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Speaker 3: You know who to call?

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Speaker 4: Farah and Farah Tampa. Welcome to the Joe Show.

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Speaker 1: We're live ninety three to three Flz, Ashley Nicks, Katie Summers,

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Speaker 1: Jed Shilling. Yes, sir and me, all right, need some

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Speaker 1: help on this, and that you guys have been around

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Speaker 1: people when they've.

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Speaker 4: Brought it up over the last week. So I do

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Speaker 4: you know what I'm about to say?

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Speaker 1: I think so, okay, all right, So I'm getting married

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Speaker 1: in less than a year now.

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Speaker 4: I'm very, very excited about it.

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Speaker 1: Something that I think is important to notice is that

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Speaker 1: my fiance and are paying for the whole thing, because

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Speaker 1: you know, like sometimes it's a bunch of like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not like the bride and the groom's money, so

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Speaker 1: sometimes people are a little bit too frivolous with it.

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Speaker 1: And listen, Alyssa's mom helping out a my parents as well,

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Speaker 1: So I don't want anyone to think that they're not

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Speaker 1: like Alyssa's mom is a saint. My mom's a saint,

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Speaker 1: my dad's saint. I want to make sure that they

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Speaker 1: understand that because they listen that being sad. You know,

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Speaker 1: even if they were paying for the whole thing, you

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Speaker 1: still got to be smart with your money. I'm running

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Speaker 1: to this weird situation right now where I'm getting a

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Speaker 1: lot of opinions from people who I'm just gonna be honest,

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Speaker 1: they're not on the list. The big thing now is

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Speaker 1: I'm getting married in December, and I've had some guys

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why you're doing it this date, like

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Speaker 1: we can't be there. Yes, and it even happened this morning.

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Speaker 1: You were actually so that person doesn't have an invite.

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Speaker 1: They aren't even unlike the because you know, you make

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Speaker 4: He ain't even touching its substitute.

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Speaker 1: No, because he doesn't really know my fiance at all.

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Speaker 1: Makes sense and uh like literally like the first thing

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit cold outside, but he said it

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Speaker 4: But I can't.

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Speaker 1: I can't because that's rude. That's rude, and I don't

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Speaker 1: work to to get these invitations. I don't want it

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Speaker 1: don't want it to be talked about even like in

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Speaker 5: Talked about on like the sales floor, because maybe a

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Speaker 1: My parents taught me if you're gonna have a birthday

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 5: Don't plates are expensive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little different than going to chuck e

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Speaker 1: Cheese and everybody gets a slice of pizza.

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Speaker 4: So what would you say if you.

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Speaker 5: Were Well, I don't know what you said to the

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Speaker 4: Like, what did I say?

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Speaker 2: I don't think you said anything. I think you kind

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Speaker 5: You don't want them to you don't want to insinuate

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Speaker 5: they do have an invite you. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: Weren't like like, oh yeah, sorry for you or whatever.

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Speaker 4: I just don't want to.

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Speaker 4: You played it smart. I also don't want that person

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Speaker 5: Want they just don't know they have a relationship with

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Speaker 4: And that's what I think. What if they think that

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Speaker 3: What do you say?

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Speaker 2: Hear me out? You blame you just say that, like

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Speaker 4: Down the family. That's great, that's great advice. You know

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Speaker 4: You know, she's got a big family.

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Speaker 6: I got a big family.

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Speaker 4: I'm not even lying about this. You guys want to

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Speaker 1: This is something crazy that my family has found out

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Speaker 1: My family found out recently he was previously not only married,

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Speaker 1: Block the orders even more and don't let don't let anyone.

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Speaker 4: Like my cousins. Cousins. Yes, hotch hotch, yeahs hear me,

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Speaker 4: Joe hought up, homie, what do you think I should do?

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Speaker 4: As uh? Like this morning? It's happened a lot this

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Speaker 1: Uh, especially this morning, I'm having people walk up to

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Speaker 4: Is it during playoff football?

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Speaker 1: Yes, No, it's in December. It's in like playoff college football.

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Speaker 4: Oh who cares that. Let's be honest. What did the

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Speaker 4: You're a popular guy, you know.

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Speaker 1: She that is the biggest issue we've had lately, is

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Speaker 4: Well, of course you're on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Well, and people like Hutch. Hutch is not only invited,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Invite friends and family, the people that actually matter to you.

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Speaker 4: The rest don't matter. They're there for a good time.

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Speaker 4: You're there for the rest of your life and.

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Speaker 5: The memories making with your loved ones.

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Speaker 1: I'm just afraid it's going to be uncomfortable twenty twenty

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Speaker 4: Yeah, while you're inviting Jed right. No, this is the

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Speaker 1: This guy just assumes, because he assumes since I've known

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Speaker 1: Thanks Thank you, Hutch, Brenda, Hi, Hi your wedding.

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Speaker 4: Yay? Wait, what first time first time over Brenda. Fun fact.

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Speaker 1: Ashley plays that, but she doesn't use her mouth Brenda, Brenda,

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Speaker 1: you got married last year.

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Speaker 6: No, I got married well about ten years ago. But

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Speaker 6: we're just like, well, you know, we're in a budget,

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Speaker 6: you know, we can in buy these other people and

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Speaker 6: I pay for their plate. They're like, no, it's not.

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Speaker 5: We don't know them, that's been happening their own plate.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Well, then it makes me uncomfortable too to say

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Speaker 1: between anyone. But they're asking, like, Brenda's right. I've had

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Speaker 1: I would love for my wife to go to so

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Speaker 1: just let me know how much that is. Yes, thank you, Brenda.

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Speaker 1: I love you so much.

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Speaker 4: I really do. Crystal, Hi, Hi, how are you this morning? Listen?

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Speaker 1: I am Can I say something real quick about how

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Speaker 1: I'm doing. I got so many calls last week about Joe.

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Speaker 1: You sound so happy lately. What's going on? I am

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Speaker 4: Crystal. Yeah, what do I do with my wedding?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, this is how I feel. I've been married, and

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Speaker 3: I've had twice. I had an extravagant wedding and I

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Speaker 3: there because you're gonna have photos of these people and

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Speaker 3: if they're not important to you, oh well, who cares

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's the future for me. Problem well,

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Speaker 6: You to That's how I feel like you're paying for

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Speaker 6: all of this, like who cares?

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Speaker 3: Let them be petty or you know, but sorry. I

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Speaker 3: feel like it's your wedding, it's your choice, and you

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Speaker 3: your life. Let make her happy.

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Speaker 5: She'd let me be the one I goes around and

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Speaker 5: tell everyone.

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Speaker 4: They're not invited. Oh my gosh, I love.

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Speaker 5: That you're not invited. Wa yeah, the invitations that they're dead.

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Speaker 5: And if like you get like a get a goat

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Speaker 5: in car, you get to go to his wedding.

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Speaker 4: If you don't get a goat in like envelope, you

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Speaker 1: When you've been in a crash and your mind's racing.

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Speaker 2: When you fall into a store and are blaming yourself, when.

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Speaker 1: You've been heard at work and don't know what to do.

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Speaker 4: You know who to call. Farah and Sarah Tampa