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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 2: Look at that. Damn.

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Speaker 1: I love Miami, which is what Pitbull says. I'm not

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Speaker 1: the biggest fan of Miami if you want me to be.

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Speaker 1: Miami is bottom tier city in Florida for me. Thoughts.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love Miami?

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Speaker 2: You do? Yeah, when's the last time you went?

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Speaker 3: Three years ago?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I've been in Miami multiple times more recently than you've.

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Speaker 3: Been in Miamiddy, were forced.

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Speaker 1: I have family that lives in Miami still that I visited.

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Speaker 2: So you don't like it. But you have family?

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Speaker 4: Are you still don't like it?

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Speaker 2: I have family that lives in Ohio. I hate that

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Speaker 2: just because they live.

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Speaker 4: Everybody loves to be in Brickel every now and then.

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Speaker 2: Or oh my god, absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: Maybe with my friends.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's all about the Crown.

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Speaker 5: No, they're not.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 5: You don't know how to do anything either. They go

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Speaker 5: on Task Rabbit because they can't even mount a TV.

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Speaker 4: If they got the money, why not. It's all about convenience.

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Speaker 4: Somebody got to do it.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's convenient for me not to go there.

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Speaker 4: So you don't look like the Miami guy.

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Speaker 2: We're more of like the Orlando Lakeland t I don't

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Speaker 2: even know. We're more like definitely Orlando, like a river

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Speaker 2: View Lakeland dude. When I'm in Lakeland, Lakeland loves me.

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Speaker 2: I love Lakeland man.

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Speaker 1: I go to McDonald's any.

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Speaker 3: Chickens and.

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Speaker 1: They got the coolest karaiakey madness out there too. Lakeland fs. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: well it's not even the threat. They still have the one. No,

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Speaker 1: it's open, Yes, they reopened. Well anyways, damn I love

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Speaker 1: Tampa Bay. How about that? Can they do a remix?

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Speaker 1: They used to do remixes. Remember the artists would do

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Speaker 1: remixes and they'd like dub in the city so they

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Speaker 1: get more radio to play it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we need that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, lady got to uh. I forgot about song, but

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Speaker 4: she's definitely done that to a song before.

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Speaker 1: Kasha did it to to to TikTok. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I like talk talk Okay.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: All right, this is what I want to know. Eight

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Speaker 1: if this is true. Do you guys feel like you

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Speaker 1: get irritated by the little things every day?

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Speaker 3: Always slightly yeah.

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Speaker 2: People, now this bo he says women.

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Speaker 1: I want to know if you agree with this list.

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Speaker 1: People will get irritated by little things all the time,

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Speaker 1: almost always have ten specific reasons.

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Speaker 2: I want to know if you guys have these.

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Speaker 1: Reasons you ready, Okay, let's hear them, right, Since everyone

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Speaker 1: in here says that they get bothered and irritated by

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Speaker 1: the little things, they are more stressed than they realize.

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Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes maybe your glass.

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Speaker 2: Is too filled with stress.

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Speaker 1: No, no, you have the beauty of this is what

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Speaker 1: it probably is. With Ashley, she just doesn't realize. Right,

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Speaker 1: So you're more stressed than you realize. Do you guys

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Speaker 1: have pent up feelings?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, see, because I think I have the realization

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Speaker 1: that I'm stressed. Trust me, I know it. I think

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Speaker 2: You're stuck.

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Speaker 1: You feel like you're stuck in survival mode. You know,

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Speaker 1: maybe it's financial pressure trauma. Like you you kind of

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I definitely have moments like that.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel out of control or in control when

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Speaker 1: it comes to your life? Do you feel like you

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I feel like I have to be in ki

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Speaker 3: otherwise I'm on the cusp of crashing out.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, then that's good. That's good that we've

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Speaker 2: taken that out for all of you.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like your needs are being met? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Not always? What are your needs? I don't know. I

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Speaker 5: I just don't feel satisfied, Joe, I don't know what

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Speaker 5: it is like, I'm always hungry.

