WEBVTT - Second Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>Just the second date update in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, second date update? Why are you not getting

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<v Speaker 2>a callback? We're going to find out. Skyler is getting

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<v Speaker 2>ghosted now after going out on a date that you

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<v Speaker 2>thought actually went well, but you didn't think it went

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<v Speaker 2>like excessively well, like you thought it was just a

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<v Speaker 2>good date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, what did you guys do, Skyler?

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<v Speaker 3>We went bowling?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, and you guys had pretty good conversation with

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<v Speaker 2>each other while you were bowling.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know. It was on and.

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<v Speaker 3>Off, but I won.

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<v Speaker 2>But I hope that's not the reason why some guys

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<v Speaker 2>get competitive, man, I do. We talked about that with

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin one time with a date. He gets competitive. He

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<v Speaker 2>does not want to see anybody win, not even his

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<v Speaker 2>kid does Kevin want to see win? All right, let's

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<v Speaker 2>see what's going on. We're going to find out what's

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<v Speaker 2>happening here. Did you guys kiss or hugbye? What did

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<v Speaker 2>you guys do at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the date? Kissed?

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<v Speaker 2>But that's it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Alex is on the phone with us right now. Alex, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are we going good? Good to have you on, Skyler.

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<v Speaker 1>Say hi to Alex, Hey, could you hear that Alex, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I heard it. Okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 2>So Skyler was just wondering what's going on and if

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<v Speaker 2>everything's okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Was everything okay? Did you Did you have a good

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<v Speaker 1>time on the date?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I had a good time on the day.

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<v Speaker 2>So what well?

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<v Speaker 5>I you know, I just didn't really like this bracelet

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<v Speaker 5>she was wearing.

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<v Speaker 1>What she was wearing a bracelet is expensive? What would

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus do?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>It was like one of those permanent bracelets.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, what is a permanent bracelet?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a like a usually a gold or a

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<v Speaker 3>silver chain link and they solder it on you, like

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<v Speaker 3>you have to go somewhere to get it soldered on you,

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<v Speaker 3>but you can't take it off.

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<v Speaker 2>What's wrong with her wearing a bracelet like that? Why

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<v Speaker 2>is that a bad bracelet to wear?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's from her ex.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you know that? Did you ask?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>She told me. She said it was from her ex

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<v Speaker 5>from last year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so she's wearing a bracelet that he gave her

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<v Speaker 2>and it's a bracelet. Is there meaning to the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that you think that she's still wearing it and is

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<v Speaker 2>because to me, if it was a ring, I would

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<v Speaker 2>say something with that. But is a bracelet a bad

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<v Speaker 2>thing to be wearing?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean it feels like, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 5>don't like that she's still wearing jewelry from her ex.

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<v Speaker 5>That just doesn't feel right.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do you still wear it? Tyler? Well, it cost

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<v Speaker 3>it a lot of money. I bought it with my

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<v Speaker 3>own money.

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<v Speaker 2>It's permanent, and it's a cute bracelet, so I don't

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<v Speaker 2>feel like there's any need to remove it. Does.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't have like initials or anything on it. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just like a it's just metal.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's got his first initial, my first initial.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh see that okay for anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>That is that is.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of weird to me. Actually, if it if it

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have anything like that on it and it was

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<v Speaker 3>just like the chain, I would say that's fine, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I get it, it's cute. They're expensive, but the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that it has his initial and your initial on it

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<v Speaker 3>is kind of strange to me. I like, for real, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I mean you can go, you can, so

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<v Speaker 3>she can if she wanted to. Yes, we had to

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<v Speaker 3>cut it off of her for a swim season.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you where do you go to?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we did it at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, really okay, So, Skyler, are you willing to cut

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<v Speaker 2>that thing off to stay in a relationship with Alex?

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<v Speaker 1>And Alex, I'll ask you.

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<v Speaker 2>The question first, or actually I'll ask Skyler that question first,

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<v Speaker 2>then I'll ask you my last question, my question next, Skyler,

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<v Speaker 2>would you cut it off? It would have to take

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<v Speaker 2>a lot for me to cut it off.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>But it would have to well, he would have to

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<v Speaker 2>wow me so much more than the ex.

