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Speaker 1: Time for second date update.

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Speaker 2: We're going out to Walnut Creek, going out to the

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Speaker 2: creek and gonna say hi to Mark this morning. Good morning, Mark,

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Speaker 2: good morning. So everybody knows how second date update works.

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Speaker 2: If you go on a first date, your date ghosts,

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Speaker 2: we call them together. Have you on the line. We'll

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Speaker 2: try to figure some things out, at least get some answers.

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Speaker 2: Ultimately we want second dates. It doesn't always work out. Mark,

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Speaker 2: what can you tell us about your date with Elise?

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Speaker 2: It was good, It was a good date.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was really classy, funny, and I thought

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Speaker 3: we were connecting over dinner.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what did you guys talk about?

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Speaker 3: We got into talking about movies that we both loved.

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Speaker 1: We were quoting them for a second.

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Speaker 3: She said her favorite movie quote is just keep swimming

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Speaker 3: from Finding Nemo.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and isn't that more of a bumper sticker? It's

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Speaker 1: good life advice?

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Speaker 3: Right? But I know I like the classics, like you know, Life,

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Speaker 3: selected box of Chocolates, you know.

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Speaker 1: Sure, the Forrest Gump, that one.

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I don't keep up on the movies. It's not that

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Speaker 2: I don't watch movies, just can't ever remember anything. So

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Speaker 2: I'm the worst person to do movie quotes with, but

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Speaker 2: I know the box of Chocolate's one.

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Speaker 1: That's easy. It was fine.

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Speaker 3: We were having a good time and we were both

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Speaker 3: talking about how we needed to just get out of town.

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Speaker 3: You know, work has been really tough on both of

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Speaker 3: us recently, and I swear she said she wanted to

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Speaker 3: go on a weekend trip with me someday.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like we were talking future plans. So

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Speaker 1: this kind of makes it weird that she's ghosted. Huh. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 2: We're going to call her, so get yourself emotionally ready.

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Speaker 2: On second date update, we're chatting with Mark. We were

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Speaker 2: learning all about his date with Elist there in Walnut Creek.

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Speaker 2: Y'all love to quote movies. I would have to excuse

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Speaker 2: myself from the table. That's fine. It's not my date,

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Speaker 2: it's yours.

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Speaker 1: Mark. Are you still there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Perfect. So let's call her and try to figure out

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Speaker 2: why she ghosted. Here we go, Hello, Hi, May I

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Speaker 2: speak to at least?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 4: Is this she? Hi?

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Speaker 1: At least?

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Speaker 2: My name is Marcus and I work for Star one

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Speaker 2: on one three in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio station. Do the morning show?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Hi, Hi, do you listen in the morning? Yeah, excellent.

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Speaker 1: The number of times I've held my breath. So we're

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Speaker 1: doing Second Date Update. Hey, how are you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Do you ever listen to Second Date Update?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I listen all the time?

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Speaker 1: Perfect, So you're on it. I hope that's okay.

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Speaker 4: It's a little weird, but I'm out here Dayton, so

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Speaker 4: I thought it might happen eventually.

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Speaker 1: Great. So a gentleman has called about you. His name

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Speaker 1: is Mark, and right, he's he.

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Speaker 4: So he's listening already, he is, he is Mark?

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Speaker 1: Are you there? Hey? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Hot, so Elise. He he really enjoyed hanging out with you.

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Speaker 2: Would love to go out again. Quote some more movies.

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Speaker 2: I guess I just asked, did you ghost?

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't say I ghosted. I just didn't really want

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Speaker 4: to go out again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was.

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Speaker 4: A nice date. I was excited to go out with

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Speaker 4: someone who liked to, you know, watch movies and seem

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Speaker 4: to have some other interests that were similar to me.

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Speaker 4: He's a pretty good looking guy, got a good sense

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Speaker 4: of humor.

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Speaker 1: Did something go wrong?

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Speaker 4: Well, we kind of took like a hard left because

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Speaker 4: the server was like, oh, hey, good to see you again.

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Speaker 4: Were you here last night?

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Speaker 1: Talking to him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and he had been there the night before on

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Speaker 4: a date with a friend of mine.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, hold on't.

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Speaker 4: So like he didn't even like put in the effort

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Speaker 4: to go to a different restaurant with a new person.

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Speaker 1: How did you know that it was a friend of yours.

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Speaker 4: Well, he started telling me a little bit about this

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Speaker 4: other date, and I was like, wait, are you talking

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Speaker 4: about Hannah? And he was like, oh yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: That's the most bizarre thing I've ever heard.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so he went out with your friend the night

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Speaker 2: before at the same restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Mark back to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, first of all, I don't think this is that insane.

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Speaker 3: I was just going on dates. I like dinner, I

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Speaker 3: like that restaurant. You know, it's easier for me if

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Speaker 3: I just have everybody go to the same location.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to think about it. Uh.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's that weird. Just so it happened

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Speaker 3: to be your friend, you know, that's you know, well,

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Speaker 3: you can explore.

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Speaker 4: I just don't need to be a part of like

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Speaker 4: a circular dating pattern like I and and you know,

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Speaker 4: it's like easier for me. You don't have to pretty

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Speaker 4: any effort like I want someone to put in a

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Speaker 4: little effort. I would rather try somewhere new that someone

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Speaker 4: else is also not into whatever.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you knew that restaurant or not.

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Speaker 3: It could be new to you. I just know I

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Speaker 3: like it. There's a lot of different things in the

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Speaker 3: menu I can get. It's you know, what's wrong with

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Speaker 3: going to the same place.