1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,279 Speaker 1: Well, I got kind of a problem in my marriage 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: right now. Nobody's cheating or anything like that. Nothing bad. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: But we've been married for thirteen years and I love 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: my wife. This is the best woman on the planet. 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: I lovel with all my heart. But lately we just 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 1: not on the same page. We're not in sync like 7 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: we usually are before things get worse. I just want 8 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: to fix whatever may be wrong. Like we have kids, 9 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: you know, we get busy, you know, paying mortgages, bills 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: and trying to keep the house right. But I just 11 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 1: feel like we need something to get us back to 12 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: that old feeling we used to happen. 13 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Jordan, are you still dating your wife? That's 14 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:35,959 Speaker 2: a big question, Fred Partner. Yeah, man, what the last 15 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 2: time you to go out? 16 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: That sounds good, but I'm gonna be real, I ain't 17 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: really done that in a long time. That's all me. 18 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 3: Well, I mean I get it, though, you know, you 19 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 3: get in your hamster wheel of how the day goes. 20 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 4: Who's got who for going to soccer. 21 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 3: Or who's taking Yeah, you know, then they need stuff 22 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 3: and then before you know what, the fun to go 23 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 3: out has diminished down to nothing. 24 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: Tired. That's exactly what's going on, Like romance is taking 25 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: a back seat lately because he's so busy. 26 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: Right, okay, so this is just part of your you know, 27 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: basically letting her know. Look, I'm gonna I'm gonna step 28 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 3: it up, you know, and I think she should also 29 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 3: know that it takes two, so it can't just be you, 30 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 3: right right, right. 31 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, no, I'm going to do my part. But yeah, 32 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: but yeah, you gotta do hers too. 33 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 4: So I'm sorry. What was your wife's name? 34 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: Her name is Vivian, but I call her. 35 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 5: Viv Hey, good morning y'all to the show. 36 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: Thank you, baby, So your husband so on hold, we've 37 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,199 Speaker 3: been talking to Jordan this morning. 38 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 5: Wow. Yeah, wow. 39 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 4: It's absolutely a good thing, though, girl, like with. 40 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: This part of our h okay, this part of our show, 41 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: like we try to promote, you know, people getting together, 42 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 3: staying together, you know, figuring things out. 43 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 4: So I'm gonna let him take over though. 44 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: Jordan's Yeah, hey baby, how you doing, viv. 45 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 5: Hey, honey, I'm good what we do. 46 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: First off, I didn't do anything bad, but I did 47 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: reach out for help. I know you probably felt this too. 48 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: In our relationship, lady, we don't spend as much time 49 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: as we used to together, and I kind of felt 50 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: like we're drifting apart, like we're not who we used 51 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: to be. Do you feel that too? 52 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 5: You know? You know it's that life be life, And 53 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 5: I think, I mean, I think everybody know, like if 54 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 5: you've been married for a while and you've got kids 55 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 5: and stuff happens, but we're not like we used to be. 56 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: I mean, no, no, no, and and honestly, if I 57 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you something, I just want you 58 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: to know this because I don't say it enough. You 59 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: are the most important thing in my life and I 60 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: love you with all my heart and I never want 61 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: this to go away. So whatever we need to do, 62 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: let's do it. Let's get back to who we used 63 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: to be. I love you, I love you, so I 64 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: just want to work on it. I need to start 65 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: bringing you flowers like I used to. We need to 66 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: start stating again. I need to take you out. I 67 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: need to do stuff. But you got to meet you halfway. Yeah, 68 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: like you got to do some stuff too. 69 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you got me crying right now. I 70 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 5: mean this is so I mean not because it's like 71 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 5: I thought it was just me. I thought it was 72 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 5: just me. I thought like, and it seemed like you 73 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 5: were kind of shutting off. And I know we're busy, 74 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 5: but you know the type of person that if you 75 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 5: shut off, I shut off pouring into the kids and 76 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 5: stuff like that. And that's forward with me. But now 77 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 5: I'm probably like, oh, this is so. 78 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 4: Let's get on. Well, don't do that. 79 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: Let's let's pull out one of them dresses and how 80 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 2: about y'all go out on a date. Okay, just if 81 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,679 Speaker 2: you can make it happen tonight or tomorrow, and we'll 82 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 2: cover everything and just let us talk to you on Friday. 83 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 5: Oh my god, can somebody take the kids for two days? 84 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 3: No, you can, business house got to make it all ready, 85 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 3: so you might as well. 86 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 4: Watch a couple more. 87 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 2: I'm already getting beat up. 88 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 4: I can't take no more swings. 89 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: All right, let's we're gonna get the details together and 90 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 3: let you know what's going on. 91 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 4: And then we just asked that we're able to check 92 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 4: in with you on Friday. 93 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: That's fine, that's good, perfect, All good