WEBVTT - Plus One Do's and Don'ts 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.160 Mojo in the Morning Show. 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:05.920 Everybody looked beautiful at the black tie affair on Friday, 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:09.200 that big thing that they do at the auto show. 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:12.640 I was looking at Kevin in that tucks that he 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:15.640 has that looks so good, and you had to feel 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:19.680 like a boss being there with the two beauties of 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:21.880 this show, Bianca and Anna. 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:24.200 The badest women at the entire show. 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:28.840 By the way, you don't realize, you know, this is weird. 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.960 This reminds me of when you would see the girl 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.519 from school show up at prom and she would be 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:38.000 wearing a dress and you're like, I didn't know she 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:40.600 had a body like that, right, you have those? Well, 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:44.440 it's wild because that's what I noticed with Anna, Like Anna, 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:47.519 Anna was there at that and she was wearing this dress, 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.400 and man, oh man, did Anna look good? 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:52.959 Huh thank you? I felt good too good. 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:56.360 Yeah, Sadly I didn't get any content of it because 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.720 I had a terrible plus one. 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:00.960 I thought you were going with a friend of yours. Yeah, 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:02.240 not even like a date date. 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:03.000 Yeah. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:06.920 I went with a formerly very good friend of mine. 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:11.000 I don't know for friends anymore, but we had gone 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:13.319 to a lot of events together. Usually he was inviting 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:15.400 me to be his plus one, and it always worked 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.440 out really well for me because he has a lot 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:22.760 of connections in the city. He's very social, and I 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:26.039 would just I could or didn't have to talk if 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:28.000 I didn't want to talk, but these were always his events. 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:32.120 So I was with him and we were talking about 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:33.720 the charity preview. He was like, oh, I need to 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:35.560 buy a ticket. I was like, actually, I have an 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:37.319 extra ticket if you just want to come with me. 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:40.080 He was like, yeah, that's perfect. So we ended up 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:43.880 going together and it did not go well. So I 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:47.000 would love to hear some dues and downs of plus ones. 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:49.640 But let me tell you what happened with me past. 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:55.240 It started with him being late, but to me, my 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:57.720 friends are always late, so this was like I already 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.720 knew this was going to happen. I told him to 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:01.880 I'm a little earlier and knowing that he would be late. 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:04.680 But that Sworta was just like how it started off 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:05.560 a little late. 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:09.519 Me knew the DAC. We were meeting at the DAC. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:10.960 All right, So it wasn't like he was picking you 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:12.239 up to take you there for me. 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:13.000 No, we were going to. 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:15.120 Meet at the DAC because some after parties were like 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.560 around there, and he's a member, so he just wanted 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.800 to leave his car there us. We met there, we 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:24.160 got shuttled over to the event. And mind you, this 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:27.680 was me that got invited for work. I was wearing 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.400 a dress that was a partnership, so I needed to 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.040 get a lot of content. I needed to get a 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.239 lot of pictures. And I had expressed this to him. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:35.760 He was like, yeah, for sure, we're. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:36.120 Going to get it. 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.240 We get into the event and it was like every 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.680 two steps he was seeing somebody he knew that he 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.520 wanted to talk to. And I felt like I was 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:47.120 just like the trophy on the arm, like, hey, how 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:48.800 are you doing? These are all my friends and this 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:50.600 is Leanna. Now she has a job with Mojo in 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:52.799 the morning, and I'm just like, hey, guys, but I'm 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:55.520 like what the heck? Like I want to be talking 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:57.240 to my people. I'm like I need to go see 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.000 my work friends. We need to get pictures, we need 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:00.720 to do stuff. He's like, oh, oh, don't worry. We 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:06.440 will never happened. Because because this guy was constantly finding 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.960 people that he knew, we were mingling with his friends, 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:09.799 YadA YadA. 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:10.880 So then it's time to leave. 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.560 I'm a little annoyed the whole time, and y'all we 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:17.880 got into the biggest public argument. I'm so embarrassed. If 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:21.240 anyone saw this happen. It reminded me of a movie. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:24.040 So we were walking out, he invited a big group 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:26.120 of friends to come with us to the next party. 