1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Okay, welcome into the after Show, justin here, Welcome in everybody. 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: Thank you to everybody for checking in on the talkbacks. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: I'll try my best to get to them today. Probably 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: not though, because I do have a guest in here, 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: and this one is going to be quite the trip. 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: I've been teasing this for like a week now, because well, 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: she's a big star. You know her, I know her. 8 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: Her name is Ashley Feldman, and she is the host 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: of the gem In morning show right down the hall 10 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: here and also one of my closest friends in the 11 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: whole world. And you know what makes her so close 12 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: to me is she loves to tell me about myself always, always, 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,599 Speaker 1: so welcome to the after Show, Thanks for having me. 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions. I don't know where 15 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: to start. We don't have a ton of time. I 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: just want to say that, well, I will say thank 17 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: you for being my friend, no, thank you. 18 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: For me my friend. And let me tell everybody a 19 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 2: fun fact. 20 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: I don't think people might believe this, but we literally 21 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 3: speak on the phone every day. 22 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: You're the only person that I talk on the phone too. 23 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 3: And I don't know how you feel, but how things 24 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 3: go in your house, But like my husband just knows 25 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,559 Speaker 3: if I'm on the phone and I'm talking about work, 26 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 3: it's yeah. 27 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 2: With you, we don't even address it anymore. He's like, gosh, 28 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 2: she's alw with just. 29 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: The same thing in my house. Yeah, yeah, Well we're 30 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: talking about work things always, yeah, or I'm asking for advice, 31 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: you know. So you and I though, real quick, go 32 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: way back to twenty thirteen. Did you know that twenty thirteen? 33 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 2: Is that what it is? 34 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: That's when you started. So I was working on JAMM 35 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: in ninety four to five. They needed a new co host, 36 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget. It was a week of auditions. 37 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: They had a different girl every day, and so we 38 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: did a couple of the girls and then Santy said 39 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: one morning I went in, he said the girl today 40 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: is she's from the Real World And I didn't watch 41 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: your season and he said her name is Ashley. Feldman 42 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: said cool, and then he went to go get you 43 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: and he walked down and I was sitting in the 44 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: office in the old building, and I'll never forget Santy 45 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: walked in and he goes, justin, this is actually and 46 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: you walked into the doorway, and you know how like 47 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: memory is funny, like that yeah, like seven feet tall 48 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: and you were all done up, and I remember I 49 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: said high and you were like hey, and it gave 50 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: me a hug, and I was just like, who is 51 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: this person? 52 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: Yeah? 53 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: What is this? 54 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 3: I will never for I remember that as well, because 55 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 3: I was supposed to do two full days on Jaman 56 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 3: of My audition was supposed to be two days, but 57 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 3: unfortunately there was a snowstorm out of my control. But 58 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 3: the whole time, Santi Ramiro on air being like, she 59 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 3: thinks she's better than Oscar. 60 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: She on the road. 61 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 3: Now we have to Now we're stuck with her for 62 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 3: a whole show. And this is before I'm even I'm 63 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 3: listening to this, before I'm even. 64 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: Doing my audition. And then I come in and I 65 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 2: got to act like I didn't hear any of that, 66 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 2: but then of course that came out within ten minutes. 67 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 3: Of course, I was like, remember what you guys were 68 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 3: saying about me yesterday, because because I do, Yeah, but. 69 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: You got you meshed. Well, I remember, because you know, 70 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: they were kind of auditioning and then talking about who 71 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: it should be. But I remember them saying like she's 72 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: going to be the one. 73 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 3: Well, and the fun fact is our boss, Dylan Sprague 74 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 3: didn't want it to be a miss. 75 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:49,799 Speaker 1: Did you just say that? 76 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: It's true? 77 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: It is true. I didn't know you could say that publicly. 78 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, he did. He didn't want me. He was pushing 79 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 2: for a different woman out of Philadelphia. 80 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: It wasn't because I know, but it was. We should explain. 