1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Let me ask you guys this. I'm just finding this 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: survey right here. Relationship expert Matthew Hussy. 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 2: You ever heard of him? I've heard of him. Yeah, 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 2: I feel like he dated somebody famous. 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do feel like that name does sound. 6 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 4: Familiar, but I don't. 7 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: He's got a website called getthguy dot com, and on 8 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: his website he discusses whether or not the number of 9 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: your partner's previous partners matters. 10 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: Hm, hmm. What do you think, Kyle? The number of partners? 11 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 2: I think it probably matters because it could hurt things. 12 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 3: If it's super uneven and one person is left with 13 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: a bunch of people and the other person only slept 14 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 3: with the couple people, then it could cause fight in 15 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 3: jealousy and hold downhill spiral Peyton. 16 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: What do you think? 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it depends, and I think it depends 18 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 4: what the numbers are, So then it does matter. Yeah, 19 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 4: I guess so, I think so. 20 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, he says it doesn't matter. 21 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 4: Hmm. 22 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: Why doesn't think that matters? 23 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: The number of past sexual partners should not define a person. 24 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: It should not, but sometimes it would affect the relationship. 25 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 4: One of your friend Jean Jay that I had met 26 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 4: a couple of months ago, we had to like, we 27 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 4: went to this little dinner together and he told me 28 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 4: what his body count was, and it completely changed my 29 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 4: opinion of him. 30 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: My friend, you went to dinner with a friend of mine? 31 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 5: What out his business? 32 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 4: So I'll have to tell you. 33 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 2: But it was like, he's a guy. I know, he's 34 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 2: like a friend of mine. 35 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 4: Like a guy you know. 36 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: Okay, it's different guy. 37 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 4: A guy that you've interviewed, A friend of yours, a 38 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 4: colleague of yours. 39 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: Maybe okay, so if I've interviewed him, he's not really 40 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: a friend. 41 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 4: So not a friend of yours, but someone that you know, like. 42 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: If I would not ask him to borrow his car, no, okay, 43 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: yeah whatever. 44 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 5: But I completely I felt like, yeah, groke, because it 45 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 5: was so high, You're like, that's. 46 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 4: It worked like upwards of like three hundred and three fifteen. 47 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 2: I have a friend like that. 48 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,919 Speaker 4: That's but it was like, I think. 49 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: You can see the time to have dinner. Why would 50 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: he even say that, Well, he was. 51 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 4: Trying to flex. 52 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: I don't know, but it didn't work. 53 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: This guy says it should matter. He says mature individuals 54 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: should recognize it. Experiences form a part of who someone is. 55 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: Men shouldn't judge a woman based on her sexual history. 56 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: It's part of her journey. The desire for a virgin 57 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: might stem from a wish for someone less self aware. 58 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: Sexual experiences often lead to better self awareness. 59 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 2: Huh. 60 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 4: I feel like a guy, Like if you were to 61 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 4: tell him, like, let's say your body count is eighty, 62 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 4: I think a guy would be turned off by that. 63 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 2: Well, it depends. Wait, wait, maybe address that quickly. It depends. 64 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 1: I think if you're looking to marry someone, you'd be 65 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: turned off. But if you're looking at tonight, what are 66 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 1: you doing for sure? 67 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 4: One when you're settling down and we're talking about relationships 68 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 4: and things like that, Like, I think guys, but if 69 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 4: they do it, oh it's okay because they got. 70 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: Gay you're a man. It's not fair. 71 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 5: First of all, I think the numbers matter in a 72 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 5: different way because if you're really sort of connected that 73 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 5: way with your partner, you don't want to think that 74 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 5: they've been connected with a bunch of other people just 75 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 5: like that, because it doesn't feel special. 76 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 4: Anytime kadem like mentions another girl, I'm like, you're discuss 77 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 4: I can't look at you for like another probably give 78 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 4: me four hours because you. 79 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 2: Gross, we all know that we shouldn't think about it. 80 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 3: But it shouldn't matter because the past should be the past. 81 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 2: It should be. 82 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 3: But sometimes you know, it's a new perspective, and perspective 83 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 3: is everything. 84 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, if you're with somebody and you 85 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: want to in love with them, you want to get married, 86 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: and also they pull out the freaking Columbia Columbian necktie 87 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: on you and you're like, oh wow, that was amazing. 88 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: Where'd you do that? All from the like. 89 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 6: Six or seven of these other dudes like, whoa, It 90 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,839 Speaker 6: doesn't matter because now you're reaping the benefits, right, Yeah, 91 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 6: but I don't want to marry her, but it does 92 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 6: does anyway. 93 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: I just brought that up. If you want to participate. 94 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: She was the text text jed Ard the number of 95 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: sexual partners yet let's seeh's. 96 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: Gosh, Oh my gosh. 97 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 4: There's an episode like that on the Island where they 98 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 4: out their body count. 99 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: Well, you give us your BodyCount on text. We don't 100 00:03:58,520 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: even know if you're a guy or girl. 101 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: What was She always text us your body count because 102 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: we'll just get your phone number. And if there's a BodyCount, 103 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: that impresses us. Maybe we'll call them up and give. 104 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 2: Them ten minutes. A party of the park, because that 105 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: person is a party of the park. Whoever has the 106 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: highest number, What a party in the park you are? 107 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 2: What the highest number we get us? Three? Three? 108 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: That's great matter, all right? So text us jt R. 109 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 1: And whatever your number is, the nine sixty ninth three