Speaker 1: It is time now for a Christmas Wish live as
Speaker 1: it happens here on KTLGB. That's the way we do them,
Speaker 1: and sometimes it goes flawlessly and sometimes it's there's a
Speaker 1: little hiccup here and there. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day we help somebody out who needs some help
Speaker 1: through the holidays. It's time for another Dave Ryan show
Speaker 1: for Christmas Wish. I'm going to check in with Brandon,
Speaker 1: who is our official delivery guy and hangs out outside
Speaker 1: the house and looks like a creep in a van.
Speaker 1: But he's not a creep in a van. It's Brandon
Speaker 1: from College Muscle Movers. Brandon, how are you this morning?
Speaker 2: Do well?
Speaker 3: Are you what time you have to get up? Brandon?
Speaker 3: To go do this anyway? I think today it was mythornity.
Speaker 1: Not too bad, okay, Brandon, thanks for what you do.
Speaker 1: And if somebody wants to move, let's say that they're
Speaker 1: going to move to Victoria, would you load their stuff
Speaker 1: up and move it to Victoria and put it in
Speaker 1: their new house?
Speaker 3: Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Absolutely Okay, So get a hold of College Muscle Movers
Speaker 1: and Brandon, thanks for doing what you do. Please stand by.
Speaker 1: Let's meet our wish sure this morning. Marissa. Hi Marissa,
Speaker 1: Hi guys. Are you good? You were actually in here
Speaker 1: eight years ago for your thirtieth birthday.
Speaker 4: Yes, I was the crazy girl that loves al pakas.
Speaker 1: So you did you come in with an alpaca? We're
Speaker 1: trying to remember this.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 4: I actually they I called an alpaca farm, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: the only thing I want to do for my thirtieth
Speaker 4: birthday is like go see alpacas. And I'm pretty sure
Speaker 4: they thought I was crazy because they don't normally have
Speaker 4: people like.
Speaker 6: At the farm.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and they're like, okay, we'll take you out there.
Speaker 4: And my husband at the time was just like me
Speaker 4: running after the alpaca is like a three year old
Speaker 4: and like wanting to give them hugs and everything.
Speaker 3: Else able I heard.
Speaker 7: They're kind of sometimes okay, you.
Speaker 4: Have to like some of them have nice personalities and
Speaker 4: some of them don't. Like if you get a mom
Speaker 4: and a baby, the mom is like super territorial, but
Speaker 4: like the old, like the old grumpier ones, they're like
Speaker 4: the nicer around.
Speaker 7: Okay, good to know.
Speaker 1: That's so funny. Well, I'm glad you're here. Yeah, totally
Speaker 1: different reason.
Speaker 7: This year totally different reason the sun.
Speaker 1: You are doing a Christmas wish for a coworker, yes,
Speaker 1: at your daycare school.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I am a toddler teacher. I work at a
Speaker 4: private daycare, private preschool called Knowledge Beginnings in Badness Heights,
Speaker 4: And so she is a fellow coworker of mine. Not
Speaker 4: only do I teach her son, but she teaches my son.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you kind of became friends.
Speaker 4: We kind of became friends. So I've been there like
Speaker 4: over a year. We kind of became friends. My son
Speaker 4: started going to this daycare, but prior to me working there,
Speaker 4: and then I met her and she is just like
Speaker 4: one of the most kindest, sweetest people.
Speaker 3: So I love that.
Speaker 1: Either way, if you want to watch this whole thing,
Speaker 1: Marissa is on camera right now at Dave Ryan TV
Speaker 1: on YouTube, and you would watch Christmas wish as it unfold.
Speaker 5: Marissa, he moved the mic just to the side of
Speaker 5: your face. Show you beautiful face on the camera.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all we can see is the Dave Ryan logo.
Speaker 3: There you go.
Speaker 6: Ok?
Speaker 3: Yeah, perfect?
Speaker 1: Now, Now, remember this happens without a net. Last time
Speaker 1: I tried dialing out on this phone, which we bought
Speaker 1: at Radio Shack in nineteen ninety four. It didn't work,
Speaker 1: but let me try it again to see if it works.
Speaker 6: Okay, it sounds good.
Speaker 9: Okay, good tign Already there we go.
Speaker 6: At least we have a dial tone.
Speaker 1: Okay, Jenny, you're gonna have to dial it and put
Speaker 1: it on hold, so thank you.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: And the warranty ran out on this radio shack phone
Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety five, so it's kind of disappointing, but
Speaker 1: you know, we'll make.
Speaker 3: It work somehow.
Speaker 1: Jenny is dialing the wish and what did you tell
Speaker 1: her to make sure she answers the phone this morning?
Speaker 3: Actually I did it.
Speaker 4: My boss Holly, who's our executive director, was kind of like, okay,
Speaker 4: you have a special phone call coming, and she I
Speaker 4: was like, it's from a number you don't know as
Speaker 4: answer it.
Speaker 3: Okay, good, hopefully she will.
Speaker 1: Hello. Is this Melissa. I'm Melissa. It's Dave Ryan on
Speaker 1: the radio over at Katie WB. Have you heard of
Speaker 1: KATWB before?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 8: I have.
Speaker 1: Okay, would you maybe have any idea? I'm not even
Speaker 1: going to tell you why we're calling, but I can
Speaker 1: help you save fifteen percent on your car insurance.
Speaker 3: Don't hang up. Don't hang up.
Speaker 6: I'm joking.
Speaker 10: I don't know if I.
Speaker 3: Am here to say that.
Speaker 1: I gotcha Marissa from work, and your friend is here.
Speaker 4: Say hi Marissa, Hi Melissa, Hi Maria.