81 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: It wasn't because he didn't like you. 82 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 3: No, you didn't think I was the He thought she 83 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 3: was the better fit. And she was older, and I 84 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 3: think she's way more experienced than I was. 85 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 2: I hadn't done radio. Well, I had done a small 86 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 2: sports station. I hadn't done radio like this. 87 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and yeah, he pushed for for this other woman 88 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: from Philly and Santina Romiro pushed for me, And. 89 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: Here we are, all these years later, through many changes. 90 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: So many change, too many changes. Yeah, so like recent changes, 91 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: A lot of changes, A lot. 92 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean we'll talk about that, the 93 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 1: changes recently. But okay, So twenty thirteen I met you. 94 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: You're from New Jersey. You're a D one basketball player. 95 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: You are excellent a basketball We know what I know 96 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: it Northeastern. You love to tell people that you are. 97 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I have a few records out of all, 98 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: I don't bring it up. 99 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: It's fine. Don't they have your poster at Northeastern? Yeah, yeah, 100 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: there you go. So you grew up in Jersey, went 101 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: to Northeastern and played D one ball, went on the 102 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: Real World in what year? 103 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: I was on the Real World in two thousand and 104 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: nine in New. 105 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 3: Orleans and we went back to New Orleans because there 106 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: was an original New Orleans series and we went back 107 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 3: to Neworleans like pretty much right when I graduated college. 108 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. Actually, it's funny. I remember when I found out 109 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: you were on the show after I met you, and 110 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: I looked up New Orleans and you weren't in the cast. 111 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: I was so confused. 112 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's crazy because I had just graduated college. 113 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 3: I was what twenty two years old, about to be 114 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 3: twenty three, and I was one of the older people 115 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 3: in the house, Like most of the people in there 116 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 3: had just her and they were fresh twenty one. 117 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. So if you could sum up that experience in 118 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: like the thirty seconds, wow, would you? 119 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I would literally say it was pivotal to 120 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: my career. 121 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 3: I launched and got my first radio gig out of 122 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 3: the real world, and I think going into it That's 123 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 3: what I always knew I wanted to. 124 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to be seen. 125 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 3: I need somebody in the industry to see me and 126 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 3: be like, wow, maybe she's meant for for more than 127 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 3: just this. And I was able to kind of like 128 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 3: pivot and get my first radio job in Saint Louis 129 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: from that sports station. 130 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 2: Like I said, but my boss at the time, he was. 131 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 3: A real world fanatic, and after the season was over, 132 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: he sent me a message and was like, listen, we 133 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 3: have an opening here in Saint Louis. 134 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 2: I don't know if you'd be willing to move, but 135 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: I think you'd be great. And then there. 136 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: It was, so you wanted to do sports radio or radio. 137 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: I wanted to do sports. I actually wanted to do TV. 138 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 3: I think was my first like love to do like 139 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: sports TV stuff. But then when I was playing basketball 140 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 3: at Northeastern, I did the local radio station there and 141 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 3: I was doing color commentary. So you know, for sportshead 142 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 3: they'll understand, but if you don't really watch sports, there's 143 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 3: gonna be the guy that actually passes the. 144 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: Ball to Justin and Justin's you know, five for two. 145 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 3: I was the color so I would be like, yeah, 146 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 3: and you know, Justin actually has quite the story and 147 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 3: I would kind of fill in, you know, and that 148 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 3: was like my first taste of radio. So then I 149 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 3: think after Real World course TV was number one. But 150 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 3: when I got that off or, I was like, this 151 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 3: is great, let's go. I went to Saint Louis and 152 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 3: the rest is history. 153 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: And then you applied here. Now you knew Jaman and 154 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: kiss wana wait I. 155 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 2: Didn't apply here if that was actually another funny story. 156 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 1: Oh you didn't. 157 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: No, I wrote Dylan. 