WEBVTT - Second Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second Date update module in the morning. Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. We got here. We got Michael and Chase.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I like this.

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<v Speaker 2>We got two guys that are on the second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>A little same sex relationship going on here right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Michael getting ghosted? Michael, how are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I've been better, but I'm all right?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you good? How did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 3>We meant on Grinder?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask a question, because I do not have

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<v Speaker 1>a Grinder account.

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<v Speaker 2>No matter what people think, I ask my son this

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<v Speaker 2>all the time, my son, Jacob, I'm Grinder? Is it

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<v Speaker 2>better because there's more abundance out there than going to

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<v Speaker 2>Tinder or going to Hinge to meet somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that why you go there?

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's purely same sex relationships?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, not necessarily, but Tender and Hinge you have to

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<v Speaker 3>match with someone, whereas Grinder you can just message them

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<v Speaker 3>and then you don't have to wait for them to

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<v Speaker 3>match with you for them to repond.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right? So what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>You guys went out on one day, two dates and

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<v Speaker 2>now that you're not getting called back?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the story?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we went out to dinner, but we did have

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<v Speaker 3>sex after, so I don't know, it went kind of fast.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the sex or the dinner or the date.

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<v Speaker 1>The date, okay, like the whole thing, the date to

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<v Speaker 1>the sex.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, did you under spind that happening like after talking

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<v Speaker 4>to him on Grinder?

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<v Speaker 3>No, not really, but I kind of I think that,

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<v Speaker 3>like I was more open to it because when we talked,

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<v Speaker 3>it kind of seemed like he was open to shoot

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<v Speaker 3>your dates and like maybe was looking.

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<v Speaker 2>For something more serious and not a one night stand,

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<v Speaker 2>which is what you're feeling right now. Chase is on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone with us, Chase, will you say hello to Michael? Hey?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, yeah car.

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<v Speaker 6>Chase?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on? What is uh?

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<v Speaker 1>What is going on? Chase?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh? Well, you know, it was just it was.

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<v Speaker 5>A great time and you know, I thought it was

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<v Speaker 5>it went well, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>It was. It's just sort of complicated.

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<v Speaker 1>What's complicated?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>We hit it off and stuff like that, and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you're you're he's just a sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>Guy, and I really I do like him and me

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<v Speaker 5>it's like, you know, so it's just hard, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I mean, It's like difficult, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the but here?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the truth is I'm still in love with my ex,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, and and it just it just wasn't the same,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, with with him, and it's it's not on

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<v Speaker 6>him to me, really, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Who was like, how fresh does this break up from

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<v Speaker 4>your ex?

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<v Speaker 6>It's it's it's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's about two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was about two weeks ago. And when was

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<v Speaker 1>the date Michael? It was last week?

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<v Speaker 2>So do we believe Chase no offense and don't get

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<v Speaker 2>offended and hang up on us. Here it sounds to

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<v Speaker 2>me like you were cheating on your boyfriend and you

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<v Speaker 2>decided to go out with Michael, and now you're realizing

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<v Speaker 2>that this is not a good situation.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, no, no, no, we were we were broken up.

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<v Speaker 5>I was not cheating. What it is is, if he

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<v Speaker 5>wants to prove on I thought this would sort of

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<v Speaker 5>help me get over him.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so you kind of used him.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you believe that, Shannon Kevin Michael? I do?

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<v Speaker 1>I do?

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<v Speaker 4>I just think that it kind of sucks that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that was the case.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he knew going in that he was.

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<v Speaker 4>Not going in thinking that this could be the potential

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<v Speaker 4>start of a new relationship. He was going in thinking

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<v Speaker 4>this is going to help me. Gosh, it was a

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<v Speaker 4>very selfish thing.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I feel like I kind of believe him, But

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<v Speaker 7>at the same time, when he hit us with the

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<v Speaker 7>it's not me as you thing, that kind of sounded

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<v Speaker 7>a little contrived and a little false.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. He's still He probably still miss

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<v Speaker 1>his X and he won his X. I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we think though, that he should have said something

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<v Speaker 2>to Michael about this and his business. I think though

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<v Speaker 2>that you're going to nobody wants to be the rebound.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm saying he went to go get some buns and

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<v Speaker 7>that's what he got, and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not in there looking for love.

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<v Speaker 2>He's just madd he got played eight four four Mojo

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<v Speaker 2>Live eight four four six six five six five four

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<v Speaker 2>eight the telephone number.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say this to you people.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to treat this like you would,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, treat it special because it's Michael and Chase.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to treat it like you would treat

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<v Speaker 2>it if it was a guy doing this to a

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<v Speaker 2>girl or a girl doing this to a guy. I

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<v Speaker 2>want you to tell me what you think of Chase

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<v Speaker 2>going in for some when he still has feelings for

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<v Speaker 2>his Ax, I personally think Chase what you did was wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Why though, Because what Chase did, he's messing with Michael's feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael, you're hurt, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was really messed up, and he made it

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<v Speaker 3>sound like he wanted something real, And I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>That he lied.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but he lied to you. He lied to

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<v Speaker 2>you about his intentions that night. He went into this

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<v Speaker 2>thing trying to get over his ex by getting under Michael,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that that's not what exactly Michael was wanting.

