Speaker 1: Just the second date update in the morning.
Speaker 2: All right, second date update? Why are you not getting
Speaker 2: a callback? We're going to find out. Skyler is getting
Speaker 2: ghosted now after going out on a date that you
Speaker 2: thought actually went well, but you didn't think it went
Speaker 2: like excessively well, like you thought it was just a
Speaker 2: good date.
Speaker 1: Yes, what did you guys do, Skyler?
Speaker 3: We went bowling?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and you guys had pretty good conversation with
Speaker 2: each other while you were bowling.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know. It was on and.
Speaker 3: Off, but I won.
Speaker 2: But I hope that's not the reason why some guys
Speaker 2: get competitive, man, I do. We talked about that with
Speaker 2: Kevin one time with a date. He gets competitive. He
Speaker 2: does not want to see anybody win, not even his
Speaker 2: kid does Kevin want to see win? All right, let's
Speaker 2: see what's going on. We're going to find out what's
Speaker 2: happening here. Did you guys kiss or hugbye? What did
Speaker 2: you guys do at the end.
Speaker 1: Of the date? Kissed?
Speaker 2: But that's it?
Speaker 1: Okay. Alex is on the phone with us right now. Alex, Hey,
Speaker 1: how are we going good? Good to have you on, Skyler.
Speaker 1: Say hi to Alex, Hey, could you hear that Alex, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I heard it. Okay, all right?
Speaker 2: So Skyler was just wondering what's going on and if
Speaker 2: everything's okay?
Speaker 1: Was everything okay? Did you Did you have a good
Speaker 1: time on the date?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a good time on the day.
Speaker 2: So what well?
Speaker 5: I you know, I just didn't really like this bracelet
Speaker 5: she was wearing.
Speaker 1: What she was wearing a bracelet is expensive? What would
Speaker 1: Jesus do?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 5: It was like one of those permanent bracelets.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what is a permanent bracelet?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's like a like a usually a gold or a
Speaker 3: silver chain link and they solder it on you, like
Speaker 3: you have to go somewhere to get it soldered on you,
Speaker 3: but you can't take it off.
Speaker 2: What's wrong with her wearing a bracelet like that? Why
Speaker 2: is that a bad bracelet to wear?
Speaker 5: Well, it's from her ex.
Speaker 3: How do you know that? Did you ask?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: She told me. She said it was from her ex
Speaker 5: from last year.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she's wearing a bracelet that he gave her
Speaker 2: and it's a bracelet. Is there meaning to the fact
Speaker 2: that you think that she's still wearing it and is
Speaker 2: because to me, if it was a ring, I would
Speaker 2: say something with that. But is a bracelet a bad
Speaker 2: thing to be wearing?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it feels like, you know, I just
Speaker 5: don't like that she's still wearing jewelry from her ex.
Speaker 5: That just doesn't feel right.
Speaker 3: Why do you still wear it? Tyler? Well, it cost
Speaker 3: it a lot of money. I bought it with my
Speaker 3: own money.
Speaker 2: It's permanent, and it's a cute bracelet, so I don't
Speaker 2: feel like there's any need to remove it. Does.
Speaker 3: It doesn't have like initials or anything on it. It's
Speaker 3: just like a it's just metal.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's got his first initial, my first initial.
Speaker 3: But oh see that okay for anything?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: That is that is.
Speaker 3: Kind of weird to me. Actually, if it if it
Speaker 3: didn't have anything like that on it and it was
Speaker 3: just like the chain, I would say that's fine, Like
Speaker 3: I get it, it's cute. They're expensive, but the fact
Speaker 3: that it has his initial and your initial on it
Speaker 3: is kind of strange to me. I like, for real, Like,
Speaker 3: you know, I mean you can go, you can, so
Speaker 3: she can if she wanted to. Yes, we had to
Speaker 3: cut it off of her for a swim season.
Speaker 1: Do you where do you go to?
Speaker 3: I mean we did it at home.
Speaker 2: Oh, really okay, So, Skyler, are you willing to cut
Speaker 2: that thing off to stay in a relationship with Alex?
Speaker 1: And Alex, I'll ask you.
Speaker 2: The question first, or actually I'll ask Skyler that question first,
Speaker 2: then I'll ask you my last question, my question next, Skyler,
Speaker 2: would you cut it off? It would have to take
Speaker 2: a lot for me to cut it off.
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: But it would have to well, he would have to
Speaker 2: wow me so much more than the ex.
