Speaker 1: It's Mojo in the morning show. Anna has a problem,
Speaker 1: a big problem. She over invited.
Speaker 2: I got myself into a little bit of a predicament
Speaker 2: and I'm feeling pretty bad about it. So I have
Speaker 2: been trying to get together with two girls that I know,
Speaker 2: but I don't really know. I want to get to
Speaker 2: know them better. And last week ended up being super
Speaker 2: crazy for me in regards to some TikTok stuff I
Speaker 2: had to do. So I had plans with both of them,
Speaker 2: but I had to cancel because I was like, I
Speaker 2: have to film this stuff. It's a priority. They totally understood.
Speaker 2: So we were looking to reschedule, and I have an
Speaker 2: event this weekend and I have a plus one, so
Speaker 2: I was like, perfect, I'll ask one of them to
Speaker 2: go with me. And I reached out to her and
Speaker 2: she did not get back to me that day, and
Speaker 2: I need to descend in the RSVP by the next day,
Speaker 2: so I was asking her a little last minute. So
Speaker 2: I felt a little bad. But I went to the
Speaker 2: next girl and I asked her and right away she
Speaker 2: was like, I would love to go with you. That's perfect,
Speaker 2: so great sending our RSVP. Then the next day it
Speaker 2: wasn't even twenty four hours later. This is why I
Speaker 2: feel bad. The other girl got back to me and
Speaker 2: she was like, I would love.
Speaker 3: To go with you.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, shoot, like I only have one RSVP.
Speaker 2: I probably could ask for another plus one, but like
Speaker 2: that's weird.
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to bring.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you wait so short? Why did you not
Speaker 1: give her a lease? I had to get it in.
Speaker 2: I had to send it in by the next day,
Speaker 2: and like, I figured, did you stay.
Speaker 1: On the phone or the invite? Did you say hey,
Speaker 1: you got to get back to me.
Speaker 3: That's my fault.
Speaker 2: But I sent it in the morning and it had
Speaker 2: went like all day, so I just assumed. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: maybe she's just ghosting me or she's busy. She ended
Speaker 2: up being out of town, so she was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I didn't really have my phone on me, Sorry about that.
Speaker 2: So now I don't know what to do. Like, well,
Speaker 2: I know what I have to do. I have to
Speaker 2: tell the first girl that she can't come, but.
Speaker 1: Like, no, you tell the second girl that she can't come,
Speaker 1: because the other girl said yes and you are a rhvp'.
Speaker 2: Well I I RSVP'd me and the second girl she
Speaker 2: said yeah, Oh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you spose you lose.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can appreciate your emotion behind the situation, but
Speaker 4: I mean, you put two fitt you put two rods
Speaker 4: in the in the water, and you know the second
Speaker 4: one caught the bait the fastest.
Speaker 2: So you think I should just tell her straight up, like, hey,
Speaker 2: you didn't get back to me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like, my bad. It was a timing thing. I
Speaker 4: had already asked somebody else because I didn't understand. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you aren't malicious in it at all.
Speaker 3: No, not at all.
Speaker 2: But I just feel bad for both of them, especially
Speaker 2: because I canceled the week before, so I already feel
Speaker 2: like bad about that, and now I'm going to cancel again,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I really do want to see you,
Speaker 2: but I feel.
Speaker 1: Like you're losing friends all the time. Every time you
Speaker 1: do a topic, there's like friends that you're pissing off.
Speaker 1: I'm not losing like the guy that you brought with
Speaker 1: to the the auto show that was fat and then
Speaker 1: he lost no, and then you got a couple of
Speaker 1: the friend that didn't come to your birthday and that's
Speaker 1: my best friend, Okay, but this one, just like you know,
Speaker 1: I just make plans very intentionally with just her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I think I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: I just will you next time if you haven't invite
Speaker 1: like this, will you put a in the text a
Speaker 1: disclaimer at the end.
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Now I know.
Speaker 1: You got to give me. I need an answer by
Speaker 1: such and such times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that's what I have to do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been on the invite end of that stuff.
Speaker 3: Oh really, someone canceled.
Speaker 1: On Yeah, and I and honestly they've said, plain and simple, hey,
Speaker 1: somebody already answered to it. And then I had another
Speaker 1: situation where it was an invite, and usually it's two games.
Speaker 1: People will ask me or golf, like they'll say, hey,
Speaker 1: we got an open spot for golf. Do you want
Speaker 1: to you know, do you want to be part of
Speaker 1: this for something? And I won't answer back because I'm
Speaker 1: doing the show. People don't understand when we're doing the show.
Speaker 1: You know, this is like, you know, this is like
Speaker 1: being in a meeting at work, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's not easy to be close to your phone. But
Speaker 1: they'll do the invite and then you'll you'll say, hey,
Speaker 1: I can do it, and they're easy to say no
Speaker 1: to it.
Speaker 2: How do you feel when they canceled on you.