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<v Speaker 2>And Michael, how often do you have sex on the

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<v Speaker 2>first day?

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<v Speaker 1>Not very often.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I had told him that, don't think I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>looking for a hookup. I know, but that was after

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<v Speaker 3>we discussed it. It wasn't like I was just being

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<v Speaker 3>crazy like we did.

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<v Speaker 7>You'll discuss did y'all discuss dating and potentially finding No.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, I'm not looking for hookup. I'm looking for something

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<v Speaker 3>more serious. I don't want to be like a one

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<v Speaker 3>time thing. And we hit it off.

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<v Speaker 7>Hold on, what I'm saying isn't cool. I'm just not

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<v Speaker 7>of the cloth of I don't do this, I don't

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<v Speaker 7>do that, I don't do this, And then you do

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<v Speaker 7>everything you said you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do because he was taken by Chase on the

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<v Speaker 1>first day and you woke up in his.

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<v Speaker 3>Big No, I never said that either.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you this was if this was a woman,

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<v Speaker 2>you would be defended and you would whatever you would be. Bruce,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? How you doing? I'm going what are

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<v Speaker 2>your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>Bruce?

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<v Speaker 5>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I think he lying?

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<v Speaker 8>Man, I ain't gonna lie, you know, whether you whatever

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<v Speaker 8>your but I just think he lying.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it sounds I can't say it when heat

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<v Speaker 3>out with it, but it.

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<v Speaker 8>Ain't me who whatever?

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<v Speaker 4>You are?

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<v Speaker 3>You lying?

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<v Speaker 8>If that was a man and a woman, come on,

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<v Speaker 8>a man, I'll be lying all date.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm just saying he lying lying?

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<v Speaker 2>Which one is lying? Though, Michael, the Chase is lying?

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<v Speaker 2>Which guy is lying?

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<v Speaker 1>The guy that the guy that caught in the talk

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<v Speaker 1>about some It's not me, as you that's the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that's lying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, Chase, that's Chase. That's the guy's lying because

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<v Speaker 2>I and I agree with you on that too. Uh, Michelle,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? Michelle?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't think Chase did anything wrong really, I think no.

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<v Speaker 8>I think he probably does want to go out on

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<v Speaker 8>dates with someone else to get over the guy he's

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<v Speaker 8>not dating anymore, and he maybe he thought just going

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<v Speaker 8>out might help him move on. I don't think he

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<v Speaker 8>intentionally meant to hurt him he went out.

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<v Speaker 2>If this was War of the Roses would be busting

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<v Speaker 2>his house. You know that, it would be totally a

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<v Speaker 2>different story. Gianna, what's up. It's Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 8>Hi Modo.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think Chase was a little selfish. He needed

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<v Speaker 5>to be upfront, and then Michael could have made.

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<v Speaker 1>A choice for himself. Yeah, said listen, it's a little

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<v Speaker 1>selfish for taste to be like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I still have feelings for my Axe, but maybe all

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<v Speaker 2>the feelings for you. Let's go, you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>just just say that. I probably I don't know, Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you have still slap with him if he said

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<v Speaker 2>that to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well there you go. It wouldn't have worked for Jade.

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<v Speaker 4>Well because at least then you know there's the what

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<v Speaker 4>the risk is? Listen to this tell I guess you

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<v Speaker 4>know what the risk is anyway, but he kind of

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<v Speaker 4>talked a different game.

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<v Speaker 2>Two three one says you don't look for love on

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<v Speaker 2>grinder girl, please, and then listen to this one. This

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<v Speaker 2>is almost similar. One six. One six says Grinder is

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<v Speaker 2>a hookup site. The fact that he ghosted him and

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<v Speaker 2>didn't just come clean is the problem. That's interesting because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know Grinder at all, But is Grinder the

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<v Speaker 2>Tinder of gay apps?

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<v Speaker 1>They say people get married.

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<v Speaker 4>I was to say, my best friend Kelly married from Tinder.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well so I don't know. I don't know, Michael,

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<v Speaker 2>your heartbroken?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>No, definitely not. I just think it's rude and annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Chase, you and the acts back together again? Are

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<v Speaker 2>you guys back hanging with each other?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>No, we're not actually, uh but I really learned my

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<v Speaker 6>lesson on this the point need.

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<v Speaker 5>I do, you know, talking to you guys and listen

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<v Speaker 5>to everybody. And then also, uh, I you know him

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<v Speaker 5>an apology because it's it is it's a it's a

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<v Speaker 5>it's just a jerk thing to.

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<v Speaker 6>Do, and I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that you accept the apology, Michael, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Thank you. You should go out again? No,

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<v Speaker 1>in a while. He's being honest.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a whole with the dirty of the thirty

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<v Speaker 3>back fro down, a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>And more, of the roses. This is mojo in the morning,