1777 01:32:45,840 --> 01:32:46,879 Speaker 2: I'm out for myself. 1778 01:32:46,960 --> 01:32:47,200 Speaker 1: Yes. 1779 01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:50,320 Speaker 2: And they've got this terrific freshman player. I've seen him 1780 01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:51,720 Speaker 2: a lot. His name is Darren Peterson. 1781 01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:54,000 Speaker 6: He's the guy that hardly plays right. 1782 01:32:54,320 --> 01:32:57,880 Speaker 2: He went off, he got twenty three against Oklahoma State 1783 01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:00,400 Speaker 2: last night and then sat down. I think he was 1784 01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:04,000 Speaker 2: cramping or something, but itself said, I'm not I'm not 1785 01:33:04,040 --> 01:33:08,040 Speaker 2: concerned about him playing on after this game. And playing 1786 01:33:08,080 --> 01:33:11,600 Speaker 2: against Cincinnati, So they're going to face this kid. This 1787 01:33:11,720 --> 01:33:13,240 Speaker 2: kid is a really terrific player. 1788 01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:14,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what his season has 1789 01:33:14,960 --> 01:33:15,400 Speaker 1: been like. 1790 01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:19,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, if he's you know, going 1791 01:33:20,000 --> 01:33:23,840 Speaker 2: to have an afterlife. It sounds like this kid could 1792 01:33:23,920 --> 01:33:26,360 Speaker 2: be one of the first five or or six players 1793 01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:28,639 Speaker 2: picked in the NBA draft later this year. 1794 01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:32,200 Speaker 10: Talking to Tony Pike earlier, he said that the guys 1795 01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:36,000 Speaker 10: played like like for only first hals in twelve of 1796 01:33:36,080 --> 01:33:38,400 Speaker 10: their so many games that they played so far. 1797 01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:40,519 Speaker 2: Well, now, he had cramping, So I don't know if 1798 01:33:40,520 --> 01:33:43,000 Speaker 2: that's what that is. But I when what I've seen 1799 01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:47,360 Speaker 2: of Darren Peterson, he's absolutely fantastic guy. 1800 01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:49,080 Speaker 6: So I have to face him on Saturday and see 1801 01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:49,559 Speaker 6: what happens. 1802 01:33:49,600 --> 01:33:51,840 Speaker 2: Well, they's probably getting a good rubdown right now, you know, 1803 01:33:51,880 --> 01:33:54,559 Speaker 2: a little womon oil and uh, you know, maybe like 1804 01:33:54,600 --> 01:33:56,960 Speaker 2: the cold bath, maybe a six path. I don't know, 1805 01:33:57,000 --> 01:33:58,920 Speaker 2: he's getting something. I know that, I bet. 1806 01:34:00,080 --> 01:34:04,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, what else, Let's see what else is going on? 1807 01:34:04,920 --> 01:34:07,120 Speaker 1: See Doug Gottlieb go off on the horizon. 1808 01:34:07,200 --> 01:34:09,080 Speaker 6: Yeah he got any what he got suspended a game 1809 01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:09,959 Speaker 6: or two, didn't. 1810 01:34:09,720 --> 01:34:12,040 Speaker 2: He got kicked out of the league for a game. Yeah, 1811 01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:14,000 Speaker 2: this is the guy that was doing a radio talk 1812 01:34:14,040 --> 01:34:18,880 Speaker 2: show by day and coaching basketball at night. And what 1813 01:34:19,000 --> 01:34:20,679 Speaker 2: was it Wisconsin something or other. 