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<v Speaker 1>War of the Rosies on Internsohn in your morning show.

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<v Speaker 1>The only real rule we have here is why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you be in a happy and healthy relationship? And when

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<v Speaker 1>you have that feeling that your partner is stepping out,

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<v Speaker 1>it is one of the worst feelings in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>We have found this better rip off that band aid

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<v Speaker 1>than sit around and find out that's what you bring

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<v Speaker 1>on rage Ow Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So walk us through this because you and Aja kind

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<v Speaker 1>of have a bit of a rushed timeline so to speak.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys have been together for how long?

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<v Speaker 2>We've been seeing each other for like ten months? And

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<v Speaker 2>we've been living the other for like six months.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and so ten months officially dating or like we

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<v Speaker 1>met ten months ago?

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<v Speaker 2>We I think we met ten months ago, Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And so after four months vibes are right your society

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<v Speaker 1>to let it move in with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is it a lease issue?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that seems and not not judging obviously, but seems

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<v Speaker 1>a bit quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Well he was over at my place all the time anyway. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so just like you know, why to save your you know,

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<v Speaker 2>let's let's reduce our rents, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So does he pay part of the rent? Like he's

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<v Speaker 1>played with them, or is he.

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<v Speaker 2>He pays part of the rent.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, and so uh so if the last four

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<v Speaker 1>months he's been living with you, things started fine originally,

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<v Speaker 1>but you think that a shift has happened the last

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you know, it just something was off and he

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<v Speaker 2>feels like he's been taking a lot of time kind

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<v Speaker 2>of to himself, going on walks with his phone and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my son, Well yeah, I mean, I take my phone

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<v Speaker 2>where as I go to but he doesn't. He never

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<v Speaker 2>used to go on these walks, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And you even mentioned like if you guys are watching TV,

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<v Speaker 1>he goes to the rest. He brings his phone with him,

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<v Speaker 1>which is odd if you're in the same space, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's that to me is odd if you're living with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to bring your phone with you.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet, yes, it seems like I just wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>in private a lot with his phone. Okay, So, but

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<v Speaker 2>here's the thing, here's the thing. Yeah, so last.

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<v Speaker 4>Night I took his phone without him knowing, and I

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't find anything on there, but I texted his best.

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<v Speaker 2>Friend from his phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing thing, you know, I guess who I'm with right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god? Okay, and best friend said what.

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<v Speaker 2>He guessed like like four other girls before he got me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But is theory though, so like it's playing Devil's Advocate,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I texted if I was with somebody for

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<v Speaker 1>tenn I texted Eric, guess who I'm with, he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>assume I'm with my girlfriend? Is in theory, so it

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<v Speaker 1>could just be like maybe they bumped into a best

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<v Speaker 1>friend could be thinking, oh, he must have bumped into

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<v Speaker 1>to the X and like, oh, how crazy is that.

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<v Speaker 3>In our past like that, yeah, you're by crazy. In

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<v Speaker 3>theory could be that why.

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<v Speaker 2>Why wouldn't he Why wouldn't he guess like a guy

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<v Speaker 2>that they used to go to high school with.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. Valid, that's awesome valid. So yeah, the mystery deepens.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's do this. Rachel will have a sauce call

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<v Speaker 1>from the Flower company off from the roses.

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<v Speaker 3>They should obviously go to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>If they do, great, If not, we'll get some answers

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<v Speaker 3>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, war are the roses on Internshohn in your morning show.

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<v Speaker 3>Rachel, let me recap this quick.

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<v Speaker 1>You and AJ been together ten months, living together for

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<v Speaker 1>about six months of that, things have been going fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that recently though, he's been a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>distant with his phone, taking long walks, taking a phone

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, which and people are texting. Maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>just isn't used to sharing space, which that is fair.

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<v Speaker 5>If you I feel like guys always take their phones

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<v Speaker 5>in the bathroom, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mes, sir, like I'm saying, like Devil's Advocate, especially like

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<v Speaker 1>going on a walk by yourself, thing like that could

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<v Speaker 1>be a big adjustment. Sure, you're kind of smoking gun

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<v Speaker 1>is you went through his phone, didn't find anything. However,

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<v Speaker 1>he texted his best friend saying, quote, guess who I'm with?

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<v Speaker 1>And he listed off like five other women who aren't you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And we kind of talked about again, just just like

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<v Speaker 1>Devil's Advocate is, if I had texted Eric like guess

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<v Speaker 1>who I'm with, he wouldn't assume if I had a girlfriend, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you must be with your girlfriend, because because that guest

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with implies big surprise, you won't believe this. But

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<v Speaker 1>your point, Rachel, to understand is it wasn't like the

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<v Speaker 1>best friend was saying, Oh it's Tim from college, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's Drew from work. He only listened to women, which

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<v Speaker 1>could which could imply that there he's doing bad stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like a pink flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes enough to be like, okay, is that is that?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that fair? Rachel?

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<v Speaker 2>That's fair?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of his friends, are they cool with you? Did

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<v Speaker 1>friends and family think it's a good idea to move in?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the vibe of people in your circle?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I mean I had no idea anything was wrong

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<v Speaker 2>before he started acting weird, like everybody's cool, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I get along.

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<v Speaker 1>But even how about on your side though, Like when

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<v Speaker 1>you told friends of family, hey, he's moving in and

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh my god, this makes sense, or they like,

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<v Speaker 1>hey girl soon Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>When no, I mean it kind of happened like he

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<v Speaker 2>was over here anyway, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, sure, yeah, that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say this Rachel Web sauce call from the

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<v Speaker 1>flower company, off from the roses. They should go to

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<v Speaker 1>you girlfriend of ten months. If they do, we put

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<v Speaker 1>them on hold and see what you want to do them.

