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Speaker 1: War of the Rosies on Internsohn in your morning show.

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Speaker 1: The only real rule we have here is why don't

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Speaker 1: you be in a happy and healthy relationship? And when

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Speaker 1: you have that feeling that your partner is stepping out,

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Speaker 1: it is one of the worst feelings in the world.

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Speaker 1: We have found this better rip off that band aid

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Speaker 1: than sit around and find out that's what you bring

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Speaker 1: on rage Ow Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: So walk us through this because you and Aja kind

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Speaker 1: of have a bit of a rushed timeline so to speak.

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Speaker 1: You guys have been together for how long?

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Speaker 2: We've been seeing each other for like ten months? And

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Speaker 2: we've been living the other for like six months.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and so ten months officially dating or like we

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Speaker 1: met ten months ago?

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Speaker 2: We I think we met ten months ago, Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: And so after four months vibes are right your society

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Speaker 1: to let it move in with you?

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Speaker 3: Or is it a lease issue?

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Speaker 1: Because that seems and not not judging obviously, but seems

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Speaker 1: a bit quick.

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Speaker 2: Well he was over at my place all the time anyway. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so just like you know, why to save your you know,

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Speaker 2: let's let's reduce our rents, and.

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Speaker 1: So does he pay part of the rent? Like he's

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Speaker 1: played with them, or is he.

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Speaker 2: He pays part of the rent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and so uh so if the last four

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Speaker 1: months he's been living with you, things started fine originally,

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Speaker 1: but you think that a shift has happened the last

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know, it just something was off and he

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Speaker 2: feels like he's been taking a lot of time kind

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Speaker 2: of to himself, going on walks with his phone and yeah,

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Speaker 2: my son, Well yeah, I mean, I take my phone

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Speaker 2: where as I go to but he doesn't. He never

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Speaker 2: used to go on these walks, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And you even mentioned like if you guys are watching TV,

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Speaker 1: he goes to the rest. He brings his phone with him,

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Speaker 1: which is odd if you're in the same space, like

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Speaker 1: that's that to me is odd if you're living with

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Speaker 1: somebody to bring your phone with you.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yet, yes, it seems like I just wanted to be

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Speaker 2: in private a lot with his phone. Okay, So, but

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Speaker 2: here's the thing, here's the thing. Yeah, so last.

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Speaker 4: Night I took his phone without him knowing, and I

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Speaker 4: I couldn't find anything on there, but I texted his best.

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Speaker 2: Friend from his phone.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Thing thing, you know, I guess who I'm with right now?

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Speaker 3: Oh god? Okay, and best friend said what.

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Speaker 2: He guessed like like four other girls before he got me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But is theory though, so like it's playing Devil's Advocate,

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Speaker 1: Like if I texted if I was with somebody for

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Speaker 1: tenn I texted Eric, guess who I'm with, he wouldn't

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Speaker 1: assume I'm with my girlfriend? Is in theory, so it

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Speaker 1: could just be like maybe they bumped into a best

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Speaker 1: friend could be thinking, oh, he must have bumped into

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Speaker 1: to the X and like, oh, how crazy is that.

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Speaker 3: In our past like that, yeah, you're by crazy. In

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Speaker 3: theory could be that why.

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't he Why wouldn't he guess like a guy

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Speaker 2: that they used to go to high school with.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Valid, that's awesome valid. So yeah, the mystery deepens.

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Speaker 1: So let's do this. Rachel will have a sauce call

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Speaker 1: from the Flower company off from the roses.

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Speaker 3: They should obviously go to you.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 3: If they do, great, If not, we'll get some answers

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Speaker 3: for you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, war are the roses on Internshohn in your morning show.

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Speaker 3: Rachel, let me recap this quick.

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Speaker 1: You and AJ been together ten months, living together for

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Speaker 1: about six months of that, things have been going fine.

