1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Hey, Chris, let's already pick up Erica, because well, Eric 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: and I already talked last night. Hey Erica, Okay, I 3 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: thank you for agreen to come on. I mean we 4 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: could say, like save the awkward hellos and. 5 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 2: All of that. 6 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: Like I kind of told you yesterday, Erica, you know, 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: be honest, you did say that you kind of felt 8 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: bad for ghosting and whatnot. And then he asked, you know, 9 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: if you could call him yesterday and apologize. 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 2: And said, let's just wait. 11 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: So, like I said, just be honest, let's get into 12 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: left on Red and radio business. 13 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: One last thing. We're on ninety three three fl Z. 14 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 2: But yeah, Erica, go ahead. 15 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: I mean, like I said, I don't usually lead people 16 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 3: on Red, but like I just I got the Eric 17 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 3: because he's just too nice a guy, like for me, 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 3: Like if you're on a date with me, you should 19 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 3: be focused on me. And he was just like complimenting everybody, 20 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: trying to get attention from everybody. It just it felt 21 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 3: like a huge red flag to me. 22 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,559 Speaker 2: Chris, do you get do you get what she means 23 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: by that? 24 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 4: Uh? 25 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 5: Not exactly. The thing that's kind of a misrepresentation. I 26 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 5: wasn't trying to get attention from anybody. 27 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 4: It's just the. 28 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 5: Way that I am. I'm a friendly guy. Like what, 29 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 5: I don't see what the problem is. 30 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: Eric, hold on before you and not to cut you 31 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: off or anything like that, but before you follow up 32 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: on that. I'm just curious, Chris, when when she says 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: that though, Like when you think about your personality and 34 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: you say, you know, I'm a nice guy. 35 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: What were you doing on this date? What do you 36 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: think you were doing? 37 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: Because I'm curious if you even realize what you are 38 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: doing when you are out. Do you feel like maybe 39 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: you're a little flirtatious with people? 40 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 5: It's not flirtatiousness, it's I'm just friendly to everybody. I'm 41 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 5: just like that's just the way that I live. I 42 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 5: don't know, I'm just friendly to people. I used to 43 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 5: be kind to everybody that I meet. I thought I 44 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 5: thought that was a good thing, you. 45 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: Know, h Erica, what do you think? 46 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 4: I don't. 47 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 3: I mean like you were asking the bartender where she 48 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 3: was from and telling her you loved her hair, and 49 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 3: then you were like going up to groups of people 50 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 3: and like talking to them. I just I just feel 51 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: like you were barely even paying attention to me and Uh, 52 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 3: that's like, I don't know, it just seems like a 53 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 3: bad omen Like if we were to keep dating, Like 54 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 3: how much of your attention would I ever even get? 55 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 3: And like and like that you're so focused on everybody 56 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 3: focusing on you. You know, it's kind of like egomaniac, But. 57 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 5: There's no ego involved that played. I paid plenty of 58 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 5: attention to you. I mean, I'm just I'm not going 59 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 5: to ignore my surroundings and like people around me him, 60 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 5: I'm just. 61 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 6: But don't you think you kind of need to be 62 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 6: focused on the date and just have a conversation with 63 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,679 Speaker 6: her instead of, like, I guess, complimenting everyone around you. 64 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: But who's to say that he's not focused on what 65 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 2: if he's just like. 66 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 6: I mean, you can't be that focus this year. If 67 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 6: it's an issue that you know, you're just complimenting and 68 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 6: talking to everyone but your date, that's a problem. 69 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: And what the bartender is a little weird too. You 70 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: both do that though. 71 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't. I don't make my date uncomfortable 72 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 6: by holding long, by holding long ongoing conversations with him. 73 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: Three Real Quick, Real Quick Quick eight hundred four ninety 74 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: three ninety three I'd love for you you guys to 75 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: uh to call in and talk to Erica and Chris 76 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: eight hundred four ninety three ninety three. Eric is saying 77 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: he was a little too talkative on the date, maybe 78 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: a little bit too nice. 79 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: What were you gonna say? Chris? Sorry? 80 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 5: I think she says that I have the ego, but 81 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 5: she's the one who needs all the attention, Like I 82 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 5: wasn't focused on her enough. I mean we're out in public. 83 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 5: I'm not going to ignore my surroundings. Like I gave 84 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 5: her attention. I give the bartender attention. Like there's different 85 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 5: people I interact with, you know what I mean? Like 86 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 5: do you need like where's the red flag here? Really? 87 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 3: The red flag is that you're focused more on everybody 88 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 3: else than me. I'm the one who you're on a 89 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 3: date with. Like, I don't understand why you're not getting 90 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 3: about this? 91 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: Do you not want him saying anything to anyone while 92 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: you guys are out. 93 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 2: Like. 94 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 3: You're polite to the people around you, but you're not 95 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 3: like always trying to get them focused on you, and 96 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: like it's like you're trying to get more rapport with them, 97 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 3: like you're trying to see what's out there, you know, 98 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: what I mean, like, I'm not your wingman, like i'm 99 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 3: your date. 100 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: You know, Hey, who's this? 101 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 7: Oh, I'm on the radio for some callers. 102 00:04:53,360 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: What ro We'll pretend that was the trumpet? 103 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 4: Go ahead, Okay. 104 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 7: So I understand both perspectives because I'm out of my 105 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 7: friend group. I'm the social butterfly. So I get where 106 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 7: Chris is coming from, and I get where from where 107 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 7: the lady's coming from. But I feel like maybe the 108 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:20,239 Speaker 7: ladies get a little bit insecure. Care I totally understand Erica. 