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Speaker 1: It's the second date update, Mojo in the Morning, Second
Speaker 1: date update. Why are you not getting a call after
Speaker 1: you went on a date? Maddie is getting ghosted? And
Speaker 1: their date was a trip? Where did you guys go
Speaker 1: on your trip? Maddie? Can you hear me, Maddie? Maddie, Maddie?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 2: Oh there? Did you mute the button with your face?
Speaker 2: I do that all the time.
Speaker 3: I didn't even know it was here.
Speaker 4: Oh, we met on a cruise, so I guess our
Speaker 4: date was both the cruise.
Speaker 2: But then he slew me to Chicago.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, so you wait, So you met on a cruise,
Speaker 1: but then your date was the you guys decided to
Speaker 1: go take a weekend or a day or two, I
Speaker 1: don't know how long to Chicago.
Speaker 4: Well, he flew me to Chicago and put me up
Speaker 4: in a hotel.
Speaker 5: So he lives in Chicago.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hit it off.
Speaker 1: Okay, And now after your time together, he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back.
Speaker 3: What was that?
Speaker 1: What was the goodbye that you guys said to each
Speaker 1: other or the last time that you guys text with
Speaker 1: each other.
Speaker 2: What was it about?
Speaker 4: I mean, before I went to the airport, we kissed
Speaker 4: goodbye and like seemed fine.
Speaker 2: Like we hung out that weekend and then I don't know,
Speaker 2: haven't heard from him. Didn't ask me if I got
Speaker 2: home or anything.
Speaker 1: He didn't even check and see if you got home.
Speaker 1: John is his name? Say hello to John?
Speaker 3: Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Guys, Maddie, Say hi to John?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 2: John.
Speaker 1: You didn't even check to make sure that she was home.
Speaker 1: Kind of a gentleman, are you, John?
Speaker 3: I'm I'm fine, I'm gentleman wise, but no, I'm good.
Speaker 2: He checked the flat info.
Speaker 5: You're you're good? Like you're good? How do you know that?
Speaker 5: Before you hear her voice say okay?
Speaker 2: But you couldn't even respond back to her tacks.
Speaker 3: No, I'm you know, I'm kind of I'm over it.
Speaker 2: How was Chicago though? Did you guys have fun?
Speaker 3: I mean, we had an okay time. She just honestly
Speaker 3: wanted to come and do all the tourist stuff and
Speaker 3: that was that was it. You know, I was open
Speaker 3: for a good time, but good time.
Speaker 2: I'm a tourist.
Speaker 3: I've never been there, but yeah, but I didn't foy.
Speaker 3: You have to be a tourist.
Speaker 6: What what what did you But you flew her out
Speaker 6: to spend time, and you guys spent time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean like a great time on the cruise.
Speaker 3: Flew her out, Sure, a good time, you know, hook up,
Speaker 3: But we didn't even hook up.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what you wanted.
Speaker 1: So John, your intention of fly eyeing her to Chicago
Speaker 1: and spending time with her in Chicago was that time
Speaker 1: was going to be spent with clothes off.
Speaker 2: You want.
Speaker 1: I wanted to see the bean. You didn't want to
Speaker 1: walk around the windy city. You wanted to enjoy a
Speaker 1: hotel room together and just have fun.
Speaker 3: I mean exactly. I thought that was kind of clear
Speaker 3: when I paid for all your stuff to come that here.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, how was it clear? Using your credit
Speaker 4: card to pay for a flight? That made it clear
Speaker 4: that all you wanted was to have sex.
Speaker 5: And I known that I.
Speaker 3: All I wanted, but definitely, well.
Speaker 5: Well, you make it actually clear.
Speaker 4: I just wouldn't have come.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, is that all you were looking for or
Speaker 6: you were hoping that that was going to be part
Speaker 6: of the weekend?
Speaker 3: No, like we were gonna chill, come hang out on
Speaker 3: my at a hang out at my house and hang out.
Speaker 3: Did you have plans to like take her out to
Speaker 3: dinner or anything, or did you just want her in
Speaker 3: your house? We were going to go out to dinner,
Speaker 3: but like, I didn't want to be super public with
Speaker 3: someone I barely know yet.
