1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,199 Speaker 1: it's Star one oh one three. It is Marcus Tuesday. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: It's time once again for second date update. If you 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: don't know, we've been doing this for years, almost a 5 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: decade actually, but we're just trying to put people together. 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: We actually had a win yesterday, which was exciting. 7 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: Uh. 8 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: A lot of times people go on a first date, 9 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: there's some sort of misunderstanding or somebody does something, they 10 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: get ghosted on. We call your date to figure out 11 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: what happened. Let's bring Grant on. Grant good morning, Hey, 12 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: good morning, Hey man, so here to help tell me 13 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: everything about Lena. How did you guys meet? And then like, 14 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: what did you do for your date? 15 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 3: Yeah? So it was a really good date. 16 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 2: I mean we met online on Hinge and we went 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 2: to dinner in the Mission District, which was great. We 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: had shared small plates, we talked about our favorite bands. 19 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: We even just closed the place down like we were out. Honestly, 20 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: we always in the morning. I really thought that the 21 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: chemistry he was there, and she unfortunately ended up ghosting me, 22 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 2: and I just I don't understand why. 23 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: This whole thing sounds delicious. I don't know if anybody's 24 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: ever done the late night creep in the Mission District. 25 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: But it's a good time. Tell you what, here's what 26 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 1: we're gonna do. We're gonna call her. We'll have you 27 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: on the line. You'll be able to listen in. We'll 28 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: have you mute so she can't hear you, and we'll 29 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: try to figure it out. Okay, we'll do it next 30 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: right after the song. It's Second Date Updates Star one 31 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: O one three, Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, 32 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: and today it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus 33 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: Tuesday Morning doing Second Date Update. We're in the middle 34 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: of it. We've been chatting with a with Grant. He 35 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: and Lena met online on Hinge and then you guys 36 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: went to a late night dinner in the Mission district. 37 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: Your words, you close the place down. This has to work. Yeah, 38 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: there's no reason it shouldn't. Let's try to get her 39 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: on the phone and let's get some answers. Hello, Hike, 40 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: may I speak to Lena? 41 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 4: Please, says she. 42 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: Hi, Lena, It's it's Marcus from Star one on one three. 43 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: I do the morning show. I don't know if you 44 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: ever do you ever listen to our show. 45 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 4: Oh my god. Hey, yeah, I love you guys. 46 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: You're the best. 47 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 4: What's up? 48 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: Well, we're doing second date update? 49 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 4: Hold On, is Grant on the phone? 50 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: Yes, yes he is. Grant. 51 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 3: Are you there, I'm here. 52 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to get some answers. We all are 53 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 2: as to why you go see me after our date? 54 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: Did something happen? 55 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean well by we absolutely did have a 56 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 4: great time. I really enjoyed talking with you, getting to 57 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 4: know you. 58 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 1: I heard you close the place down. What's up? 59 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 4: Well, we did, but like, things are fine. But things 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 4: got really weird once he started mentioning his dog. Okay, 61 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 4: and he kept referring to his dog as his roommate, 62 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, okay. But then whenever he 63 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 4: was talking about plans, he kept referring to like we, 64 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 4: so referring to we as and he and his dog, 65 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 4: So regardless of what he was doing, his dog was 66 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 4: always included in everything. 67 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: Okay, so they hang out. They hang out. 68 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: Now. 69 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 4: I love dogs, do not get me wrong, uh huh, 70 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 4: But like I don't refer to dogs as like a human. 71 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 4: So that was really weird to me. It was like, oh, yeah, 72 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 4: we're going to the grocery store. Oh yeah, we're going 73 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 4: to the movies. I'm thinking, oh you and who And 74 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 4: he's like, oh, my dog. And I'm like, that's kind 75 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 4: of weird, right, oh sou. 76 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: But that's not a ghostable offense, in my opinion? 77 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: Is it? 78 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: Also? Are you allowed to take a dog to the movies? 79 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 4: It was odd, but then but then things also got 80 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 4: a little bit weird. So when we went out to dinner, 81 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 4: he would also had casually mentioned that he had dated 82 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 4: one of the servers at the place, okay. 83 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: At at the same restaurant. 84 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was just kind of like, oh, okay, 85 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 4: you know, but thinking maybe she doesn't work there anymore 86 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: and whatever, that's fine, so be it. But he was like, oh, yeah, 87 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 4: we're still friendly, we still chat and whatnot. And she 88 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 4: was still working at the restaurant. 89 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: She was there when you got there and. 90 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 4: When we got there. So we were sitting she catches 91 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 4: his eye, looks over waves and comes over to say hello. 92 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 4: I was too stunned to speak and move. I was like, 93 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 4: this can't be real. I should have just gotten up, 94 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 4: but I was like, what the heck? So so yeah, 95 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 4: she comes over, she says hi and whatever, and they 96 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 4: were key king for a little bit and I just 97 00:04:54,320 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 4: sat there. So she leaves and whatever, and like then 98 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 4: he goes, oh, let me show you a matching tattoo 99 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 4: that me and my ex got together. And he was like, 100 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 4: we've framed it as our quote unquote cautionary tale. And 101 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 4: I was like, what the heck does that mean? It 102 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 4: just like it just developed so weird. Maybe it was 103 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 4: the drinks that I didn't realize the time was going 104 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 4: as fast as it did. But my mind was blown. 105 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 1: Sure, Grant, we're going to come to you now because 106 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: I have questions. 107 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, why would. 108 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: You take to a restaurant where your ex is working? 109 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 3: I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal. 110 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 3: Maybe the server she she didn't do it, but I 111 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 3: was maybe even thinking she could have gave us a 112 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 3: discount on our meal. And this is like one of 113 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 3: my favorite spots in town. Yeah, she works there. I 114 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,799 Speaker 3: just didn't think that, you know, maybe she wasn't working 115 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 3: that night. 116 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: What about the tattoo thing. I still don't actually understand 117 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: what do you mean by cautionary tale? But it's okay, 118 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm not that bright. 119 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the tattoo thing for me, it's like, so 120 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: that's something that I want to do with any of 121 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 2: my girlfriends or partners going forward, you know, Like I 122 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 2: think it's just a symbol of showing each other love 123 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 2: and like really showing them that you're in this and 124 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: that's something that I would want from Lena too. 125 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 3: But more to the point, you don't actually like dogs 126 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 3: how you say you do. I was being transparent. I 127 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: love my dog. My dog is my best friend. What 128 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 3: is an issue with that if he's included in all 129 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 3: of my plans? 130 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 4: Honestly, I felt like I just went through a field 131 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 4: trip of your past and it was just it was 132 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 4: too much. 133 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 3: And that's okay because I can't date someone who doesn't 134 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 3: consider dogs as much as they consider them as humans 135 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 3: and people.