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Speaker 1: More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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Speaker 1: it's Star one O one three. It is Marcus. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: We're back with Second Date Update again this morning. Thank

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Speaker 1: you to everybody tuning in every morning. Appreciate you. Josh

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Speaker 1: Is on the phone, Hello, I loved your DM where

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Speaker 1: you were like, I can't believe I'm actually calling to

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Speaker 1: be on Second Date Update, but here we are. I

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Speaker 1: want to talk about your date with Tamra because I

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Speaker 1: want to help you out.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's been a little weird for me here right.

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Speaker 2: I mean we met on Hinge.

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Speaker 3: We met up after we exchanged some messages, and we

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Speaker 3: went to dinner and Walnut Creek a couple weekends ago

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Speaker 3: at this point, okay, and we had tapas, went super smooth,

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Speaker 3: good food.

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Speaker 2: Good wine, good energy.

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Speaker 3: And she seemed really impressed by how confidently I came in.

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Speaker 3: I thought everything was just one hundred percent top to bottom. Okay,

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Speaker 3: especially considering a tap us, it can be very intimidating.

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Speaker 1: All those small plates rolling around.

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Speaker 2: Everything's in Spanish, all small plates. Honestly, not enough commitment,

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Speaker 2: everything so small.

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Speaker 3: You know, I thought everything went really easily. I mean,

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Speaker 3: we ate absolutely everything to put in front of us, so,

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Speaker 3: you know, seemed to be enjoying it, and we absolutely

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Speaker 3: hit it off about our feelings on books.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're very.

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Speaker 1: Are you read you reader?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, a.

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Speaker 3: Big reader, and I just I can't get behind screen

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Speaker 3: based reading.

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Speaker 2: This is very much I'm not I'm not there for

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Speaker 2: the pixels, you know.

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Speaker 1: Sure, were there any awkward moments that you can think of?

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to dissect why she might have ghosted?

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Speaker 2: No, not at all.

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Speaker 3: In fact, she went out of her way to tell

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Speaker 3: me about previous bad dates that she was on, and

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Speaker 3: it was like, oh, good, at least I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not that guy.

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Speaker 1: Sure, but she's gone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't heard a thing.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're going to see what she says about

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Speaker 1: the date. I'd love to get you a second date,

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Speaker 1: but let's the very least get some answers. All right,

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Speaker 1: but let's positive thinking we're going to get you a

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Speaker 1: second date. Can you hang on the line? Well, variety

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Speaker 1: for the two the nineties and today it's star one,

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Speaker 1: O one three. It is Marcus, good morning, we're doing

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Speaker 1: second date update right now. I've been chatting with my

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Speaker 1: guy Josh offline. I love this date so dinner and

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Speaker 1: Walnut Creek top us and Josh, you did all the ordering?

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Speaker 2: Is that? Oh yeah, okay, perfectly well.

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Speaker 1: But Tamra has ghosted, so let's try to figure some

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Speaker 1: things out. Go ahead and meet your phone and we will.

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Speaker 1: We'll give her a shout here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Tamrah?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Hi, my name is Marcus. I do a radio show

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Speaker 1: in the morning on a station called Star one O

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Speaker 1: one three. I don't suppose you listen.

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Speaker 4: I don't, unfortunately.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fine. We're doing a segment on the show.

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Speaker 1: It's called second Date Update, and I got floated your

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Speaker 1: phone number by a guy who listens to the show

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Speaker 1: who went on a date with you recently. He's feeling ghosts.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to check in with you and see how

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Speaker 1: the date went. It's kind of like a teachable moment.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out if my guy did something wrong,

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Speaker 1: or if you've just been busy, or what the deal is.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a second to talk about it? Your

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Speaker 1: date with a guy named Josh, Uh sure.

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Speaker 2: Thank you? So?

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Speaker 1: He said it went really well. He said that you

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Speaker 1: told some good stories, that the food was good, that

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Speaker 1: you were lovely, he'd love to go out again. Did

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Speaker 1: you ghost?

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 4: I tried not to like ghost in general, I feel

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Speaker 4: like that's true, not like the greatest tactics, but honestly,

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Speaker 4: in this case, I just felt like I didn't want

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Speaker 4: making the right choice. I felt like there was sort

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Speaker 1: Okay gate can you can you elaborate on that? I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to figure out what my guy did wrong totally.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he seems really nice and like Perston of all,

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Speaker 4: and we had nice conversation, but honestly, the whole thing

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Speaker 4: getting to know you sort of date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he kind of ran the ordering and stuff. Was

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Speaker 1: that not helpful?

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Speaker 4: I mean he didn't really check in with me to

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Speaker 4: see what I wanted. And maybe that works for some people,

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Speaker 4: but like, I don't like being ordered for, especially if

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Speaker 4: I don't ask for it. And whenever I suggested something,

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Speaker 4: he was like, Okay, kiddo. There was a lot of

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Speaker 4: kiddo throughout the date, which is sort of a red

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Speaker 4: flag for me.

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Speaker 1: Like he literally said that, like that's what he called you.

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Speaker 4: He called me kiddo, and like maybe he thought that

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Speaker 4: was sort of funny, but I thought it was pretty gross.

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Speaker 4: And he explained Sangria to me. There was just sort

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Speaker 4: of a lot of dicepsic of the evening, and he

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Speaker 4: was like, well, you probably aren't familiar with this, even

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Speaker 4: though I had told him that I had been to

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Speaker 4: Spain and also just like have been alive for a

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Speaker 4: number of years, so I know what angria is. Sure,

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Speaker 4: So it was just a lot of condescending in that department.

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Speaker 4: Otherwise really nice, but maybe he thought it was my

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Speaker 4: first time out to dinner.

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Speaker 1: Other than that, it was amazing.

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Speaker 4: Other than that, it was amazing and I learned a lot. Actually.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, here's where we are with this is

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Speaker 1: part of this is Josh's actually listening right now, and awesome, right, Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'd love to bring him on. Great, Josh, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, I think I am.

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Speaker 1: We've got some answers now, so, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: Hi. Okay, first of all, I thought I was taking

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Speaker 3: charge here because I was just trying to save us

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Speaker 3: from ordering six versions of the same croquette. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I asked you about allergies, so I knew we were

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Speaker 3: getting out ahead of that one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but just because I don't have an allergy to

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Speaker 4: something doesn't mean I want to eat it. It's not

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Speaker 4: like I was with my dad's friend at a restaurant,

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Speaker 4: like I needed help ordering.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like you need to expand your palette.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's why we're there. That's what the whole

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Speaker 3: point of proper is.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 4: Oh, really interesting, So it was sort of like a

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Speaker 4: learning moment for me. It was an enrichment exercise for me.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't see why can't be.

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Speaker 3: Everything's an important opportunity for growth.

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Speaker 4: But you already know the answers well.

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Speaker 2: I mean when it comes to topics. Yeah, okay, fascinating.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hey you guys, hang on, hang on one second,

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Speaker 1: hang on, Hey, Tamera, I like you too much. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna put you through anymore of that. I don't

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Speaker 1: think he was listening at all. Right, I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna let you go. You're amazing, Okay, Wow, all right,

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Speaker 1: second date updates,