WEBVTT - Mia Ghosted Devon Over Nachos

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<v Speaker 1>More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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<v Speaker 1>it's Star one on one three, it is Marcus. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing second date update. Might as well get right into it.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say you go on a date, you get ghosted,

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<v Speaker 1>and we will have you on the line when we

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<v Speaker 1>call your date to figure out what went wrong, so

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<v Speaker 1>you can listen in. You don't have to hear it

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<v Speaker 1>from me, you can hear it from them directly, indirectly.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that made sense. We have Devin on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Devin, Hey, good morning. How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Just tell me I'm making total sense this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you're absolutely making total sense this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about your date. Man, So Mia right, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>trivia becoming more and more popular. So many like trivia

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<v Speaker 1>first dates. So according to your DM, it was trivia

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<v Speaker 1>in Campbell. Well, you know what I'm getting ahead of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 2>We met online? You know, I've been liking trivia night

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<v Speaker 2>dates just because it's like a good way to be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you an expert on what? I can also

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<v Speaker 2>flex a little bit things like that, not physically flex,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, mentally flex.

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<v Speaker 1>But totally get it. We do trivia on this show

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<v Speaker 1>every morning eight oh five. What you know about that?

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<v Speaker 1>And I've learned that there is like there are like

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<v Speaker 1>trivia questions that are cute, and then there are like

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<v Speaker 1>trivia questions like who would actually know that? That's so trivial,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>No, totally, totally, and that's the kind of stuff personally

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<v Speaker 2>I pride myself on, sure. But she was answering a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of those questions too that were like the niche

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<v Speaker 2>like trivia hard questions, and honestly, the whole experience was

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<v Speaker 2>just downright hilarious. Okay, we weren't fully serious about the time.

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<v Speaker 2>We're both restaurant industry workers, you know, being out late

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<v Speaker 2>on a weeknight now, no biggie, and yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 2>just joking and connecting the whole evening, like answering the questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Sharing nachos like that was the next you know, right

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<v Speaker 2>that we thought we'd bring. I don't know what it is, seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>like try being attractive while eating nachos, Like, come on,

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<v Speaker 2>she was doing it. I thought this whole thing was

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<v Speaker 2>a hit man. And truly I haven't heard a peep

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<v Speaker 2>out of her since then, Like not a text, no

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<v Speaker 2>response to and nothing, absolutely nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well that's why we're here. We'll try to figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. So, like I said, we're gonna call her.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have you on the line. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date. It's Marcus. Good morning, we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing second date update. I've got Devin holding and he

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about his date with me. And now they

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<v Speaker 1>went on on a Wednesday, which for most of us

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, oh God, are you kidding? But you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you sit that you work restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we do.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so Wednesday not that serious. And it was Trivia

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<v Speaker 1>and Campbell on a Wednesday, and she's ghosted. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>call her and try to figure some things out. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna see how the date went from her perspective. Go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and mute your phone. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>may I speak to Mia. Please?

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<v Speaker 3>This is Nia.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Marcus. I do a radio show on

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<v Speaker 1>Star one O one three out of San Francisco for iHeart.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a morning show. We're on right now, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if you have a moment to chat on the

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<v Speaker 1>air for a sec. I'm secretly hoping you'd listen of course.

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<v Speaker 3>I do, and of course I know who you are,

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<v Speaker 3>and I saw like the caller idea what everyone was like,

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<v Speaker 3>what what?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you for listening every morning. Okay, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing second date update. I don't know if you know

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<v Speaker 1>what that is?

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<v Speaker 2>Good miss? Of course I do, of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Is yes, Devin, Yeah, okay, hey, hey, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I am good. I never thought i'd be on on

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<v Speaker 3>this show, but here I am, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you don't here you are here? I am.

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<v Speaker 1>This is delicious. So I mean, Mia, you know why

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<v Speaker 1>we're here. Devin enjoyed your date. He'd like to take

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<v Speaker 1>you out again. I'm wondering, did you ghost? You sound

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<v Speaker 1>so kind, you don't sound like a ghoster. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I Sometimes it's just easier that way, if you know that,

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<v Speaker 3>like if you just didn't get the right vibe, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's just easier to sort of like, you know, not

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<v Speaker 3>lead them on in any way. I'm just sort of

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<v Speaker 3>let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>Did something, I mean, did something happen with the vibe?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean everything was going great until yeah, there

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<v Speaker 3>was a turning point. Basically, we went to a trivia

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<v Speaker 3>I and it actually started out really fun and Devin

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<v Speaker 3>was really like attentive, like right, it's from the very beginning,

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<v Speaker 3>and and like engaging and super cute. And I loved

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<v Speaker 3>this little thing he did. When I showed up at

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<v Speaker 3>the bar, he already had a drink waiting for me,

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<v Speaker 3>because he texted me ahead of time, basically confirming, like

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<v Speaker 3>what's my drink order? And then it was waiting for

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<v Speaker 3>me when I arrived. No one's ever done that. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought that was so sweet, and he pulled out my chair,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how sweet. And then it kind of

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<v Speaker 3>turned sideway from there, and during trivia, he kept shouting

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<v Speaker 3>out plot twist like after every wrong answer, and eventually

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<v Speaker 3>admitted to me that he'd secretly been to that trivia

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<v Speaker 3>night several times before, and I guess memorized like the

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<v Speaker 3>question so that he could.

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<v Speaker 2>Look smart for me.

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<v Speaker 3>And at one point he even whispered that he only

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<v Speaker 3>dates women with main character energy and that I had

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<v Speaker 3>it quote unquote, I just it was. It all seemed

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<v Speaker 3>like some weird fake set up, like not genuine.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Devin, Ay, any thoughts on this? I mean, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot, man, I'm not gonna lie to you

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<v Speaker 1>all at once. This is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll start saying I was trying to say a compliment,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm trying to hyper up the main character energy

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<v Speaker 2>compliment and like I gotta ask too, like what's wrong

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<v Speaker 2>with the little sandbagging on the question.

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<v Speaker 3>It came off performative, like it wasn't your genuine self,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm trying to say, like, dude, like just be yourself,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I don't need to know about all the homework

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<v Speaker 3>you did to look smart, and the whole main character

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<v Speaker 3>energy thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Just felt like a line.

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<v Speaker 3>Like to me, it felt like how many girls have you.

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<v Speaker 2>Said that to?

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<v Speaker 1>You? Started out started out gangbusters? Am I right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And you're cute and really sweet. Something that I really

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<v Speaker 3>look for is people that are genuine.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that I had to it on something like

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to impress you. If you were to

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<v Speaker 2>give me a second date, I promise you that I

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<v Speaker 2>will dial it back. I will just be myself.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, it all on the field right now, Miah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we can salvage this. Can we give

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<v Speaker 1>Devin a second chance? Here?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean, I guess maybe it just was a

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<v Speaker 3>misunderstanding and I'm led to do it. And yes, I

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<v Speaker 3>hear you, and I'm willing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's time to bring the chow bell

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<v Speaker 1>of destiny because we just got ourselves a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what is surprise for today? You did it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my guy, Oh

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<v Speaker 2>We did it.