WEBVTT - Should Kevin Give Her a Promise Ring?

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people are asking about Kevin and did

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<v Speaker 1>he go to breakfast Saturday?

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just use that term, did you did you eat

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<v Speaker 2>breakfast Saturday?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I did not. You did not do it.

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<v Speaker 1>The breakfast thing, you know, I like that yesterday. Good

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<v Speaker 1>good for you. No breakfast for you. It's better to

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<v Speaker 1>it's better to uh intermittent fast away from that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I asked some French toast yesterday. That was phenomenal. And

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not a big French toast person. I like regular

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<v Speaker 4>wheat toes, little strawberry jelly. But as some French house yesterday,

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<v Speaker 4>some eggs, so little pineapple momosa and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>keV has keV has been kind of seeing uh this

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful lady. Uh, her name to only us is our

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<v Speaker 1>Magazine Girl because you met her at the our magazine party.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was some conversation that came into play of

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<v Speaker 1>if this relationship were to get more serious, you were

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<v Speaker 1>gonna need to do something and what.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that get her? A promise? Ring?

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<v Speaker 4>So we so she was over yesterday. I'm I'm doing

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<v Speaker 4>my puzzles. I'm puzzling and uh, she on the college

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<v Speaker 4>working on some stuff. And I don't remember how we

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<v Speaker 4>got on the topic, but we did, and she brought

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<v Speaker 4>up that now she's an avid listener, so she'd be

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<v Speaker 4>hearing stuff, and she heard our dating conversation and I

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<v Speaker 4>think she saw it on socials. So BEONK and I

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<v Speaker 4>we're gonna start having conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>About no, no no.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way we talked about that, I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to real quick on throw this out there. Beyonca Lydia

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<v Speaker 1>and I were having this conversation. We can't do this

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<v Speaker 1>picking and choosing thing if we share to the listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>We shared to the listeners social wise too. All right,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll have our meeting later we can. We'll talk in

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<v Speaker 2>the meeting about it.

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<v Speaker 4>But about this though, she saw that on there, So

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<v Speaker 4>we started to have the real conversation between her and

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<v Speaker 4>I and not with all of us here about dating

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<v Speaker 4>and you know what that means and all of that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm kind of joking where I'm like, her birthday

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<v Speaker 4>is like in a couple of weeks or something, So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, well, what if I just ask you to

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<v Speaker 4>be my girlfriend on your birthday? Like in my mind,

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm kind of halfway joking, but like now you

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<v Speaker 4>joke got a little seriousness in it right. So she

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<v Speaker 4>was like, well, if that's going to happen, then I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to need a promise ring.

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<v Speaker 2>Was she joking or no?

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<v Speaker 4>She was serious? She was she was for real. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I promise Like in my mind, that's like weak.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>You really do it? She's like, I need you to

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<v Speaker 4>promise to me that you're not going to break my heart.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's what a promise ring is. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like a promise ring is like middle school,

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<v Speaker 2>high school. Thank you, That's why I grown.

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<v Speaker 5>When you said that, I was like, no, I cannot

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<v Speaker 5>handle when adults give promise rings. I'm like, just know

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<v Speaker 5>that you're in a committed relationship and if you ultimately

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<v Speaker 5>get engaged, okay, then.

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<v Speaker 2>You buy a ring ring. That's where I'm at. I

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<v Speaker 2>had a promise ring in high school. Really, I actually

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<v Speaker 2>still have it. Yeah, whoa why no? No, no no.

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<v Speaker 5>We were together for years and years and we like

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<v Speaker 5>mutually broke up because.

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<v Speaker 2>You get it at Claire's boutique.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I don't know. I'm sure his parents bought it

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<v Speaker 5>and helped him buy shit.

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<v Speaker 2>It was nice.

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<v Speaker 5>Why do you have this because it is a memento

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<v Speaker 5>from my past. It's in my rubber made box with

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<v Speaker 5>my probably yeah. No, no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so sweet, I wonder Well, first off, let's open

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<v Speaker 1>that to the listener, because obviously, Shannon and I both

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<v Speaker 1>think a promise ring seems very high school high school

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know what your thoughts were. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of chuckle with that too? Okay, But here's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing I want to hear what listeners think about this

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<v Speaker 1>eight four to four Mojo Live or text call me

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<v Speaker 1>to nine five five zero zero and Lydio will get

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<v Speaker 1>you on. Just got one quick thing. If you give

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<v Speaker 1>her a promise ring A what kind of budget do

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<v Speaker 1>you do?

