WEBVTT - 8am Hour - Intentional With My Time 0:00:02.960 --> 0:00:05.480 War of the Roses on Katie wb't. Oh, somebody said, 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:07.480 I thought you didn't do War of the Roses during Christmas. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.280 Wish we don't do new War of the Roses. We 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.200 don't want to like split up a couple, like you know, 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:15.560 two weeks before Christmas. 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:16.400 That would be bad. 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:18.720 So but we do have something really cool for you. 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:22.680 Trans Siberian Orchestras. Come in to Target Center a couple 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:25.319 of days after Christmas. It'll still be very Christmas y 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:32.479 out and we're gonna get you into the show. People 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:34.600 just rave about this show, like the lights and the 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:37.159 It's a show, not just a concert. 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:39.839 I've been to it so many times with my fear. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:42.559 Really yeah, we love it. We've gotten tickets for our 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:44.560 parents for Christmas, I think before. 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:46.000 But it's really good. 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:48.520 Are gonna play a game called Connections. If you play 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:50.120 the game in the New York Times app, you know 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:52.479 exactly how this works. I give you four words. If 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.840 you don't play the game, it's really easy to play. 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:57.320 I give you four words. You tell me what they 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:01.600 have in common. You're a d here come forward as 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:06.319 a practice round, right now, here's the four cream pie 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:17.240 split peel bread. Easy, is it easy, Yeah, give it, 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:20.120 give a give Jenny a chance to catch up here, 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:30.479 cream pie split peel bread. Okay, you got it? Yeah, 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:34.119 what is it? 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:31.560 What is it? 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:34.880 Second? 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:37.280 I'll be honest there right, I got that. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.600 You did get it? Here's the real one. Call me 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.720 if you have the answer ready, Hey, helps to write 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:45.200 them down. If you can't write them down, don't try 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:57.320 while you're driving. Colt Bear, Falcon, Lion. You got it already. Oh, 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:05.560 I thought that was gonna be a harder one. Okay, Bailey, 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:11.760 got that yet? That's grabbed the phone at six five, one, nine, 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:12.920 eight nine, k DM you. 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:15.240 Because none of these people just heard you say this. 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:17.320 I know I'm really good at stalling. I'm really good 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:21.040 at stalling. Thursday Night football tonight Tampa Bay Bucks host 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:26.239 the Atlanta Falcons, and I will be watching that tonight 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:30.040 tomorrow and watching another episode of pluribus Uh. Somebody texted 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:32.240 in a little while ago and ruined a little bit 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:34.960 of pluribis for me. Don't really don't if you hear 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:37.679 us ever talking about a show unless we say I've 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:39.880 watched it all the way through. Don't touch in and 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:42.640 say don't you love the part where Tom gets shot? 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:47.200 With an arrow through the eyeball. I don't, don't. I 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:51.000 didn't say that yet, don't. I haven't seen that yet, Sharon. 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:54.760 So I'm watching Pluribus. Then I'm going to figure out 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.320 something else to watch. But Saturday night, the girls are 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:00.280 coming over to spend the night. Three and five years old, 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:02.399 and so a couple of weeks ago, when they were there, 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:05.000 we made sea monkeys. Do know what sea monkeys are? 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.080 They look kind of like snot but I don't know 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:07.800 exactly are. 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.959 They not even close? So not even close. They look 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:15.440 like little tiny skeletal fish and you put the eggs 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:18.239 in the water and then they hatch immediately, but they're 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:20.680 so small you can't see them. So here it is 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:23.240 two weeks later and the girls are gonna come over, 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:25.520 and I'm gonna show them the sea monkeys swimming around 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:26.760 in their little sea monkey. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:29.320 And they are, ye swimming. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.160 It's pretty cool. I would put a video on Instagram, 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:34.160 but it is. They're so small you can't really. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.160 But you have a little magnifying glass you could hold 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:36.720 up to it. 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:41.320 In the tank there are magnifying bubbles. Yeah, so that 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:42.800 is what I'm doing with the girls are gonna come 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.880 over we might take them down to the Arboretum to 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:49.000 show the Christmas lights, or take them down Excelsior like 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.880 Water Street to get a little hot chocolate which they 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:54.960 never drink, and then take them to see the lights. Yeah, 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:57.360 that's exactly what are you doing this weekend? 0:03:57.720 --> 0:04:00.600 This weekend, my friends and I are having a Harry 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:01.720 Potter movie marathon. 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:04.080 We're just gonna watch all of the Harry Potter movies. 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:07.600 And I am inviting regular guy who I've been seeing 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:09.360 to meet all my friends. 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:12.640 So my friend, but you know a handful of my friends. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:16.840 So you're proud enough of this guy and you feel 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:20.120 that he will do a good enough job that your 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:21.920 friends will be like, I like this guy. 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:23.920 He's very concerned about what to bring, so I feel 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:25.440 like that's a good that's a good sign. 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:28.000 He's like, what should I bring? Just yourself? 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:30.000 No, I have to bring something, and said pickles, And 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:31.640 he's like, I had to bring more than pickles. 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:34.120 What if he brings something really weird, like an asp 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:38.000 an ass an as I brought my pet asp that'd. 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:39.560 Be funny, it'd be a good bit. I feel like 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.599 my friends are the people who would think that's funny. 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:43.880 That's a good bit. All right, Tracy is on the phone. 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:47.800 Let's talk to Tracy. Why don't it traceyy? What are 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:49.440 you up to you right now? Tracy? You're driving? Where 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:50.120 you going to work? 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:52.359 I am driving my child? 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:55.440 Oh god cha, I'm glad you're listening with your child. 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:57.680 I'm gonna give you four words, Tracy. You tell me 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:59.200 what the words have in common, and you're gonna go 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.320 see trans sideb or and Orchestra. Are you ready? I 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:11.279 am cult Bear, Falcon Lion. What are they? They are 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:16.040 football team, specifically an FL team. 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:15.120 Yes. 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:22.159 What's the last concert you've been to? Tracy? H We 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:23.239 actually call Kendrick. 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:24.799 Oh you saw Kendrick? 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:26.640 Wow? 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:27.240 Wow. 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.120 This is gonna be just this gut mixing it up 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.039 a little bit. So Tracy enjoyed the show. Thanks for 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:32.800 listening with your kid on KWB. 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:34.839 Thank you, thank you. 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:37.240 Please hold that was an easy one. 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.919 That was an easy one instantly and I am not 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:40.760 a football fan. 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:42.800 No, you got it right away. All right, let's do this. 0:05:43.120 --> 0:05:53.279 It is the throwback Threesome radio show. Yeah, kat w 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:56.080 let's see if you remember the things that were going 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:58.960 on ten years ago. It's always funny. Songs are like 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:05.279 a little time machine for your mind. They will transfer, transmit, transpose, 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:09.840 whatever the word is you back to that year. Let's 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:13.760 go to twenty fifteen. What were you doing? What was 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:16.680 Christmas like in twenty fifteen? How old were you? How 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:19.480 old were your kids? Did you still live at home 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.919 in twenty fifteen? Let's go back to the top TV 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:26.880 shows of twenty fifteen. On the this week three Broke 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:32.160 Girls Too, New Girl. Number one TV show ten years 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:34.000 ago this week was. 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:38.800 Play the Game of Thrones, You win, you die, There 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:39.760 is no middle ground. 