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Speaker 1: Catching a cheater, one fake bouquet of roses at a time.

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Speaker 1: Four of the Roses starts right now on Kati w B.

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Speaker 2: As of today, we've done three and forty two War

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Speaker 2: of the rose I believe three nine and forty two,

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Speaker 2: and we've never had this situation before. This is a

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Speaker 2: new one. Wow that I Sometimes you think I'm never

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Speaker 2: going to get a new War of the Roses. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but this is a Let me explain what's going on.

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Speaker 2: I have two women on the phone right now and

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Speaker 2: I wrote their names down. It is Lydia and Christa.

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Speaker 2: Krista wants to do War of the Roses. You're dragging

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Speaker 2: Lydia along for the ride, kind of, would you say?

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Speaker 3: Right? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's start off with Christa and Lydia. You're

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Speaker 2: also there, right Hi? Okay, okay, So two friends room,

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Speaker 2: you guys roommate, your roommates together.

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Speaker 3: Yep, that's rare.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Christa, tell me what happened and why you are

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Speaker 2: both here.

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Speaker 3: Lydia was out of town one week recently and I

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Speaker 3: was having issues with the toilet, like it wasn't flushing properly,

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Speaker 3: so I didn't know how to fix it myself. So

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Speaker 3: I asked her boyfriend Patrick to come over to fix it,

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Speaker 3: and he did, and he got kind of flirty with me,

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Speaker 3: and I always thought that he was kind of hot.

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Speaker 3: So we ended up both flirting with each other and

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Speaker 3: we almost tissed, but I stopped it because I was like,

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Speaker 3: this is this is getting to me too much. You know,

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Speaker 3: I can't I can't do this. I can't do this

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Speaker 3: to Lydia. So I stopped it, but he would have

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Speaker 3: And yeah, and I told Lydia, I was just.

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Speaker 2: Gonna ask Lydia, how do you feel about that, Lydia?

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Speaker 2: How what she then told you about it? How did

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Speaker 2: that make you feel?

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm still uncomfortable whenever I hear that come up,

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Speaker 4: honestly devastated because it kind of felt like emotion. It

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Speaker 4: was like emotional cheating.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, like I want.

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Speaker 4: I really want to marry him. And so it's it's

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Speaker 4: hard because yeah, christ and I are good friends and

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Speaker 4: So this is like a really big challenge for me

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Speaker 4: right now, and I am pretty pretty lost right now.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't blame you, but I but do you

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Speaker 2: are you forgiving Christa for you know, I wonder how

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Speaker 2: often that happens. It's like, oh, you're a little flirty

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Speaker 2: with your boyfriend's girlfriend whatever, I don't know, whatever the

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Speaker 2: case may be. But then you go, no, I can't.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: I mean, at least she stopped it, because like I mean,

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Speaker 1: I've lived with roommates before, and sometimes their boyfriends have

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Speaker 1: been over at the apartment without my roommate there, and

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Speaker 1: so like I'm saying, hey, at least she stopped it.

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Speaker 1: But I can see where Lydia might be. You know,

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Speaker 1: you said in the first place, Chris, they give her

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Speaker 1: a little bit of credit for telling her that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, because she didn't have to at all.

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Speaker 2: First. I think one of the reasons, I'm gonna guess

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Speaker 2: that maybe one of the reasons you told Lydia was

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Speaker 2: is not exactly the most reliable boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Right, yeah, exactly. I'm just thinking, you know, if he

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Speaker 3: tried to hook up with me, then what else is

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Speaker 3: he doing potentially behind Lydia's.

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Speaker 5: Back, you know?

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Speaker 2: And that's why we're here on War of the Roses. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so you told Lydia that you almost made out, almost

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Speaker 2: hooked up with her boyfriend. And I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: ask for the dirty details, but it sounded like you

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Speaker 2: almost kissed and then the last minute you said I can't,

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Speaker 2: I just can't. So Lydia, you're on the road to

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Speaker 2: forgiving Christa, but you want to find out what's going on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well yeah, Chris has been.

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Speaker 5: Telling me that, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, he could be capable of so much more like worse,

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Speaker 4: So you know we'll see you today. He is, Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I told you we've never had a war of

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Speaker 2: the roses like this. Okay, stand by. We will call

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Speaker 2: in a second and we'll get a hold of Patrick

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Speaker 2: to see who he chooses to send roses to, and

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Speaker 2: it should be Lydia.

