WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Cemetery 

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<v Speaker 1>Him for doing that, or is I like to call

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<v Speaker 1>him Terry Woods excellent golfer, by the way, very good golfer.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, it's Mojo in the Morning. It's the second

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<v Speaker 2>date up date on Mojo in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>keV is off today, So in lieu of keV Mini,

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<v Speaker 1>keV is going to be here too. Uh do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember that? Wasn't there like Kevin Hart had Minie keV?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like it wasn't I don't remember that. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like it was like the little wait right exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to have that. We need to next time

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<v Speaker 1>that keV takes off, Josiah should fill in for him,

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<v Speaker 1>have his son fill in and give some of the

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<v Speaker 1>perspective that his dad would give.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Brian is on with us right now, and he's getting

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<v Speaker 1>ghosted and wanting to know why.

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<v Speaker 2>Brian, how you doing, buddy?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, thanks for letting me on.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good to have you on. So, Brian, you went

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You thought things went great and you felt like something

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go right.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on? How long is it been since you've

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<v Speaker 2>had talked with her?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? It's been about a week. I have you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you know it was it was you know, it was

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<v Speaker 3>really good.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, what you guys do on your date?

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<v Speaker 3>We went to dinner and we got ice cream afterwards.

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<v Speaker 3>Did it was great? I was great. We went and

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<v Speaker 3>visited my mom, you know, and then it kind of

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<v Speaker 3>you know, ended and thinking her to your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>On the first day.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's see what she says about that. Chelsea is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us right now. Chelsea, are you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Hi, Brian, say hi to Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Chelsea, Hi Brian.

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, we're we're trying to figure out why Brian's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back and why it's been over a

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<v Speaker 1>week since you guys have talked.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, like he told you about the date and everything. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>well like he told you about how we went to

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<v Speaker 4>visit his mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, do you think did you think it was

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<v Speaker 2>too soon to visit his mom?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess, I guess sort of in a way.

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<v Speaker 5>But also it wasn't just like meeting his mom. It

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<v Speaker 5>was the fact that I didn't actually meet her his

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<v Speaker 5>mom unfortunately my condolences has passed away.

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<v Speaker 4>So he took me to the cemetery. It's like I

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<v Speaker 4>met her, I met her grave.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, Brian, your your mom. Your mom has died.

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<v Speaker 1>Your mom has passed away, she's dead.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I thought that was yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 3>was just showing her side of me that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, was you know, setimental, right, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you were you just in the neighborhood and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why you stopped by or is that something that you've

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<v Speaker 1>done before?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, no, it's the first. I don't normal to

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<v Speaker 3>do it. So this is a than I did with

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<v Speaker 3>her because I thought she was special, right, So I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think it's such a big deal. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not like you know, I mean, we're just walking.

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<v Speaker 1>Through and so it so Chelsea, before you guys went,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, hey, we're going to go to the cemetery.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted you to see where my mom is

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<v Speaker 1>and you showed up there or.

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<v Speaker 2>How did that work?

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<v Speaker 4>We're at dinner and then we're getting ice cream, and

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<v Speaker 4>so he's like, yeah, you know, we're in the neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd love to just like I usually go visit my

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<v Speaker 4>mom like on Fridays. So I was like, oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>In my mind I thought that was that's that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>But then as we're walking, we're walking towards you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we're walking towards the cemetery.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, we're walking into the cemetery. And I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just I'm getting.

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<v Speaker 5>Freaked out too, because I'm like, what is this really

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<v Speaker 5>we're gonna are we really going to your mom's south?

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<v Speaker 4>Like what are we doing?

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<v Speaker 5>And then when we got there, and then I'm putting

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<v Speaker 5>two and two together, sho Stone like.

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<v Speaker 4>Quick, it's just awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Quick quick question for you though, have you been to

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever been to a cemetery before? It was

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<v Speaker 1>just like an unusual thing that you've never been to

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<v Speaker 1>a cemetery before.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I have people in my life that have passed,

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<v Speaker 5>but like I go to the cemetery for like really

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<v Speaker 5>like Okay, it's an occasion and like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Funeral or something like that. That is, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>Brian's making me feel guilty. I don't think I really

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<v Speaker 2>go to my mom has passed, my dad has passed.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really go to the cemetery to go. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I took my kids there maybe once or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that or twice, but I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Like want to visit. But Brian, you go, and you

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<v Speaker 1>you visit your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm close, right, so it's easy like to me, so

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like, you know, it makes me feel good.

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<v Speaker 3>I think everyone's got to do their own thing, right.