1814 01:34:20,880 --> 01:34:22,960 Speaker 1: He's got Wisconsin Green Bay. 1815 01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:23,439 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1816 01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:25,439 Speaker 1: I know there's there's a lot of that going on 1817 01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:26,320 Speaker 1: on the horizon leg. 1818 01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:31,240 Speaker 10: But let's see NFL news can brew. Chicago Bears are 1819 01:34:31,479 --> 01:34:34,479 Speaker 10: announced their intentions to build a dome stadium now in 1820 01:34:34,640 --> 01:34:39,439 Speaker 10: northwest Indiana, leaving I guess, well, right outside the Windy City, 1821 01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:40,920 Speaker 10: right in Indiana. 1822 01:34:41,240 --> 01:34:43,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's it's what it would be considered 1823 01:34:43,800 --> 01:34:45,519 Speaker 1: metro Chicago, but. 1824 01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:48,680 Speaker 6: It's not the real Chicago Bears. 1825 01:34:48,680 --> 01:34:50,880 Speaker 1: Right, And it's like in New York. 1826 01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:53,040 Speaker 2: They have both of those teams playing in New Jersey, 1827 01:34:53,040 --> 01:34:54,920 Speaker 2: and we still call the New York Jets and the 1828 01:34:54,960 --> 01:34:57,040 Speaker 2: New York Giants. So my guess is they'll still call 1829 01:34:57,080 --> 01:35:00,920 Speaker 2: them the Chicago Bears. But if I was Chicago, well, 1830 01:35:00,920 --> 01:35:02,760 Speaker 2: if I was Chicago, I do a lot with what's 1831 01:35:02,800 --> 01:35:04,920 Speaker 2: going on up there. But if I was the Chicago 1832 01:35:05,120 --> 01:35:09,280 Speaker 2: ruling authority, I would prohibit the name Chicago being placed 1833 01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:12,160 Speaker 2: on a team that's playing in my god, Indiana, I 1834 01:35:12,200 --> 01:35:12,920 Speaker 2: wouldn't allow it. 1835 01:35:14,360 --> 01:35:17,559 Speaker 10: I guess probably some sore folks in the Windy City today, 1836 01:35:17,640 --> 01:35:21,679 Speaker 10: Ken Brucas, I guess, I guess Indiana is welcome and amen. 1837 01:35:21,800 --> 01:35:27,519 Speaker 10: And I saw something earlier today that Illinois state government 1838 01:35:27,560 --> 01:35:29,639 Speaker 10: in Illinois was like what what what? 1839 01:35:29,640 --> 01:35:29,840 Speaker 1: What? 1840 01:35:29,840 --> 01:35:30,360 Speaker 6: What happened? 1841 01:35:30,439 --> 01:35:35,280 Speaker 10: Well, they were off guard, they got caught off guard. 1842 01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:38,599 Speaker 2: The bears want they're going to put two billion up 1843 01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:42,280 Speaker 2: themselves this thing, apparently, right what they want eight hundred 1844 01:35:42,320 --> 01:35:45,519 Speaker 2: and fifty milli in public funding money to come from 1845 01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:51,160 Speaker 2: the state of Illinois. Now, Chicago, let's just say Chicago 1846 01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:54,799 Speaker 2: is not a city that's in great shape right now. Okay, 1847 01:35:54,960 --> 01:35:57,960 Speaker 2: all right, I don't understand why. First of all, I 1848 01:35:57,960 --> 01:36:00,960 Speaker 2: don't understand corporate welfare for any these teams. They're all 1849 01:36:00,960 --> 01:36:03,519 Speaker 2: worth billions of dollars. There's no way on God's green 1850 01:36:03,600 --> 01:36:06,920 Speaker 2: earth that you should take taxpayer money and give them 1851 01:36:07,360 --> 01:36:09,520 Speaker 2: to a billion dollar industry. 