WEBVTT - Second Date Update: He Flewed Her Out 

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<v Speaker 1>Can you give me another Mitsu in the Morning commercial.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want another Mitsu in the Morning commercial.

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<v Speaker 2>Shout, all right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update, Mojo in the Morning, Second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Why are you not getting a call after

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<v Speaker 1>you went on a date? Maddie is getting ghosted? And

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<v Speaker 1>their date was a trip? Where did you guys go

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<v Speaker 1>on your trip? Maddie? Can you hear me, Maddie? Maddie, Maddie?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh there? Did you mute the button with your face?

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<v Speaker 2>I do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even know it was here.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, we met on a cruise, so I guess our

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<v Speaker 4>date was both the cruise.

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<v Speaker 2>But then he slew me to Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, so you wait, So you met on a cruise,

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<v Speaker 1>but then your date was the you guys decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go take a weekend or a day or two, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how long to Chicago.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, he flew me to Chicago and put me up

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<v Speaker 4>in a hotel.

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<v Speaker 5>So he lives in Chicago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And now after your time together, he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back.

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<v Speaker 3>What was that?

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<v Speaker 1>What was the goodbye that you guys said to each

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<v Speaker 1>other or the last time that you guys text with

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<v Speaker 1>each other.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it about?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, before I went to the airport, we kissed

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<v Speaker 4>goodbye and like seemed fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we hung out that weekend and then I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>haven't heard from him. Didn't ask me if I got

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<v Speaker 2>home or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't even check and see if you got home.

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<v Speaker 1>John is his name? Say hello to John?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, Maddie, Say hi to John?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>John.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't even check to make sure that she was home.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of a gentleman, are you, John?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm fine, I'm gentleman wise, but no, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>He checked the flat info.

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<v Speaker 5>You're you're good? Like you're good? How do you know that?

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<v Speaker 5>Before you hear her voice say okay?

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<v Speaker 2>But you couldn't even respond back to her tacks.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm you know, I'm kind of I'm over it.

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<v Speaker 2>How was Chicago though? Did you guys have fun?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we had an okay time. She just honestly

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to come and do all the tourist stuff and

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<v Speaker 3>that was that was it. You know, I was open

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<v Speaker 3>for a good time, but good time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a tourist.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never been there, but yeah, but I didn't foy.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to be a tourist.

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<v Speaker 6>What what what did you But you flew her out

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<v Speaker 6>to spend time, and you guys spent time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean like a great time on the cruise.

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<v Speaker 3>Flew her out, Sure, a good time, you know, hook up,

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<v Speaker 3>But we didn't even hook up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what you wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>So John, your intention of fly eyeing her to Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>and spending time with her in Chicago was that time

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be spent with clothes off.

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<v Speaker 2>You want.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to see the bean. You didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>walk around the windy city. You wanted to enjoy a

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room together and just have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean exactly. I thought that was kind of clear

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<v Speaker 3>when I paid for all your stuff to come that here.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, how was it clear? Using your credit

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<v Speaker 4>card to pay for a flight? That made it clear

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<v Speaker 4>that all you wanted was to have sex.

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<v Speaker 5>And I known that I.

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<v Speaker 3>All I wanted, but definitely, well.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you make it actually clear.

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<v Speaker 4>I just wouldn't have come.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Well, is that all you were looking for or

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<v Speaker 6>you were hoping that that was going to be part

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<v Speaker 6>of the weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>No, like we were gonna chill, come hang out on

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<v Speaker 3>my at a hang out at my house and hang out.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you have plans to like take her out to

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<v Speaker 3>dinner or anything, or did you just want her in

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<v Speaker 3>your house? We were going to go out to dinner,

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<v Speaker 3>but like, I didn't want to be super public with

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<v Speaker 3>someone I barely know yet.

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<v Speaker 2>So so we're around the area, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You're kind of known. You're not listen. I've been to Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up in Chicago. I don't know who the

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<v Speaker 1>hell you are, John, Who are you in the area.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the area.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go to a different area.