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Speaker 1: You said that recently though, he's been a little bit

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Speaker 1: distant with his phone, taking long walks, taking a phone

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Speaker 1: just isn't used to sharing space, which that is fair.

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Speaker 5: If you I feel like guys always take their phones

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Speaker 5: in the bathroom, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Mes, sir, like I'm saying, like Devil's Advocate, especially like

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Speaker 1: going on a walk by yourself, thing like that could

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Speaker 1: be a big adjustment. Sure, you're kind of smoking gun

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Speaker 1: is you went through his phone, didn't find anything. However,

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Speaker 1: he texted his best friend saying, quote, guess who I'm with?

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Speaker 1: And he listed off like five other women who aren't you, right,

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Speaker 1: And we kind of talked about again, just just like

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Speaker 1: Devil's Advocate is, if I had texted Eric like guess

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Speaker 1: who I'm with, he wouldn't assume if I had a girlfriend, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you must be with your girlfriend, because because that guest

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Speaker 1: I'm with implies big surprise, you won't believe this. But

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Speaker 1: your point, Rachel, to understand is it wasn't like the

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Speaker 1: best friend was saying, Oh it's Tim from college, Oh

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Speaker 1: it's Drew from work. He only listened to women, which

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Speaker 1: could which could imply that there he's doing bad stuff.

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Speaker 5: It's like a pink flag.

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Speaker 3: Yes enough to be like, okay, is that is that?

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Speaker 3: Is that fair? Rachel?

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Speaker 2: That's fair?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Speaking of his friends, are they cool with you? Did

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Speaker 1: friends and family think it's a good idea to move in?

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Speaker 1: What's the vibe of people in your circle?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I had no idea anything was wrong

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Speaker 2: before he started acting weird, like everybody's cool, you know,

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Speaker 2: I get along.

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Speaker 1: But even how about on your side though, Like when

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Speaker 1: you told friends of family, hey, he's moving in and

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Speaker 1: they're like, oh my god, this makes sense, or they like,

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Speaker 1: hey girl soon Yeah.

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Speaker 2: When no, I mean it kind of happened like he

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Speaker 2: was over here anyway, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Sure, sure, yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: So let's say this Rachel Web sauce call from the

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Speaker 1: flower company, off from the roses. They should go to

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Speaker 1: you girlfriend of ten months. If they do, we put

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Speaker 1: them on hold and see what you want to do them.

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Speaker 1: If they go somewhere else, look, get some answers for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you? Yea one seconds? Do this?

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Speaker 5: Hell, Hi, I'm calling for Aja Hi j My name

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Speaker 5: is Blair. I'm calling you from a new flower shop.

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Speaker 5: We're trying out some new marketing where we're offering a

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Speaker 5: local week a free bouquet of roses, totally free. We

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Speaker 5: don't need your credit card info. We're just trying to

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Speaker 5: get more foot traffic during the holiday season since it's

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Speaker 6: I'm super not I'm not the not the the roses

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Speaker 6: kind of guy at all, not really.

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Speaker 5: I understand that, and I am not the kind of

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Speaker 5: girl to talk on the phone. I hate it. But

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Speaker 5: I've been trying mostly to call them in. I know

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Speaker 5: that's like a little like ishy, but they've been sending

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Speaker 5: it to like their significant others mostly, or even to

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Speaker 5: make someone's day. And then you get a gold star,

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Speaker 5: and then you're more likely to come support a local

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Speaker 5: business than like, you know, a national chain. And then

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Speaker 5: you can make my parents' dreams come true, which, like

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Speaker 5: you know, I've been trying since I was born. But

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Speaker 5: you know this is my next best thing, you know, colleague.

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Speaker 7: Strangers, Okay, all right, thank you.

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Speaker 5: I'm not great at my pitch, but I'm telling you

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Speaker 5: you're not gonna regret it, because these roses are gorgeous

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Speaker 5: and you get a gold star, like whoever you're going

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Speaker 5: to send them to your life?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 6: All so like it's like a this is like roses.

