WEBVTT - What Does Your Spouse Do for You 

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning show.

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<v Speaker 2>So heading off after the show, myself producer Lydia or

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<v Speaker 2>executive producer of the show, and Bianca, the executive. I

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<v Speaker 2>always like come up with some kind of a name

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<v Speaker 2>for Bianca. Bianca is the director of Social Impact. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that was a cool name I had one time. And

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<v Speaker 2>then we're going to Cleveland, Ohio to go to a

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<v Speaker 2>radio convention called Morning Show boot Camp. We've talked about

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<v Speaker 2>Morning Show boot Camp before on this radio show because

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<v Speaker 2>we as a show over time, have you know sporadically

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<v Speaker 2>gone to it. Lyddy and I went a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>years ago to it in San Diego, and then in

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<v Speaker 2>the past I would always go to the ones in Chicago,

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<v Speaker 2>or they had one in Atlanta. They picked different cities

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<v Speaker 2>this year Orleans, Yeah, New Orleans was a great one.

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<v Speaker 2>This year they picked Cleveland. Nice, which makes me even

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<v Speaker 2>happier than any of the other cities. And I know

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<v Speaker 2>that sounds weird because who really wants to go to Cleveland.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's a nice quick drive. You know, it's only

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<v Speaker 2>a couple hours. I don't have to pay for an

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<v Speaker 2>air ticket and stuff like that. So Lydia sends me

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<v Speaker 2>a text last night, and it was kind of interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>First off, Bianca and Lydia sent me pictures of their luggage.

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<v Speaker 2>Biyonca's luggage looks like she's bringing Bryce, her boyfriend got options.

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<v Speaker 1>How long are We're only there tonight tomorrow night?

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<v Speaker 2>Would so we're there till Saturday morning, So it's Saturday

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<v Speaker 2>morning Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But is.

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<v Speaker 3>There like a dinner or something like something that she

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<v Speaker 3>needs to dress up for.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're definitely gonna eat because I like to eat.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think there was one night that Brad Harden

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<v Speaker 2>is taking. Iheard people out or having like some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a little thing, and then we'll probably, honestly just

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<v Speaker 2>go everybody grow grab some food in different places.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at how much stuff she's bringing, Like, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me talk.

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<v Speaker 3>I was exaggerating.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me defend myself. So I actually have to do

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<v Speaker 4>my radio show while I'm in Cleveland. So while my

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<v Speaker 4>one black backpack is all my radio stuff, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I got a new suitcase that did not fit my

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<v Speaker 4>toilet tree, so I have to carry that in a

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<v Speaker 4>small black bag. And then my bag I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>take to Blue Camp is the blue bag.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's bag as a purpose.

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<v Speaker 4>But if I had not to take my radio whole

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<v Speaker 4>setup with me, I would have only one extra bag.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, so okay, that makes sense. Then Lydia

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<v Speaker 2>sent me a text. I'm gonna read Lydia's text because

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is kind of funny. Lydia said, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a question for you, Mojo. Does Chelsea pack for you?

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<v Speaker 2>I have a cousin who still has his mom packed

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<v Speaker 2>his clothes for him when he goes on family vacations.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom packs most of the things for my dad

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<v Speaker 2>and she puts some laughing oh gee's on there, and

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<v Speaker 2>it got me thinking that this could be a kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a funny topic, which, by the way, I'll explain.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll answer that question in a second. What does your

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<v Speaker 2>spouse do for you? Do we have any listeners that

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<v Speaker 2>are listening to the show who have their spouse pack

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<v Speaker 2>or they have their spouse like make them their lunches

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<v Speaker 2>or make their doctor's appointments for them, stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight four to four Mojo Live. Chelsea does not pack

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<v Speaker 2>for me, and it has never packed for me. Now

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<v Speaker 2>she has packed for the boys, and I will say this,

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<v Speaker 2>she is amazing at picking out outfits for the boys.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably should trust her, But the one time that

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<v Speaker 2>I would have her pack and she forgot something, it

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<v Speaker 2>would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell right catastrophic.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be awful, because I have done it, Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 2>and I went to Chicago one time, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot underwear and deodorant and contact lenses. I forgot

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<v Speaker 2>all of that for you, for yourself, for me, And

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<v Speaker 2>so she had to listen to me being upset with myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine if she did that, we probably be divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't forget anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So explain, Lydia, your cousin. How old is your

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<v Speaker 2>cousin that has mom pack?

