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Speaker 1: It is time now for a Christmas Wish live as

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Speaker 1: it happens here on KTLGB. That's the way we do them,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes it goes flawlessly and sometimes it's there's a

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Speaker 1: little hiccup here and there. But at the end of

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Speaker 1: through the holidays. It's time for another Dave Ryan show

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Speaker 1: for Christmas Wish. I'm going to check in with Brandon,

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Speaker 1: who is our official delivery guy and hangs out outside

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Speaker 1: But he's not a creep in a van. It's Brandon

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Speaker 1: from College Muscle Movers. Brandon, how are you this morning?

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Speaker 2: Do well?

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Speaker 3: Are you what time you have to get up? Brandon?

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Speaker 3: To go do this anyway? I think today it was mythornity.

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Speaker 1: Not too bad, okay, Brandon, thanks for what you do.

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Speaker 1: And if somebody wants to move, let's say that they're

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Speaker 1: going to move to Victoria, would you load their stuff

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Speaker 1: their new house?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely Okay, So get a hold of College Muscle Movers

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Speaker 1: and Brandon, thanks for doing what you do. Please stand by.

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Speaker 1: Let's meet our wish sure this morning. Marissa. Hi Marissa,

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Speaker 1: Hi guys. Are you good? You were actually in here

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Speaker 1: eight years ago for your thirtieth birthday.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I was the crazy girl that loves al pakas.

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Speaker 1: So you did you come in with an alpaca? We're

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Speaker 1: trying to remember this.

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Speaker 4: I actually they I called an alpaca farm, and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: the only thing I want to do for my thirtieth

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Speaker 4: they thought I was crazy because they don't normally have

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Speaker 6: At the farm.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and they're like, okay, we'll take you out there.

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Speaker 4: And my husband at the time was just like me

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Speaker 3: Else able I heard.

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Speaker 7: They're kind of sometimes okay, you.

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Speaker 4: Have to like some of them have nice personalities and

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Speaker 4: some of them don't. Like if you get a mom

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Speaker 4: and a baby, the mom is like super territorial, but

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Speaker 4: like the old, like the old grumpier ones, they're like

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Speaker 7: Okay, good to know.

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Speaker 1: That's so funny. Well, I'm glad you're here. Yeah, totally

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Speaker 1: different reason.

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Speaker 7: This year totally different reason the sun.

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Speaker 1: You are doing a Christmas wish for a coworker, yes,

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Speaker 1: at your daycare school.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I am a toddler teacher. I work at a

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Speaker 4: And so she is a fellow coworker of mine. Not

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Speaker 4: only do I teach her son, but she teaches my son.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you kind of became friends.

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Speaker 4: We kind of became friends. So I've been there like

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Speaker 4: over a year. We kind of became friends. My son

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Speaker 4: started going to this daycare, but prior to me working there,

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Speaker 3: So I love that.

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Speaker 1: Either way, if you want to watch this whole thing,

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Speaker 1: Marissa is on camera right now at Dave Ryan TV

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Speaker 1: on YouTube, and you would watch Christmas wish as it unfold.

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Speaker 5: Marissa, he moved the mic just to the side of

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Speaker 5: your face. Show you beautiful face on the camera.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all we can see is the Dave Ryan logo.

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Speaker 3: There you go.

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Speaker 6: Ok?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, perfect?

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Speaker 1: Now, Now, remember this happens without a net. Last time

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Speaker 1: I tried dialing out on this phone, which we bought

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Speaker 1: at Radio Shack in nineteen ninety four. It didn't work,

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Speaker 1: but let me try it again to see if it works.

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Speaker 6: Okay, it sounds good.

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Speaker 9: Okay, good tign Already there we go.

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Speaker 6: At least we have a dial tone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jenny, you're gonna have to dial it and put

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Speaker 1: And the warranty ran out on this radio shack phone

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Speaker 3: It work somehow.

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Speaker 1: Jenny is dialing the wish and what did you tell

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Speaker 3: Actually I did it.

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Speaker 4: My boss Holly, who's our executive director, was kind of like, okay,

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Speaker 4: you have a special phone call coming, and she I

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Speaker 3: Okay, good, hopefully she will.