109 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 7: I totally understand that it's a first date and everything, 110 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 7: and Chris could have been more present, but you really 111 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 7: can't help being a social butterfly because I talked to 112 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 7: everybody too. You know, if I like your shoes, I 113 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 7: like your shoes. You got a nice haircut. 114 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 5: You got a nice hair cut, you know. 115 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: And by the way, I'm a little shocked that Ashley's, 116 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: you know, on Erica's side with this, because I feel 117 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 1: like Erica, you know, or sorry, Ashley is literally Chris 118 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: I am. 119 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 6: But I know when I'm making someone uncomfortable, and I 120 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 6: would never do it on like the first date. 121 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 4: Yes, I could be like, well, I have a question 122 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 4: for Erica. 123 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 7: Did Erica boys this in the date? Like, hey, Chris, 124 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 7: you know, maybe let's talk about something like did you 125 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 7: redirect his conversation back to y'all conversation? Or you were 126 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 7: just sitting there just looking around, just like, oh this 127 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 7: guy even though you're not, I ain't going back to 128 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 7: the car. 129 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 3: I wasn't saying anything. I didn't say anything, but like, yeah, 130 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 3: but I'm on a first date. You're like setting the 131 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: person out, you know what I mean? Like, how are 132 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 3: you naturally like you know, true, say anything? 133 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 2: Hey? What one last time? What was your name? Sorry? 134 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: I don't have it written down on my thing. One 135 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: more time? Shy, shy, Hey, shy, call him more often. 136 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: You're a great caller. I think, all right, we love you. 137 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: I'll talk to you later. Jody, you say, listen, you're 138 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: on a date. Don't talk to anyone else. Focus on 139 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: your date exactly. 140 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 8: I'm Southern, first of all, Joe. I want to let 141 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 8: you guys know that I have gone to the doctor 142 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 8: and I'm I'm taking care of myself about the breast campaign. 143 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: God, Jody, my mom and I talk about you every day, 144 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: thank God. 145 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 146 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 8: Anyway, I'm Southern, Okay, And if you're on a date. 147 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 8: I'm sorry you. You can be friendly all you want. 148 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 8: I'm friendly, have an outgoing personality. Okay, what's the thing is, 149 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 8: if you're on a date, you need to pay attention 150 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 8: to that person and do not compliment, Oh I like 151 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 8: your hair or oh. 152 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 4: That guy looks cute. No, you don't do that. That's disrespectful. 153 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm sorry. 154 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 8: I'm sorry. 155 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 2: There's just boundaries. 156 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, boundaries like I call men babe where I'm or sweet. 157 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 4: I mean that that's just me because I'm Southern. 158 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 8: But if you're on date, try to tone it down 159 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 8: a little bit and pay attention to your date. Yeah, 160 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 8: I mean. 161 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 4: I don't know. 162 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: All right, Jody, thank you so much for calling in. 163 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: And I can't wait to call my mom after the show. 164 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: And Sayer and keep keep updating us. Okay, all love you. 165 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep bringing. 166 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 2: Hey Lindsey, Hey, Hi Lindsay. Lindsay, you say there is 167 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 2: a red flag. There's a huge red flag. You're on 168 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 2: Eric's side. Why is that? 169 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 9: Because you know he's the red flag is commenting on 170 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 9: another woman's hair, I mean in front of her. This 171 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 9: is like their first date. If I heard correctly, his 172 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 9: job is to woo her, not the bartender, and by 173 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 9: not paying attention to her at all and like needing 174 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 9: the attention. 175 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 4: From everyone else. 176 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, that is a red flag. So you go, Erica 177 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 9: like run. 178 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 4: Girl, Thank you? 179 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 2: All right? I didn't I didn't realize that. 180 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 7: Uh. 181 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 2: Connie, Hello, Hi, Connie. Your husband is like Chris. He 182 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: talks to everyone. 183 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 4: He does, I mean, my husband for twenty years. He 184 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 4: talks to literally everyone. 185 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,439 Speaker 2: Did it ever bother you? 186 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 4: Why do you speak to everybody? He says, Well, they 187 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 4: don't have to speak back to me, but I'm going 188 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 4: to speak. He may make compliments someone, He may just 189 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 4: say Hi, It did bother me at first, but I 190 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 4: got used to it, so now, I mean, I don't care. 191 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 4: He's not flirting with anybody. He's not trying to get 192 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 4: nobody's attenth and hook up with nobody. He just speaks 193 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 4: to everybody. You walk in the grocery store, people walking out, Hey, 194 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 4: how y'all doing, I'm like, you know them, No, I'm 195 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 4: just speaking to everybody. That's just who he is. And 196 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 4: you know what, It's all good. 197 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 2: Bonnie. You are a hoot. Connie. 198 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 6: Oh, Connie, put some respects on Connie Love you, Connie, 199 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 6: thank you for calling in. 200 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: Connie, you're the best. We'll talk to you later and 201 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: tell your husband high and around when he sees me, 202 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: he better say hi to me. I'm gonna be very hurt. 203 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be very hurt. Erica and Chris listen. Yeah, 204 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: I used to always ask are we going to get 205 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: another date? I don't do that anymore because it's oh 206 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: for now. But you know, I hope that maybe Erica, 207 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,839 Speaker 1: you get a little bit more understan standing on you know, 208 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: someone talking to everyone and then and Chris, maybe next dage, 209 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 1: try focusing on the actual date. 210 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 5: All right, and well, I'll go out with someone who's 211 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 5: not as insecure. How about that? 212 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 2: Look at that we're there, you go, We love that.