Speaker 1: It's Marissa and Melissa. Isn't that adorable? So Marissa wrote
Speaker 1: in for our annual KATIEWB Christmas Wish. Are you familiar
Speaker 1: at all with Christmas Wish?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 11: Not? Really? Actually?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: Well, basically what we do is we ask people who
Speaker 1: listen to KATIEWB to tell us about somebody they know
Speaker 1: that might be I don't know what the word is,
Speaker 1: struggling or challenged a little bit at Christmas because of
Speaker 1: their situation. And she wants to help you out because
Speaker 1: she loves you, and we're learning a little bit about
Speaker 1: you and what she's gonna do if you don't mind,
Speaker 1: She's going to take a minute or two to read
Speaker 1: her Christmas wish for you, Melissa.
Speaker 3: Can she do that?
Speaker 11: Yes?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 6: Hi Melissa?
Speaker 7: Okay a right.
Speaker 4: There is a quote by Robin Sharma that perfectly describes
Speaker 4: Melissa's wish story. Remember that the happiest people are not
Speaker 4: those who have everything or those getting more, but rather
Speaker 4: those who are giving more. I'm a firm believer that
Speaker 4: certain people are meant to cross your path in life
Speaker 4: and forever change the way you appreciate all of life's blessings.
Speaker 4: Melissa crossed my path over a year ago when I
Speaker 4: started working as a toddler teacher at a private daycare
Speaker 4: in Badness Heights called Knowledge Beginnings. Melissa is not only
Speaker 4: my coworker, but my son's preschool teacher and fantastic mom
Speaker 4: of three beautiful children.
Speaker 6: For those of you who know her of cross paths
Speaker 6: with her, know.
Speaker 4: That she is one of the most dedicated teachers to
Speaker 4: her students, her classroom, and her family. She is truly
Speaker 4: one of the most giving, kind and selfless people I've
Speaker 4: ever met in my life and has truly taught me
Speaker 4: that happiness is not defined by things, but by spreading
Speaker 4: kindness and joy. Racily, Melissa has encountered quite the hardship.
Speaker 4: She was able to get out of a rough situation
Speaker 4: and move out on her own with her three children
Speaker 4: to her own apartment in Woodbury as a single mother,
Speaker 4: she is truly starting over with the bare minimal things
Speaker 4: to support her and her children, and this Christmas, I
Speaker 4: have nominated her for Dave Ryan's Christmas wish. No mother
Speaker 4: should ever have to worry each day about how she
Speaker 4: will afford basic things, how she'll pay rent to keep
Speaker 4: a roof over her head, or how she will begin
Speaker 4: to even tackle affording Christmas presents for her children, or
Speaker 4: let alone getting a gift herself. Melissa spent so much
Speaker 4: time giving everything she has to everybody else around her
Speaker 4: that it's time she and her family received some blessings
Speaker 4: and we took care of her today. Your wishes come true.
Speaker 4: And I hope you know how much you are loved, appreciated,
Speaker 4: and cared for by your friends, family, and students.
Speaker 6: In your community.
Speaker 4: We love you, Melissa, and we hope these blessings truly
Speaker 4: make your Christmas beautiful and forgettable. And I'll end it
Speaker 4: with this, what if Christmas doesn't come from a store,
Speaker 4: maybe Christmas means a little bit more from the Grinch.
Speaker 6: And we love you, Melissa.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was very sweet.
Speaker 8: That was beautiful, It really was.
Speaker 1: And so to follow up with her idea, we want
Speaker 1: to help you out. And and the first thing I
Speaker 1: talked to Marisa a couple of days ago, and I said, well,
Speaker 1: what is she? What is what is Melissa? What does
Speaker 1: Melissa need? She needs a vacuum cleaner. Yep, do you
Speaker 1: need a vacuum cleaner?
Speaker 12: Well too that I have. They work, They just still
Speaker 12: work very well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that happened. Vacuum cleaners they're they're just
Speaker 1: they do that. We got you an expensive Bissel cross
Speaker 1: Wave edge Find vacuum cleaner. Merry Christmas. But wait, there's more,
Speaker 1: because we're not going to just give you a vacuum
Speaker 1: cleaner and say that's it, but we do.
Speaker 8: I would be happy with just that.
Speaker 1: I'll bet you would. It's so important working vacuum cleaner.
Speaker 1: You've got. You've got three kids. Let's let's talk about Elijah.
Speaker 1: Elijah's your baby. Fifteen months old? Yes, yes, So for Elijah.
Speaker 1: We got some toys, we got some clothes. We got
Speaker 1: a paw patrol fire engine. I think that's about the
Speaker 1: right age. It's getting pretty close to the right age.
Speaker 3: Avery. How old is Avery?
Speaker 11: Two?
Speaker 8: Three?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: Avery? Is that a boy or a girl?
Speaker 3: Name?
Speaker 13: A girl name?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: I love that name.
Speaker 1: If I ever have another baby, I'm a name or
Speaker 1: him Avery. We've got some lounge wear and some trendy outfits.
Speaker 1: We got a toy doctor kit, a toy makeup.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good, Yeah, and some bath bombs for avery, some
Speaker 1: things to put under the tree. And is it Bryson
Speaker 1: that is your six year old?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yes, tell me about Bryson. What is Bryson into?
Speaker 13: I mean, he's right now seriously into legos. Otherwise he
Speaker 13: loves like any any kind of dinosaur. He's just been
Speaker 13: really into, like the Jurassic World stuff. Otherwise, he just
Speaker 13: likes building it, like working with his hands. I guess, like,
Speaker 13: I think.
Speaker 1: We've got a Jurassic World dinosaur revealed toy that we
Speaker 1: think he'll like. We've got minecraft legos, so he can.