158 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 3: Just like a threatening email, essentially being like you need me, 159 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: and he was like, who are you? He tells this 160 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 3: story all the time because they had no openings on 161 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 3: Jaman at the time, and I wanted to. 162 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 2: Be back in Boston so much because obviously I went to. 163 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 3: School here and my friends were here, and I was like, 164 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: you you may not have any openings, but you need me. 165 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: I have an X factor. 166 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, like I'm made for this radio station, 167 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 3: like you should, you should meet me. So he was like, okay, 168 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 3: I guess like here's when I have an opening, and 169 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 3: I came and I sat down with him. 170 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 2: The full circle moment was when Pebble's left and. 171 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: There was an opening and he sent me and he 172 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: will be like, hey, we're going to audition some women. 173 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: You can finally come in. You bulled off. Oh okay, 174 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 2: see if you work. 175 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: Out see wow yeah yeah okay. But you knew of 176 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: jammen from going to school in Northeastern. 177 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: Used to listen to Jim and all the time, went 178 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: to monster jams all of. 179 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 3: The things, like we would pregame at Northeastern parties games 180 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 3: and we would put Jammin on. 181 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and a huge Drake fans that. 182 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. I named my dog after Drake and like old 183 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: school Drake, like I you know, I liked Drake when 184 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 3: Drake wasn't really as popular obviously as he is now. 185 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. So that's so. Then, you know, 186 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: all through all the changes on Jammin, eventually you get 187 00:06:58,120 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: your own show. 188 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 2: Yes, you know, it was. There was a build up 189 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: to it. It didn't happen. 190 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 3: I had done pretty much every single day part to 191 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 3: get there. And then uh, Dylan again had asked me 192 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 3: to go. He wanted to say, I want to take 193 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 3: you out to dinner, like let's have a conversation and 194 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 3: you'll understand this. 195 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I don't want to get a 196 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: dinner to just take me to Chick fil A. I 197 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: love Chick fil A. 198 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, So we went to the Burlington Mall and we 199 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 3: sat it at Chick fil A and he's like, it's time. 200 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 3: Like He's like, I wanted to do this over a 201 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 3: steak and like maybe some champagne and tell you that 202 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 3: it's time. You've you've you're ready for your own morning show. Like, 203 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 3: but here we are. 204 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: Eating nuggets and Chick fil A sauce and yeah. So 205 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 2: he said, you know you finally you're ready. Who do 206 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 2: you want? 207 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 3: I said, I won't do it if it's not with 208 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: Santi And Santio was at a country station at the time, 209 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 3: so he came over and then speaking of the recent changes, 210 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 3: I also. 211 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 2: Was like, I want to DJ FORRN on the show. 212 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 2: And that's how we started. 213 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: You built your own show. 214 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: I got to build my own show. 215 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, which I think is a testament to him because 216 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: he trusted me enough to know what I needed at 217 00:07:58,200 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: the time to like get this going. I mean, he 218 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 3: will leaves in me a lot, but you know, I 219 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: think he just was like, what's going to make you 220 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 3: feel the most comfortable doing this? 221 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: And to give some reference to the listeners right now. 222 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: Santi worked for years on JAM and was let go, 223 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 1: laid off. That was kind of a hot situation, Okay. 224 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because when he was like, oh him and 225 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 3: Ramira did this podcast at things, and so it was 226 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 3: uncomfortable around here for sure. 227 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: And then look at the power that you have. You said, 228 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: I want him, and they brought him back, which is amazing. 229 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 3: Well, and you know their relationship has certainly had its 230 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: up ups and downs, but that they're in a really 231 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 3: good place now. 232 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: And they've come a long way. 233 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 3: I mean, Santi's in his soul, he's not He's a 234 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 3: really great person and I think they just needed to 235 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 3: get past that. 236 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 2: And they did, absolutely did. 237 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 238 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: I mean he wouldn't be here if they didn't. There 239 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 2: was no He's here because of it. 240 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. So you brought up the changes, obviously, which is 241 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: partly of the reason I wanted to have you on 242 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: other than you're my friend and I love talking to you. 243 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: You're very easy to talk to. 244 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: Well, thank you, And to be honest, I'm glad you 245 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 3: brought it up because you are one of my best 246 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 3: friends and I'm very offensive of that and I have 247 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 3: been seeing you know, some of the comments and things 248 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 3: you've been getting and it hurts my heart. 