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:27.919 I didn't know any of the people that we were with, 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:34.440 and he had started making some very disrespectful comments towards 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:40.280 me that well. First, his friend was trying to get 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.840 in contact with him because he wanted to uber with 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.480 us to the next event. And this guy wasn't answering 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:48.560 the guy that I was with because he was drinking. 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.600 So his friend was calling me, and he, in front 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.320 of everyone, was like, if you want to f my friend, 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.400 just go f him, like in front of like a 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:58.360 bunch of people that I don't know, he's saying that. 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:00.200 So I'm like a little annoyed. I'm like, yo, I'm 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.480 trying to help you. Your friends are calling me because 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:06.360 you're not responding to them. So I was already annoyed. 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:09.360 Then I had like said something to him, like these 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:11.080 girls that were there were like, are you okay. I'm 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:13.120 like yeah, just like please keep him away from me, 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.240 and like one thing that he said to me that 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:18.800 I really didn't like was, you know, he looked at 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:21.640 this group of people who were all black. He was like, 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.040 you know how white girls be, you know how white 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.960 girls get when when it like when stuff like this 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.240 goes down. And I don't know why. That just set 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:31.960 me off. After I had the night that I had 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.520 already had with him, and then he said that, I 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:35.680 was like, that's it. 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:36.800 I'm not going with you. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.080 So, if you've ever been to Cobo, there's like these 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:43.360 escalators and they were waiting for a shuttle downstairs and 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:46.240 I was like, if this, I go up the escalators. 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:48.320 He's chasing after me. He's like what are you doing. 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:51.720 I'm like, stay away from me. I want to talk 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:55.159 to you. And everyone's just staring. Like I'm at the 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.080 top of the escalator. He's at the bottom, like. 0:04:57.040 --> 0:05:00.679 Why are you doing this? I'm like, leave me alone. 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.960 We get the time of the night at the end 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:03.479 of yeah, and. 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.360 This was the end, but there were still people around. 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.679 So then we get to the top and I'm like, okay, 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:10.520 maybe he's gonna apologize. He's like, why would you talk 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:12.000 to me like that in front of my friends. 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:13.600 I was like, are you serious? 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:16.680 Why did you talk about me like that in front 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:18.960 of your friends? Like how dare you disrespect me at 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.960 an event that I invited you to? And then he's 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.680 blowing up my phone like I know you're gonna talk 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:24.480 about this on the radio. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:24.919 I know this. 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:28.640 Hell yeah, I'm gonna talk about it on the radio. Yes, 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:31.240 So I hope he's hearing it right now. But yeah, 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.520 it was just like a terrible plus one. I got 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:36.080 no videos, no content. It ended in a huge fight. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.719 I didn't go home with him. I left a bunch 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:40.120 of stuff in his car. He was like, well, how 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:41.960 are you gonna get that stuff? I said, throw it away, 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:47.960 my nice coat, my nice liv I just I'm so tired. 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:49.200 Send somebody to go get it. 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:50.719 Yeah, that's what. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:51.520 That's it. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:54.680 When I saw Kevin towards it, I know. 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:56.520 You saw them because I saw you took a photo 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:57.640 with Bianca and Kevin. 0:05:57.880 --> 0:05:58.800 Yeah, his I didn't. 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:00.800 I didn't since that, I didn't since all of this, 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:03.440 A lot of it happened after we saw each other. 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:05.960 When you saw me when we were leaving, I was 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:07.520 with one of his friends because this friend was like, 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:11.360 are you Yeah, I was like, no, I'm not okay. 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:14.360 But yeah, that's was that after kind. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.560 Of yeah, that was after the fight. 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:18.200 That was his friend trying to like be like yo, 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:21.080 like he can get like you solve it. 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:24.560 But I was realizing, for an uber, wow, well for 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:28.160 you for ending your night there. But what I'm realizing 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.479 is you got bad friends. 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:34.000 I mean, there are some bad people you like don't 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:39.719 show up to birthday parties. They listen this guy here, man. 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:42.560 I think this would happen because prior to this we 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:44.600 had gone to a lot of events together. But again, 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:46.320 it was his thing, so I don't think I was 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.599 as conscious of what he was doing. I was just 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:50.760 kind of there for a good time. But this time 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:52.719 I actually had things I needed to do, people I 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:55.560 needed to talk to, and I just didn't feel respective to. 0:06:56.120 --> 0:07:02.160 Alcohol elevated, like oh god, acting for sure, I think 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:05.040 that he was drinking, and he was definitely drunk, but 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:06.480 I can't speak for him. 