1852 01:36:09,600 --> 01:36:10,760 Speaker 1: But be that as it may. 1853 01:36:11,760 --> 01:36:14,679 Speaker 2: You know, eight hundred and fifty million dollars in public 1854 01:36:14,760 --> 01:36:18,200 Speaker 2: funding from a city or from a state that has 1855 01:36:18,200 --> 01:36:21,840 Speaker 2: a city that's you know, not the safest to go to, 1856 01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:25,160 Speaker 2: and you know, and from all intents and purposes, is 1857 01:36:25,200 --> 01:36:26,320 Speaker 2: being run by a knit wit. 1858 01:36:26,880 --> 01:36:28,120 Speaker 1: Why would you why would you. 1859 01:36:28,080 --> 01:36:31,000 Speaker 2: Take that money and then give it to a billion 1860 01:36:31,080 --> 01:36:33,880 Speaker 2: dollar industry, which is the Chicago Bears. It doesn't make 1861 01:36:33,880 --> 01:36:36,600 Speaker 2: any sense, that's correct. And apparently Indiana is going to 1862 01:36:36,640 --> 01:36:38,320 Speaker 2: do it. They're going to somebody is going to pay 1863 01:36:38,360 --> 01:36:40,840 Speaker 2: these people. And so Indiana apparently is going to do this. 1864 01:36:41,160 --> 01:36:45,240 Speaker 6: Oh that's a that's apparently the thing, and officials are static. 1865 01:36:45,800 --> 01:36:47,720 Speaker 2: I'm worked up too much about all this. Say, it's 1866 01:36:47,720 --> 01:36:49,160 Speaker 2: not my money. 1867 01:36:49,200 --> 01:36:50,320 Speaker 6: That's not mine either. 1868 01:36:50,600 --> 01:36:51,040 Speaker 1: My money. 1869 01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:53,280 Speaker 2: I'd like to have some of it, but you know too, 1870 01:36:53,560 --> 01:36:55,680 Speaker 2: you know, I'll split it with you. Seg get us 1871 01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:58,200 Speaker 2: out of the Steward Report. Rocky is here today, and 1872 01:36:58,240 --> 01:37:00,800 Speaker 2: that's an anomaly. Normally Rocky, you know, only works like 1873 01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:03,000 Speaker 2: four days a week. So I'm happy he's here. What 1874 01:37:03,000 --> 01:37:03,599 Speaker 2: what is uh? 1875 01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:04,679 Speaker 4: What? 1876 01:37:04,680 --> 01:37:06,960 Speaker 1: What? What would you say? They could get us out 1877 01:37:06,960 --> 01:37:07,959 Speaker 1: of this and into. 1878 01:37:07,760 --> 01:37:10,960 Speaker 10: That ken Brew In honor of hopefully the United States 1879 01:37:11,000 --> 01:37:14,519 Speaker 10: coming back to win that gold medal, we leave you 1880 01:37:14,600 --> 01:37:17,839 Speaker 10: with the immortal words of the Stood Report. 1881 01:37:19,000 --> 01:37:25,200 Speaker 2: Great moments are born from great oppornity, from great opportunity. 1882 01:37:25,479 --> 01:37:27,280 Speaker 1: And that's what you have here tonight, boys. 1883 01:37:27,840 --> 01:37:30,240 Speaker 6: And that's what you have here tonight, boys. 1884 01:37:30,479 --> 01:37:41,200 Speaker 1: Great opportunity, that's what you've learned here tonight one game. 1885 01:37:43,600 --> 01:37:45,559 Speaker 4: If we played them ten times, they might win n. 1886 01:37:48,240 --> 01:37:52,120 Speaker 1: But not this game. But not this game, not tonight, 1887 01:37:53,080 --> 01:38:04,679 Speaker 1: not tonight, Tonight, Tonight, we skate with them, tonight with them, 1888 01:38:04,960 --> 01:38:10,040 Speaker 1: and we shust them down. Because that's one of this 1889 01:38:10,120 --> 01:38:20,040 Speaker 1: great speech. Tonight we are the greatest hockey team in 1890 01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:21,000 Speaker 1: the world. 