Speaker 1: I had before him, Yeah, to have.
Speaker 3: Me cut it off. So you're keeping that on until
Speaker 3: you meet somebody who surpasses the expectations of what you
Speaker 3: had for your ex.
Speaker 2: Almost definitely, which will never happen.
Speaker 1: Gosh, should you be dating?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're still probably still have feelings for that X.
Speaker 2: It sounds like I mean.
Speaker 5: I don't, but but.
Speaker 1: You like the piece of jewelry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, Alex, if she were to cut
Speaker 2: it off, if you guys were to date for a
Speaker 2: period of time, and she would have done a ceremonial
Speaker 2: cut on this, saying would you be okay with that?
Speaker 2: Or you want her to cut it off before she
Speaker 2: starts going dating again?
Speaker 5: No, I mean, did you hear her answers? She still
Speaker 5: has feelings for her ex. I mean the bracelet just shows.
Speaker 1: That, Yeah, somebody, I don't have feelings for my ex.
Speaker 1: Where you're not listening to what I was saying. You
Speaker 1: just said you would never find it out better than him.
Speaker 7: Yes, but I also said that if I did, maybe
Speaker 7: I would want to cut it off.
Speaker 1: But she's waiting.
Speaker 2: I don't have any feelings for my ex. I just
Speaker 2: take the bracelets.
Speaker 1: It's cute. I don't know about you, but I do
Speaker 1: not like my ex at all. I would never say.
Speaker 2: That, But you like the jewelry back eight four four
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Speaker 2: four eight.
Speaker 1: What do you think it should Skyler cut it off? Or?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 2: Do you think that this is that even that big
Speaker 2: of a deal? I probably, and it's weird. I probably
Speaker 2: am one of those guys that just doesn't notice things.
Speaker 2: I would I would look and think it was just
Speaker 2: a bracelet. I don't think I would look and see
Speaker 2: what it says.
Speaker 3: But when you but when you see initials on it.
Speaker 1: But I probably wouldn't look that close. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I depend on what it looks like, but I I
Speaker 3: feel like I would be curious it's if it's like
Speaker 3: I have bracelets that have words on them and names
Speaker 3: on them, and I guess I would be curious and
Speaker 3: be like, oh, who's that?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: What does that mean?
Speaker 1: Scott? What do you think she shouldn't be in the
Speaker 1: dating scene?
Speaker 3: Because when you asked if if like she met someone
Speaker 3: when she cut it off, she said, no, it'll never happen. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anna said the same thing too. Anna kind of that.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's not over that X in order to be
Speaker 2: out there getting into another relationship.
Speaker 1: What's up, Sarah?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 7: Hey, Alix comment, I'll say that she wouldn't need the
Speaker 7: guy would need to replace it.
Speaker 2: Oh so so if you were dating Alex, you would
Speaker 2: cut it off, but he's got to get.
Speaker 1: You a new one.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it had to look better.
Speaker 2: But if it's gold, maybe she can melt it down.
Speaker 2: Gold'sworth while. What's up, Mackenzie?
Speaker 1: How you doing?
Speaker 4: Hey? Good morning?
Speaker 6: I feel like this has become such a big deal.
Speaker 4: Like the first disagreement or argument they get into, she's
Speaker 4: going to be like.
Speaker 5: Well, I cut my bracelet.
Speaker 1: Off for you, Yeah, right, true?
Speaker 2: Can I ask this question if this was a tattoo,
Speaker 2: would you feel the same way? Alex because tattoos are
Speaker 2: hard to get rid of.
Speaker 5: You know, I think it would be it would be
Speaker 5: a red flag, but it would it wouldn't be as
Speaker 5: big a deal. But as long as she said, you know,
Speaker 5: I'm working on getting rid of.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a quick thing. This is kind of
Speaker 1: like this is the jewelry version of a tattoo.
Speaker 2: What's up, Michelle?
Speaker 1: This is what's going on? Michelle?
Speaker 5: Hello, Hi?
Speaker 1: What do you think?
Speaker 6: At first, I didn't think anything of it, because you know,
Speaker 6: women love jewelry, But the comments that she made, I
Speaker 6: feel like she does.
Speaker 5: Still have feelings for him, you know what I mean,
Speaker 5: like get.
Speaker 6: Rid of the jewelry already.
Speaker 2: Somebody just said, can she just change the letters? Is
Speaker 2: that possible? What do you think about that? Michelle has
Speaker 2: an idea if I mean, yeah.
