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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I Tell you what? All right,

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Speaker 1: tell me about your crisis. Oh, your crisis to come?

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Speaker 1: It's you're not looking forward to something.

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Speaker 2: No, in March, I am turning twenty five, and it's

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Speaker 2: like a crisis. It's like a quarter life crisis. Why

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Speaker 2: I don't twenty five just sounds so old in comparison

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Speaker 2: to twenty four. I don't know what it is about

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Speaker 2: twenty five, but it sounds old.

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Speaker 1: It's quarter century, Yeah, it is. You're a quarter century,

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Speaker 1: it does.

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Speaker 2: Don't say it like that?

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Speaker 1: Well what I mean, don't think it sounds really old?

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Speaker 1: Well I didn't say it like anything. Here, you're a

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Speaker 1: quarter century. All right, hold on, you're a quarter century.

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Speaker 1: Who how about this? You're a quarter century?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: There? Does that sound better?

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Speaker 2: I guess it's. I mean, it's better than a half century.

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Speaker 2: But to me, twenty five sounds older than like thirty two,

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Speaker 2: which is weird.

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Speaker 1: But you can no longer in one more year. You

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Speaker 1: cannot be on your parents' insurance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's concerning.

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Speaker 1: Why just because you don't have a job, well, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Have a full time job with benefits. Think you have

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Speaker 2: multiple jobs?

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Speaker 1: But does anybody else feel this way when they hit

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Speaker 1: twenty five. I'm gonna be honest with you. I remember

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Speaker 1: it like yesterday, no digs, and I dreaded it too.

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Speaker 1: I remember sitting and thinking like this is amazing because

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Speaker 1: I remember my parents being like fifty. I'm like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm halfway to fifty.

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Speaker 2: Yeahs.

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Speaker 1: And that first twenty five years was like lightning.

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Speaker 2: Literally so fast.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's crawling, like when you waited to be twenty

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Speaker 1: one to drink. I mean I was like forever. But

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Speaker 1: when you look back and you put it all together,

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Speaker 1: it's like my life just flew by me. Time is

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Speaker 1: so fleeting. I looked at it. I never called it

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Speaker 1: a quarter a quarter century crisis or a quarter life crisis.

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Speaker 1: I never called it that, but I kind of feel

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Speaker 1: the way you're feeling your birthday is coming up when in.

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Speaker 2: March, at the end of March.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so what can you do about it?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Well, some of my friends when they

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Speaker 2: turned twenty five, like bought a house or got engaged

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Speaker 2: or getting married, And I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, okay, don't play the comparison game. That's I'm brutal

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Speaker 1: on you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: That you can't do. Let me ask you this, are

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Speaker 1: you now? Are you? Do you have? What's the percentage

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Speaker 1: of your friends that are getting married right now? Because

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Speaker 1: you're not You're and Caleb are together for two I'm sorry, yeah,

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Speaker 1: two years you together? You're not engaged? No, you're living

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Speaker 1: at home with your parents.

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Speaker 2: Does he live at home with his parents at the moment, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's going to grads or no, he's going to

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Speaker 1: pharmacy school.

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Speaker 2: Pharmacy school, he's finish up, finishing up his last rotations.

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Speaker 1: What's the percentage of your friends that are getting married

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Speaker 1: or engaged right now.

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Speaker 2: Which it's a pretty small percentage, but like like direct

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Speaker 2: friends probably I don't know, like five or ten percent,

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Speaker 2: But there's a lot of people I like went to

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Speaker 2: high school with who are getting engaged and they were

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Speaker 2: having babies.

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Speaker 1: Or do you feel pressure from that? Is that why

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Speaker 1: you're dreading twenty five?

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Speaker 2: No, it's more just like twenty five is old. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, twenty five sounds old. And my brother is

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Speaker 2: at home right now and he's like nineteen, and he

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Speaker 2: keeps being like, oh, twenty five is so old.

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Speaker 4: You're so old.

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Speaker 1: Never change your mentality because I'm like, I'm like a

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Speaker 1: thirteen year old.

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Speaker 2: Well you are a thirteen year old, thank you, wrapped

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Speaker 2: in whatever I have.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm thirteen years I'm just I'd never escaped

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Speaker 1: that mentality. I've always kind of been like a thirteen

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Speaker 1: year old. I like just doing what thirteen year olds.

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Speaker 2: Do, Yeah things and skipping down the hallway that you

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Speaker 2: just did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you post that? You don't need to do that.

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Speaker 1: If you don't want to, well drop it on talkback?

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Speaker 1: Anybody else go through a quarter life century? It sounds

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Speaker 1: kind of weird talk back on the quarter life crisis,

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Speaker 1: quarterly cry, quarter life crisis. I'm doing three things at

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Speaker 1: once in here, that's uh talkback? What say you? On

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Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio? I say, just always be a thirteen year old,

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Speaker 1: That's what I am. I'm basically a thirteen Ask anybody

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Speaker 1: that anybody wrong it? You already know that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just know that that's my mentality. I'm just always

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Speaker 1: a thirteen year old. Just I want to have fun.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to be like the dis jockey

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Speaker 1: version of Peter Pan. I don't want to age. What

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Speaker 1: do you get morning?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm twenty six years old. At twenty five,

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Speaker 4: I was like, dang, I'm getting old. But then I

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Speaker 4: realized there's a lot of folks who are older than you,

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Speaker 4: you know, twenty six to thirties, who are.