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.840 The number one movie, let's start with number three A 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:57.840 either crampis Creed or this one week at eight look 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:04.840 at Me? Do You Know It? Mocking Jay? And the songs. 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:07.480 Let's go with the songs. Here the number the number 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:11.600 three song ten years ago today you'll use to Got 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:19.840 Me Oh Myself? The number two song was, and the 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:24.880 number one song ten years ago today in twenty fifteen, 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:29.760 A little time machine for your mind. Justin Bieber sorry. 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:35.160 On Katiewb's throw back threesome, we'll visit twenty ten coming 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:42.240 up now, A little time machine to transport you back 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:45.600 to twenty fifteen. As somebody texted in and said, ten 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:50.800 years ago, yesterday my divorce was official, so it transported 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:55.880 you right back to twenty fifteen. It's a throw back threesome. 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:57.440 Let's get on the time machine and go all the 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:03.760 way back to twenty ten. Big TV shows. Sherlock Bones 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:07.920 at number two. This one was the number one show. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:09.720 Hayley James. 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:13.400 I want to take the boy to Charlotte. Maybe we 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.000 could see a basketball game. 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:18.160 And I kind of have to be there anyway, considering 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:23.280 I'm the Bobcats sneak point guard one Tree Hill Movies. 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:29.400 Tangled was number three. The Tourist was number two. This 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:33.000 was number one. In your world, I have another name. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:37.320 You must learn to know me by it. That was 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:40.480 the very reason you were brooke to know that. By 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:43.360 knowing me here for a little, do you know it? 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:46.480 I believe that is the third Narnia movie. I never 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:49.400 saw any of those. Oh my gosh. 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:51.000 The first one is one of my favorite movies of 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.840 all time. That one is Voyage of the Dawn Treader. 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:57.880 Uh, Chronicles of Narnia, same thing? Yeah, okay, gotcha? Yeah, 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:00.680 oh no, has got to make machine gun in it 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.160 is al Pacino? Is that the one where he says 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:04.720 hello to my little friend? 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:06.760 But the Lion the Witch in the Wardrobe was really good, Jenny. 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:08.760 You should see that. It's very Christmas. 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:10.720 You ever seen Dirty Harry. That's a good movie here 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:14.400 right there. No, I know what you're thinking, Diddy, fire 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.480 six shots or only five? 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:18.600 See the Narnia. 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:20.640 We're gonna it age, We're gonna rent it together. Oh 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:24.520 we are? Yeah, Okay, songs we'll take you back in time. 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:32.000 The number three song on this date from fifteen years 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:35.160 ago was I think this is wrong, Jenny, I think 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:37.880 that The number three song was What's My Name? By 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.840 Black Eyed Peas number two? Do you have the wrong 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:42.120 Do you have the wrong? Songs on there? 0:09:42.240 --> 0:09:42.400 Oh? 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:43.199 I think it was? 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.360 Oh my bad, No, what it's my fault. It's my fault. 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:48.920 Here we go. This is totally my fault, not Jenny's fault. 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:51.640 Number three song here we Go, it was was my Name. 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:56.720 The number two song in twenty ten takes you back 0:09:56.760 --> 0:10:02.040 to and the Little Time Machine that takes you back 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:05.560 to two thousand and ten. The number one song on 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:11.360 this date in twenty ten Katy Perry on KDWB Throwback 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:13.320 Threesome Back in twenty ten. That was the number one 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:19.439 song on KTWB we'll revisit twenty two thousand and five. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.480 Coming up next, what was the number one song? Where 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:26.160 were you twenty years ago? And if you think about it, 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:29.160 can you believe it was twenty years ago? Maybe you 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:32.760 were nine, maybe you were thirty nine? What were you doing? 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.520 What was life like? We'll revisit two thousand and two 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:39.000 thousand and five next on KDWB on the Dave Ryan 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:42.040 in the Morning Show one on one point three KDWB. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:45.880 Let's do the final year on the throwback threesome. We're 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.040 going all the way back twenty years to two thousand 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:52.480 and five. It may seem like it was just a 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:57.000 few years ago, but it was twenty years ago. Let's 0:10:57.040 --> 0:11:01.560 go to the movies. The number three movie on this 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:04.440 date in twenty twenty two thousand and five was Walk 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:09.200 the Line. Syriana was number two, and Harry Potter and 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:13.360 the Goblet of Fire was number one. A couple of fire. 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:17.280 That's one of the oldest students to do it for you. 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:22.520 Absolutely sure, yes, sir, of course he is Liars Elias. 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:25.480 The Goddle of Fire is an exceptionally powerful magical objects. 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:28.240 Only an exceptionally powerful confundus term could have hood. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:32.040 Lincoln, Okay, TV shows love It, I know you love that. 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:33.400 I love I Know you do. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.160 TV shows Number three CSI Miami, Number two Joey. That 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.080 was the Joey spinoff. Thread was the number two show Wow. 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:41.640 And this was number one. 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:48.120 Dis a painting is haunted by a ghost. I think 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:55.280 he's definitely alive. I think he's trapped inside. Do you 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:55.840 know who he is? 0:11:57.000 --> 0:12:01.800 I have no idea charmed I love that was number one. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:06.280 I loved it on kt WB. This song was of 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:09.559 the dumbest songs ever to reach the top five. One 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.680 of the dumbest songs ever to reach the top five. 0:12:11.800 --> 0:12:19.559 Number three, all right. Number two was What's the time Machine? Song? 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.920 That is going to take you back to two thousand 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:26.040 and five, the number one song on this day twenty 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:33.640 years ago on kd w B. You don't hear that 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:36.319 song very often on the radio anymore, thank god. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.160 You know. I love day. 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:44.480 That reminds you. That reminds you of Jenny, who was like, 0:12:44.559 --> 0:12:48.160 you know, smoking and drinking, and I was like, drinking 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:48.880 and smoking. 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:51.880 That's exactly what I mean, drinking maybe. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.640 Drinking and smoking. That is the throwback for On k 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:58.240 d w B brought You by top Dog law. That's 0:12:58.240 --> 0:12:59.960 not true. I made that up. I just wanted to 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:00.640 say top dog. 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:02.280 Yeah, yeah, you're always saying that. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:08.120 You all right, buddy, Yeah, I'm good. Yeah. I went 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:09.120 to Great Clipps yesterday. 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:10.920 Yeah good, it's pretty sure. 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.719 Got some product also, yeah, yeah, did you I've got 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:16.560 some product? Yeah. Then I went to a staff members 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:18.720 going away party last night over here at the Local. 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:19.280 Yeah. 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:22.480 I wandered into the wrong room. At first, says when 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:24.480 we have a little party at the local, there's a 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.680 back room, like a private party room. You guys have 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:29.000 been there before. Yeah, so I'm assuming that is where 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:31.040 Tasha's going away party is going to be. So I 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.560 wander into the back room. There's a crowd of people 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:36.400 back there. I didn't recognize not a one of them. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.040 And I thought, oh, I know, we got some new staffers, 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.920 but I should recognize somebody. And somebody goes Dave Ryan 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.400 because I'm famous. Yeah, sure, kind of a big deal. 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:48.480 And I'm like hi, and she's like, what are you 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:49.880 doing here? And I said, I think I'm in the 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:53.439 wrong place. She said you are? She said, is this 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.840 guy's retirement party? I said, well, I shook his hand. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.280 I said well, congratulations, let me go get your present. 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:01.800 And then I found tosh is going away party. 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.760 That's good, and uh tires yesterday. 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.240 It's been a thrilling last twenty four hours for all 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:07.440 of us. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:08.679 Yeah, I got tires. 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.560 The before picture of my old tires next to the 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:16.000 new ones dad scolded by everyone in my DMS because 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:18.600 I have the picture on my Instagram story and people 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:23.480 are like, Jenny, I cannot believe you're alive so bad, 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:25.280 So I would recommend to not do what I did. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.240 Do not wait as long as I did, and go 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.400 get new tires if you need them, because I waited 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:30.800 too long. 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.400 But now, how pack in action? Baby? 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:34.080 I didn't slide once this morning? 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:38.080 It was great. You're like, wow, I'm driving really well? 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:40.720 Yeah, no, like I'm usually about like two hundred yards 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:42.880 before a stop signed. That's when I start slowing down 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:44.600 to make sure I stop by the stop. 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.000 So you get to see your tires. Go see my 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:50.160 Jenny's Instagram Katie, but you really can't. You just can't 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:52.240 believe how bad hur tie you let your tires get 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:53.320 Do not do this? 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:54.840 Do it? 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:58.400 Cautionary story Okay, I have not the story. 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.200 You follow all right? 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.120 Coming up on. You can't make this stuff up. This 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:04.880 is a very handy article. Eight polite ways to decline 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.760 a party invitation because sometimes around this time of the year, 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.000 we're two weeks out from Christmas, the neighbors will have 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:12.640 a little something get together, or you know your sister 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:15.280 in law Joyce has got something going on and you 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.160 don't really want to go, but you don't want to 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:19.720 be said, I don't want to get a bad excuse 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.120 is I just don't want to come. So I've got 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:26.840 eight polite ways to decline a party invitation. Get out 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:29.520 your notesap on your phone, because you're gonna need these 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:40.160 coming up four before we get to it. There's a 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.600 lot of people been asking when is the next time 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:45.400 we're doing a Wish match Day with Treasure Island? Is 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:49.800 that next Tuesday? Okay? So I mean it's hard for 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:51.480 me to sit here and say, go ahead and donate 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:54.360 today when I know your wish is gonna be matched 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.680 next your donation is gonna be matched on Tuesday. But 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:58.880 if you don't donate today, then make sure you match 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:02.400 you wish. What am I saying, you don't donate, don't 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:07.000 it on Tuesday? Because we got a lot more Christmas 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:10.120 wishes to grant and if we want to donate, then 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:12.240 go to Katie with tobeat dot comm slash wish. Time 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:13.640 of the year when people are going to be like, hey, 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:15.320 you want to come a little holiday get together, a 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:18.960 little soare coming up on Saturday night? You want to 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:22.000 come over? And you're like, oh man, it's fine to 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:25.480 not want to go. I am the best at not 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:28.040 wanting to go all the time. Yeah, and I go 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.240 because I love you. I want to go sometimes I 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.240 do anyway, So you want to make an excuse, here 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:37.920 are eight great ways to decline a party invitation. Here 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:40.600 we go. That sounds like such a great time. I 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:44.440 can't be there, but thank you so much for the invitation. Okay, 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:48.520 another one. Unfortunately the timing just doesn't work out that 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:52.760 exact day. But we're so touched you invited us. So 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.760 each one of these is very gracious. Yeah, and they 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:59.360 can't really argue when they say if somebody says, well, 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.280 what do you mean you can be there, well, that's right. 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:07.000 You don't need to be read exactly. You always have 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:10.920 the most creative ideas for parties. Let's play a little 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:12.879 role play, Bailey, you invite me to a party. You 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:14.160 tell me a little bit about it, and I will 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:15.080 politely decline. 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:18.440 Okay, Dave, I'm having a Christmas party this weekend and 0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:21.159 it is Muppet Christmas Carol theme, so everyone's going to 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:22.440 be dressed up and bring puppets. 