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Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. I'm having fun right now.

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Speaker 1: We're on Instagram life. We never do this at Live

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Speaker 1: with Joe Show. Come hang out. We'll probably never do

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Speaker 1: it again, but maybe we will. We get enough viewers

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Speaker 1: on it. That's how we'll do at Live with Joe Show.

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Speaker 1: Who's got you blocked on social media?

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Speaker 2: Ashley? What happened? Uh?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 3: This girl who I will probably make my girlfriend this

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Speaker 3: next weekend got me blocked and it's the best thing ever.

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Speaker 2: I love it. Wait what I want to be blocked?

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Speaker 3: I need you guys to understand you guys get like

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Speaker 3: the bubbly loving Ashley. Y'all don't never see me tweak out.

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Speaker 3: Y'all have never seen me really crashed out for real.

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Speaker 3: So moving forward, like I told myself, in order for

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Speaker 3: me to have a successful relationship, I cannot be friends

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Speaker 3: with my significant other on social media? Really, yes, because

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Speaker 3: I'll see the comments. I'm like, who is that? Where

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Speaker 3: that person come from? I'll look at the likes. I

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Speaker 3: am that person who will not look at phone. I

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Speaker 3: want to be blocked, to just block me. I don't

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Speaker 3: want to see it ever.

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Speaker 1: But don't.

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Speaker 2: But I so this is the thing I'm blocked. No,

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Speaker 2: I do. I don't.

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Speaker 3: When I was when I dated my girl for five years,

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Speaker 3: we were never Facebook friends or Instagram friends.

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Speaker 2: Guy, no, but it was exact. But it wasn't because

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Speaker 3: I don't think that I know myself personally and I

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Speaker 3: know like mentally, I can't be your friend. I don't

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Speaker 3: want to see like if I'm on Twitter, I will

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Speaker 3: go on Twitter and I'll see tweets? Monkey is that

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Speaker 3: about me? Like what's going on? But it's no, You're

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Speaker 3: just your inner thoughts. I don't think I need to

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Speaker 3: see my significant others everything that they think of and

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Speaker 3: everything that they want to post.

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Speaker 2: I think for me it's toxic.

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Speaker 3: And I know myself and I think the greatest thing

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Speaker 3: ever was her blocking me. So I can't see it.

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Speaker 3: Granted I could because their page is public public, so

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Speaker 3: I can if I really want to see it. But

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Speaker 3: following it and all that, I'm not for it. I'm

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Speaker 3: not for it all right.

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Speaker 2: Her husband, they've been married over ten years.

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Speaker 3: They're not friends on social media, they're not snapchat friends,

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Speaker 3: and I think it's the best thing ever.

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Speaker 1: I will say, I think my mom and my dad

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Speaker 1: are not friends on social media? What Yeah, But I

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Speaker 1: think that that was the case back when they were

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Speaker 1: like getting a divorce. I think now that they're not

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Speaker 1: getting into divorce, I think that they are back to

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Speaker 1: being friends. You following is what I'm saying when they

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Speaker 1: were getting a divorce, theyds on social media.

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Speaker 3: Because I just, like I said, I know myself, I

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Speaker 3: look at comments like I'm to the point now like

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Speaker 3: I don't even like reading the comments on my page.

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Speaker 2: But if I were to go to her.

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Speaker 3: Page and I'll look at the comments and I see

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Speaker 3: these random strangers like you know, calling her beautiful or

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Speaker 3: just right, and I know how like if you know

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Speaker 3: it's going to trigger you, yeah, protecting yourself, So why.

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Speaker 2: Would I go?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So why am I going to allow myself to

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Speaker 3: get triggered? And We've had so many arguments about things

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Speaker 3: on social media. I'm like, you know what, this would

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Speaker 3: And I'm triggering myself. So I would rather not be

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Speaker 3: her friend on social media, Like I want to know

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Speaker 3: don't want to see about it. I mean, but everybody

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Speaker 3: could be like you and Jed and Joe, like when

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Speaker 3: you get girlfriends, you plaster them on your social media.

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Speaker 2: Social media is attack now because here's the thing, Ashley, relationships.

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Speaker 2: What's the number one thing that you want in a

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Speaker 2: relationship to be loved? It's not trust mouth Huger. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: well you don't think I trust her because you're social media.

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Speaker 3: If you can't know the pages, the pages, the pages,

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Speaker 3: I want to be blocked. The page is already public,

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Speaker 3: so I can go see her page if I want to.

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Speaker 3: I just say I don't follow her because I don't

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Speaker 3: comes to me if I want to go see it,

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Speaker 3: I can go see it. But then again, I would

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Speaker 3: be triggering myself to see things that I don't want

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Speaker 3: to see. You get what I'm saying. What people flirting

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Speaker 3: oh you're so beautiful in the commun wanted to see that.

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Speaker 3: For me personally, I don't want to see that. And

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Speaker 3: social media has given us access to everybody in the world,

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Speaker 3: people you would never come across, So I just know

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Speaker 3: for my mental health, I don't want to be her

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Speaker 1: Don't be shaking your head like that you would even

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Speaker 1: be remotely okay with this, Katie.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't because it's not for me. That's why you

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Speaker 3: Your daniel, I feel like to be well, No, I

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Speaker 3: mean like I love to be friends with my fiance me.