1891 01:38:21,600 --> 01:38:25,200 Speaker 2: Jim Craig's looking at him like, what are you smoking? Well, 1892 01:38:25,240 --> 01:38:28,240 Speaker 2: they did. They beat the Russians. They ended communism as 1893 01:38:28,280 --> 01:38:30,200 Speaker 2: we know it and open the door for a fresh 1894 01:38:30,240 --> 01:38:32,880 Speaker 2: wave of communism. But that's an entirely different story. That's 1895 01:38:34,400 --> 01:38:37,720 Speaker 2: saga was good talking, all right, good luck tomorrow. I 1896 01:38:37,720 --> 01:38:40,120 Speaker 2: have no idea who's in, but it's not made On 1897 01:38:40,240 --> 01:38:51,080 Speaker 2: seven hundred wtl W two fifty five News Radio seven 1898 01:38:51,200 --> 01:38:54,880 Speaker 2: hundred wtl W, of course we all wait with baited 1899 01:38:54,960 --> 01:38:58,280 Speaker 2: if not bad breath, for the epicent of our broadcast day, 1900 01:38:58,280 --> 01:39:00,240 Speaker 2: which begins in a mere matter of minutes. And that's, 1901 01:39:00,280 --> 01:39:04,120 Speaker 2: of course, when the fabulous team of Rocky Boyman and 1902 01:39:04,240 --> 01:39:06,800 Speaker 2: Eddie Fingers winding up in the studio to take you 1903 01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:11,800 Speaker 2: right till six o'clock. I might point out voted just recently, 1904 01:39:12,560 --> 01:39:16,120 Speaker 2: I believe as one of the top ten afternoon drive 1905 01:39:16,520 --> 01:39:19,360 Speaker 2: hosts in the history of well maybe not the history, 1906 01:39:19,439 --> 01:39:23,400 Speaker 2: but in the current landscape of broadcasting. And it's great 1907 01:39:23,400 --> 01:39:25,600 Speaker 2: to welcome in one of the most ravaging redheads that 1908 01:39:25,680 --> 01:39:27,160 Speaker 2: I know, one of the two most here in the 1909 01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:28,360 Speaker 2: greater Cincinnati area. 1910 01:39:29,120 --> 01:39:31,559 Speaker 1: Rocket J Boyman, Rocky, how are you good? Ken? 1911 01:39:31,720 --> 01:39:34,479 Speaker 6: Second only to you in redheaded power. 1912 01:39:34,640 --> 01:39:36,840 Speaker 2: You know, the thing Rocket that people don't realize is 1913 01:39:36,880 --> 01:39:40,280 Speaker 2: that redhead's really I mean, our true redhead does not 1914 01:39:40,400 --> 01:39:40,920 Speaker 2: go gray. 1915 01:39:41,400 --> 01:39:42,599 Speaker 1: They don't, that's true. 1916 01:39:42,800 --> 01:39:47,599 Speaker 2: They give a lot of gray hairs go gray. 1917 01:39:47,680 --> 01:39:49,639 Speaker 1: Yes, kids, I think that's important. 1918 01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:53,200 Speaker 2: And by the way, the color of your hair, which 1919 01:39:53,360 --> 01:39:56,120 Speaker 2: is striking, and the color of my hair, which is 1920 01:39:56,160 --> 01:39:58,320 Speaker 2: a little less. So, I mean, you can't get that 1921 01:39:58,360 --> 01:40:00,960 Speaker 2: out of a bottle. There's no way you could replicate that. 1922 01:40:01,400 --> 01:40:03,559 Speaker 2: So people have to know it's real right now. 1923 01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:06,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, when I was young, I hated my red hair. 1924 01:40:06,880 --> 01:40:08,840 Speaker 9: My mom would always say, you know, there's people that 1925 01:40:08,880 --> 01:40:10,880 Speaker 9: would pay a lot of money to have that color hair. 1926 01:40:11,479 --> 01:40:14,840 Speaker 2: Right now, it's like it's like this, the you know, 1927 01:40:14,960 --> 01:40:18,000 Speaker 2: the sexy thing. It's been that way for several years 1928 01:40:18,000 --> 01:40:20,120 Speaker 2: and I'd just like to I'm ahead of my time, 1929 01:40:20,320 --> 01:40:21,719 Speaker 2: right that's your ahead of your time. 1930 01:40:21,800 --> 01:40:25,479 Speaker 9: Absolutely, absolutely, So Kay, what do you think real quick? 1931 01:40:25,520 --> 01:40:28,759 Speaker 9: I just saw the Bears possibly maybe moving to Indiana. 