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Speaker 1: Hello. Is this Melissa. I'm Melissa. It's Dave Ryan on

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Speaker 1: the radio over at Katie WB. Have you heard of

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Speaker 1: KATWB before?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 8: I have.

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Speaker 1: Okay, would you maybe have any idea? I'm not even

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Speaker 1: going to tell you why we're calling, but I can

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Speaker 1: help you save fifteen percent on your car insurance.

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Speaker 3: Don't hang up. Don't hang up.

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Speaker 6: I'm joking.

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Speaker 10: I don't know if I.

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Speaker 3: Am here to say that.

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Speaker 1: I gotcha Marissa from work, and your friend is here.

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Speaker 4: Say hi Marissa, Hi Melissa, Hi Maria.

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Speaker 1: It's Marissa and Melissa. Isn't that adorable? So Marissa wrote

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Speaker 1: in for our annual KATIEWB Christmas Wish. Are you familiar

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Speaker 1: at all with Christmas Wish?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 11: Not? Really? Actually?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Well, basically what we do is we ask people who

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Speaker 1: listen to KATIEWB to tell us about somebody they know

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Speaker 1: that might be I don't know what the word is,

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Speaker 1: struggling or challenged a little bit at Christmas because of

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Speaker 1: she loves you, and we're learning a little bit about

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Speaker 1: you and what she's gonna do if you don't mind,

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Speaker 1: She's going to take a minute or two to read

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Speaker 1: her Christmas wish for you, Melissa.

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Speaker 3: Can she do that?

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Speaker 7: Okay a right.

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Speaker 4: There is a quote by Robin Sharma that perfectly describes

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Speaker 4: Melissa's wish story. Remember that the happiest people are not

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Speaker 4: those who have everything or those getting more, but rather

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Speaker 4: certain people are meant to cross your path in life

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Speaker 4: and forever change the way you appreciate all of life's blessings.

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Speaker 4: Melissa crossed my path over a year ago when I

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Speaker 4: of three beautiful children.

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Speaker 6: For those of you who know her of cross paths

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Speaker 4: That she is one of the most dedicated teachers to

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Speaker 4: her students, her classroom, and her family. She is truly

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Speaker 4: one of the most giving, kind and selfless people I've

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Speaker 4: that happiness is not defined by things, but by spreading

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Speaker 4: kindness and joy. Racily, Melissa has encountered quite the hardship.

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Speaker 4: She was able to get out of a rough situation

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Speaker 4: to support her and her children, and this Christmas, I

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Speaker 4: have nominated her for Dave Ryan's Christmas wish. No mother

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Speaker 4: will afford basic things, how she'll pay rent to keep

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Speaker 4: to even tackle affording Christmas presents for her children, or

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Speaker 4: let alone getting a gift herself. Melissa spent so much

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Speaker 4: time giving everything she has to everybody else around her

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Speaker 4: that it's time she and her family received some blessings

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Speaker 4: and we took care of her today. Your wishes come true.

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Speaker 4: And I hope you know how much you are loved, appreciated,

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Speaker 4: and cared for by your friends, family, and students.

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Speaker 6: In your community.

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Speaker 4: We love you, Melissa, and we hope these blessings truly

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Speaker 4: make your Christmas beautiful and forgettable. And I'll end it

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Speaker 4: with this, what if Christmas doesn't come from a store,

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Speaker 4: maybe Christmas means a little bit more from the Grinch.

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Speaker 6: And we love you, Melissa.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was very sweet.

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Speaker 8: That was beautiful, It really was.

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Speaker 1: And so to follow up with her idea, we want

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Speaker 1: to help you out. And and the first thing I

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Speaker 1: talked to Marisa a couple of days ago, and I said, well,

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Speaker 1: what is she? What is what is Melissa? What does

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Speaker 1: Melissa need? She needs a vacuum cleaner. Yep, do you

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Speaker 1: need a vacuum cleaner?

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Speaker 12: Well too that I have. They work, They just still

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Speaker 1: they do that. We got you an expensive Bissel cross

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Speaker 1: Wave edge Find vacuum cleaner. Merry Christmas. But wait, there's more,

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Speaker 1: because we're not going to just give you a vacuum

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Speaker 8: I would be happy with just that.

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Speaker 1: I'll bet you would. It's so important working vacuum cleaner.

