WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Did She Share Too Much  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update on mojole in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update here on the Mojo in the Morning show,

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<v Speaker 2>Tory went on a date and now he's not getting

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<v Speaker 2>a call back and is wondering what's the reasoning, Tory,

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<v Speaker 2>what did you guys do on your date?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Hey, we went to h Blake's.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and yeah, so Blake's Blakes for those that aren't

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<v Speaker 2>living in the Metro Detroit area, is probably one of

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<v Speaker 2>the best cider mill apple or actually apple orchards, right

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<v Speaker 2>that's around us. It's got a ton of things there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so you guys go, that's cute, that's a that's a

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<v Speaker 2>nice date.

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<v Speaker 3>It was. It was a nice date. Yeah, we had

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<v Speaker 3>a good time and he's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did your date end?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he he did drive me, so he picked me

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<v Speaker 3>up and you drove me home and everything. So we

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<v Speaker 3>parked once we got back to my place and ended

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<v Speaker 3>the night with a kiss. But nothing else happened after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Just and you have not heard from him since this date.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we're going to find out exactly what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Isaac is on the phone with us right now, Tori,

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<v Speaker 2>say hi to Isaac. Hey, Hello, Hi, Isaac, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So, Isaac, was it your idea or her idea to

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<v Speaker 2>to go to Blake's?

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<v Speaker 1>That was okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought that was a cool idea.

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<v Speaker 1>For a date though, absolutely was it a cool date? Was?

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<v Speaker 1>Was the date fun?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean Blake's was cool, but I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>the day itself was kind of weird?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean by that? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Just some of the stuff we talked about, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>for her first date was kind of I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>not ideal.

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<v Speaker 2>What was the discussion, what were the topics?

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<v Speaker 4>Just like I don't know what I like past experiences.

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<v Speaker 5>Like with dating or childhood or what what do you

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<v Speaker 5>mean by that?

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<v Speaker 1>No, with like dating and stuff, Okay, what are.

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<v Speaker 2>Like specific questions or like what do you mean because

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<v Speaker 2>thats normal?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it wasn't really even questions. It was just like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, she kind of unloaded some information that

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't really asked for, Like I don't know, just like

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<v Speaker 4>stuff with their ecs and like intimate details like I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>All this at Blake's.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't see like I, like keV said, I feel

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<v Speaker 6>like that's kind of normal.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, why are you single? Why are you single?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what?

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<v Speaker 6>And did you let your most recent relationship? Like those

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<v Speaker 6>are things you definitely talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Tory, What were some of the what were some of

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<v Speaker 2>the questions.

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<v Speaker 3>He asked me about, you know, my past relationships? Since

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<v Speaker 3>I just I was just being honest and talking to

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<v Speaker 3>him about you know, everything about X my ex and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Understand what was it that she said that made you uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 4>Just I don't even want like stuff they did in

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<v Speaker 4>the bedroom together and like, you know, maybe we can

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<v Speaker 4>do that kind of thing, and like it seemed like

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<v Speaker 4>basically like she's just like still you know, in love

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<v Speaker 4>with her exer.

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<v Speaker 2>So to Tori, you talked about sexual stuff that you did, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I did because.

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<v Speaker 3>We were sharing and asking you know, questions to each other,

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<v Speaker 3>and I shared. He I mean, I was just being

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<v Speaker 3>honest and sharing. He didn't really open up and share

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<v Speaker 3>his side, but I just was sharing because we were

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<v Speaker 3>asking questions.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I don't mean, do you think you gave

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<v Speaker 1>away too much? Though? Did you say anything that you

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<v Speaker 1>thought now might have been too much?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, So wait a second, will wait, because you said

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<v Speaker 6>that he was asking, So was he asking specific questions

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<v Speaker 6>about your past sex life?

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<v Speaker 1>For no?

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<v Speaker 4>Let me I can answer that no, Like I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to know like maybe if she had kids or was

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<v Speaker 4>in a marriage or something like things that are like

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<v Speaker 4>important to know on a first date. Okay, But in

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<v Speaker 4>no way did I ever ask, like for specific details

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<v Speaker 4>that was going on like in her past relationship, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like they just kind of like it was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>freaky and gross.

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<v Speaker 1>So and she was given that to you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, what's interesting for those that don't ever go

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<v Speaker 2>to like apple orchards or these great you know, fall

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<v Speaker 2>fun things to do in the you know, Ohio and Michigan.

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<v Speaker 2>I can picture them sitting like on a haystack or

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<v Speaker 2>hate right. And there's like the kids picture, like Shannon

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<v Speaker 2>and her kids there, like all hanging out eating an

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<v Speaker 2>apple off of a stick. And these guys are like

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<v Speaker 2>talking about the dudes they tories hanging out with. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you never know, Yeah, I think some people's

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<v Speaker 2>level of truing.

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<v Speaker 4>She tell me some of the things she used to

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<v Speaker 4>eat off a stick.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot. That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I wasn't saying it like loud for

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<v Speaker 3>everybody to hear. That again, was just being honest and sharing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Vinnie, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, honestly, I kn't of agree with her.

