WEBVTT - Real Life 90 Day Fiancé  

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny that Anna has this next topic because I

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<v Speaker 1>actually watched the actual show and I love it. But

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<v Speaker 1>a real life ninety day fiance Do you ever watch

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<v Speaker 1>the show?

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<v Speaker 2>I do, so I was so excited when I started

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<v Speaker 2>hearing this story. I was like, tell me more.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that show. I don't know why I do

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<v Speaker 1>so much, but it's kind of crazy. But who's the

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<v Speaker 1>real life ninety day fiancee?

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<v Speaker 2>So I was out to eat. I was sitting at

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<v Speaker 2>the bar because it was just my friend and I

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<v Speaker 2>and we were talking to the bartender, who was a

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<v Speaker 2>great guy, super social, telling us pretty much his whole

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<v Speaker 2>life story. And I come to find out that he's

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<v Speaker 2>from the Dominican Republic. He used to work at a

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<v Speaker 2>resort and he met an American woman from Detroit, married her,

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<v Speaker 2>and now is living here with her. And I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's cool, Like I hear about that all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But then he says, and I still have a wife

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<v Speaker 2>in the Dominican Republic three kids. What I said, how

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<v Speaker 2>are you having two, sir? He was like, no, my

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<v Speaker 2>American wife has no idea. I work as a bartender

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<v Speaker 2>on the side. I send cash back to my other

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<v Speaker 2>wife and he's my plan is to somehow get my

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<v Speaker 2>wife and kids to America and divorce the wife I'm

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<v Speaker 2>with Now. I was like, this is a scandal.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, so he has no interest in the wife now

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<v Speaker 3>he'd like to use her.

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<v Speaker 2>He literally used her, is actively using her right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Does he does he go back to Dominican Republic? He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't go back to visit his wife and kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Just sends them money and tells them he's going to

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<v Speaker 2>get them to the United States. Wow, and the wife

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<v Speaker 2>in the Dominican Republic is fully aware of.

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<v Speaker 3>Bill Fine, I guess. So how long is has this

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<v Speaker 3>been going on for?

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<v Speaker 2>He said, it's been like three years.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't seen his kids going back. He's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>them back, you don't think So he enjoyed the cookies?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>To me, like it seemed like he really wasn't into

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<v Speaker 2>the American wife, Like he was just here because she

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<v Speaker 2>got him here.

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<v Speaker 3>Does the American wife make money?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Is she like a mine maker?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get into that.

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<v Speaker 3>But because he's.

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<v Speaker 1>He's bartending, so I can't imagine she makes you know

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<v Speaker 1>that much where he doesn't have to worry right right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, or he's just bartending to get the cash to

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<v Speaker 2>send to his other wife. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe how many people that I know personally

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<v Speaker 1>that have met a woman or even a man when

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<v Speaker 1>they've gone on a vacation to like an island somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>I could totally see it, because every time I'm at

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<v Speaker 2>a resort, the bartenders are the best. They're so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>They're usually cute, like they're flirty. So I could absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>see this happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Chosea was just in can't call and it

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<v Speaker 1>was calling her Stacey's mall, yeah, I gotta watch out

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<v Speaker 1>of all of a sudden, she's going back to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was funny because I often will watch like

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<v Speaker 1>ninety dight Fiance, like a show like that, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>watch that show and I'll go, oh my god, like

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<v Speaker 1>where would be the place that you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>and meet?

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<v Speaker 3>And they always end up like these. You always see

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<v Speaker 3>this like dorky, fat dude like me.

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<v Speaker 1>And when this hot girl, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like he's a really extremely hot girl and you're like

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<v Speaker 1>that only can happen if you go to a third

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<v Speaker 1>world country or some small island somewhere and meet them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, or market or what do you What do

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<v Speaker 1>you guys think of something like this? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think about this guy that's just trying to he's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to better his family, but also this is his way

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<v Speaker 1>of coming.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you can play with people's hearts like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be scared that I'm gonna get murdered by

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<v Speaker 1>the American lady because once she she gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be scared he's gonna murder the American lady.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that he has a second job and that

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<v Speaker 4>he's sending money.

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<v Speaker 2>She knows about the bartending job.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, I think you said he had a secret.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I don't know. I don't think she

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<v Speaker 2>knows that he sends money though.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that the uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the guy coming over here to the States

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<v Speaker 1>is is kind of like scamming and stuff, but he

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<v Speaker 1>also is as long as he's There's no difference in

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<v Speaker 1>dating and somebody dating somebody and having another on the side.

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<v Speaker 1>You got it, just a different countries it is. You

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<v Speaker 1>got you gotta leave your resort. Fleeing at the resort,

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<v Speaker 1>you have your fun, and then you come home and

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<v Speaker 1>live your real life. Yeah, you don't mix your vacation

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<v Speaker 1>life with your real life. That's not how the game works.