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<v Speaker 2>But two or B? Is it going to send a

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<v Speaker 2>mixed signal?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Does it send a signal that you're now forever?

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<v Speaker 3>Ye?

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<v Speaker 2>Like this is marriage type thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean that would be the only reason I'm

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<v Speaker 4>dating somebody for real, Like I'm not. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>anybody dates with the intention of breaking up in two years,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean? Like, you date with the

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<v Speaker 4>intention of, like, okay, being with this person and hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>being with this person leads to something that's a forever thing.

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<v Speaker 5>So can I ask a question because I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>we jumped from a couple of weeks ago when you

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<v Speaker 5>didn't even know about using the phrase dating because it

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<v Speaker 5>was so one on one and like very committed, Like

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<v Speaker 5>that meant you were very committed to now taking it

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<v Speaker 5>two steps ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And talking about a.

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<v Speaker 4>Promise was halfway joking when I said, like I would

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<v Speaker 4>ask you to be my girlfriend, but it was like

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<v Speaker 4>a halfway joke thing. And then she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 4>if that's gonna happen, I need a promis ring. And

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<v Speaker 4>then that laid down that discussion. Yeah, now I'm a.

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<v Speaker 2>Firm believer like you all are.

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<v Speaker 4>Where it did seem a little bit childish, it did

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<v Speaker 4>seem a little bit young. And then I'm also of

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<v Speaker 4>the mindset that the only ring you should get somebody

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<v Speaker 4>is that ring she'd be like your wedding ring. But

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<v Speaker 4>then I'm also in a stance where it's like, just

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<v Speaker 4>because it's something that I don't consider to be quote

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<v Speaker 4>unquote maybe mature or something that I've strayed away from.

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<v Speaker 4>If that's what she on, then, like you know, with

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<v Speaker 4>your personal 't that big.

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<v Speaker 2>A deal to me?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it takes away from the the the ring.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think when you give a ring like that,

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<v Speaker 1>it takes away from the moment of when you, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, a ring, you know, But.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you got somebody like Shannon and I had it

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<v Speaker 2>for thirty years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but she was in high school. But I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>it means something. But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, at the time, it really did, like that

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<v Speaker 5>was a big deal to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I also thought, you want to marry them? I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>when do you start buying jewelry for somebody that you

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<v Speaker 1>just met? You only met her like a month and

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<v Speaker 1>a month and what was the hour party that was?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it was June.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it was May. I think you've been together

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<v Speaker 5>for a month.

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<v Speaker 2>Together is crazy?

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<v Speaker 5>It was basically Jim all right, Well, I'm just saying.

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<v Speaker 1>What's babe, Good morning guy.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think? Gabe?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, come on, okay, what's the promised ring

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<v Speaker 7>gonna do? I mean, you know, ring just significant by

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<v Speaker 7>like you know, be like significant.

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<v Speaker 8>You know, like mean something.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like when you're dating that you could break

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<v Speaker 7>up any time and it wouldn't really mean anything more

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<v Speaker 7>than if you were to be engaged or married. Then

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<v Speaker 7>a ring, like you know, it significant, it means something

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<v Speaker 7>more than just a normal relationship. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 7>you're old enough to realize that, especially you know, having

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<v Speaker 7>a very serious relationship in the past. So I was

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<v Speaker 7>trying to shock yourself a promise ring.

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<v Speaker 5>To me, though, it just it almost seems like it's

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<v Speaker 5>not about the ring. She's just craving some sort of

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<v Speaker 5>commitment for me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I mean again, ab, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how much you heard. This wasn't my idea, this was

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<v Speaker 4>something that she brought up. But I also feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I think there are different levels of commitment to someone,

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<v Speaker 4>Like once you go past the dating and you say

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<v Speaker 4>I want to only be with you and I want

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<v Speaker 4>to be in a monogamous relationship, that's a commitment to say, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to be in a relationship. And I think

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<v Speaker 4>there's another commitment where you say I'm going to marry you.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think there are different levels of commitment. And

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<v Speaker 4>then different people have their things that symbolize those commitments,

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<v Speaker 4>and some people words just aren't enough. Maybe they want

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<v Speaker 4>something that's a symbol of it, Like you say, an

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<v Speaker 4>engagement ring that's a physical symbol of the fact that

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<v Speaker 4>you have said we're going to be together forever, and

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<v Speaker 4>for some people they want that with a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, it is a bigger commitment than the

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<v Speaker 1>ring key to the crib, as you would say that

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<v Speaker 1>you have a key to the crib.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody got to get my mom My, Mama don't got

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<v Speaker 2>a key to the What.

