1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: It's funny. We started the Minnesota Goodbye about an hour 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: ago and just as we got about thirty forty fifty 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: seconds into it, one of the wonderful salespeople this radio 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: station walked into the studio and threw us all off. 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: And it wasn't their fault. But so here we are 6 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: starting all over again. Let's get right to the emails 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: on the Minnesota Goodbye, the heart and soul of the 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: entire podcast here. Hold on. Oh wait, okay, stall for 9 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: me for a second, because I have the wrong email open. 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 1: I got to open up Ryan Show at katiwb dot com. 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 2: Hey, I really liked what you said to me yesterday 12 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: and my DMS when you saw the tire picture of 13 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: my before and after and I told you I just 14 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 2: like to live life on the edge, and you responded 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,279 Speaker 2: you were like, this is what I know about you? 16 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 3: And I can't remember, but you. 17 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 4: Said blonde boobs, but likes to live life on the edge. 18 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 3: Should that be my new Instagram bio. 19 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 4: Or I don't know, yes, because that's that's what I 20 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 4: know about you. 21 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: I want to talk about your date with regular guys. 22 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: Sure we went to last night? 23 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: It was last night? 24 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know about this. He didn't bring it up. 25 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: Well I mentioned it. I did. 26 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 4: It's okay, sorry, it's fine. 27 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 3: I'm not mad. 28 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 4: We went to go see Jesus Christ Superstar at the 29 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 4: ord Way, which was Baby's first professional production, I believe, 30 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 4: which is great. It was a really good show. It 31 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 4: was just very like artsy, a lot of symbolism, a 32 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 4: lot of contemporary interpretive dance, and it felt that I 33 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 4: was like, oh, this is the one that I'm bringing 34 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 4: him to. But it's okay, that's the one I brought 35 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 4: him to. So that's how it was. But then we 36 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 4: went to Saint Paul Grill beforehand just to. 37 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: Get like drinks. 38 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: Nice, isn't it. 39 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 3: It is swanky. 40 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 4: But we were planning on just going to the bar, 41 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 4: but the bar is only open Thursday through Saturday, so 42 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 4: we ended up going to Saint Paul Grill and then 43 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 4: sitting in the bar area. But we got calamari and cocktails. 44 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: And it was nice. 45 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 4: Now I do like him. I think he's nice, he's tall, 46 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 4: he's sweet. He is just a little awkward, and I 47 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 4: feel like maybe he'll get over that eventually, once he 48 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 4: is no longer scared to be around me, scared. 49 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: In all the sense of that he's intimidated. He's not, 50 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 3: probably not, but like he's. 51 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 4: Probably just like Ooh, I don't want to look stupid, 52 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 4: but I feel like in that sense he is a 53 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 4: little awkward. 54 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: Oh God, I mean when you're first dating somebody. I 55 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: remember my first girlfriend, Vanessa. I was eighteen. I just 56 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: turned eighteen, and I went to her mom and dad's 57 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: house and her sisters were there, and I'll never forget this. 58 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: We're sitting in the kitchen and her sister's a little 59 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: bit older. They said, Dave. One of them said, Dave, 60 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: it was nice meeting you, and I said these words exactly, 61 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: Meeting you too was nice, And I've never forgotten that. 62 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: I was like, what a dumb motherfucker. Couldn't you have 63 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: just said nice meeting you? But I was so nervous. 64 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: I said, meeting you too was nice? Yes, And I'm 65 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: sure they were like, God, Vanessa, this guy's a fucking 66 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: fucking yeah, meeting you too was nice. 67 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 4: Well, I'm bringing him to meet a bunch of my 68 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 4: friends on Saturday, and it'll do Great's feel to happen. 69 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: He'll do great too. 70 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 4: Ah. 71 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: All right, here's your first email. Good morning, Dave. Jenny Bailey, 72 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: I'm curious if you've ever started a hobby later in life. 73 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: Are started back with a hobby after not doing it 74 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: for many years. This summer, at the age of forty two, 75 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: I started taking piano lessons again. I took lessons back 76 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: in elementary school, but then I stopped. I had a 77 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: Christmas piano recital last weekend along with about a dozen 78 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 1: other kids, and I'm proud to say I kicked those kids' 79 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: asses with my songs. Hell yeah, just kidding a little. 