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Speaker 1: You've got. You've got three kids. Let's let's talk about Elijah.

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Speaker 1: Elijah's your baby. Fifteen months old? Yes, yes, So for Elijah.

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Speaker 1: We got some toys, we got some clothes. We got

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Speaker 1: a paw patrol fire engine. I think that's about the

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Speaker 1: right age. It's getting pretty close to the right age.

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Speaker 3: Avery. How old is Avery?

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Speaker 11: Two?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I love that name.

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Speaker 1: If I ever have another baby, I'm a name or

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Speaker 1: him Avery. We've got some lounge wear and some trendy outfits.

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Speaker 1: We got a toy doctor kit, a toy makeup.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good, Yeah, and some bath bombs for avery, some

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Speaker 1: things to put under the tree. And is it Bryson

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Speaker 1: that is your six year old?

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Speaker 1: Yes, tell me about Bryson. What is Bryson into?

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Speaker 13: loves like any any kind of dinosaur. He's just been

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Speaker 1: We've got a Jurassic World dinosaur revealed toy that we

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Speaker 1: think he'll like. We've got minecraft legos, so he can.

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Speaker 1: I hope he scatters him on the floor and you

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Speaker 1: step on him in the dark, and just remember this

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Speaker 1: Christmas wish. Magnetic tiles. We got some cargo pants and

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Speaker 1: just to kind of ease the burden, we get just

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Speaker 9: So vander Pump Rules is returning tonight to Bravo. If

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Speaker 7: So don't be so angry.

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Speaker 3: I read a long time ago. I'm not angry.

449
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Speaker 1: I read a long time ago that anger destroys the

450
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Speaker 1: vessel that contains it. And if you think about that,

451
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Speaker 1: it's like, what does it do? It just destroys you

452
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Speaker 1: from the inside. So you just got to find something

453
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Speaker 1: else to focus on. Besides, sure, you can focus on

454
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Speaker 1: how angry you are, but you can focus again instead

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Speaker 1: on what makes you happy?

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Speaker 3: What do you got to be happy about.

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Speaker 9: It's hard to say that in the moment when you

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Speaker 9: are really upset about something.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we all get upset. There's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 9: But then when you try to do that like mind shift,

462
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Speaker 9: in those moments, I feel like there is a change.

463
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Speaker 9: There's a change in me when I'm like, all right,

464
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Speaker 9: stop being angry, look at the good.

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Speaker 7: Then move forward on the phone, right.

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Speaker 3: Oh is he on the phone? Who's he talking to

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Speaker 3: our group therapy?

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Speaker 1: Oh dah, okay, gotcha.

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Speaker 3: Let's see what else we get.

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Speaker 1: The fifty cents documentary about Diddy is streaming today. Starts

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Speaker 1: streaming today, and here is a little bit of the trailer.

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Speaker 5: We have to find somebody that work with us, that

473
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Speaker 5: has dealt in the dirtiest dirty business.

474
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Speaker 3: Losing Puffy Puff Daddy Diddy show coals.

475
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Speaker 2: All of these weaed incarnations, all of those name changes

476
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Speaker 2: are attacked to really bad deeds.

477
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Speaker 5: Everything in life, you're gonna have people that are bad

478
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Speaker 5: and people that are good.

479
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Speaker 6: You have to choose yourself.

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Speaker 1: Now here's how you know that it's worth watching. Because

481
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Speaker 1: did he does not want you to see it. His

482
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Speaker 1: spokesperson said that four part docu series from fifty cent

483
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Speaker 1: is a shameful hit piece that's fundamentally unfair and illegal. Basically,

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Speaker 1: his team called the movie stolen footage that was never

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Speaker 1: authorized for release. No rights in that material were ever

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Speaker 1: transferred to Netflix or any third party. In one clip

487
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Speaker 1: did he pleads with an associate to resolve an issue, quote,

488
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Speaker 1: We've got to find somebody that'll work with us, that

489
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Speaker 1: is dealt with the dirtiest of dirty business. We're losing.

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Speaker 1: Fifty Cent previewed a cringe scene yesterday on Good Morning America,

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Speaker 1: and that is where Ditty asked for hand sanitizer and

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Speaker 1: expresses a desire to take a shower after meeting with fans.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that's the worst of the whole thing.

