Speaker 1: It's the second date update on mojole in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Second date update here on the Mojo in the Morning show,
Speaker 2: Tory went on a date and now he's not getting
Speaker 2: a call back and is wondering what's the reasoning, Tory,
Speaker 2: what did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 3: Oh? Hey, we went to h Blake's.
Speaker 2: Oh and yeah, so Blake's Blakes for those that aren't
Speaker 2: living in the Metro Detroit area, is probably one of
Speaker 2: the best cider mill apple or actually apple orchards, right
Speaker 2: that's around us. It's got a ton of things there. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so you guys go, that's cute, that's a that's a
Speaker 2: nice date.
Speaker 3: It was. It was a nice date. Yeah, we had
Speaker 3: a good time and he's really cute.
Speaker 1: And how did your date end?
Speaker 3: Well, he he did drive me, so he picked me
Speaker 3: up and you drove me home and everything. So we
Speaker 3: parked once we got back to my place and ended
Speaker 3: the night with a kiss. But nothing else happened after that.
Speaker 1: Just and you have not heard from him since this date.
Speaker 3: I have not.
Speaker 2: Now we're going to find out exactly what's going on.
Speaker 2: Isaac is on the phone with us right now, Tori,
Speaker 2: say hi to Isaac. Hey, Hello, Hi, Isaac, how you doing.
Speaker 4: I'm okay?
Speaker 2: So, Isaac, was it your idea or her idea to
Speaker 2: to go to Blake's?
Speaker 1: That was okay.
Speaker 4: I thought that was a cool idea.
Speaker 1: For a date though, absolutely was it a cool date? Was?
Speaker 1: Was the date fun?
Speaker 4: I mean Blake's was cool, but I don't know if
Speaker 4: the day itself was kind of weird?
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? I don't know.
Speaker 4: Just some of the stuff we talked about, you know,
Speaker 4: for her first date was kind of I don't know,
Speaker 4: not ideal.
Speaker 2: What was the discussion, what were the topics?
Speaker 4: Just like I don't know what I like past experiences.
Speaker 5: Like with dating or childhood or what what do you
Speaker 5: mean by that?
Speaker 1: No, with like dating and stuff, Okay, what are.
Speaker 2: Like specific questions or like what do you mean because
Speaker 2: thats normal?
Speaker 4: Well, it wasn't really even questions. It was just like,
Speaker 4: I don't know, she kind of unloaded some information that
Speaker 4: wasn't really asked for, Like I don't know, just like
Speaker 4: stuff with their ecs and like intimate details like I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 1: All this at Blake's.
Speaker 5: I mean I don't.
Speaker 6: I don't see like I, like keV said, I feel
Speaker 6: like that's kind of normal.
Speaker 5: It's like, why are you single? Why are you single?
Speaker 1: Like what?
Speaker 6: And did you let your most recent relationship? Like those
Speaker 6: are things you definitely talk about.
Speaker 2: Tory, What were some of the what were some of
Speaker 2: the questions.
Speaker 3: He asked me about, you know, my past relationships? Since
Speaker 3: I just I was just being honest and talking to
Speaker 3: him about you know, everything about X my ex and yeah,
Speaker 3: so I don't.
Speaker 2: Understand what was it that she said that made you uncomfortable?
Speaker 4: Just I don't even want like stuff they did in
Speaker 4: the bedroom together and like, you know, maybe we can
Speaker 4: do that kind of thing, and like it seemed like
Speaker 4: basically like she's just like still you know, in love
Speaker 4: with her exer.
Speaker 2: So to Tori, you talked about sexual stuff that you did, well,
Speaker 2: I did because.
Speaker 3: We were sharing and asking you know, questions to each other,
Speaker 3: and I shared. He I mean, I was just being
Speaker 3: honest and sharing. He didn't really open up and share
Speaker 3: his side, but I just was sharing because we were
Speaker 3: asking questions.
Speaker 1: And so I don't mean, do you think you gave
Speaker 1: away too much? Though? Did you say anything that you
Speaker 1: thought now might have been too much?
Speaker 3: I mean I don't think so.
Speaker 6: Well, So wait a second, will wait, because you said
Speaker 6: that he was asking, So was he asking specific questions
Speaker 6: about your past sex life?
Speaker 1: For no?
Speaker 4: Let me I can answer that no, Like I wanted
Speaker 4: to know like maybe if she had kids or was
Speaker 4: in a marriage or something like things that are like
Speaker 4: important to know on a first date. Okay, But in
Speaker 4: no way did I ever ask, like for specific details
Speaker 4: that was going on like in her past relationship, you know,
Speaker 4: like they just kind of like it was kind of
Speaker 4: freaky and gross.
Speaker 1: So and she was given that to you.
Speaker 2: You know, what's interesting for those that don't ever go
Speaker 2: to like apple orchards or these great you know, fall
Speaker 2: fun things to do in the you know, Ohio and Michigan.
Speaker 2: I can picture them sitting like on a haystack or
Speaker 2: hate right. And there's like the kids picture, like Shannon
Speaker 2: and her kids there, like all hanging out eating an
Speaker 2: apple off of a stick. And these guys are like
Speaker 2: talking about the dudes they tories hanging out with. I mean,
Speaker 2: you know, you never know, Yeah, I think some people's
Speaker 2: level of truing.
Speaker 4: She tell me some of the things she used to
Speaker 4: eat off a stick.
