WEBVTT - This Tiny Moment Completely Ruined Steven & Danielle's Date

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning, and we're back with its

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. You know how this works. You go

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date. If you get ghosted, just call

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<v Speaker 1>me and we will call your date together. Steven is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Good morning, Steven, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing. I'm doing well. How long you have

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<v Speaker 2>been listening to the show? Steven? I'm curious? Oh yours? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So you know how this works. You know what's up?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me Aboutanelle. So, you guys, I love Lafayette. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a great place for our first date. That whole that

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<v Speaker 1>whole town is a first date. So I understand she's disappeared. However,

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<v Speaker 1>run me through the date.

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<v Speaker 2>How did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was actually pretty great.

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<v Speaker 4>We had a really fun time and I took her out,

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<v Speaker 4>like I said, Adam was great.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're just walking.

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<v Speaker 3>Around, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>We had some dinner and the whole time we're like,

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<v Speaker 4>it felt really nice, like the small hand tan touching

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<v Speaker 4>accidentally and all that stuff was it was great and

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<v Speaker 4>it felt easy the whole time, which was really fantastic.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have that that often, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So we lingered over coffee and we're just walking around

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<v Speaker 4>and everything and when I left, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm definitely gonna see her again.

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<v Speaker 3>And I sent her a text.

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<v Speaker 2>I called, and I'm running over my head like what

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<v Speaker 2>did I do? I say anything stupid?

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<v Speaker 3>Do anything stupid?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, let's see what happened. Go ahead and meet

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<v Speaker 2>your phone. Let's give her a shout.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hello, Hi, is this Danielle.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Danielle.

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle. It's Marcus calling from a star one O one three?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you well?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello? I'm pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you do you do you listen to the show?

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<v Speaker 5>I do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love it. Okay, what did I do?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, you're I don't know yet. We're doing second date

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<v Speaker 2>update and you're the Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, what a world? How exciting?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you go sit on a date recently? We'll lead there.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I guess you could call it that. Okay, Oh sure, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm hoping it's Stephen with Stephen.

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<v Speaker 5>Is he listening? I see with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes he is. May I all right, Steven.

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<v Speaker 5>Yep, here we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hi, this is the problem with you stay for

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<v Speaker 1>like a decade. Everybody's in on it now, So Danielle,

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<v Speaker 1>we can be adults, right, so you do yeah, or

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<v Speaker 1>did something like ghosting?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, So did something go wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>Stephen wants to know at this point, Yeah, what happened?

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<v Speaker 5>I did have a good time. Things were going well.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like we were vibing okay. But then Stephen's

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<v Speaker 5>phone rang. I remember this very specifically, and he looked

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<v Speaker 5>at the collar idea and he smiled and answered. And

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<v Speaker 5>it was very casual and it wasn't an emergency call

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<v Speaker 5>and nobody was sick or in a tough situation. It

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<v Speaker 5>was just his ex girlfriend's mom. And they talked for

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<v Speaker 5>like a solid five minutes, so not forever, but significant, right,

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<v Speaker 5>five minutes is longer, you know, that's a whole conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>He asked about her knee surgery and her garden flower

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<v Speaker 5>or something like that, and her dog, and then before

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<v Speaker 5>they finished the phone call, he promised that he was

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<v Speaker 5>going to stop by to help her set up a

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<v Speaker 5>new Wi Fi router. So I was just there sipping

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<v Speaker 5>my drink, being like, what is happening right now? So

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<v Speaker 5>my own first date was someone speaking to their ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I didn't understand. I was like who. Anyway, he

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<v Speaker 5>got off the phone and he just shrugged and said, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we're really close. She's basically like family. So I asked,

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<v Speaker 5>does your actually know you guys still talk and Stephen said,

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<v Speaker 5>of course. He said he doesn't talk to his ex anymore,

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<v Speaker 5>but the mom and him stayed really close friends and

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<v Speaker 5>they still do like business cards. And he said that

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<v Speaker 5>she sends her cookies every year, which is very sweet,

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<v Speaker 5>even though it's I will say, it's just a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit off putting. He even said that they text so

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<v Speaker 5>often that sometimes she has made extra leftovers, like sheil

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<v Speaker 5>She'll say, oh, no, I made too much lasagna. Do

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<v Speaker 5>you want some leftovers?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>So I could it was just kind of over.

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<v Speaker 2>The top, Steven. They're ridiculous, Steven.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I'm going to gloss over the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you still talk to your ex's mom.

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<v Speaker 2>That's okay, I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>However, how come you couldn't just tell her you were

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date and then call her back later,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is low key rude.

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<v Speaker 4>It is, and I understand that, but if I told

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<v Speaker 4>Cheryl and I was on a gate, she would have

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<v Speaker 4>started asking a hundred questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Gime me on the phone an longer.

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<v Speaker 4>She's she's a big talk, and it was actually just

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<v Speaker 4>faster to let me just do the five minute thing,

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<v Speaker 4>as opposed.

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<v Speaker 1>To you.

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<v Speaker 5>Could have thought of any reason to get off the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>That's insane to just say, no, I'm just gonna let

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<v Speaker 5>my ex's mom dmbinate the moment of my first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Ty, your timing is sus my man like, Yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to like situational awareness, other big psychology.

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<v Speaker 5>You need to have some kind of strategy or some

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<v Speaker 5>kind of exit plan. Like that's a little that's very intense.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you see how that's intense for me?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's too weird, though. I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>dated her daughter for like six years.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean, And you don't.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't necessarily like just erase people from your life

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<v Speaker 4>that you associate with.

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<v Speaker 5>I understand that. No, that makes sense. I'm not asking

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<v Speaker 5>you to delete this person from your life, but to

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<v Speaker 5>bring that up on a first date that you're still

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<v Speaker 5>so close with your previous relationships mother is pretty intense.

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<v Speaker 5>It is kind of a lot, and it doesn't really

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<v Speaker 5>set a good foundation for being with a new person.

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<v Speaker 5>Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know it does, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not It's only I'm choosing her over a future

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<v Speaker 4>partner or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's just I'm just being.

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<v Speaker 5>Kind, Okay, but there's you aren't being kind to me,

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<v Speaker 5>and it just makes me feel like you have a close,

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<v Speaker 5>no our relationship. If you and I were to continue

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<v Speaker 5>forward and something went wrong, that you would then call

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<v Speaker 5>Carol or whatever her name is.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Can you see how this is very strange for me?

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<v Speaker 2>It's weird for me. I wasn't even there, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>understand what.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just being a nice person.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see how this is about that, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>second date or not?

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<v Speaker 5>I have to say I'm pretty hesitant about that.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I'm calling and hang on a sec. Wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update