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Speaker 7: I mean, probably not.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if somebody were to, like, you know, stand

496
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Speaker 1: in line meeting like a princess kaya the Milky Way

497
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Speaker 1: of the State Fair, and she wanted to like wash

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Speaker 1: her hands afterward, I would not blame her, not in

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Speaker 1: the least.

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Speaker 9: I admire fifty Son to an extent as like a

501
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Speaker 9: businessman because he like moves in silence until he just

502
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Speaker 9: blows things up, because he has been like waiting to

503
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Speaker 9: blow up Ditty for a while, and he's admitted that

504
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Speaker 9: once Didty was arrested and everything started going down.

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Speaker 3: Don't they like each other?

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Speaker 7: Well? Because he knows that Ditty's a p.

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Speaker 1: Pos well, a lot of people know that.

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Speaker 9: I know, but like, I know, actually like doesn't play

509
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Speaker 9: like he really likes stays strong to it, and I

510
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Speaker 9: think he tried to. I mean, I can't speak obviously

511
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Speaker 9: for what he actually did or didn't do, but I

512
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Speaker 9: think he knew and stayed away from Diddy. And he

513
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Speaker 9: wasn't one of the celebrities who just kind of went

514
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Speaker 9: along with what was going on, because did he have

515
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Speaker 9: so much power?

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Speaker 5: Fifty was like uh uh f this man fifty cents

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Speaker 5: of g You know what they say, Geez moving silence

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Speaker 5: like Lasagna?

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Speaker 3: Never heard that?

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Speaker 6: You never heard that's a low Wain song.

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Speaker 7: Geez moving silence like that wins.

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Speaker 1: By the way, the movie once again, it is called

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Speaker 1: The Reckoning. It's a four part doctor series. It is

524
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Speaker 1: on Netflix starting two today. That's the Dirt. It is

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Speaker 1: Injury Law. I wish I could stay you guys, but

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Speaker 1: I have a doctor's appointment.

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Speaker 3: I gotta go. I gotta go swallow a.

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Speaker 1: Camera pill and uh and then I'll be back tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: But you guys have a good time. Yeah, good luck

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Speaker 1: And another Christmas wish we did a great one a

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Speaker 1: half an hour ago. It just was so sweet. And

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Speaker 9: It's a day Ryan in the Morning show on Katie

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Speaker 9: w B. Dave just had a jet out of here

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Speaker 9: because he is, like you said, swallowing a pill and

542
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Speaker 9: try and figure out what is going on with his

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Speaker 9: tummy because he's been having some major issues again once

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Speaker 9: again kidding.

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Speaker 7: No, don't say that.

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Speaker 9: You can't say that if he's not here, von So

547
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Speaker 9: only if he's the here then then it's funny all.

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Speaker 5: Rightly about him when he's not here, well man, which

549
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Speaker 5: you can't.

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Speaker 9: Say those on the radio. All right, Let's get into

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Speaker 9: some group therapy kd w B d Ryan Show. Okay,

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Speaker 9: so we have Nikki on the phone. He sent us

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Speaker 9: an email about something that kind of happened a confrontation

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Speaker 9: with her sister over Thanksgiving. So, Nikki, what is going

555
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Speaker 9: on with you for group therapy today?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 11: Well, I've been single for about nine years, I would say,

558
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Speaker 11: and I've dated a bit here and there, but I

559
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Speaker 11: really haven't had a boyfriend for a while. And then

560
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Speaker 11: I met this guy and there was just this really

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Speaker 11: strong connection right off the bat, and I I really

562
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Speaker 11: think that he might be the one that I'm gonna marry, okay,

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Speaker 11: And it was It's kind of like a whirlwind, you know.

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Speaker 11: And he does like so many really wonderful and kind

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Speaker 11: things for me that I really.

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Speaker 8: Love, like what.

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Speaker 11: Well, like pretty much every time I see him, he

568
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Speaker 11: has some kind of like little gift for me, so

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Speaker 11: maybe like a candle or a Starbucks gift card. He's

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Speaker 11: just really thoughtful. And he'll text me in the morning

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Speaker 11: a good morning, and every night he texts me good night,

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Speaker 11: and he'll say a lot of the time that we're

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Speaker 11: meant to be together. And we have a song he

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Speaker 11: sent me a buck Do you know that Savage Garden song?

