WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Ex's Name Tattooed 

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<v Speaker 1>Him and talk to him yesterday. Right now, just a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update on Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're giving you all kinds of stuff on

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<v Speaker 2>this radio show, but one of the biggest things we

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<v Speaker 2>give you is the ability to be able to figure

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<v Speaker 2>out why the hell you're not getting a callback after

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<v Speaker 2>you want on a date. If you are somebody that

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<v Speaker 2>has that as one of the things that has given

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<v Speaker 2>you anxiety of why did this relationship not work? Text

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<v Speaker 2>date to nine five five zero zero, we'll get you

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<v Speaker 2>on second date update. Tori says that she's not getting

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<v Speaker 2>a callback, and actually, Toy, did you go to his

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<v Speaker 2>place or did you go to your place afterwards?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My place?

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<v Speaker 2>So you guys went back to your place and you

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<v Speaker 2>guys had sex. Yeah, yeah, I think I need to

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<v Speaker 2>just have that be revealed, just for the purpose of

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<v Speaker 2>exactly what we're going to find out here in just

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of minutes. So you really liked him and

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<v Speaker 2>you want to have another date with him, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>bummed out that he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, for sure, we really like, really.

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<v Speaker 3>Hit it off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean we're going to find out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to say, hi, to Evan.

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<v Speaker 1>Tori, Hey, Evan, Hey, Torri.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, Like everything seemed fine, so I don't

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<v Speaker 4>really know what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Was everything fine, Evan, I mean everything was good, but

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, honestly, Cinemon called back because she has a tattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like she has too. Mm hmm what is what?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you not a tattoo guy?

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<v Speaker 5>No, tattoos are fine. Just this one that she has

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<v Speaker 5>bothers me.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it?

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<v Speaker 5>It's it is a the name of her ex in

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<v Speaker 5>the heart on her head.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I mean, okay, what's your ex's name, Tori? Ronnie?

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<v Speaker 2>How long ago was Ronnie an x?

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<v Speaker 5>It's been like.

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<v Speaker 1>Two or three years now.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have a lot of other tattoos, Like, that's

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<v Speaker 3>not my only tattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Ronnie dead?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>But we ended things really well, and we were together

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<v Speaker 3>for a very long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes people would be like and they pass away and

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<v Speaker 1>they get it.

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<v Speaker 2>So the so the tattoo of Ronnie does not need

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<v Speaker 2>to come off because you say that you have a

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<v Speaker 2>good relationship with him, Like everything is good.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, we knew each other for a really

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<v Speaker 4>long time before we even started dating, and then we.

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<v Speaker 1>Dated for a long time, like grew up together type guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Get there? Yeah? Does she? Or I mean, why would she?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would it bother you so much? Evan?

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<v Speaker 2>If it's uh, if it's somebody though that she still has,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, care for I don't know about feelings, but

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<v Speaker 2>care for her for this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Ron shout out to Ronnie.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't want I don't want my girl walking

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<v Speaker 5>around with another man's you know, name tatted on her body.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad.

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<v Speaker 3>That that would bug That would bug me too, But

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<v Speaker 3>there you there are you could she could remove it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a really not easy fix, but it is fixable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't want to remove it? To you, Tori? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like I said, it's not the only tatoo

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<v Speaker 1>I have, Like it's okay, so that.

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<v Speaker 2>Part's like we only have an ex boyfriend? Though, what

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<v Speaker 2>if you do this weird? This is just a thought,

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<v Speaker 2>But what if you lie to the next guy that

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<v Speaker 2>you're with? Obviously Evan knows and just say like it's

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<v Speaker 2>a relative or something like that, Like you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean to.

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<v Speaker 3>Me if I'm Evan, This is more than about the tattoo, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>there is still very much an attachment to Ronnie.

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<v Speaker 4>But but would you ever get it covered up like

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<v Speaker 4>fill in the heart or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean maybe I would do that before I got

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<v Speaker 6>it removed. I've got it put to McDonald's arches on

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<v Speaker 6>the side and mc real quick, I want to ask

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<v Speaker 6>you a question.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you care so much for Ronnie that you would

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<v Speaker 2>ever see yourself getting back together with him? Or you

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<v Speaker 2>just think that you guys are good friends? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, you know we're never getting back together. That's

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<v Speaker 1>never gonna be an option.

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<v Speaker 2>But he's a friend. So here's the thing, though, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't just get rid of Ronnie. Ronnie is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be part of her life as a friend. And if

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<v Speaker 2>somebody can't somebody be friends with a man or a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Like can't it just absolutely. It does still strike me

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<v Speaker 3>as weird though, that she's so like protect.

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<v Speaker 6>Every time she gets changed in the mirror, where every

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<v Speaker 6>time she sees it, ye, that attachment that she had

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<v Speaker 6>sand is going to trickle in her mind.

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<v Speaker 2>This is, by the way, something though that And can

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<v Speaker 2>people that listen to the show can know she had

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<v Speaker 2>her ex's initials still hanging on the wall for a

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<v Speaker 2>long time.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't my your last initial, your old last initial.

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<v Speaker 1>And my current my my murphy m it was M. See.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you had it on tattooed on your

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<v Speaker 1>body and stuff? Would you take it off? No? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Why get rid of for the tattoo?