80 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: But it's been a fun thing to do, and it's 81 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: interesting how I now want to practice throughout the week. 82 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: And when I was little, my parents had to force 83 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: me have a beautiful day From Alison, I love that story. 84 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: I think that is something that it's true. It's kind 85 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: of like when you go back to school as an adult, 86 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: you take it a lot more seriously because it's your choice, yes, 87 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: and you have something at stake, and you paid for it, 88 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: and you have things writing on it. 89 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't say I'm necessarily like re visiting anything 90 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 4: that I did as a kid, or like new hobbies 91 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 4: or something, but not this past year, which I kind 92 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 4: of I shanked it. 93 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 3: This past year. 94 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 4: But I do really like taking like classes, like improv classes. 95 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 4: I took burlesque classes, I took oh gosh something else classes. 96 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 4: But I'd like taking classes because again, it's like you're 97 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 4: going to school and then you're really invested in it, 98 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 4: and I just like see the class all the way 99 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 4: through to the end so that you can either you know, 100 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 4: like perform or something to show that you did something 101 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 4: with it. And I'd still really like to I'd like 102 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 4: to take swimming lessons. I'd like to take voice lessons. 103 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 4: That would be nice. I just have to like make 104 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 4: it happen, and it's so easy to just go home 105 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 4: and take a nap. 106 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: I took voice lessons for about two weeks when I 107 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: was in Oklahoma, and I learned something very valuable, and 108 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: that is kind of have a yawn when you sing, 109 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: so it's like instead of poor Jot is dead, you. 110 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 2: Poor Jot is dead poor because you put. 111 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: A little yawn in your voice. 112 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 3: Breathwork there, that's it. 113 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: But I didn't like my teacher. He was just a 114 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: weirdo and made me feel uncomfortable and stupid. Honestly, off air. 115 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't remember his name, and I only went once 116 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: or twice, but I learned how to yo. 117 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 4: I just want to know if I can sing in 118 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 4: front of a crowd once in my life, that'd be cool. 119 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll check it out. Swimming is a good thing 120 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: to learn too. 121 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, mine is just I used to be in a 122 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: jump roping team, so every once in a while I'll 123 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 2: teach myself old tricks and try to come up with 124 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: a routine. 125 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 3: And there is one. 126 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 2: And I'm happy this person email then because there's one 127 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 2: to All I want for Christmas is you that multiple 128 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 2: people have sent me of all these girls doing a 129 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 2: routine and I think I can do it. Yeah, It's 130 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 2: going to take some time to learn, so I'm going 131 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 2: to try to attempt to learn it in the next 132 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 2: few days. 133 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: Yes, we talked yesterday about Carson has. It's like, what 134 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 1: do you want? He wants a big water bottle that 135 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: looks like it's about nine bucks, and he wants a 136 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: white tote bag and we all kind of puzzled over that, 137 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: like why it's a bright white tote bag and I 138 00:05:58,320 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: don't know whether it's leather or what. But he sent 139 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: are of it. So anyway, Sidney big supporter of the 140 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye I wrote and said I heard about Carson's 141 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: Christmas wish of a white tote. I work for Caribou, 142 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: and I know we have extra Cariboo branded white toats. 143 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: I could easily send you to Carson to fulfhillis Christmas 144 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: wish and hook him up with some Cousins product that 145 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: nobody sees on tours that with some cut nobody he Okay, 146 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: I understand that attached is an example, but I will 147 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 1: say that this is very sweet Sidney, and I appreciate it. 148 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: But I'm going to guess, knowing Carson, it's probably a 149 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: very specific brand of white tote. And this is so 150 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: cute because this is what grandmothers do, Sydney, You're turning 151 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: into a grandmother. You'll hear like, oh, well she wants 152 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: a squish mellow for Christmas. Yes, oh well a squish mellow. 