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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of Tell You What. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: had a question for you. Yeah, pre nups. How do

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Speaker 1: you feel about them?

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Speaker 2: Prenups? Chris, I've never thought about a prenup before.

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Speaker 1: Well you're not married?

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Speaker 2: Nope, sure not.

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Speaker 1: And I bring it up as I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Somebody dropped one on his fiance two weeks before the wedding.

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Speaker 2: And they had never had a conversation, never had.

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Speaker 1: A conversation about it.

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Speaker 2: How does she read it?

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Speaker 1: Lunch? She was taken aback.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably would be.

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Speaker 1: And at this point it just kind of happens. So

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Speaker 1: now she's just kind of sitting and she's literally wondering

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Speaker 1: what to do with her wedding because it's a significant prenup. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And they'd never talked about it, and he had never

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Speaker 1: talked about it, and he kind of got convinced to

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Speaker 1: do it by friends of his, and he didn't come

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Speaker 1: across very stern with it. He was just like, this

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Speaker 1: is something that we need to do, and this benefits

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Speaker 1: you as much as it benefits me. Huh, what do

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Speaker 1: you say? Talk back on the iHeartRadio apps. I would

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Speaker 1: love to hear what the audience has to say on this.

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Speaker 1: I had everybody after me, my guy friends twenty years ago,

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Speaker 1: telling me to get a prenup.

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Speaker 2: Twenty years ago, Well that's when I get married. No,

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Speaker 2: I know, but I feel like even then it was

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Speaker 2: a conversation. I feel like it's even Probably I think

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Speaker 2: prenups are more relevant now.

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Speaker 1: I feel they've always been. But I'll bet I'm willing

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Speaker 1: to bet you're right, probably more so now. But I

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Speaker 1: and you said it was a conversation then or whatever

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Speaker 1: you kind of inferred there, It actually wasn't so much

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Speaker 1: with us. I blew it off. Okay, I did bring

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Speaker 1: it up with Steph, and both of us were kind

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Speaker 1: of disgusted by it. Yeah, but I maybe, but this

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Speaker 1: is twenty twenty five. Yeah, this isn't, you know, twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty two? Yeah, or I'm sorry, two thousand and two.

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Speaker 1: And I just wonder if is that what everybody's doing now?

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Speaker 1: Is it kind of weird to not have one now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't. I don't know. It's not a conversation, Chris,

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Speaker 2: I've ever had to have. I think sometimes people say

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Speaker 2: it's a it protects both of them if there is

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Speaker 2: a divorce that happens. But then I think people also

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Speaker 2: feel that like, if we're already talking about divorcing before

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Speaker 2: we even get married, are we setting ourselves up to fail?

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Speaker 1: And so good point.

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Speaker 2: I don't really, I don't know, but.

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Speaker 1: Anybody feel one way or the other strongly talk back

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Speaker 1: in the IHEARTRADIOPP you listen to kimin or two. You've

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Speaker 1: got the app on and and you hit that little

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Speaker 1: red button. It's the microphone and that's talk back and

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Speaker 1: lot of rip because I just feel like me personally,

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't really get them. I don't what's

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Speaker 1: the point of getting married, Like.

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Speaker 2: You said, I've never.

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Speaker 1: Really thought about like okay, like we're doomed any in

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Speaker 1: any way. But I mean it was a very quick

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Speaker 1: discussion because I said to Steph years ago, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: everybody's telling me to get a prenup. Yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: don't know why because you're it. Yeah. I mean I

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Speaker 1: knew she was it, and it proves me right. I

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Speaker 1: mean not saying that something couldn't happen. But I can't

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Speaker 1: picture that now. I can't picture that now. I mean

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Speaker 1: I couldn't picture it then even more so now. I

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Speaker 1: mean I just loved the beans up.

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Speaker 2: She is the greatest thank you surely. Yeah, yeah, she

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Speaker 2: is wonderful.

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Speaker 1: And I just looked at her and I said, this

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Speaker 1: is just not there's no prena potential here. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: anything would benefit her, she can lay one on me

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Speaker 1: if she wanted, I guess, you know, to get her.

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Speaker 2: Sure, but she take you for all your worth get Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I.

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Speaker 1: Was worth about a box of macaroni. And she is

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Speaker 1: back down as a disc jockey. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, and I think, like I guess, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: maybe their financial situation here, but I mean maybe there

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Speaker 2: is money.

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Speaker 1: Yet he's ahead of the game a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I mean who knows. You never know what

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Speaker 2: people are thinking in those moments. But yeah, I would

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Speaker 2: be interested to hear what your listeners have to say

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Speaker 2: if there are strong opinions one or the other.

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Speaker 1: So you you would not it'd be a red flag

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Speaker 1: to you.

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Speaker 2: I think out of the blue. Yeah, like if you

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Speaker 2: had had a conversation about it, maybe before, but like

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Speaker 2: two weeks before the wedding, that all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: he's just gonna drop this on me. I'd be like, well,

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Speaker 2: are you getting cold feet? Is this just cold feet?

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Speaker 1: I don't would you sign one? Do you think.

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Speaker 2: I probably, I don't know, probably not. I hope I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have to consider that.

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Speaker 1: To lunch and.

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Speaker 2: Just says, here, would we need to talk before we

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Speaker 2: get married?

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Speaker 1: He said, look it over? He said, look it over,

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Speaker 1: like the whole thing over. You could talk to whoever

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Speaker 1: you want get legal advice. I just think this is

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Speaker 1: the smart thing to do. And she's literally still sitting

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Speaker 1: there going what am I going to do with this?

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Speaker 1: And what am I gonna do? I mean, the last

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Speaker 1: thing you want to do is just rip it up

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Speaker 1: and throw it. I mean you want to kind of

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Speaker 1: take a look at what's in consider it. Consider it, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess, or look over and see what he's up to.

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Speaker 1: Because if there's stuff in there that's a little nefarious,

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Speaker 1: then it's like okay, now, I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like read the fine print.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but a lot of guys are a

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Speaker 1: lot of people in general do stress that to get

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Speaker 1: one to absolutely get one to lay it all on

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Speaker 1: the line. But you're right, you're setting yourself up. I

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Speaker 1: think you're going to set yourself up to fail. Relationships

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Speaker 1: you know are meant to be, They're meant to be forever,

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Speaker 1: and I know they don't always do that.

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Speaker 2: That is true. That is true.

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Speaker 1: Unless you're in Hollywood. Then I think it's a whole

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Speaker 1: different deal.

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Speaker 2: Well, and that's what I mean by like the money

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Speaker 2: piece of it, where like, yes, I think if you've

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Speaker 2: got if there is a lot of money at stake,

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Speaker 2: or you just never know, Yes, Hollywood is a different story.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think I would do it.

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Speaker 1: She had more money than I did. She had like

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Speaker 1: three hundred dollars more than I did. I think when

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Speaker 1: we before we got read by one.

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Speaker 2: That's a reason to sign a prenup.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she should have got it. Thank Keep it on

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Speaker 1: chimital too and drop that. Yeah, do you believe in prenups?

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Speaker 1: Do you don't believe? You don't believe in prenups? What's

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