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<v Speaker 5>About Grandma Alice or Grandmama save Grandma? Grandma Alice is

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<v Speaker 5>there in spirit every day Grandmama want even.

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<v Speaker 2>Comes in and created. Yeah, walking down there.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait real quick, though, you would you give a girl

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<v Speaker 1>the key to your place? When when when you get

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<v Speaker 1>when you moved in? Yeah, that's that's where I would

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<v Speaker 1>be on. Dear draw what's up, Dear dra Hi, Good

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<v Speaker 1>morning everyone, fantastic, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey? Listen, First of all, like you said earlier, it's

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<v Speaker 3>the surprise. Is the oh my god, this moment. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding ring. It's twenty twenty six. For whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 3>the world of women that has gotten a bit insecure,

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<v Speaker 3>in my opinion, for the fact that that ring as

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<v Speaker 3>a promised ring in you're dating, No, she won't find

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<v Speaker 3>every want you'll.

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<v Speaker 8>Break up to break my heart.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean seriously, it's taken away from the moment of

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<v Speaker 3>the engagement, of the wedding ring. You know, and anybody

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<v Speaker 3>and everybody can day you don't know, like things happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Hopefully you don't break up, but don't do.

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<v Speaker 1>It, dear dry. I worry it sends a mixed signal

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody around them that, oh my god, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because people look at rings as it's a for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this is an engagement.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>Even it hasn't been even a month or six months

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<v Speaker 3>anything like that.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm also I'm not I'm not somebody that's about

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<v Speaker 4>to be making decisions based on what other people think

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<v Speaker 4>about it. Yeah, like, I don't give a damn what

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<v Speaker 4>y'all think about you know what I'm saying, And me

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<v Speaker 4>and my partner in but y'all worried.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sleeping with y'all. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I you know what I mean, I uh, I would

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<v Speaker 1>care what people why they not in your relationship because

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<v Speaker 1>they get done talking about chance, they're gonna go talk

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody else's all of a sudden, her mom and

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<v Speaker 1>dad are gonna be like, you got a ring from him?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Then all of a sudden. It takes

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<v Speaker 1>that relationship. It goes from zero to one hundred.

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<v Speaker 4>We had that conversation yesterday too, about a bunch of stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>just not being the help.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you met you met her dad? Did you have

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<v Speaker 1>a talk with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I want like that. That's another time I got that written.

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<v Speaker 2>All right? What's up there?

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<v Speaker 1>Later?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up Robin?

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<v Speaker 8>If a man gave my grown ass a promise? Don't

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<v Speaker 8>please don't.

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<v Speaker 5>But I actually love what you said, because I have

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<v Speaker 5>always plod on promise rings. I do think it's like

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<v Speaker 5>a middle school, high school, high school thing.

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<v Speaker 8>However, cool.

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<v Speaker 5>I love what you said though about it may not

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<v Speaker 5>be important to any of us, and we may roll

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<v Speaker 5>our eyes, but it's important to her.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what you're focused on.

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<v Speaker 4>Where do people who actually appreciate that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like it, But if it's your thing, then

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<v Speaker 1>it's your thing. Hold that saying, Cameron is one of them?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up Cameron? You want to say?

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<v Speaker 2>Camera?

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<v Speaker 6>So I thoroughly believe that buying a promise ring is

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<v Speaker 6>better than a necklace?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Could you like wearings better than necklaces?

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<v Speaker 8>I did?

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<v Speaker 2>Well say that one more time? Your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't robot mo Now it must be the weather

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Your phone is crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Again. I have ever heard what text to you? The better?

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<v Speaker 2>That's much better.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, okay, have you guys ever heard of the necklace

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<v Speaker 8>curse before?

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<v Speaker 2>No? The necklace curse? That's interesting? What is it? Tell us?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, study to nuts and I want to

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<v Speaker 5>hear it because that's the first thing Less ever bought

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<v Speaker 5>me was a necklace.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the what is the necklace curse?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow?