Speaker 2: So so we're around the area, so.
Speaker 1: You're kind of known. You're not listen. I've been to Chicago.
Speaker 1: I grew up in Chicago. I don't know who the
Speaker 1: hell you are, John, Who are you in the area.
Speaker 1: I'm in the area.
Speaker 3: You can go to a different area.
Speaker 1: John, Can I can? I can? I just say this
Speaker 1: to you? It sounds to me and maybe I'm wrong,
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm crazy. Maybe people should have realized Maddie should
Speaker 1: realize if the guy's finding you to go to another city,
Speaker 1: maybe you know he's only out for one thing. It
Speaker 1: sounds to me, though, that that her intention was. She
Speaker 1: just wanted to spend time with you and that build
Speaker 1: a relationship and eventually that could be something that you
Speaker 1: guys do.
Speaker 2: Yes, she's not effing on the cruise or did you
Speaker 2: did you did y'all fool around on the cruise?
Speaker 1: She said no, no, no, In Maddie, you weren't going
Speaker 1: to fool around in Chicago because why.
Speaker 2: Because I don't know him? Why would I?
Speaker 1: Okay, exactly, okay, why would Why would you go to.
Speaker 7: Him?
Speaker 2: Bro?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know why. He thought we were staying
Speaker 5: at his house.
Speaker 2: He put me up in a hotel.
Speaker 3: Yes, why would hang out? Come? Hang out, chill at
Speaker 3: the house?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I put you in the hotel for a reason.
Speaker 8: I think there are too so you put no, Bro,
Speaker 8: we got it all right? Hold on for a second.
Speaker 8: I think there are two different ways of looking at it,
Speaker 8: and one thought process. The reason why I brought you
Speaker 8: here was to half six with you, and that's clear,
Speaker 8: and you should have known at the moment you booked
Speaker 8: the flame on the other way going being flown out,
Speaker 8: fluid out to get to know someone, I think is
Speaker 8: the wrong way to go about it. If you were
Speaker 8: trying to get to know him, then why don't y'all
Speaker 8: have conversations or face time before you.
Speaker 2: Just to go to Chicago?
Speaker 5: But I'm assuming they did.
Speaker 2: Were you, Maddie having conversations?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean we were chatting.
Speaker 4: We were chatting, And I didn't book the flight, I
Speaker 4: didn't pay I didn't book the hotel.
Speaker 1: Right, that's why he expected Maddie, Can I can I
Speaker 1: give you?
Speaker 4: You can't expect it?
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, it's in Norse, Should he be expecting it?
Speaker 6: If they did on the cruise was hook up, this
Speaker 6: would be a very different conversation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, can I can I give you a piece of advice?
Speaker 1: And this is after the fact, And this is for
Speaker 1: any woman or guy that doesn't want to be feeling
Speaker 1: like they're being taken advantage of. You want them on
Speaker 1: your home turf, you make him come to see you,
Speaker 1: you don't go to see him.
Speaker 2: I hate to say this, I mean, that was a
Speaker 2: bad decison. I don't know.
Speaker 6: I would agree with her of like I think she
Speaker 6: probably as I would in this situation, have the hope
Speaker 6: of like something starting, and then I would But I
Speaker 6: would think myself, Okay, he's putting me in a hotel,
Speaker 6: so that negates the uncomfortability of staying in his house. Yeah,
Speaker 6: because for sure I wouldn't do that. But the fact
Speaker 6: that I had my own space, my own hotel, ROO
Speaker 6: might be like, Okay, so this.
Speaker 2: Goes fly you out just to have a time to
Speaker 2: get to know you.
Speaker 6: But if one thing led to another, okay, but now
Speaker 6: I'm hearing the sole purposes he just wanted to have
Speaker 6: sex all weekend.
Speaker 2: Hey, Amanda, would you want to say I'm hoping that
Speaker 2: it's more than that.
Speaker 6: This guy's making me so happy that I'm married and
Speaker 6: I'm not in the.
