Speaker 1: It's Mojo in the morning show.
Speaker 2: So heading off after the show, myself producer Lydia or
Speaker 2: executive producer of the show, and Bianca, the executive. I
Speaker 2: always like come up with some kind of a name
Speaker 2: for Bianca. Bianca is the director of Social Impact. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that was a cool name I had one time. And
Speaker 2: then we're going to Cleveland, Ohio to go to a
Speaker 2: radio convention called Morning Show boot Camp. We've talked about
Speaker 2: Morning Show boot Camp before on this radio show because
Speaker 2: we as a show over time, have you know sporadically
Speaker 2: gone to it. Lyddy and I went a couple of
Speaker 2: years ago to it in San Diego, and then in
Speaker 2: the past I would always go to the ones in Chicago,
Speaker 2: or they had one in Atlanta. They picked different cities
Speaker 2: this year Orleans, Yeah, New Orleans was a great one.
Speaker 2: This year they picked Cleveland. Nice, which makes me even
Speaker 2: happier than any of the other cities. And I know
Speaker 2: that sounds weird because who really wants to go to Cleveland.
Speaker 2: But it's a nice quick drive. You know, it's only
Speaker 2: a couple hours. I don't have to pay for an
Speaker 2: air ticket and stuff like that. So Lydia sends me
Speaker 2: a text last night, and it was kind of interesting.
Speaker 2: First off, Bianca and Lydia sent me pictures of their luggage.
Speaker 2: Biyonca's luggage looks like she's bringing Bryce, her boyfriend got options.
Speaker 1: How long are We're only there tonight tomorrow night?
Speaker 2: Would so we're there till Saturday morning, So it's Saturday
Speaker 2: morning Friday.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But is.
Speaker 3: There like a dinner or something like something that she
Speaker 3: needs to dress up for.
Speaker 2: Well, we're definitely gonna eat because I like to eat.
Speaker 2: But I think there was one night that Brad Harden
Speaker 2: is taking. Iheard people out or having like some kind
Speaker 2: of a little thing, and then we'll probably, honestly just
Speaker 2: go everybody grow grab some food in different places.
Speaker 1: Look at how much stuff she's bringing, Like, no, okay,
Speaker 1: let me talk.
Speaker 3: I was exaggerating.
Speaker 4: Let me defend myself. So I actually have to do
Speaker 4: my radio show while I'm in Cleveland. So while my
Speaker 4: one black backpack is all my radio stuff, and then
Speaker 4: I got a new suitcase that did not fit my
Speaker 4: toilet tree, so I have to carry that in a
Speaker 4: small black bag. And then my bag I'm going to
Speaker 4: take to Blue Camp is the blue bag.
Speaker 1: So he's bag as a purpose.
Speaker 4: But if I had not to take my radio whole
Speaker 4: setup with me, I would have only one extra bag.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so okay, that makes sense. Then Lydia
Speaker 2: sent me a text. I'm gonna read Lydia's text because
Speaker 2: I think this is kind of funny. Lydia said, I
Speaker 2: have a question for you, Mojo. Does Chelsea pack for you?
Speaker 2: I have a cousin who still has his mom packed
Speaker 2: his clothes for him when he goes on family vacations.
Speaker 2: My mom packs most of the things for my dad
Speaker 2: and she puts some laughing oh gee's on there, and
Speaker 2: it got me thinking that this could be a kind
Speaker 2: of a funny topic, which, by the way, I'll explain.
Speaker 2: I'll answer that question in a second. What does your
Speaker 2: spouse do for you? Do we have any listeners that
Speaker 2: are listening to the show who have their spouse pack
Speaker 2: or they have their spouse like make them their lunches
Speaker 2: or make their doctor's appointments for them, stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Eight four to four Mojo Live. Chelsea does not pack
Speaker 2: for me, and it has never packed for me. Now
Speaker 2: she has packed for the boys, and I will say this,
Speaker 2: she is amazing at picking out outfits for the boys.
Speaker 2: I probably should trust her, But the one time that
Speaker 2: I would have her pack and she forgot something, it
Speaker 2: would be.
Speaker 1: Hell right catastrophic.
Speaker 2: It would be awful, because I have done it, Chelsea,
Speaker 2: and I went to Chicago one time, and you know,
Speaker 2: I forgot underwear and deodorant and contact lenses. I forgot
Speaker 2: all of that for you, for yourself, for me, And
Speaker 2: so she had to listen to me being upset with myself.
Speaker 1: Could you imagine if she did that, we probably be divorced.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't forget anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So explain, Lydia, your cousin. How old is your
Speaker 2: cousin that has mom pack?
Speaker 3: He's thirty two.
Speaker 1: Oh, she's great, That's crazy great. Okay.
Speaker 3: I have a question. Is he married Lydia? No, okay,
Speaker 3: because I have a friend who married a keldy and
Speaker 3: guy and she said that when they first got married,
Speaker 3: and I think they were going on their honeymoon, either
Speaker 3: their honeymoon or like one of their first trips, his
Speaker 3: mom actually came over to their house not only packed
Speaker 3: for him, but put layers of tissue paper in between
Speaker 3: the outfits for each day.
