Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, back with second date update.
Speaker 1: We got to say what's up to Javier this morning?
Speaker 1: Good morning, Yvier.
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for having me on the show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, thanks for calling, thanks for listening. Let's see
Speaker 1: if we can help you out. So your date's name
Speaker 1: is Priya and she ghosted. So let's talk about like
Speaker 1: what went down on the first date. Tell me all
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, So met Pria. She she's amazing, right, she really
Speaker 2: sparked my interests. I thought everything was going well. We
Speaker 2: met at this busy, topest place over on Castro Street.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my favorite place to eat in Mountain View, period.
Speaker 1: Like it's so festive there.
Speaker 2: Right, So she came straight from work and you know,
Speaker 2: she still had her badge clipped on. I thought we
Speaker 2: had a cute little moment where you know, I pointed
Speaker 2: out she laughed about it and clipped it, and then
Speaker 2: you know we kind of went into that happy hour mode.
Speaker 2: Uh you know, sure, you know, we had a couple
Speaker 2: of plates people watched for a bit, and then you know,
Speaker 2: I thought everything was going well. Uber pulled up, she
Speaker 2: got in, she gave me a hug. So I thought
Speaker 2: all good signs, right, and I was like ninety five
Speaker 2: percent sure there's gonna be a second date, and just nothing,
Speaker 2: you know, just ghost Yeah, just nothing, and so like,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I did something or if something happened.
Speaker 1: But I'm assuming you've replayed this in your head a
Speaker 1: few times.
Speaker 2: Like forever, like I don't know if. Like again, it's like,
Speaker 2: was there something in my teeth? Was my breast smelling bad?
Speaker 2: Like I thought I showed up fresh. I thought I
Speaker 2: showed up smart, And here I am with nothing and
Speaker 2: I don't know what happened.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we're gonna call her. I mean, you know
Speaker 1: the drill. We'll have you on the line. We'll have
Speaker 1: you muted so you could listen in. But let me
Speaker 1: see if I can give her a shout for you.
Speaker 1: I would love to get some answers. I'd love to
Speaker 1: get you a second date. It's kind of why we're here.
Speaker 1: Let's just get to it. Let's call her and see
Speaker 1: what's up. Go ahead and meet your phone. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Priya.
Speaker 3: Please all right, this is Pria.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Pria. It's Marcus calling from Star one oh
Speaker 1: one three. How are you?
Speaker 3: I'm okay, how are you doing doing all right?
Speaker 1: Do you have a moment?
Speaker 3: Sure? So?
Speaker 1: Do you listen to my radio show. We're doing second
Speaker 1: Date Update right now. Does that mean anything to you?
Speaker 3: It sure does. Great, let's do this, Pria.
Speaker 1: Why do I feel like you're already at work, like
Speaker 1: you're one of the early riser types.
Speaker 3: I am at work, actually okay, stepping out really quickly.
Speaker 1: I appreciate it so much. So we're doing second Date
Speaker 1: Update right now. And I did get it. I got
Speaker 1: I got a DM from a guy who just took
Speaker 1: you out, and he's feeling like maybe you ghosted. And
Speaker 1: I'm wondering if we could talk about your date with Javier.
Speaker 3: So Javier is listening right now, isn't he is?
Speaker 1: Are you there?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: I am, Oh, Hi.
Speaker 1: Well here we are. Can we talk about the dates?
Speaker 1: What did he do?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm I'm just figuring he did something strange.
Speaker 3: But you tell me, yeah, you know, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: This is a little awkward for me, Xavier, but if
Speaker 3: you're going to this great length to find out, then
Speaker 3: I owe it to you to be honest with you. You know,
Speaker 3: it was nothing like huge. It wasn't like some dramatic
Speaker 3: reason why I'm I guess in your words ghosted, it
Speaker 3: was like two smaller things that happened that night that
Speaker 3: felt a little strange for me.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: You know. The first thing was like in the beginning,
Speaker 3: when we got our food and before, like Javier was
Speaker 3: like seasoning his food. He I don't know, I guess
Speaker 3: I've never seen anybody do this, but like he tasted
Speaker 3: the salt that was on the table and it was
Speaker 3: just like a little pinch on his finger. But then
Speaker 3: he like put the salt on his tongue directly. It's
Speaker 3: like he was trying to see, like, oh, is this
Speaker 3: gonna taste good on the food or not? Okay, I
Speaker 3: thought he was kidding, you know. At first I thought
Speaker 3: he was trying to be cute and playful, But like
Speaker 3: the second time, when he was like pouring on his tongue,
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, okay, this dude's serious.