Speaker 1: I hope he scatters him on the floor and you
Speaker 1: step on him in the dark, and just remember this
Speaker 1: Christmas wish. Magnetic tiles. We got some cargo pants and
Speaker 1: a vest, and you know, kids don't care about clothes,
Speaker 1: but mom does and he needs them anyway. We got
Speaker 1: a hoodie and some khakis. And then for you, Melissa,
Speaker 1: just to kind of ease the burden, we get just
Speaker 1: kind of a boatload a variety of different things. Here
Speaker 1: one hundred and one dollar Holiday Station Stores gas card
Speaker 1: to cover a couple of tanks of gas. Three hundred
Speaker 1: dollars down at Target for gifts or groceries or Tiede
Speaker 1: laundry detergent or whatever you need. That vacuum cleaner, you know,
Speaker 1: that's a bissele. That's a good one. One hundred dollars
Speaker 1: Amazon gift card, Broadway Pizza. Sarah never read to you
Speaker 1: a Broadway pizza donated one hundred dollar Broadway Pizza gift
Speaker 1: card to everybody who's getting to wish this year.
Speaker 3: So you got that.
Speaker 8: That's amazing.
Speaker 1: And here's something nobody has ever, ever ever wished for
Speaker 1: a free oil change. But guess what, Me and everybody
Speaker 1: at Valveleene has donated three, no two free oil changes
Speaker 1: from Valveleene instant oil Change. And thanks to Amy and
Speaker 1: Valveleene for donating them. And it's one of those things
Speaker 1: where you don't go, wow, I really want to get
Speaker 1: an oil but sometimes you go, oh, I'll get to
Speaker 1: get an oil change free for the next two.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's great.
Speaker 1: And uh and also we got one hundred dollars gift
Speaker 1: card for you to Woodhouse Spa get some relaxation and uh.
Speaker 1: And Marissa has offered to watch the kids for as
Speaker 1: long as you want a week, a week or two.
Speaker 6: I will watch them.
Speaker 3: You know I will, and so you.
Speaker 1: Can go to one of their three locations. Thanks to
Speaker 1: Woodhouse Spa for a generous donation, and if you're looking
Speaker 1: for a holiday gift idea, go to Woodhouse Spa. Woodhouse Spa.
Speaker 1: It's either spas or SPA, I'm not sure. Woodhouse Spa
Speaker 1: dot com. And that is for you, just to send
Speaker 1: a little love and encouragement and a thank you for
Speaker 1: doing all you do. And I know you're kind of
Speaker 1: starting a new chapter of your life and thanks be
Speaker 1: a little bit challenging, but I hope this makes your
Speaker 1: Christmas for you and the three babies a little bit brighter.
Speaker 12: Thank you so much. I seriously appreciate all of this.
Speaker 12: I'm gonna have to have a list of everything. I
Speaker 12: don't even remember.
Speaker 1: That's something you don't have to now. Here's the thing
Speaker 1: outside your house. There's a guy named Brandon. He works
Speaker 1: for College Muscle Movers, and he's loaded all this stuff
Speaker 1: up into his van and he's going to bring it
Speaker 1: in for you as soon as we're done. If you
Speaker 1: peeked out your front window, you'd probably see him. He's
Speaker 1: out there right now, so within seconds.
Speaker 8: You know, apartment right now, he's there right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's there right now.
Speaker 8: Wow.
Speaker 1: So within within five minutes, you know what's going to happen.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have that bistle plugged in and turned on
Speaker 1: and sucking up dirt.
Speaker 13: That's awesome.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: Hey, Melissa, thanks for letting us step into your day,
Speaker 1: and I hope you have a merry, merry Christmas. From
Speaker 1: all of us here at KWB, say goodbye, say goodbye
Speaker 1: to Marissa, Meliss.
Speaker 7: I'm so glad that I'm Dave Ryan.
Speaker 4: I just wanted to thank everybody here at the show
Speaker 4: and all of the people that don'tate it to Christmas wish.
Speaker 4: You truly make a difference in people's lives who really
Speaker 4: need it, especially around the holiday. So I just wanted
Speaker 4: to thank all of you guys, and I wanted to
Speaker 4: thank Melissa for everything that she's done. And yeah, I
Speaker 4: hope you have a great Christmas.
Speaker 7: You deserve it.
Speaker 12: Thank you, Marissa. I really appreciate all this. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 12: so truly speechless.
Speaker 3: That's okay.
Speaker 12: I'm extremely happy and thankful for all of this.
Speaker 1: So thank you, thank you, and thanks for doing what
Speaker 1: you do, and good luck on this new chapter in
Speaker 1: your life.
Speaker 3: By the way.
Speaker 1: You're so right, Marissa, that we need donations because a
Speaker 1: lot of these are funded by Sure. We have a
Speaker 1: lot of help from Treasure Island Resort and Casino, and
Speaker 1: a lot of help from holiday station stores. But we
Speaker 1: could only do a few wishes if it weren't for
Speaker 1: your donation. So if this made you go, wow, you
Speaker 1: know what, I've got it pretty good. I've got toys,
Speaker 1: I got a tree that's coming up, I got a
Speaker 1: working vacuum cleaner, whatever, then go online katiewb dot com
Speaker 1: slash wish and please make a donation. And maybe you're
Speaker 1: very blessed this Christmas. Maybe you're going to Orlando and
Speaker 1: Disney for Christmas, or maybe you've got a big maybe
Speaker 1: you've got a bunch of presents or a new car, whatever,
Speaker 1: you are very blessed. If you can share some of
Speaker 1: that with people who need it, we will take very
Speaker 1: good care of your money. It is tax deductible. If
Speaker 1: you're going to donate a lot and you care about that,
Speaker 1: it is tax deductible from youth link. So go online
Speaker 1: KWB dot com slash wish. Thank you Marissa for coming in.