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<v Speaker 3>He's thirty two.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, she's great, That's crazy great. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a question. Is he married Lydia? No, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>because I have a friend who married a keldy and

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<v Speaker 3>guy and she said that when they first got married,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think they were going on their honeymoon, either

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<v Speaker 3>their honeymoon or like one of their first trips, his

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<v Speaker 3>mom actually came over to their house not only packed

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<v Speaker 3>for him, but put layers of tissue paper in between

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<v Speaker 3>the outfits for each day.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, that's kind of nice though. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>think about that. You know exactly what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 3>Like this girl was like, well wait a second, Like

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<v Speaker 3>he's a big boy, he can pack for himself, and

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<v Speaker 3>if he wanted anybody to pack for him, it probably

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<v Speaker 3>should be me.

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<v Speaker 2>You wait, your dad also has this too, haunt George,

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<v Speaker 2>has your mom pack yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Ion packed for him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes? Or else he'll forget everything. Listen, when we were

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<v Speaker 5>in Toronto, like last month, he was panicking because he's like,

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<v Speaker 5>I think your mom forgot to pack my shirts. And

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, first of all, it's not her responsibility. Second,

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<v Speaker 5>they're hanging up in the closet. I pulled them out

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<v Speaker 5>for you, so you pull them out, she pack them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 6>The level of trust that I do not have for

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<v Speaker 6>any woman in my life or any woman that has

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<v Speaker 6>been in my.

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<v Speaker 1>Life, is that an all time high.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't trust that, Like you're going to pack the

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<v Speaker 6>things that I would want. That's my thing laughing, Like

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<v Speaker 6>when you go on vacation, you go on a trip,

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<v Speaker 6>you got certain looks you want for a certain vibe

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<v Speaker 6>you want to create and feel, and to trust that

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<v Speaker 6>to somebody else, it's not even about them forgetting anything.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just I don't want to be surprised when I

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<v Speaker 6>open up my suitcase.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to know what you have?

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm wearing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes though, in my case, Chelsea will find things that

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't worn in a while and she'll go, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what you have more in this in a while?

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<v Speaker 1>You're wearing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Oh, that's kind of cool. But she doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>do it as packing. She'll just like say, hey, hare,

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<v Speaker 2>pull this one out.

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<v Speaker 1>Nick. What's going on? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm doing good?

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<v Speaker 1>How about you? Good?

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<v Speaker 2>Nick's wife does a lot for him. What is the

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<v Speaker 2>one thing that she does for you all the time?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>What I do for her every day?

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<v Speaker 1>You wake up with her every morning to pack her

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<v Speaker 1>lunch and make her breakfast. Man, Nick, where do we

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<v Speaker 1>find guys like you?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm like the dating app.

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<v Speaker 2>That's I like the fact that the guy is doing this,

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<v Speaker 2>that he's packing.

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<v Speaker 1>What does your wife do?

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<v Speaker 10>She works in retail, so she's up at four or

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<v Speaker 10>five am every day going into work.

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<v Speaker 1>She works at cools And then what do you do?

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<v Speaker 7>I go back to bed afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you have a job or do you stay home?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a house husband?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, no, I sell rooping.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right? And how long has this been going on? Man?

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<v Speaker 10>Since we've been together, I've been over six years.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you write her a note on her napkin? Or

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<v Speaker 2>do you do little smiley faces?

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<v Speaker 10>Or you know, sometimes on the sandwich bag if she

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<v Speaker 10>takes a sandwich and she wants the sandwich, I'll write

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<v Speaker 10>something with a sharpie on the bag.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what give us? Give us? What do you write?

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<v Speaker 1>I love you?

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<v Speaker 7>Or have a great dig can't wait to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy's a great guy. I'm telling you. Every woman

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<v Speaker 1>needs a neck.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I could never not with any level of consistency, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on?

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<v Speaker 10>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, hi? Ask So.

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<v Speaker 9>I have been with my husband for fifteen years and

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<v Speaker 9>I packed for him forever until one time we went

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<v Speaker 9>on vacation and I forgot all his underwear. Y, I

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<v Speaker 9>guarantee you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, you can pat yourself. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing I put out is my underwear to

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<v Speaker 2>make sure you have because I count.

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<v Speaker 1>Them, you know what I mean, Like I have to

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<v Speaker 1>count the home overpa. Yeah. Yeah, that's that's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on one second, uh, Sam.

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<v Speaker 10>So my husband, first of all, he brings me coffee

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<v Speaker 10>every morning.

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<v Speaker 7>He's the only one who makes my.

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<v Speaker 10>Coffee just the way I want it to with. He

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<v Speaker 10>brings me coffee.

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<v Speaker 7>He packed my clothes.

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<v Speaker 10>I put him on the bag he puts in the

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<v Speaker 10>suitcakes got his job.

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<v Speaker 3>Does he just do a better job of fitting more

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<v Speaker 3>stuff in?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, he's much better at making sure.

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<v Speaker 10>Everything fits how he needs to fit. And that's why

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<v Speaker 10>we do it the way I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Sam, you got to have him follow Cupcake Shannon. She

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<v Speaker 2>has these.

