Speaker 1: More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Speaker 1: it's Star one O one three. It is Marcus. Good morning.
Speaker 1: We're back with Second Date Update again this morning. Thank
Speaker 1: you to everybody tuning in every morning. Appreciate you. Josh
Speaker 1: Is on the phone, Hello, I loved your DM where
Speaker 1: you were like, I can't believe I'm actually calling to
Speaker 1: be on Second Date Update, but here we are. I
Speaker 1: want to talk about your date with Tamra because I
Speaker 1: want to help you out.
Speaker 2: Well, it's been a little weird for me here right.
Speaker 2: I mean we met on Hinge.
Speaker 3: We met up after we exchanged some messages, and we
Speaker 3: went to dinner and Walnut Creek a couple weekends ago
Speaker 3: at this point, okay, and we had tapas, went super smooth,
Speaker 3: good food.
Speaker 2: Good wine, good energy.
Speaker 3: And she seemed really impressed by how confidently I came in.
Speaker 3: I thought everything was just one hundred percent top to bottom. Okay,
Speaker 3: especially considering a tap us, it can be very intimidating.
Speaker 1: All those small plates rolling around.
Speaker 2: Everything's in Spanish, all small plates. Honestly, not enough commitment,
Speaker 2: everything so small.
Speaker 3: You know, I thought everything went really easily. I mean,
Speaker 3: we ate absolutely everything to put in front of us, so,
Speaker 3: you know, seemed to be enjoying it, and we absolutely
Speaker 3: hit it off about our feelings on books.
Speaker 2: You know, we're very.
Speaker 1: Are you read you reader?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, a.
Speaker 3: Big reader, and I just I can't get behind screen
Speaker 3: based reading.
Speaker 2: This is very much I'm not I'm not there for
Speaker 2: the pixels, you know.
Speaker 1: Sure, were there any awkward moments that you can think of?
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to dissect why she might have ghosted?
Speaker 2: No, not at all.
Speaker 3: In fact, she went out of her way to tell
Speaker 3: me about previous bad dates that she was on, and
Speaker 3: it was like, oh, good, at least I'm.
Speaker 2: Not that guy.
Speaker 1: Sure, but she's gone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't heard a thing.
Speaker 1: All right, we're going to see what she says about
Speaker 1: the date. I'd love to get you a second date,
Speaker 1: but let's the very least get some answers. All right,
Speaker 1: but let's positive thinking we're going to get you a
Speaker 1: second date. Can you hang on the line? Well, variety
Speaker 1: for the two the nineties and today it's star one,
Speaker 1: O one three. It is Marcus, good morning, we're doing
Speaker 1: second date update right now. I've been chatting with my
Speaker 1: guy Josh offline. I love this date so dinner and
Speaker 1: Walnut Creek top us and Josh, you did all the ordering?
Speaker 2: Is that? Oh yeah, okay, perfectly well.
Speaker 1: But Tamra has ghosted, so let's try to figure some
Speaker 1: things out. Go ahead and meet your phone and we will.
Speaker 1: We'll give her a shout here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi is this Tamrah?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Hi, my name is Marcus. I do a radio show
Speaker 1: in the morning on a station called Star one O
Speaker 1: one three. I don't suppose you listen.
Speaker 4: I don't, unfortunately.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fine. We're doing a segment on the show.
Speaker 1: It's called second Date Update, and I got floated your
Speaker 1: phone number by a guy who listens to the show
Speaker 1: who went on a date with you recently. He's feeling ghosts.
Speaker 1: I wanted to check in with you and see how
Speaker 1: the date went. It's kind of like a teachable moment.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out if my guy did something wrong,
Speaker 1: or if you've just been busy, or what the deal is.
Speaker 1: Do you have a second to talk about it? Your
Speaker 1: date with a guy named Josh, Uh sure.
Speaker 2: Thank you? So?
Speaker 1: He said it went really well. He said that you
Speaker 1: told some good stories, that the food was good, that
Speaker 1: you were lovely, he'd love to go out again. Did
Speaker 1: you ghost?
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 4: I tried not to like ghost in general, I feel
Speaker 4: like that's true, not like the greatest tactics, but honestly,
Speaker 4: in this case, I just felt like I didn't want
Speaker 4: to go in for a lecture on why I wasn't
Speaker 4: making the right choice. I felt like there was sort
Speaker 4: of a lot of lecture elements of our.
Speaker 1: Okay gate can you can you elaborate on that? I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to figure out what my guy did wrong totally.
Speaker 4: I mean, he seems really nice and like Perston of all,
Speaker 4: and we had nice conversation, but honestly, the whole thing
Speaker 4: felt more like sort of a ted talk on. We
Speaker 4: went out for top us and it felt like I
Speaker 4: was I was there to like learn about It felt
Speaker 4: like a seminar on top of us rather than like
Speaker 4: getting to know you sort of date.
Speaker 1: Okay, he kind of ran the ordering and stuff. Was
Speaker 1: that not helpful?
Speaker 4: I mean he didn't really check in with me to
Speaker 4: see what I wanted. And maybe that works for some people,
Speaker 4: but like, I don't like being ordered for, especially if
Speaker 4: I don't ask for it. And whenever I suggested something,
Speaker 4: he was like, Okay, kiddo. There was a lot of
Speaker 4: kiddo throughout the date, which is sort of a red
Speaker 4: flag for me.
Speaker 1: Like he literally said that, like that's what he called you.
Speaker 4: He called me kiddo, and like maybe he thought that
Speaker 4: was sort of funny, but I thought it was pretty gross.
Speaker 4: And he explained Sangria to me. There was just sort
Speaker 4: of a lot of dicepsic of the evening, and he
Speaker 4: was like, well, you probably aren't familiar with this, even
Speaker 4: though I had told him that I had been to
Speaker 4: Spain and also just like have been alive for a
Speaker 4: number of years, so I know what angria is. Sure,
Speaker 4: So it was just a lot of condescending in that department.
Speaker 4: Otherwise really nice, but maybe he thought it was my
Speaker 4: first time out to dinner.
Speaker 1: Other than that, it was amazing.
Speaker 4: Other than that, it was amazing and I learned a lot. Actually.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, here's where we are with this is
Speaker 1: part of this is Josh's actually listening right now, and awesome, right, Sorry,
Speaker 1: I'd love to bring him on. Great, Josh, are you there?
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, I think I am.
Speaker 1: We've got some answers now, so, oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: Hi. Okay, first of all, I thought I was taking
Speaker 3: charge here because I was just trying to save us
Speaker 3: from ordering six versions of the same croquette. I mean,
Speaker 3: I asked you about allergies, so I knew we were
Speaker 3: getting out ahead of that one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but just because I don't have an allergy to
Speaker 4: something doesn't mean I want to eat it. It's not
Speaker 4: like I was with my dad's friend at a restaurant,
Speaker 4: like I needed help ordering.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like you need to expand your palette.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's why we're there. That's what the whole
Speaker 3: point of proper is.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 4: Oh, really interesting, So it was sort of like a
Speaker 4: learning moment for me. It was an enrichment exercise for me.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't see why can't be.
Speaker 3: Everything's an important opportunity for growth.
Speaker 4: But you already know the answers well.
Speaker 2: I mean when it comes to topics. Yeah, okay, fascinating.
Speaker 1: All right, Hey you guys, hang on, hang on one second,
Speaker 1: hang on, Hey, Tamera, I like you too much. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna put you through anymore of that. I don't
Speaker 1: think he was listening at all. Right, I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 1: gonna let you go. You're amazing, Okay, Wow, all right,
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