Speaker 1: You were a delight. Hey take a minute please and
Speaker 1: donate for Christmas wish because we do need your help
Speaker 1: to make these happen all the way up until the
Speaker 1: day before Christmas Eve. I think we're gonna do Christmas wishes,
Speaker 1: so donate please on KDWB dot com, Slack The Dave
Speaker 1: Ryan Show one on one point three KDWB. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you've seen Amy Schumer lately, but she is
Speaker 1: one of those celebrities that has lost weight and looks
Speaker 1: so different. Who else did that? Was it Jessicas Simpson
Speaker 1: that lost a lot of weight and so different?
Speaker 7: She lost a lot of weight. Kelly Osborne Bourne.
Speaker 5: Looks so littrel howry too. He's the copin Get Out Oh okay,
Speaker 5: and he's a comedian. He also has Olympic face.
Speaker 1: If you think her husband is enjoying her new look,
Speaker 1: you might be wrong, because it sounds like she's not
Speaker 1: taking them along in the new journey. Amy's posted some
Speaker 1: new thirst traps over the weekend. It wasn't It wasn't
Speaker 1: the excess pounds that were missing. She was also without
Speaker 1: her wedding ring.
Speaker 7: Oh no.
Speaker 1: In fact, she doesn't seem to have it on in
Speaker 1: any of the pictures she's posted since she scrubbed all
Speaker 1: her old photos and videos a few weeks ago. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's a coincidence, but the British tabloids are saying that
Speaker 1: she is indeed at dumping her husband Chris. They say
Speaker 1: Amy is one hundred percent getting divorced, she got skinny,
Speaker 1: she is over it would that really happen? I mean,
Speaker 1: if you are heavy and then you lose weight, do
Speaker 1: you say I'm gonna dump my partner. There must have
Speaker 1: been some other underlying issues there.
Speaker 9: I was gonna say, I don't it's just because she
Speaker 9: got She's like, forget him.
Speaker 7: I'm skinny now.
Speaker 5: Because as it is, the stereotype is that it's backwards,
Speaker 5: like when they gain weight, you lose them or you
Speaker 5: leave them, but it's still either way.
Speaker 9: So vander Pump Rules is returning tonight to Bravo. If
Speaker 9: you remember, I'm not a huge Bravo person, but I
Speaker 9: kept up with a lot of the scanned val stuff
Speaker 9: because there was this big, infamous affair and the cast
Speaker 9: had grown apart because of the infidelity in the material
Speaker 9: between a bunch of the castmates, and so Bravo announced
Speaker 9: last year that a newcast would join vander Pump Rules.
Speaker 9: That just like the original cast. These members are part
Speaker 9: of the staff of the Beverly Hills restaurant, which is
Speaker 9: operated by Lisa vander Pump, so she just like follows
Speaker 9: them around like a reality show. And then these people
Speaker 9: become like so famous and then they're not servers anymore,
Speaker 9: which sounds like a great gig, you know, Like.
Speaker 7: Why couldn't that have happened to me?
Speaker 9: When I was at Bubba Gump right well, I wanted
Speaker 9: that the man they could have gotten some great drama.
Speaker 1: From, they would have gotten drama.
Speaker 9: Gum oh service texts me in right now. The amount
Speaker 9: of drama that's at is crazy. When everyone sleeping with
Speaker 9: each other bamboo, Yes, it's crazy.
Speaker 5: When I worked at I Hop, three different managers, all
Speaker 5: of them sleeping with each other, and they all don't
Speaker 5: know what the rest of us in IHOP do.
Speaker 6: Now I don't know, but it does happen.
Speaker 9: Yeah, Like I had a manager who was sleeping with
Speaker 9: like the kitchen manager. But that manager at the front
Speaker 9: of the house was burried so much drama.
Speaker 7: I'm telling you, I.
Speaker 1: Wonder if that's the most drama filled. I thought hair
Speaker 1: stylists were the most drama filled.
Speaker 7: They get the tea.
Speaker 3: I don't they get okay.
Speaker 9: Drama filled themselves. They're just the ones that get all
Speaker 9: the tea I can.
Speaker 1: The restaurant workers, they're the ones that are hooking up
Speaker 1: with each other and being slimy.
Speaker 9: Yeah, because they work like twelve hour shifts and then
Speaker 9: they're like, let's get drinks afterwards to wind down, and
Speaker 9: then one thing leads to a next, and big bang.
Speaker 6: Boom, big bang bom.
Speaker 5: Simon cal said he is sorry for being such a
Speaker 5: jerk in the early years of American Idol.
Speaker 6: I mean that's his his stick.
Speaker 5: He literally became famous because he was kind of known
Speaker 5: as the mean judge. But he's saying that he's older
Speaker 5: and wiser and a dab kind of.
Speaker 7: He was absolutely the the show.
Speaker 3: He put the American Idol on the map. He really did.
Speaker 3: He literally did make the show.
Speaker 1: But I remember the first time I want to watched
Speaker 1: American Idol, and all my life i'd watch talent shows
Speaker 1: where they were like, you know, yeah, you were good, Yeah,
Speaker 1: keep working on it, and he would be like that
Speaker 1: was dreadful.
Speaker 5: Oh that's nice. He's like Gordon Ramsay. He'd be like,
Speaker 5: I've seen dog's poop and it was more entertaining than you.
Speaker 5: That's literally Simon cow Simon Simon made that show. Paula
Speaker 5: was the nice, kind of odd one, and then Randy
Speaker 5: was just the cool one. But rand me to know
Speaker 5: exactly right.
