WEBVTT - War of the Roses: Roommate Hookup

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<v Speaker 1>Catching a cheater, one fake bouquet of roses at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>Four of the Roses starts right now on Kati w B.

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<v Speaker 2>As of today, we've done three and forty two War

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<v Speaker 2>of the rose I believe three nine and forty two,

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<v Speaker 2>and we've never had this situation before. This is a

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<v Speaker 2>new one. Wow that I Sometimes you think I'm never

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<v Speaker 2>going to get a new War of the Roses. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but this is a Let me explain what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I have two women on the phone right now and

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote their names down. It is Lydia and Christa.

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<v Speaker 2>Krista wants to do War of the Roses. You're dragging

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<v Speaker 2>Lydia along for the ride, kind of, would you say?

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<v Speaker 3>Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so let's start off with Christa and Lydia. You're

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<v Speaker 2>also there, right Hi? Okay, okay, So two friends room,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys roommate, your roommates together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, that's rare.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Christa, tell me what happened and why you are

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<v Speaker 2>both here.

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<v Speaker 3>Lydia was out of town one week recently and I

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<v Speaker 3>was having issues with the toilet, like it wasn't flushing properly,

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<v Speaker 3>so I didn't know how to fix it myself. So

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<v Speaker 3>I asked her boyfriend Patrick to come over to fix it,

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<v Speaker 3>and he did, and he got kind of flirty with me,

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<v Speaker 3>and I always thought that he was kind of hot.

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<v Speaker 3>So we ended up both flirting with each other and

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<v Speaker 3>we almost tissed, but I stopped it because I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>this is this is getting to me too much. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't I can't do this. I can't do this

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<v Speaker 3>to Lydia. So I stopped it, but he would have

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<v Speaker 3>gone all the way, I think if I hadn't stopped it, ok,

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, and I told Lydia, I was just.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna ask Lydia, how do you feel about that, Lydia?

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<v Speaker 2>How what she then told you about it? How did

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<v Speaker 2>that make you feel?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm still uncomfortable whenever I hear that come up,

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<v Speaker 4>honestly devastated because it kind of felt like emotion. It

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<v Speaker 4>was like emotional cheating.

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<v Speaker 5>And yeah, like I want.

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<v Speaker 4>I really want to marry him. And so it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>hard because yeah, christ and I are good friends and

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<v Speaker 4>were roommates, and also Patrick, we've been together for five years.

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<v Speaker 4>So this is like a really big challenge for me

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<v Speaker 4>right now, and I am pretty pretty lost right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't blame you, but I but do you

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<v Speaker 2>are you forgiving Christa for you know, I wonder how

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<v Speaker 2>often that happens. It's like, oh, you're a little flirty

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<v Speaker 2>with your boyfriend's girlfriend whatever, I don't know, whatever the

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<v Speaker 2>case may be. But then you go, no, I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at least she stopped it, because like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've lived with roommates before, and sometimes their boyfriends have

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<v Speaker 1>been over at the apartment without my roommate there, and

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<v Speaker 1>so like I'm saying, hey, at least she stopped it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can see where Lydia might be. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you said in the first place, Chris, they give her

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of credit for telling her that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, because she didn't have to at all.

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<v Speaker 2>First. I think one of the reasons, I'm gonna guess

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<v Speaker 2>that maybe one of the reasons you told Lydia was

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<v Speaker 2>because you wanted her to find out that her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>is not exactly the most reliable boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, yeah, exactly. I'm just thinking, you know, if he

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<v Speaker 3>tried to hook up with me, then what else is

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<v Speaker 3>he doing potentially behind Lydia's.

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<v Speaker 5>Back, you know?

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why we're here on War of the Roses. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you told Lydia that you almost made out, almost

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<v Speaker 2>hooked up with her boyfriend. And I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>ask for the dirty details, but it sounded like you

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<v Speaker 2>almost kissed and then the last minute you said I can't,

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<v Speaker 2>I just can't. So Lydia, you're on the road to

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<v Speaker 2>forgiving Christa, but you want to find out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well yeah, Chris has been.

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<v Speaker 5>Telling me that, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, he could be capable of so much more like worse,

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<v Speaker 4>So you know we'll see you today. He is, Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I told you we've never had a war of

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<v Speaker 2>the roses like this. Okay, stand by. We will call

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<v Speaker 2>in a second and we'll get a hold of Patrick

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<v Speaker 2>to see who he chooses to send roses to, and

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<v Speaker 2>it should be Lydia.

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<v Speaker 3>Time to pull out those receipts.

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<v Speaker 1>Part two of Or the Roses starts right now on KDWB.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, a little convoluted, but it's interesting to dig in.