249 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 2: And if it was worth it for me to. 250 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 3: Comment back to some of these people, I would, but 251 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: it pains me to see kind of like some of 252 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 3: the heat that you've been taking, as if you no offense, respectfully, 253 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 3: have any sort of power to stop a situation like this. 254 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 3: That day was so hard for every single one of us. 255 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 3: It was such a shock for every single one of us. 256 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 3: You know, I think a good example and I always 257 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 3: give this to people, is we were kind of told, hey, 258 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 3: stay in studios, go back. I texted my husband, I said, 259 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 3: I'm losing my job and we're gonna have to move 260 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 3: from the house in Marshfield, Like we're not going about 261 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 3: to afford it. I am losing my job today. That 262 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 3: is how much I didn't know. We didn't know. So 263 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 3: when I see people say things like that, you know 264 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: they're not listening to Kis Winwait anymore because of what 265 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 3: you did to Winnie or whatever. The situation like that 266 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 3: breaks my heart because that's so far from the truth. 267 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 3: And I'm sorry they have to deal with that. But 268 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 3: that's also like the nature of our business, which sucks. 269 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, where public figures yea as they say that morning 270 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: that it all went down people. I really I've told 271 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: the story on this podcast before I realized I didn't 272 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: know what's happening. I walked out, I saw something was 273 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: happening with Winnie. I saw her crying. I immediately texted 274 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: you and I wrote, oh my god, oh my god, 275 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: something's happening with Winnie, and you wrote back DJ farign too, 276 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, holy shit. Yeah, so it all 277 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: went on at once. 278 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 2: I have said this a million times. 279 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 3: I get emotional every time anybody losing their job is 280 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 3: just it's so horrifying. And the thing about the two 281 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 3: of them, they're going to be fine because they have 282 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 3: they have in it factor, they have something special that 283 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 3: doesn't make it any better. And you know when people 284 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 3: people will call in my show to tell me about 285 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: something else in the middle be like I miss born 286 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 3: and I'm like, the truth of the matter is. 287 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: I do too. Like I'm not going to hide that fact. 288 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 2: I do too. And it sucks because this is radio. 289 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 3: This is our business, and it's there's great things about 290 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 3: our business and there's really just shit things. I was 291 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 3: shocked that you said shit, because I forgot you can 292 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 3: say shit on here something. 293 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: Went not regulated by the FCS. So both of us 294 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,079 Speaker 1: and both of our shows are adjusting to this kind 295 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: of new thing. Yeah, that's what it is. We're trying 296 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: to find our way. You know, you took a major 297 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: piece out of each show, and so here we are 298 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 1: trying to. 299 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 2: Like move forward fake time. But they hate has died down. 300 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: I think people are Initially we're very angry, and now 301 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: they're kind of like, okay, like we get it. 302 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think in your situation too, if they 303 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 3: actually spoke to Winnie directly, she would say exactly what 304 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 3: we're saying. I talk to her me too, Yeah, you know, 305 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 3: and I And the same thing goes for foreign I 306 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 3: mean they love all of us. 307 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 2: It had nothing to do with us. 308 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it sucks. It sucks. 309 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 3: I think in general, people get mad, they want to 310 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 3: blame somebody, they want to point fingers. I'm one of 311 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 3: them when things happen, like I kind of resonated in 312 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 3: my brain with like I love certain shows so much. 313 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 2: I fall in love with characters, right. 314 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,719 Speaker 3: And when you watch a show like let's use Game 315 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 3: of Thrones for example, Kalisi dies, You're like, fuck this show. 316 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 2: I don't want to watch this show without Kalisi? 