Speaker 1: Movies, a lot of classic movies are heading back to
Speaker 1: the big screen this month of the big Screen, National
Speaker 1: Lampoon's Christmas Vacation is going to be showing again in
Speaker 1: the big theaters. How the Grinch Told Christmas Elf, Polar Express,
Speaker 1: Love Actually Screwged Grimlins a Christmas Story, It's a Wonderful Life,
Speaker 1: and Doctor Seuss The Grinch Show are all going to
Speaker 1: be showing in big movie theaters, which I think is
Speaker 1: kind of a cool. Yeah, cool thing, your kids out,
Speaker 1: go to the local theater, get him a little popcorn
Speaker 1: and yet a little Coca cola.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a memory.
Speaker 7: Which one of those movies? Would you want to see
Speaker 7: the movie?
Speaker 1: Ooh, really good question. I would say probably Christmas Vacation,
Speaker 1: that's my favorite. That's the number one.
Speaker 7: I'd probably do. The Grinch. It's the Jim Carrey version,
Speaker 7: or it doesn't.
Speaker 1: No, it's animated. No, the Jim Carrey version was kind
Speaker 1: of creepy.
Speaker 7: Oh dare you. That's like my favorite thing ever.
Speaker 9: I'm so happy right now because I'm on the Grinch TikTok,
Speaker 9: which happens around Christmas time because there's a Grinch character
Speaker 9: at like disney World or Disneyland or something, and he
Speaker 9: plays the Grinch so well, and it's so he like
Speaker 9: goes y roll around this time, so I keep getting
Speaker 9: tough of him. Somebody who is turning one hundred years
Speaker 9: old on December thirteenth Dick van Dyke. And of course
Speaker 9: you always ask, okay, well, what's your secret?
Speaker 7: How did you live this long?
Speaker 9: Dick Van Dyke says, anger is one thing that eats
Speaker 9: up a person's insides and hate.
Speaker 7: So don't be so angry.
Speaker 3: I read a long time ago. I'm not angry.
Speaker 1: I read a long time ago that anger destroys the
Speaker 1: vessel that contains it. And if you think about that,
Speaker 1: it's like, what does it do? It just destroys you
Speaker 1: from the inside. So you just got to find something
Speaker 1: else to focus on. Besides, sure, you can focus on
Speaker 1: how angry you are, but you can focus again instead
Speaker 1: on what makes you happy?
Speaker 3: What do you got to be happy about.
Speaker 9: It's hard to say that in the moment when you
Speaker 9: are really upset about something.
Speaker 1: Oh, we all get upset. There's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 9: But then when you try to do that like mind shift,
Speaker 9: in those moments, I feel like there is a change.
Speaker 9: There's a change in me when I'm like, all right,
Speaker 9: stop being angry, look at the good.
Speaker 7: Then move forward on the phone, right.
Speaker 3: Oh is he on the phone? Who's he talking to
Speaker 3: our group therapy?
Speaker 1: Oh dah, okay, gotcha.
Speaker 3: Let's see what else we get.
Speaker 1: The fifty cents documentary about Diddy is streaming today. Starts
Speaker 1: streaming today, and here is a little bit of the trailer.
Speaker 5: We have to find somebody that work with us, that
Speaker 5: has dealt in the dirtiest dirty business.
Speaker 3: Losing Puffy Puff Daddy Diddy show coals.
Speaker 2: All of these weaed incarnations, all of those name changes
Speaker 2: are attacked to really bad deeds.
Speaker 5: Everything in life, you're gonna have people that are bad
Speaker 5: and people that are good.
Speaker 6: You have to choose yourself.
Speaker 1: Now here's how you know that it's worth watching. Because
Speaker 1: did he does not want you to see it. His
Speaker 1: spokesperson said that four part docu series from fifty cent
Speaker 1: is a shameful hit piece that's fundamentally unfair and illegal. Basically,
Speaker 1: his team called the movie stolen footage that was never
Speaker 1: authorized for release. No rights in that material were ever
Speaker 1: transferred to Netflix or any third party. In one clip
Speaker 1: did he pleads with an associate to resolve an issue, quote,
Speaker 1: We've got to find somebody that'll work with us, that
Speaker 1: is dealt with the dirtiest of dirty business. We're losing.
Speaker 1: Fifty Cent previewed a cringe scene yesterday on Good Morning America,
Speaker 1: and that is where Ditty asked for hand sanitizer and
Speaker 1: expresses a desire to take a shower after meeting with fans.
Speaker 1: I don't know that's the worst of the whole thing.
Speaker 7: I mean, probably not.
Speaker 1: I mean, if somebody were to, like, you know, stand
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Speaker 1: of the State Fair, and she wanted to like wash
Speaker 1: her hands afterward, I would not blame her, not in
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Speaker 9: blow up Ditty for a while, and he's admitted that
Speaker 9: once Didty was arrested and everything started going down.
Speaker 3: Don't they like each other?
Speaker 7: Well? Because he knows that Ditty's a p.
Speaker 1: Pos well, a lot of people know that.
Speaker 9: I know, but like, I know, actually like doesn't play
Speaker 9: like he really likes stays strong to it, and I
Speaker 9: think he tried to. I mean, I can't speak obviously
Speaker 9: for what he actually did or didn't do, but I
Speaker 9: think he knew and stayed away from Diddy. And he
Speaker 9: wasn't one of the celebrities who just kind of went
Speaker 9: along with what was going on, because did he have
Speaker 9: so much power?
Speaker 5: Fifty was like uh uh f this man fifty cents
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Speaker 9: because he is, like you said, swallowing a pill and
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Speaker 7: No, don't say that.
Speaker 9: You can't say that if he's not here, von So
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Speaker 5: Rightly about him when he's not here, well man, which
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Speaker 9: Say those on the radio. All right, Let's get into
Speaker 9: some group therapy kd w B d Ryan Show. Okay,
Speaker 9: so we have Nikki on the phone. He sent us
Speaker 9: an email about something that kind of happened a confrontation
Speaker 9: with her sister over Thanksgiving. So, Nikki, what is going
Speaker 9: on with you for group therapy today?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 11: Well, I've been single for about nine years, I would say,
Speaker 11: and I've dated a bit here and there, but I
Speaker 11: really haven't had a boyfriend for a while. And then
Speaker 11: I met this guy and there was just this really
Speaker 11: strong connection right off the bat, and I I really
Speaker 11: think that he might be the one that I'm gonna marry, okay,
Speaker 11: And it was It's kind of like a whirlwind, you know.