153 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: Well that's easy. I'll go down to Target. Well they 154 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: don't they have this one called a mash mellow, So 155 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: I'll get her a mash mellow instead. Close enough, and 156 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: then the kid opens up a mash mellow and it's like, 157 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: what the fuck is this? 158 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 3: Or you're getting them all la fufu instead of a 159 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 3: la boo boo. Yeah, okay, don't want that. I ordered 160 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 3: some fugs one time, some fake ugs. 161 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: Are you serious? 162 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 163 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: And then they were called thugs. 164 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: They were that's what people would call them. But like 165 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: my friends and I, we all wanted like tall black 166 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 2: ugs in college. I had no fucking money back then, 167 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: so I bought thugs and I thought I got this 168 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: great deal. They were garbage compared to actual ugs, the 169 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 2: reason those are so expensive. And then I told them 170 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 2: to my little sister who she continued to wear them 171 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 2: as if they were ugs and not like she did 172 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 2: know they were fuck right. 173 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 4: I never once owned a real pair of ugs, but 174 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 4: I owned plenty of it. 175 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: I still have one pair, but I still use a 176 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: real pair, and to this day they're still fantastic. And 177 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: I got them like twenty years ago. Yeah they're great, 178 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 2: maybe not that long. 179 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 4: Like they should bring that crap back because yeah, they 180 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 4: say fashion is cyclical. Let's bring back like the ug boot, 181 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 4: not the slipper. 182 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want everyone has the slippers, now, let's bring 183 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 2: back the boot. 184 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: Anyway, I don't want to not appreciate Sydney's offer, so 185 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: thank you, Sydney. I do appreciate it, but I'm going 186 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: to guess that if Carson wants a tote bag, it 187 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: is probably a very specific brand of tote bag. But 188 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Katie writes in about Christmas cards 189 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: because I was talking about Christmas cards the other day. 190 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: I really enjoy the whole tradition, and I've always had 191 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: a little bit of like a funny pet peeve about 192 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: people who send out computerized, non personalized Christmas cards. I 193 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: think it then makes the card about you and not 194 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: about the recipient, because if you send out a computerized 195 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: Christmas card, I think you're saying, look at me, I 196 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: remembered you, instead of I want to show you that 197 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:39,479 Speaker 1: I care about you by taking some time and handwriting 198 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: a message. Some people disagree. Katie says it's so expensive 199 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: to send Christmas cards, seventy five to one hundred dollars 200 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: for the cards, stamps, a lot include photos you've already 201 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: seen on Facebook. I love getting cards, though I skipped 202 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: last year and felt terrible not sending them out when 203 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: we got cards from other people. Do you send Christmas 204 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: cards every year? Yes? Do you only send it? Who 205 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: send you a card? 206 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 4: No? 207 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: Is yours? Funny? Your traditional, traditional, and be honest do 208 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: you judge a little when you get a Christmas card 209 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 1: or Christmas letter? I do judge a little on the 210 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: Christmas letter, but I get this sentiment behind it. You know. 211 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: I don't always read them unless I care. Like I 212 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: got one from a friend the other day, and I 213 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: know it's going to be a glowing this, a glowing 214 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: this about her little girl and her husband who's a genius, 215 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: and I don't care, but I love the person. I 216 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 1: just don't care. Yeah, you know what I mean? 217 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 3: Sure, yeah, so harsh. 