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<v Speaker 1>I had before him, Yeah, to have.

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<v Speaker 3>Me cut it off. So you're keeping that on until

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<v Speaker 3>you meet somebody who surpasses the expectations of what you

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<v Speaker 3>had for your ex.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost definitely, which will never happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, should you be dating?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're still probably still have feelings for that X.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't, but but.

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<v Speaker 1>You like the piece of jewelry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, all right, Alex, if she were to cut

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<v Speaker 2>it off, if you guys were to date for a

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<v Speaker 2>period of time, and she would have done a ceremonial

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<v Speaker 2>cut on this, saying would you be okay with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Or you want her to cut it off before she

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<v Speaker 2>starts going dating again?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean, did you hear her answers? She still

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<v Speaker 5>has feelings for her ex. I mean the bracelet just shows.

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<v Speaker 1>That, Yeah, somebody, I don't have feelings for my ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you're not listening to what I was saying. You

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<v Speaker 1>just said you would never find it out better than him.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, but I also said that if I did, maybe

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<v Speaker 7>I would want to cut it off.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have any feelings for my ex. I just

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<v Speaker 2>take the bracelets.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cute. I don't know about you, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>not like my ex at all. I would never say.

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<v Speaker 2>That, But you like the jewelry back eight four four

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<v Speaker 2>Mojo Live eight four four six sixty five six five

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<v Speaker 2>four eight.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think it should Skyler cut it off? Or?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think that this is that even that big

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<v Speaker 2>of a deal? I probably, and it's weird. I probably

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<v Speaker 2>am one of those guys that just doesn't notice things.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I would look and think it was just

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<v Speaker 2>a bracelet. I don't think I would look and see

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<v Speaker 2>what it says.

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<v Speaker 3>But when you but when you see initials on it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I probably wouldn't look that close. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I depend on what it looks like, but I I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I would be curious it's if it's like

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<v Speaker 3>I have bracelets that have words on them and names

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<v Speaker 3>on them, and I guess I would be curious and

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<v Speaker 3>be like, oh, who's that?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Scott? What do you think she shouldn't be in the

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<v Speaker 1>dating scene?

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<v Speaker 3>Because when you asked if if like she met someone

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<v Speaker 3>when she cut it off, she said, no, it'll never happen. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Anna said the same thing too. Anna kind of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she's not over that X in order to be

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<v Speaker 2>out there getting into another relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Sarah?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, Alix comment, I'll say that she wouldn't need the

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<v Speaker 7>guy would need to replace it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so so if you were dating Alex, you would

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<v Speaker 2>cut it off, but he's got to get.

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<v Speaker 1>You a new one.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it had to look better.

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<v Speaker 2>But if it's gold, maybe she can melt it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Gold'sworth while. What's up, Mackenzie?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey? Good morning?

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like this has become such a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>Like the first disagreement or argument they get into, she's

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<v Speaker 4>going to be like.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I cut my bracelet.

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<v Speaker 1>Off for you, Yeah, right, true?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask this question if this was a tattoo,

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<v Speaker 2>would you feel the same way? Alex because tattoos are

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<v Speaker 2>hard to get rid of.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I think it would be it would be

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<v Speaker 5>a red flag, but it would it wouldn't be as

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<v Speaker 5>big a deal. But as long as she said, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm working on getting rid of.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is a quick thing. This is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like this is the jewelry version of a tattoo.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Michelle?

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<v Speaker 1>This is what's going on? Michelle?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 6>At first, I didn't think anything of it, because you know,

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<v Speaker 6>women love jewelry, But the comments that she made, I

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<v Speaker 6>feel like she does.

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<v Speaker 5>Still have feelings for him, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>like get.

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<v Speaker 6>Rid of the jewelry already.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody just said, can she just change the letters? Is

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<v Speaker 2>that possible? What do you think about that? Michelle has

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<v Speaker 2>an idea if I mean, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>If she did that, but I mean it's more symbolic

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<v Speaker 3>with the initials, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>What I mean? Like, yeah, just out of curiosity. When's

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<v Speaker 7>the last time you spoke to your eggs?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh? We haven't spoken in a few months?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, Okay, so it's been a while, so it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>like you recently talked to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Maddie. What's up? No, because nobody what do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Maddie.

