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Speaker 1: Are we getting ready for second Ate Update? Lloyd, give

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Speaker 1: us a little bit about what you're going through.

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Speaker 2: So I went out with this really really cool girl

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Speaker 2: and we stayed out really really late, basically till this

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Speaker 2: I was just wondering what was going on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we want to hear the full story and then

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Speaker 3: we'll call her up and find out why she's blowing

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Speaker 3: you off.

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Speaker 1: Second Ate Update starts next with John, Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 4: The next segment we're going to do is called second

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Speaker 4: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and

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Speaker 4: get and that's what the bit is called.

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Speaker 5: Second Ate Update starts right now on John Jay and Rigg.

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Speaker 1: John, Jayan and Rich. It's time for second Ate Update.

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Speaker 1: Lloyd went on a date.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna find out why there's no second date. He

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Lloyd, what's your story?

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Speaker 2: I went out with the girl Glynn met recently. We

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Speaker 2: just went out for like dinner, and she was really

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Speaker 2: really cool. I thought the date went really great. We

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Speaker 2: have some drinks, we laughed the whole time and basically

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Speaker 2: a couple of times, and she said she had fun,

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Speaker 2: and I figured i'd hear from her the next day.

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Speaker 2: But it's been a few days and nothing, So I

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Speaker 2: So I figured i'd call and you know, see if

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Speaker 6: Okay, you said you thought you would hear from her.

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Speaker 6: Have you reached out and she just didn't text back

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Speaker 6: or you were just waiting for her to reach out.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I've reached out.

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Speaker 6: Okay, And how did you guys meet? You said you

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Speaker 6: just kind of met her, but you glazed over that part.

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Speaker 1: You know. You said something at the end that you

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Speaker 2: What was the phrase you used, Oh like that i'd

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Speaker 2: maybe come on too strong see her again, that's all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you said you came on too strong.

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Speaker 3: Like that part I don't understand, because if she stayed

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean. I mean, uh, least stayed there

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Speaker 2: I was hoping you guys could figure.

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Speaker 1: Did she get up and try to leave and you

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Speaker 2: No? Absolutely not.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 2: It was just like I had told her at one

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Speaker 2: I was just honest, you know, I was having a

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Speaker 5: Know, Okay, you said a couple of hugs. Describe the hug.

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Speaker 2: Briefly when we met for the first time in person

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Speaker 5: She didn't a frame you where she leaned in with

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Speaker 5: you're a neat friend hug. You didn't get one of those.

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Speaker 5: It was a it was a let's go out again hug.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, Okay, Well, I mean we'll call her and

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Speaker 1: How long ago was the date?

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Speaker 5: It was like a few days though, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: What's her name?

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Speaker 2: Nora?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so hang tight, we're gonna get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find out why she's blowing you off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: with John Jaye Rich.

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Speaker 3: John Jaye Rich, we are in the middle of second

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Speaker 3: date update Lloyd and Nora.

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Speaker 1: Lloyd, Lloyd all Nolan.

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Speaker 5: Voyd didn't get the call back, and he's feeling kind

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Speaker 5: sweet love to Lloyd? We were about to find out?

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Speaker 1: That was beautiful, What a beautiful setup. So, Lloyd, we're

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thanks, So you stay a little quiet and

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Speaker 7: Hi, this is Norah.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Norah, this is Peyton with John jay and Rich.

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Speaker 4: We just wanted to call and talk to you on

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, Norah. We got a call from a guy.

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Speaker 3: Went out on a date with a girl and had

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Speaker 7: Lloyd, Oh, Lloyd, Lloyd Okay. I mean, I wasn't a

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Speaker 7: bad guy. You know, we had like pretty good conversations.

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Speaker 7: You know, you're revising your dinner. There was no like

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Speaker 1: The bathroom incident. I don't believe he brought up the

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Speaker 3: The bathroom incident is you both go into the bathroom

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Speaker 7: I wish that was the story, but it is not.

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Speaker 7: he asked for the checks. I figured, like, you know,

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Speaker 7: literally like twenty minutes, and that's not an exaggeration. He

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Speaker 1: Like sweaty. Yeah, like he has some stomach issues.

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Speaker 7: Like what happened?

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Speaker 1: Poor guy?

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Speaker 3: Poor guy to have that. I think we've all been there,

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Speaker 4: And maybe she won't notice she's gonna So is it

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Speaker 4: just the bathroom thing that you're like, I'm out on?

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Speaker 7: Not exactly. So, you know, he insisted on paying me back,

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Speaker 7: which was fine, but he's like, I'll just cash app

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Speaker 1: Hmmm, don't you have to have a bank account for

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Speaker 5: You can just you can just kept cash on your

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: He gave me like total ick energy. Between that and

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Speaker 6: So did you ask why, like why you wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I no doubt that he literally keeps his money

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like cash.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know who he is too. I actually thought

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's not just something you do for.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people know who this guy is.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I can't wait to know about it.

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Speaker 2: Nora, You're you're seriously ghosting me because I don't have

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Speaker 6: That's all, by the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, what's up. I'm just trying to understand why

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Speaker 2: is that such a red flag? Not not having a

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Speaker 7: Uh yeah, it kind of does, like left me with

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Speaker 2: All right, well, it's actually kind of complicated.

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Speaker 7: Uh yeah, clearly, like you can't even communicate and you're

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Speaker 2: Okay, it wasn't even like that. My buddy was trying

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Speaker 7: So what I'm hearing is you tried to scam a bank.

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Speaker 1: But that's not what you said.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it was ten years ago my friend had put

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that sounds like a lot of drama. And that's

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Speaker 1: Let's shift gears from the banking problems to the problems.

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Speaker 2: I did this ten years ago and it was a mistake,

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Speaker 2: and you think I'm just automatically undateable.

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Speaker 7: But also, Lloyd, what happened in the bathroom?

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Speaker 6: She's like, actually, do you want to do we need

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Speaker 5: What did happen in the bathroom? And why not send

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Speaker 2: Oh man, you guys, this is this is terrible.

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Speaker 4: What happened in the bathroom is terrible.

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Speaker 1: Get out. All four of us had asked you, what

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Speaker 2: It's like a nightmare. Thanks a lot. I'm really glad

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Speaker 2: it called.

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Speaker 5: Oh no oh, how did you not think that wasn't

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Speaker 2: I just yeah, had just having it was a time,

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Speaker 2: all right. It was the best of times. It was

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Speaker 6: So you actually had it was like an issue. You

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Speaker 6: weren't like trying to leave her with the bill. It

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Speaker 6: wasn't an.

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Speaker 1: Intentional never do that, no, okay.

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Speaker 6: I mean he did attempt to pay, that's true.

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Speaker 4: We just didn't have what she has, all right.

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Speaker 1: So Nora, would you like to see Lloyd again and

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Speaker 1: do a second date?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with no.

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Speaker 7: One in the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really glad that you answered. Thanks a lot.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he's no second date, you guys, no second date?

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Speaker 1: That's second date update with John, Jay and Rich