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:07.880 So this is another thing. 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:10.640 One of the girls that I met that I didn't 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:14.120 know prior said that when they left and they were 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.520 in the shuttle or the Uber or whatever they got 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.480 to go home, they were like, yeah, he was talking 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:20.280 about you. The whole time and how you were doing 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:22.600 dry January and you were no fun and that's why 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:26.200 you're acting like this, And I'm like, really, like he's. 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:29.840 Still talking about January? Yeah, can I can? 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:32.440 I just go on record to say that I have 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.200 a lot of questions to ask and I don't know 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:37.760 where to start. But one question is should you bring 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:41.840 a a plus one to things? And this is the 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:44.800 reason why when I hear when people go to weddings, 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.920 and weddings are typical for plus ones, right, people will 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:52.000 bring a plus one and something like this will happen, 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:56.840 and now your entire friendship base thinks that you're guy. 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:58.960 You know, the guy or girl that you bring is 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:00.600 an idiot, you know what I mean? And then your 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:01.800 choice of people as an idiot. 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:08.520 But then I don't know that. And then also should 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:09.960 there be a level of. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.320 I don't know, like understanding when you're you're the plus 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.640 one at something like it was, and I know that 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:18.600 you know because you had the ticket, so you and 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.120 you got the ticket from work. When you're the person's 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:26.640 plus one, you got to adhere to their rules because 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.520 you're a guest in their situation, even though it's a 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:32.640 public event. Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:34.840 six six five sixty five four. A text is nine 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:38.880 five five zero zero bad plus ones? Have you had 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.520 a bad plus one hold on? 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:42.839 Miranda? What did you want to say to Anna? 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:44.200 Hi? 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:48.760 Good morning guys. Firstly, I just wanted to tell Anna directly, 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:51.559 for one, that clearly you know you deserve better than that. 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:54.640 And for two, I'm personally so proud of you and 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:57.000 that I've just loved listening to you along the way 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:59.160 and your experiences and how far you've come and grown 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:02.760 on the show. But I had quite a similar situation 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:06.199 with a guy. It seems like this guy might be 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:08.880 jealous of you, jealous of the fact that you that 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:10.920 he was maybe the plus one and not the other 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:14.640 way around. Maybe jealous of your the attention or something 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:18.480 like that. But I started growing an audience on TikTok 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:20.360 you know, long story short guy was kind of like 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:23.280 getting jealous of it and started treating me differently. And 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.760 I noticed that he would say stuff like how you 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:28.040 had said like, oh, are you going to go tell 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:29.480 this to the radio? He would do that like, oh, 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.080 what are you going to go tell story time on? 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:33.440 You know this horrible thing I said to you, and 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:35.720 I would. I never would personally, am I not going 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.000 to give you the satisfaction. But it was clear to 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:40.600 me that he was jealous of like that type of 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:43.880 success that I was coming up to myself. And I 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.720 understand it and I relate, And again, it could just 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.400 be a jealousy thing, but that it doesn't excuse it. 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.960 And you know, I don't know. 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.120 Yeah, that's interesting. It's very very interesting. 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.160 There's a little bit of jealousy, especially when a guy 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:00.079 is having to take, you know, the back seat of 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.199 the girls, although he may not be wrong about white girls. 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:06.679 So let's we all know. 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:09.280 I get white girl wasted all the time whenever I'm 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:10.240 going on white girl. 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:14.920 What's going on? Courty? How you doing, Courtney? Hi, good morning, 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:16.680 what's happening? Gooding? 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.280 I want to say, it can be so hard to 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:22.199 stand up for yourself, and especially the fact that Anna 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:25.959 stood up for herself against the like the opposite facts. 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:27.760 It can just be so hard, and the fact that 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.600 she did that you are so strong and you sit 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:32.559 up for yourself and you should be so proud of 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:34.720 yourself and you don't want people like that in your life. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:37.600 Thanks girl, did you see what you looked? Like in 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:42.600 that dress. By the way, that such a pretty man. 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:47.720 Oh, Bionca looked hot too. How good did Beyonca look 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:53.319 on me? He looked great too. I saw the pictures 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:58.640 of Bryce and his champagne. Lisa, what's upping? 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:02.200 Hello? 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:11.920 Yes, Lisa, Hi, Hi, first time, long time, thank you, 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:17.359 thank you. I'm married to a gentleman who's a narcissist 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:23.199 major nineteen years of this. He quit working pretty much 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:26.800 right after we got married, and I pretty much have 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.480 to be the sole provider for the household. So I'm 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:32.040 never really home because, like Kate going home to him 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.840 because he's always finding something bad to say or whatever. 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:41.240 But we've been to one of my daughters got that 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:46.080 lives in Nebraska, came up here and had her son baptized, 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:48.839 and I said, you need to behave yourself. My mom's 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:51.840 going to be there. Literally walked out a different door 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:54.280 and he literally attacked my mom in the parking lot. 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.600 So from that point on, my kids are so mad 0:11:56.640 --> 0:12:00.600 at me because they're like, you can't take him anywhere 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.640 that he doesn't start a fight. He started fight to Easter, 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:07.400 Like my mom lives in North Branch, Yeah, we drive 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.320 all the way up there. To have Easter dinner and 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.600 spend the day and whatnot. He gets into an argument 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:14.439 with my daughter, my oldest one, and my son in 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:17.400 law's away from people in this and that. So in 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:19.520 the process, listen. 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:20.640 Here, here's what I'm going to say. 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:22.320 You need to get and I'm going to take this 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:24.319 off the air because that's a bad situation. You're married 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.400 to that guy. You need to get out of a 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:33.640 situation like that. Narcissist is one thing. That's mental illness 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:35.800 right there, if the guy's treating you that way. 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:38.080 So that's more than just that. 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:42.559 So I and we will hopefully give you some resources 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:44.719 to be able to do that. I don't want to 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:46.960 get too too heavy on the show, but when you're 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:49.920 married to that and your kids are part of that 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:54.520 whole thing, wait till I grab the next call after Katie. 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:55.880 What's going on, Katie? 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:59.560 Hey, how's it going, Katie? 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.160 What do you think the rule is? I'm good? What 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:01.640 do you think? 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:04.120 Uh? 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:06.920 The rule with a plus one? Well, there's like there's 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:10.000 all kinds of rules here. I mean, seriously, you got 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:11.960 you gotta have like it's. 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:13.400 Like a code of conduct, Like you got to be 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:16.720 a decent person and you have to understand the responsibility 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:19.720 of being the arm candy to whatever event you're going to. 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.040 I'm just kind of shocked this guy. 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.560 Should be ashamed of himself. I mean, he's been doing 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:27.040 enough of these events to understand. 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.080 I would hope, Well, don't go anywhere. Hold on a second, 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:32.440 hold on, don't go anywhere. 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:34.280 On the line, because he's texting me. 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:35.520 I've got this. 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.800 I've got a person on the phone line here that 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:42.200 says Anna's date in his name, the name of armand 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:44.480 this is literally, yeah. 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:47.640 It is me, it is me, it is defend. 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.440 So you're you're outing yourself. 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:55.920 Well, here's the thing. Everybody's seeing me at the module 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.320 for context. I've been going to Arlestow prebut for a decade, 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.800 all right, and so everyone's seen this other All my 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.080 DAC guys are hitting up. Hey, Anna was mad at 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:04.480 you at the auto show. I didn't get that. You 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:05.720 guys seem like you were great together. 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:07.160 I thought we were great together. 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:10.240 She makes this thing just blows up on me, like 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:13.080 you left me. I said, like, Anna, I didn't leave you, 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.839 Like I just went downstairs. It's tons of people all 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.760 over the place and went hug in whatever. And then 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:20.880 she blows up at me and like it's like a 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:22.560 It's like a sceme from a movie. She's at the 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.280 top of the stairs screaming at me. I'm like, Enna, 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:26.360 we don't have to do this. This is chitchat about this. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.360 But I knew this is gonna happen. I knew this 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:29.000 was gonna happen. 