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<v Speaker 1>John, Can I can? I can? I just say this

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<v Speaker 1>to you? It sounds to me and maybe I'm wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm crazy. Maybe people should have realized Maddie should

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<v Speaker 1>realize if the guy's finding you to go to another city,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you know he's only out for one thing. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds to me, though, that that her intention was. She

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to spend time with you and that build

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship and eventually that could be something that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, she's not effing on the cruise or did you

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<v Speaker 2>did you did y'all fool around on the cruise?

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<v Speaker 1>She said no, no, no, In Maddie, you weren't going

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<v Speaker 1>to fool around in Chicago because why.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't know him? Why would I?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, exactly, okay, why would Why would you go to.

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<v Speaker 7>Him?

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<v Speaker 2>Bro?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't know why. He thought we were staying

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<v Speaker 5>at his house.

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<v Speaker 2>He put me up in a hotel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, why would hang out? Come? Hang out, chill at

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<v Speaker 3>the house?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I put you in the hotel for a reason.

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<v Speaker 8>I think there are too so you put no, Bro,

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<v Speaker 8>we got it all right? Hold on for a second.

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<v Speaker 8>I think there are two different ways of looking at it,

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<v Speaker 8>and one thought process. The reason why I brought you

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<v Speaker 8>here was to half six with you, and that's clear,

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<v Speaker 8>and you should have known at the moment you booked

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<v Speaker 8>the flame on the other way going being flown out,

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<v Speaker 8>fluid out to get to know someone, I think is

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<v Speaker 8>the wrong way to go about it. If you were

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<v Speaker 8>trying to get to know him, then why don't y'all

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<v Speaker 8>have conversations or face time before you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just to go to Chicago?

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm assuming they did.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you, Maddie having conversations?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean we were chatting.

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<v Speaker 4>We were chatting, And I didn't book the flight, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't pay I didn't book the hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, that's why he expected Maddie, Can I can I

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<v Speaker 1>give you?

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<v Speaker 4>You can't expect it?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, it's in Norse, Should he be expecting it?

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<v Speaker 6>If they did on the cruise was hook up, this

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<v Speaker 6>would be a very different conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, can I can I give you a piece of advice?

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<v Speaker 1>And this is after the fact, And this is for

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<v Speaker 1>any woman or guy that doesn't want to be feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like they're being taken advantage of. You want them on

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<v Speaker 1>your home turf, you make him come to see you,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't go to see him.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate to say this, I mean, that was a

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<v Speaker 2>bad decison. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I would agree with her of like I think she

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<v Speaker 6>probably as I would in this situation, have the hope

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<v Speaker 6>of like something starting, and then I would But I

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<v Speaker 6>would think myself, Okay, he's putting me in a hotel,

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<v Speaker 6>so that negates the uncomfortability of staying in his house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>because for sure I wouldn't do that. But the fact

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<v Speaker 6>that I had my own space, my own hotel, ROO

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<v Speaker 6>might be like, Okay, so this.

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<v Speaker 2>Goes fly you out just to have a time to

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<v Speaker 2>get to know you.

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<v Speaker 6>But if one thing led to another, okay, but now

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<v Speaker 6>I'm hearing the sole purposes he just wanted to have

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<v Speaker 6>sex all weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Amanda, would you want to say I'm hoping that

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<v Speaker 2>it's more than that.

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<v Speaker 6>This guy's making me so happy that I'm married and

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not in the.

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<v Speaker 5>Dating pool because he just sounds.

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<v Speaker 6>Like a d bag who acts like this, like whos.

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<v Speaker 5>I would never, ever, in a million years want to

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<v Speaker 5>come off as this kind of person.

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<v Speaker 3>One.

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<v Speaker 6>The only reason I'm going to fly you out is

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<v Speaker 6>just to sleep with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Gross find somebody else, bro girl, move.