218 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know very many people who 219 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 4: include the letter anymore. Like my dad used to include 220 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 4: the letter when we were growing up, because we sent 221 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 4: Christmas cards with my dad. But I think maybe once 222 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 4: we turned I don't know, fifteen sixteen, he stopped doing it. 223 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 4: So I'd rarely read a Christmas letter. But I do 224 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 4: love getting Christmas cards, but they are mostly just like 225 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:51,959 Speaker 4: the ones that you print out a bunch of them 226 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 4: and then just start mailing them. 227 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 2: I loved getting the one, Like I said, my sister 228 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 2: didn't send it this here, and she normally sends one. 229 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: I loved getting hers. If I got it for any 230 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 2: other family, yeah, I probably wouldn't read it, but I 231 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 2: read my own because I don't get to see my 232 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: family very often at I know with. 233 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: Your family, absolutely sure, Yeah, Andrei writes in Longtime Listener, 234 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: First time writer. First of all, thank you for everything 235 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: you do each and every day to keep us entertaining. 236 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: A huge thank you for the extra hours you put 237 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: in for Christmas wish. It's a great reminder there is 238 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: always someone worse off than you, but also that there 239 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 1: are still amazing people in this world willing to help 240 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: someone in need. Switching topics, there's a commercial that plays 241 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:37,839 Speaker 1: right before or after the podcast for Trainer Games. Now, 242 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: if you're listening to the podcast, you probably know exactly 243 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: what they're talking about. I, on the other hand, do not. 244 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: I do not listen to the Minnesota Goodbye podcast because 245 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 1: I've already heard it. You're on it. It starts with 246 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: the announcer of pronouncing the words the word athletes athletes 247 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: instead of athletes. It's a two syllable word, not a 248 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: three syllable word. Okay, it shouldn't bother me, but this 249 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: shit pisses me the fuck off. In my best one 250 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: need a voice, just say athlete like a normal person. 251 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: There's no need to make a two syllable word three 252 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: syllables just so you can try to sound fancy. Anyway, 253 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 1: have a wonderful day. Dart lick from Andy athletes athletes. 254 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 4: I guess I've not I've not heard that one, but 255 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 4: I haven't either, you know, to each their own athlete. 256 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 4: Maybe it is a three syllable word. 257 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 2: Gave. 258 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 3: You do that to words all the time. What do 259 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 3: I do you do it? You do it to me funny, 260 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 3: to be. 261 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 2: Funny, not to like sound prestigious, like you add an 262 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 2: extra syllable. 263 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 1: But I am prestigious. 264 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 4: Well, I don't know about that, but I prestigious. 265 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: Uh. Here's one from Sarah Dave. You've talked about on 266 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: the show many times how you and Susan are so 267 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: different from each other, whether it's your personalities, interests, hobbies, 268 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: et cetera. We are, but you've also talked about how 269 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: you feel it's so important to have similar interests with 270 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: your partner. Can you talk about how you two met, 271 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: what drew you guys to each other, what keeps you 272 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 1: two together? Give in your differences. I'll be honest, the 273 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: biggest challenge in my marriage is the fact that we 274 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: have different levels of adventure and fun. We do enjoy 275 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,599 Speaker 1: the RV. We do and go enjoy going to Sturgis, 276 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,079 Speaker 1: but there's a lot of things. It's like, I want 277 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: to go cross country skiing. She doesn't even like to 278 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: walk on an icy sidewalk. We went hiking in Colorado 279 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: a couple of years ago on a very flat trail 280 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: that was somewhat icy, and she was like, I. 281 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 3: Don't want to do this, I'm gonna fall. 282 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: So I had to go get the car, drive it 283 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: on the road parallel to the trail so she could 284 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: walk off the trail and get into the car. And 285 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: to me, it's like, it's ice. Just be careful, you 286 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So we definitely have a different sense. 287 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: She is okay with sitting on the couch and playing 288 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: on her phone, and me it's like, man, I got hobbies, 289 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: I got ukulele, I got magic, I got different things. 290 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: I've got stuff that I like to do, and she 291 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: is fine not doing. 292 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 3: Okay, But answer the other part of how did you 293 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 3: meet her? How did you come together? At first? 