Speaker 1: Nice.
Speaker 2: I don't know, that's kind of nice though. It's like
Speaker 2: think about that. You know exactly what you're doing.
Speaker 3: Like this girl was like, well wait a second, Like
Speaker 3: he's a big boy, he can pack for himself, and
Speaker 3: if he wanted anybody to pack for him, it probably
Speaker 3: should be me.
Speaker 2: You wait, your dad also has this too, haunt George,
Speaker 2: has your mom pack yes?
Speaker 1: Ion packed for him?
Speaker 5: Yes? Or else he'll forget everything. Listen, when we were
Speaker 5: in Toronto, like last month, he was panicking because he's like,
Speaker 5: I think your mom forgot to pack my shirts. And
Speaker 5: I'm like, first of all, it's not her responsibility. Second,
Speaker 5: they're hanging up in the closet. I pulled them out
Speaker 5: for you, so you pull them out, she pack them.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 6: The level of trust that I do not have for
Speaker 6: any woman in my life or any woman that has
Speaker 6: been in my.
Speaker 1: Life, is that an all time high.
Speaker 6: I can't trust that, Like you're going to pack the
Speaker 6: things that I would want. That's my thing laughing, Like
Speaker 6: when you go on vacation, you go on a trip,
Speaker 6: you got certain looks you want for a certain vibe
Speaker 6: you want to create and feel, and to trust that
Speaker 6: to somebody else, it's not even about them forgetting anything.
Speaker 6: It's just I don't want to be surprised when I
Speaker 6: open up my suitcase.
Speaker 3: You want to know what you have?
Speaker 1: This is what I'm wearing. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Sometimes though, in my case, Chelsea will find things that
Speaker 2: I haven't worn in a while and she'll go, you
Speaker 2: know what you have more in this in a while?
Speaker 1: You're wearing it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh, that's kind of cool. But she doesn't
Speaker 2: do it as packing. She'll just like say, hey, hare,
Speaker 2: pull this one out.
Speaker 1: Nick. What's going on? How you doing?
Speaker 7: I'm doing good?
Speaker 1: How about you? Good?
Speaker 2: Nick's wife does a lot for him. What is the
Speaker 2: one thing that she does for you all the time?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 5: What I do for her every day?
Speaker 1: You wake up with her every morning to pack her
Speaker 1: lunch and make her breakfast. Man, Nick, where do we
Speaker 1: find guys like you?
Speaker 8: I don't know.
Speaker 9: I'm like the dating app.
Speaker 2: That's I like the fact that the guy is doing this,
Speaker 2: that he's packing.
Speaker 1: What does your wife do?
Speaker 10: She works in retail, so she's up at four or
Speaker 10: five am every day going into work.
Speaker 1: She works at cools And then what do you do?
Speaker 7: I go back to bed afterwards.
Speaker 1: So do you have a job or do you stay home?
Speaker 1: Are you a house husband?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 7: Yeah, no, no, I sell rooping.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? And how long has this been going on? Man?
Speaker 10: Since we've been together, I've been over six years.
Speaker 2: Do you write her a note on her napkin? Or
Speaker 2: do you do little smiley faces?
Speaker 10: Or you know, sometimes on the sandwich bag if she
Speaker 10: takes a sandwich and she wants the sandwich, I'll write
Speaker 10: something with a sharpie on the bag.
Speaker 1: Like what give us? Give us? What do you write?
Speaker 1: I love you?
Speaker 7: Or have a great dig can't wait to see you.
Speaker 1: This guy's a great guy. I'm telling you. Every woman
Speaker 1: needs a neck.
Speaker 8: Uh.
Speaker 1: You know I could never not with any level of consistency, Ashley,
Speaker 1: what's going on?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 1: Hi, hi? Ask So.
Speaker 9: I have been with my husband for fifteen years and
Speaker 9: I packed for him forever until one time we went
Speaker 9: on vacation and I forgot all his underwear. Y, I
Speaker 9: guarantee you.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, you can pat yourself. You know
Speaker 1: what's funny.
Speaker 2: The first thing I put out is my underwear to
Speaker 2: make sure you have because I count.
Speaker 1: Them, you know what I mean, Like I have to
Speaker 1: count the home overpa. Yeah. Yeah, that's that's funny.
Speaker 2: Hold on one second, uh, Sam.
Speaker 10: So my husband, first of all, he brings me coffee
Speaker 10: every morning.
Speaker 7: He's the only one who makes my.
Speaker 10: Coffee just the way I want it to with. He
Speaker 10: brings me coffee.
Speaker 7: He packed my clothes.
Speaker 10: I put him on the bag he puts in the
Speaker 10: suitcakes got his job.
Speaker 3: Does he just do a better job of fitting more
Speaker 3: stuff in?
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 11: Yeah, he's much better at making sure.
Speaker 10: Everything fits how he needs to fit. And that's why
Speaker 10: we do it the way I do.
