1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Minnesota. Goodbye time. Are we ready? All right, let's see 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: what we've got here. Brianna wrote in three times, so 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: let's see what she has here? Is her first one. 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: A few things to add and talk about. Number one 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: mishearing lyrics. You've talked about this a few shows ago, 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: but one lyric I always misheard was the middle by 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: Jimmy Eat World. It just takes some time, little girl. 8 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: You're in the middle of the ride. Elephant. Elephant will 9 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: be just fine. Elephant, elephant will be all right, All right, elephant, 10 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: it's everything. Yeah, that's funny, idiot. Anytime I told somebody 11 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: that story, you always get laughed at. Thinking back on 12 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: it now, elephant doesn't make any sense, but hey, it's 13 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: a good story. Now. My main question, what were you 14 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: told as a kid that you believed for the longest 15 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: time that made life easier to grow up in. I'm 16 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: not talking about Santa or the Easter Bunnier creatures, but 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: my mom used to tell me that animals on the 18 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: side of the road we're sleeping. It wasn't until late 19 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: in elementary school that I learned otherwise, obviously, when I 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: could understand death. Another one is why my grandpa had 21 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: a wooden leg growing up because he got run over 22 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: by a tractor, but he actually had bone cancer and 23 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: lost his leg. Oh okay, these might seem weird, but 24 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,279 Speaker 1: I grew up in a very small town in Iowa, 25 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: so these back ass were things are normal to me. 26 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: Love you, no dart licking for me. I think my 27 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: mom when somebody died when I was very young, old 28 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: enough to remember, but not old four or five, somebody 29 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: died and I didn't understand what that was, and she said, well, 30 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: it's like going to sleep, which is much better than 31 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: trying to explain to a five year old what death is. 32 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: I don't remember when I learned gradually over the years 33 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: what death really means, but I think for a long 34 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: time I thought it just meant like they went to sleep. 35 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: Right. Yeah. I can't really think of one exactly, except 36 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 2: for like the when your pets die. My mom always 37 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: told us the story about the rainbow bridge, which I 38 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 2: honestly i'll believe it today because it is comforting and 39 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 2: it's like the bridge between heaven and Earth, and it's 40 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 2: a rainbow and that's where all of your pets go. 41 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna get choked up talking about it. But 42 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 2: it's so when you die, you go to the rainbow 43 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 2: bridge first to pick up your pets before you go. 44 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:18,239 Speaker 1: To that's the concept. 45 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and so my mom always taught us that, 46 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 2: and so we would always say, like, oh, well, Blinky's 47 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,679 Speaker 2: gonna be with you when you see him at the 48 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 2: rainbow bridge. 49 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 3: I think the only thing I remember was my grandpa saying, like, 50 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 3: asparagus makes hair grow in your ears, you know, like 51 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 3: stupid shit like that. It was like something makes the 52 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 3: hair in your ears grow if you eat it. 53 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: And I was like, all right, and you were forever changed. 54 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 2: You're like, I'm never gonna eat that. 55 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 3: I didn't want to eat it anyways. 56 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's see another one from Brianna. Okay, she wrote 57 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: in three emails, this is a dedication. What did you 58 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: grow up doing that? No one ever told you to do? 59 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: You just did it because it felt right. For example, 60 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, I would hold my breath 61 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: when we drove past cemetery so that the breath I 62 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: held could be given to the dead and help them breathe. Now, 63 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: obviously I didn't understand death and didn't tell anybody about it, 64 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: but I do use this story as an icebreaker in 65 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: a group, and people think I'm the weirdest person ever 66 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: for believing something like that. I mean, yeah, I am, 67 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: but come on, that's some funny, innocent child stuff. I 68 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: don't know my question above makes any sense, but hopefully 69 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: after hearing my example, I can hear your answers too. Okay, 70 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 1: I'm done for now until I have fifteen other things 71 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: to blow up your inbox about in my Wanita voice, 72 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: love you bye. Okay, I don't have anything, Honestly, I 73 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: used to tap on something three times, like if I 74 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: tapped on it three times, then everything was okay. But 75 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: that's a little bit of OCD kind of thing. 