1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Wakes up John Jay and. 2 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: What's crag a leg? And this is the big bulls 3 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 2: dove snoopy deagle double gigsel bang boom. What you don't do, 4 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: j we're not talking about rin jend and we're not 5 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 2: talking about last year. If the one and only. 6 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 3: Dogs big smooth eagle double jib in your face to 7 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 3: me and. 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: In the place to be and you're listening to John 9 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: Jay and. 10 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 3: Rich wakes it's John Jay and Rich on this beautiful Wednesday. 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 3: John Jay will be with us a little bit later. 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 3: He's taken care of some family stuff with him and 13 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 3: his wife Blake, so he will join us in a 14 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 3: little bit. 15 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 2: But we are we are all here. 16 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 3: I was actually kind of reading this article Kyle that 17 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 3: reminded me of something that you told us yesterday. 18 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: In the headline is it's in People magazine. 19 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 3: A woman is annoyed that her husband gave his coworker 20 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 3: a three hundred dollars gift despite not being invite to 21 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 3: the wedding. And the person got married was his work wife, 22 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 3: not invited to the wedding, low work wife three hundred 23 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 3: dollars and his actual wife not workwife. Real wife is like, 24 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 3: well you weren't even invited to the wedding. That's kind 25 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 3: of sucking. 26 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 4: I feel like that's real messy territory. 27 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 5: Like if your wife doesn't want you buying a gift 28 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 5: for your work wife, there's a problem there. Yeah, if 29 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 5: you're spending three hundred dollars on your work wife, there's 30 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 5: probably a problem there. 31 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 3: Now he's saying that they've got like this work this 32 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 3: work email, like it's like Slack where you can all 33 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 3: jump in. And her registry was posted on snap on 34 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 3: that that that that website like Monday or workday or 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 3: whatever it is, and he just clicked on the registry 36 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 3: and like, oh, this would be kind of cool even 37 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 3: though we're not going. She's nice enough, let's buy her 38 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 3: a present. 39 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 5: I think No, I think it's totally nice to get 40 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 5: someone like I did. Like that's what I shared with 41 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 5: you guys. I actually bought someone that I know a 42 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 5: wedding gift. I wasn't invited the wedding, but I wanted to, like, 43 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 5: you know, gave a congratulations and just like say I'm 44 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 5: so happy for you too. 45 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 4: And that kind of thing. 46 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 6: And you guys all thought it was so weird. 47 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 5: Except Peyton, who was like I want people to get this. 48 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 6: I want more friends. Like Kyle, we are not invited 49 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 6: to the wedding, but she still said gift. 50 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: Oh god, I can't invite everybody heard. 51 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 5: So I shared the whole story on her afterwards podcast, 52 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 5: which you can get anywhere you listen to podcasts, and 53 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 5: it's actually a pretty cool podcast that we did. 54 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 4: It was it was a talking stick Resort, which is 55 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 4: the first time we've ever. 56 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 5: Done the podcast off campus, which was kind of fun. 57 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 4: It was it was adventurous for me. You're too high. 58 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 5: Right after we did the podcast, I went and actually 59 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 5: delivered that wedding gift to this person who got married, 60 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 5: and she texts she was at work, so I just 61 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 5: left it. She was busy at work, so I just 62 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 5: left it there and I got a text from this 63 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 5: morning and. 64 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 4: She was like, Wow, I'm so grateful, thank you so much. 65 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 4: And I think, like, that's like my love language. She's 66 00:02:58,600 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 4: like giving gifts. 67 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 5: So maybe that's in the article that you read, that's 68 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 5: his love language. But the problem is when your wife 69 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 5: has an issue with it and your wife wasn't in 70 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 5: on that decision, Yeah, that's shady, Like that's where I 71 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 5: would have it an issue. 72 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 3: Have you, Kyle, ever done that before? Got a present 73 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 3: for somebody? Are present apprized for a wedding that you 74 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: weren't invited to or is this the first one? 75 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: No, I've done that before. 76 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 2: I don't think that I ever have. 77 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 6: I've never heard that, and honestly, I kind of into it. 78 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 7: Do you think that a couple that you did get 79 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 7: the gift for that you didn't get invited to the wedding? 