Speaker 1: A lot. That's a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I wasn't saying it like loud for
Speaker 3: everybody to hear. That again, was just being honest and sharing.
Speaker 1: Okay, Vinnie, what's up?
Speaker 7: I don't know, honestly, I kn't of agree with her.
Speaker 8: Sometimes, you know, you just start sharing stuff and it
Speaker 8: comes out and hey, sometimes wouldn't you rather someone get
Speaker 8: that stuff out of the way in the beginning and
Speaker 8: said you find out about it later and then.
Speaker 1: Something that you're not into, So you'd be interested in
Speaker 1: a girl that would share that much with you?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's how me and my girlfriend when we
Speaker 2: first met, we shared a lot of stuff with each
Speaker 2: other and we've been going strong for two years ago.
Speaker 1: All right, Angie, what's up?
Speaker 3: Hi? Hi?
Speaker 8: I just gotta say this man, he sounds kind of lame,
Speaker 8: like why would you on a second day? He can't
Speaker 8: even explain what Like, it was just like you were
Speaker 8: trying to pull out what he was trying.
Speaker 1: To say, Like, yeah, well, I think it's in fairness, Angie.
Speaker 2: You said he was kind of embarrassed to share too
Speaker 2: much of what she was saying, and if she said
Speaker 2: anything that was uncomfortable, he didn't want to.
Speaker 8: I don't know, it's just like it's better to talk
Speaker 8: about it in the beginning like, yeah, just so you know,
Speaker 8: like what somebody's into, because what if you're into the
Speaker 8: same thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know what's up Jordan High.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I.
Speaker 9: Think Tori, she must have been in like AA or
Speaker 9: something like back in the day. She just got carried
Speaker 9: away with the free sharing, because that's just what I
Speaker 9: started thinking. And I was laughing because I remember I
Speaker 9: got an alcohol take you back in my twenties, you know.
Speaker 1: And I had to sit hey for like a year.
Speaker 9: I had to go a couple of nights a week,
Speaker 9: and there would be people from all over my town
Speaker 9: sharing these stories, and I would just be floored that
Speaker 9: people share this stuff so holdenly.
Speaker 1: And I mean, there's this guy.
Speaker 9: That still cuts hair in my town and he talked
Speaker 9: about how he lost his million dollar business because he
Speaker 9: became a male prostitute, and.
Speaker 1: Like, wow, I still see this guy all over.
Speaker 9: Town and he still knows the same AA and everybody
Speaker 9: in town that like knows this guy because he cuts
Speaker 9: hair and he shares the same story.
Speaker 1: Wow, it's ober for like.
Speaker 9: Thirty five years. I'm like the way Tori share and
Speaker 9: I'm like, that's what reminds me of like she just
Speaker 9: got talking and like maybe she's been in like a
Speaker 9: group session or something before.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean I don't know, I you know, And I
Speaker 2: don't want to ask that question because that's personal.
Speaker 1: And but Brian, what's up?
Speaker 7: Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Brian?
Speaker 2: I'm not going to ask any personal questions to you.
Speaker 2: I just want to know your opinion. What did you think?
Speaker 7: I think that this guy sounds like he's already devaluing her.
Speaker 7: And then it sounds pretty controlled and conditioned.
Speaker 1: I mean, isn't at the point to date to get
Speaker 1: to know somebody. So what are they looking for? Sounds
Speaker 1: like she was looking to old space. I think he
Speaker 1: was trying for surface.
Speaker 5: I didn't know. I actually kind of understand where he's
Speaker 5: with this comment.
Speaker 7: I think it's like the little boys, you know, swimming pool.
Speaker 7: I mean, if we can't communicate, we can't even get
Speaker 7: to know each.
Speaker 1: Other, then why are we there? And he was asking
Speaker 1: questions anyways.
Speaker 6: I mean she may she may have over shared a
Speaker 6: bit in my opinion, but.
Speaker 7: Something like hey, I can only handle so much, but
Speaker 7: I appreciate the honesty. I'd rather have somebody honest than
Speaker 7: playing me for performance.
Speaker 6: You go to therapy don't you.
Speaker 1: Know, just living and watching and.
Speaker 5: You're very emotionally intelligent.
Speaker 2: The interesting thing, though, is I think when one's not
Speaker 2: sharing and the others over sharing, it makes it more drastic.
Speaker 2: And Sasha, what's up last call?
Speaker 7: I know?
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's good that she shared, especially
Speaker 1: if he was asking.
Speaker 5: I'm an oversharer.
Speaker 1: I will just keep talking. I mean, you need the
Speaker 1: sexual compatibility. Would you rather know now or later?
Speaker 2: But it's interesting that Tory wants to know what's going on,
Speaker 2: because it sounds to me like you're not compatible at all, Toy.
Speaker 3: I mean, if he's not comfortable with me sharing things
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: And I know we were.
Speaker 2: If on the date he wasn't sharing anything, did you
Speaker 2: not notice that though, that he was not really sharing much?
Speaker 3: I mean I was. I was fine if he was
Speaker 3: uncomfortable sharing as much detail as me. But you know
Speaker 3: that's that's his prerogative. That I wasn't gonna write him
Speaker 3: off because of that or think that the date went bad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well now you know. Now you know the story
Speaker 2: and Isaac now got it out there. I appreciate both
Speaker 2: you guys for going on second date updates.
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