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<v Speaker 8>Sometimes, you know, you just start sharing stuff and it

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<v Speaker 8>comes out and hey, sometimes wouldn't you rather someone get

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<v Speaker 8>that stuff out of the way in the beginning and

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<v Speaker 8>said you find out about it later and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Something that you're not into, So you'd be interested in

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<v Speaker 1>a girl that would share that much with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's how me and my girlfriend when we

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<v Speaker 2>first met, we shared a lot of stuff with each

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<v Speaker 2>other and we've been going strong for two years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Angie, what's up?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi? Hi?

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<v Speaker 8>I just gotta say this man, he sounds kind of lame,

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<v Speaker 8>like why would you on a second day? He can't

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<v Speaker 8>even explain what Like, it was just like you were

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<v Speaker 8>trying to pull out what he was trying.

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<v Speaker 1>To say, Like, yeah, well, I think it's in fairness, Angie.

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<v Speaker 2>You said he was kind of embarrassed to share too

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<v Speaker 2>much of what she was saying, and if she said

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<v Speaker 2>anything that was uncomfortable, he didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know, it's just like it's better to talk

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<v Speaker 8>about it in the beginning like, yeah, just so you know,

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<v Speaker 8>like what somebody's into, because what if you're into the

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<v Speaker 8>same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know what's up Jordan High.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So I.

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<v Speaker 9>Think Tori, she must have been in like AA or

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<v Speaker 9>something like back in the day. She just got carried

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<v Speaker 9>away with the free sharing, because that's just what I

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<v Speaker 9>started thinking. And I was laughing because I remember I

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<v Speaker 9>got an alcohol take you back in my twenties, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had to sit hey for like a year.

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<v Speaker 9>I had to go a couple of nights a week,

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<v Speaker 9>and there would be people from all over my town

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<v Speaker 9>sharing these stories, and I would just be floored that

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<v Speaker 9>people share this stuff so holdenly.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, there's this guy.

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<v Speaker 9>That still cuts hair in my town and he talked

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<v Speaker 9>about how he lost his million dollar business because he

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<v Speaker 9>became a male prostitute, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, wow, I still see this guy all over.

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<v Speaker 9>Town and he still knows the same AA and everybody

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<v Speaker 9>in town that like knows this guy because he cuts

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<v Speaker 9>hair and he shares the same story.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, it's ober for like.

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<v Speaker 9>Thirty five years. I'm like the way Tori share and

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<v Speaker 9>I'm like, that's what reminds me of like she just

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<v Speaker 9>got talking and like maybe she's been in like a

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<v Speaker 9>group session or something before.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't know, I you know, And I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to ask that question because that's personal.

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<v Speaker 1>And but Brian, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Brian?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to ask any personal questions to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to know your opinion. What did you think?

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<v Speaker 7>I think that this guy sounds like he's already devaluing her.

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<v Speaker 7>And then it sounds pretty controlled and conditioned.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, isn't at the point to date to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know somebody. So what are they looking for? Sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like she was looking to old space. I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was trying for surface.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know. I actually kind of understand where he's

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<v Speaker 5>with this comment.

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<v Speaker 7>I think it's like the little boys, you know, swimming pool.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, if we can't communicate, we can't even get

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<v Speaker 7>to know each.

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<v Speaker 1>Other, then why are we there? And he was asking

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<v Speaker 1>questions anyways.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean she may she may have over shared a

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<v Speaker 6>bit in my opinion, but.

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<v Speaker 7>Something like hey, I can only handle so much, but

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<v Speaker 7>I appreciate the honesty. I'd rather have somebody honest than

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<v Speaker 7>playing me for performance.

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<v Speaker 6>You go to therapy don't you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, just living and watching and.

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<v Speaker 5>You're very emotionally intelligent.

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<v Speaker 2>The interesting thing, though, is I think when one's not

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<v Speaker 2>sharing and the others over sharing, it makes it more drastic.

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<v Speaker 2>And Sasha, what's up last call?

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<v Speaker 7>I know?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think it's good that she shared, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if he was asking.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm an oversharer.

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<v Speaker 1>I will just keep talking. I mean, you need the

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<v Speaker 1>sexual compatibility. Would you rather know now or later?

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<v Speaker 2>But it's interesting that Tory wants to know what's going on,

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<v Speaker 2>because it sounds to me like you're not compatible at all, Toy.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if he's not comfortable with me sharing things

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know we were.

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<v Speaker 2>If on the date he wasn't sharing anything, did you

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<v Speaker 2>not notice that though, that he was not really sharing much?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was. I was fine if he was

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<v Speaker 3>uncomfortable sharing as much detail as me. But you know

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<v Speaker 3>that's that's his prerogative. That I wasn't gonna write him

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<v Speaker 3>off because of that or think that the date went bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well now you know. Now you know the story

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<v Speaker 2>and Isaac now got it out there. I appreciate both

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<v Speaker 2>you guys for going on second date updates.

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<v Speaker 7>This is the whole of the dirty on the thirty,

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<v Speaker 7>go back throw on, a second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>And more of the roses.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Mojo in the morning.