Speaker 1: What was he doing.
Speaker 3: I learned something new that salt blooms at like different rates,
Speaker 3: and he just wanted to know the kind of salt
Speaker 3: he was working with.
Speaker 1: What do you mean by blooms?
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, well, Javier, you can correct me if I'm wrong,
Speaker 3: but from what you taught me. I guess kosher salt
Speaker 3: gets salty like right away, and then the Himalayan salt
Speaker 3: takes a minute.
Speaker 1: It's that serious.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, so like it's a gastro thing, right,
Speaker 2: Like you you really want to experience the full flavor
Speaker 2: of what somebody made for you, and you know salt
Speaker 2: looms at different rates. So I just like to know, I.
Speaker 1: Get it, but like you're not cooking the food, right.
Speaker 2: But like I mean, like you know you are paying
Speaker 2: for it, you didn't cook it, but like you want
Speaker 2: to experience the full flavor, right, get the most out
Speaker 2: of life.
Speaker 1: Right, I mean I get it, I get it, but
Speaker 1: just not on a date. So was that what weird?
Speaker 1: Did you out?
Speaker 3: You know? Like I just learned that you know, red
Speaker 3: flags start off as pink flags, and like, you know,
Speaker 3: I see a little bit further down the line where
Speaker 3: let's say I'm cooking dinner for him. I don't want
Speaker 3: to have to worry about the pH balance of like oregano,
Speaker 3: which I'm sure hobby or can teach me about, but
Speaker 3: you know that can be a little OCD for me,
Speaker 3: and I am a little bit more go with the flow. Okay,
Speaker 3: you know there was something else that was pink was
Speaker 3: kind of going a little more red for me. It
Speaker 3: came a little later, you know, as we were finishing
Speaker 3: our dinner. We started talking about hobbies. Great conversation, but
Speaker 3: then he just casually mentioned to me that he applied
Speaker 3: to be on a reality dating show once and said
Speaker 3: it was his personal experiment, not because he wanted to
Speaker 3: be on TV, but he was just curious about like
Speaker 3: the whole application process and he just wanted to see
Speaker 3: how far he could get into the show. And then
Speaker 3: the dude filled out forms, he did a casting interview,
Speaker 3: and I guess he said they didn't, you know, put
Speaker 3: him on the show. He never got called back, But
Speaker 3: of course I asked him, were you dating anybody at
Speaker 3: the time that you applied for this show? He said
Speaker 3: he was, but it wasn't that serious.
Speaker 1: That's red flag for me, so he didn't tell her
Speaker 1: he was on the show.
Speaker 2: Great, Yeah, but I didn't get on the show. First off,
Speaker 2: it's reality TV, right, Like, I'm sure all that stuff scripted. Anyway.
Speaker 2: He had to apply for it, just like you would
Speaker 2: any other job. I just wanted to know what the
Speaker 2: process was.
Speaker 3: Now. See, I think if you're applying to be on
Speaker 3: a televised dating competition while you're in a relationship. It
Speaker 3: doesn't sound like curiosity to me. It just sounds more
Speaker 3: like you're trying to audition your love life and see
Speaker 3: what else is out there. The point is like it
Speaker 3: could have gone somewhere, and then what would you do, Like,
Speaker 3: let's say i'm your girlfriend, you'd explain it to me
Speaker 3: after the fact that you auditioned, or would you telling
Speaker 3: me before. I wouldn't want to open, you know, like
Speaker 3: watch some show and then see my partner kissing some
Speaker 3: other girl just as an experiment. To me, the fault.
Speaker 3: It's a little weird, but you're harmless with it, you know.
Speaker 3: But the reality show saying I don't want to just
Speaker 3: be another one of your experiments just to see out
Speaker 3: of curiosity.
Speaker 1: Sure, now, hang on, you guys, hang on. That is
Speaker 1: very strange. Second date update