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<v Speaker 2>So two women are roommates, one of them was out

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<v Speaker 2>of town, Lydia, and so Lydia's boyfriend comes over to

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<v Speaker 2>fix the toilet while they're together. Remember they're not boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>and girlfriend, but it's Lydia's boy friend. They start to

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<v Speaker 2>get flirty and touchy feely and huggy, kissy and whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're about to make out, and as I'm pictured

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<v Speaker 2>into my mind, they're just like in a movie or

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<v Speaker 2>a TV show where two people are about to kiss

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<v Speaker 2>and one of them goes, oh, no, we can't, we can't,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't, I can't do that. But he was perfectly

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<v Speaker 2>willing to. So she tells her friend Lydia. When she

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<v Speaker 2>gets back, she's like, yeah, me and this guy, your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to confess to you. We almost made out,

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<v Speaker 2>but I stopped it. But I think you should know

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<v Speaker 2>number one, I feel guilty and I'm terribly sorry, but

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<v Speaker 2>he was perfectly willing to carry it on, and we

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<v Speaker 2>could have done a whole lot more. So what we

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<v Speaker 2>want to do is call him and see whether he's

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<v Speaker 2>also got somebody else on the side, because it sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like he's got a certain willingness to cheat. Yep, let's

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<v Speaker 2>make the phone call right now. Remember both women are

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<v Speaker 2>listening in as we make the phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much Past for doing that survey. As

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<v Speaker 1>a thank you, we would like to offer you a

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<v Speaker 1>dozen long stem romantic red roses to be sent to

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<v Speaker 1>whomever you would like. All I need is the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the person who you'd like to send the roses too.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh uh okay, great, uh let's send them to Lydia.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, fabulous, I've got that name down. Well, so far,

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<v Speaker 1>so good, So far, so good. Things are gonna break

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<v Speaker 1>down really quickly here. Let me explain what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I have two people that want to

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<v Speaker 2>say hi, and I wanted you to try to guess

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<v Speaker 2>who they are. So on the count of three, just

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<v Speaker 2>give me a hello, one, two, three, Hello, Hello Patrick?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you identify?

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<v Speaker 5>Can you not?

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<v Speaker 2>This is Katie WB we're on the radio right now,

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<v Speaker 2>and we had got a phone call Patrick. My name

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<v Speaker 2>is Dave, and that was Bailey and then Vaunt is

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<v Speaker 2>here too. There's a whole room full of people, including

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<v Speaker 2>your girlfriend Lydia and her roommate Christa, and that's who

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<v Speaker 2>is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Is that crazy? That is very crazy? What what is happening?

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<v Speaker 2>So we set a trap for you to see whether

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<v Speaker 2>you would send flowers to your girlfriend Lydia, because we

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<v Speaker 2>had talked to Christa and she was telling us how

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<v Speaker 2>you and her all most made out a few days

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<v Speaker 2>ago when you came over to fix the toilet and

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<v Speaker 2>then you were about to kiss, and then she's like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do this. Lydia and Christa wanted to find

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<v Speaker 2>out if you were maybe, like I don't know, being

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<v Speaker 2>unfaithful and seeing other girls that you might send flowers to.

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<v Speaker 3>But you chose.

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<v Speaker 2>You chose Lydia. So that's good news. But you have

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<v Speaker 2>to but you did, and the secret is out now

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<v Speaker 2>that you and Krista did almost make out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's not what happened at all. Oh no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 5>not at all.

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<v Speaker 4>But what happened?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I so I was there to fix your toilet,

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<v Speaker 7>like you asked, Uh, christ trying to hit on me,

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<v Speaker 7>make out with me and I shut it down.

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<v Speaker 3>What? No, that's true. That's definitely not what happened. You're

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<v Speaker 3>the one who initiated it and I stopped it.

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<v Speaker 7>That is not what happened at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Krista, what did happen?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Patrick?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What did happen?

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<v Speaker 5>I was fixing her toilet. She was getting very flirty.

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<v Speaker 5>She tried to make a move. I said no, and

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<v Speaker 5>I walked out. That's what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that is not what happened. You were the one

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<v Speaker 3>who is getting flirty with me, and I was just

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<v Speaker 3>you know, reciprocating your energy for a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 3>ultimately I stopped it because I couldn't do that to Lydia.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, no, that's again Chrysto, like, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 5>to bring this up to her because.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, you guys are living together and there's you know,

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<v Speaker 7>that whole situation.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's not what happened at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think i'd actually tell Lydia if I was

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<v Speaker 3>the one who started it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I thought the same thing. She would have never

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<v Speaker 2>brought it up.

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<v Speaker 6>Really good point.

