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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning and we were about to

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Speaker 1: kick off second data update.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back. Lucas is on the phone. Lucas, good morning,

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Speaker 2: Hey macasar Area. I'm good dude. How are you? Despite

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Speaker 2: the ghosting?

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Speaker 3: Bro, I can't figure it out, man, Like, I don't

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Speaker 3: know why why Maren just just vanished. I mean I

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Speaker 3: thought it was a great first day.

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Speaker 2: Sure, it's rough out in these streets, man, that's what

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Speaker 2: I hear.

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Speaker 3: Dude, it's getting I'm telling you.

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Speaker 2: All right, well let's talk about the day. Let's run

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Speaker 2: through it, you know the deal. So, like, what did

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Speaker 2: you guys do? Just recount the evening in your head

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Speaker 2: one more time for me out loud.

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Speaker 3: Sure. So we met at Penny Wilma and San Francisco,

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Speaker 3: and you know it's a place like where there's the

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Speaker 3: pasta's hand made, the tables are patched. Sure, and it's great.

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Speaker 3: I love it. Maren showed up. She looked beautiful, She

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Speaker 3: was funny. She just had that calm confidence, you know,

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Speaker 3: where there just wasn't this awkward silence or she had

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Speaker 3: to fill every silence that happened.

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Speaker 2: You know, what did you guys? What did you eat?

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Speaker 2: And speak slowly? I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's amazing. We had a couple of apastas. We

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Speaker 3: had the roasted veggies. The food was great and the

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Speaker 3: drinks were great. We talked for a couple of hours.

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Speaker 3: We had some funny conversations about weird jobs we've had

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Speaker 3: in the past.

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Speaker 2: So it's a good night overall.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Was there a kiss at the end or anything or

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Speaker 2: what happened?

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Speaker 3: I wish I just went for good night, and I

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Speaker 3: texted her the next day and that's where there was

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Speaker 3: no response, and then nothing after that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, you know the deal. We're gonna call her,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna see what's up. We will have you on

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Speaker 1: the line. So just a reminder to mute your phone

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Speaker 1: so she can't hear you.

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Speaker 3: Like okay, yeah, I'll try not to breathe and I'll mute.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good, All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, is

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Speaker 2: this marrying?

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Speaker 4: This is a shame?

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Speaker 3: Mary?

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Speaker 2: I asked his.

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Speaker 1: Calling Maaron, It's Marcus calling from Star one one three.

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Speaker 1: Good morning to you, Hi.

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Speaker 4: I don't I think you might have the wrong number.

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Speaker 4: I didn't sign up for any things.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I get it. Do you ever listen

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Speaker 2: to the show in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, of course, okay, but I didn't. I didn't

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Speaker 4: sign up to the world.

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Speaker 2: We're doing Second Date Update right now. Oh hi, do

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Speaker 2: you know what that is?

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Speaker 4: I'm on Second Date Update?

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Speaker 2: Yes, you are Second Date Update the featured star if

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Speaker 2: you will from who though? Have you been on a

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Speaker 2: date recently?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: My god? Wait, I actually is it, Lucas? It is

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Speaker 4: so like you really want to do this on the radio, Lucas.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I listened to the show.

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Speaker 4: And he knows I do because I talked about it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're here, everybody, we're adults. So Maren, did

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Speaker 1: you ghost? I guess that's the first question. And if so,

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Speaker 1: can you tell us why Lucas is taking notes?

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Speaker 4: I guess I did technically goest okay, and it wasn't.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't like the day like the eight was. It

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Speaker 4: started out great. I just want to point that out,

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Speaker 4: but like it took a turn like halfway through dinner.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what happened?

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Speaker 4: Did he tell you about his side hustle?

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Speaker 2: No, he left that part out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, which, by the way, totally fine, like every like

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Speaker 4: side hustle, right, totally, But he runs like an online

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Speaker 4: service where people pay him to write their breakup texts.

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Speaker 4: So and he like proudly talks about it, and it

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Speaker 4: took over the conversation. And like he said how he

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Speaker 4: has different tiers that he charges, like depending on how

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Speaker 4: commonlicy that the relationship is. And he was basically just

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Speaker 4: bragging about how good he is at ending other people's

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Speaker 4: relationships for money. And I was just really taken aback

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Speaker 4: by that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I get the emotional aspect of it

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Speaker 1: that is slightly creative, though I can we get haldything.

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Speaker 4: It's not creative, but it's like I just don't like it.

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Speaker 2: Sure, okay, Lucas to you, well.

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Speaker 3: There has to be something else. I mean, I I

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Speaker 3: get that maybe you don't like my job, but like,

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Speaker 3: like what's the deal. I mean, at least we could

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Speaker 3: talk about it, you know.

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Speaker 2: Was that the only thing?

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Speaker 3: Mare? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean no, I really the moment, I actually just

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Speaker 4: like decided I didn't want a second date because I

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Speaker 4: could like overlook that even though it was weird. But

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Speaker 4: like at the end of the dinner, the server came

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Speaker 4: up and asked, you know, how everything was, and Lucas

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Speaker 4: actually said to the server, like completely serious, he goes,

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Speaker 4: I run a Yelp account with a lot of influence

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Speaker 4: and rest especially take care of me once they know that,

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Speaker 4: and the server froze, like he literally like froze and

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Speaker 4: then just.

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Speaker 2: Like nodded and walked away.

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Speaker 4: And I was just like the second he said that,

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Speaker 4: I just knew I could never date someone who tries

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Speaker 4: to like leverage Yelp like as a power move. I

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Speaker 4: don't know, it felt like if he didn't have the

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Speaker 4: Yelp account, like, would we be going out to dinner or.

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Speaker 2: Did you do the old? Do you know who I am?

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Speaker 2: Is that what I'm hearing?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was just joking, like people were.

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Speaker 2: You were you though? Come on, come on, would you

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Speaker 2: be joking.

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Speaker 3: Or it would be rare so I would take it.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, whether it was a joke or not, truthfully,

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Speaker 4: it did.

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Speaker 2: Just give me the ick, like I just.

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Speaker 3: Come on, okay, I.

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Speaker 4: Just didn't like it, like I think you're a cool guy,

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Speaker 4: but I really like truly, I just I wasn't. I

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Speaker 4: really wasn't into all right, Well, I wish you the best,

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Speaker 4: but like I don't rule.

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Speaker 2: Number one, you never never pully? Do you know who

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Speaker 2: I am? Move. That's a yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then Okay, I feel like we've got a little

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Speaker 1: self awareness here, Maren Lucas be better. Yeah, if can

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Speaker 1: he keep the side hustle, if he doesn't do the

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Speaker 1: yelp thing.

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Speaker 2: Uh, could we get a second date? Maren?

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Speaker 3: Like, I think you're just being able to quit to judge,

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is one date and still tell me

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Speaker 3: you've never had side hustles before.

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Speaker 4: I hear where you're coming from.

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Speaker 2: I really do.

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Speaker 4: I just don't think that you get it.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you get me. So I'm out.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'm just like, I'm done.

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Speaker 2: All right, Hang on YouTube, Hang on. Second date update