Speaker 3: If she did that, but I mean it's more symbolic
Speaker 3: with the initials, you know.
Speaker 7: What I mean? Like, yeah, just out of curiosity. When's
Speaker 7: the last time you spoke to your eggs?
Speaker 4: Uh? We haven't spoken in a few months?
Speaker 2: Actually, Okay, so it's been a while, so it wasn't
Speaker 2: like you recently talked to him.
Speaker 1: Maddie. What's up? No, because nobody what do you want
Speaker 1: to say, Maddie.
Speaker 6: I was gonna say, like, no, one logically, even if
Speaker 6: it was a bad or a good breakup, wants to
Speaker 6: wear something they look at every day as a reminder
Speaker 6: if you no longer have it, and then also like
Speaker 6: that she has it to look at it. If that
Speaker 6: was me, I'd be like, oh, I must have done
Speaker 6: something right.
Speaker 4: If I was the ex.
Speaker 6: If they're still wearing something with my name on it
Speaker 6: or my initial.
Speaker 2: I wonder if he listens, wouldn't that be interesting to know?
Speaker 2: And I wonder, do you know, Skyler? Do you know
Speaker 2: if he's got does he wear a bracelet too? Yes?
Speaker 1: So he is he still wearing your bracelet? Do you know?
Speaker 4: As far as I know?
Speaker 1: Yes, not the matching bracelets. That'd be kind of wild.
Speaker 1: But I paid for it. That's I feel like nobody's
Speaker 1: listening to that.
Speaker 2: I paid for it with my own money.
Speaker 3: That's why I wear it.
Speaker 1: We don't care. It's a cute piece of bracelet.
Speaker 3: It's a cute bracelet.
Speaker 2: It costs her some money. Our friend friend from Lucido
Speaker 2: find jewelry. She text in, saying she'll help you get
Speaker 2: rid of the bracelet and find some new ones if
Speaker 2: you want, maybe Alice can buy you one. Who knows,
Speaker 2: maybe if you cared about you that much. Second date update,
Speaker 2: I'm Mojoe on the morning, go home.
Speaker 6: With a on the thirty, go back fro Dad on
Speaker 6: a second date update, and more than roses, this is
Speaker 6: Moji in the morning.
Speaker 2: I find it interesting too when there are people that
Speaker 2: will split with somebody and they will like discard the
Speaker 2: ring that they were wearing for such a long time.
Speaker 2: Like to me, if the ring is a beautiful ring,
Speaker 2: like I would want to keep wearing it for a
Speaker 2: little bit. But I guess there is so much symbolism.
Speaker 2: You think that's weird too.
Speaker 1: No way, I sorry, I was eating my breakfast.
Speaker 2: Oh let me, don't let me in a run.
Speaker 4: One of my exes was a huge sneakerhead, and the
Speaker 4: hardest thing I had to do was get rid of
Speaker 4: all these easies.
Speaker 2: That he bought me.
Speaker 4: But I was like, I cannot be wearing these of
Speaker 4: this man bought them for really?
Speaker 3: See you.
Speaker 1: Not you.
Speaker 3: I don't like easies, but I'd keep the good shoes.
Speaker 3: I would keep the good shoes.
Speaker 1: I don't want to think about him. How quick did
Speaker 1: you get rid of the ring?
Speaker 3: I still have it. My my engagement ring and wedding rings,
Speaker 3: I still have them, and Nah, why would I get
Speaker 3: rid of that. I'm going to make a beautiful piece
Speaker 3: of jewelry for hopefully for Lucy one day that she'll
Speaker 3: want to wear. I mean, I thought about selling it
Speaker 3: and using the money, like to do something, but then
Speaker 3: I'm like, then I would feel weird about whatever it
Speaker 3: is that I'm doing that it came from something so yucky.
Speaker 7: I don't know the reason why I say, see naw,
Speaker 7: is because in my mind it wouldn't even be in
Speaker 7: your possession if I wanted to give you something and
Speaker 7: we're no longer together, or you said notes an engagement
Speaker 7: that ring coming back with.
Speaker 3: Me but see oh but not if you get married.
Speaker 2: But I'm putting that in uck. Quick question, Shannon, when
Speaker 2: did you take.
Speaker 1: The ring off?
Speaker 3: I took it off the day I believe, if I
Speaker 3: remember correctly, I took off the ring the day my
Speaker 3: divorce was final.
Speaker 1: Wow, So you wore it?
Speaker 3: I wore it the whole Yeah, I'm pretty sure I did.