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Speaker 11: I knew I loved you.

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Speaker 8: I think.

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Speaker 6: This it's like from the nineties fall. Yeah, that's way.

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Speaker 7: And back and forth, like okay, yeah, I love that song.

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Speaker 11: I love that song too, so he said that's our song.

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Speaker 11: So so it's been going really really great. But this

581
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Speaker 11: past week I went to my grandma's for Thanksgiving and

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Speaker 11: he was texting me a ton and I didn't really

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Speaker 11: think anything of it because that's how we normally communicate.

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Speaker 11: And he was texting me like, how are you, what

585
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Speaker 11: are you eating? What's the best dessert? Are you watching

586
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Speaker 11: the football game? You know, stuff like that, And I

587
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Speaker 11: showed my sister because I thought it was really sweet.

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Speaker 11: And then my sister was like, this is love bombing.

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Speaker 11: It's not okay, you shouldn't see him anymore. And I

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Speaker 11: don't know. I was just kind of taken aback by that.

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Speaker 11: And I don't know if I'm naive, but this is

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Speaker 11: this dangerous?

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Speaker 9: Is it bad?

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Speaker 11: I don't know. I just thought he was being sweet.

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Speaker 5: So you so you've been single for nine years now

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Speaker 5: you think you found the one because he's doing all

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Speaker 5: these romantic things, But your sister thinks it's love bombing.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, she like really, she just made me feel really

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Speaker 11: bad about it, to be honest, And I thought it

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Speaker 11: was really how much interested in my day and was

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Speaker 11: going on but she thinks it's love bombing.

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Speaker 7: So my question is, you guys have been dating for

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Speaker 7: how long? This is new?

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Speaker 9: Right?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, it's been almost two months.

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Speaker 9: Okay, So I mean it sounds like right off the bat, yeah,

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Speaker 9: you like had pretty strong feelings for him, but then

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Speaker 9: he jumped right into like what sounds like getting you

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Speaker 9: gifts and like kind of surprising you with sweet things.

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Speaker 6: He sent her a song.

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Speaker 5: But there are people already texting saying love bomb, love bomb.

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Speaker 5: Somebody said, I'm such a paranoid free but I'm hearing

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Speaker 5: love bombing.

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Speaker 9: Okay, So if you don't know what love bombing is,

615
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Speaker 9: it's basically when you start in a relationship and someone

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Speaker 9: goes like crazy with the affection, attention, gives gifts, stuff

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Speaker 9: like that. But it's more of like try and create

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Speaker 9: this emotional bond independence on the other person so that

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Speaker 9: the person doesn't leave.

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Speaker 5: Almost what's wrong with I hear what you're saying, But

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Speaker 5: what's wrong with me showing you affection?

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Speaker 6: Especially so early?

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Speaker 5: That's when they call it the honeymoon phase, the cupcake phase,

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Speaker 5: when everything's like, oh I love you, I love you too.

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Speaker 9: I think there's a line that can be drawn with

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Speaker 9: it where it's like, if you're getting a gift every

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Speaker 9: single time you see each other, and you guys are

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Speaker 9: seeing each other like four days out of the seven

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Speaker 9: of the week, then that's probably a little bit too

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Speaker 9: much because then you're just like going.

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Speaker 7: To get so used to that.

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Speaker 9: But we're curious to hear what you have to say

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Speaker 9: if you want to give us a call six one

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Speaker 9: nine eight nine katiew B. Basically, what's going on is

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Speaker 9: NICKI met this guy that she's been dating for a

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Speaker 9: couple of months, and right off the batch, he feels

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Speaker 9: like they hit it off, and then you know, he

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Speaker 9: started doing a lot of sweet things, giving her gifts

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Speaker 9: pretty consistently.

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Speaker 7: He texts her a lot.

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Speaker 9: He apparently says that the Savage Garden song is their song.

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Speaker 9: And then over Thanksgiving, her sister was like, Ah, this

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Speaker 9: dude is love bombing you. You need to like run,

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Speaker 9: So do you feel the same. You can give us

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Speaker 9: a call six nine y nine, katiew B. We'd love

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Speaker 9: to hear what you have to say and if NICKI

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Speaker 9: should run. First off is Alex on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 8: First of all, love you guys so much, love your

650
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Speaker 8: morning show, love you back, And I think that this

651
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Speaker 8: love bombing?

