WEBVTT - Why Did Cody Ghost Jen After the Encore?

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<v Speaker 1>More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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<v Speaker 1>it's a star one on one three morning. It's Marcus

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<v Speaker 1>time once again for second date update. Let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to bring people together. Has not been a

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<v Speaker 1>successful week. I'm not gonna lie. This is a hell

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<v Speaker 1>of a lead up. Jen's on the phone. Hi, Jen, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're the one though. I do think you're

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<v Speaker 1>the one. This is gonna work. I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to get you a second date. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like this is going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I just want to meet the one for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I understand if you're just joining the show. The

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<v Speaker 1>way this works is Jen went on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Cody, and then he has ghosted. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to tell us about the date. Here in

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<v Speaker 1>a second, we're gonna call Cody with you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone on mute so we can't hear you, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>all just going to try to figure out if something

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<v Speaker 1>went sideways or if he's just been busy or what. So,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you guys meet? And then what did you

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<v Speaker 1>do for your first date?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we actually met at a bar. I was

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<v Speaker 3>doing this Grandma crawl and I was in my grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>Outfit and you were doing a one. Now a grandma,

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<v Speaker 1>what is that that?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, we're a group of like women, we dress as

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<v Speaker 3>grandma's and it's around Halloween time, so we bar hopped

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<v Speaker 3>through town.

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<v Speaker 1>You know why that's crazy is just this week I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to my producer about grandma hobbies that you

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<v Speaker 1>should pick up, and she does them all crochet like scrapbooking, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Like baking cookies, cakes. Definitely, can we just identify?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can we just agree that grandma's are bosses? Like

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<v Speaker 1>for real?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't see why anybody would hate.

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<v Speaker 2>On grandma's Like that is actually a red flag.

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<v Speaker 3>So when I met Cody, he was very open minded

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<v Speaker 3>and like that's one of the main reasons why we

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<v Speaker 3>got along.

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<v Speaker 2>We just had a very chill and free spirited vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I met the bar with his friend. We

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<v Speaker 3>got each other's numbers, and he asked me out to

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<v Speaker 3>go to a concert, and so we did that a

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<v Speaker 3>few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, indoor or outdoor, I don't know if it matters,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just curious.

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<v Speaker 3>It was outdoors, okay, Okay, Yeah, the energy was electric.

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<v Speaker 3>I even brought my own tambourine, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I just don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>He hasn't talked, like texted me for like a while now,

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<v Speaker 3>so I guess I'm wondering, like did I do anything wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>Or like what happens? Like where did he go?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you did you? What did you guys do after

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<v Speaker 1>the concert? Did you did anything else happen? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>happened at the end? Kiss or hugger?

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't kiss, but we did hug and it was

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty strong one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what like.

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<v Speaker 2>When there's a good hug. Sure, since you're I.

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<v Speaker 3>Felt like that, and he is ghosted, I would say

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<v Speaker 3>so that he's since so.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, you know the drill, We're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>you mute your phone and we will try to get

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<v Speaker 1>some answers. Hopefully I can get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna cross my fingers, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean hopefully he's alive.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the second person to say that this week. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it's Marcus. We're doing second date. Update. I've

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<v Speaker 1>got Jen on the phone and she was telling me

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of things. Jen, you were telling me not

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<v Speaker 1>only about your date with Cody, who ghosted and we

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<v Speaker 1>are going to call him. But also about this Grandma

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<v Speaker 1>crawl that you and your girlfriends went on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's how I met Cody.

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<v Speaker 3>And also the tradition that you like, this is my

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<v Speaker 3>fourth year doing Grandma crawl.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, like you literally dress up his grandma's and

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<v Speaker 1>go drinking.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and we also twork so uh yeah, like we

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<v Speaker 3>we love to like get the energy up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, people in the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I did not have twerking Grandma's on my bingo card,

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<v Speaker 1>but like the visuals alone are stunning. Okay, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>back to business. Go go ahead and mut your phone

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna call Cody. Here we go. Hello, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Cody please? Oh yeah, see hey Cody.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Marcus. I do a morning show, a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show for iHeartRadio out of San Francisco on Star

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<v Speaker 1>one one three. Do you have a second to be

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio with us? Have you ever heard of

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<v Speaker 1>the show?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I'm sorry, No, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>All good, bro, I'm sorry if I woke you up too,

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<v Speaker 1>by the.

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<v Speaker 4>Way, Yeah, sure, is like a survey or something.

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<v Speaker 1>No, So I got floated your phone number from a

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<v Speaker 1>girl who listens to my show, and she went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with you recently, and she's feeling like you're ghostinger,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're just trying to figure out like if she

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<v Speaker 1>did something wrong or something go sideways, or maybe you've

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<v Speaker 1>just been busy. I don't know. And if you have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of seconds to talk about the date, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to get your perspective. Her name is Jen. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you comfortable talking about your date with Jen on the air?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, okay, thank you. So how did it go? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you ghost?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I guess technically I did. Okay, she's really hot,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a good start.

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<v Speaker 4>Smile. And you know when we first met us, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>she's really funny and like just all like an old

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<v Speaker 4>lady and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you guys kind of had the same vibe,

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<v Speaker 1>like the same kind of energy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would not say that, Okay, Yeah, her vibes

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<v Speaker 4>a little much. So well, we went to this like

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<v Speaker 4>concert thing like this like festival or whatever, and she

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<v Speaker 4>got so hammered off white claws, which I didn't even

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<v Speaker 4>really know was possible. She had like two or three

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<v Speaker 4>and she was just like us, a saft, super mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like yeah, yelling at the band and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>she had the tambourine. She was just like playing offbeat

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<v Speaker 4>like throughout every song.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And I was just like.

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<v Speaker 4>Embarrassing man, Like she was like flurring her words and

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<v Speaker 4>like she kept you know that bit when people yell

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<v Speaker 4>free bird, like try to get people to play free bird. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>she's doing that, like way past the point of it

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<v Speaker 4>being funny, okay, And she kept she kept asking me

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<v Speaker 4>to like film her for her TikTok hot girl Hang Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was just so.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so much honestly, that's her TikTok.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I looked it up and the hot girl hang,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not even a thing, doesn't even exist, okay, Cody.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So actually Jen's on the phone, Cody. She's listening in,

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<v Speaker 1>which is, like I said, trying to make this a

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<v Speaker 1>teachable moment. Sorry for sneaking up on you is sorry, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Say my paper first?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I am going to make that little movement itself,

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<v Speaker 3>like so it's funny how like I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 3>kind of doubted what I can.

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<v Speaker 2>Make, but it's I'm gonna start that. So it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be a trend from me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can we talk about the other stuff? Though, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel obnoxious to you at all with the tambourine and

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<v Speaker 1>the and the shouting and the free bird and that

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<v Speaker 1>miss a lot of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see how I was obnoxious. Like we're at

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<v Speaker 2>a concert.

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<v Speaker 3>It's outdoor, right, so like we're all here to have entertainment,

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<v Speaker 3>and like if you're there being stuck energy, how is

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<v Speaker 3>that fun? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Like what do you want to But I'm also people

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<v Speaker 4>having fun. Everybody wants to able to enjoy the concert

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever. Like people are moving away from us, Like

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<v Speaker 4>the band kept like looking over like with these weird looks,

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<v Speaker 4>like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think the band loved me. Actually, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty sure they're actually trying to get security.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, you guys. I don't think this is

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<v Speaker 1>a match, so I'm gonna call it