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Speaker 3: Time to pull out those receipts.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Or the Roses starts right now on KDWB.

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Speaker 2: Okay, a little convoluted, but it's interesting to dig in.

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Speaker 2: So two women are roommates, one of them was out

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Speaker 2: of town, Lydia, and so Lydia's boyfriend comes over to

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Speaker 2: fix the toilet while they're together. Remember they're not boyfriend

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Speaker 2: and girlfriend, but it's Lydia's boy friend. They start to

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Speaker 2: and they're about to make out, and as I'm pictured

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Speaker 2: into my mind, they're just like in a movie or

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Speaker 2: a TV show where two people are about to kiss

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Speaker 2: and one of them goes, oh, no, we can't, we can't,

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Speaker 2: I can't, I can't do that. But he was perfectly

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Speaker 2: willing to. So she tells her friend Lydia. When she

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Speaker 2: I got to confess to you. We almost made out,

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Speaker 2: but I stopped it. But I think you should know

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Speaker 2: number one, I feel guilty and I'm terribly sorry, but

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Speaker 2: he was perfectly willing to carry it on, and we

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Speaker 2: could have done a whole lot more. So what we

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Speaker 2: want to do is call him and see whether he's

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Speaker 2: also got somebody else on the side, because it sounds

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Speaker 2: like he's got a certain willingness to cheat. Yep, let's

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Speaker 2: make the phone call right now. Remember both women are

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Speaker 2: listening in as we make the phone call.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much Past for doing that survey. As

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Speaker 1: a thank you, we would like to offer you a

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Speaker 1: dozen long stem romantic red roses to be sent to

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Speaker 1: whomever you would like. All I need is the name

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Speaker 1: of the person who you'd like to send the roses too.

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Speaker 5: Oh uh okay, great, uh let's send them to Lydia.

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Speaker 1: All right, fabulous, I've got that name down. Well, so far,

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Speaker 1: so good, So far, so good. Things are gonna break

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Speaker 1: down really quickly here. Let me explain what's going on.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I have two people that want to

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Speaker 2: say hi, and I wanted you to try to guess

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Speaker 2: who they are. So on the count of three, just

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Speaker 2: give me a hello, one, two, three, Hello, Hello Patrick?

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Speaker 2: Can you identify?

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Speaker 5: Can you not?

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Speaker 2: This is Katie WB we're on the radio right now,

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Speaker 2: and we had got a phone call Patrick. My name

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Speaker 2: is Dave, and that was Bailey and then Vaunt is

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Speaker 2: here too. There's a whole room full of people, including

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Speaker 5: Is that crazy? That is very crazy? What what is happening?

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Speaker 2: So we set a trap for you to see whether

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Speaker 2: had talked to Christa and she was telling us how

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Speaker 2: you and her all most made out a few days

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Speaker 2: then you were about to kiss, and then she's like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I can't do this. Lydia and Christa wanted to find

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Speaker 2: out if you were maybe, like I don't know, being

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Speaker 2: unfaithful and seeing other girls that you might send flowers to.

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Speaker 3: But you chose.

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Speaker 2: You chose Lydia. So that's good news. But you have

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Speaker 2: to but you did, and the secret is out now

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Speaker 2: that you and Krista did almost make out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not what happened at all. Oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: But what happened?

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Speaker 7: Well, I so I was there to fix your toilet,

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Speaker 7: like you asked, Uh, christ trying to hit on me,

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Speaker 7: make out with me and I shut it down.

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Speaker 3: What? No, that's true. That's definitely not what happened. You're

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Speaker 3: the one who initiated it and I stopped it.

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Speaker 7: That is not what happened at all.

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Speaker 5: Krista, what did happen?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Patrick?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: What did happen?

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Speaker 5: I was fixing her toilet. She was getting very flirty.

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Speaker 5: She tried to make a move. I said no, and

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Speaker 5: I walked out. That's what happened.

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Speaker 3: No, that is not what happened. You were the one

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Speaker 3: who is getting flirty with me, and I was just

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Speaker 3: ultimately I stopped it because I couldn't do that to Lydia.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, no, that's again Chrysto, like, I didn't want

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Speaker 7: Like, you guys are living together and there's you know,

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Speaker 5: But that's not what happened at all.

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Speaker 3: Do you think i'd actually tell Lydia if I was

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Speaker 2: Yes, I thought the same thing. She would have never

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Speaker 6: Really good point.