Speaker 5: Dating pool because he just sounds.
Speaker 6: Like a d bag who acts like this, like whos.
Speaker 5: I would never, ever, in a million years want to
Speaker 5: come off as this kind of person.
Speaker 3: One.
Speaker 6: The only reason I'm going to fly you out is
Speaker 6: just to sleep with you.
Speaker 5: Gross find somebody else, bro girl, move.
Speaker 2: On, Thanks Amanda, Alicia, what's up?
Speaker 7: Hi?
Speaker 5: Hi guys.
Speaker 6: I don't know if I missed this, but they say
Speaker 6: they hooked.
Speaker 1: Up on the cruise.
Speaker 9: He did not know No, Okay, so yeah, this guy
Speaker 9: I agree with the last card. This guy is a
Speaker 9: complete coos.
Speaker 6: Like you cannot just swipe a credit card.
Speaker 3: It's like it's not a prostitute.
Speaker 4: Just because you swipe your card mean you get sex.
Speaker 9: If you wanted to bring her out there just for sex,
Speaker 9: you should have made it clear, Like she said, she
Speaker 9: wouldn't have came.
Speaker 2: Maybe just got higher standards than you.
Speaker 6: Maybe she wanted to come and get to know you movie.
Speaker 3: She could have went somewhere.
Speaker 7: But I think she dodged a bullet by now hooking
Speaker 7: up with this blother and she got to go to
Speaker 7: see Chicago.
Speaker 6: So good for her.
Speaker 2: Thank you for the call.
Speaker 6: Ron.
Speaker 2: Let's get a guy's perspective. What's up, Ron, what's going
Speaker 2: on y'all doing? We're doing? Okay?
Speaker 9: I mean you already know I'm gonna keep it really
Speaker 9: with you now listen. I don't think dude is kind
Speaker 9: of cool, how like abrasive and how brashy being a body.
Speaker 9: But at the end of the day, imagine being a
Speaker 9: dude stuck on the cruise with a girl y'all sleeping
Speaker 9: in the same big going.
Speaker 1: On that the story they met on a cruise, they
Speaker 1: did not sleep together and cruise met on.
Speaker 9: The cree Well, I mean, at the end of the day,
Speaker 9: if you getting flown out and all that stuff like that,
Speaker 9: come on, man, we know what comedy is. A little
Speaker 9: something something, a little section, a little love, you know,
Speaker 9: just like how man, maybe.
Speaker 7: If he played his cards right, she would have gave
Speaker 7: him a little love, take her to take her out
Speaker 7: to dinner.
Speaker 2: Then maybe she wanted to kiss.
Speaker 1: By the way, the bean is so overrated. Why are
Speaker 1: people going to for a lot more than a bean.
Speaker 9: Okay, take her somewhere, and that's all him because he
Speaker 9: sounds like he just wanted to be laid up and
Speaker 9: the cut. You know what I'm saying, just doing whatever
Speaker 9: instead of showing her a good time and accompany with
Speaker 9: the expectations.
Speaker 1: As a guy and as a father of boys, if
Speaker 1: my sons thought that they could just fly somebody out
Speaker 1: just to bang them, that would that would discuss me,
Speaker 1: and I as a guy, would never listen.
Speaker 2: I'd want to have sex, and.
Speaker 1: I'd be bummed, but it would make me go Okay,
Speaker 1: if I see a future, then I'll continue to go
Speaker 1: with this because I'm thinking it's going to happen. But
Speaker 1: just the assumption that I'm gonna put her in a
Speaker 1: hotel room and we're gonna be you know, having sex
Speaker 1: is to me.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't like it as a guy.
Speaker 8: With sons though, you're you're telling your sons to fly
Speaker 8: somebody out that they met on a cruise.
Speaker 1: If my sons do that, I would tell them the
Speaker 1: same thing I would. I would say, your turf home, turf.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want you going somewhere. But as if I
Speaker 1: had a daughter, for damn sure, I'm not having her
Speaker 1: go to Chicago to go see this guy. What's up, Brianna,
Speaker 1: how you doing good?
Speaker 9: I was?