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Speaker 2: I'm always looking for more.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like an empty tea cup.

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I don't know anymore.

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Speaker 1: They are highly sensitive, yes, oh yeah, oh yeah exactly.

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Speaker 3: You can't help that we're boring this way.

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Speaker 2: I'm an Earth sign. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Why do you guys feel like you have places where

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Speaker 1: you can decompress.

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, my couch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's my fiance and I will look at each

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Speaker 1: other sometimes at a tough day, one of us is

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Speaker 1: both look at the clock and it's four pm and

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Speaker 2: But some people don't have that.

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Speaker 1: So if you're a listening right now and you don't

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Speaker 1: have that, you got to find it so you cannot,

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Speaker 1: you know, be stressed out.

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Speaker 2: We're going through the list.

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Speaker 1: By the way, the little things, little things, little things

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Speaker 1: get you irritated. You might have some of these personality traits.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like you know what you want in need?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I would say I would agree with Katie Ashley.

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Speaker 1: Besides being sensitive, you've said yes to all these things.

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Speaker 2: So why are you getting so irritated by the little thing?

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Speaker 4: No, I said, I slightly get irritated by other little things.

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Speaker 4: It's not like, yeah, I don't. I don't think I

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Speaker 3: You gotta give some of that to me, like not irritated,

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Speaker 3: but you know it's kind of like, ah, I'm struggling

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Speaker 4: You want to ask me this last year or two

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Speaker 3: And uh, where did I find it? Was like betterhelp?

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Speaker 2: Does that stuff work?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry. It was doc doc.

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Speaker 2: Doc doc, and it was an online therapist. She was

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Speaker 4: I found. Yeah, you just put your h what is

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Speaker 2: If you want. If I want them to be not

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Speaker 3: You, don't go, then they won't their bio.

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Speaker 2: I click that. I would not do that.

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Speaker 1: What about this one? Do you feel unsupported and alone

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Speaker 4: Really?

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Speaker 2: Are we feeling.

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Speaker 1: Who?

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Speaker 2: That's fair? But I hope you know that we'll support

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Speaker 2: you through it. I appreciate and love you guys for that,

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Speaker 2: unless you lie.

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Speaker 1: And then the last one is they compare themselves to others.

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Speaker 5: Comparisons. Yeah, I would say, yeah, I have recency biased. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: What was your therapist saying to do well?

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Speaker 4: I had well first I had to just like, no,

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Speaker 4: I was into social media so much, and I was

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Speaker 4: so much better than me? And she's like, just focus

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Speaker 4: Like I mean, I was happy for them, but I

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Speaker 4: was also just like, why me? Why not me? Why

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Speaker 3: That's true?

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Speaker 2: What is that saying?

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Speaker 3: It's like comparison is the thief of happiness.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, Like why can't I be happy? Because we do

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Speaker 4: amazing things here. I think we're in a great position,

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Speaker 2: That's why I need a therapist. I gotta find the

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Speaker 2: list of ten specific reasons.

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Speaker 1: The reason why I wanted to do this was just

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Speaker 1: like if you were feeling a little irritated by the

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Speaker 1: little things. And more and more I talk to certain people,

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Speaker 1: I realize, oh God, like there's something going on in

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Speaker 1: all right, now I'm aware of these things.

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Speaker 2: I'm rolling for.

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Speaker 1: Like an eight out of ten on this list? How

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Speaker 1: can I knock those things off? And I'll figure it out?

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Speaker 1: Probably not, but I'm gonna think about it.

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Speaker 2: You will, probably won't.

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Speaker 3: You will. No, we need a therapist.

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Speaker 1: I just can't wait to go to this therapist thing

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Speaker 1: and click the boxes. The I might click all the

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Speaker 1: boxes I don't want, just to see how messed up

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Speaker 1: the therapy would be.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 2: Would that not help? No? That probably wouldn't help.

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