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<v Speaker 2>On, Thanks Amanda, Alicia, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi guys.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I missed this, but they say

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<v Speaker 6>they hooked.

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<v Speaker 1>Up on the cruise.

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<v Speaker 9>He did not know No, Okay, so yeah, this guy

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<v Speaker 9>I agree with the last card. This guy is a

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<v Speaker 9>complete coos.

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<v Speaker 6>Like you cannot just swipe a credit card.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's not a prostitute.

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<v Speaker 4>Just because you swipe your card mean you get sex.

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<v Speaker 9>If you wanted to bring her out there just for sex,

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<v Speaker 9>you should have made it clear, Like she said, she

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<v Speaker 9>wouldn't have came.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe just got higher standards than you.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe she wanted to come and get to know you movie.

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<v Speaker 3>She could have went somewhere.

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<v Speaker 7>But I think she dodged a bullet by now hooking

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<v Speaker 7>up with this blother and she got to go to

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<v Speaker 7>see Chicago.

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<v Speaker 6>So good for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for the call.

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<v Speaker 6>Ron.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get a guy's perspective. What's up, Ron, what's going

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<v Speaker 2>on y'all doing? We're doing? Okay?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean you already know I'm gonna keep it really

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<v Speaker 9>with you now listen. I don't think dude is kind

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<v Speaker 9>of cool, how like abrasive and how brashy being a body.

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<v Speaker 9>But at the end of the day, imagine being a

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<v Speaker 9>dude stuck on the cruise with a girl y'all sleeping

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<v Speaker 9>in the same big going.

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<v Speaker 1>On that the story they met on a cruise, they

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<v Speaker 1>did not sleep together and cruise met on.

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<v Speaker 9>The cree Well, I mean, at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 9>if you getting flown out and all that stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 9>come on, man, we know what comedy is. A little

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<v Speaker 9>something something, a little section, a little love, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>just like how man, maybe.

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<v Speaker 7>If he played his cards right, she would have gave

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<v Speaker 7>him a little love, take her to take her out

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<v Speaker 7>to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Then maybe she wanted to kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, the bean is so overrated. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>people going to for a lot more than a bean.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, take her somewhere, and that's all him because he

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<v Speaker 9>sounds like he just wanted to be laid up and

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<v Speaker 9>the cut. You know what I'm saying, just doing whatever

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<v Speaker 9>instead of showing her a good time and accompany with

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<v Speaker 9>the expectations.

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<v Speaker 1>As a guy and as a father of boys, if

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<v Speaker 1>my sons thought that they could just fly somebody out

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<v Speaker 1>just to bang them, that would that would discuss me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I as a guy, would never listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd want to have sex, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be bummed, but it would make me go Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if I see a future, then I'll continue to go

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<v Speaker 1>with this because I'm thinking it's going to happen. But

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<v Speaker 1>just the assumption that I'm gonna put her in a

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<v Speaker 1>hotel room and we're gonna be you know, having sex

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<v Speaker 1>is to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't like it as a guy.

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<v Speaker 8>With sons though, you're you're telling your sons to fly

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<v Speaker 8>somebody out that they met on a cruise.

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<v Speaker 1>If my sons do that, I would tell them the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing I would. I would say, your turf home, turf.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want you going somewhere. But as if I

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<v Speaker 1>had a daughter, for damn sure, I'm not having her

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<v Speaker 1>go to Chicago to go see this guy. What's up, Brianna,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing good?

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<v Speaker 9>I was?

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<v Speaker 7>I have a comment. I feel like sometimes the expectations,

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<v Speaker 7>like you, females oftentimes they will have very circasious conversations

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<v Speaker 7>with me and send news and then they'll get flewn

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<v Speaker 7>out and they're like, Okay, what am I supposed to

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<v Speaker 7>be doing? We're not gonna have sex. But it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>but you've been sending broad picked bikini pigs like. I

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<v Speaker 7>feel like sometimes females do things where they say that

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<v Speaker 7>they're going to sleep with them but don't say the words,

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<v Speaker 7>and then surprised when they hold back. It's like, well,

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<v Speaker 7>why are you saying doing certain things and doing certain

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<v Speaker 7>things because the expectations are completely different.

