Speaker 1: It's the second Date update module in the morning. Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. We got here. We got Michael and Chase.
Speaker 1: Oh I like this.
Speaker 2: We got two guys that are on the second Date update.
Speaker 2: A little same sex relationship going on here right now.
Speaker 2: Michael getting ghosted? Michael, how are you?
Speaker 3: I've been better, but I'm all right?
Speaker 1: How do you good? How did you guys meet?
Speaker 3: We meant on Grinder?
Speaker 1: Let me ask a question, because I do not have
Speaker 1: a Grinder account.
Speaker 2: No matter what people think, I ask my son this
Speaker 2: all the time, my son, Jacob, I'm Grinder? Is it
Speaker 2: better because there's more abundance out there than going to
Speaker 2: Tinder or going to Hinge to meet somebody?
Speaker 1: Is that why you go there?
Speaker 2: Because it's purely same sex relationships?
Speaker 3: Well, not necessarily, but Tender and Hinge you have to
Speaker 3: match with someone, whereas Grinder you can just message them
Speaker 3: and then you don't have to wait for them to
Speaker 3: match with you for them to repond.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? So what happened?
Speaker 2: You guys went out on one day, two dates and
Speaker 2: now that you're not getting called back?
Speaker 1: What's the story?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went out to dinner, but we did have
Speaker 3: sex after, so I don't know, it went kind of fast.
Speaker 1: I guess the sex or the dinner or the date.
Speaker 1: The date, okay, like the whole thing, the date to
Speaker 1: the sex.
Speaker 4: Yeah, did you under spind that happening like after talking
Speaker 4: to him on Grinder?
Speaker 3: No, not really, but I kind of I think that,
Speaker 3: like I was more open to it because when we talked,
Speaker 3: it kind of seemed like he was open to shoot
Speaker 3: your dates and like maybe was looking.
Speaker 2: For something more serious and not a one night stand,
Speaker 2: which is what you're feeling right now. Chase is on
Speaker 2: the phone with us, Chase, will you say hello to Michael? Hey?
Speaker 5: Hey, yeah car.
Speaker 6: Chase?
Speaker 3: Are you doing?
Speaker 2: What's going on? What is uh?
Speaker 1: What is going on? Chase?
Speaker 6: Uh? Well, you know, it was just it was.
Speaker 5: A great time and you know, I thought it was
Speaker 5: it went well, you know.
Speaker 6: It was. It's just sort of complicated.
Speaker 1: What's complicated?
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I mean.
Speaker 6: We hit it off and stuff like that, and you know,
Speaker 6: you're you're he's just a sweet.
Speaker 5: Guy, and I really I do like him and me
Speaker 5: it's like, you know, so it's just hard, you know
Speaker 5: what I mean, It's like difficult, that's all.
Speaker 1: What's the but here?
Speaker 6: Well, the truth is I'm still in love with my ex,
Speaker 6: you know, and and it just it just wasn't the same,
Speaker 6: you know, with with him, and it's it's not on
Speaker 6: him to me, really, I.
Speaker 4: Who was like, how fresh does this break up from
Speaker 4: your ex?
Speaker 6: It's it's it's okay.
Speaker 5: So it's about two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: So it was about two weeks ago. And when was
Speaker 1: the date Michael? It was last week?
Speaker 2: So do we believe Chase no offense and don't get
Speaker 2: offended and hang up on us. Here it sounds to
Speaker 2: me like you were cheating on your boyfriend and you
Speaker 2: decided to go out with Michael, and now you're realizing
Speaker 2: that this is not a good situation.
Speaker 5: Oh no, no, no, no, we were we were broken up.
Speaker 5: I was not cheating. What it is is, if he
Speaker 5: wants to prove on I thought this would sort of
Speaker 5: help me get over him.
Speaker 4: Oh so you kind of used him.
Speaker 2: Do you believe that, Shannon Kevin Michael? I do?
Speaker 1: I do?
Speaker 4: I just think that it kind of sucks that, yeah,
Speaker 4: that was the case.
Speaker 1: Like he knew going in that he was.
Speaker 4: Not going in thinking that this could be the potential
Speaker 4: start of a new relationship. He was going in thinking
Speaker 4: this is going to help me. Gosh, it was a
Speaker 4: very selfish thing.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like I kind of believe him, But
Speaker 7: at the same time, when he hit us with the
Speaker 7: it's not me as you thing, that kind of sounded
Speaker 7: a little contrived and a little false.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. He's still He probably still miss
Speaker 1: his X and he won his X. I get it.
Speaker 2: Do we think though, that he should have said something
Speaker 2: to Michael about this and his business. I think though
Speaker 2: that you're going to nobody wants to be the rebound.
Speaker 7: I'm saying he went to go get some buns and
Speaker 7: that's what he got, and he's.
Speaker 1: Not in there looking for love.
Speaker 2: He's just madd he got played eight four four Mojo
Speaker 2: Live eight four four six six five six five four
Speaker 2: eight the telephone number.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this to you people.
Speaker 2: I don't want you to treat this like you would,
Speaker 2: you know, treat it special because it's Michael and Chase.
Speaker 2: I want you to treat it like you would treat
Speaker 2: it if it was a guy doing this to a
Speaker 2: girl or a girl doing this to a guy. I
Speaker 2: want you to tell me what you think of Chase
Speaker 2: going in for some when he still has feelings for
Speaker 2: his Ax, I personally think Chase what you did was wrong.