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Speaker 6: You just send it to somebody.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, A lot of people like to send it to

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Speaker 5: someone special in their life. So then you know it

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Speaker 5: makes someone else's day and then you look like you know,

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Speaker 5: a king if you are a hero, and then you

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Speaker 5: can just you know, go about your life. And don't

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Speaker 5: you don't tell anyone that they're free.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess I can even maybe like your grandma,

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Speaker 6: she's she's not with us anymore. I'm so sorry somebody

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Speaker 6: in mind, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Can I just get a name for who you want

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Speaker 5: to send them to? I just need a first name.

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Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I guess I can do Haley. And this

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Speaker 7: is like a note like a like is it a

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Speaker 2: And then.

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Speaker 5: What do you want the note to say?

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Speaker 6: I would just say, like, uh, you know, hard to

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Speaker 5: Just just put a who is Haley? Because I skipped

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Speaker 2: She's is she?

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Speaker 6: Uh no? Not really? She was like a I don't know,

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Speaker 6: like a relationship. I ended up screwing it. Up and

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Speaker 6: then just being like, uh, not the best the best

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Speaker 6: of feeling it's a regret.

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Speaker 2: You're sending your ex girlfriend flowers when you're living with.

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Speaker 1: Your hold on real quick said, my name's interns job,

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Speaker 1: that's Sauce. That's Rose as your girlfriend, Rachel. Don't want

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Speaker 1: Rose in the show but to kill Zone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you want to.

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Speaker 2: I guess the acts kind of you know, that's just

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Speaker 2: just like a fun little word. It could be you know,

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Speaker 2: somebody you're banging right now.

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Speaker 6: You know, I would talked to her in two years,

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Speaker 6: you know, So why would.

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Speaker 3: You send who sends?

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Speaker 2: Are you sending your flowers?

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Speaker 3: Who sends her ex girl from flowers?

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Speaker 6: Because because I feel guilty about breaking her heart and

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Speaker 6: I grew up with her?

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Speaker 5: Sure, okay, okay, just like.

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Speaker 6: We haven't talked in years, Like do you think she'd.

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Speaker 1: Want to hear from you about how you're doing well?

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Speaker 1: Because so she gets the flowers. Sure she's out to you.

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Speaker 1: And what you say, Hey, I have a girlfriend I'm

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Speaker 1: living with, Then what happens?

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I'm not trying to get back with

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Speaker 3: Sending her roses.

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Speaker 2: Giving me flowers.

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Speaker 6: I'm not giving you flowers because all you do is

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Speaker 2: Give you a place to live, and I give you

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Speaker 2: plenty others, plenty of you just like breaking.

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Speaker 3: Agent.

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Speaker 2: You know what, Agent, You're so classy. You're so classy,

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Speaker 2: You're such a good guy. You get your stuff and

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Speaker 2: you can show you can show Hailey all you're boring.

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Speaker 3: That's great, car Car, I don't.

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Speaker 6: Talk to Haley.

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Speaker 5: Why her flowers?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 6: Because and I grew up with her.

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Speaker 5: Two years later, you're just sitting around. You're like, you

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Speaker 5: know what, I got this chance to send someone free flowers,

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Speaker 5: Haley two years ago. I feel bad.

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Speaker 3: And now you broke.

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Speaker 6: Right now? Who he lived with?

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Speaker 2: Who's there? Who cooks some dinner every day?

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Speaker 6: Nothing but bitching me all day.

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine that.

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Speaker 2: If you so unhappy, if I'm so bad that way,

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Speaker 2: and get out.

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Speaker 6: One of the roseses creticked and possibly edited broadcasts with

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Speaker 6: permission granted from all participants.

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Speaker 5: Want more roses, go to y MS radio dot com

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Speaker 5: intern John in your morning show at iHeartRadio