294 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: She was hot? Oh, she was hot, super hot, And 295 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: so yeah, I will tell you every marriage has its 296 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: struggles and challenges and that's ours is that I like 297 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: to go and do exciting things, and she really like 298 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: I like to go flying, and she doesn't like to 299 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: go flying. So but the great thing about her is 300 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: that she is predictable and not unpredictable. She's never going 301 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: to be like, well, you know what, I withdrew forty 302 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: two thousand dollars so I could take it down to 303 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 1: the treasure island and put it all on one hand 304 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: of blackjack. Never worry about things like that. So predictable 305 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 1: but also a little bit boring. But I'm sure she 306 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: would say the same thing to me. I wonder people 307 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: who are married for a long time are like, yeah, 308 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: they're predictable, and that's a good thing. Thank you, Sarah. 309 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: Checking time here, we're doing okay, all right, I'm going 310 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: to try this one. It's a little bit longer, but 311 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: it is interesting. I want to vent. I want to 312 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: hear your thoughts. My niece is the sweetest person. Finally 313 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: had her baby. Her two sister in law showed up 314 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: at the hospital with their kids. It's RSV season, so 315 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: kids are not allowed in the patient rooms. One of 316 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: them decided the rules didn't apply to her and told 317 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: the nurse nobody can watch my kid. Even though her 318 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: husband was there and literally pushed pasted her into the room. 319 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: Why the nurse didn't stop her, I have no idea. 320 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: While she's there, she's bragging about how when she buzzed 321 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: the hospital door, she said, I'm here for my brother 322 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: who just had a baby. When the staff said, do 323 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: you mean your sister in law, she doubled down and said, well, 324 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: my brother had the baby too, and she was proud 325 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: of this. The final straw, one of my sisters in 326 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: law posted pictures of my niece's newborn on social media 327 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: before my niece even got the chance, and not just one, 328 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: but several, and not one included my niece. My niece 329 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: is too kind, won't say anything even though she's upset, 330 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: but I'm furious these girls are pushy and disrespectful and 331 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: honestly not nice to her. Next time I gotta be 332 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: around them, I'm gonna have a hard time keeping my 333 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: mouth shut. I'm genuinely curious what you and others think 334 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: about posting someone else's newborn before the parents get to 335 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm not a big social media person, and even though 336 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 1: I know that's a boundary, even I know that's a 337 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: boundary you don't cross. I can't believe they did that. 338 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: That is from NICKI p one listeners since the beginning. 339 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, NICKI. 340 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 4: I mean I even think that's like when you go 341 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 4: to a wedding and somebody posts the couple before they 342 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 4: post themselves. 343 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't do that. 344 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it just seems like, why are you dumb enough 345 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 4: to post this baby before their parents even post the baby. 346 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you these sounds like a couple of 347 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: dumb ass pieces of trash. I mean there, I said it, 348 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: a couple of dumb ass pieces of trash. And I'm 349 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: just gonna guess, like the kids aren't welcome in the room, 350 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: you bring them in, you think it's funny you do that, 351 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess they've done it. They've had a history 352 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: of being dumb ass pieces of trash and you're just 353 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: fed up with it. I'm sorry you put up with that. 354 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm so lucky in my family we don't have Well, 355 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: there might be a couple of dumb ass pieces of trash, 356 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: but I just keep my distance. Jenny, any dumb ass 357 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: pieces trash in your family, Yeah, but. 358 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: We've kind of weeded them out at this point, like, 359 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 2: there's really just like one who she's been to jail. 360 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 2: She's stolen tons of jewelry, like thousands and thousands of 361 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 2: dollars worth of jewelry from her mom, and her mom 362 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: didn't know it was her, so her mom called the police. 363 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 2: So then she did get charged because like her mom 364 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 2: did file a report, she probably wouldn't have had she 365 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 2: known it was her daughter to stole it. 366 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: Yep. 367 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 3: So that's really like one of the only ones. 368 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 2: And then unfortunately one that's a raging alcoholic that doesn't 369 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 2: get invited to anything anymore. 370 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: All right, well right, okay, hey, thank you for all 371 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: the emails. 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