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Speaker 11: For sure.

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Speaker 8: If it feels too good to be true, then it

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Speaker 8: is too good to be true. It's like one thing

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Speaker 8: to want to be together and know how your day's going,

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Speaker 8: but to be checking in that frequently to red flags?

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Speaker 6: How did a red flag?

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Speaker 7: So, Alex, have you been in this position before?

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Speaker 11: I have?

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Speaker 8: Okay, toxic? I think about like the longevity of this.

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Speaker 8: You cannot be checking in with each other this much

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Speaker 8: twenty four to seven?

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Speaker 6: Why not?

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Speaker 13: So?

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Speaker 7: What do you feel like was toxic with yours?

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Speaker 11: Like?

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Speaker 7: How did yours end?

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Speaker 9: Was it a matter of like you did start to

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Speaker 9: become like dependent on him or her?

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Speaker 8: No, not dependent at all. I felt like there was

671
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 8: more space that needed to be had and I wasn't

672
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 8: getting it. And I feel like you've got to be

673
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 8: able to be your own person and have your person.

674
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 8: You can't rely on the other person to the extent

675
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 8: that he's relying on her for happiness.

676
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 11: It seems so.

677
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 7: Then I'm assuming you ended the relationship.

678
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, many years ago, Marrik, now two kids? Okay,

679
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 8: got it?

680
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 7: Got it? Okay?

681
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 9: So Alex, you're saying it's love bombing and you think

682
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 9: Nikki should stay get out of it.

683
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 7: What do you think.

684
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 8: I hopink she think it out of it. She's happy,

685
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 8: she's happy, but if she has to be able to

686
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 8: return that energy for the rest of her life.

687
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 7: And yeah, I don't unders.

688
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 5: I don't get how. There's so many I'm not even

689
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 5: gonna just say women. There are so many people that

690
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 5: crave for a man or a woman or anybody to

691
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 5: give them everything on the planet. I'm I am one

692
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 5: of those people that I love to give my girlfriend

693
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 5: that list of the world. We've been together going on

694
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 5: four years, but me going above and beyond, and you

695
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 5: guys have had to talk me down about buying fifteen

696
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 5: things just because she had a bad day.

697
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 7: That's when you started dating her.

698
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 9: Were you constantly showing up and giving her a gift

699
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 9: every single time you saw her?

700
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 5: Not a gift, but I was definitely on my p's

701
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 5: and q's because I had to show her that that's

702
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 5: what I wanted in life.

703
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, I wanted her.

704
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 9: I just think that there is a clear difference between

705
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 9: me interested in showing interest and love bombing.

706
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 7: There is a difference.

707
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 9: There is manipulation when it comes to love bombing, where

708
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 9: you are literally getting that person so hooked up on

709
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 9: you that you can then potentially manipulate them later in

710
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 9: the relationship. You were not doing that, you were being sweet,

711
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 9: you were doing kind things for Alisa, And now you're

712
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 9: at a different phase in your life where maybe you

713
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 9: do all of these things that Nikki is saying, but

714
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 9: you guys are in a serious relationship and you've gotten

715
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 9: to that point.

716
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 5: I guess the only difference is, yeah, Nikki's case that

717
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 5: this is very, very fresh. I don't know how much

718
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 5: I was doing compared to this guy because it was

719
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 5: four years ago.

720
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 6: But somebody texting us that sounds called dependent. No, I'm

721
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 6: just a lover.

722
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 7: Vond is a lover here. We got some more people

723
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 7: on the phone.

724
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 9: LeRoy's on the phone, LeRoi, what do you want to

725
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:33,959
Speaker 9: say about this group therapy?

726
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: I think that if it is love bombing is just

727
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: a definition that people want to put on it.

728
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 11: You can't.

729
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 2: You're not a doctor about it. So if she likes it,

730
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: she likes it, maybe her sister needs to relax and

731
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: stay out her business because we're all grown up and

732
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: that's the problem in as well. We're in each other's

733
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: business too much, well doing things, okay?