80 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 6: Do you think they felt bad? They're like, I hope not. 81 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I hope not. 82 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 5: No, No, I don't think so, because it's not like 83 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 5: we are friendly. But it's not like we are the 84 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 5: friends that go to lunch together or do things together, 85 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 5: you know what I mean. 86 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 4: It's just like this is someone who does a lot 87 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 4: for me. 88 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 5: But then also at the same time, it's like we're 89 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 5: not We're not on that level. 90 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 4: So I never expected an invite to the wedding. But 91 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 4: I'm also very happy for them. 92 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 7: So I'm like, here, here, you're such a good person. 93 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 3: Okay, so just out of curiosity, just because I want 94 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 3: to know if I'm not asking you what you spent, 95 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: but say you are getting a gift for a friend, 96 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 3: like you know, the same sex friend or a couple 97 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 3: you know, like, and you're not invited the wedding. What's 98 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 3: the price tag for that? What do you what would 99 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: you go up to for a present for a wedding 100 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 3: A gift? 101 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 5: I feel like a good wedding gift is like around 102 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 5: one hundred dollars. I think that's a pretty good wedding 103 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 5: gift because you know, like weddings are extremely expensive. They're 104 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 5: spending a lot of money to have you there, So 105 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 5: I don't know, I feel like around one hundred dollars is. 106 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 4: A good wedding gift budget. So when you. 107 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 5: Said that guy spent was three hundred dollars, I was like, geez. 108 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 5: And I think I actually read that same article and 109 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 5: that same coworker had gone to the wife's baby shower 110 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 5: and gotten her like a twenty dollars gift. But it's 111 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 5: not about the money, like maybe she doesn't make that much, 112 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 5: but the wife made the comparison like she got as 113 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 5: a twenty dollars gift, you got her a three hundred 114 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 5: dollars gift, And I think that was one of the 115 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 5: reasons the wife was upset. But then also I secretly 116 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 5: think that the wife's got a problem with their relationship. 117 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 6: And iably I'm sorry, I'm not letting my man have 118 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 6: a work wife. 119 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I could get icy water. It's kind of 120 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 3: out these days. However, is it tacky for her on 121 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: her work website people aren't gonna be invited to put 122 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 3: her wedding register? 123 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 124 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 4: It is, yeah that No. 125 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 5: Come on Amazon, have you registered yet? 126 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 4: Like, where are you at for your wedding? 127 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: No? I have not. 128 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 4: Have you guys talked to it, because honestly, like registering 129 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 4: was really fun, we. 130 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 7: Haven't gotten to that point. I've like brought up to Katine. 131 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 7: I would be like, so, like what color suit are 132 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 7: you gonna wear? How are you gonna do your hair? 133 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 7: Are you gonna wear it out? Are you gonna grow 134 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 7: it out and do braids? And He's like, I feel 135 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 7: like we should get a venue first. 136 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna ask you that because we were 137 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 3: in a media aboucher wedding last week. Other than the 138 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 3: date that you would like to be married, that you're 139 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 3: going to send out save the dates for? Is anything 140 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,239 Speaker 3: locked in beside your groom? 141 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 4: No, you'rerriam okay, I mean anything at all? Your next 142 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 4: step is go register. 143 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 5: I honestly think because like it was like you literally go, well, 144 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 5: I don't know where I mean you guys, You guys 145 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 5: are at the point where you are eventually going to 146 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 5: move into a new home, and that's the goal. You 147 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 5: guys have to go get any You're gonna need everything 148 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 5: for your house. So you go to Target and write 149 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 5: and they literally give you like a scanner and you 150 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 5: just go scan. 151 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 6: All the stuff they like you. 152 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 5: You you could do it online too, but I think 153 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 5: it's more fun to go in person. 154 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 4: Oh I would love yes, And. 155 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 3: Then you can cross one thing off your list. Yeah, 156 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 3: Like you might even put on your wedding registry a 157 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: venue to get married. 