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<v Speaker 3>If I had my ex husband's name tattooed somewhere on

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<v Speaker 3>my body, you could bet that that would be gone.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Like what if? But what if your

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<v Speaker 2>ex died? Like what if Ronnie died? I think that

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<v Speaker 2>that's asked the questions. That's a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>He has to die, Yes, Ronnie has to die. Sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, what is the movie where it's like so and

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<v Speaker 2>so has to die? I'm sorry, John, Yeah, must die?

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Darien? Hi? Hi, listen, I'm not gonna lie. If if

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<v Speaker 1>throads were reversed, the girls would have a fit.

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<v Speaker 6>And me as a guy if a female word to

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<v Speaker 6>get my name tatted, we have chemistry or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I still know that. I still you know. So you

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<v Speaker 1>think hip?

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<v Speaker 2>You think Ronnie can get a little look at her

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<v Speaker 2>hip anytime he wants.

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<v Speaker 4>Say, Ronnie, Ronnie can do whatever you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm time to tell.

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<v Speaker 2>You Ronnie must lay it on Tory great, right, Darien

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<v Speaker 2>put it right on her hip.

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<v Speaker 4>She had, she had, she had a reason to get

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<v Speaker 4>his names at it.

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<v Speaker 1>He must be doing something again. Shout out to Ronnie,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, Danielle?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>So I had my access name on my down there?

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<v Speaker 2>Where did you down there?

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<v Speaker 4>Right across my bu ha?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow? Like straight across or was it like a like

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<v Speaker 1>a like a you like a hook?

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<v Speaker 4>It was just like literally the name and a little

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<v Speaker 4>tiny flower like next to it is extremely painful?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it like tom? Or is it like di'angelo?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>How long is this?

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<v Speaker 4>It's a very common name that starts.

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<v Speaker 6>With S and ms with e.

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<v Speaker 1>Steve ye.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, shout out to Steve's all the Steves listening to

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<v Speaker 2>the show, so going so yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 4>My with my husband and I started dating. He was like,

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<v Speaker 4>no way, and he paid to get it covered up,

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<v Speaker 4>Like immediately, what did he.

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<v Speaker 1>Covered up with? What does it look like now?

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<v Speaker 4>And it's got like just like flowers and like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Second, you got to hear what she said about what

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<v Speaker 2>did she covered it up with? Because it's good, but

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<v Speaker 2>so flowers, a skull and some girly spit.

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<v Speaker 4>You said, yeah, it's got like a crown and some

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<v Speaker 4>little like Barkley diamonds and stuff, and that hurt way

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<v Speaker 4>worse than the written.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say the first time he saw Steve?

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<v Speaker 1>What is your husband?

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<v Speaker 4>I warned him ahead of time, but he was just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's gotta go, like immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, why don't you just say that that's

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<v Speaker 2>what you call your vaginas I called my vagina sty.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know how people name cars, you can name

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<v Speaker 2>your private cars.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>The name on my wrist and I used to tell

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<v Speaker 4>people after we sled up that it was like my

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<v Speaker 4>dead dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did you get that covered up too? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>it still the ex's name?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's absolutely been covered up for like a long time,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was probably like a year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, flowers and skulls. Hold on a second, Melissa, what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>It's about Joe in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, what's up? Melissa?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just laughing because I had the same tattoo

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<v Speaker 4>as the original person with the heart with my ex's

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<v Speaker 4>name in it, and all I did was just get

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<v Speaker 4>the heart filled in.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, wait, the same tattoo meaning Ronnie?

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<v Speaker 1>You dated a Ronnie?

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<v Speaker 5>Well not Ronnie?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I was gonna say, yeah, what was your guy's name?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, I'm like Ronnie gets around Ray?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 5>Ray?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, just going off of what the lady says, she

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<v Speaker 5>got a Kouci tattoo that hurt way more.

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<v Speaker 1>The second time, like, is this something that you know?

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<v Speaker 1>A question to them? Is this something that they're okay with?

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<v Speaker 1>Just seeing how it works out? What if these two

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<v Speaker 1>people actually falling in love? Right? Yes? Is she willing

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<v Speaker 1>to cover the name up? Is she willing to cover

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<v Speaker 1>the name up? If not? Because I'm all about people on.

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<v Speaker 4>The segment getting a second date?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think, Evan, would you be cool? And

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if Tori, if you'd be okay with this?

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<v Speaker 2>But would you be okay with if you guys went

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<v Speaker 2>on more dates? And she then said we'll get rid

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<v Speaker 2>of Ronnie and make it Evan, I don't know, man.

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<v Speaker 5>She you know, she told me she wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 5>get rid of it, which means that she still has feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like it's like a phoenix floor find a new

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<v Speaker 5>new comment seeing someone else's flag there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think. So what a capture flag.

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<v Speaker 2>What if we have Ronnie on one side and.

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<v Speaker 1>Evan on the other side?

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<v Speaker 2>And okay, all right, yeah, oh my god, hold on, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 2>you also had your baby daddy tattooed?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you and no longer stayed with him? What did

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<v Speaker 1>you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>And I got a hoot on my husband now made

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<v Speaker 4>me cover it up and it's it's like on my chest.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what was his name? What was his baby? Your

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<v Speaker 1>baby daddy's name, Drey? And what is it now? My

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<v Speaker 1>husband's name?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, did they cover it with?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I got a road to see that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's beautiful. That's beautiful. This is all sensible. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to go back to that woman's Steve Coochie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, your whole