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Speaker 1: It's the Minnesota Goodbye, and it is our final Minnesota Goodbye,

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Speaker 1: which is the three of us. Yeah, at least for

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Speaker 1: right now until Dave goes on vacation next time. So

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Speaker 1: here we go. All right, a couple of emails we

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Speaker 1: haven't gotten to you so far. This comes from Trista says,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to comment about something you guys talked about.

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Speaker 1: I'm the Minnesota Goodbye. The other day you were talking

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Speaker 1: about people who are driving big vehicles who shouldn't when

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Speaker 1: they don't know how to drive them. And I have

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Speaker 1: a story. My smaller SUV broke down and my dad said, hey,

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Speaker 1: while it's getting fixed, you can drive my truck. I

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Speaker 1: didn't have any other options, and this truck was huge.

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Speaker 1: I had a hell of a time just getting into

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Speaker 1: the sucker and I had to drive that thing to

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Speaker 1: work and the bus stop. I hated it, but I

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Speaker 1: And I totally understand where you're coming from because I

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Speaker 1: what the hell is this lady doing driving in that truck.

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Speaker 1: I did have an incident when I was leaving work

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Speaker 1: and I have bad legs and I was trying to

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Speaker 1: get in the truck, but my legs slipped down the

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Speaker 1: step to get into it. Oh no, and I got

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Speaker 1: stuck there. So I was yelling for help, and this

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Speaker 1: very nice lady came up and said, here, you can

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Speaker 1: was my savior. I hated that truck. Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, Thank you. Trista. Sounds like she probably

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Speaker 1: went out and bought herself a big truck after that.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, I'd be so embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: And embarrassed if I was like, help, Yeah, stuck, I

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: The other day when we went to buck Hill, just

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Speaker 5: talking about falling real quick. This guy we're getting on

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Speaker 5: top of the snow tubing hill. Yeah, and this guy

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Speaker 5: that works there, he's carrying pizzas and there's like a

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Speaker 5: just like falls and fumbles in the most cartoon away

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Speaker 5: and drops the pizzas and I looked at him, I

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Speaker 5: was like, don't drop the food, and it's just watching

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Speaker 5: people fall is one of the greatest passages.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I think I love. That's my favorite form of

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Speaker 3: comedy is people falling.

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Speaker 5: Because but it was just like, of course you're holding

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Speaker 5: like a like a four boxes of pizza and there's snow, and.

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, have you guys ever been in a

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Speaker 1: situation where someone fell and you knew that they probably

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Speaker 3: Because I have, Oh I have laughed at my sister

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Speaker 3: when I knew for a fact she was injured, but

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Speaker 3: if she was bouncing down the stairs in a way

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Speaker 3: that was like comedy. I am laughing and asking if

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Speaker 3: she's okay at the same time, and she she remembers

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Speaker 3: that all the time, springs it up.

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Speaker 2: She's like, remember when I fell down the stairs.

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Speaker 3: And you just laughed at me and didn't even care

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Speaker 3: if I was hurt, And you can laugh again.

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Speaker 2: I remember it. No, I do care if you were hurt.

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Speaker 3: But it doesn't negate the fact that it was hilarious

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we've got another email. Well, that says

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Speaker 1: he my wonderfuls. The show is different without Dave, but

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Speaker 1: that's okay. It's always different when any and one of

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Speaker 1: you are away. I love you all. This is from

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Speaker 1: our buddy Mike, BFF Mike, so, he says, botox was

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Speaker 1: mentioned this morning. Do not let anyone hate on you

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Speaker 1: for just doing whatever you choose to do for you,

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Speaker 1: Bailey and Jenny, you are beautiful period. The outside looks

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Speaker 1: not do you or beautiful bontavious, Carl, don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: make it a habit of assessing the male species. That said.

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Speaker 1: You are a good man, not a boy. You are

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Speaker 1: handsome too, he says, Dave, you aren't there, but so

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Speaker 1: too bad, so sad. You are all great. But now

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Speaker 1: I have a question if you could choose one cosmetic procedure.