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Speaker 5: Just is done.

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Speaker 4: So don't worry about it, don't stress it, everything will

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Speaker 4: be just fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know how to take that. They're just

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Speaker 1: as dumb. I guess, Yeah, we're not dumb. You're not dumb.

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Speaker 1: Well I wouldn't think so, Chris.

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Speaker 5: I'm right there with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm a thirteen year old trapped in a much older body.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just always had that thirteen mentality. Talk back on

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Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app. Anybody else? I mean you hear of

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Speaker 1: a midlife crisis. Abbeys having a quarter life crisis and

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Speaker 1: she turns twenty five in March? What say you?

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Speaker 6: I'm twenty five of us to be twenty six, and

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Speaker 6: I have no clue what I'm doing in my life.

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Speaker 6: Luckily I have a very good job. But other than that,

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Speaker 6: what are you supposed to be doing.

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Speaker 7: At twenty five?

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Speaker 6: What if I'm not ready to get married and have

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Speaker 6: a family, like I feel like our parents were like

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Speaker 6: in the ur more like I don't know what else

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Speaker 6: they said Honestly, I don't know what do you do

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Speaker 6: at twenty five? Like what are people in their twenties

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Speaker 6: doing with their lives?

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Speaker 1: It's a time where you yet, you know, literally, it's

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Speaker 1: an excuse you stually don't have to be doing anything.

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Speaker 1: You're in between you. I mean, you're come out of college,

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Speaker 1: You're going into a professional career hopefully, I mean, job

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Speaker 1: market blows right now. What are you supposed to be doing?

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Speaker 1: You can't. I don't know the way to the world

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Speaker 1: on your shoulders.

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Speaker 2: That a great question, though, are what are you supposed

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Speaker 2: to be doing?

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Speaker 1: I went through it at twenty five, though, I remember.

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Speaker 1: I remember thinking, my gosh, I've got some years on me.

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Speaker 1: What the heck am I doing? Because I wasn't married yet,

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Speaker 1: and I mean I was getting closer, but still it

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Speaker 1: was just it's all this unnecessary pressure we put on

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Speaker 1: ourselves at these weird times, like twenty five is Doug

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Speaker 1: gone young?

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Speaker 5: What do you think being twenty five is the best?

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Speaker 5: I'm also twenty five. The best part is is that

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Speaker 5: you get to make mistakes that kids make, but also

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Speaker 5: you get to be treated like an adult if that's

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Speaker 5: how you want to be treated. It's a great time

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Speaker 5: where you get to set goals and chase them and

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Speaker 5: if it fails, falls on his face. We're still young,

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Speaker 5: and it's okay because it all work out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have time to recover.

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Speaker 2: That's so nice.

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Speaker 1: You've got time to get out of jail. You got

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Speaker 1: time for correction.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm into jail, Chris.

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Speaker 1: I'm just coming up with the worst case scenario, just

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Speaker 1: in case. Ah, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Good morning morning, christ and Abby. Let me tell you

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Speaker 3: I had a really hard time turning thirty nine. I

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Speaker 3: literally bawled on my thirty ninth, not my fortieth, not

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Speaker 3: my thirtieth, thirty nine, Happy twenty fifth birthday, Abby enjoy Yep.

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Speaker 1: Well she's not there yet. She's got to get there first.

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Speaker 1: It's a couple of months from now. Right, let's take

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Speaker 1: one more talk back.

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Speaker 7: Good morning, Chris, Good morning Abby. Just wanted to chime

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Speaker 7: in on the conversation about the quarter life crisis. For

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Speaker 7: an entire year, I was convinced that when my birthday

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Speaker 7: came around in August, that I was turning twenty five.

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Speaker 7: And then that day came and my mom was like,

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Speaker 7: happy twenty fourth, and I was like, nope, I'm twenty five,

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Speaker 7: and she's like no, And I'm like, I prepared myself

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Speaker 7: as well as possible to handle turning twenty five, and

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Speaker 7: you're telling me I have to do this all over

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Speaker 7: again next year. So anyway, I have a habit of

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Speaker 7: doing that now.

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Speaker 1: This year, I thought I was going to be forty,

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Speaker 1: but I'm only going to be thirty nine. Yeh see. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's an interesting issue altogether. This entirely, entirely different.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would love to get to my birthday

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Speaker 2: and find out that I I'm only twenty four, but

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: Just live in the moment. Live in the moment, you know,

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Speaker 1: not to get all spiritual on it, but you know

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Speaker 1: what you're supposed to Just live right now?

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, I really try.

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Speaker 1: God. God has called the great I am, not the ias,

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Speaker 1: not the what I will be. It's the great I am.

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