734
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 9: Is it fair though to be in your sister's business,

735
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 9: because I think I would probably be in my sister's

736
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 9: business as if I was concerned.

737
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: No, I really don't think it is fair to be

738
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 2: in people business because you don't have a clue what's

739
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: going on in that man's mind, and you might not

740
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,479
Speaker 2: have a clue what's going on in your sisters. Just

741
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 2: because he's buying things, don't mean he's trying to love Bomber. Yeah,

742
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: I mean, I just think people stay in everybody's business

743
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: way too much. It's become a norm.

744
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 7: Clara, you don't think.

745
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 9: That it was a little bit too much for him

746
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 9: to say that this is their song.

747
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 2: Oh no, maybe he actually felt like that. And that's

748
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. You don't really have a clue on

749
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: what people are feeling, so you can't put him in

750
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: a box.

751
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, and what's going on?

752
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 2: You got to let him live their life.

753
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 9: Okay, I mean that's a different take on it. I

754
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 9: appreciate you, Lee, right, thanks so much for calling in.

755
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 9: We also have Francisco on the phone. Francisco, Nikki got

756
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 9: into a new relationship. She's been seeing this guy. He

757
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,959
Speaker 9: gives her a lot of gifts, He texts her pretty

758
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 9: often and now he already says that they have the

759
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 9: song by Savage Garden. What do you think Francisco has

760
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 9: this love bombing? Should she run like her sister says

761
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 9: or stick it out?

762
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 6: Jenny Mordy Bond whateut.

763
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 14: First off, I want to tell Nicky if she is listening,

764
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 14: I'm just speaking from my experience.

765
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 6: Yes, I think that's important.

766
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 14: Just wants you to to know that from my experience.

767
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 14: When I first met my wife, we first started talking,

768
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 14: I knew what I wanted in life, and she uh

769
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 14: fit a lot of those things. Well, it isn't the work,

770
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 14: it's more I saw a lot of these characteristics in her,

771
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 14: and from the beginning I knew I loved that about

772
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 14: her and I appreciated that. So I made sure in

773
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 14: the beginning right away to inform her and let her

774
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 14: know that this is how I'm feeling, this is what

775
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 14: I wanted. And at the end of the day, it

776
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 14: worked out because she felt the same way and she

777
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 14: reciprocated the feeling. At the end of the day, you know,

778
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 14: it's really up to you the way you're feeling, Nikki,

779
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 14: and it's really it's your life.

780
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's your love language. And I think the relationship

781
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 5: that you develop with your partner. There's so many text

782
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 5: messages coming in. A lot of people agree with that

783
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 5: last called leroy. Some other people are saying this love

784
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 5: bombing stuff is crazy and you could text five, three,

785
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 5: nine to one. By the way, love bombing stuff is crazy.

786
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 5: Let people be kind and loving and have communication. I've

787
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 5: been in a relationship for four years and I expect

788
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 5: this type of communication and being spoiled for my boyfriend,

789
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 5: and he loves doing that. Let people be happy, and

790
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 5: that's all I'm saying. I don't know what Nikki and

791
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 5: this guy have agreed on. I just don't see the

792
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 5: problem with continuing to show your partner affection. And it's

793
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,719
Speaker 5: only been two months, so we have to see how

794
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 5: much longer this develops.

795
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 7: I agree.

796
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 9: I think though, on the flip side of things, is

797
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 9: like you've never been in a position before to have

798
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 9: been love bombed where someone has completely like turned the

799
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 9: table on you out of nowhere after they just showed

800
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 9: you all of this emotional connection and then out of

801
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 9: nowhere they're like just kidding. So like there is people

802
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 9: who have experienced actual love bombing, and so they are

803
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 9: scarred from that and they don't want this girl to

804
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 9: get hurt the way that they did. I know someone

805
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 9: I'm very close with who got love bombed reala recently

806
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 9: and it broke her and I literally like I wanted

807
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 9: to just shake that person, because how dare you pretend

808
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 9: like you like someone so much and do kind things

809
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 9: for them and then just be like psych just kidding

810
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 9: and then like leave.

811
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's fine.

812
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 5: I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I'm just saying

813
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 5: we can't jump the conclusion.