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:24.199 I can't believe I can't make it to this. I 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:26.720 really want to come. Please put me on the list 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:28.919 if you do it again in the future. Okay, is 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:33.520 a good one, all right, bitch, Invite me, Dave. 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.800 I'm actually throwing a little New Year's soire at my 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:39.600 house and you know you just come in your best gear, 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:42.600 bring Susan along. We're gonna have a champagne toasted. It'll 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:43.280 be a great time. 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:46.679 I really want to make this happen, but it's just 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:48.520 not financially feasible. 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:50.880 Oh you can't. I'm providing everything. 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:57.600 I don't like you, Jenny, No, give it me. Give 0:17:57.640 --> 0:17:59.359 me another one. I will give you a way too, 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:03.320 politely decline a party. Christmas party invitation, Kay. 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:07.119 Bailey and I are hosting an ugly sweater party together. Yeah, 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.919 and Bailey, the star of the show is actually gonna be. 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:11.120 Capped my cat. 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:13.160 Yeah, and he's got a little sweater on and we'll 0:18:13.160 --> 0:18:15.720 all have our opportunities to take pictures with him. 0:18:16.440 --> 0:18:19.160 I got a lot on my plate. I'm really being 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:21.800 very intentional with my time right now. 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:23.200 Oh see that one. 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:26.119 I feel like that one's hurtful, almost feel hurt. 0:18:26.080 --> 0:18:27.240 Like you don't make the cut. 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:30.640 Yes, exactly, I'm being intentional with my time, and I 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:31.760 don't intend to spend time. 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:34.120 I basically used that before, when in a different way, 0:18:34.160 --> 0:18:37.000 somebody will be like Dave, somebody who listens to the show, 0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:38.640 and I love you for listening. They'll be like, Hey, 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.160 I'm getting married in September of next year. We would 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:44.520 love to you to come by and officiate our wedding, 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:47.480 And I usually say I used to think, oh man, 0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:48.840 that sounds so cool, and I did a few of 0:18:48.840 --> 0:18:50.840 them that I realized it takes a lot of time 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:53.639 to get to know the couple and write a ceremony 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.720 and then do the wedding, and then, don't you know, 0:18:55.880 --> 0:18:57.840 dine and dash and get out of there. So I 0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:00.760 don't do them anymore. So I will literally say I 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:02.679 would love to come, but you know, I've got my 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:04.560 own family on the weekends, and I'm trying to be 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.320 really careful and spend time with my family. 0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:09.720 That means, you know, yeah, all right, one more party 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:13.520 that I'm hosting anyone, anyone. Everyone has to show up 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:16.680 in gift wrapping. So you're going to create fashion out 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:19.560 of gift wrapping. I'm providing everything. I'm also providing tons 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:21.760 of Red Bull because Holiday Station Stores is doing a 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:22.800 buy two, get one free. 0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:24.000 Right now, you're ridiculous. 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:26.439 You show up with your gift wrapping outfit and we 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:29.000 will do a best dressed contest and you win a 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:31.479 whole pack of Red Bull from Holiday Stations. 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:36.960 Why polite decline That's not going to work for me, 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:39.679 but I appreciate the invite. Now, if you word your 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:42.120 response by this, you're making it clear. You're setting a boundary, 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:45.040 which can be useful if somebody keeps pushing you after 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:48.840 you've said no once. It's best used when you don't 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:52.200 want to leave anything open for negotiation. It's short, clear 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:55.720 and calm. You're not apologizing. You're also not being rude. 0:19:55.760 --> 0:19:58.040 You're just being honest. So if you are the kind 0:19:58.080 --> 0:20:00.000 of person that gets talked into doing things you don't 0:20:00.119 --> 0:20:04.520 want to do, directness isn't cruelty. It's clarity. So say yeah, 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:07.040 that's not gonna work for me, but I appreciate the invite. 0:20:07.680 --> 0:20:10.320 I would respect that. Let's say I invited like Leslie 0:20:10.320 --> 0:20:12.680 and Sales, I'm like, yeah, we're having a big party, 0:20:12.960 --> 0:20:15.359 bring your husband on over and call them babba, and 0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:16.840 she said that's not gonna work for me, but I 0:20:16.840 --> 0:20:19.679 appreciate the invite. I'd be like, oh, okay, that's not 0:20:19.720 --> 0:20:20.720 gonna work for her. Yeah. 0:20:20.760 --> 0:20:23.640 I feel like some of those are better than others, 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:26.320