317 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 3: How am I gonna? And then you continue to watch 318 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 3: the show because you love the show. But there's a 319 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 3: part of the show. Oh that's missing, and that's kind 320 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 3: of where we're. 321 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: At transition here. You just brought something lease here, Yeah, 322 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: no about the TV shows. Well, I want to say 323 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: that you have two daughters I do all right, who 324 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 1: are beautiful, and you actually just posted a Halloween. 325 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 2: Video Halloween photos job. 326 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: It's on your Instagram at Ashley. It's the most extra 327 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: thing you'll ever If you know Ashley, if you follow 328 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: her on Instagram, you know that she is the most 329 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: extra person. 330 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: Ever beyond I will say that about myself. 331 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 3: By the way, it's at Ashley Feldsman as h L 332 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 3: E E F E L D m an. 333 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 2: Please go look at my Halloween photohoo. I'm not a 334 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 2: big like. 335 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 3: I don't post on my feed a ton, but when 336 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 3: I do, you better believe there's been. 337 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 2: Some thought put into that. And my Halloween shoot is 338 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 2: like my super Bowl. 339 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. One time I had an endorsement when I first 340 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: started getting them, and the client wanted social media as 341 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: part of it, and they wanted something like one feed 342 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: post a week and I was such a newbie to it. 343 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: I remember I said that to you, and you go, 344 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: are you fucking out of your mind? Do you know 345 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: how much they have to pay to get on my feed? 346 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: I was like, I was like, are you to First off, 347 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 3: you're taking me sound bougie, But I was like, the 348 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 3: fee pos? 349 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 1: What such a big deal. 350 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 2: It is a big deal. It's gonna live, It's gonna 351 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 2: live on. 352 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: So go check that out. It's a Halloween I don't 353 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: even know video photo shoot. It's incredible. 354 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 2: It's a combination. Listen. 355 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 3: It was extremely hard for me to get pregnant for 356 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 3: the second time, and when I did, I remember, this 357 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 3: is crazy. 358 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 2: This is crazy, ABC, All visits are crazy. I'm nuts. 359 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: I was pregnant and I thought to myself, we didn't 360 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 2: know what we were having. 361 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 3: But if it's a girl, oh my god, we can 362 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 3: beat the Sanderson Sisters for Halloween. 363 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 2: One year. Here we are. It has come to fruition, 364 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 2: the iconic Sisters. 365 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't even know, like what went into this and 366 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: how much this possibly costs. All I know is I'm 367 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: sure your husband has no idea. 368 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 3: If he's not involved in it. He doesn't ask me anything. 369 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 3: But when he's involved. Then the questions come, so I. 370 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 2: Don't include him. Yeah, we don't need him. 371 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 1: So you have your two daughters. How old? How old 372 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: are they? 373 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 3: Daisy is a little over one and Leila is going 374 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 3: to be four in December, which is crazy. 375 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is crazy. So so Leila and Gemma are 376 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: right around the same age. Yes, And what's so funny 377 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: about this is I had children first, okay, And so 378 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: years ago we were working together. I was the show guy. 379 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: I watched all the shows. I had the recommendations. If 380 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: he needed the show, you came to justin. 381 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 3: Oh first, okay, And he was like at my disposal guys, 382 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 3: because I didn't have kids. 383 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: So I would call him six seven times a day, 384 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 2: and but did you watch? Did you watch? Did you watch? 385 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: And he'd be like, what do you not understanding? 386 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 3: Like, I'm knee deep in diapers right now, I'm trying 387 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 3: to figure out how to parents. I can't watch the 388 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 3: shows actually, Like I can't do this anymore like I 389 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 3: was doing. 390 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: You didn't get it. 391 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 2: I didn't get it. And fast forward. 392 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 3: If I watched ten minutes, ten minutes of one episode, 393 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, honey, I'm winning for the day. 394 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 2: Ten minutes. 395 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 3: And if you have young kids like that, you understand 396 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 3: it's the fucking wild West in my house wild West. 397 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 3: So I get it now, and it obviously took me 398 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 3: having kids dinners. 