76 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 2: Sure, because well, I'm thinking of like, you know, holding 77 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: your breath. I used to hold my breath in tunnels 78 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: and then make a wish because I heard you know, 79 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: if you held your breath through a tunnel made a wish, 80 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: your wish would come true. That's dumb. And then you 81 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: saying the tapping thing. I used to tap all of 82 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: my popcns one, two, three times before opening them because 83 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: I heard that that calmed the bubbles down inside. 84 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: I thought I've heard that too. 85 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I still do that because I do it too, 86 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 2: But I think now it's just like I don't think 87 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,119 Speaker 2: it actually does anything. You're just doing it. 88 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: I don't know that I have anything besides the fact 89 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 3: that I do something and still to this day I 90 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: do it. Is I like tense my muscles, but I 91 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 3: do my whole body. So I'll go from my elbows 92 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 3: to my boobs, to my butt, to my upper thighs, 93 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 3: to my inner thighs to my calves and then back 94 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: up again. And I'll notice doing it when I'm like 95 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 3: laying in bed with like a partner or something, and 96 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 3: I wonder if they can like tell I'm going through 97 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: like just like tensing them up, and I'm like releasing it. 98 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: Weird. I don't know, it's not weird. I've never done 99 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: that before. No, I have done a little dance with 100 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: you know, your tense up one butt cheek and then 101 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 2: the other butt cheek, and then you do it to 102 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: like a dance, you know, tune whatever's on the radio. Yeah. Yeah, 103 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: and you're only dancing in your butt cheeks, all right. 104 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: Brent from Chicago writes in he says, we were talking 105 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: about chili last week. Does anybody put noodles in their chili? 106 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: I swear I remember people doing this when I was 107 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: growing up. I grew up in northwest Wisconsin. My mom 108 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: swear she has never put noodles in chili. A couple 109 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: of years ago, I was making a pot of chili 110 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: in my normal fashion, no recipe, just cleaning out the pantry, 111 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 1: throwing whatever you have stumbled across a bag of noodles. 112 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: They weren't the typical egg noodle I swear I've seen 113 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: us for chili. They were more of a dense sort 114 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: of noodle. Well, I fucked it up. I cooked the 115 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 1: noodles and put them in the chili right away. After 116 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: simmering the chili for a couple of hours, I ended 117 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: up with mushy noodles. It was terrible. I should have 118 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 1: added the cook noodles at the end, or if my 119 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: partner had to say, don't add him at all. He 120 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: wasn't so impressed with me that evening I couldn't eat it. 121 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 1: But I also couldn't bring myself to toss the entire 122 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: pot of chili, So I sat there picking out hundreds 123 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: of noodles with tongs while watching the Grammys. Have you 124 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 1: ever put noodles in chili? Is it really a thing 125 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: in Cincinnati. They put chili on top of spaghetti noodles. 126 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: This is different though, Well that actually sounds kind of good. 127 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds delicious. 128 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: No, never put noodles in spaghetti. But isn't chili mac 129 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 1: a thing? Maybe you're thinking of ChIL that well, I mean, i've, i've. 130 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: Isn't I thought like chili? Essentially chili with like noodles 131 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 2: in it is more like. 132 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: Not golosh, goulash. Gulash that is kind of but I 133 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: think goulash is more Italian seasoned. 134 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 2: Yeah. 135 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: My mom used to make her own version of gulash 136 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: and it was you know, it was good. But we 137 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: would use like you know, elbow macaroni and like you know, 138 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: hamburger meat and then maybe some I don't know, red 139 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: sauce or ketchup or I don't know what you put 140 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: in there. 141 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: This looks so good, I want some gulash. 142 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: I made the crock pot chicken and dumplings over the weekend, 143 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: and the recipe is on my blog page and you 144 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: can see the video on Dave Ryan Show on Dave 145 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: Ryan Katie. But you'd be on Instagram and it was okay. 146 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: It did fill the house with a wonderful odor all 147 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 1: day while I was watching football, which was great, but 148 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: they were bland and I think that they under spice 149 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: recipes because they don't want people going yeah, and it 150 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: would show spicy. So it was kind of bland. 