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<v Speaker 6>I was gonna say, like, no, one logically, even if

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<v Speaker 6>it was a bad or a good breakup, wants to

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<v Speaker 6>wear something they look at every day as a reminder

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<v Speaker 6>if you no longer have it, and then also like

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<v Speaker 6>that she has it to look at it. If that

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<v Speaker 6>was me, I'd be like, oh, I must have done

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<v Speaker 6>something right.

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<v Speaker 4>If I was the ex.

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<v Speaker 6>If they're still wearing something with my name on it

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<v Speaker 6>or my initial.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if he listens, wouldn't that be interesting to know?

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<v Speaker 2>And I wonder, do you know, Skyler? Do you know

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<v Speaker 2>if he's got does he wear a bracelet too? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>So he is he still wearing your bracelet? Do you know?

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<v Speaker 4>As far as I know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, not the matching bracelets. That'd be kind of wild.

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<v Speaker 1>But I paid for it. That's I feel like nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>listening to that.

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<v Speaker 2>I paid for it with my own money.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I wear it.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't care. It's a cute piece of bracelet.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a cute bracelet.

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<v Speaker 2>It costs her some money. Our friend friend from Lucido

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<v Speaker 2>find jewelry. She text in, saying she'll help you get

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<v Speaker 2>rid of the bracelet and find some new ones if

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<v Speaker 2>you want, maybe Alice can buy you one. Who knows,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe if you cared about you that much. Second date update,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Mojoe on the morning, go home.

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<v Speaker 6>With a on the thirty, go back fro Dad on

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<v Speaker 6>a second date update, and more than roses, this is

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<v Speaker 6>Moji in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I find it interesting too when there are people that

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<v Speaker 2>will split with somebody and they will like discard the

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<v Speaker 2>ring that they were wearing for such a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Like to me, if the ring is a beautiful ring,

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<v Speaker 2>like I would want to keep wearing it for a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. But I guess there is so much symbolism.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that's weird too.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, I sorry, I was eating my breakfast.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh let me, don't let me in a run.

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<v Speaker 4>One of my exes was a huge sneakerhead, and the

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<v Speaker 4>hardest thing I had to do was get rid of

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<v Speaker 4>all these easies.

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<v Speaker 2>That he bought me.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was like, I cannot be wearing these of

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<v Speaker 4>this man bought them for really?

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<v Speaker 3>See you.

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<v Speaker 1>Not you.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like easies, but I'd keep the good shoes.

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<v Speaker 3>I would keep the good shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to think about him. How quick did

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<v Speaker 1>you get rid of the ring?

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<v Speaker 3>I still have it. My my engagement ring and wedding rings,

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<v Speaker 3>I still have them, and Nah, why would I get

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<v Speaker 3>rid of that. I'm going to make a beautiful piece

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<v Speaker 3>of jewelry for hopefully for Lucy one day that she'll

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<v Speaker 3>want to wear. I mean, I thought about selling it

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<v Speaker 3>and using the money, like to do something, but then

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, then I would feel weird about whatever it

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<v Speaker 3>is that I'm doing that it came from something so yucky.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know the reason why I say, see naw,

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<v Speaker 7>is because in my mind it wouldn't even be in

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<v Speaker 7>your possession if I wanted to give you something and

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<v Speaker 7>we're no longer together, or you said notes an engagement

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<v Speaker 7>that ring coming back with.

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<v Speaker 3>Me but see oh but not if you get married.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm putting that in uck. Quick question, Shannon, when

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<v Speaker 2>did you take.

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<v Speaker 1>The ring off?

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<v Speaker 3>I took it off the day I believe, if I

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<v Speaker 3>remember correctly, I took off the ring the day my

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<v Speaker 3>divorce was final.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, So you wore it?

