WEBVTT - Anna Over Invited  

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning show. Anna has a problem,

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<v Speaker 1>a big problem. She over invited.

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<v Speaker 2>I got myself into a little bit of a predicament

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm feeling pretty bad about it. So I have

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<v Speaker 2>been trying to get together with two girls that I know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't really know. I want to get to

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<v Speaker 2>know them better. And last week ended up being super

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<v Speaker 2>crazy for me in regards to some TikTok stuff I

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<v Speaker 2>had to do. So I had plans with both of them,

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<v Speaker 2>but I had to cancel because I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>have to film this stuff. It's a priority. They totally understood.

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<v Speaker 2>So we were looking to reschedule, and I have an

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<v Speaker 2>event this weekend and I have a plus one, so

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, perfect, I'll ask one of them to

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<v Speaker 2>go with me. And I reached out to her and

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<v Speaker 2>she did not get back to me that day, and

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<v Speaker 2>I need to descend in the RSVP by the next day,

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<v Speaker 2>so I was asking her a little last minute. So

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<v Speaker 2>I felt a little bad. But I went to the

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<v Speaker 2>next girl and I asked her and right away she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I would love to go with you. That's perfect,

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<v Speaker 2>so great sending our RSVP. Then the next day it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't even twenty four hours later. This is why I

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<v Speaker 2>feel bad. The other girl got back to me and

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, I would love.

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<v Speaker 3>To go with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, shoot, like I only have one RSVP.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably could ask for another plus one, but like

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<v Speaker 2>that's weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to bring.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you wait so short? Why did you not

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<v Speaker 1>give her a lease? I had to get it in.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to send it in by the next day,

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<v Speaker 2>and like, I figured, did you stay.

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<v Speaker 1>On the phone or the invite? Did you say hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to get back to me.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my fault.

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<v Speaker 2>But I sent it in the morning and it had

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<v Speaker 2>went like all day, so I just assumed. I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe she's just ghosting me or she's busy. She ended

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<v Speaker 2>up being out of town, so she was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really have my phone on me, Sorry about that.

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<v Speaker 2>So now I don't know what to do. Like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I know what I have to do. I have to

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<v Speaker 2>tell the first girl that she can't come, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, no, you tell the second girl that she can't come,

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<v Speaker 1>because the other girl said yes and you are a rhvp'.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I I RSVP'd me and the second girl she

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<v Speaker 2>said yeah, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you spose you lose.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can appreciate your emotion behind the situation, but

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you put two fitt you put two rods

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<v Speaker 4>in the in the water, and you know the second

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<v Speaker 4>one caught the bait the fastest.

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<v Speaker 2>So you think I should just tell her straight up, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't get back to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like, my bad. It was a timing thing. I

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<v Speaker 4>had already asked somebody else because I didn't understand. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you aren't malicious in it at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just feel bad for both of them, especially

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<v Speaker 2>because I canceled the week before, so I already feel

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<v Speaker 2>like bad about that, and now I'm going to cancel again,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I really do want to see you,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're losing friends all the time. Every time you

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<v Speaker 1>do a topic, there's like friends that you're pissing off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not losing like the guy that you brought with

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<v Speaker 1>to the the auto show that was fat and then

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<v Speaker 1>he lost no, and then you got a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>the friend that didn't come to your birthday and that's

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend, Okay, but this one, just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just make plans very intentionally with just her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's what I think I'm gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>I just will you next time if you haven't invite

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<v Speaker 1>like this, will you put a in the text a

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<v Speaker 1>disclaimer at the end.

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, Now I know.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to give me. I need an answer by

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<v Speaker 1>such and such times.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know that's what I have to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've been on the invite end of that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, someone canceled.

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<v Speaker 1>On Yeah, and I and honestly they've said, plain and simple, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody already answered to it. And then I had another

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<v Speaker 1>situation where it was an invite, and usually it's two games.

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<v Speaker 1>People will ask me or golf, like they'll say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we got an open spot for golf. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, do you want to be part of

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<v Speaker 1>this for something? And I won't answer back because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing the show. People don't understand when we're doing the show.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this is like, you know, this is like

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<v Speaker 1>being in a meeting at work, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not easy to be close to your phone. But

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<v Speaker 1>they'll do the invite and then you'll you'll say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can do it, and they're easy to say no

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<v Speaker 1>to it.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you feel when they canceled on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh no, I got it. You know I got it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think that you for long term plans,

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<v Speaker 1>like if say, somebody sends me a text now like

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Reynolds did this, so you know, talk about doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>He invited me to go to a Pistons game with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He invited me weeks ago and I was not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be here this weekend because I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the Battery Boys. I said, there is a

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<v Speaker 1>chance I'm going to the Backstory Boys. He waited until

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<v Speaker 1>this week to firm it up. Stop, you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to the Backstreet Boys? Why are you? Ma'm because I

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<v Speaker 1>may go, and next week I may go. Next Sunday, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Graph finale. Yeah, so I may go to that one.