Speaker 2: Why though, Because what Chase did, he's messing with Michael's feelings.
Speaker 1: Michael, you're hurt, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really messed up, and he made it
Speaker 3: sound like he wanted something real, And I had no idea.
Speaker 1: That he lied.
Speaker 2: I know, but he lied to you. He lied to
Speaker 2: you about his intentions that night. He went into this
Speaker 2: thing trying to get over his ex by getting under Michael,
Speaker 2: and I think that that's not what exactly Michael was wanting.
Speaker 2: And Michael, how often do you have sex on the
Speaker 2: first day?
Speaker 1: Not very often.
Speaker 3: Then I had told him that, don't think I'm not
Speaker 3: looking for a hookup. I know, but that was after
Speaker 3: we discussed it. It wasn't like I was just being
Speaker 3: crazy like we did.
Speaker 7: You'll discuss did y'all discuss dating and potentially finding No.
Speaker 3: Said, I'm not looking for hookup. I'm looking for something
Speaker 3: more serious. I don't want to be like a one
Speaker 3: time thing. And we hit it off.
Speaker 7: Hold on, what I'm saying isn't cool. I'm just not
Speaker 7: of the cloth of I don't do this, I don't
Speaker 7: do that, I don't do this, And then you do
Speaker 7: everything you said you.
Speaker 1: Don't do because he was taken by Chase on the
Speaker 1: first day and you woke up in his.
Speaker 3: Big No, I never said that either.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you this was if this was a woman,
Speaker 2: you would be defended and you would whatever you would be. Bruce,
Speaker 2: what's going on? How you doing? I'm going what are
Speaker 2: your thoughts?
Speaker 1: Bruce?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 1: I think he lying?
Speaker 8: Man, I ain't gonna lie, you know, whether you whatever
Speaker 8: your but I just think he lying.
Speaker 3: You know, it sounds I can't say it when heat
Speaker 3: out with it, but it.
Speaker 8: Ain't me who whatever?
Speaker 4: You are?
Speaker 3: You lying?
Speaker 8: If that was a man and a woman, come on,
Speaker 8: a man, I'll be lying all date.
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just saying he lying lying?
Speaker 2: Which one is lying? Though, Michael, the Chase is lying?
Speaker 2: Which guy is lying?
Speaker 1: The guy that the guy that caught in the talk
Speaker 1: about some It's not me, as you that's the guy
Speaker 1: that's lying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, Chase, that's Chase. That's the guy's lying because
Speaker 2: I and I agree with you on that too. Uh, Michelle,
Speaker 2: what's going on? Michelle?
Speaker 8: I don't think Chase did anything wrong really, I think no.
Speaker 8: I think he probably does want to go out on
Speaker 8: dates with someone else to get over the guy he's
Speaker 8: not dating anymore, and he maybe he thought just going
Speaker 8: out might help him move on. I don't think he
Speaker 8: intentionally meant to hurt him he went out.
Speaker 2: If this was War of the Roses would be busting
Speaker 2: his house. You know that, it would be totally a
Speaker 2: different story. Gianna, what's up. It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 8: Hi Modo.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 5: So I think Chase was a little selfish. He needed
Speaker 5: to be upfront, and then Michael could have made.
Speaker 1: A choice for himself. Yeah, said listen, it's a little
Speaker 1: selfish for taste to be like that.
Speaker 2: I still have feelings for my Axe, but maybe all
Speaker 2: the feelings for you. Let's go, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 2: just just say that. I probably I don't know, Michael.
Speaker 2: Would you have still slap with him if he said
Speaker 2: that to you?
Speaker 3: Absolutely not.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well there you go. It wouldn't have worked for Jade.
Speaker 4: Well because at least then you know there's the what
Speaker 4: the risk is? Listen to this tell I guess you
Speaker 4: know what the risk is anyway, but he kind of
Speaker 4: talked a different game.
Speaker 2: Two three one says you don't look for love on
Speaker 2: grinder girl, please, and then listen to this one. This
Speaker 2: is almost similar. One six. One six says Grinder is
Speaker 2: a hookup site. The fact that he ghosted him and
Speaker 2: didn't just come clean is the problem. That's interesting because
Speaker 2: I don't know Grinder at all, But is Grinder the
Speaker 2: Tinder of gay apps?
Speaker 1: They say people get married.
Speaker 4: I was to say, my best friend Kelly married from Tinder.
Speaker 2: Okay, well so I don't know. I don't know, Michael,
Speaker 2: your heartbroken?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 3: No, definitely not. I just think it's rude and annoying.
Speaker 2: Okay, Chase, you and the acts back together again? Are
Speaker 2: you guys back hanging with each other?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: No, we're not actually, uh but I really learned my
Speaker 6: lesson on this the point need.
Speaker 5: I do, you know, talking to you guys and listen
Speaker 5: to everybody. And then also, uh, I you know him
Speaker 5: an apology because it's it is it's a it's a
Speaker 5: it's just a jerk thing to.
Speaker 6: Do, and I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I like that you accept the apology, Michael, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: do that. Thank you. You should go out again? No,
Speaker 1: in a while. He's being honest.
Speaker 3: This is a whole with the dirty of the thirty
Speaker 3: back fro down, a second date update.
Speaker 1: And more, of the roses. This is mojo in the morning,