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Speaker 1: You don't need any procedure, but what would it be?

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Speaker 1: And why you can't say nothing?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'd want new boobs, that's period. I would want

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Speaker 3: new boobs because I have always wanted new boobs. Thank

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Speaker 2: Is it a surfboard? Like a surfboard?

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Speaker 1: No one like you our beautiful agg straight down and

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, all right, I know nothing about brass sizes,

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Speaker 5: and I've been explained It's been explained to me many times,

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Speaker 1: Don't numbers, don't worry you don't have Yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Not the gap in my teeth, I don't know I'm

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Speaker 1: A signature part of your look.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, Like it's not the first thing that

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Speaker 1: But nope, I'm nervous to bring this up because then

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Speaker 1: really desperate. I and I come sit back and I said,

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Speaker 1: I just sat there because Bailly and I we've talked

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Speaker 1: just annoying to hear. But when you have big boobs,

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Speaker 1: look anything like, No, Bailey needs to put her boobs away.

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Speaker 1: It is the fact that I have big boobs, and sure,

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Speaker 1: could I wear something that doesn't show so much cleavage? Yes, however,

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Speaker 1: I was in Puntacana. It's fucking hot.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't about to wear something up to my neck

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Speaker 1: because I didn't want to be slut shamed. No, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Up, hush, yeah, it's gonna be criss.

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Speaker 5: I thought you were talking about like a picture when

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Speaker 4: But no, if you want vacation, let him fly.

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Speaker 1: Okay. I think I will argue with you, though, Vaughna,

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Speaker 1: I don't care if I'm on vacation or not about

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Speaker 1: I don't really I don't think I should be shamed

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Speaker 1: appreciate you once again. I've said this before, but there

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Speaker 1: are definitely emails that we haven't read just because they're

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Speaker 1: literally addressed Dave. Dear Dave, Hey Dave. So I don't

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Speaker 1: Maybe one last one here it says, hey, gang Bailey,

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Speaker 3: I do not know Bob. And he's like, thanks, Bill,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so they said after a few messages of

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Speaker 3: See then, because then I think, like, who's not getting

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Speaker 1: Here's another one that Sorry, some of these were opened

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Speaker 1: got to this one. It says, hey, y'all, don't use

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Speaker 1: my name. I'm writing in response to the Minnesota Goodbye today.

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Speaker 1: So this was like over a week ago.

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Speaker 1: I have been with my boyfriend for nine years and

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Speaker 1: he rarely compliments me either, so we must have been

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Speaker 1: talking about that recently. I've told him that it was

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Speaker 4: People don't even tell Dave. That was terrifying. But I'm

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Speaker 1: Because you were You're kind of in.

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Speaker 5: my baby girls getting married and unlessa both of their

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Speaker 5: youngest daughter, their oldest daughters are married.

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Speaker 4: So they were like, damn last one.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we have no idea when it's happening, obviously,

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Speaker 1: but I definitely think that you talking about this if

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Speaker 1: for some reason, let's go back to well so it

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Speaker 1: would never I think that she obviously knows that you

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Speaker 1: guys are like in talks of marriage, you guys.

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Speaker 4: Talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're often She's constantly asking you, like when you're

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Speaker 1: gonna propose to me?

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Speaker 5: We got to shopping and yeah, we've got to shopping

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Speaker 5: for like the both of us. She doesn't know if

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Speaker 5: or have I bought anything, but we've both been like okay,

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Speaker 5: this is what I like, this is you know, and

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Speaker 5: every day it's just.

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Speaker 4: Like, what are you going to marry me? Already? I

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Speaker 4: got in that stage of life.

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Speaker 5: So I brought that up because you asked me about

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Speaker 5: me going home because I've been talking to her parents

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Speaker 5: about like, okay, eventually, like this might be a plan,

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Speaker 5: this thinking.

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Speaker 4: So stay tuned for updates.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Minnesota, good bye exclusive anyone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we'll send your emails and days back tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Chow at katwb dot com