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<v Speaker 2>How long ago did your mom passed? How long ago

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<v Speaker 2>does she two years ago? Okay, so it is it's

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<v Speaker 2>still recent for you. I have to tell I have

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's very sweet that you that you love

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<v Speaker 1>your mom and you know that's the case.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think that's why you know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why we win. I thought that'd be a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a little strange though, to ask her

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<v Speaker 1>to uh, to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You just met each other.

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<v Speaker 6>She doesn't know anything about you.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I know you didn't pread it. It was like

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<v Speaker 4>I was expecting to meet a living person.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to do.

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<v Speaker 6>The expectation was my mom just passed. My mom passed recently.

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<v Speaker 6>We're in the neighborhood. Do you mind if I stopped by?

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<v Speaker 6>Even that I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Is not not what I would do. Is I would go, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom is there by the way, you know, whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>The deal is, like, I've done that before where I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone driven by. You ever done that with your grandma?

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<v Speaker 6>At all cemetery downriver. Both of my grandma's are there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but like, hey, and what's up? What do you

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<v Speaker 2>want to say?

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<v Speaker 4>Joe, happy Monday?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing happy about a Monday? And but I love you

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<v Speaker 1>for saying that we're faking the happiness.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's super creepy vibes to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I mean meeting your mom on the first sade

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of dorky and nerdy, but in a cemetery.

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<v Speaker 3>Real creepy vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what this reminds me of? It reminds I

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<v Speaker 2>hate to say it. Brian's like ed Geen or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>his name is, that.

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<v Speaker 1>I could have watched that documentary although he had, he

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<v Speaker 1>had his dead mom up in the room. Brian's taking

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<v Speaker 1>her to the cemetery, no offense, Brian, I know your

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<v Speaker 1>mom's past.

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<v Speaker 5>I apologize, Scared, I'm like, why am I being led

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<v Speaker 5>into a cemetery?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I just had a lot of thought going.

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<v Speaker 3>Through my mind. I didn't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>I will tell you though, there are some like there's

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<v Speaker 2>some girls.

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<v Speaker 1>That get off on on like the the dead type things. Yeah, sure, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>text her hair, text her hair goes. There's no way

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<v Speaker 1>that this is the case. I cannot believe that this

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a real second date update, Brian, you are

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<v Speaker 1>a real person, and you are a person whose mom

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<v Speaker 1>has passed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't understand what the problem is like to

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<v Speaker 3>me mentally cute or even like, you know, it's letting

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<v Speaker 3>her into my personal side right, like, I don't know. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't done it before. I this is the first

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<v Speaker 3>time I'm doing it. I just thought I liked her.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's why I'm calling on.

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<v Speaker 2>The radio, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So, so, Chelsea, up until the point that he drove

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<v Speaker 1>you to his mom, did.

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<v Speaker 2>You think he was a good guy? Like did you

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy your day?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we were talking a lot at dinner and

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<v Speaker 5>he was the one who suggested an ice cream after

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<v Speaker 5>and I have a big sweet tooth.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh wow, this is really going great.

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<v Speaker 2>Team.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have the appropriate shoes to walk across like

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<v Speaker 1>a and when you walk across in the cemetery do

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<v Speaker 1>you say sorry to the people that you're walking over

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<v Speaker 1>on your way over to Brian's mom's gravestone? I always

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Try to.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making sure, but I think you're using every square foot.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on Sarah, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I'm going okay.

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<v Speaker 1>How about yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing okay? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>That was like stranger things.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have been creeped out and thinking he was

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<v Speaker 2>going to kill me.

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<v Speaker 1>Or honestly, I'm not Can I tell you something? I'm Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 1>I give you credit. It must have been daylight out

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<v Speaker 1>because there's no way you're going into a cemetery with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that you just met and went out with.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking I'm dying. Well on the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you serious emotions?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, Can I tell you something that at

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, I'm like, Hey, we're only going in here

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<v Speaker 1>if I call my mom and share my location, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, can you imagine that? Like faked out?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but just about it now, and like you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you did say you had a great time up until then,

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<v Speaker 6>go out again and maybe this is your like first

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<v Speaker 6>date disaster story.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys are and go out somewhere further away

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<v Speaker 1>from wherever the cemetery is.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll pay for the date.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys decide to go on another date, it's

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<v Speaker 1>up to you, Chelsea if you want to do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wow, Oh I mean Yeah, Brian definitely was very

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<v Speaker 5>nice guy.

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<v Speaker 4>And I sympathize and empathize with you, you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean losing a parent. Yeah, you know, I get you

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<v Speaker 4>with it. You're you're grieving.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, now you know what you have every

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<v Speaker 2>right to second date, update your home of War of

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<v Speaker 2>the Roses I five lives until your mom fill