1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,559 Speaker 1: More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: it's Star one on one three, it is Marcus. We're 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: doing second date update. Might as well get right into it. 4 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: So let's say you go on a date, you get ghosted, 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: and we will have you on the line when we 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: call your date to figure out what went wrong, so 7 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: you can listen in. You don't have to hear it 8 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: from me, you can hear it from them directly, indirectly. 9 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: I hope that made sense. We have Devin on the phone. 10 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: Good morning, Devin, Hey, good morning. How are you good? 11 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: Just tell me I'm making total sense this morning. 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: Yes, you're absolutely making total sense this morning. 13 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: Let's talk about your date. Man, So Mia right, apparently 14 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: trivia becoming more and more popular. So many like trivia 15 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 1: first dates. So according to your DM, it was trivia 16 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: in Campbell. Well, you know what I'm getting ahead of myself. 17 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: How did you guys meet? 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 2: We met online? You know, I've been liking trivia night 19 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: dates just because it's like a good way to be like, Okay, 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: what are you an expert on what? I can also 21 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 2: flex a little bit things like that, not physically flex, 22 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 2: you know, mentally flex. 23 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: But totally get it. We do trivia on this show 24 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: every morning eight oh five. What you know about that? 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: And I've learned that there is like there are like 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: trivia questions that are cute, and then there are like 27 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: trivia questions like who would actually know that? That's so trivial, 28 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? 29 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: No, totally, totally, and that's the kind of stuff personally 30 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: I pride myself on, sure. But she was answering a 31 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: lot of those questions too that were like the niche 32 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 2: like trivia hard questions, and honestly, the whole experience was 33 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 2: just downright hilarious. Okay, we weren't fully serious about the time. 34 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: We're both restaurant industry workers, you know, being out late 35 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: on a weeknight now, no biggie, and yeah, we were 36 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 2: just joking and connecting the whole evening, like answering the questions. 37 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 2: Sharing nachos like that was the next you know, right 38 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: that we thought we'd bring. I don't know what it is, seriously, 39 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: like try being attractive while eating nachos, Like, come on, 40 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 2: she was doing it. I thought this whole thing was 41 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 2: a hit man. And truly I haven't heard a peep 42 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 2: out of her since then, Like not a text, no 43 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: response to and nothing, absolutely nothing. 44 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's why we're here. We'll try to figure 45 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: it out. So, like I said, we're gonna call her. 46 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: We'll have you on the line. I would love to 47 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: get you a second date. It's Marcus. Good morning, we're 48 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: doing second date update. I've got Devin holding and he 49 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: was talking about his date with me. And now they 50 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: went on on a Wednesday, which for most of us 51 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: to be like, oh God, are you kidding? But you guys, 52 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: you sit that you work restaurant. 53 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 2: Yes, we do. 54 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so Wednesday not that serious. And it was Trivia 55 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: and Campbell on a Wednesday, and she's ghosted. So let's 56 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: call her and try to figure some things out. I'm 57 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: gonna see how the date went from her perspective. Go 58 00:02:51,280 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: ahead and mute your phone. Here we go. Hello, Hi, 59 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: may I speak to Mia. Please? 60 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 3: This is Nia. 61 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: Hi. 62 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 1: My name is Marcus. I do a radio show on 63 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: Star one O one three out of San Francisco for iHeart. 64 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: It's a morning show. We're on right now, and I'm 65 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: wondering if you have a moment to chat on the 66 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:25,279 Speaker 1: air for a sec. I'm secretly hoping you'd listen of course. 67 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 3: I do, and of course I know who you are, 68 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 3: and I saw like the caller idea what everyone was like, 69 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 3: what what? 70 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: Well, thank you for listening every morning. Okay, so we're 71 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: doing second date update. I don't know if you know 72 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: what that is? 73 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: Good miss? Of course I do, of course. 74 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: Is yes, Devin, Yeah, okay, hey, hey, how you doing? 75 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 3: I am good. I never thought i'd be on on 76 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: this show, but here I am, and. 77 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: Then you don't here you are here? I am. 78 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: This is delicious. So I mean, Mia, you know why 79 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: we're here. Devin enjoyed your date. He'd like to take 80 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: you out again. I'm wondering, did you ghost? You sound 81 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: so kind, you don't sound like a ghoster. I'm not 82 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: gonna lie. 83 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: I Sometimes it's just easier that way, if you know that, 84 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 3: like if you just didn't get the right vibe, and 85 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 3: it's just easier to sort of like, you know, not 86 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 3: lead them on in any way. I'm just sort of 87 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 3: let it go. 88 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: Did something, I mean, did something happen with the vibe? 89 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 3: Well, I mean everything was going great until yeah, there 90 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 3: was a turning point. Basically, we went to a trivia 91 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 3: I and it actually started out really fun and Devin 92 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 3: was really like attentive, like right, it's from the very beginning, 93 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 3: and and like engaging and super cute. And I loved 94 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 3: this little thing he did. When I showed up at 95 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 3: the bar, he already had a drink waiting for me, 96 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 3: because he texted me ahead of time, basically confirming, like 97 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 3: what's my drink order? And then it was waiting for 98 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 3: me when I arrived. No one's ever done that. I 99 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 3: thought that was so sweet, and he pulled out my chair, 100 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: I don't know how sweet. And then it kind of 101 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 3: turned sideway from there, and during trivia, he kept shouting 102 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 3: out plot twist like after every wrong answer, and eventually 103 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 3: admitted to me that he'd secretly been to that trivia 104 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 3: night several times before, and I guess memorized like the 105 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 3: question so that he could. 106 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: Look smart for me. 107 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 3: And at one point he even whispered that he only 108 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 3: dates women with main character energy and that I had 109 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 3: it quote unquote, I just it was. It all seemed 110 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: like some weird fake set up, like not genuine. 111 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: Right, Devin, Ay, any thoughts on this? I mean, this 112 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: is a lot, man, I'm not gonna lie to you 113 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: all at once. This is a lot. 114 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: I'll start saying I was trying to say a compliment, 115 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: like I'm trying to hyper up the main character energy 116 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 2: compliment and like I gotta ask too, like what's wrong 117 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 2: with the little sandbagging on the question. 118 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 3: It came off performative, like it wasn't your genuine self, 119 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to say, like, dude, like just be yourself, 120 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 3: Like I don't need to know about all the homework 121 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 3: you did to look smart, and the whole main character 122 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 3: energy thing. 123 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 2: Just felt like a line. 124 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,720 Speaker 3: Like to me, it felt like how many girls have you. 125 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 2: Said that to? 126 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: You? Started out started out gangbusters? Am I right? 127 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 128 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 3: And you're cute and really sweet. Something that I really 129 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 3: look for is people that are genuine. 130 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 2: I thought that I had to it on something like 131 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 2: I just wanted to impress you. If you were to 132 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 2: give me a second date, I promise you that I 133 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 2: will dial it back. I will just be myself. 134 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: My god, it all on the field right now, Miah, 135 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: I feel like we can salvage this. Can we give 136 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: Devin a second chance? Here? 137 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, I guess maybe it just was a 138 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 3: misunderstanding and I'm led to do it. And yes, I 139 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 3: hear you, and I'm willing. 140 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's time to bring the chow bell 141 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: of destiny because we just got ourselves a second date. 142 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, what is surprise for today? You did it? 143 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: Oh my guy, Oh 144 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 2: We did it.