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<v Speaker 3>I wore it the whole Yeah, I'm pretty sure I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. That you're repurposing it for Lucy?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because in fact, now that I think about, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't even know where it is. I mean, I have

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<v Speaker 3>it at my house.

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<v Speaker 2>Did any people, because I know you didn't date for

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<v Speaker 2>a long long time after you got divorced, but did

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<v Speaker 2>any people look at it as weird that you were still.

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<v Speaker 1>Wearing the ring even while you were going through a divorce.

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<v Speaker 3>If they did, they didn't say anything to me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, hold on, Bianca's on the phone. What's up, Bianca?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you good?

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<v Speaker 2>We were talking about the uh, you know, the the bracelet.

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<v Speaker 2>But you wanted to make a comment about Xes buying

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<v Speaker 2>you things and keeping the things that the exes buy you.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we were together like eight years. He bought me

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<v Speaker 5>like several Louis Vuitton persons.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've contemplated several times and getting rid of them.

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<v Speaker 3>I just can't do not.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you have them?

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<v Speaker 4>That much?

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't matter?

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, you keep that stuff, you get rid of it,

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<v Speaker 2>sell them for a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>At one point I did throw it like over the gate,

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<v Speaker 7>but then my mom made my son go get it.

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<v Speaker 1>What gay, did you throw it.

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<v Speaker 4>Over over my apartment gate?

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<v Speaker 7>Like we live like behind Hines Park and I just

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<v Speaker 7>tossed it one day?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you something.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a difference between t Anna point shoes, pursues, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a sweatshirt and jewelry with your initials together on it.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a difference.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Claire, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Hy?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, guys, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I was calling about the second date update and holding

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<v Speaker 4>on to jewelry. I still have my forty five hundred

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<v Speaker 4>dollars engagement ring that he let me keep and I

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<v Speaker 4>still wear it so that guys will stay away from

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<v Speaker 4>me because I don't like the attention. But I do

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<v Speaker 4>have a gentleman that I'm talking to that doesn't really

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<v Speaker 4>care because he knows I'm wearing it because it's pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, come on, you know what I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I think guys need to be strong, stronger with who

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<v Speaker 2>they are and be like, I don't care what you wear,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? Like what if the guy

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<v Speaker 2>what if a guy bought you a car, would you

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<v Speaker 2>not want them to drive the car that he bought

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<v Speaker 2>you as long as you're not, you know, uh, letting

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<v Speaker 2>that guy still make payments to your Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>We're not gonna act like men I quote unquote insecure

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<v Speaker 7>beings out here. It's a lot of women.

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<v Speaker 4>When she was wearing the little jewels, I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit much.

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<v Speaker 1>But but keV but predominantly.

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<v Speaker 4>What they want as long as they have an understanding

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<v Speaker 4>of what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>If a guy were to be wearing like say, for instance,

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea bought me a love break or a love ring

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<v Speaker 2>back in the day, it doesn't fit me anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>My fingers are fat.

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<v Speaker 2>And but if she brought me that, and if I

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<v Speaker 2>went out on the dating scene wearing it, would I

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<v Speaker 2>would I even have to explain it.

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<v Speaker 1>I could say my mom bought it for me.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just saying I've been in relationships where a girl

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<v Speaker 7>bought me what do you call those things where you

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<v Speaker 7>could have it initial and you have like cups with

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<v Speaker 7>your starting to see I feel like you put your

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<v Speaker 7>alcohol in it, you know what I'm saying, something to

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<v Speaker 7>that effect, where it was engraved and boss whatever you say.

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<v Speaker 7>She came over and there was like, wow, where'd you

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<v Speaker 7>get that? And I was like, well, my ex or

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<v Speaker 7>so bunch, You're like, uh huh. First thing we doing

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<v Speaker 7>is getting.

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<v Speaker 1>Rid of that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>They don't want the evens either. I'll be trying to

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<v Speaker 7>sit up here act like y'all don't.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I agree, all right, cool, I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 3>of what word you are trying to think of.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, me too, Sorry to see you so and I'll

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<v Speaker 7>figure out listen later. I'll just randomly yell out the

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<v Speaker 7>world no,