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<v Speaker 1>If they go somewhere else, look, get some answers for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, thank you? Yea one seconds? Do this?

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<v Speaker 5>Hell, Hi, I'm calling for Aja Hi j My name

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<v Speaker 5>is Blair. I'm calling you from a new flower shop.

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<v Speaker 5>We're trying out some new marketing where we're offering a

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<v Speaker 5>local week a free bouquet of roses, totally free. We

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<v Speaker 5>don't need your credit card info. We're just trying to

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<v Speaker 5>get more foot traffic during the holiday season since it's

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<v Speaker 5>basically here.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm super not I'm not the not the the roses

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<v Speaker 6>kind of guy at all, not really.

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<v Speaker 5>I understand that, and I am not the kind of

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<v Speaker 5>girl to talk on the phone. I hate it. But

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<v Speaker 5>I've been trying mostly to call them in. I know

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<v Speaker 5>that's like a little like ishy, but they've been sending

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<v Speaker 5>it to like their significant others mostly, or even to

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<v Speaker 5>make someone's day. And then you get a gold star,

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<v Speaker 5>and then you're more likely to come support a local

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<v Speaker 5>business than like, you know, a national chain. And then

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<v Speaker 5>you can make my parents' dreams come true, which, like

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I've been trying since I was born. But

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<v Speaker 5>you know this is my next best thing, you know, colleague.

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<v Speaker 7>Strangers, Okay, all right, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not great at my pitch, but I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 5>you're not gonna regret it, because these roses are gorgeous

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<v Speaker 5>and you get a gold star, like whoever you're going

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<v Speaker 5>to send them to your life?

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 6>All so like it's like a this is like roses.

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<v Speaker 6>You just send it to somebody.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, A lot of people like to send it to

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<v Speaker 5>someone special in their life. So then you know it

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<v Speaker 5>makes someone else's day and then you look like you know,

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<v Speaker 5>a king if you are a hero, and then you

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<v Speaker 5>can just you know, go about your life. And don't

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<v Speaker 5>you don't tell anyone that they're free.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I guess I can even maybe like your grandma,

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<v Speaker 6>she's she's not with us anymore. I'm so sorry somebody

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<v Speaker 6>in mind, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I just get a name for who you want

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<v Speaker 5>to send them to? I just need a first name.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh yeah, I guess I can do Haley. And this

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<v Speaker 7>is like a note like a like is it a

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<v Speaker 7>note or just like her name?

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<v Speaker 2>And then.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you want the note to say?

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<v Speaker 6>I would just say, like, uh, you know, hard to

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<v Speaker 6>believe it's been two years and uh, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>Just just put a who is Haley? Because I skipped

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<v Speaker 5>over that one.

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<v Speaker 2>She's is she?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh no? Not really? She was like a I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>like a relationship. I ended up screwing it. Up and

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<v Speaker 6>then just being like, uh, not the best the best

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<v Speaker 6>version of myself, and I you know, I've been kind

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<v Speaker 6>of feeling it's a regret.

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<v Speaker 2>You're sending your ex girlfriend flowers when you're living with.

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<v Speaker 1>Your hold on real quick said, my name's interns job,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Sauce. That's Rose as your girlfriend, Rachel. Don't want

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<v Speaker 1>Rose in the show but to kill Zone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you want to.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess the acts kind of you know, that's just

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<v Speaker 2>just like a fun little word. It could be you know,

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<v Speaker 2>somebody you're banging right now.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I would talked to her in two years,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, So why would.

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<v Speaker 3>You send who sends?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you sending your flowers?

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<v Speaker 3>Who sends her ex girl from flowers?

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<v Speaker 6>Because because I feel guilty about breaking her heart and

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<v Speaker 6>I grew up with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, okay, okay, just like.

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<v Speaker 6>We haven't talked in years, Like do you think she'd.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to hear from you about how you're doing well?

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<v Speaker 1>Because so she gets the flowers. Sure she's out to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And what you say, Hey, I have a girlfriend I'm

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<v Speaker 1>living with, Then what happens?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean I'm not trying to get back with

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<v Speaker 6>her or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Sending her roses.

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<v Speaker 2>Giving me flowers.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not giving you flowers because all you do is

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<v Speaker 6>mouth off all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Give you a place to live, and I give you

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<v Speaker 2>plenty others, plenty of you just like breaking.

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<v Speaker 3>Agent.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, Agent, You're so classy. You're so classy,

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<v Speaker 2>You're such a good guy. You get your stuff and

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<v Speaker 2>you can show you can show Hailey all you're boring.

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<v Speaker 3>That's great, car Car, I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>Talk to Haley.

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<v Speaker 5>Why her flowers?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait?

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<v Speaker 6>Because and I grew up with her.

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<v Speaker 5>Two years later, you're just sitting around. You're like, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what, I got this chance to send someone free flowers,

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<v Speaker 5>Haley two years ago. I feel bad.

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<v Speaker 3>And now you broke.

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<v Speaker 6>Right now? Who he lived with?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's there? Who cooks some dinner every day?

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<v Speaker 6>Nothing but bitching me all day.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't imagine that.

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<v Speaker 2>If you so unhappy, if I'm so bad that way,

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<v Speaker 2>and get out.

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