WEBVTT - So…What Happened Between Chris & Lauren?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning time once again for second

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<v Speaker 1>the San Francisco Peninsula dot com. Let's bring Lauren on

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<v Speaker 1>right away. Hi, Lauren, are you there? Hi? Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>rereading your DM because I always like to. I like

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out if somebody actually got ghosted on, or

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a backpedal or just a stoppage of communication.

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<v Speaker 1>But you got fully ghosted, right fully ghosted. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Chris. What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 2>We went to get drinks Cody Little Spot, super fun.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really relaxed, I mean, just like great energy

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<v Speaker 2>in general. Everything felt like how did I just like

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<v Speaker 2>the vibes are right, And we talked about our favorite shows,

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<v Speaker 2>what our idea weekends where everything just seemed really aligned.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling really optimistic about it, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>never heard from him.

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<v Speaker 1>Were your ideal weekends? Congruent. Like I know, sometimes a

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who's like I want to go out and do

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<v Speaker 1>stuff can't be compatible with someone who doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>leave the couch. And those those people either that or

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<v Speaker 1>they end up getting married. There is no in between.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like they were really in connection with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see what happened. Let's call Chris and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why he ghosted on you. Okay, go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>mute your phone and let's give him a shout. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. You can listen in.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello is Chris, Yeah speaking, Hey Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three from

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<v Speaker 1>the morning show. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I already know why you're calling. Oh shoot, you might

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<v Speaker 3>as well just bring Lauren on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Hi Lauren? Are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Hira?

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<v Speaker 1>Chris? Is this where you tell me you listen every

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<v Speaker 1>morning that you were listening right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know it's a long time listening, first time

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<v Speaker 3>on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we are, so you already know why we're here.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's get right to it. Did you ghost

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren after your date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? It was just a weird date, Like it started

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<v Speaker 3>off fine, but then she said something that kind of

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<v Speaker 3>caught me off guard. Okay, she started going all into

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<v Speaker 3>this astrology stuff and it's just such a waste of time.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's like, what day were you born? What time?

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know what time I was born. She

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<v Speaker 3>thought that was completely crazy, and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 3>is not out of years.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>She was putting it into an app and then asking

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<v Speaker 3>me a specific questions, saying that she didn't want to

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<v Speaker 3>waste quote unquote emotional energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you guys, are you compatible?

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<v Speaker 3>She said, but for me, it's a zero.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to Lauren real quick. Lauren, what did the

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<v Speaker 1>app say?

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<v Speaker 3>The AB said that.

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<v Speaker 2>We were mostly compatible, like he said, but he left

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<v Speaker 2>out the part that said our communication we would struggle

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<v Speaker 2>with and so I try to have a conversation about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and Chris, how did this make you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yeah, I don't know. Like you're reading something off

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<v Speaker 3>of like a newspaper mobile app telling me about like

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna have a great day, you're beware of people today.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just bonkers to me, Like I'm an adult with

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<v Speaker 3>adult interest and like, also, like there's another thing that

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<v Speaker 3>happened on the date a lot, which was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>she kept like straightening my napkins, moving my glass lined

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<v Speaker 3>up with the coaster, and uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like physically it just yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like she physically reach over and move stuff on my

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<v Speaker 3>side of the table, which just felt like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I was quietly being judged or evaluated, And that doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>really feel like a day. That feels like I'm in

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<v Speaker 3>my boss's office getting put on a performance improvement plan,

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<v Speaker 3>which isn't a very fun feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren, what was the deal with that?

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<v Speaker 2>I was just trying to make sure things were balanced.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it showed that I cared and I was interested.

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<v Speaker 2>It bothers me. Things are crooked. I'm sorry you could

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<v Speaker 2>have said something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know when I said I wasn't really

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<v Speaker 3>a horoscope. You just insisted, so it was either your

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<v Speaker 3>way or the highway at that point. And you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't trying to get a picksliff immediately, so I

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<v Speaker 3>just figured i'd be polite.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm starting to see why this isn't a match