1932 01:40:30,120 --> 01:40:32,120 Speaker 2: If I was the city of Chicago, well, I would 1933 01:40:32,160 --> 01:40:34,400 Speaker 2: do several things. I'd get that Knitwood out of office 1934 01:40:34,400 --> 01:40:37,840 Speaker 2: that runs the city first, but I would try. I 1935 01:40:37,880 --> 01:40:41,920 Speaker 2: would go through every legal possibility to keep the Bears 1936 01:40:41,960 --> 01:40:46,000 Speaker 2: from taking the Chicago name with them. In other words, 1937 01:40:46,040 --> 01:40:48,840 Speaker 2: I would say, you're not that you can't have it. 1938 01:40:48,880 --> 01:40:51,240 Speaker 2: I don't care how it's trademark, You're not in Chicago. 1939 01:40:51,320 --> 01:40:53,680 Speaker 2: You can't take it now. Will you win? Maybe not, 1940 01:40:54,400 --> 01:40:55,760 Speaker 2: But I make a stink about it. 1941 01:40:55,800 --> 01:40:56,439 Speaker 1: I really would. 1942 01:40:56,520 --> 01:41:01,080 Speaker 2: They want eight hundred and fifty million dollars of Illinois 1943 01:41:01,120 --> 01:41:06,040 Speaker 2: state taxpayer money to fund that stadium to stay in Chicago. 1944 01:41:06,080 --> 01:41:08,040 Speaker 2: I'm sure Indiana is going to give them that money. 1945 01:41:08,479 --> 01:41:11,720 Speaker 2: You tell me what Illinois would do with, you know, 1946 01:41:11,800 --> 01:41:14,599 Speaker 2: the cesspool that is Chicago right now, What they would 1947 01:41:14,640 --> 01:41:17,439 Speaker 2: do with that money in Chicago to clean that place up? 1948 01:41:18,080 --> 01:41:19,639 Speaker 2: And you're going to give it to a football team 1949 01:41:19,680 --> 01:41:21,599 Speaker 2: that is a billion dollar business. 1950 01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:23,280 Speaker 1: It's crazy, But. 1951 01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:26,600 Speaker 6: I think they would screw up the money situation regardless. 1952 01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:30,240 Speaker 2: Well, they may, I mean they may, I mean they've had, 1953 01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:32,840 Speaker 2: They've had a lot of problems, as we have been 1954 01:41:32,880 --> 01:41:35,920 Speaker 2: well documented, on the south side of that city. And 1955 01:41:35,960 --> 01:41:39,240 Speaker 2: my guess is that if you're if you're a politician, 1956 01:41:40,160 --> 01:41:42,800 Speaker 2: you know, are the Bears worth that that much? 1957 01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:43,960 Speaker 1: I don't think so. 1958 01:41:44,160 --> 01:41:45,800 Speaker 9: I don't know, but I know that mayor doesn't want 1959 01:41:45,840 --> 01:41:49,040 Speaker 9: to be tagged with the moniker of the guy who 1960 01:41:49,160 --> 01:41:51,040 Speaker 9: let the Bears leave Chicago. 1961 01:41:51,400 --> 01:41:53,880 Speaker 1: It's not a good thing either. It's not a good 1962 01:41:53,920 --> 01:41:54,400 Speaker 1: thing either. 1963 01:41:54,439 --> 01:41:56,800 Speaker 2: I mean, there are all kinds of ramifications, but that's 1964 01:41:56,840 --> 01:42:00,160 Speaker 2: a lot of money for any state to invest into anything. 1965 01:42:00,200 --> 01:42:03,600 Speaker 1: Now. I mean, we got we got stadiums situation. 1966 01:42:03,760 --> 01:42:07,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, we got our own stadiums to deal with. 1967 01:42:07,520 --> 01:42:10,360 Speaker 1: I had no position to be up on a soapbox 1968 01:42:10,360 --> 01:42:12,880 Speaker 1: and Cincinnatio something like that. 1969 01:42:12,920 --> 01:42:16,040 Speaker 2: But but still, I mean, it's just it's it's it's 1970 01:42:16,080 --> 01:42:18,600 Speaker 2: mind boggling. And yeah, I think they're going to go 1971 01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:21,000 Speaker 2: to Indiana. But if I was Chicago, I would take 1972 01:42:21,040 --> 01:42:23,679 Speaker 2: every legal avenue to prevent them from taking the Chicago 1973 01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:24,240 Speaker 2: name with him. 1974 01:42:24,800 --> 01:42:28,879 Speaker 6: That's interesting. I might make it Indiana Bears, Indiana Bears. 