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:31.640 All right, so explain your side of the story here 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.880 and let me judge judy this situation. 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:40.040 Yeah, I'm sorry, ahead, no, all right in. 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:41.880 The courtroom right now, hold on saying we got in 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:43.400 the courtroom, we got our planet it and we got 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:46.120 our defendant. Let me get some give me give me 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:47.760 the people's court music here, will you please? 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:49.240 Zach? Uh here? 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:50.840 Hold on, I'll plug it into my phone and I'll 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.160 get the People's court music. I wasn't prepared for this. 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:57.040 The litigans for our next case are now walking into 0:14:57.080 --> 0:15:01.600 the courtroom right now as we speak, and uh, let's 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.280 see here what we got. We've all heard anna side 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.720 of the story. But Anna, will you do me a favor? 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:08.920 Will you recap us? 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:09.520 On? 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:12.360 Uh? On? What is going on here? Hold on? I 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:14.760 got it? As I get the music here, the people 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:17.120 the People's court there we go. 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.440 Themodo in the morning is now in session Gianna's momoto 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:22.080 and presiding please be seated. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:23.240 Y'all heard. 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:25.600 But I just said he made comments that made me 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:29.000 feel very disrespected. Then he never responded and said why 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:31.120 would you talk? Why would you act like that in 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.360 front of my friends? After he was very disrespectful towards 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:35.320 me the whole night. 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:39.160 Okay, now defend yourself armand. 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:44.280 Yes, well disrespectful. I mean the night was born fantastic, 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:46.600 like she just and now, granted, here's the thing. There's 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:48.800 a lot of people there. I'm hugging and kiss a 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:50.880 lot of people, you know what I mean. I am 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.520 a well known person in the city, been in business 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.600 in the city for a long time. And here's the thing, 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:58.000 you know, uh Anna, people were saying hello to Anna too, 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:00.080 So it wasn't like we were we were ignored and 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:01.840 the other It was just a lot of moving parts. 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:03.360 You know, all tho short of people can be. I 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:04.880 don't think she was trying to ignore me. I wasn't 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:06.800 trying to ignore her. But you know, at the end 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:09.320 of the day, she you know, talk about nursist. She 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:11.480 blew up on me saying this is about me you're 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:13.640 my plus one. I'm like, hey, whoa whoa? Who whoa? 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:16.840 And for context, we've been out tons of times together, 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:19.760 a bunch together, we used to work together. We've been 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:23.880 out a bunch okay. And for her to blow up 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:25.600 at me saying I left her, which is unfair to me. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:30.200 So I never said you left me. I left you so. 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:32.920 Armand hebe she just said earlier that she said she 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:33.560 left me. 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:37.040 Now she says you I left you. I said, I 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.480 don't want to be around this man. He is psycho 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:40.920 and rude, so. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.840 Armand where did it go wrong? Did it go? And 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:45.400 now I me ask Anna this question. 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:49.520 Did it go wrong that that he walked away from 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.480 you and left you for a little bit er? 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:51.760 Uh? 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:53.960 Because anybody said. 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:57.640 What go after my friend if you want to talk 0:16:57.720 --> 0:16:58.360 to my friend. 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:02.080 Oh, this is just this is how white girls act 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.040 to your group of friends. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:05.480 You are crazy. 0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:09.880 I never said I never said go my friend or anything. 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:14.920 I did no chance, Like, I'm like, hey, we're like, 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.920 you left me. I had to CODs, I had to Champagne. 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:19.040 I was fine. 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.320 Have you guys ever had a relationship with each other 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:23.920 like a romantic relationship? 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:27.160 No? But Anna, my very good friend. That's what Usually, 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:29.320 she's my plus one and this is the first time 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:31.600 ever in like five years, has ever invited me to anything. 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.359 I was her first friend of Detroit. Anna knows I 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:36.440 love her, and for her to pull this stunt, I'm 0:17:36.440 --> 0:17:37.560 just I'm just heartbroken here. 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:42.159 So Amon, let me just let me try to like 0:17:42.240 --> 0:17:44.560 to smooth this over a little bit. Would you be 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.960 willing to apologize for the things that that you might 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:50.159 have done that have hurt Anna? 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:54.280 Absolutely? Of course I apologize, absolutely. 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:55.800 Anna, what hurts you the most out of this whole thing? 0:17:56.520 --> 0:17:59.800