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<v Speaker 2>Or has anyone mixed it and has it worked?

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<v Speaker 3>It's my have you ever been to Punta Kana A

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<v Speaker 3>couple of times? Man the lady? Hey Eleaene, what's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>So about the man who is the woman? Yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>is very scandalous and betty, but everyone does it. My

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<v Speaker 1>sister went to Africa for months and Mary a guy

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<v Speaker 1>for whoa really got paid ten thousand dollars to get

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<v Speaker 1>somebody into the US.

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<v Speaker 3>Africa really came back. Man, she got a vacation out

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<v Speaker 3>of it for free.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, how do I find that travel agency?

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<v Speaker 3>Kevin?

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<v Speaker 1>We can make money, you can send you can be

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<v Speaker 1>sent off to somewhere and get paid money to bring

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<v Speaker 1>somebody me to be honest with you, Yeah, so my

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<v Speaker 1>mom used to get her hair braided by African lady

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful people. She had a daughter offered me six thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars to marry her so she can get her green car.

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<v Speaker 3>And you did not remember this story? What did your

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<v Speaker 3>mom think? Did your mom think that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, my mom was, well, who told me she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted you to do it? She was like, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>six thousand dollars. I was like, I can't go out

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Think of that car you were driving.

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<v Speaker 5>At the time.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you guys don't have to live together because

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<v Speaker 4>they checked. Now they do like unannounced, Yes, they do

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<v Speaker 4>unannounced visited to make sure it's legit and you're living together.

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<v Speaker 2>That's more acceptable to me though, because you knew what

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<v Speaker 2>was going on, like this situation. This woman who's living

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<v Speaker 2>in Detroit with this guy has no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>What six thousand dollars. Girl might have a family somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Shannon Hill? Are you we're doing okay? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Good?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I know a girl that she got paid to marry

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<v Speaker 3>this guy. He paid her monthly. They lived together, but

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<v Speaker 3>until he got his US citizenship they were married. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>And where was he from know about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Where were you from from? I'm gonna say either Syria

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<v Speaker 2>or I'm not sure, from the Middle East.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why. Somewhere in the Middle East.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you know anybody really nice guy?

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<v Speaker 1>But you know any in Iraq for Lydia which trying

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<v Speaker 1>to see if we can if they got.

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<v Speaker 3>Any friends, no more voters for me Lydia. Would you

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<v Speaker 3>do this? Would you marry somebody for citizenship to help

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<v Speaker 3>them out?

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<v Speaker 2>Depends on the money that they're offering.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's a good amount gotta give me at least,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, half a million dollars?

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<v Speaker 3>How about they give you they give you their family

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<v Speaker 3>gold and goats.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can just get the goats from Tony.

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<v Speaker 3>I know what's going on? How you doing, cam?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, how's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>It's going okay? What's going on? Anna is calling out

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<v Speaker 1>the bartender? This poor guy. By the way, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>a Dominican Republic bartender and Detroit, you're not happy right now?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so this is another one.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a friend who was dating selling from the

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<v Speaker 5>Middle East as well and got married with them for

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<v Speaker 5>two years, and his wife from overseas came to her

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<v Speaker 5>house with her eight kids. He he was married.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine that doorbell rings?

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<v Speaker 5>He bought her a Mustang, a customized Mustang with their

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<v Speaker 5>girlfriends and everything, and then she found out she was

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<v Speaker 5>married and had eight kids.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, by the way, that Mustang is not fitting all.

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<v Speaker 3>They might love me. I love you too, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>This would be this would be it. I would if

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<v Speaker 1>I if I was ever single, I'd go to some

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<v Speaker 1>island somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I have no problem with marrying, not for love,

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<v Speaker 1>just marrying for citizenship. Really, yes, Chelsea always gets mad

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<v Speaker 1>at me because of Gino, the guy from ninety Day

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<v Speaker 1>Fiance and his girl. I used to always think his

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<v Speaker 1>girl was like smoking hot. But they're always crazy. They

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<v Speaker 1>always they always turned like nuts on that show, so.

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<v Speaker 4>They always never seen that show. I not only need

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<v Speaker 4>to watch it, everybody keeps telling me that's that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I like ninety Day Fiance the other way where yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? You know you can either be

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<v Speaker 1>the American guy or girl going and meeting the person

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<v Speaker 1>from the foreign land, or now you can be the

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<v Speaker 1>foreign person coming the other one.

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<v Speaker 3>Where would you go?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, you know what, Philippines.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like a long plane flight, so I probably

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<v Speaker 1>would be somewhere in the Caribbean, somewhere I don't know, Cuba.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd go to my name