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Speaker 1: Did something happen? Why was I left on Rhett eight

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Speaker 1: hundred four ninety three ninety three. You can always text

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Speaker 1: in at ninety seven seven two zero.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Lauren. Hey, how's it going good?

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Speaker 1: So I called Lauren yesterday and kind of filled her

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Speaker 1: in on the weird situation she's going to be in.

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Speaker 1: But you you were nice enough to, you know, want

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Speaker 1: to talk to Matt again. Matt of course called us

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Speaker 1: and kind of wanted to know why you went ghost,

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Speaker 1: which we can. We can save the awkward hellos and

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Speaker 1: everything because Matt's on the phone too.

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Speaker 3: Hey, all right, we'll do an awkward hello anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well Lauren, like I said, just don't

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Speaker 1: beat around the bush, and you know, tell him, tell

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Speaker 1: him what happened.

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Speaker 2: It's a misunderstanding, I think, but go ahead.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, you guys know he had we had three

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Speaker 4: dates and it was like over the course of a month,

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Speaker 4: like it was just you know, we were messaging a lot,

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Speaker 4: but we went out three times and and the day

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Speaker 4: after our third date, he sent me this calendar invite

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Speaker 4: for his cousin's wedding, and like, without any other, without attacks,

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Speaker 4: without mentioning it anything at all, just this calendar invite,

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Speaker 4: and I thought, Okay, well, first, there's so much to

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Speaker 4: unpack here, like why are you sending me a calendar invite?

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Speaker 4: First of all, Like that's just tacking and strange and

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Speaker 4: what the heck weirdo? And then like meeting all your

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Speaker 4: family right now, like we barely know each other, like

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Speaker 4: it just it was like too much, and I just

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Speaker 4: was like, I can't do this.

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Speaker 1: So Matt, why uh why invite her to the wedding

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Speaker 1: so soon?

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Speaker 3: I feel soon? To me, I mean we were doing,

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Speaker 3: you know, have a great three dates. I guess I

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Speaker 3: don't carry the same kind of weight with that stuff.

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Speaker 3: It's like I'm going to a wedding. She's my plus one.

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Speaker 3: There's gonna be a lot going on there, and not

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Speaker 3: that people won't care who I bring, but they'll be like, oh, great,

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Speaker 3: lovely to meet you, and then they'll continue on with

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Speaker 3: their night. Like I don't think, at least in my family,

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Speaker 3: it's not like oh, oh this is the you know,

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Speaker 3: like if she's got commitment issues. This isn't She doesn't

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Speaker 3: have to worry here, Like it is like the fact

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Speaker 3: that I am bringing her to my family should certainly

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Speaker 3: mean a lot, but it doesn't. She doesn't have to

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Speaker 3: like carry that weight into it. And I'm sorry if

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Speaker 3: I was a weirdo for a calendar invite to like that,

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Speaker 3: but yeah.

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Speaker 1: Here, I don't know eight four ninety three ninety three?

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Speaker 1: Is that a Is that a weird move? At what

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Speaker 1: point can you I don't know, invite a date or

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Speaker 1: someone that you're dating or just you know, talking to

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Speaker 1: to a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you this on the planning side of it,

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Speaker 2: on a calendar invite. On a calendar.

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Speaker 4: Invite, Let's not leave that out because like, don't even

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Speaker 4: I feel like this is being painted like, oh, it's

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Speaker 4: not that big of a deal whatever calendar invite, Like the.

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Speaker 2: What bothers you about the calendar invite, Lauren.

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Speaker 4: Because it's like, what, how am I fitting into your

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Speaker 4: work schedule with everything else? Like you've got like it's

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Speaker 4: just a kind of insulting in mirror And he uses

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Speaker 4: words like ID eight in regular conversation and I clocked that,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, Okay, what are we gonna,

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 2: A calendar invite? I'm not like why, I'm not a meeting.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a meeting very professional. Do you get calendar

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Speaker 2: invites for social gatherings?

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Speaker 1: I don't do I ever show up on time or

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Speaker 1: in the right place or any of that.

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Speaker 2: No, because no one sends me account. I love calendar

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Speaker 2: and bi calendar. I do. Listen, life is life most fast.

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Speaker 2: You got to throw it on your calendar so you

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Speaker 2: won't forget a meticulous calendar. She reminded me of birthday was.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's Sarah. What do you think.

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Speaker 5: I think that maybe a discussion first, a quick like hey,

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Speaker 5: you know, do you want to come to my cousin's wedding,

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Speaker 5: and then a calendar invite would be more appreciated.

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Speaker 6: But I don't think it's weird.

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Speaker 5: To be invited to a wedding mat too, Like you

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Speaker 5: don't have to put.

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Speaker 3: That much pressure on it.

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Speaker 1: I just think about like the photos, like obviously things

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Speaker 1: aren't going to work out with Matt and Lauren now,

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Speaker 1: but like what if Lauren said yes and then Matt

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Speaker 1: did something I don't know with a calendar invite after

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Speaker 1: that and then they break up the bride and groom

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Speaker 1: like cut her out, shoot like she's in, she's in

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Speaker 1: pictures of ours? You know what I mean? I always

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Speaker 1: wonder with that. But we love you, Sarah, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in. We've got Lauren

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Speaker 1: and Matt on. Matt wanted to know why Lauren didn't

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Speaker 1: call him back, and Lauren has filled us in that

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Speaker 1: it was really two things. It was one, we've only

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Speaker 1: been on three dates and you're already inviting me into

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Speaker 1: a wedding. But along with inviting me to this wedding,

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Speaker 1: you sent it in calendar invite form. Hey Holly, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Hi morning, Good morning Holly. What do you think?

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Speaker 5: I think that she's being pretty weird here. I think that,

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Speaker 5: like they've been talking, she's had in between their three dates,

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Speaker 5: he felt comfortable enough to invite her. If she thinks

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Speaker 5: it's too formal to be invited to a wedding, then

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Speaker 5: how is it not formal enough to be given a

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Speaker 5: calendar invite? I mean, I just put my cousin's wedding

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Speaker 5: into my own work calendar. I don't understand. Thank you.

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Speaker 6: What do I think?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like, what do you think when she's saying that, yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean everybody's different, but like, yeah, we were messaging. But

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Speaker 4: when you're like cute flirty bands or like on a

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Speaker 4: on an app and like then you know, like texts

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Speaker 4: and stuff, that's really different than sending a formal like

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Speaker 4: you know, click yes.

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Speaker 2: Or no in the thing and then it's part of

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Speaker 2: your calendar.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I can I ask a question

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Speaker 5: like do you, like, are you dating with intention to

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Speaker 5: like stay with someone for long term? Like because are

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Speaker 5: you guys dating for the same reasons? Because it seems

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Speaker 5: like he's like looking to meet you to meet his family,

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Speaker 5: and you're like, nah.

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Speaker 4: I feel like after like you hang out with someone

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Speaker 4: three times, you can't make a decision about anything, Like

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Speaker 4: there's not like what do you mean my dating with intention? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean obviously I want to meet somebody. I'm not

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Speaker 4: just hooking up with people, like that's just not happening.

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Speaker 4: But inviting me to a family wedding so fast and

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Speaker 4: then like doing it like I don't I'm not a

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Speaker 4: again calendar invite.

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Speaker 2: I am not a meeting. Do not treat me like

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Speaker 2: a meeting. It's not a meeting.

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Speaker 4: It's just like I don't want.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to forget about it.

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Speaker 3: I asked what she was doing on that Saturday. She

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Speaker 3: said nothing. I should have said, you want to go

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Speaker 3: to a wedding? I didn't. That was dumb of me.

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Speaker 3: And then I sent her a calendar. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 3: maybe it was not perfect, but can we just chill

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Speaker 3: out a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit here, Holly, thank you. Let's let's move on.

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Speaker 1: To uh, we're going to talk to another Lauren with

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Speaker 1: us And you say, hey, cut Matt some slack because

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Speaker 1: of men in general.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean.

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Speaker 6: I think that men just like don't really have a sense,

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Speaker 6: especially nowadays, have a sense of like how to connect

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Speaker 6: with the women nowadays. Like I feel like we're on

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Speaker 6: totally different planets. I think we just need to cut

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Speaker 6: them some slack. I would have texted him back and

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Speaker 6: been like, that was kind of weird to send a

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Speaker 6: calendar in by, but sure, I'll go with you, Like,

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Speaker 6: next time, don't send me a calendar invite, Like, just

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Speaker 6: talk to these men. I feel like they just don't understand.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how to do a calendar invite too,

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Speaker 1: by the way, I would really struggle with that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, my husband doesn't either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even know how to accept it because

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Speaker 1: my fiance will do that too. She's like, hey, why

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Speaker 1: aren't you Are you ignoring this? And I'm like, ignoring it.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know it exists. But thank you, Lauren one.

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Speaker 1: And then hey, uh, Matt and Lauren. Obviously we're not

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Speaker 1: gonna make things work, but I appreciate you both coming

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Speaker 1: on and just being honest with each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, we'll talk to you guys later. Yeah. Hey, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we'll be back. I clocked, but yeah, like the green check,

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Speaker 2: that's how you accepted. Oh yeah.

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