Speaker 11: And he does like so many really wonderful and kind
Speaker 11: things for me that I really.
Speaker 8: Love, like what.
Speaker 11: Well, like pretty much every time I see him, he
Speaker 11: has some kind of like little gift for me, so
Speaker 11: maybe like a candle or a Starbucks gift card. He's
Speaker 11: just really thoughtful. And he'll text me in the morning
Speaker 11: a good morning, and every night he texts me good night,
Speaker 11: and he'll say a lot of the time that we're
Speaker 11: meant to be together. And we have a song he
Speaker 11: sent me a buck Do you know that Savage Garden song?
Speaker 11: I knew I loved you.
Speaker 8: I think.
Speaker 6: This it's like from the nineties fall. Yeah, that's way.
Speaker 7: And back and forth, like okay, yeah, I love that song.
Speaker 11: I love that song too, so he said that's our song.
Speaker 11: So so it's been going really really great. But this
Speaker 11: past week I went to my grandma's for Thanksgiving and
Speaker 11: he was texting me a ton and I didn't really
Speaker 11: think anything of it because that's how we normally communicate.
Speaker 11: And he was texting me like, how are you, what
Speaker 11: are you eating? What's the best dessert? Are you watching
Speaker 11: the football game? You know, stuff like that, And I
Speaker 11: showed my sister because I thought it was really sweet.
Speaker 11: And then my sister was like, this is love bombing.
Speaker 11: It's not okay, you shouldn't see him anymore. And I
Speaker 11: don't know. I was just kind of taken aback by that.
Speaker 11: And I don't know if I'm naive, but this is
Speaker 11: this dangerous?
Speaker 9: Is it bad?
Speaker 11: I don't know. I just thought he was being sweet.
Speaker 5: So you so you've been single for nine years now
Speaker 5: you think you found the one because he's doing all
Speaker 5: these romantic things, But your sister thinks it's love bombing.
Speaker 11: Yeah, she like really, she just made me feel really
Speaker 11: bad about it, to be honest, And I thought it
Speaker 11: was really how much interested in my day and was
Speaker 11: going on but she thinks it's love bombing.
Speaker 7: So my question is, you guys have been dating for
Speaker 7: how long? This is new?
Speaker 9: Right?
Speaker 11: Yeah, it's been almost two months.
Speaker 9: Okay, So I mean it sounds like right off the bat, yeah,
Speaker 9: you like had pretty strong feelings for him, but then
Speaker 9: he jumped right into like what sounds like getting you
Speaker 9: gifts and like kind of surprising you with sweet things.
Speaker 6: He sent her a song.
Speaker 5: But there are people already texting saying love bomb, love bomb.
Speaker 5: Somebody said, I'm such a paranoid free but I'm hearing
Speaker 5: love bombing.
Speaker 9: Okay, So if you don't know what love bombing is,
Speaker 9: it's basically when you start in a relationship and someone
Speaker 9: goes like crazy with the affection, attention, gives gifts, stuff
Speaker 9: like that. But it's more of like try and create
Speaker 9: this emotional bond independence on the other person so that
Speaker 9: the person doesn't leave.
Speaker 5: Almost what's wrong with I hear what you're saying, But
Speaker 5: what's wrong with me showing you affection?
Speaker 6: Especially so early?
Speaker 5: That's when they call it the honeymoon phase, the cupcake phase,
Speaker 5: when everything's like, oh I love you, I love you too.
Speaker 9: I think there's a line that can be drawn with
Speaker 9: it where it's like, if you're getting a gift every
Speaker 9: single time you see each other, and you guys are
Speaker 9: seeing each other like four days out of the seven
Speaker 9: of the week, then that's probably a little bit too
Speaker 9: much because then you're just like going.
Speaker 7: To get so used to that.
Speaker 9: But we're curious to hear what you have to say
Speaker 9: if you want to give us a call six one
Speaker 9: nine eight nine katiew B. Basically, what's going on is
Speaker 9: NICKI met this guy that she's been dating for a
Speaker 9: couple of months, and right off the batch, he feels
Speaker 9: like they hit it off, and then you know, he
Speaker 9: started doing a lot of sweet things, giving her gifts
Speaker 9: pretty consistently.
Speaker 7: He texts her a lot.
Speaker 9: He apparently says that the Savage Garden song is their song.
Speaker 9: And then over Thanksgiving, her sister was like, Ah, this
Speaker 9: dude is love bombing you. You need to like run,
Speaker 9: So do you feel the same. You can give us
Speaker 9: a call six nine y nine, katiew B. We'd love
Speaker 9: to hear what you have to say and if NICKI
Speaker 9: should run. First off is Alex on the phone.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 8: First of all, love you guys so much, love your
Speaker 8: morning show, love you back, And I think that this
Speaker 8: love bombing?
Speaker 11: For sure.
Speaker 8: If it feels too good to be true, then it
Speaker 8: is too good to be true. It's like one thing
Speaker 8: to want to be together and know how your day's going,
Speaker 8: but to be checking in that frequently to red flags?
Speaker 6: How did a red flag?
Speaker 7: So, Alex, have you been in this position before?
Speaker 11: I have?
Speaker 8: Okay, toxic? I think about like the longevity of this.
Speaker 8: You cannot be checking in with each other this much
Speaker 8: twenty four to seven?
Speaker 6: Why not?
Speaker 13: So?