151 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. 152 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:09,559 Speaker 1: And so if you make that, then at least double 153 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: the spices or spice it up on your own, because 154 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: it was quite bland. 155 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 156 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: All right, next one, Let's delete that one and go 157 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: to this one. Hello again, crew from Brook. We're having 158 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: my sister's bachelorette party this summer, hoping to do it 159 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: on a lake in Minnesota. We're from northern Wisconsin, close 160 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: to the New Richmond area, about forty five minutes from Hudson. 161 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: Where are the best places to get an airbnb on 162 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: a lake in Minnesota near you? Guys? If anybody has 163 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: an airbnb that includes the pontoon with their rental, please 164 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: give them my email. I would appreciate it. There's about 165 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: eight girls, nothing too crazy, but we want to be 166 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: on a lake and have a pontoon. Bonus points if 167 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: the lake has bars and restaurants on it accessible by boat. 168 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: Love you guys from Brook. Well, I'll start in and 169 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: maybe you guys have some ideas. Try Lake Minnetonka yep, 170 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,679 Speaker 1: because Lake Minatonka is definitely has a couple of bars, 171 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: they have fletchers, they have maynards. I think that's really 172 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: all that I know of. But if you get an 173 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 1: airbnb that doesn't have a pontoon, there's many places you 174 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: can rent a pontoon on Lake Minnetonka, so you should 175 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: be good. I'm going to guess that Prior Lake also 176 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: maybe has a restaurant. 177 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 3: I don't know, though they definitely do. It's just not 178 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 3: I don't know that it's as you can access it. 179 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 3: It's just a little bit different than the places on Tanka. 180 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,239 Speaker 3: I'm trying to think because I did do a bachelorette 181 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 3: party over by I think like gal Lake where there's 182 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 3: like Azorba's and stuff, But we stayed on one of 183 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 3: the lakes over there, like one of the kind of 184 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 3: nicer resorts in like this big cabiny thing. So that's 185 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 3: an option if you want to look around. I feel 186 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 3: like there's probably multiple goal lakes, but like by Niswa, 187 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 3: that's kind of like a great area too, because you 188 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 3: can go to Zorba's, which is like bachelorette party center. Okay, Okay, 189 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 3: zorbas is always a good time. Otherwise, what lake was 190 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 3: that on? That's like Gull Lake. Multiple lakes over there, 191 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: There's like Round Lake, North Long Lake. There's definitely a 192 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 3: resort over there there that's really popular that we stayed at. 193 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 3: But the main thing is the fact that you can 194 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 3: go to Zorba's because that places pop in for like 195 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 3: Bachelorett parties and stuff. 196 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: Okay, good, maybe that should be your target areas to 197 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: look for that one. So okay, checking the timer here, 198 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: we got some time for a couple of more emails. 199 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: Let's see if we have a couple of more emails. 200 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes we do, sometimes we don't. Let's try the Okay, 201 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: that's about the podcast. Did the podcast show up on Friday? 202 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: Was very difficulty. 203 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so if you were wondering what happened with the podcast, 204 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: we the like audio thing that we have connected to 205 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 2: the show wasn't recording it at all, so I had 206 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 2: to do it all manually, which is why it took 207 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: me so long. So okay, that's probably why they're like, 208 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 2: where's the podcasts? Just took me long because I had 209 00:09:58,080 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 2: to do it all manually. 210 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: Thanks for doing what you do, you know, what. I 211 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: appreciate that you're welcome. Next one says, don't say my name, Jenny. 212 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: I heard you recommend the show tell Me Lies. 213 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 3: We were liars. Okay, Oh, tell Me Lies is a 214 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 3: different one. Sorry, keep going, Okay. 215 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 1: I'm all caught up on it. And holy nakedness. 216 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 3: Oh, there's a lot of sex in it. 217 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: Are people who film that stuff for a show movie 218 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: actually totally naked? I've always wondered how they film that stuff. 