814
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 6: It's only been two months of this guy doing this

815
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 6: stuff for sure.

816
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 9: I mean, obviously we don't know what their relationship actually

817
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 9: is like between the two of them. We are basing

818
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 9: this off of a two minute conversation with Nikki, but

819
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 9: I think her sister's looking out for her. If you

820
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 9: missed it, Nikki basically was that Thanksgiving and she was

821
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 9: telling her sister about how this new guy she's been seeing.

822
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 9: He was texting her like pretty consistently, asking her a

823
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 9: million questions throughout Thanksgiving, and he also gives her a

824
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 9: lot of gifts. He already has a song for them,

825
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 9: and her sister was like, that's love bombing, and it's

826
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 9: you should run it's not okay. But yeah, so we've

827
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 9: had quite a text We'll do one more phone call

828
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 9: and the we're gonna.

829
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 7: Wrap this up.

830
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 9: We have Lisa on the phone. Hi, Lisa, Hi, what

831
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 9: did you want to say about group therapy?

832
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 10: I just went to the same thing. I started seeing

833
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 10: some guy. He bought me roses. He told me he

834
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 10: loved me, he would send me texts all the time.

835
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 10: But then after like a month and a half, I

836
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 10: started turning really bad.

837
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 11: He was rude to me.

838
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 10: I felt a kindom of lies. I'm like, it was horrible.

839
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 10: But this guy that she's seeing isn't doing like, isn't lying,

840
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 10: is so sweet.

841
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 8: It's okay with being apart from her and not trying

842
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 8: to move in or anything like that.

843
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 10: I'd tell her to take take her chances.

844
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 9: Yeah, so you've even experienced it and you're saying still,

845
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 9: maybe do it, but just be cautious because obviously, like

846
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 9: it turned for you, it turned into a pretty negative

847
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 9: situation for you.

848
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 10: Yes, very bad. Like it was like roses, little sweet,

849
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 10: nothing's always pain. I'm like a complete listening to flying

850
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 10: to me. You want to and because he couldn't move in,

851
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 10: he's threw a big fit. He talked badly about me

852
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 10: to a friends or family, and like that was like

853
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 10: a true case of love bombing. But if this guy

854
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 10: is still doing the things for her and it's not

855
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 10: fighting with her, and that's saying bad things about her,

856
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 10: and it's still perfect and I tell her to take

857
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 10: my chance of okay, I like that.

858
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 9: I mean, we've gotten a lot of different things and

859
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 9: so many text messages that have come in. We can

860
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 9: read a couple of these, but then we'll wrap up.

861
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 9: Love Bombing is mostly applied when one person feels like

862
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 9: they're about to lose the other person. Not in the

863
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 9: first phases. Someone says, someone else says, I'm a therapist.

864
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 9: And people who say love bombing is so great and

865
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 9: just one way of showing affection don't truly understand what

866
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 9: love bombing is. People who are bombing do not like boundaries.

867
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 9: So she could test it by setting a small limit

868
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 9: and seeing how he reacts.

869
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 7: And if he gets upset, then that.

870
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 9: It would be her sign to run. Then that comes

871
00:36:59,000 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 9: from a therapist.

872
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 6: We just don't don't.

873
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 5: We don't know if they set boundaries, or if she's

874
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 5: okay with it or what. Because she has been fine

875
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 5: with it. I'm just saying we cannot put the we

876
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 5: cannot jump the conclusion and say that he's love bombing,

877
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 5: because if that's the case, anytime anybody shows any affection

878
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 5: in a relationship, but we jump to that, I'm sorry,

879
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:16,399
Speaker 5: you'll probably be single for a while.

880
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 11: Yeah.

881
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 7: All right, Well that's gonna do it for group therapy.

882
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 9: If you ever have one you need our help, email

883
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 9: us at Ryan Show at KDWB dot com and we'll

884
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 9: get you on for group therapy. All right, we are

885
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 9: going to get you hooked up with some Disney on

886
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 9: Ice tickets. It's a family four pack and we're gonna

887
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 9: play a little game called Finish the Lyric. But these

888
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,240
Speaker 9: are Disney songs, so you have to finish a Disney

889
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 9: song if.

890
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 7: You think you can do it.

891
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 9: You want to win tickets to see Disney on Ice,

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