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Speaker 1: I've a ninety three three flz. It's the Joe Show,

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Speaker 1: and I, you know, I want to talk about saving

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Speaker 1: money and how you saved money. What was that thing

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Speaker 1: that you did that you believe you're a financial genius

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Speaker 1: because of it, I am preparing and planning and officially

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Speaker 1: can say now that my wedding is a year away.

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Speaker 1: So we're getting married in December of next year. And

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Speaker 1: Alyssa and I gave us a lot of time. You know,

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Speaker 1: people have said, wow, you guys are waiting a long

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Speaker 1: time to get married, But we're doing that because we've

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Speaker 1: got to save money, right, We got to budget and

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Speaker 1: weddings it costs a lot of money. So along with

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Speaker 1: giving us a lot of time to save, we've gone

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Speaker 1: through kind of the checklist of like, well do we

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Speaker 1: really need that and one that Alyssa says we need,

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Speaker 1: we're doing it. We're not going to cut corners on

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Speaker 1: is the wedding invitation? Her uncle, though, has me thinking

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Speaker 1: we don't need to send them out. Her uncle sent

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Speaker 1: a text message to everyone created a group chat as

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Speaker 1: his wedding invitation.

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Speaker 2: God, that sounds annoying. Why is that annoying? A group chat?

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Speaker 1: It said, Hey, get married in August. It's at blank

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Speaker 1: see you there. I'm texting you because I love you.

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Speaker 1: I'll see you there. I think that that is.

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Speaker 2: Do you know how much? I think that's a terrible idea.

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Speaker 2: That's how much invitations cost.

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Speaker 3: I don't, But you know what you're getting, mirror. You

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Speaker 3: got to factor into your budget. Figure it out well.

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Speaker 3: I guess you won't be getting coffee every morning.

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Speaker 1: Eight hundred and four of nine ninety three ninety three.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't just have to be weddings. I want to

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Speaker 1: know how are you cutting corners and saving? What is

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Speaker 1: that big thing that you are doing? And if you

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Speaker 1: bring up me ni getting coffee, I'm walking out.

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Speaker 2: I'm never coming. I know your fiance's listening. I tell

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Speaker 2: them every day coffee in the building. The coffee in

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Speaker 2: the building is jail coffee.

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Speaker 1: I've never been to jail, but I'd like to assume

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Speaker 1: that in jail it probably taste even better. Why do

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Speaker 1: you got what the wedding invitations are? What for the refrigerator?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I have all my friends, I have their wedding invitations. Still,

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Speaker 3: I also have the baby shower invitations. I keep things

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Speaker 3: like that, but I also keep a bitcheraryes too. So

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Speaker 3: I think your wedding invitation and you guys took great pictures.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you put that off.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, Joe, do they have to be paper invitations

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Speaker 4: because my brother and sister in law when they got

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Speaker 4: married by cost money. The electronic ones pay for that.

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Speaker 4: But how but how much is it? Is it relatively

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Speaker 4: the same what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying, hey, if we're cutting the corners on that,

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Speaker 1: we're trying to cut costs, why not just get rid

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Speaker 1: of it completely? Because also what it does too is

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Speaker 1: is like it really does create the guestless or it

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Speaker 1: doesn't create it makes the guestless even smaller than what

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Speaker 1: it is.

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Speaker 5: Because if I don't have your number, but I don't like,

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Speaker 5: I have an idea, Joe, lightbulb just went off in

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Speaker 5: my head. What if you just started a Facebook group,

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Speaker 5: just started a private like a private Facebook group, and.

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Speaker 2: Not everybody uses their Facebook.

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Speaker 3: I know you have uncles and aunts I probably don't

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Speaker 3: use or don't frequent face.

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Speaker 2: Perfect, No, you missed it. I sent you and I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: And those people that you miss send it an invitation

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Speaker 3: to and they're going to come and get you a

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Speaker 3: great gift.

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Speaker 2: I think that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, those old traditional people who enjoy getting invitations, those

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Speaker 3: are the ones that are going to come and you know,

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Speaker 3: show out and show up.

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Speaker 1: Hey Trish, yes, sir, Hi, do you do you cut corners?

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Speaker 1: And do you do you always try to find like

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Speaker 1: the good deal and save a lot?