219 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: I'm so glad I've never had to get naked in 220 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: front of another man ever again. But they I'm so 221 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: glad I never have to get Oh she's with a 222 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: man and never has to be naked in front of 223 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: a new man. Yeah, but they also have way better 224 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: bodies than I do. Happy long Weekend, Tell me about 225 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: Tell Me Lies. 226 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 3: It's a drama with college kids. It's honestly so overdramatic 227 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 3: that I fell off season two. But there's a lot 228 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 3: of sex, and there's like these the two main characters 229 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 3: are just so fucking toxic that like, eventually I just 230 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 3: was like I can't anymore, Like you're too toxic. I 231 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 3: don't know if it was like PTSD of friendships or something, 232 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 3: but I just like to handle it. But I mean, 233 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 3: the sex scenes are great, you know, Chris, some good 234 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 3: sex scenes. Give it a try. 235 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 2: And to answer your question, they wear little like socks 236 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 2: over their bits and pieces so that it looks like 237 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: they're naked, but no, they're not. You know. 238 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 1: I saw in the movie that I saw for the weekend, 239 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: Bone Lake, and that's certainly not the only movie that 240 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: I've seen sex scenes in. But they're like grinding and thrusting, 241 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: Like he'll be laying on top of her and they're 242 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: grinding and thrusting. I mean, even if there's no actual, 243 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 1: sayex going on, it's really close. And I wonder how 244 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: awkward that's got to be. It's like, Okay, that's what 245 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: you signed up for, so there you are and you've 246 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: got you know, they always do it with like a 247 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,839 Speaker 1: blanket over their body, you know what I mean. And 248 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: when they get up and they're done, she conveniently has 249 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: the blanket wrapped around her, and it's like, but there 250 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: was still I mean, how weird would that be? Is like, Okay, 251 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 1: this is Jill and Jill, this is Troy, and you 252 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: guys are going to star in this movie, and oh, 253 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: here's the sex scene and you're going to be mostly 254 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: naked with a sock over you know Troy's knotty parts, 255 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: but you're still going to be grinding and thrusting. Yeah. 256 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 3: Really, don't they have like sex coaches. 257 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're called intimacy coordinators. And so my friend Jackie 258 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 2: who you love Dave, she is an intimacy coordinator, And 259 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 2: they're like a special person who comes in and then 260 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 2: they like talk you through exactly, like here's what's going 261 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: to happen, and then like here's how we're going to 262 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 2: deal with it, essentially, so that it's not like a, hey, 263 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 2: here's Troy, this is Barbara. You guys are going to 264 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 2: simulate having sexual intercourse. Now go And so now it's like, Okay, 265 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 2: it's a safer way to go about it. Not just safe, 266 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 2: but like, you know, safe in terms of how you 267 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 2: feel about it too. So it's less awkward because you 268 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 2: actually have to, you know, talk through it and have 269 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 2: your expectations like laid out and all of that jazz and. 270 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, that totally makes sense. Yeah, I'm gonna guess probably 271 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: back in the fifties was just like okay, Joyce, lay 272 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: down and here comes Bob. Yeah, and it was like, 273 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: probably a little disturbing for for Joyce, but yeah, I 274 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: think that would still be really weird to do. Even 275 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: as an actor. 276 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 2: It's weird to kiss people on stage and I can't 277 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: imagine like simulating doing it. Yeah. 278 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. Last one from Karina, Hello morning carew I get 279 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: a question for people listening. For those who write in 280 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: and say, don't say my name, could you come up 281 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: with a funny nickname. I'd love to hear the creative 282 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: names y'all come up with. Okay, sure you want you 283 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: that's fine. Question for Dave Jenny Bailey. Have you ever 284 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: spent money in thought? Dang, I worked two hours to 285 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: pay for this. I do it often. It saves me 286 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: a lot of money. Money is time and time is money. 287 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: What are some of the ways you save money? 288 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: Okay? 289 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 3: I thinking of it a little bit different, Like if 290 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,959 Speaker 3: I got a speeding ticket, I'll be like, fuck, that 291 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 3: was like a week's worth of pay. Not really, but 292 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 3: I mean I think of it in that way. But 293 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 3: for me, with saving money, I don't think I have 294 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 3: a I'm just like a frugal person who doesn't feel 295 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 3: like I need things to be happy. For the most part, 296 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 3: the one thing I'm bad at is iced coffee though, 297 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 3: because I you still only get it like once a week. 298 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 3: Now I get it like four times a week. So 299 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 3: I got to get that under control. 