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Speaker 1: right away. Hi, Lauren, are you there? Hi? Yes, I'm
Speaker 1: rereading your DM because I always like to. I like
Speaker 1: to figure out if somebody actually got ghosted on, or
Speaker 1: if there's a backpedal or just a stoppage of communication.
Speaker 1: But you got fully ghosted, right fully ghosted. Okay, let's
Speaker 1: talk about Chris. What did you guys do?
Speaker 2: We went to get drinks Cody Little Spot, super fun.
Speaker 2: It was really relaxed, I mean, just like great energy
Speaker 2: in general. Everything felt like how did I just like
Speaker 2: the vibes are right, And we talked about our favorite shows,
Speaker 2: what our idea weekends where everything just seemed really aligned.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was feeling really optimistic about it, and then I
Speaker 2: never heard from him.
Speaker 1: Were your ideal weekends? Congruent. Like I know, sometimes a
Speaker 1: somebody who's like I want to go out and do
Speaker 1: stuff can't be compatible with someone who doesn't want to
Speaker 1: leave the couch. And those those people either that or
Speaker 1: they end up getting married. There is no in between.
Speaker 2: I felt like they were really in connection with each other.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's see what happened. Let's call Chris and figure
Speaker 1: out why he ghosted on you. Okay, go ahead and
Speaker 1: mute your phone and let's give him a shout. All right,
Speaker 1: here we go. You can listen in.
Speaker 3: Hello is Chris, Yeah speaking, Hey Chris.
Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three from
Speaker 1: the morning show. Good morning.
Speaker 3: I already know why you're calling. Oh shoot, you might
Speaker 3: as well just bring Lauren on.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Hi Lauren? Are you there?
Speaker 2: Hira?
Speaker 1: Chris? Is this where you tell me you listen every
Speaker 1: morning that you were listening right now?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know it's a long time listening, first time
Speaker 3: on the radio.
Speaker 1: Here we are, so you already know why we're here.
Speaker 1: I mean, let's get right to it. Did you ghost
Speaker 1: Lauren after your date?
Speaker 3: Yeah? It was just a weird date, Like it started
Speaker 3: off fine, but then she said something that kind of
Speaker 3: caught me off guard. Okay, she started going all into
Speaker 3: this astrology stuff and it's just such a waste of time.
Speaker 3: And she's like, what day were you born? What time?
Speaker 3: And I don't know what time I was born. She
Speaker 3: thought that was completely crazy, and I was like, this
Speaker 3: is not out of years.
Speaker 1: I don't understand.
Speaker 3: She was putting it into an app and then asking
Speaker 3: me a specific questions, saying that she didn't want to
Speaker 3: waste quote unquote emotional energy.
Speaker 1: Okay, you guys, are you compatible?
Speaker 3: She said, but for me, it's a zero.
Speaker 1: Let's go to Lauren real quick. Lauren, what did the
Speaker 1: app say?
Speaker 3: The AB said that.
Speaker 2: We were mostly compatible, like he said, but he left
Speaker 2: out the part that said our communication we would struggle
Speaker 2: with and so I try to have a conversation about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, and Chris, how did this make you feel?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I don't know. Like you're reading something off
Speaker 3: of like a newspaper mobile app telling me about like
Speaker 3: you're gonna have a great day, you're beware of people today.
Speaker 3: It's just bonkers to me, Like I'm an adult with
Speaker 3: adult interest and like, also, like there's another thing that
Speaker 3: happened on the date a lot, which was like, okay,
Speaker 3: she kept like straightening my napkins, moving my glass lined
Speaker 3: up with the coaster, and uh.
Speaker 1: I mean like physically it just yeah.
Speaker 3: Like she physically reach over and move stuff on my
Speaker 3: side of the table, which just felt like, I don't know,
Speaker 3: I was quietly being judged or evaluated, And that doesn't
Speaker 3: really feel like a day. That feels like I'm in
Speaker 3: my boss's office getting put on a performance improvement plan,
Speaker 3: which isn't a very fun feeling.
Speaker 1: Lauren, what was the deal with that?
Speaker 2: I was just trying to make sure things were balanced.
Speaker 2: I thought it showed that I cared and I was interested.
Speaker 2: It bothers me. Things are crooked. I'm sorry you could
Speaker 2: have said something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know when I said I wasn't really
Speaker 3: a horoscope. You just insisted, so it was either your
Speaker 3: way or the highway at that point. And you know,
Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to get a picksliff immediately, so I
Speaker 3: just figured i'd be polite.
Speaker 1: So I'm starting to see why this isn't a match