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<v Speaker 1>She has well. She has like the little bags that

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<v Speaker 1>you pack in and then you suck out all the air.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are great. He does use those. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Jessica, what's up, Jessica, Hi, first time, long time.

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<v Speaker 7>I've been with my husband for about going on twelve

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<v Speaker 7>years on August ninth, and I do pack his toilet

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<v Speaker 7>trees for him for whenever he travels for work or

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<v Speaker 7>just whenever. And then occasionally I will make his doctor's

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<v Speaker 7>appointments like physicals, and particularly because I know at times

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<v Speaker 7>he just has a hard time getting around to it.

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<v Speaker 7>So if I do it, I just know that it's

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<v Speaker 7>in the books. So yeah, that's what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 6>When you say the toilet trees. Is there a reason

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<v Speaker 6>why you don't pack anything else besides that?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I just think he like personally likes to like

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<v Speaker 7>pick out his outfits, especially if it's like for work trip,

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<v Speaker 7>like he irons and stuff like he irons my clothes.

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<v Speaker 7>I was never taught how to properly iron, so he

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<v Speaker 7>spoils me and he's like in charge of that. But

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<v Speaker 7>like the toilet trees, like I make sure he has

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<v Speaker 7>like tilet all the like quors life life all. You know, Yes,

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<v Speaker 7>I make sure he is prepared. And I'd rather have

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<v Speaker 7>him overpacked than not have what he needs because he

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<v Speaker 7>doesn't like being away.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that first day Questions there asked that question, would

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<v Speaker 1>you do it? Joeann, You do everything for your man?

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<v Speaker 10>Oh my god, let me tell you first.

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<v Speaker 6>Time a long time, thanks for calling.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh love you guys.

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<v Speaker 10>So my daughter calls me an enabler because I do

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<v Speaker 10>so much.

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<v Speaker 11>If we're going to a wedding, I get his suit out,

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<v Speaker 11>I match his time, I polish his shoes. If I'm away,

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<v Speaker 11>if I'm working late, he will literally wait for.

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<v Speaker 10>Me to come home and get his dinner, literally wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I do so much, pack that bag, Joey, he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't and he's not forcing you to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>You do this out of the love of your husband.

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<v Speaker 10>Right, the love the big heart that I have.

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<v Speaker 11>I love it all for him, and I get so frustrated,

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<v Speaker 11>Like I start complaining to my daughter about it.

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<v Speaker 10>She's like, mother, you're doing this to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, you're doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what though, if you enjoy it, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and you continue to do it, like if you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do it, like if he you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, or he didn't want you to do it, or

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't want you.

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<v Speaker 1>To do it. Like is he appreciative of what you

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<v Speaker 1>do for him? Does he thank you?

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<v Speaker 10>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My gosh, yes he is.

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<v Speaker 10>He takes care of like the lawn, all the manly things, putting,

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<v Speaker 10>you know, gas in the cars, the tires all that.

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<v Speaker 10>He does all that stuff. But it comes to packing

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<v Speaker 10>bags and getting the clothes around and that.

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<v Speaker 2>If I if I packed for Chelsea, it would be

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<v Speaker 2>like panties. Uh, oh my gosh, she'd be like those

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<v Speaker 2>booty shorts, Like we're going to dinner tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wear this, you can, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>My friends Clinton Michael Dupan husband wife by the way,

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<v Speaker 3>Michael is a girl, and we he threw her a

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<v Speaker 3>surprise fortieth birthday trip a couple like this was like

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<v Speaker 3>two or three years ago. And he packed and we

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<v Speaker 3>all took her. And when she got when we got

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<v Speaker 3>to the airbnb and she starts pulling stuff out that

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<v Speaker 3>he packed. I'm like, this is this is why husbands

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<v Speaker 3>don't pack for their wives.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the most random.

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<v Speaker 2>Old We're going ye, hold on a second, real quick?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? Rel?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Rel? Are you first time? Long time?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 8>I called a couple weeks ago and my hold chick

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<v Speaker 8>about a father's day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, all right, listen to what Rel's wife does

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<v Speaker 2>for him?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that? Rel?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, we've been together about fifteen years now, but she

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<v Speaker 8>still cuts up my meat, my chicken, my steak.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't cut the meat.

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<v Speaker 8>Hey, hey, hey, I love this woman, but she I

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<v Speaker 8>don't think she trusts me with sharp objects or something.

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<v Speaker 1>She does she ever feed it to you.

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<v Speaker 8>Occasionally she might give me one of the first bites.

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<v Speaker 1>I here you go, babe.

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<v Speaker 8>You know not to hear winding or nothing, but.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so cute. I love it, Ralph, I'm not mad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good lady. You treat her, taking care of

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<v Speaker 1>meat Lady, take care Bye,