300 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't necessarily do the thing like, oh, this 301 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 2: was this much hours of work unless I was paid 302 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 2: hourly back in the day. But we've established I don't 303 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: like cooking. I do like going out to eat. But 304 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 2: if I go out to eat, I will make it 305 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 2: a point to not eat my entire meal, and so 306 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 2: I can take half of it home. So then I'll 307 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 2: look at my meal and I'll be like, Okay, this 308 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 2: meal was eighteen dollars, but I only ate half, which 309 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: means it was nine dollars. And then I'm gonna eat 310 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 2: the other half at home, so it feeds me twice. 311 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good. Yeah, I look get it all right. 312 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: Next one is from Nate, who is a frequent contributor 313 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: to the podcast. You were talking about being a witness 314 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: to a part of or a part of a noteworthy 315 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: historical event. And while I haven't personally been involved any, 316 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: my great grandfather, Larson almost was. I found out about 317 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. My great grandfather, who immigrated from Denmark, 318 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: in nineteen twelve was on the ship directly in front 319 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 1: of the Titanic. His son, my grandpa, told me when 320 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: I was interviewing him for a college project, and said 321 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: their shimp went around the iceberg since theirs was not 322 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: an unsinkable ship. Fortunately, he and all the passengers on 323 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 1: his ship arrived to America safely, and I am here 324 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: today as a result of that decision. 325 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 2: Wo. 326 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: So, I guess the Titanic was zipping along at a 327 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: really fast pace for the day, not worried about icebergs 328 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: because they were well, number one, they were unsinkable, but 329 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 1: number two, they were trying to make really good time 330 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: because it was their maiden voyage. Yeah, so they were like, oh, 331 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: look how fast we can cross. So let's turn the 332 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 1: engines on full and then zip along and then we're 333 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: not worried about icebergs because we're unsinkable. 334 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 3: What is can you explain unsinkable? I mean, I get 335 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 3: what that word means, but like, you can't tell me 336 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 3: that something's completely unsinkable. 337 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: Well, they marketed as unsinkable, but it had compartments that 338 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: would like flood, but there would be doors between the compartments, 339 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: so if got a hole let's say, you know, let's 340 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: say you have a boat and it's one giant hull hull. 341 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: You get a whole ho l e in the front 342 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: of the whole hull, and the water will all go 343 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: all the way to the back and then sink the boat. 344 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: But the Titanic had compartments, so it had like nine 345 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: different compartments, where if you got a whole hol e 346 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: in the front, it would only flood the first compartment. 347 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 3: So that's why that evil guy was like locking Jack 348 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 3: into one of the compartments that was flooding. 349 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that. Yeah, But the problem with the 350 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: Titanic is they ripped along the side of the iceberg 351 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: and it opened up several different compartments, so then several 352 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: different compartments flooded, and then once they flooded, then it was, 353 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: you know, there was nothing they could do. Similarly, I 354 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: thought it'd be interesting to hear if any of you 355 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: had a life threatening situation or save someone from one. 356 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: I'll go first. Thanks. When I was probably ten, I 357 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 1: was at a pool with some family at a resort, 358 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 1: and you make friends, you play with them. There was 359 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,159 Speaker 1: a family of three kids. I was playing within the 360 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: pool and the youngest brother, no more than two or three. 361 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: He loved jumping in and hebs somebody catch him. However, 362 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 1: after a while, his older brother got distracted and didn't 363 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: see him jump in. Luckily, this is a ten year old. 364 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: I was right next to him and pulled him out 365 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 1: of the pool to safety, which could have resulted in 366 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: something horrible. All right, we're gonna wrap up quickly, and 367 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,360 Speaker 1: that is the Minnesota Goodbye. Send your emails to Ryan's 368 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: show at kadiwb at dot com.