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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We're back with second date update.

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Speaker 1: We got to get Derek on the phone immediately. Derek, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hey there, How are you feeling right now?

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Speaker 2: Anxious? We're leieved to get some help.

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Speaker 3: I would take confused.

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Speaker 2: Oh sure, I left that one out.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about Olivia because I understand she's ghosted since

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Speaker 1: your date. We're going to try to figure this out.

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Speaker 1: Run me through like how it went down. What did

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Speaker 1: you guys do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we had just a casual dinner met up in

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Speaker 3: Redwood City. You know, it was vibes I felt were there.

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Speaker 3: It was just pretty calm, and we chatted about a

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Speaker 3: lot of things, our family. It got you know, got

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Speaker 3: pretty uh, it got pretty into it. But I felt

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Speaker 3: like we were connecting on our shared issues with our family,

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Speaker 3: and you know, it just ended pretty well.

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Speaker 1: And is there anybody out there that doesn't have family issues?

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Speaker 2: And like, the bigger the family, the more issues, because

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Speaker 2: there's just more exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, such a good thing to bond on.

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Speaker 2: Commiseration always healthy. Let's and she's ghosted.

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Speaker 1: Let me call her. Then we'll try to figure some

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Speaker 1: things out. I'm gonna have you muted. You won't be holding.

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Speaker 1: You'll be muted so be able to listen in. But

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Speaker 1: let's see if we can at least get you some answers.

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Speaker 1: If not a second date, okay, all right, Bud doing

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update right now. Derek has been holding. Had

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Speaker 1: dinner with Olivia in Redwood City and super casual. Yeah, Derek, Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's try to figure out why she ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead and mut your phone. I'm gonna give her

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Speaker 2: a call. Here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Olivia?

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Speaker 2: Good morning?

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Speaker 1: It's a Marcus calling from Star one one three. I

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Speaker 1: do the morning show.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Hi, do you listen?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Not really?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Fair, So we do a segment on our show called

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update, and I got your phone number from

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Speaker 1: a guy who says he took you on a first

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Speaker 1: date and now he's kind of feeling ghosted. So I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to figure out if I'm being honestly like

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Speaker 1: he did he do something wrong? I'm trying to help

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Speaker 1: out my guy. Do you have a minute to talk

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Speaker 1: about a date you just went on? The guy's name

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Speaker 1: is Derek. Do you remember Derek?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure, I mean it's awkward, but sure.

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Speaker 2: Perfect my favorite. So, how did the day go for you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, did you ghost by.

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Speaker 4: The way, Okay, I mean I haven't responded, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sure, what did he do?

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Speaker 1: It was?

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Speaker 4: I mean starts offline. I just I mean, I just

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Speaker 4: kind of feel like he sort of quickly started. I

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Speaker 4: guess the only way to put it is like trauma

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Speaker 4: dumping on me.

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Speaker 1: Pretty early, he said, you guys talked about family stuff,

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Speaker 1: so like.

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Speaker 4: I mean not just family, like a very personal stories

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Speaker 4: about how his ex like once ghosted him after borrowing

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Speaker 4: his hoodie and then he still like thinks about it

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Speaker 4: when he sees this hoodie or lens of to someone.

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Speaker 4: And then and then he quickly was like talking about

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Speaker 4: his dog that ran away when he was a kid

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Speaker 4: during a family barbecue, Like maybe those would be funny,

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Speaker 4: but he was like, I don't fully trust happiness when

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Speaker 4: things are going well, and like I think he started

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Speaker 4: to like kind of care, like he was like very

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Speaker 4: seriously telling me these stories.

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Speaker 5: But he got really existential on you, like yeah, but

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Speaker 5: like we like hadn't even ordered our entrees yet, Like

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Speaker 5: this is like very quick, okay.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't know what to do, and but like

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Speaker 4: I guess I could have looked past that stuff, but

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Speaker 4: I mean, this is gross, and I'm not trying to

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Speaker 4: like be mean, but he was burping constantly throughout the

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Speaker 4: entire meal.

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Speaker 2: Like loud, like not under his breath or anything.

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Speaker 4: Like little burps after a sip of beer, after a

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Speaker 4: bite of food, sometimes in the middle of the sentence,

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Speaker 4: like I mean would say excuse me, but like after

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Speaker 4: the fact every time, and it was it was it

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Speaker 4: was just as sorry as gross.

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Speaker 3: It was gross.

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Speaker 4: And I was just feeling like between that and talking

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Speaker 4: about his trauma, and I was just like, okay, holding

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Speaker 4: space and waiting for the air to clear.

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Speaker 2: Couldn't smell that this is helpful.

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Speaker 1: So part of this is that actually Derek is listening

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Speaker 1: right now and hopefully taking some notes.

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Speaker 2: Derek, are you there, Yeah, are you listening?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just emotionally available. That would be my response

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Speaker 3: to all this. People say they want honesty, and I was,

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Speaker 3: I was just being honest Olivia about ben you have.

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Speaker 4: I just I mean, it's I think being emotionally available

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Speaker 4: is great, like not on a first date when you're

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Speaker 4: treating me like your therapist.

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Speaker 2: Right, And we haven't even discussed Derek.

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Speaker 3: We were drinking beer lot. When I have beer, I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't help my body. You know. Then I was saying,

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Speaker 3: excuse me after it happened, so like sue me.

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Speaker 1: We literally were just talking on the air about how

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Speaker 1: disgusting that is out loud.

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Speaker 2: Though.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think as an adult, you need to

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Speaker 4: learn how to like keep those inside or quiet or

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Speaker 4: like or get get medicine. I don't know, like you

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Speaker 4: probably have some sort of gas issue.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't even know why I'm asking.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we've got brought some things to light, Olivia.

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Speaker 1: Is there any chance at a second date if he

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Speaker 1: cleans it up a little bit?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Sure, hang on the burping dude anyway.

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update will be back tomorrow at seven o'clock

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Speaker 1: and then nine o'clock. You got the podcast as always

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