158 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 2: Well. 159 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 5: And there's also like in that meeting when we were 160 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 5: talking about like the honey fund, if you want to 161 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 5: give your your wedding guests the option of like instead 162 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 5: of a new crock pot, which you might want the 163 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 5: crock pot, you may not want to deal with the 164 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 5: honeymoon stuff. But they have this thing called honey fund 165 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 5: where you pick out, Oh, we're gonna go to Hawaii 166 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 5: for our honeymoon, and on that honeymoon, we want to 167 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 5: do a jet ski excursion and so people can pay 168 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 5: for said justsursion or that kind of thing too. 169 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 6: That's so fun. 170 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 7: No, I definitely need to like lock in and get moving, 171 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 7: but I just really haven't. I think I just like 172 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 7: am not waiting for the stress. But I think the 173 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 7: one thing I need to check off is our save 174 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 7: the dates. But I'm having this issue because I so 175 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 7: diamond in my ring, so I don't want to go 176 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 7: and get the professional pictures taken yet because if I 177 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 7: give them my ring, it's still gonna take them forever 178 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 7: to get it back. 179 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 6: It's all kinds of drama. So I found in. 180 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 7: Gilbert there's like those like vintage photo booths, and I 181 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 7: told kadem on sat on Sunday, I said, let's get 182 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 7: dressed up and let's go try and see if we 183 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 7: can do this vintage photo booth get away with. 184 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 6: It was five. 185 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 7: Dollars to get this picture pointed and then do our 186 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 7: save the date. So these are the pictures. 187 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 4: I love it. 188 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 6: So it's like one of the half. 189 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 7: And then I was thinking on the backside, that's where 190 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 7: you do the save the date. You put all the 191 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 7: info and then that's what you get in your mail. 192 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 7: You can put that up on your fridge. 193 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 6: Isn't that so cute. 194 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 4: Okay, do you know you know that audio? And it's perfect? Yes, 195 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 4: I love it. 196 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 7: I love it because one of the very first pictures 197 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 7: Kadem and I took, we weren't even dating yet, we 198 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 7: went on a date to like Dave and Busters, and 199 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 7: we took it in the photo booth, and there's pictures 200 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 7: of that date on my parents fridge, on my grandma's bridge, 201 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 7: his parents bridge. 202 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 6: So I thought that was like a little nod to us. 203 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 3: This is super fun and every one of these pictures 204 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: captures your personality. 205 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: We need to stick it up. Can we put it 206 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: up on the air. 207 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 6: I'll put it up on John Jaye Rich. 208 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 7: I don't like the bottom one because I feel like 209 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 7: my botox is working too good. 210 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 3: I look crazyble Let's say hello to man who's been 211 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 3: holding to talk about the rudest thing he's ever seen 212 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 3: it a wedding. 213 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: Go ahead, matt. 214 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. So it was my sister's wedding and 215 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: it was in it was a destination wedding and Dominican Republic, 216 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: and the ceremony was right next to this beautiful, big 217 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: giant pool, and before the reception and all that, my 218 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: sister had kind of talked about like, oh, afterwards, we 219 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 1: should like jump into the pool. So we went through 220 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: the ceremony, had the reception, and then as we were 221 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: getting ready to go over to the pool so that 222 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: she and her husband can jump in, one of her 223 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: friends already jumped in and was like, everybody, come on, 224 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: jump in, like kind of coming away from her. Yeah. 225 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: It was actually unbelievable. So my sister and still jumped 226 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: in with her husband. She made sure that the photographer 227 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: didn't get her friend in the photo. They actually still 228 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: have like a lot of animals. Yeah, but after they 229 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: jumped in, the bridal party jumped in, and then more 230 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: and more people started jumping in, and eventually all seventy 231 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: six people that had attended attended the wedding were in 232 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: the pool. 233 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 3: That's cool, and we just we just c g I 234 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 3: out the forget her well it turned out, okay, okay, 235 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 3: think about that. So we're all going into pool at 236 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 3: Peyton's wedding. 237 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 6: I don't even go in public pool, so I don't 238 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 6: think that'll be happening. 239 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 2: All right, Hey man, thanks for your call.