Speaker 7: What do you feel like was toxic with yours?
Speaker 11: Like?
Speaker 7: How did yours end?
Speaker 9: Was it a matter of like you did start to
Speaker 9: become like dependent on him or her?
Speaker 8: No, not dependent at all. I felt like there was
Speaker 8: more space that needed to be had and I wasn't
Speaker 8: getting it. And I feel like you've got to be
Speaker 8: able to be your own person and have your person.
Speaker 8: You can't rely on the other person to the extent
Speaker 8: that he's relying on her for happiness.
Speaker 11: It seems so.
Speaker 7: Then I'm assuming you ended the relationship.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, many years ago, Marrik, now two kids? Okay,
Speaker 8: got it?
Speaker 7: Got it? Okay?
Speaker 9: So Alex, you're saying it's love bombing and you think
Speaker 9: Nikki should stay get out of it.
Speaker 7: What do you think.
Speaker 8: I hopink she think it out of it. She's happy,
Speaker 8: she's happy, but if she has to be able to
Speaker 8: return that energy for the rest of her life.
Speaker 7: And yeah, I don't unders.
Speaker 5: I don't get how. There's so many I'm not even
Speaker 5: gonna just say women. There are so many people that
Speaker 5: crave for a man or a woman or anybody to
Speaker 5: give them everything on the planet. I'm I am one
Speaker 5: of those people that I love to give my girlfriend
Speaker 5: that list of the world. We've been together going on
Speaker 5: four years, but me going above and beyond, and you
Speaker 5: guys have had to talk me down about buying fifteen
Speaker 5: things just because she had a bad day.
Speaker 7: That's when you started dating her.
Speaker 9: Were you constantly showing up and giving her a gift
Speaker 9: every single time you saw her?
Speaker 5: Not a gift, but I was definitely on my p's
Speaker 5: and q's because I had to show her that that's
Speaker 5: what I wanted in life.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I wanted her.
Speaker 9: I just think that there is a clear difference between
Speaker 9: me interested in showing interest and love bombing.
Speaker 7: There is a difference.
Speaker 9: There is manipulation when it comes to love bombing, where
Speaker 9: you are literally getting that person so hooked up on
Speaker 9: you that you can then potentially manipulate them later in
Speaker 9: the relationship. You were not doing that, you were being sweet,
Speaker 9: you were doing kind things for Alisa, And now you're
Speaker 9: at a different phase in your life where maybe you
Speaker 9: do all of these things that Nikki is saying, but
Speaker 9: you guys are in a serious relationship and you've gotten
Speaker 9: to that point.
Speaker 5: I guess the only difference is, yeah, Nikki's case that
Speaker 5: this is very, very fresh. I don't know how much
Speaker 5: I was doing compared to this guy because it was
Speaker 5: four years ago.
Speaker 6: But somebody texting us that sounds called dependent. No, I'm
Speaker 6: just a lover.
Speaker 7: Vond is a lover here. We got some more people
Speaker 7: on the phone.
Speaker 9: LeRoy's on the phone, LeRoi, what do you want to
Speaker 9: say about this group therapy?
Speaker 2: I think that if it is love bombing is just
Speaker 2: a definition that people want to put on it.
Speaker 11: You can't.
Speaker 2: You're not a doctor about it. So if she likes it,
Speaker 2: she likes it, maybe her sister needs to relax and
Speaker 2: stay out her business because we're all grown up and
Speaker 2: that's the problem in as well. We're in each other's
Speaker 2: business too much, well doing things, okay?
Speaker 9: Is it fair though to be in your sister's business,
Speaker 9: because I think I would probably be in my sister's
Speaker 9: business as if I was concerned.
Speaker 2: No, I really don't think it is fair to be
Speaker 2: in people business because you don't have a clue what's
Speaker 2: going on in that man's mind, and you might not
Speaker 2: have a clue what's going on in your sisters. Just
Speaker 2: because he's buying things, don't mean he's trying to love Bomber. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, I just think people stay in everybody's business
Speaker 2: way too much. It's become a norm.
Speaker 7: Clara, you don't think.
Speaker 9: That it was a little bit too much for him
Speaker 9: to say that this is their song.
Speaker 2: Oh no, maybe he actually felt like that. And that's
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. You don't really have a clue on
Speaker 2: what people are feeling, so you can't put him in
Speaker 2: a box.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and what's going on?
Speaker 2: You got to let him live their life.
Speaker 9: Okay, I mean that's a different take on it. I
Speaker 9: appreciate you, Lee, right, thanks so much for calling in.
Speaker 9: We also have Francisco on the phone. Francisco, Nikki got
Speaker 9: into a new relationship. She's been seeing this guy. He
Speaker 9: gives her a lot of gifts, He texts her pretty
Speaker 9: often and now he already says that they have the
Speaker 9: song by Savage Garden. What do you think Francisco has
Speaker 9: this love bombing? Should she run like her sister says
Speaker 9: or stick it out?
Speaker 6: Jenny Mordy Bond whateut.
Speaker 14: First off, I want to tell Nicky if she is listening,
Speaker 14: I'm just speaking from my experience.
Speaker 6: Yes, I think that's important.
Speaker 14: Just wants you to to know that from my experience.
Speaker 14: When I first met my wife, we first started talking,
Speaker 14: I knew what I wanted in life, and she uh
Speaker 14: fit a lot of those things. Well, it isn't the work,
Speaker 14: it's more I saw a lot of these characteristics in her,
Speaker 14: and from the beginning I knew I loved that about
Speaker 14: her and I appreciated that. So I made sure in
Speaker 14: the beginning right away to inform her and let her
Speaker 14: know that this is how I'm feeling, this is what
Speaker 14: I wanted. And at the end of the day, it
Speaker 14: worked out because she felt the same way and she
Speaker 14: reciprocated the feeling. At the end of the day, you know,
Speaker 14: it's really up to you the way you're feeling, Nikki,
Speaker 14: and it's really it's your life.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's your love language. And I think the relationship
Speaker 5: that you develop with your partner. There's so many text
Speaker 5: messages coming in. A lot of people agree with that
Speaker 5: last called leroy. Some other people are saying this love
Speaker 5: bombing stuff is crazy and you could text five, three,
Speaker 5: nine to one. By the way, love bombing stuff is crazy.