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<v Speaker 5>But is that the case here?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's ask her, Maddie. Was that the case? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>guys share naked?

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<v Speaker 9>And so now.

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<v Speaker 4>It is.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not one of them people that go it's twenty

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<v Speaker 8>twenty six. There is a shift in culture. If you

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<v Speaker 8>are getting flown out, it's coming with the mentality that

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<v Speaker 8>we're going to do something. Nobody's just flying somebody out

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<v Speaker 8>and showing you a good time unless they like one

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<v Speaker 8>of them. Simi you Panny's only fans type of people.

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<v Speaker 8>If you're flying somebody out, you're thinking you're going to

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<v Speaker 8>have sex. Christal's the way the world is thinking right now. Crystal,

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<v Speaker 8>please add some knowledge to this.

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<v Speaker 2>What are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 8>My thing is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry I have to agree with keV on this.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I don't know how old these people are,

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<v Speaker 7>but they sound like they're.

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<v Speaker 2>At least thirty. So nod Maddy. How old are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm twenty six? You know what's going on?

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<v Speaker 7>What you steal?

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<v Speaker 9>Come on, now, you know what it means to be

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<v Speaker 9>flown out?

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<v Speaker 2>That means I'm paying.

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<v Speaker 1>For your Where are you going this weekend? You will mean, Crystal,

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<v Speaker 1>let's where are we going this weekend? Let's fly We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fly you out because we're.

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<v Speaker 5>Gonna get where's that thing? And Anna said this earlier.

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<v Speaker 6>If everything is going well, yeah, I think both parties

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<v Speaker 6>want that to be a part of it. But if

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<v Speaker 6>there's no groundwork to that, like steps to that happening,

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<v Speaker 6>and it doesn't happen, well, you assumed the risk by

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<v Speaker 6>plopping down your credit card.

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<v Speaker 3>Girls, grow up and you know what this is about.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you don't, if you're not that way, then

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<v Speaker 2>don't go.

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<v Speaker 7>Just say hey, let's get to know each other, let's

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<v Speaker 7>talk some more, let's whatever.

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<v Speaker 6>But I think they spent a week on a cruise

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<v Speaker 6>and time chatting and facetiming, so they did get to

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<v Speaker 6>know each other, and she went out there with the

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<v Speaker 6>hopes that something would start. I'm sure she went out

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<v Speaker 6>there with the hopes that like it would get to

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<v Speaker 6>that point.

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<v Speaker 5>But it doesn't sound like they're a match to begin with.

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<v Speaker 2>Gabby, what do you want to say? Hi?

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<v Speaker 8>I just wanted to say that it kind of seems

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<v Speaker 8>like you're damn if you sleep, damn if you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>That is true.

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<v Speaker 1>If she sleeps with them, she and doesn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>call back, she's a hoe because she slept with them.

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<v Speaker 1>If she doesn't sleep with them, now people are like,

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<v Speaker 1>you got fluid out, you know what I mean? Just

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<v Speaker 1>don't go now, Listen.

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<v Speaker 7>His actions are more condemnical than her not sleeping.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen.

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<v Speaker 2>She don't want to win, So it's I'm confused. Here's

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<v Speaker 2>the deal. His intentions are the thing that we're talking

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<v Speaker 2>about here right now.

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<v Speaker 8>Exactly, And I don't think she should be absolved of

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<v Speaker 8>her place in this decision making process that we're trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope she put a lot of room service on

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<v Speaker 2>that room. Let's just put it that way.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Five should tell your mom phone scams and Shon's dirty.

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<v Speaker 2>On the thirty, this is Jo in the Morning.