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Speaker 2: If she would have brought a crystal, she would have

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Speaker 2: she went to Lydia as a friend to say, I

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Speaker 2: want to let you know, number one, I feel guilty,

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Speaker 2: but also number two, your boyfriend is perfectly willing to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this one says Chris has no friend. She encouraged

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Speaker 1: friend and pushed her onto the radio to create drama. Ooh,

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Speaker 1: someone says, sounds fishy, a broken toilet, and she thought

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Speaker 1: he was hot anyway?

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Speaker 2: Come on, I think that didn't we get the vibe

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Speaker 2: that they'd always like, She's like, he's hot. So I

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Speaker 2: think they'd always maybe had a little flirty flirty, but

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Speaker 2: now opportunity meets horny and so they think. But but

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't have admitted that I thought he was hot though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was weird.

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Speaker 6: But because now if I'm Lydia, the girl who was

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Speaker 6: that he came over. You guys almost kissed, But.

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Speaker 2: You're never going to trust him together again. Will you

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Speaker 2: ever trust your boyfriend again?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: He says that he did do anything though, Is he believable? No,

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Speaker 2: you don't think so.

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Speaker 6: It's a tough situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this sex says this girl Krista does definitely does

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Speaker 1: not have her best interest in mind. She's just in

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Speaker 1: it for the drama. She doesn't care about her friend's happiness.

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Speaker 1: It's attention seeking and she needs to go to therapy.

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Speaker 1: Lydia would be better off without her as a friend.

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Speaker 2: Wow, all right, let's find out what we've got on the

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Speaker 2: phone here on Katie WB Paige with some opinions on

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Speaker 2: War of the Roses. Basically, he said, she said. They

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Speaker 2: both claimed that the other person started flirting inappropriately. What

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Speaker 2: do you think, Paige?

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Speaker 3: I think she should lose the friends.

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Speaker 4: The friend knew she was going to be out of town, and.

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Speaker 3: So she sets it up because she said in the

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Speaker 4: Lose the friend.

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Speaker 3: And if this guy is cheating, she'll find out in

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Speaker 2: Lose the friend. So you think that she set this

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Speaker 2: up because she knew that he was going to be

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Speaker 2: out of town. Come on over and fix my toy.

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Speaker 6: What a lot of people are saying that they shouldn't

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Speaker 6: trust Crystal. Chris is the one who invited him over

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Speaker 6: for the fix of toilet. Chris is the one that

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Speaker 6: almost kissed I don't know who started it, but the

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Speaker 6: fact that it almost got there. No, not a good friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot of people are saying that, like

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Speaker 1: she Chris is the one who's the evil villain here

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Speaker 1: because they say whoever tells the story first controls the narrative,

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Speaker 1: and she told the story.

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Speaker 2: She did tell the story first. You got to get

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Speaker 2: ahead of the whole narrative. That's a very good point. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that is Warreth the Roses any other We had probably

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Speaker 2: fifty or one hundred text messages on this.

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Speaker 1: Just someone else speculates that she got shut down by

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Speaker 1: Patrick but then got scared he would tell Lydia, so

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Speaker 1: she concocted the story. So she's controlling the narrative by

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Speaker 1: being the first one to say it.

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Speaker 2: Either way, think about it. If you are the boyfriend

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Speaker 2: of Lydia and your Lydia's best friend hits on you,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna want to tell Lydia your best friend hit

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Speaker 2: on me, right?

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Speaker 3: Why didn't he?

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Speaker 2: Or I've got a story When I was my first

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Speaker 2: girlfriend ever, Vanessa my best friend since Kindergarten's house, Scott,

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Speaker 2: and Scott was more handsome and more charismatic than me,

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Speaker 2: And Vanessa laid down on the couch and put her

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Speaker 2: head on Scott's lap and said, you know, Dave and

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Speaker 2: I are going to break up sometime soon anyway. I

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Speaker 2: was like, I was so good. He called me right away,

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Speaker 2: he said, get out. He called me right away and

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Speaker 2: he said, yeah, your girlfriend was just over here trying to, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, hook up. And I was like, oh, but

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Speaker 2: I love Scott so much that he didn't do it.

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Speaker 2: And he called and tell me that he did that

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Speaker 2: she did this right.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I'm thinking, Hey, Patrick, why didn't you

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Speaker 1: say anything. So it's I think both of them didn't

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Speaker 1: do something good.