Speaker 1: Uh no, I got it. You know I got it.
Speaker 1: But I also think that you for long term plans,
Speaker 1: like if say, somebody sends me a text now like
Speaker 1: doctor Reynolds did this, so you know, talk about doctor.
Speaker 1: He invited me to go to a Pistons game with him.
Speaker 1: He invited me weeks ago and I was not supposed
Speaker 1: to be here this weekend because I was going to
Speaker 1: go to the Battery Boys. I said, there is a
Speaker 1: chance I'm going to the Backstory Boys. He waited until
Speaker 1: this week to firm it up. Stop, you're not going
Speaker 1: to the Backstreet Boys? Why are you? Ma'm because I
Speaker 1: may go, and next week I may go. Next Sunday, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the Graph finale. Yeah, so I may go to that one.
Speaker 1: It's super Bowl weekend in Vegas. You know what hotel
Speaker 1: rooms are?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, I mean they were, Like you did
Speaker 1: say that the cheapest hotel room I could find was
Speaker 1: like seven hundred and eighty dollars a night. What's going on, Amanda?
Speaker 1: For seven night? That's crazy, isn't it? What does that sound?
Speaker 1: Is that a mattress commercial?
Speaker 4: Round?
Speaker 1: What were you gonna say? What's going on? Amanda?
Speaker 5: So I am getting married in May, and we invited
Speaker 5: too many people right now, and I know, like not
Speaker 5: everybody's going to say yes, but we're currently fourteen people
Speaker 5: over Hypothetically, if everybody were to say yes, we do
Speaker 5: not have enough chairs. And we also have like a
Speaker 5: list of people that we would like to invite, like
Speaker 5: if there's room.
Speaker 1: So how many people total about that did you invite?
Speaker 5: I think it's like two hundred.
Speaker 1: Oh you'll be good. Then you'll be good.
Speaker 3: Maybe you think fourteen?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, everyone's saying that fourteen people will say no,
Speaker 1: where's the wedding? Though? First before you tell us us Ohio? Well,
Speaker 1: I know, but we're in Ohio. Because it depends on
Speaker 1: the venue. Sometimes it's the venue is a good venue
Speaker 1: or an easy venue. I feel like more people go,
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean, Like, if you're inviting
Speaker 1: two hundred plus people, you're fourteen sounds right. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you'll get them as many as fourteen.
Speaker 1: You'll definitely get six or so you'll get three couples
Speaker 1: that will say no to it. Yeah, I can have
Speaker 1: other plans and then and then if the fourteen show,
Speaker 1: you tell the head table there's no longer a head
Speaker 1: at the table.
Speaker 5: You guys are stand Yeah, good morning.
Speaker 1: Have a great wedding. Congratulations, thank you, thank you. Uh, Kathleen,
Speaker 1: what's going on? It's Mojoe in the morning.
Speaker 6: Hi, y Yeah, So I've totally been an Anish was
Speaker 6: like even this weekend. I like, I'll take multiple people
Speaker 6: and and like just assuming, like inviting them to do
Speaker 6: something and assuming I'll hear back from a couple, and like,
Speaker 6: usually I'm honest if someone multiple people get back to
Speaker 6: me like hey, sorry, something else worked out or you know,
Speaker 6: maybe another time. Usually I'm like honest about it. But
Speaker 6: kind of like Kevin said, you know, throw them all
Speaker 6: out there and then who gets back to you.
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of fun to do group texting
Speaker 1: because people answer faster on group text. So if you
Speaker 1: do a group text and say hey, I'm asking my
Speaker 1: friends if you guys are interested in if and you
Speaker 1: know what happens, somebody always answers right away. There's always somebody,
Speaker 1: So sometimes throw it out there. Are you or is
Speaker 1: that is everything okay with you? You sound like your
Speaker 1: voice is kind of my normal voice.
Speaker 6: Maybe get a little something, you know, like yours going
Speaker 6: around all that.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll take care of yourself. A text message
Speaker 1: from and I have not gotten a text on this
Speaker 1: line from him in a while. He's he's right now,
Speaker 1: got a little bit of U bitterness from me, but
Speaker 1: my friend misfit Victor. And Victor listen to this text.
Speaker 1: If I had a dollar for every single time Mojo
Speaker 1: canceled on me, I could have retired twenty years ago.
Speaker 1: He ain't wrong, by the way, No, wonder you like
Speaker 1: that one?
Speaker 5: Sure?
Speaker 1: Do you know what the thing is that they say
Speaker 1: in my thing? Steve Gabara says this all the time.
Speaker 1: If they invite me, if I say, okay, what's the date,
Speaker 1: I'll put it down, then it knows a chance. If
Speaker 1: I say, well, let me check, let me check means
Speaker 1: there ain't a chance. Hell I'm going to that. So
Speaker 1: if let me check comes up, it ain't happened. We're
Speaker 1: doing and