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<v Speaker 7>So within like the first year or so of a relationship,

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<v Speaker 7>if you buy somebody a necklace, your relationship is basically

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<v Speaker 7>going to sail.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, interesting I've had.

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<v Speaker 7>I've had three different boyfriends buy me a necklace within

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<v Speaker 7>the first like four months, and all of them we've

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<v Speaker 7>all broken up.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Chandon just took off her neck Actually, I take

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<v Speaker 1>that back.

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<v Speaker 5>He got me the bracelet first and then he got

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<v Speaker 5>me but he got me the matching necklace for our

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<v Speaker 5>one year anniversary right over there.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like a couple hours after this. Nivers, You're

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<v Speaker 2>in the clear. That's an interesting thing, that the necklace.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a movie called Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>You were actually calling to say a necklace do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a good idea after the necklace.

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<v Speaker 2>Curse your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Was thinking it would be less engagement of feel.

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<v Speaker 3>But maybe earrings or a necklace just just a different

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<v Speaker 3>type of jewelry.

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<v Speaker 8>Other than a ring.

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<v Speaker 1>See, but is it about the jewelry giving it or

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<v Speaker 1>is it about the I mean, I know there's like

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<v Speaker 1>symbolism and stuff. I think there's more symbolism to the

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<v Speaker 1>ring thing, and that's the that's the deal, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the symbolism is more I feel engagement forever, whereas

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<v Speaker 3>like maybe a necklace or ear rings would be more

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<v Speaker 3>of like you know, I'm committing to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me grab real quick, Angela, Angela, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you got a promise ring at?

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<v Speaker 2>How old?

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<v Speaker 8>At forty three years old?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I did forty three year old promise ring. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk to somebody. Did you want one or did

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<v Speaker 1>they just give it to you?

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<v Speaker 8>I did? I just believe it's very chivalrous, and it

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<v Speaker 8>was and even asked like keV said he was going

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<v Speaker 8>to ask her or she wanted he was going to

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<v Speaker 8>ask her to be his girlfriend or something. Most people

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<v Speaker 8>don't do that anymore either, And there I don't see

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<v Speaker 8>anything wrong with it. It's it's beautiful. It's exactly what

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<v Speaker 8>I wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>When he gave you the ring, did he say like,

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<v Speaker 1>did you know it was a promise ring? Or did

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<v Speaker 1>you in your gut think, oh my god, I'm getting engaged.

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<v Speaker 8>I was a promise ring. And I mean he went

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<v Speaker 8>like all out, took me and the kids to dinner,

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<v Speaker 8>did this whole this whole thing. We videoed it. It

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<v Speaker 8>was so super cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Now when you when you get a promise ring

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<v Speaker 4>that doesn't start a timeline as is like, you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I mean, because I don't want it to seem like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you got this promise ring and then you think we're

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<v Speaker 4>about to get married in the year.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean, I don't want to set up.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't think it does. I don't I don't think

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<v Speaker 8>it does. It was just, you know, kind of a

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<v Speaker 8>promise to keep the promises, be held accountable and then

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<v Speaker 8>look forward to the together. It was not a I

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<v Speaker 8>promise I'm going to marry you in the year. It's

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<v Speaker 8>just something and it's just something sweet that you can

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<v Speaker 8>do for the person that you care about and if

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<v Speaker 8>that's going to make her feel comfortable. Why not?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, where are you guys at now?

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<v Speaker 8>Angela, we're about four years in to be four years.

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<v Speaker 2>In engaged married.

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<v Speaker 8>What are you Nope, just promise, just stating yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That might actually put it off for a while. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like that. That sounds like a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Renee with a question before we wrap this up, Renee,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your question?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, by everyone, Well, we heard.

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<v Speaker 2>Part of your comments.

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<v Speaker 6>And and also to breast cancer survivor, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>curious how many promise rings does she have and that

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<v Speaker 6>she asked us all of her of all the people

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<v Speaker 6>that she dates. And also, by the way, I also

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<v Speaker 6>agree with Shannon. I think it's very June now like

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<v Speaker 6>high school, I mean at most college.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, that's an interesting question you should ask that.

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<v Speaker 1>Has anybody ever given you a well, great question. The

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<v Speaker 1>biggest promise that you could ever give is no breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>on Saturdays.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a big, big one. That's a good. That's a good.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good one. All right,