Speaker 1: Wow. That you're repurposing it for Lucy?
Speaker 3: Yeah, because in fact, now that I think about, I
Speaker 3: don't even know where it is. I mean, I have
Speaker 3: it at my house.
Speaker 2: Did any people, because I know you didn't date for
Speaker 2: a long long time after you got divorced, but did
Speaker 2: any people look at it as weird that you were still.
Speaker 1: Wearing the ring even while you were going through a divorce.
Speaker 3: If they did, they didn't say anything to me about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, hold on, Bianca's on the phone. What's up, Bianca?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 5: How are you good?
Speaker 2: We were talking about the uh, you know, the the bracelet.
Speaker 2: But you wanted to make a comment about Xes buying
Speaker 2: you things and keeping the things that the exes buy you.
Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 5: Well, we were together like eight years. He bought me
Speaker 5: like several Louis Vuitton persons.
Speaker 2: And I've contemplated several times and getting rid of them.
Speaker 3: I just can't do not.
Speaker 1: Don't you have them?
Speaker 4: That much?
Speaker 3: Doesn't matter?
Speaker 2: No, No, you keep that stuff, you get rid of it,
Speaker 2: sell them for a lot of money.
Speaker 5: Yes, exactly.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 7: At one point I did throw it like over the gate,
Speaker 7: but then my mom made my son go get it.
Speaker 1: What gay, did you throw it.
Speaker 4: Over over my apartment gate?
Speaker 7: Like we live like behind Hines Park and I just
Speaker 7: tossed it one day?
Speaker 1: Can I tell you something.
Speaker 3: There's a difference between t Anna point shoes, pursues, you know,
Speaker 3: a sweatshirt and jewelry with your initials together on it.
Speaker 3: There's a difference.
Speaker 1: What's up, Claire, how you doing?
Speaker 4: Hy?
Speaker 1: Good morning, guys, Good morning.
Speaker 4: I was calling about the second date update and holding
Speaker 4: on to jewelry. I still have my forty five hundred
Speaker 4: dollars engagement ring that he let me keep and I
Speaker 4: still wear it so that guys will stay away from
Speaker 4: me because I don't like the attention. But I do
Speaker 4: have a gentleman that I'm talking to that doesn't really
Speaker 4: care because he knows I'm wearing it because it's pretty.
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, you know what I think.
Speaker 2: I think guys need to be strong, stronger with who
Speaker 2: they are and be like, I don't care what you wear,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like what if the guy
Speaker 2: what if a guy bought you a car, would you
Speaker 2: not want them to drive the car that he bought
Speaker 2: you as long as you're not, you know, uh, letting
Speaker 2: that guy still make payments to your Huh?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
Speaker 7: We're not gonna act like men I quote unquote insecure
Speaker 7: beings out here. It's a lot of women.
Speaker 4: When she was wearing the little jewels, I think that's
Speaker 4: a little bit much.
Speaker 1: But but keV but predominantly.
Speaker 4: What they want as long as they have an understanding
Speaker 4: of what's going on.
Speaker 2: If a guy were to be wearing like say, for instance,
Speaker 2: Chelsea bought me a love break or a love ring
Speaker 2: back in the day, it doesn't fit me anymore.
Speaker 1: My fingers are fat.
Speaker 2: And but if she brought me that, and if I
Speaker 2: went out on the dating scene wearing it, would I
Speaker 2: would I even have to explain it.
Speaker 1: I could say my mom bought it for me.
Speaker 7: I'm just saying I've been in relationships where a girl
Speaker 7: bought me what do you call those things where you
Speaker 7: could have it initial and you have like cups with
Speaker 7: your starting to see I feel like you put your
Speaker 7: alcohol in it, you know what I'm saying, something to
Speaker 7: that effect, where it was engraved and boss whatever you say.
Speaker 7: She came over and there was like, wow, where'd you
Speaker 7: get that? And I was like, well, my ex or
Speaker 7: so bunch, You're like, uh huh. First thing we doing
Speaker 7: is getting.
Speaker 1: Rid of that. Yeah.
Speaker 7: They don't want the evens either. I'll be trying to
Speaker 7: sit up here act like y'all don't.
Speaker 3: No, I agree, all right, cool, I'm trying to think
Speaker 3: of what word you are trying to think of.
Speaker 7: Yeah, me too, Sorry to see you so and I'll
Speaker 7: figure out listen later. I'll just randomly yell out the
Speaker 7: world no,