399 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: Well, we connect a lot about the kids stuff too, 400 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: we do, and we talk on the phone every day, 401 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: and it's so funny because either your kids or my 402 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: kids are both will be in the background and we 403 00:14:59,120 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: don't even I don't even here. 404 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 2: We don't. 405 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 3: And by the way, when one of them starts crying, 406 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 3: we just go okay and we just hang up. We 407 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 3: don't need to say good bye anymore because it's like 408 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 3: an unwritten thing. 409 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 2: Nobody. You don't want to hear your own own kids 410 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 2: crying and whiny. I certainly don't want to hear someone 411 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: else is like, I'm good goodbye, right. 412 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. Yeah, So all right, So all is good 413 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: in your world? 414 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: I mean, today's a big day for me with the 415 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 3: Halloween photo shoot. Yeah, I mean, all is good is relative. Obviously, 416 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 3: we just chatted about it. Things have changed, but we 417 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 3: just we did a big live show on Friday in Salem, 418 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 3: and I cry. I get emotional, but I started crying 419 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 3: a little bit on air because it was six am 420 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 3: in Salem at Rockefellers, and there was already like thirteen 421 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 3: people at this bar and I couldn't believe it. Like 422 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 3: they set their alarms in the three to come see 423 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 3: us do the show, and then by eight thirty I 424 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 3: blinked and the place was just swamp. 425 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: There was so many people. 426 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 3: And you know, I say this all the time on 427 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 3: the show, And there are so many good radio stations 428 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 3: in Boston, yours included, So. 429 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: When people actively wake up and they choose. 430 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 3: To listen to ours or they listen to the podcast, 431 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 3: it really is the greatest compliment of all time because 432 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 3: you have so many options at your disposal, podcasts, all 433 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 3: the things. So I'm very appreciative when people choose to 434 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 3: listen to our show as. 435 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: Am I and I feel like with Kissing jam And 436 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: they've always been kind of, you know, competitors in a sense, 437 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: but we work. 438 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 2: And we're the ghetto. 439 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 3: Okay, Like kiss hits all the money, kiss one a 440 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: week gets all of the good prizes, Kiss one Awake 441 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 3: gets everything, Jamming gets nothing, and so that's the real, 442 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: that's the real. 443 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: All right. But I have noticed and I've found that 444 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: since your show has launched, right how many years now, 445 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: like seven? Yeah. I feel like before people either listen 446 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: to kiss or Jamming, they chose, they stuck with them, 447 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: but now they go back and forth. Yeah, so when 448 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: we go to commercial, they go to Ashley. When you 449 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: go to commercial, they come to us. 450 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 3: I know, we do have a lot of people that 451 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: go back and forth, and they love when we fight 452 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 3: or we have like something going on. 453 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: But I even got DM's like, oh my gosh, Justin 454 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 2: said you're coming on the. 455 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 3: After show and you're going to come on his podcast, 456 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 3: and so that just proves that people do go back 457 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: and forth. I don't want to cause beef. I think 458 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 3: our show is better, respectfully, but I have to, right, 459 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 3: you should you should feel that I should. 460 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not well. 461 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: You also have an advantage, you know what that advantage is, 462 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: but the audience is different. You can talk about things 463 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 1: that are more sexual. 464 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 3: You know. 465 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: I can't talk about that. 466 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 2: I know you can, but you can't like you would, 467 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 2: but you can't. 468 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 3: Well, I also think like there's ways you don't have 469 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 3: to say like penis at six am like I do, 470 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 3: but you guys could. 471 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Billy can't be trusted. 472 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll just say things because I want. I want 473 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 2: to know Lisa's thoughts on some things, you know. 474 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean they can't be trusted to not 475 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: to kind of ride the line if you will. So 476 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. But I know, I know, yeah, 477 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: So I love you. 478 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 2: You know that, Thank you for having me. 479 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 3: I will come on more often if the people want 480 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 3: it at Oh, really, sure we can make it. 481 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 2: We can make it a thing. 482 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: Can I share one final story? 