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Speaker 2: It's more so just like just block me because I

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Speaker 2: know my own self. Yeah, and it's public. The page

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Speaker 3: I could go see it right now, but I guarantee

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Speaker 3: you I'll see something I don't like.

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Speaker 2: I'll text her and I'll be like, so, who is this?

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Speaker 2: Because I've done it before.

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Speaker 3: It's it has been an issue in my past relationships

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Speaker 3: where I allow social media.

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Speaker 2: To cause problems. Yeah, and they don't even know these people.

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Speaker 3: That's why I think my most successful relationship was with

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Speaker 3: So the video sometimes that aren't posted on social I

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Speaker 3: get them directly to me.

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Speaker 1: I want to make this very clear, if you ever

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Speaker 1: own friend me, I'm gonna lose my mind.

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Speaker 2: No, I got to see what you got going on.

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Speaker 1: I got to keep you safe because she likes me more.

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Speaker 2: Because what you talk about isn't about me, about you.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's all just wildcats and special play, special teams,

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Speaker 1: Of special needs. Yeah you're saying I love a good Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: You would ever build up to that though?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I don't want to be Yeah no,

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Speaker 3: I've never even the girl in Houston. When I was

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Speaker 3: just like hanging out, we did not become social media friends.

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Speaker 2: Did not like it. I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: Well, Lauren's on. And by the way, you can leave

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Speaker 1: your comments too on Instagram. At Live with Joe Show,

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Speaker 1: I'll read your comments and I'll shout you out. Besides,

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Speaker 1: bad Bory can stop commenting the same thing you're ruining.

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Speaker 2: The live buddy.

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Speaker 1: At Live with Joe Show, you can comment there and

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Speaker 1: I'll read them. But Lauren, you're first because you're calling him.

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Lauren?

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Speaker 4: If you really want your relationship to work out, honestly,

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Speaker 4: just to lead social media altogether.

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Speaker 2: Work, I can't because of work.

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Speaker 3: That's why I also say to myself, listen, don't for her,

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Speaker 3: don't read the comments, because I mean, I'm on the radio.

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Speaker 2: People are going to leave comments. But yeah, I can't

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Speaker 2: delete social media.

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Speaker 2: Dictate how active I am on.

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Speaker 1: There, Lauren. I know that she's said why but why

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Speaker 1: do you think she really is not wanting to be.

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Speaker 4: Because she's a jealous person, That's what she's explaining some people.

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Speaker 2: I like that I'm talking that I don't like, but

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 3: I feel it took me a very long time, honestly

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Speaker 2: But I know that I am. All right, Car you're

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Speaker 2: on with the show, go ahead, Yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 5: With you on that one. Actually, like, I deleted my

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Speaker 5: my social media because like, me and my husband are

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Speaker 5: the same way. We're friends on Facebook. But if he

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Speaker 5: shares anything or I share anything, he's like, well, you

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Speaker 5: didn't respond to mine. I'm like, okay, Jilly, yes, I

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Speaker 5: don't want to see him. And he's like, oh, so

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Speaker 5: you're ignoring what I'm posting. I'm like, I see if

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Speaker 5: It should not be like you should not be on there,

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Speaker 5: like don't hide each other, like yeah, post pictures together

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Speaker 5: keeping your snifficit other, you're hidden. You just can't handle

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Speaker 5: they just exactly. Yes, I totally agree with you. I'm

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Speaker 1: I guess there's more people like you than us because Devin,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Carly dev as well.

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Speaker 2: You feel Ashley. You're down with what Ashley is doing.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely. Listen. I have a big platform, and when guys

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Speaker 4: start dating me, I always tell I never give them

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Speaker 4: and I might listen, if I give it to you,

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Speaker 4: we can't talk no more. They're like why, And I'm like,

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Speaker 4: because you're gonna see it and you're going to immediately

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Speaker 4: judge me off of because I'm a troll a lot

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Speaker 4: of so yeah, so yeah, it has nothing to do

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Speaker 4: with me physically. I'm not putting anything out there, but

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Speaker 4: I am putting a lot of things that may look

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Speaker 4: like I do cheat, live manipulating. Now they think I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want you to see the.

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Speaker 5: Honest side.

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Speaker 4: It is beside that other women or girls will look

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Speaker 4: at it and they'll they'll think it's funny, it's really fling,

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Speaker 4: but men will not take it the same way. I

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Speaker 4: avoiding everything, Yeah, right, and that.

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Speaker 3: Content can turn for guy where it's is like, listen,

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Speaker 3: I'm just doing this for content.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 3: This isn't my real life, all right?

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Speaker 4: Well, saying your place saying you.

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Speaker 2: Want me to crack so bad?

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Speaker 1: I want to crash he'd be on Instagram says nope,

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Speaker 1: I need to see everything. Uh. Meanwhile, Dino says, you know,

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Speaker 1: I kind of agree with you. I love you guys

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Speaker 1: so much. Release a new episode of Absolutely Unnecessary.

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Speaker 2: How about MP?

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Speaker 1: Mark Chant says, I think it's healthy that Ashley recognizes

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Speaker 1: that social media is and can be toxic to a relationship.

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Speaker 1: I think it's self awareness. And then weed is Life

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Speaker 1: says maybe this is so they can be hiding.

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Speaker 3: Is public already as private?

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Speaker 2: Did not be like, Hey, what's the problem.

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Speaker 1: Let's throw it back at line with Joe Show hang

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