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<v Speaker 1>It's super Bowl weekend in Vegas. You know what hotel

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<v Speaker 1>rooms are?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, okay, I mean they were, Like you did

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<v Speaker 1>say that the cheapest hotel room I could find was

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<v Speaker 1>like seven hundred and eighty dollars a night. What's going on, Amanda?

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<v Speaker 1>For seven night? That's crazy, isn't it? What does that sound?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a mattress commercial?

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<v Speaker 4>Round?

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<v Speaker 1>What were you gonna say? What's going on? Amanda?

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<v Speaker 5>So I am getting married in May, and we invited

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<v Speaker 5>too many people right now, and I know, like not

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<v Speaker 5>everybody's going to say yes, but we're currently fourteen people

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<v Speaker 5>over Hypothetically, if everybody were to say yes, we do

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<v Speaker 5>not have enough chairs. And we also have like a

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<v Speaker 5>list of people that we would like to invite, like

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<v Speaker 5>if there's room.

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<v Speaker 1>So how many people total about that did you invite?

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's like two hundred.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you'll be good. Then you'll be good.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you think fourteen?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, everyone's saying that fourteen people will say no,

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<v Speaker 1>where's the wedding? Though? First before you tell us us Ohio? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but we're in Ohio. Because it depends on

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<v Speaker 1>the venue. Sometimes it's the venue is a good venue

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<v Speaker 1>or an easy venue. I feel like more people go,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what I mean, Like, if you're inviting

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred plus people, you're fourteen sounds right. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you'll get them as many as fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll definitely get six or so you'll get three couples

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<v Speaker 1>that will say no to it. Yeah, I can have

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<v Speaker 1>other plans and then and then if the fourteen show,

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<v Speaker 1>you tell the head table there's no longer a head

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<v Speaker 1>at the table.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys are stand Yeah, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a great wedding. Congratulations, thank you, thank you. Uh, Kathleen,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? It's Mojoe in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, y Yeah, So I've totally been an Anish was

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<v Speaker 6>like even this weekend. I like, I'll take multiple people

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<v Speaker 6>and and like just assuming, like inviting them to do

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<v Speaker 6>something and assuming I'll hear back from a couple, and like,

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<v Speaker 6>usually I'm honest if someone multiple people get back to

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<v Speaker 6>me like hey, sorry, something else worked out or you know,

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<v Speaker 6>maybe another time. Usually I'm like honest about it. But

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<v Speaker 6>kind of like Kevin said, you know, throw them all

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<v Speaker 6>out there and then who gets back to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's kind of fun to do group texting

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<v Speaker 1>because people answer faster on group text. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>do a group text and say hey, I'm asking my

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<v Speaker 1>friends if you guys are interested in if and you

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<v Speaker 1>know what happens, somebody always answers right away. There's always somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>So sometimes throw it out there. Are you or is

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<v Speaker 1>that is everything okay with you? You sound like your

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<v Speaker 1>voice is kind of my normal voice.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe get a little something, you know, like yours going

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<v Speaker 6>around all that.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll take care of yourself. A text message

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<v Speaker 1>from and I have not gotten a text on this

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<v Speaker 1>line from him in a while. He's he's right now,

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<v Speaker 1>got a little bit of U bitterness from me, but

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<v Speaker 1>my friend misfit Victor. And Victor listen to this text.

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<v Speaker 1>If I had a dollar for every single time Mojo

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<v Speaker 1>canceled on me, I could have retired twenty years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>He ain't wrong, by the way, No, wonder you like

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<v Speaker 1>that one?

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<v Speaker 5>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what the thing is that they say

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<v Speaker 1>in my thing? Steve Gabara says this all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>If they invite me, if I say, okay, what's the date,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put it down, then it knows a chance. If

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<v Speaker 1>I say, well, let me check, let me check means

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<v Speaker 1>there ain't a chance. Hell I'm going to that. So

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<v Speaker 1>if let me check comes up, it ain't happened. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing and