WEBVTT - 7am Hour - G's Move In Silence Like Lasagna

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<v Speaker 1>It is time now for a Christmas Wish live as

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<v Speaker 1>it happens here on KTLGB. That's the way we do them,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes it goes flawlessly and sometimes it's there's a

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<v Speaker 1>little hiccup here and there. But at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day we help somebody out who needs some help

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<v Speaker 1>through the holidays. It's time for another Dave Ryan show

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<v Speaker 1>for Christmas Wish. I'm going to check in with Brandon,

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<v Speaker 1>who is our official delivery guy and hangs out outside

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<v Speaker 1>the house and looks like a creep in a van.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's not a creep in a van. It's Brandon

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<v Speaker 1>from College Muscle Movers. Brandon, how are you this morning?

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<v Speaker 2>Do well?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you what time you have to get up? Brandon?

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<v Speaker 3>To go do this anyway? I think today it was mythornity.

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<v Speaker 1>Not too bad, okay, Brandon, thanks for what you do.

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<v Speaker 1>And if somebody wants to move, let's say that they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to move to Victoria, would you load their stuff

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<v Speaker 1>up and move it to Victoria and put it in

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<v Speaker 1>their new house?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely Okay, So get a hold of College Muscle Movers

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<v Speaker 1>and Brandon, thanks for doing what you do. Please stand by.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's meet our wish sure this morning. Marissa. Hi Marissa,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi guys. Are you good? You were actually in here

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<v Speaker 1>eight years ago for your thirtieth birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I was the crazy girl that loves al pakas.

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<v Speaker 1>So you did you come in with an alpaca? We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to remember this.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually they I called an alpaca farm, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>the only thing I want to do for my thirtieth

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<v Speaker 4>birthday is like go see alpacas. And I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 4>they thought I was crazy because they don't normally have

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<v Speaker 4>people like.

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<v Speaker 6>At the farm.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, and they're like, okay, we'll take you out there.

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<v Speaker 4>And my husband at the time was just like me

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<v Speaker 4>running after the alpaca is like a three year old

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<v Speaker 4>and like wanting to give them hugs and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Else able I heard.

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<v Speaker 7>They're kind of sometimes okay, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Have to like some of them have nice personalities and

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<v Speaker 4>some of them don't. Like if you get a mom

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<v Speaker 4>and a baby, the mom is like super territorial, but

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<v Speaker 4>like the old, like the old grumpier ones, they're like

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<v Speaker 4>the nicer around.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, good to know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so funny. Well, I'm glad you're here. Yeah, totally

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<v Speaker 1>different reason.

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<v Speaker 7>This year totally different reason the sun.

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<v Speaker 1>You are doing a Christmas wish for a coworker, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>at your daycare school.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So I am a toddler teacher. I work at a

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<v Speaker 4>private daycare, private preschool called Knowledge Beginnings in Badness Heights,

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<v Speaker 4>And so she is a fellow coworker of mine. Not

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<v Speaker 4>only do I teach her son, but she teaches my son.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you kind of became friends.

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<v Speaker 4>We kind of became friends. So I've been there like

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<v Speaker 4>over a year. We kind of became friends. My son

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<v Speaker 4>started going to this daycare, but prior to me working there,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I met her and she is just like

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<v Speaker 4>one of the most kindest, sweetest people.

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<v Speaker 3>So I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Either way, if you want to watch this whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>Marissa is on camera right now at Dave Ryan TV

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube, and you would watch Christmas wish as it unfold.

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<v Speaker 5>Marissa, he moved the mic just to the side of

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<v Speaker 5>your face. Show you beautiful face on the camera.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all we can see is the Dave Ryan logo.

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<v Speaker 3>There you go.

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<v Speaker 6>Ok?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, perfect?

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Now, remember this happens without a net. Last time

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<v Speaker 1>I tried dialing out on this phone, which we bought

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<v Speaker 1>at Radio Shack in nineteen ninety four. It didn't work,

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<v Speaker 1>but let me try it again to see if it works.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, it sounds good.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, good tign Already there we go.

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<v Speaker 6>At least we have a dial tone.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Jenny, you're gonna have to dial it and put

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<v Speaker 1>it on hold, so thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>And the warranty ran out on this radio shack phone

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<v Speaker 1>in nineteen ninety five, so it's kind of disappointing, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we'll make.

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<v Speaker 3>It work somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny is dialing the wish and what did you tell

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<v Speaker 1>her to make sure she answers the phone this morning?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually I did it.

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<v Speaker 4>My boss Holly, who's our executive director, was kind of like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you have a special phone call coming, and she I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, it's from a number you don't know as

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<v Speaker 4>answer it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, good, hopefully she will.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello. Is this Melissa. I'm Melissa. It's Dave Ryan on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio over at Katie WB. Have you heard of

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<v Speaker 1>KATWB before?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 8>I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, would you maybe have any idea? I'm not even

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<v Speaker 1>going to tell you why we're calling, but I can

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<v Speaker 1>help you save fifteen percent on your car insurance.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't hang up. Don't hang up.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 10>I don't know if I.

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<v Speaker 3>Am here to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotcha Marissa from work, and your friend is here.

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<v Speaker 4>Say hi Marissa, Hi Melissa, Hi Maria.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marissa and Melissa. Isn't that adorable? So Marissa wrote

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<v Speaker 1>in for our annual KATIEWB Christmas Wish. Are you familiar

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<v Speaker 1>at all with Christmas Wish?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 11>Not? Really? Actually?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, basically what we do is we ask people who

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<v Speaker 1>listen to KATIEWB to tell us about somebody they know

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<v Speaker 1>that might be I don't know what the word is,

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<v Speaker 1>struggling or challenged a little bit at Christmas because of

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<v Speaker 1>their situation. And she wants to help you out because

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<v Speaker 1>she loves you, and we're learning a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>you and what she's gonna do if you don't mind,

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<v Speaker 1>She's going to take a minute or two to read

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<v Speaker 1>her Christmas wish for you, Melissa.

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<v Speaker 3>Can she do that?

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<v Speaker 11>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi Melissa?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay a right.

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<v Speaker 4>There is a quote by Robin Sharma that perfectly describes

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<v Speaker 4>Melissa's wish story. Remember that the happiest people are not

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<v Speaker 4>those who have everything or those getting more, but rather

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<v Speaker 4>those who are giving more. I'm a firm believer that

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<v Speaker 4>certain people are meant to cross your path in life

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<v Speaker 4>and forever change the way you appreciate all of life's blessings.

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<v Speaker 4>Melissa crossed my path over a year ago when I

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<v Speaker 4>started working as a toddler teacher at a private daycare

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<v Speaker 4>in Badness Heights called Knowledge Beginnings. Melissa is not only

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<v Speaker 4>my coworker, but my son's preschool teacher and fantastic mom

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<v Speaker 4>of three beautiful children.

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<v Speaker 6>For those of you who know her of cross paths

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<v Speaker 6>with her, know.

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<v Speaker 4>That she is one of the most dedicated teachers to

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<v Speaker 4>her students, her classroom, and her family. She is truly

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<v Speaker 4>one of the most giving, kind and selfless people I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever met in my life and has truly taught me

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<v Speaker 4>that happiness is not defined by things, but by spreading

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<v Speaker 4>kindness and joy. Racily, Melissa has encountered quite the hardship.

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<v Speaker 4>She was able to get out of a rough situation

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<v Speaker 4>and move out on her own with her three children

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<v Speaker 4>to her own apartment in Woodbury as a single mother,

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<v Speaker 4>she is truly starting over with the bare minimal things

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<v Speaker 4>to support her and her children, and this Christmas, I

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<v Speaker 4>have nominated her for Dave Ryan's Christmas wish. No mother

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<v Speaker 4>should ever have to worry each day about how she

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<v Speaker 4>will afford basic things, how she'll pay rent to keep

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<v Speaker 4>a roof over her head, or how she will begin

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<v Speaker 4>to even tackle affording Christmas presents for her children, or

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<v Speaker 4>let alone getting a gift herself. Melissa spent so much

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<v Speaker 4>time giving everything she has to everybody else around her

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<v Speaker 4>that it's time she and her family received some blessings

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<v Speaker 4>and we took care of her today. Your wishes come true.

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<v Speaker 4>And I hope you know how much you are loved, appreciated,

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<v Speaker 4>and cared for by your friends, family, and students.

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<v Speaker 6>In your community.

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<v Speaker 4>We love you, Melissa, and we hope these blessings truly

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<v Speaker 4>make your Christmas beautiful and forgettable. And I'll end it

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<v Speaker 4>with this, what if Christmas doesn't come from a store,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe Christmas means a little bit more from the Grinch.

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<v Speaker 6>And we love you, Melissa.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 8>That was beautiful, It really was.

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<v Speaker 1>And so to follow up with her idea, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to help you out. And and the first thing I

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<v Speaker 1>talked to Marisa a couple of days ago, and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what is she? What is what is Melissa? What does

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa need? She needs a vacuum cleaner. Yep, do you

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<v Speaker 1>need a vacuum cleaner?

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<v Speaker 12>Well too that I have. They work, They just still

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<v Speaker 12>work very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know that happened. Vacuum cleaners they're they're just

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<v Speaker 1>they do that. We got you an expensive Bissel cross

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<v Speaker 1>Wave edge Find vacuum cleaner. Merry Christmas. But wait, there's more,

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<v Speaker 1>because we're not going to just give you a vacuum

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<v Speaker 1>cleaner and say that's it, but we do.

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<v Speaker 8>I would be happy with just that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll bet you would. It's so important working vacuum cleaner.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got. You've got three kids. Let's let's talk about Elijah.

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<v Speaker 1>Elijah's your baby. Fifteen months old? Yes, yes, So for Elijah.

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<v Speaker 1>We got some toys, we got some clothes. We got

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<v Speaker 1>a paw patrol fire engine. I think that's about the

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<v Speaker 1>right age. It's getting pretty close to the right age.

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<v Speaker 3>Avery. How old is Avery?

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<v Speaker 11>Two?

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<v Speaker 8>Three?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Avery? Is that a boy or a girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Name?

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<v Speaker 13>A girl name?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I love that name.

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<v Speaker 1>If I ever have another baby, I'm a name or

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<v Speaker 1>him Avery. We've got some lounge wear and some trendy outfits.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a toy doctor kit, a toy makeup.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, good, Yeah, and some bath bombs for avery, some

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<v Speaker 1>things to put under the tree. And is it Bryson

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<v Speaker 1>that is your six year old?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, tell me about Bryson. What is Bryson into?

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<v Speaker 13>I mean, he's right now seriously into legos. Otherwise he

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<v Speaker 13>loves like any any kind of dinosaur. He's just been

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<v Speaker 13>really into, like the Jurassic World stuff. Otherwise, he just

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<v Speaker 13>likes building it, like working with his hands. I guess, like,

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<v Speaker 13>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got a Jurassic World dinosaur revealed toy that we

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<v Speaker 1>think he'll like. We've got minecraft legos, so he can.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope he scatters him on the floor and you

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<v Speaker 1>step on him in the dark, and just remember this

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas wish. Magnetic tiles. We got some cargo pants and

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<v Speaker 1>a vest, and you know, kids don't care about clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>but mom does and he needs them anyway. We got

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<v Speaker 1>a hoodie and some khakis. And then for you, Melissa,

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<v Speaker 1>just to kind of ease the burden, we get just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a boatload a variety of different things. Here

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and one dollar Holiday Station Stores gas card

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<v Speaker 1>to cover a couple of tanks of gas. Three hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars down at Target for gifts or groceries or Tiede

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<v Speaker 1>laundry detergent or whatever you need. That vacuum cleaner, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a bissele. That's a good one. One hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon gift card, Broadway Pizza. Sarah never read to you

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<v Speaker 1>a Broadway pizza donated one hundred dollar Broadway Pizza gift

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<v Speaker 1>card to everybody who's getting to wish this year.

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<v Speaker 3>So you got that.

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<v Speaker 8>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's something nobody has ever, ever ever wished for

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<v Speaker 1>a free oil change. But guess what, Me and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>at Valveleene has donated three, no two free oil changes

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<v Speaker 1>from Valveleene instant oil Change. And thanks to Amy and

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<v Speaker 1>Valveleene for donating them. And it's one of those things

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<v Speaker 1>where you don't go, wow, I really want to get

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<v Speaker 1>an oil but sometimes you go, oh, I'll get to

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<v Speaker 1>get an oil change free for the next two.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh and also we got one hundred dollars gift

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<v Speaker 1>card for you to Woodhouse Spa get some relaxation and uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And Marissa has offered to watch the kids for as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you want a week, a week or two.

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<v Speaker 6>I will watch them.

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<v Speaker 3>You know I will, and so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can go to one of their three locations. Thanks to

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<v Speaker 1>Woodhouse Spa for a generous donation, and if you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>for a holiday gift idea, go to Woodhouse Spa. Woodhouse Spa.

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<v Speaker 1>It's either spas or SPA, I'm not sure. Woodhouse Spa

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. And that is for you, just to send

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<v Speaker 1>a little love and encouragement and a thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>doing all you do. And I know you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>starting a new chapter of your life and thanks be

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit challenging, but I hope this makes your

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas for you and the three babies a little bit brighter.

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<v Speaker 12>Thank you so much. I seriously appreciate all of this.

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<v Speaker 12>I'm gonna have to have a list of everything. I

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<v Speaker 12>don't even remember.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something you don't have to now. Here's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>outside your house. There's a guy named Brandon. He works

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<v Speaker 1>for College Muscle Movers, and he's loaded all this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>up into his van and he's going to bring it

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<v Speaker 1>in for you as soon as we're done. If you

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<v Speaker 1>peeked out your front window, you'd probably see him. He's

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<v Speaker 1>out there right now, so within seconds.

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<v Speaker 8>You know, apartment right now, he's there right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's there right now.

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<v Speaker 8>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So within within five minutes, you know what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have that bistle plugged in and turned on

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<v Speaker 1>and sucking up dirt.

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<v Speaker 13>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Melissa, thanks for letting us step into your day,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope you have a merry, merry Christmas. From

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<v Speaker 1>all of us here at KWB, say goodbye, say goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>to Marissa, Meliss.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm so glad that I'm Dave Ryan.

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<v Speaker 4>I just wanted to thank everybody here at the show

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<v Speaker 4>and all of the people that don'tate it to Christmas wish.

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<v Speaker 4>You truly make a difference in people's lives who really

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<v Speaker 4>need it, especially around the holiday. So I just wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to thank all of you guys, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>thank Melissa for everything that she's done. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>hope you have a great Christmas.

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<v Speaker 7>You deserve it.

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<v Speaker 12>Thank you, Marissa. I really appreciate all this. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 12>so truly speechless.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay.

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<v Speaker 12>I'm extremely happy and thankful for all of this.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you, thank you, and thanks for doing what

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<v Speaker 1>you do, and good luck on this new chapter in

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<v Speaker 1>your life.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so right, Marissa, that we need donations because a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of these are funded by Sure. We have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of help from Treasure Island Resort and Casino, and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of help from holiday station stores. But we

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<v Speaker 1>could only do a few wishes if it weren't for

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<v Speaker 1>your donation. So if this made you go, wow, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I've got it pretty good. I've got toys,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a tree that's coming up, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>working vacuum cleaner, whatever, then go online katiewb dot com

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<v Speaker 1>slash wish and please make a donation. And maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>very blessed this Christmas. Maybe you're going to Orlando and

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<v Speaker 1>Disney for Christmas, or maybe you've got a big maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you've got a bunch of presents or a new car, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>you are very blessed. If you can share some of

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<v Speaker 1>that with people who need it, we will take very

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<v Speaker 1>good care of your money. It is tax deductible. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to donate a lot and you care about that,

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<v Speaker 1>it is tax deductible from youth link. So go online

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<v Speaker 1>KWB dot com slash wish. Thank you Marissa for coming in.

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<v Speaker 1>You were a delight. Hey take a minute please and

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<v Speaker 1>donate for Christmas wish because we do need your help

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<v Speaker 1>to make these happen all the way up until the

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<v Speaker 1>day before Christmas Eve. I think we're gonna do Christmas wishes,

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<v Speaker 1>so donate please on KDWB dot com, Slack The Dave

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Show one on one point three KDWB. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you've seen Amy Schumer lately, but she is

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<v Speaker 1>one of those celebrities that has lost weight and looks

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<v Speaker 1>so different. Who else did that? Was it Jessicas Simpson

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<v Speaker 1>that lost a lot of weight and so different?

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<v Speaker 7>She lost a lot of weight. Kelly Osborne Bourne.

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<v Speaker 5>Looks so littrel howry too. He's the copin Get Out Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 5>and he's a comedian. He also has Olympic face.

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<v Speaker 1>If you think her husband is enjoying her new look,

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<v Speaker 1>you might be wrong, because it sounds like she's not

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<v Speaker 1>taking them along in the new journey. Amy's posted some

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<v Speaker 1>new thirst traps over the weekend. It wasn't It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the excess pounds that were missing. She was also without

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<v Speaker 1>her wedding ring.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh no.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, she doesn't seem to have it on in

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<v Speaker 1>any of the pictures she's posted since she scrubbed all

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<v Speaker 1>her old photos and videos a few weeks ago. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's a coincidence, but the British tabloids are saying that

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<v Speaker 1>she is indeed at dumping her husband Chris. They say

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<v Speaker 1>Amy is one hundred percent getting divorced, she got skinny,

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<v Speaker 1>she is over it would that really happen? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are heavy and then you lose weight, do

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<v Speaker 1>you say I'm gonna dump my partner. There must have

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<v Speaker 1>been some other underlying issues there.

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<v Speaker 9>I was gonna say, I don't it's just because she

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<v Speaker 9>got She's like, forget him.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm skinny now.

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<v Speaker 5>Because as it is, the stereotype is that it's backwards,

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<v Speaker 5>like when they gain weight, you lose them or you

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<v Speaker 5>leave them, but it's still either way.

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<v Speaker 9>So vander Pump Rules is returning tonight to Bravo. If

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<v Speaker 9>you remember, I'm not a huge Bravo person, but I

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<v Speaker 9>kept up with a lot of the scanned val stuff

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<v Speaker 9>because there was this big, infamous affair and the cast

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<v Speaker 9>had grown apart because of the infidelity in the material

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<v Speaker 9>between a bunch of the castmates, and so Bravo announced

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<v Speaker 9>last year that a newcast would join vander Pump Rules.

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<v Speaker 9>That just like the original cast. These members are part

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<v Speaker 9>of the staff of the Beverly Hills restaurant, which is

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<v Speaker 9>operated by Lisa vander Pump, so she just like follows

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<v Speaker 9>them around like a reality show. And then these people

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<v Speaker 9>become like so famous and then they're not servers anymore,

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<v Speaker 9>which sounds like a great gig, you know, Like.

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<v Speaker 7>Why couldn't that have happened to me?

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<v Speaker 9>When I was at Bubba Gump right well, I wanted

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<v Speaker 9>that the man they could have gotten some great drama.

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<v Speaker 1>From, they would have gotten drama.

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<v Speaker 9>Gum oh service texts me in right now. The amount

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<v Speaker 9>of drama that's at is crazy. When everyone sleeping with

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<v Speaker 9>each other bamboo, Yes, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>When I worked at I Hop, three different managers, all

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<v Speaker 5>of them sleeping with each other, and they all don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what the rest of us in IHOP do.

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<v Speaker 6>Now I don't know, but it does happen.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, Like I had a manager who was sleeping with

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<v Speaker 9>like the kitchen manager. But that manager at the front

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<v Speaker 9>of the house was burried so much drama.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm telling you, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wonder if that's the most drama filled. I thought hair

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<v Speaker 1>stylists were the most drama filled.

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<v Speaker 7>They get the tea.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't they get okay.

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<v Speaker 9>Drama filled themselves. They're just the ones that get all

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<v Speaker 9>the tea I can.

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<v Speaker 1>The restaurant workers, they're the ones that are hooking up

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<v Speaker 1>with each other and being slimy.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, because they work like twelve hour shifts and then

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<v Speaker 9>they're like, let's get drinks afterwards to wind down, and

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<v Speaker 9>then one thing leads to a next, and big bang.

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<v Speaker 6>Boom, big bang bom.

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<v Speaker 5>Simon cal said he is sorry for being such a

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<v Speaker 5>jerk in the early years of American Idol.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean that's his his stick.

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<v Speaker 5>He literally became famous because he was kind of known

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<v Speaker 5>as the mean judge. But he's saying that he's older

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<v Speaker 5>and wiser and a dab kind of.

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<v Speaker 7>He was absolutely the the show.

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<v Speaker 3>He put the American Idol on the map. He really did.

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<v Speaker 3>He literally did make the show.

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<v Speaker 1>But I remember the first time I want to watched

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<v Speaker 1>American Idol, and all my life i'd watch talent shows

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<v Speaker 1>where they were like, you know, yeah, you were good, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>keep working on it, and he would be like that

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<v Speaker 1>was dreadful.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's nice. He's like Gordon Ramsay. He'd be like,

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<v Speaker 5>I've seen dog's poop and it was more entertaining than you.

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<v Speaker 5>That's literally Simon cow Simon Simon made that show. Paula

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<v Speaker 5>was the nice, kind of odd one, and then Randy

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<v Speaker 5>was just the cool one. But rand me to know

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<v Speaker 5>exactly right.

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<v Speaker 1>Movies, a lot of classic movies are heading back to

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<v Speaker 1>the big screen this month of the big Screen, National

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<v Speaker 1>Lampoon's Christmas Vacation is going to be showing again in

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<v Speaker 1>the big theaters. How the Grinch Told Christmas Elf, Polar Express,

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<v Speaker 1>Love Actually Screwged Grimlins a Christmas Story, It's a Wonderful Life,

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<v Speaker 1>and Doctor Seuss The Grinch Show are all going to

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<v Speaker 1>be showing in big movie theaters, which I think is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a cool. Yeah, cool thing, your kids out,

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<v Speaker 1>go to the local theater, get him a little popcorn

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<v Speaker 1>and yet a little Coca cola.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a memory.

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<v Speaker 7>Which one of those movies? Would you want to see

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<v Speaker 7>the movie?

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, really good question. I would say probably Christmas Vacation,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my favorite. That's the number one.

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<v Speaker 7>I'd probably do. The Grinch. It's the Jim Carrey version,

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<v Speaker 7>or it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's animated. No, the Jim Carrey version was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of creepy.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh dare you. That's like my favorite thing ever.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm so happy right now because I'm on the Grinch TikTok,

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<v Speaker 9>which happens around Christmas time because there's a Grinch character

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<v Speaker 9>at like disney World or Disneyland or something, and he

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<v Speaker 9>plays the Grinch so well, and it's so he like

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<v Speaker 9>goes y roll around this time, so I keep getting

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<v Speaker 9>tough of him. Somebody who is turning one hundred years

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<v Speaker 9>old on December thirteenth Dick van Dyke. And of course

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<v Speaker 9>you always ask, okay, well, what's your secret?

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<v Speaker 7>How did you live this long?

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<v Speaker 9>Dick Van Dyke says, anger is one thing that eats

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<v Speaker 9>up a person's insides and hate.

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<v Speaker 7>So don't be so angry.

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<v Speaker 3>I read a long time ago. I'm not angry.

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<v Speaker 1>I read a long time ago that anger destroys the

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<v Speaker 1>vessel that contains it. And if you think about that,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, what does it do? It just destroys you

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<v Speaker 1>from the inside. So you just got to find something

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<v Speaker 1>else to focus on. Besides, sure, you can focus on

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<v Speaker 1>how angry you are, but you can focus again instead

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<v Speaker 1>on what makes you happy?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you got to be happy about.

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<v Speaker 9>It's hard to say that in the moment when you

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<v Speaker 9>are really upset about something.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we all get upset. There's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 9>But then when you try to do that like mind shift,

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<v Speaker 9>in those moments, I feel like there is a change.

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<v Speaker 9>There's a change in me when I'm like, all right,

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<v Speaker 9>stop being angry, look at the good.

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<v Speaker 7>Then move forward on the phone, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh is he on the phone? Who's he talking to

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<v Speaker 3>our group therapy?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh dah, okay, gotcha.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's see what else we get.

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<v Speaker 1>The fifty cents documentary about Diddy is streaming today. Starts

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<v Speaker 1>streaming today, and here is a little bit of the trailer.

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<v Speaker 5>We have to find somebody that work with us, that

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<v Speaker 5>has dealt in the dirtiest dirty business.

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<v Speaker 3>Losing Puffy Puff Daddy Diddy show coals.

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<v Speaker 2>All of these weaed incarnations, all of those name changes

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<v Speaker 2>are attacked to really bad deeds.

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<v Speaker 5>Everything in life, you're gonna have people that are bad

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<v Speaker 5>and people that are good.

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<v Speaker 6>You have to choose yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Now here's how you know that it's worth watching. Because

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<v Speaker 1>did he does not want you to see it. His

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<v Speaker 1>spokesperson said that four part docu series from fifty cent

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<v Speaker 1>is a shameful hit piece that's fundamentally unfair and illegal. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>his team called the movie stolen footage that was never

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<v Speaker 1>authorized for release. No rights in that material were ever

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<v Speaker 1>transferred to Netflix or any third party. In one clip

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<v Speaker 1>did he pleads with an associate to resolve an issue, quote,

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<v Speaker 1>We've got to find somebody that'll work with us, that

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<v Speaker 1>is dealt with the dirtiest of dirty business. We're losing.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty Cent previewed a cringe scene yesterday on Good Morning America,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is where Ditty asked for hand sanitizer and

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<v Speaker 1>expresses a desire to take a shower after meeting with fans.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that's the worst of the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if somebody were to, like, you know, stand

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<v Speaker 1>in line meeting like a princess kaya the Milky Way

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<v Speaker 1>of the State Fair, and she wanted to like wash

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<v Speaker 1>her hands afterward, I would not blame her, not in

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<v Speaker 1>the least.

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<v Speaker 9>I admire fifty Son to an extent as like a

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<v Speaker 9>businessman because he like moves in silence until he just

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<v Speaker 9>blows things up, because he has been like waiting to

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<v Speaker 9>blow up Ditty for a while, and he's admitted that

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<v Speaker 9>once Didty was arrested and everything started going down.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't they like each other?

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<v Speaker 7>Well? Because he knows that Ditty's a p.

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<v Speaker 1>Pos well, a lot of people know that.

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<v Speaker 9>I know, but like, I know, actually like doesn't play

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<v Speaker 9>like he really likes stays strong to it, and I

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<v Speaker 9>think he tried to. I mean, I can't speak obviously

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<v Speaker 9>for what he actually did or didn't do, but I

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<v Speaker 9>think he knew and stayed away from Diddy. And he

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<v Speaker 9>wasn't one of the celebrities who just kind of went

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<v Speaker 9>along with what was going on, because did he have

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<v Speaker 9>so much power?

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<v Speaker 5>Fifty was like uh uh f this man fifty cents

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<v Speaker 5>of g You know what they say, Geez moving silence

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<v Speaker 5>like Lasagna?

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<v Speaker 3>Never heard that?

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<v Speaker 6>You never heard that's a low Wain song.

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<v Speaker 7>Geez moving silence like that wins.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, the movie once again, it is called

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<v Speaker 1>The Reckoning. It's a four part doctor series. It is

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix starting two today. That's the Dirt. It is

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<v Speaker 1>brought you by six one two Injured Heimer and Lammer's

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<v Speaker 1>Injury Law. I wish I could stay you guys, but

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<v Speaker 1>I have a doctor's appointment.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta go. I gotta go swallow a.

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<v Speaker 1>Camera pill and uh and then I'll be back tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>And another Christmas wish we did a great one a

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<v Speaker 1>half an hour ago. It just was so sweet. And

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<v Speaker 9>It's a day Ryan in the Morning show on Katie

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<v Speaker 9>w B. Dave just had a jet out of here

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<v Speaker 9>because he is, like you said, swallowing a pill and

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<v Speaker 9>try and figure out what is going on with his

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<v Speaker 9>tummy because he's been having some major issues again once

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<v Speaker 9>again kidding.

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<v Speaker 7>No, don't say that.

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<v Speaker 9>You can't say that if he's not here, von So

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<v Speaker 9>only if he's the here then then it's funny all.

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<v Speaker 5>Rightly about him when he's not here, well man, which

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<v Speaker 5>you can't.

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<v Speaker 9>Say those on the radio. All right, Let's get into

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<v Speaker 9>some group therapy kd w B d Ryan Show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 9>so we have Nikki on the phone. He sent us

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<v Speaker 9>an email about something that kind of happened a confrontation

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<v Speaker 9>with her sister over Thanksgiving. So, Nikki, what is going

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<v Speaker 9>on with you for group therapy today?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 11>Well, I've been single for about nine years, I would say,

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<v Speaker 11>and I've dated a bit here and there, but I

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<v Speaker 11>really haven't had a boyfriend for a while. And then

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<v Speaker 11>I met this guy and there was just this really

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<v Speaker 11>strong connection right off the bat, and I I really

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<v Speaker 11>think that he might be the one that I'm gonna marry, okay,

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<v Speaker 11>And it was It's kind of like a whirlwind, you know.

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<v Speaker 11>And he does like so many really wonderful and kind

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<v Speaker 11>things for me that I really.

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<v Speaker 8>Love, like what.

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<v Speaker 11>Well, like pretty much every time I see him, he

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<v Speaker 11>has some kind of like little gift for me, so

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<v Speaker 11>maybe like a candle or a Starbucks gift card. He's

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<v Speaker 11>just really thoughtful. And he'll text me in the morning

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<v Speaker 11>a good morning, and every night he texts me good night,

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<v Speaker 11>and he'll say a lot of the time that we're

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<v Speaker 11>meant to be together. And we have a song he

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<v Speaker 11>sent me a buck Do you know that Savage Garden song?

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<v Speaker 11>I knew I loved you.

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<v Speaker 8>I think.

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<v Speaker 6>This it's like from the nineties fall. Yeah, that's way.

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<v Speaker 7>And back and forth, like okay, yeah, I love that song.

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<v Speaker 11>I love that song too, so he said that's our song.

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<v Speaker 11>So so it's been going really really great. But this

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<v Speaker 11>past week I went to my grandma's for Thanksgiving and

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<v Speaker 11>he was texting me a ton and I didn't really

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<v Speaker 11>think anything of it because that's how we normally communicate.

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<v Speaker 11>And he was texting me like, how are you, what

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<v Speaker 11>are you eating? What's the best dessert? Are you watching

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<v Speaker 11>the football game? You know, stuff like that, And I

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<v Speaker 11>showed my sister because I thought it was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 11>And then my sister was like, this is love bombing.

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<v Speaker 11>It's not okay, you shouldn't see him anymore. And I

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<v Speaker 11>don't know. I was just kind of taken aback by that.

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<v Speaker 11>And I don't know if I'm naive, but this is

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<v Speaker 11>this dangerous?

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<v Speaker 9>Is it bad?

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<v Speaker 11>I don't know. I just thought he was being sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>So you so you've been single for nine years now

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<v Speaker 5>you think you found the one because he's doing all

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<v Speaker 5>these romantic things, But your sister thinks it's love bombing.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, she like really, she just made me feel really

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<v Speaker 11>bad about it, to be honest, And I thought it

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<v Speaker 11>was really how much interested in my day and was

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<v Speaker 11>going on but she thinks it's love bombing.

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<v Speaker 7>So my question is, you guys have been dating for

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<v Speaker 7>how long? This is new?

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<v Speaker 9>Right?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, it's been almost two months.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, So I mean it sounds like right off the bat, yeah,

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<v Speaker 9>you like had pretty strong feelings for him, but then

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<v Speaker 9>he jumped right into like what sounds like getting you

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<v Speaker 9>gifts and like kind of surprising you with sweet things.

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<v Speaker 6>He sent her a song.

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<v Speaker 5>But there are people already texting saying love bomb, love bomb.

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<v Speaker 5>Somebody said, I'm such a paranoid free but I'm hearing

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<v Speaker 5>love bombing.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, So if you don't know what love bombing is,

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<v Speaker 9>it's basically when you start in a relationship and someone

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<v Speaker 9>goes like crazy with the affection, attention, gives gifts, stuff

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<v Speaker 9>like that. But it's more of like try and create

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<v Speaker 9>this emotional bond independence on the other person so that

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<v Speaker 9>the person doesn't leave.

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<v Speaker 5>Almost what's wrong with I hear what you're saying, But

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<v Speaker 5>what's wrong with me showing you affection?

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<v Speaker 6>Especially so early?

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<v Speaker 5>That's when they call it the honeymoon phase, the cupcake phase,

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<v Speaker 5>when everything's like, oh I love you, I love you too.

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<v Speaker 9>I think there's a line that can be drawn with

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<v Speaker 9>it where it's like, if you're getting a gift every

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<v Speaker 9>single time you see each other, and you guys are

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<v Speaker 9>seeing each other like four days out of the seven

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<v Speaker 9>of the week, then that's probably a little bit too

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<v Speaker 9>much because then you're just like going.

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<v Speaker 7>To get so used to that.

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<v Speaker 9>But we're curious to hear what you have to say

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<v Speaker 9>if you want to give us a call six one

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<v Speaker 9>nine eight nine katiew B. Basically, what's going on is

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<v Speaker 9>NICKI met this guy that she's been dating for a

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<v Speaker 9>couple of months, and right off the batch, he feels

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<v Speaker 9>like they hit it off, and then you know, he

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<v Speaker 9>started doing a lot of sweet things, giving her gifts

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<v Speaker 9>pretty consistently.

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<v Speaker 7>He texts her a lot.

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<v Speaker 9>He apparently says that the Savage Garden song is their song.

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<v Speaker 9>And then over Thanksgiving, her sister was like, Ah, this

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<v Speaker 9>dude is love bombing you. You need to like run,

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<v Speaker 9>So do you feel the same. You can give us

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<v Speaker 9>a call six nine y nine, katiew B. We'd love

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<v Speaker 9>to hear what you have to say and if NICKI

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<v Speaker 9>should run. First off is Alex on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 8>First of all, love you guys so much, love your

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<v Speaker 8>morning show, love you back, And I think that this

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<v Speaker 8>love bombing?

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<v Speaker 11>For sure.

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<v Speaker 8>If it feels too good to be true, then it

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<v Speaker 8>is too good to be true. It's like one thing

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<v Speaker 8>to want to be together and know how your day's going,

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<v Speaker 8>but to be checking in that frequently to red flags?

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<v Speaker 6>How did a red flag?

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<v Speaker 7>So, Alex, have you been in this position before?

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<v Speaker 11>I have?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, toxic? I think about like the longevity of this.

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<v Speaker 8>You cannot be checking in with each other this much

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<v Speaker 8>twenty four to seven?

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<v Speaker 6>Why not?

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<v Speaker 13>So?

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<v Speaker 7>What do you feel like was toxic with yours?

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<v Speaker 11>Like?

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<v Speaker 7>How did yours end?

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<v Speaker 9>Was it a matter of like you did start to

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<v Speaker 9>become like dependent on him or her?

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<v Speaker 8>No, not dependent at all. I felt like there was

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<v Speaker 8>more space that needed to be had and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 8>getting it. And I feel like you've got to be

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<v Speaker 8>able to be your own person and have your person.

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<v Speaker 8>You can't rely on the other person to the extent

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<v Speaker 8>that he's relying on her for happiness.

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<v Speaker 11>It seems so.

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<v Speaker 7>Then I'm assuming you ended the relationship.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh yeah, many years ago, Marrik, now two kids? Okay,

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<v Speaker 8>got it?

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<v Speaker 7>Got it? Okay?

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<v Speaker 9>So Alex, you're saying it's love bombing and you think

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<v Speaker 9>Nikki should stay get out of it.

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<v Speaker 7>What do you think.

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<v Speaker 8>I hopink she think it out of it. She's happy,

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<v Speaker 8>she's happy, but if she has to be able to

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<v Speaker 8>return that energy for the rest of her life.

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<v Speaker 7>And yeah, I don't unders.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't get how. There's so many I'm not even

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<v Speaker 5>gonna just say women. There are so many people that

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<v Speaker 5>crave for a man or a woman or anybody to

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<v Speaker 5>give them everything on the planet. I'm I am one

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<v Speaker 5>of those people that I love to give my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 5>that list of the world. We've been together going on

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<v Speaker 5>four years, but me going above and beyond, and you

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<v Speaker 5>guys have had to talk me down about buying fifteen

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<v Speaker 5>things just because she had a bad day.

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<v Speaker 7>That's when you started dating her.

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<v Speaker 9>Were you constantly showing up and giving her a gift

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<v Speaker 9>every single time you saw her?

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<v Speaker 5>Not a gift, but I was definitely on my p's

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<v Speaker 5>and q's because I had to show her that that's

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<v Speaker 5>what I wanted in life.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I wanted her.

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<v Speaker 9>I just think that there is a clear difference between

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<v Speaker 9>me interested in showing interest and love bombing.

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<v Speaker 7>There is a difference.

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<v Speaker 9>There is manipulation when it comes to love bombing, where

0:29:57.800 --> 0:30:00.080
<v Speaker 9>you are literally getting that person so hooked up on

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<v Speaker 9>you that you can then potentially manipulate them later in

0:30:04.320 --> 0:30:07.200
<v Speaker 9>the relationship. You were not doing that, you were being sweet,

0:30:07.240 --> 0:30:10.080
<v Speaker 9>you were doing kind things for Alisa, And now you're

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<v Speaker 9>at a different phase in your life where maybe you

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<v Speaker 9>do all of these things that Nikki is saying, but

0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:17.600
<v Speaker 9>you guys are in a serious relationship and you've gotten

0:30:17.600 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 9>to that point.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess the only difference is, yeah, Nikki's case that

0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 5>this is very, very fresh. I don't know how much

0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:24.680
<v Speaker 5>I was doing compared to this guy because it was

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<v Speaker 5>four years ago.

0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 6>But somebody texting us that sounds called dependent. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>just a lover.

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<v Speaker 7>Vond is a lover here. We got some more people

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<v Speaker 7>on the phone.

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<v Speaker 9>LeRoy's on the phone, LeRoi, what do you want to

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<v Speaker 9>say about this group therapy?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that if it is love bombing is just

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<v Speaker 2>a definition that people want to put on it.

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<v Speaker 11>You can't.

0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 2>You're not a doctor about it. So if she likes it,

0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 2>she likes it, maybe her sister needs to relax and

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 2>stay out her business because we're all grown up and

0:30:49.720 --> 0:30:51.880
<v Speaker 2>that's the problem in as well. We're in each other's

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:55.320
<v Speaker 2>business too much, well doing things, okay?

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<v Speaker 9>Is it fair though to be in your sister's business,

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<v Speaker 9>because I think I would probably be in my sister's

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<v Speaker 9>business as if I was concerned.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I really don't think it is fair to be

0:31:03.320 --> 0:31:05.360
<v Speaker 2>in people business because you don't have a clue what's

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:07.320
<v Speaker 2>going on in that man's mind, and you might not

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:09.479
<v Speaker 2>have a clue what's going on in your sisters. Just

0:31:09.520 --> 0:31:12.720
<v Speaker 2>because he's buying things, don't mean he's trying to love Bomber. Yeah,

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I just think people stay in everybody's business

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 2>way too much. It's become a norm.

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<v Speaker 7>Clara, you don't think.

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<v Speaker 9>That it was a little bit too much for him

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:21.080
<v Speaker 9>to say that this is their song.

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:26.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, maybe he actually felt like that. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. You don't really have a clue on

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:31.080
<v Speaker 2>what people are feeling, so you can't put him in

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<v Speaker 2>a box.

0:31:31.920 --> 0:31:33.280
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, and what's going on?

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:34.640
<v Speaker 2>You got to let him live their life.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, I mean that's a different take on it. I

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 9>appreciate you, Lee, right, thanks so much for calling in.

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<v Speaker 9>We also have Francisco on the phone. Francisco, Nikki got

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:45.080
<v Speaker 9>into a new relationship. She's been seeing this guy. He

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:46.959
<v Speaker 9>gives her a lot of gifts, He texts her pretty

0:31:47.480 --> 0:31:49.440
<v Speaker 9>often and now he already says that they have the

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 9>song by Savage Garden. What do you think Francisco has

0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 9>this love bombing? Should she run like her sister says

0:31:54.640 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 9>or stick it out?

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<v Speaker 6>Jenny Mordy Bond whateut.

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<v Speaker 14>First off, I want to tell Nicky if she is listening,

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<v Speaker 14>I'm just speaking from my experience.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I think that's important.

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<v Speaker 14>Just wants you to to know that from my experience.

0:32:12.760 --> 0:32:16.720
<v Speaker 14>When I first met my wife, we first started talking,

0:32:17.960 --> 0:32:23.200
<v Speaker 14>I knew what I wanted in life, and she uh

0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 14>fit a lot of those things. Well, it isn't the work,

0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 14>it's more I saw a lot of these characteristics in her,

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.520
<v Speaker 14>and from the beginning I knew I loved that about

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 14>her and I appreciated that. So I made sure in

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 14>the beginning right away to inform her and let her

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:43.520
<v Speaker 14>know that this is how I'm feeling, this is what

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 14>I wanted. And at the end of the day, it

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 14>worked out because she felt the same way and she

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:54.880
<v Speaker 14>reciprocated the feeling. At the end of the day, you know,

0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 14>it's really up to you the way you're feeling, Nikki,

0:32:57.960 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 14>and it's really it's your life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's your love language. And I think the relationship

0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:08.560
<v Speaker 5>that you develop with your partner. There's so many text

0:33:08.600 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 5>messages coming in. A lot of people agree with that

0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:13.480
<v Speaker 5>last called leroy. Some other people are saying this love

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 5>bombing stuff is crazy and you could text five, three,

0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 5>nine to one. By the way, love bombing stuff is crazy.

0:33:17.560 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 5>Let people be kind and loving and have communication. I've

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 5>been in a relationship for four years and I expect

0:33:22.400 --> 0:33:24.680
<v Speaker 5>this type of communication and being spoiled for my boyfriend,

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:26.840
<v Speaker 5>and he loves doing that. Let people be happy, and

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:30.560
<v Speaker 5>that's all I'm saying. I don't know what Nikki and

0:33:30.600 --> 0:33:32.920
<v Speaker 5>this guy have agreed on. I just don't see the

0:33:32.960 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 5>problem with continuing to show your partner affection. And it's

0:33:35.760 --> 0:33:37.719
<v Speaker 5>only been two months, so we have to see how

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:39.240
<v Speaker 5>much longer this develops.

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<v Speaker 7>I agree.

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<v Speaker 9>I think though, on the flip side of things, is

0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:44.840
<v Speaker 9>like you've never been in a position before to have

0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:47.960
<v Speaker 9>been love bombed where someone has completely like turned the

0:33:48.000 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 9>table on you out of nowhere after they just showed

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 9>you all of this emotional connection and then out of

0:33:53.120 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 9>nowhere they're like just kidding. So like there is people

0:33:57.160 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 9>who have experienced actual love bombing, and so they are

0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:02.560
<v Speaker 9>scarred from that and they don't want this girl to

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:04.720
<v Speaker 9>get hurt the way that they did. I know someone

0:34:04.760 --> 0:34:07.720
<v Speaker 9>I'm very close with who got love bombed reala recently

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 9>and it broke her and I literally like I wanted

0:34:12.680 --> 0:34:16.120
<v Speaker 9>to just shake that person, because how dare you pretend

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:19.359
<v Speaker 9>like you like someone so much and do kind things

0:34:19.360 --> 0:34:21.560
<v Speaker 9>for them and then just be like psych just kidding

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:22.560
<v Speaker 9>and then like leave.

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:23.399
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and that's fine.

0:34:23.400 --> 0:34:25.080
<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I'm just saying

0:34:25.080 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 5>we can't jump the conclusion.

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:27.440
<v Speaker 6>It's only been two months of this guy doing this

0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:28.319
<v Speaker 6>stuff for sure.

0:34:28.360 --> 0:34:30.720
<v Speaker 9>I mean, obviously we don't know what their relationship actually

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:33.080
<v Speaker 9>is like between the two of them. We are basing

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:35.600
<v Speaker 9>this off of a two minute conversation with Nikki, but

0:34:35.880 --> 0:34:38.000
<v Speaker 9>I think her sister's looking out for her. If you

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 9>missed it, Nikki basically was that Thanksgiving and she was

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 9>telling her sister about how this new guy she's been seeing.

0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:47.200
<v Speaker 9>He was texting her like pretty consistently, asking her a

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 9>million questions throughout Thanksgiving, and he also gives her a

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 9>lot of gifts. He already has a song for them,

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:55.080
<v Speaker 9>and her sister was like, that's love bombing, and it's

0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:59.480
<v Speaker 9>you should run it's not okay. But yeah, so we've

0:34:59.480 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 9>had quite a text We'll do one more phone call

0:35:01.280 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 9>and the we're gonna.

0:35:01.719 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 7>Wrap this up.

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 9>We have Lisa on the phone. Hi, Lisa, Hi, what

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:07.400
<v Speaker 9>did you want to say about group therapy?

0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:12.360
<v Speaker 10>I just went to the same thing. I started seeing

0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:15.480
<v Speaker 10>some guy. He bought me roses. He told me he

0:35:15.480 --> 0:35:17.840
<v Speaker 10>loved me, he would send me texts all the time.

0:35:18.160 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 10>But then after like a month and a half, I

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 10>started turning really bad.

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:22.920
<v Speaker 11>He was rude to me.

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:27.000
<v Speaker 10>I felt a kindom of lies. I'm like, it was horrible.

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:32.160
<v Speaker 10>But this guy that she's seeing isn't doing like, isn't lying,

0:35:32.600 --> 0:35:33.840
<v Speaker 10>is so sweet.

0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:37.799
<v Speaker 8>It's okay with being apart from her and not trying

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:39.279
<v Speaker 8>to move in or anything like that.

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 10>I'd tell her to take take her chances.

0:35:42.239 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 9>Yeah, so you've even experienced it and you're saying still,

0:35:45.080 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 9>maybe do it, but just be cautious because obviously, like

0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 9>it turned for you, it turned into a pretty negative

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:50.839
<v Speaker 9>situation for you.

0:35:51.880 --> 0:35:55.880
<v Speaker 10>Yes, very bad. Like it was like roses, little sweet,

0:35:55.960 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 10>nothing's always pain. I'm like a complete listening to flying

0:36:01.239 --> 0:36:03.960
<v Speaker 10>to me. You want to and because he couldn't move in,

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:07.279
<v Speaker 10>he's threw a big fit. He talked badly about me

0:36:07.480 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 10>to a friends or family, and like that was like

0:36:11.640 --> 0:36:13.520
<v Speaker 10>a true case of love bombing. But if this guy

0:36:13.600 --> 0:36:16.560
<v Speaker 10>is still doing the things for her and it's not

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.440
<v Speaker 10>fighting with her, and that's saying bad things about her,

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.960
<v Speaker 10>and it's still perfect and I tell her to take

0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:23.799
<v Speaker 10>my chance of okay, I like that.

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 9>I mean, we've gotten a lot of different things and

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:29.759
<v Speaker 9>so many text messages that have come in. We can

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:31.400
<v Speaker 9>read a couple of these, but then we'll wrap up.

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<v Speaker 9>Love Bombing is mostly applied when one person feels like

0:36:34.600 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 9>they're about to lose the other person. Not in the

0:36:37.160 --> 0:36:41.120
<v Speaker 9>first phases. Someone says, someone else says, I'm a therapist.

0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 9>And people who say love bombing is so great and

0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:45.960
<v Speaker 9>just one way of showing affection don't truly understand what

0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:50.080
<v Speaker 9>love bombing is. People who are bombing do not like boundaries.

0:36:50.120 --> 0:36:52.840
<v Speaker 9>So she could test it by setting a small limit

0:36:52.960 --> 0:36:54.840
<v Speaker 9>and seeing how he reacts.

0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:56.880
<v Speaker 7>And if he gets upset, then that.

0:36:56.760 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 9>It would be her sign to run. Then that comes

0:36:59.000 --> 0:36:59.840
<v Speaker 9>from a therapist.

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 6>We just don't don't.

0:37:00.920 --> 0:37:02.640
<v Speaker 5>We don't know if they set boundaries, or if she's

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:04.840
<v Speaker 5>okay with it or what. Because she has been fine

0:37:04.880 --> 0:37:07.000
<v Speaker 5>with it. I'm just saying we cannot put the we

0:37:07.040 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 5>cannot jump the conclusion and say that he's love bombing,

0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:12.760
<v Speaker 5>because if that's the case, anytime anybody shows any affection

0:37:12.800 --> 0:37:14.840
<v Speaker 5>in a relationship, but we jump to that, I'm sorry,

0:37:15.120 --> 0:37:16.399
<v Speaker 5>you'll probably be single for a while.

0:37:16.520 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 11>Yeah.

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:18.480
<v Speaker 7>All right, Well that's gonna do it for group therapy.

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<v Speaker 9>If you ever have one you need our help, email

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<v Speaker 9>us at Ryan Show at KDWB dot com and we'll

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<v Speaker 7>You think you can do it.

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