Speaker 7: I have a comment. I feel like sometimes the expectations,
Speaker 7: like you, females oftentimes they will have very circasious conversations
Speaker 7: with me and send news and then they'll get flewn
Speaker 7: out and they're like, Okay, what am I supposed to
Speaker 7: be doing? We're not gonna have sex. But it's like, yeah,
Speaker 7: but you've been sending broad picked bikini pigs like. I
Speaker 7: feel like sometimes females do things where they say that
Speaker 7: they're going to sleep with them but don't say the words,
Speaker 7: and then surprised when they hold back. It's like, well,
Speaker 7: why are you saying doing certain things and doing certain
Speaker 7: things because the expectations are completely different.
Speaker 5: But is that the case here?
Speaker 2: Let's ask her, Maddie. Was that the case? Did you
Speaker 2: guys share naked?
Speaker 9: And so now.
Speaker 4: It is.
Speaker 8: I'm not one of them people that go it's twenty
Speaker 8: twenty six. There is a shift in culture. If you
Speaker 8: are getting flown out, it's coming with the mentality that
Speaker 8: we're going to do something. Nobody's just flying somebody out
Speaker 8: and showing you a good time unless they like one
Speaker 8: of them. Simi you Panny's only fans type of people.
Speaker 8: If you're flying somebody out, you're thinking you're going to
Speaker 8: have sex. Christal's the way the world is thinking right now. Crystal,
Speaker 8: please add some knowledge to this.
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts?
Speaker 8: My thing is this?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: I'm sorry I have to agree with keV on this.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know how old these people are,
Speaker 7: but they sound like they're.
Speaker 2: At least thirty. So nod Maddy. How old are you?
Speaker 2: I'm twenty six? You know what's going on?
Speaker 7: What you steal?
Speaker 9: Come on, now, you know what it means to be
Speaker 9: flown out?
Speaker 2: That means I'm paying.
Speaker 1: For your Where are you going this weekend? You will mean, Crystal,
Speaker 1: let's where are we going this weekend? Let's fly We're
Speaker 1: gonna fly you out because we're.
Speaker 5: Gonna get where's that thing? And Anna said this earlier.
Speaker 6: If everything is going well, yeah, I think both parties
Speaker 6: want that to be a part of it. But if
Speaker 6: there's no groundwork to that, like steps to that happening,
Speaker 6: and it doesn't happen, well, you assumed the risk by
Speaker 6: plopping down your credit card.
Speaker 3: Girls, grow up and you know what this is about.
Speaker 2: And if you don't, if you're not that way, then
Speaker 2: don't go.
Speaker 7: Just say hey, let's get to know each other, let's
Speaker 7: talk some more, let's whatever.
Speaker 6: But I think they spent a week on a cruise
Speaker 6: and time chatting and facetiming, so they did get to
Speaker 6: know each other, and she went out there with the
Speaker 6: hopes that something would start. I'm sure she went out
Speaker 6: there with the hopes that like it would get to
Speaker 6: that point.
Speaker 5: But it doesn't sound like they're a match to begin with.
Speaker 2: Gabby, what do you want to say? Hi?
Speaker 8: I just wanted to say that it kind of seems
Speaker 8: like you're damn if you sleep, damn if you don't.
Speaker 2: That is true.
Speaker 1: If she sleeps with them, she and doesn't get a
Speaker 1: call back, she's a hoe because she slept with them.
Speaker 1: If she doesn't sleep with them, now people are like,
Speaker 1: you got fluid out, you know what I mean? Just
Speaker 1: don't go now, Listen.
Speaker 7: His actions are more condemnical than her not sleeping.
Speaker 1: Amen.
Speaker 2: She don't want to win, So it's I'm confused. Here's
Speaker 2: the deal. His intentions are the thing that we're talking
Speaker 2: about here right now.
Speaker 8: Exactly, And I don't think she should be absolved of
Speaker 8: her place in this decision making process that we're trying to.
Speaker 2: I hope she put a lot of room service on
Speaker 2: that room. Let's just put it that way.
Speaker 7: I don't.
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