1975 01:42:28,880 --> 01:42:32,040 Speaker 1: That doesn't sound No, it doesn't good. Although I think 1976 01:42:32,040 --> 01:42:34,240 Speaker 1: there are Bears in Indiana I've been to a few 1977 01:42:34,280 --> 01:42:36,839 Speaker 1: campsites that have been disrupted, and there's. 1978 01:42:36,680 --> 01:42:38,240 Speaker 6: Somewhere Ohio, my my mother in law. 1979 01:42:38,560 --> 01:42:42,160 Speaker 2: Never mind, anyway, what are you and what are you 1980 01:42:42,200 --> 01:42:43,320 Speaker 2: and Edward talking about? 1981 01:42:43,439 --> 01:42:45,439 Speaker 6: Well, Eddie is still out, he's gone this whole week. 1982 01:42:45,479 --> 01:42:46,719 Speaker 6: He's in Florida. 1983 01:42:46,840 --> 01:42:49,640 Speaker 9: But so Jason Williams is in again and right out 1984 01:42:49,640 --> 01:42:51,200 Speaker 9: of the gate, we have a guest coming on and 1985 01:42:51,240 --> 01:42:54,680 Speaker 9: talk about Uh, you know, so when RFK Junior came in, 1986 01:42:54,840 --> 01:42:57,120 Speaker 9: kind of flipped the food pyramid, right, it used to be, 1987 01:42:57,320 --> 01:42:59,040 Speaker 9: you know, like the bottom you need you know, six 1988 01:42:59,080 --> 01:43:01,760 Speaker 9: to eight servings of rains a day, and then I 1989 01:43:02,160 --> 01:43:03,680 Speaker 9: kind of went up up the top. Well that's kind 1990 01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:06,880 Speaker 9: of been flipped around where you know, protein and meat 1991 01:43:06,920 --> 01:43:09,360 Speaker 9: and things like that are more emphasized and got I 1992 01:43:09,400 --> 01:43:11,519 Speaker 9: guess coming on and talk about what that means for 1993 01:43:12,000 --> 01:43:12,839 Speaker 9: school lunches. 1994 01:43:12,960 --> 01:43:13,080 Speaker 5: Right. 1995 01:43:13,120 --> 01:43:15,120 Speaker 9: I think every parent out there, if you got a kid, 1996 01:43:15,120 --> 01:43:17,840 Speaker 9: you wonder what's my kid gonna eat? And how much 1997 01:43:17,920 --> 01:43:19,920 Speaker 9: is it gonna cost and what kind of things do 1998 01:43:19,960 --> 01:43:22,000 Speaker 9: they have to do to kind of get the school 1999 01:43:22,080 --> 01:43:25,840 Speaker 9: lunches in Simpatico with the new food pyramids. So that'll 2000 01:43:25,880 --> 01:43:28,479 Speaker 9: be at three o'clock we have our fitness guest PJ 2001 01:43:28,680 --> 01:43:30,719 Speaker 9: Street at at four o'clock. 2002 01:43:31,640 --> 01:43:33,439 Speaker 6: Can do you have a morning routine? That that's the 2003 01:43:33,479 --> 01:43:34,120 Speaker 6: biggest hit. 2004 01:43:34,080 --> 01:43:34,599 Speaker 4: Thing right now. 2005 01:43:34,640 --> 01:43:35,959 Speaker 6: It's it's warning routines. 2006 01:43:36,520 --> 01:43:36,840 Speaker 5: So I. 2007 01:43:38,600 --> 01:43:44,400 Speaker 1: Get up, I urinate. I also you know. 2008 01:43:44,600 --> 01:43:48,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do that around eight o'clock and then I 2009 01:43:48,280 --> 01:43:49,240 Speaker 2: get out of bed at nine. 2010 01:43:51,560 --> 01:43:55,519 Speaker 6: Well said that much more, Ken, Yeah, ready to go. 2011 01:43:55,840 --> 01:43:58,160 Speaker 2: All right, you guys have a great show. Tell Jason, 2012 01:43:58,160 --> 01:44:01,080 Speaker 2: I said, Hi, I really aloid reading his columns. 2013 01:44:01,680 --> 01:44:02,720 Speaker 6: I will tell him that. Thank you. 2014 01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:06,400 Speaker 1: All right, Rockets say well, you're next on seven hundred 2015 01:44:06,479 --> 01:44:07,280 Speaker 1: W l W