Speaker 5: Let people be kind and loving and have communication. I've
Speaker 5: been in a relationship for four years and I expect
Speaker 5: this type of communication and being spoiled for my boyfriend,
Speaker 5: and he loves doing that. Let people be happy, and
Speaker 5: that's all I'm saying. I don't know what Nikki and
Speaker 5: this guy have agreed on. I just don't see the
Speaker 5: problem with continuing to show your partner affection. And it's
Speaker 5: only been two months, so we have to see how
Speaker 5: much longer this develops.
Speaker 7: I agree.
Speaker 9: I think though, on the flip side of things, is
Speaker 9: like you've never been in a position before to have
Speaker 9: been love bombed where someone has completely like turned the
Speaker 9: table on you out of nowhere after they just showed
Speaker 9: you all of this emotional connection and then out of
Speaker 9: nowhere they're like just kidding. So like there is people
Speaker 9: who have experienced actual love bombing, and so they are
Speaker 9: scarred from that and they don't want this girl to
Speaker 9: get hurt the way that they did. I know someone
Speaker 9: I'm very close with who got love bombed reala recently
Speaker 9: and it broke her and I literally like I wanted
Speaker 9: to just shake that person, because how dare you pretend
Speaker 9: like you like someone so much and do kind things
Speaker 9: for them and then just be like psych just kidding
Speaker 9: and then like leave.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's fine.
Speaker 5: I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I'm just saying
Speaker 5: we can't jump the conclusion.
Speaker 6: It's only been two months of this guy doing this
Speaker 6: stuff for sure.
Speaker 9: I mean, obviously we don't know what their relationship actually
Speaker 9: is like between the two of them. We are basing
Speaker 9: this off of a two minute conversation with Nikki, but
Speaker 9: I think her sister's looking out for her. If you
Speaker 9: missed it, Nikki basically was that Thanksgiving and she was
Speaker 9: telling her sister about how this new guy she's been seeing.
Speaker 9: He was texting her like pretty consistently, asking her a
Speaker 9: million questions throughout Thanksgiving, and he also gives her a
Speaker 9: lot of gifts. He already has a song for them,
Speaker 9: and her sister was like, that's love bombing, and it's
Speaker 9: you should run it's not okay. But yeah, so we've
Speaker 9: had quite a text We'll do one more phone call
Speaker 9: and the we're gonna.
Speaker 7: Wrap this up.
Speaker 9: We have Lisa on the phone. Hi, Lisa, Hi, what
Speaker 9: did you want to say about group therapy?
Speaker 10: I just went to the same thing. I started seeing
Speaker 10: some guy. He bought me roses. He told me he
Speaker 10: loved me, he would send me texts all the time.
Speaker 10: But then after like a month and a half, I
Speaker 10: started turning really bad.
Speaker 11: He was rude to me.
Speaker 10: I felt a kindom of lies. I'm like, it was horrible.
Speaker 10: But this guy that she's seeing isn't doing like, isn't lying,
Speaker 10: is so sweet.
Speaker 8: It's okay with being apart from her and not trying
Speaker 8: to move in or anything like that.
Speaker 10: I'd tell her to take take her chances.
Speaker 9: Yeah, so you've even experienced it and you're saying still,
Speaker 9: maybe do it, but just be cautious because obviously, like
Speaker 9: it turned for you, it turned into a pretty negative
Speaker 9: situation for you.
Speaker 10: Yes, very bad. Like it was like roses, little sweet,
Speaker 10: nothing's always pain. I'm like a complete listening to flying
Speaker 10: to me. You want to and because he couldn't move in,
Speaker 10: he's threw a big fit. He talked badly about me
Speaker 10: to a friends or family, and like that was like
Speaker 10: a true case of love bombing. But if this guy
Speaker 10: is still doing the things for her and it's not
Speaker 10: fighting with her, and that's saying bad things about her,
Speaker 10: and it's still perfect and I tell her to take
Speaker 10: my chance of okay, I like that.
Speaker 9: I mean, we've gotten a lot of different things and
Speaker 9: so many text messages that have come in. We can
Speaker 9: read a couple of these, but then we'll wrap up.
Speaker 9: Love Bombing is mostly applied when one person feels like
Speaker 9: they're about to lose the other person. Not in the
Speaker 9: first phases. Someone says, someone else says, I'm a therapist.
Speaker 9: And people who say love bombing is so great and
Speaker 9: just one way of showing affection don't truly understand what
Speaker 9: love bombing is. People who are bombing do not like boundaries.
Speaker 9: So she could test it by setting a small limit
Speaker 9: and seeing how he reacts.
Speaker 7: And if he gets upset, then that.
Speaker 9: It would be her sign to run. Then that comes
Speaker 9: from a therapist.
Speaker 6: We just don't don't.
Speaker 5: We don't know if they set boundaries, or if she's
Speaker 5: okay with it or what. Because she has been fine
Speaker 5: with it. I'm just saying we cannot put the we
Speaker 5: cannot jump the conclusion and say that he's love bombing,
Speaker 5: because if that's the case, anytime anybody shows any affection
Speaker 5: in a relationship, but we jump to that, I'm sorry,
Speaker 5: you'll probably be single for a while.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 7: All right, Well that's gonna do it for group therapy.
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