483 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 2: Please? I'm wondering. 484 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: It's a good story. It's a good story. This really 485 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: just goes to show the kind of friend that you are. 486 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: I told you this recently. I reminded you. But years ago, 487 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: I was going through a tough time with my wife Jen, 488 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 1: and I was under the belief I really believed that 489 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: she didn't love me anymore, and that she didn't find 490 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: me attractive, and that she did not want to sleep 491 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: with me, and that she was just with me because 492 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 1: we had kids. That's it, I convinced myself. And it 493 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: got to a point where we weren't talking and I 494 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: was like it's over, Like it's over. So one day 495 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: I called Ashley. I was walking in a park by 496 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 1: myself and I called her and I'm like, I'm just 497 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:28,479 Speaker 1: gonna tell her, like I'm gonna leave my wife. And 498 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: I laid it all out to her, like an hour 499 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: long talk, and she was like, are you fucking out 500 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,959 Speaker 1: of your mind? She goes, are you done? I go yeah, 501 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: she goes, okay, and then she proceeded to just lay 502 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: into me for like twenty minutes, and I'll tell you, 503 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: by the end of it, I was like, oh my god, yeah, 504 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: like what am I thinking? Yeah, you know, and you 505 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: gave me advice, which was between us of things that 506 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: I need to do and to work on. And I 507 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: did those things and I'll never forget like when it 508 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: wore turned around and we entered this new chapter in 509 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: our marriage and we were all good. I was thinking 510 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: about you and I'm like, imagine if I never called culture, I'm. 511 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 2: So thankful that you did. 512 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 3: And you know what, this is a real testament to 513 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 3: our friendship because we will both you know, we will 514 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 3: say what we want to say, and sometimes it's hurtful. 515 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 3: But you look at someone like Britney Spears and you're like, 516 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 3: it's sad she has no real friends, she has no 517 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 3: one to sit her town and be like, get out 518 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 3: of your foolia get better, extensions, stop, be a good mom. 519 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 3: Just have anybody she just has. Yes, people say you 520 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 3: always need someone that's going to tell you by yourself 521 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 3: you do and by the way, and let's and also 522 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 3: marriage is a lot of work. 523 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: Just in general, we can get a lot of Marriage 524 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 2: is a full time job as well. 525 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: It's definitely a lot. 526 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:34,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely a lot. 527 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh oh. We didn't even mention Mike, your husband. 528 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,719 Speaker 2: Shout out to We don't say his name, shout out 529 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 2: to the fireman. 530 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: Fireman. 531 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 2: He doesn't like to be known. He hates. He has actively. 532 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 3: Said to me many a time, sometimes I wish you 533 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 3: just worked at like Duncan. Yeah, you know, he hates 534 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 3: the the attention of it all. But he's the best dude. 535 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 3: He definitely compliments me. He's the office, yeah of me. 536 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: One of the first things that was said to me 537 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 1: by an experienced person in radio when I was an 538 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: intern was that they said, if you continue to work 539 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: in radio, you're gonna learn that the people that matter 540 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: the most in your life, right, that mean the most, 541 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: do not give one fuck that you work on the radio. 542 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? And it's so true. My 543 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 1: wife doesn't care. My wife listens to your fucking show. Okay, 544 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: she's a. 545 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 2: Big fan of the passion you have morning shoes. 546 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 1: It's great, okay, all right, see now now we've gotta 547 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: wrap things up. But thank you very much, and you'll 548 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 1: come back. 549 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 2: I'll come back. 550 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: I'll come back, DM me or leave a talk back 551 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: if you want Ashley back. All right, but oh go 552 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 1: check out your post, Ashley with two ease. 553 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, Ashley Felman. 554 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 3: Guys, go check out my post and check out our 555 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 3: show too, where you know, I know you guys. A 556 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 3: lot of you listen to Kiss obviously, and you probably 557 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 3: listen to a podcast. 558 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: Are you gonna plug your show? 559 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,479 Speaker 2: I am trying to pluck listeners, is what I need. 560 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 1: Ratings, all right, check them out. We'll come back. We'll 561 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 1: see it by