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Speaker 6: Well, actually, we are getting married and we decided that

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Speaker 6: we're not doing any brides maids or groups and save money,

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Speaker 6: stave decision making.

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Speaker 2: We're doing that as well, also to save from drama.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, yeah about you, Alyssa.

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Speaker 1: Well, and that's what I'm realizing, Trishan maybe you're realizing

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Speaker 1: this as well. Is everyone says it's about us, but

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Speaker 1: then they make it about themselves.

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Speaker 2: Why is that?

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Speaker 6: Because people are selfish? But you be selfish. That's today,

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Speaker 6: you are allowed to be selfish.

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Speaker 1: That's what I say. Why is Jed being so selfish?

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Speaker 1: And why is he requesting that we have baby back

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Speaker 1: ribs at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: I'm tired of you requesting.

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Speaker 6: Request that he builds himself a bridge.

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Speaker 2: That's what I say.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Trish, love you and congratulations as always. Melissa, Hey, hi,

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Speaker 1: this is a big way to save money you are

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Speaker 1: now doing your own nails.

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Speaker 7: Yes, if you're my own nails and my own hair now,

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Speaker 7: so TikTok a ticky talk. He has definitely been very

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Speaker 7: helpful in learning how to do like gel nails and yep, so,

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Speaker 7: but they're not as like sturdy, so I have to

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Speaker 7: I have to use my nails. My nails are very important.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, I started doing like builder gel nails, and

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Speaker 7: I got myself this whole little system, and my steps

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Speaker 7: left me like three weeks now. And you know how

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Speaker 7: much it costs every time you go choose a.

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Speaker 1: Nail salon I but Jed doesn't tell Jed how much

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Speaker 1: it costs.

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Speaker 7: So just for something basic, which I'm pretty basic, I

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Speaker 7: just want to have pretty hands. I don't need like

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Speaker 7: all the different designs and stuff. Something basic is like

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Speaker 7: eighty dollars, not including your tip, and that's sometimes every

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Speaker 7: two weeks, depending on how long they can laugh because

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Speaker 7: you know, you can go and have someone do your

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Speaker 7: nails and walk out of there not happy. And that's

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Speaker 7: another one of the reasons I started doing my own,

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Speaker 7: because you know, I've I've always been like, well, there's

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Speaker 7: something wrong with this nail, and I'm not happy. Da dada.

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Speaker 7: So now. I just did my own nails for whatever

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Speaker 7: it costs the products, and I can only be mad

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Speaker 7: at myself, like if I mess up, I.

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Speaker 1: Can only you don't do it anymore because of that,

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Speaker 1: Jed and I don't go anymore because they would slap

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Speaker 1: our hands.

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Speaker 2: They go no bye, no bye, come on, Really I

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Speaker 2: bite when I'm nervous. Thank you, Melissa. Last one, Terry, Hi,

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Speaker 2: how are you?

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Speaker 1: Life is good when I'm talking to Terry, That's what

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Speaker 1: I say, Terry. You purchased invitations off of Amazon?

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Speaker 6: I did. I did for my daughter's wedding.

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Speaker 7: Yes, we're planning a wedding for March. And just I've

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Speaker 7: been following you guys for a long time.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 7: I'm a pre set uh and I do listen to

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Speaker 7: the podcast. I just want you guys to.

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Speaker 2: Know that, Oh my god, are you trying to make

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Speaker 2: love with me right now? Because I want to make

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Speaker 2: love with you right now.

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Speaker 7: I got through to you guys one other time during

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Speaker 7: Ian's down here in Northport.

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Speaker 2: I spoke to you guys.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, the invitation, she is the most extensive thing

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Speaker 7: I have to say. Were the stamps actually really?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well I'm taking notes, Terry, you and I might

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Speaker 1: have to talk off the air and figure out some

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Speaker 1: different things that we're doing as well. I figured out

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Speaker 1: a couple of things, but best of luck with planning

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Speaker 1: that wedding. Tell your daughter we say hi and congratulations

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Speaker 1: and we've only talked a couple of times, but call

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Speaker 1: them more often.

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Love you, love you so much. Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: love you. I want to talk about that next. Can

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Speaker 1: I talk about that next?

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Speaker 2: Real quick? I want to talk about that next.