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<v Speaker 2>If she would have brought a crystal, she would have

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<v Speaker 2>never said if she like was like making the moves

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<v Speaker 2>on this guy, yeah, she would have never got So

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<v Speaker 2>she went to Lydia as a friend to say, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to let you know, number one, I feel guilty,

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<v Speaker 2>but also number two, your boyfriend is perfectly willing to

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<v Speaker 2>hook up with me. You might want to reconsider whether

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<v Speaker 2>this is a good boyfriend or not. There's a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of text messages about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this one says Chris has no friend. She encouraged

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<v Speaker 1>the situation enough to boost her own ego and hurt

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<v Speaker 1>her friend, but then stopped it at a level where

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<v Speaker 1>she could still deny wrongdoing. And then she told the

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<v Speaker 1>friend and pushed her onto the radio to create drama. Ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>someone says, sounds fishy, a broken toilet, and she thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was hot anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, I think that didn't we get the vibe

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<v Speaker 2>that they'd always like, She's like, he's hot. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think they'd always maybe had a little flirty flirty, but

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<v Speaker 2>now opportunity meets horny and so they think. But but

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<v Speaker 2>she didn't have to tell her friend about it.

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't have admitted that I thought he was hot though.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was weird.

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<v Speaker 6>But because now if I'm Lydia, the girl who was

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<v Speaker 6>out of town, I don't trust you. I don't trust

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<v Speaker 6>that he came over. You guys almost kissed, But.

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<v Speaker 2>You're never going to trust him together again. Will you

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<v Speaker 2>ever trust your boyfriend again?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>He says that he did do anything though, Is he believable? No,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't think so.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a tough situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this sex says this girl Krista does definitely does

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<v Speaker 1>not have her best interest in mind. She's just in

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<v Speaker 1>it for the drama. She doesn't care about her friend's happiness.

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<v Speaker 1>It's attention seeking and she needs to go to therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>Lydia would be better off without her as a friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, all right, let's find out what we've got on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone here on Katie WB Paige with some opinions on

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<v Speaker 2>War of the Roses. Basically, he said, she said. They

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<v Speaker 2>both claimed that the other person started flirting inappropriately. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you think, Paige?

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<v Speaker 3>I think she should lose the friends.

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<v Speaker 4>The friend knew she was going to be out of town, and.

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<v Speaker 3>So she sets it up because she said in the

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<v Speaker 3>beginning that she had a crush on him.

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<v Speaker 4>Lose the friend.

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<v Speaker 3>And if this guy is cheating, she'll find out in

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<v Speaker 3>due time.

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<v Speaker 2>Lose the friend. So you think that she set this

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<v Speaker 2>up because she knew that he was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>out of town. Come on over and fix my toy.

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<v Speaker 6>What a lot of people are saying that they shouldn't

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<v Speaker 6>trust Crystal. Chris is the one who invited him over

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<v Speaker 6>for the fix of toilet. Chris is the one that

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<v Speaker 6>almost kissed I don't know who started it, but the

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<v Speaker 6>fact that it almost got there. No, not a good friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a lot of people are saying that, like

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<v Speaker 1>she Chris is the one who's the evil villain here

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<v Speaker 1>because they say whoever tells the story first controls the narrative,

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<v Speaker 1>and she told the story.

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<v Speaker 2>She did tell the story first. You got to get

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<v Speaker 2>ahead of the whole narrative. That's a very good point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that is Warreth the Roses any other We had probably

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<v Speaker 2>fifty or one hundred text messages on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Just someone else speculates that she got shut down by

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick but then got scared he would tell Lydia, so

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<v Speaker 1>she concocted the story. So she's controlling the narrative by

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<v Speaker 1>being the first one to say it.

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<v Speaker 2>Either way, think about it. If you are the boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>of Lydia and your Lydia's best friend hits on you,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna want to tell Lydia your best friend hit

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<v Speaker 2>on me, right?

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<v Speaker 3>Why didn't he?

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<v Speaker 2>Or I've got a story When I was my first

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<v Speaker 2>girlfriend ever, Vanessa my best friend since Kindergarten's house, Scott,

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<v Speaker 2>and Scott was more handsome and more charismatic than me,

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<v Speaker 2>And Vanessa laid down on the couch and put her

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<v Speaker 2>head on Scott's lap and said, you know, Dave and

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<v Speaker 2>I are going to break up sometime soon anyway. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I was so good. He called me right away,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, get out. He called me right away and

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<v Speaker 2>he said, yeah, your girlfriend was just over here trying to, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, hook up. And I was like, oh, but

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<v Speaker 2>I love Scott so much that he didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And he called and tell me that he did that

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<v Speaker 2>she did this right.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why I'm thinking, Hey, Patrick, why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>say anything. So it's I think both of them didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do something good.