Speaker 2: Sam, you got to have him follow Cupcake Shannon. She
Speaker 2: has these.
Speaker 1: She has well. She has like the little bags that
Speaker 1: you pack in and then you suck out all the air.
Speaker 1: Those are great. He does use those. I love that.
Speaker 1: Hold on, Jessica, what's up, Jessica, Hi, first time, long time.
Speaker 7: I've been with my husband for about going on twelve
Speaker 7: years on August ninth, and I do pack his toilet
Speaker 7: trees for him for whenever he travels for work or
Speaker 7: just whenever. And then occasionally I will make his doctor's
Speaker 7: appointments like physicals, and particularly because I know at times
Speaker 7: he just has a hard time getting around to it.
Speaker 7: So if I do it, I just know that it's
Speaker 7: in the books. So yeah, that's what I do.
Speaker 1: That's cute.
Speaker 6: When you say the toilet trees. Is there a reason
Speaker 6: why you don't pack anything else besides that?
Speaker 7: Well, I just think he like personally likes to like
Speaker 7: pick out his outfits, especially if it's like for work trip,
Speaker 7: like he irons and stuff like he irons my clothes.
Speaker 7: I was never taught how to properly iron, so he
Speaker 7: spoils me and he's like in charge of that. But
Speaker 7: like the toilet trees, like I make sure he has
Speaker 7: like tilet all the like quors life life all. You know, Yes,
Speaker 7: I make sure he is prepared. And I'd rather have
Speaker 7: him overpacked than not have what he needs because he
Speaker 7: doesn't like being away.
Speaker 1: Like that first day Questions there asked that question, would
Speaker 1: you do it? Joeann, You do everything for your man?
Speaker 10: Oh my god, let me tell you first.
Speaker 6: Time a long time, thanks for calling.
Speaker 1: Oh love you guys.
Speaker 10: So my daughter calls me an enabler because I do
Speaker 10: so much.
Speaker 11: If we're going to a wedding, I get his suit out,
Speaker 11: I match his time, I polish his shoes. If I'm away,
Speaker 11: if I'm working late, he will literally wait for.
Speaker 10: Me to come home and get his dinner, literally wait.
Speaker 2: Like I do so much, pack that bag, Joey, he
Speaker 2: doesn't and he's not forcing you to do this.
Speaker 1: You do this out of the love of your husband.
Speaker 10: Right, the love the big heart that I have.
Speaker 11: I love it all for him, and I get so frustrated,
Speaker 11: Like I start complaining to my daughter about it.
Speaker 10: She's like, mother, you're doing this to yourself.
Speaker 1: That's right, you're doing it.
Speaker 2: You know what though, if you enjoy it, you know,
Speaker 2: and you continue to do it, like if you didn't
Speaker 2: want to do it, like if he you.
Speaker 3: Know, or he didn't want you to do it, or
Speaker 3: he didn't want you.
Speaker 1: To do it. Like is he appreciative of what you
Speaker 1: do for him? Does he thank you?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 1: My gosh, yes he is.
Speaker 10: He takes care of like the lawn, all the manly things, putting,
Speaker 10: you know, gas in the cars, the tires all that.
Speaker 10: He does all that stuff. But it comes to packing
Speaker 10: bags and getting the clothes around and that.
Speaker 2: If I if I packed for Chelsea, it would be
Speaker 2: like panties. Uh, oh my gosh, she'd be like those
Speaker 2: booty shorts, Like we're going to dinner tonight.
Speaker 1: I can't wear this, you can, you know.
Speaker 3: My friends Clinton Michael Dupan husband wife by the way,
Speaker 3: Michael is a girl, and we he threw her a
Speaker 3: surprise fortieth birthday trip a couple like this was like
Speaker 3: two or three years ago. And he packed and we
Speaker 3: all took her. And when she got when we got
Speaker 3: to the airbnb and she starts pulling stuff out that
Speaker 3: he packed. I'm like, this is this is why husbands
Speaker 3: don't pack for their wives.
Speaker 1: It was the most random.
Speaker 2: Old We're going ye, hold on a second, real quick?
Speaker 1: Is it? Rel?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Rel? Are you first time? Long time?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 8: I called a couple weeks ago and my hold chick
Speaker 8: about a father's day.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, listen to what Rel's wife does
Speaker 2: for him?
Speaker 1: What is that? Rel?
Speaker 8: Okay, we've been together about fifteen years now, but she
Speaker 8: still cuts up my meat, my chicken, my steak.
Speaker 1: Don't cut the meat.
Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey, I love this woman, but she I
Speaker 8: don't think she trusts me with sharp objects or something.
Speaker 1: She does she ever feed it to you.
Speaker 8: Occasionally she might give me one of the first bites.
Speaker 1: I here you go, babe.
Speaker 8: You know not to hear winding or nothing, but.
Speaker 1: That is so cute. I love it, Ralph, I'm not mad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good lady. You treat her, taking care of
Speaker 1: meat Lady, take care Bye,